TACKLING RELATIONSHIP ISSUES (Situationship, "God said", boundaries etc)|| TRUE TALK ||S06E04

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[@_Obaa_Afia]

Dara just in case you see this, you inspire the best out of me. I have confidence to do the right thing because all you three are evidence of result of walking in the way of God. Love you from Ghana

[@eydefin]

I used to be in a situationship what the a guy late last year😂😂 At first, we started off as friends, then later we saw ourselves being closer than ever and feeling comfortable with each other's company 😊 But I noticed that we never got to discuss anything about starting a relationship and we both said we weren't ready to go into any until God gave us a befitting partner 😁 But I saw that uncle was up and in my business everytime, everyday and I was compelled to ask "what's up, what do you really want from this our closeness? Do you want a relationship or you just want us to be friends?" I had to ask him because I needed clarity, so in my head I won't be in a relationship with the guy that he(the guy) is not aware of and I equally needed to build boundaries and know what to focus on primarily.... And uncle simply told me that we were friends and I told him that I was cool with that and that helped me build boundaries around myself.

[@apostolicforce]

Wow

[@ifiokabasiokop]

Thank God you defined the status of the relationship.

[@vivianoppong9463]

That was a bold step gurl

[@DeborahAyorinde-es9st]

Omo, is Dara confidence and boldness for me? I love the way she analysed the topic. Kudos to the TED. I love you guys 💙💜❤️💚

[@dawnekeomaunaji9421]

Yes ooooo Dara was really expressive, sweet, confidence, I mean this is a pastors wife so her work is in full display. Mennnnnn Dare and Tolu this was really sweet. Especially when Tolu said " u can go around the edges and not in" wowwwwwww this is breathtaking.

[@Menaamonoo]

"Introducing intimacy in a relationship at the wrong time has hindered most destiny fulfilling purposed relationships from accomplishing"....God bless you people 🙏

[@marilynwarren5502]

These ladies are very young brides, and the wisdom and advise is unbelievable!!!! I truly appreciate all of you. ❤

[@toluwanimiajetunmobi5964]

I saw another side of Dara today. She was really funny and expressive.

[@Gracespeaks20]

I sincerely thought I was the only one who noticed.😅

[@abigailyarry7021]

She actually is very funny. 😂😂 Check out their old episodes if you’re yet to see

[@oghenekevweatenaga3643]

It's the oyor's effect.

[@ememmirriam9005]

Spiritual pride😂😂and is stinking to add. 😂😂😂😂 This is hilarious but very serious issue. I've had brothers saying this to me ( You are the one) and even threatening me about the one I had certainty and convictions about. One even went further to say if I know what is good for me I should live the present relationship cos it won't work out. But I know God is not the author of confusion. So much lessons to draw from the talk today. Thank you people very much.🙏🙏

[@maryannchiamaka1323]

This is really a matter to me now. A brother proposed some years back after proposing to my friend and she refused. You need to see the proposal, like he was doing me a favor. He even told me of how sisters flock around him and they are all doing well financially. It was like I was no choice at all just an option because he was under pressure by his family members. Up till now he is still single at 43. Some brothers really need to play humble when approaching a sister. God bless TED for this ministration.

[@akintolatiwalade5600]

Unimaginable. Why didn't he marry one of those numerous ladflocking around him?

[@dokioloyin]

I can relate with Dara's experience on the "spiritually arrogant bro". I had one who always backed his statements up with "don't you know I'm a pastor?" See ehn, I prayed him outta the way and blocked him ni o cos I can't even imagine what he'd become as an eventual husband.

[@_iamdynamic_]

😂😂😂 you are not alone

[@oghenebrumeodeka4475]

I know right 😆

[@akintolatiwalade5600]

An emotional bully

[@Josephevwierhom]

So with useful videos like this. Somebody will still come tomorrow to debate with me that technology has done more harm than good 😅. Thank you so much for this. Personally I really appreciate 🙏🏽

[@anuatezisandrangifor411]

I wish I had heard this earlier. Now I'm in a big mess🥺 Thank you TED. I pray God helps🙏

[@COMFORTACHEME]

God can always come in for you. Just ask and trust him

[@EuniceBalogun-wk6hm]

Wow!!! I love sister Dara's way of addressing how brothers meet a lady with arrogance and pride Keep the good work sisters More Grace TED

[@akosuaserwaajulia]

Just when I needed clarity on relationship stuff, you guys post this. Thank you!!!

[@Blue_eye554]

God please give me great sisters in law

[@augustaluch7354]

As I was noticing Mrs Dara's expressiveness, I also noticed Mrs Ella's Reserved self in this session. God bless TED🙏❤️

[@dawnekeomaunaji9421]

I tot I was the only one who noticed Ella was so reserved like she wasn't happy. This was really educative so awesome.

[@ogooluwadahunsi6804]

The God that gave you those visions will not give you a fire extinguisher !!!❤

[@ujuij948]

Thank you TED for all you do. Ella, thank you for pointing out the wokeness of this generation, it is really a deception from the enemy.

[@BlueDiamondSolarTech]

Grace be multiplied. Share it pls someone needs it

[@the_lisamcdonald]

Thank you Jesus Indeed God has us in mind at every point of our lives. This video came in just when I needed it. God bless the TED fam and team It is too late for my marriage to fail❤. The devil has lost in this one.

[@joshuah_sharon]

This is so insightful. Thank you for always debunking backward thought patterns and myths, they have led many to derail. I'm the favour that man seeks😁. Thank you Ma Tolu, Ma Ella, and Ma Dara, God bless you🙏❤️❤️

[@Isaakiway]

It is a blessing to still have people that's got the boldness to preach the truth. God bless you, ladies.

[@gloriaolukoya4614]

Hmmm... Thank u Holyspirit 🔥🥺This is actually spirit leading platform...This Fear about marriage was what I battled with this morning..and was thinking if I can ever give myself into marriage but with this video have found myself back to stand on my feet for God's will and promises for my life ....This video is for me...and I bless God. More grace ma'ams

[@BlueDiamondSolarTech]

Share it, they re affecting lives

[@ifiokabasiokop]

Fear of marriage is a real thing. I've seen many people who got delivered of it and they were ignorant that it even existed.

[@damilarehannah8338]

That part Dara said "Spiritual pride and it's stinky...." got me laughing 😂 I always loved watching every single episode dropped on this talk show. Very educative and spirit filled. Love u guys ❤️❤️

[@jesulayomiangel20]

Hmmm, I want to thank TED for this great message they passed across. I just got myself out of a situationship and I can say it was so stressful and tiring. Like my mental status was so affected and I even became unstable emotionally. I am grateful to God that I am finally out of it and I am waiting patiently for his will to come to pass in my life.

[@BalasaPatienceBeckyballo-sy1bg]

Its the analogy of adam and eve at the altar for me! God bless you TED

[@adedayoelizabeth8162]

Me too. I love it

[@beckyosae]

I remember a man in my Church who proposed marriage about 6 years ago, and I said no. He later went to tell his “pastor” friends from others churches he prayed about me and God said I’m the one. He will have his friends call me to convince me to say yes. It got so bad I stopped picking calls from unknown numbers. He said he was afraid to move on and marry someone else because God had a reason for saying I am the one. I on the other hand didn’t hear God say he’s the one 🤷🏾‍♀️ Fast forward, he is married with a child now and he seems to be doing well with his wife 😁 I am still single with zero regrets about saying no to him 🥰

[@chiamakaezekiel2178]

My dara,🥰🥰🤗🤗I love when she said God will not give you a fire extinguisher thanks a lot ted

[@prof_danAde]

20:10 I am hearing and seeing the Mummy Gloria in Dara in action 😂 That spiritual motherly correction.

[@Ella_speaks16.01]

This was completely educative. I have so many stories regarding situationships, but just like you said, I recently started learning to ask questions and properly define relationships because some brothers are just naturally free and nice to everyone. This was broad, thank you so much for this, TED.

[@esthervictor1089]

I love the way sis Tolu skin is blooming and popping.

[@FopsyTheGreat]

Situationships: Aka a sure way to break your own heart. I wrote an entire book about this, so glad you spoke on it too. The sure way to deliver yourself is to ask clear questions and define the relationship. May God deliver all who are ensnared 🙏

[@anjolaadewale4040]

Ahh I’ve read your book on this! It was very enlightening!

[@FopsyTheGreat]

@@anjolaadewale4040 So glad it was helpful! ❤

[@sebiotimoadetayo6889]

What is the title of the book @fopsy

[@akinwandeolajumokeformolah462]

Pls what’s the name of the book? Your book

[@FopsyTheGreat]

@@akinwandeolajumokeformolah462 I replied but it keeps getting deleted. It's called Situationship but Fope Nkwocha.

[@deliajohnson9467]

A woman builds the home as a gatekeeper 🔥🔥🔥🔥! Thank you 😊

[@ifeomadoris8783]

I am the favour he is looking for 🔥🔥 Thank you TED MORE GRACE!!

[@amosinioluwa5448]

God will not lead you to a fire extinguisher. Thanks for this TED

[@Josephevwierhom]

Alot of relationships (friendship and any other form of relationship) that are meant to be fulfilling purposes are not because intimacy was introduced. Word!!

[@nwaigweogochukwu5643]

Great ladies ❤️🔥. You all are blessings to our generation. Thank God for raising women like you. God bless you abundantly.

[@nwaigweogochukwu5643]

God bless TED

[@folamishoyombo8126]

Lovely timeout with TED. Thank you all your contribution. God bless you abundantly. @JayMikee, please we want different clips of this show as usual, so that many can get to watch it within short period time. Thank you you Sir/Ma's.

[@johniyanu4761]

This Ladies are wonderful Darasimiiiii... Like brother like sister, you and D-baba ehn😂😂😂 " Your pride is stinking"😂😂😂that got me o

[@sarahjoshua7785]

I've never been to club too,n I'm 26 year my friends See's me wierd

[@olasojipraise2833]

You're not weird for holding your beliefs that are in line with God's word.

[@michelleenkhsaikhan]

I thought I was the only one so direct and blunt. 😅

[@johndominion]

Thanks so much for this. There is a lady she got into a relationship with a guy Both are deeply convicted about the will of God. But the lady keeps complaining about that she doesn't love the guy, no attraction at all even after 6 months . Even with all these shes very convicted, the guy loves her so much which she attest to

[@johndominion]

What do you advice?

[@VictoriaBala072]

word! ''she's the one that holds the favor!''...... Your favor is with her😆😆😆

[@deborahbenjamin310]

When Tolu mentioned 'the night club' part - I like her honesty and rawness. When one marries, one can turn it into a nightclub between the 2 couples👰. I know a couple who bought a pole in the house😍

[@drtee2649]

Wonderful…..you are all blessings to this generation….God bless you

[@I.am.His.007]

Thank you ooooo. I even felt convicted watching the last video about dating in secondary school. I'm in the us, so it's high school for me, but it's getting harder and harder to not want a relationship. I never wanted one ever since people started dating which was elementary school, i always thought it was stupid up until last year. It's only my second year, I have two more but chai, it's hard. I was really frustrated at the last video and tried to make excuses as to why i can be in a godly relationship at 16. We both know that's unrealistic and there's just no reason to. Thank you ma's, for helping me realize the truth in waiting. Truth be told how will I know what to do at 16? 😅

[@mercykamundu3127]

The right time brings forth the right person and the right person cannot bring forth the right time 🤭😁

[@Katojulius-fe5gn]

Kindly I'm a Ugandan but I'm so blessed with this channel Ba bamiloye you making my life so much inspiring may God bless you and i wish to tap on your anoiting in Jesus mighty name 🙏🙏🙏

[@kemia789]

" 'God said' is an office, not a person!" Wow, such wisdom! Thanks for sharing ladies ❤

[@asaajuprogress4200]

It's Tolu's face for me, when she said "it's not good, it is bad behavior"😂 Confused brothers

[@pombingtonshirclair_victoi6977]

Dara is well loaded in the spirit.praise God

[@temiyemioyemade5279]

Good to have you, my people.

[@ChinyereUbor-ut9ie]

Can intimacy be stopped and the relationship continue? If two persons who are getting to knw each other fall victim n wants to stop and do the relationship the right way

[@preciousofuani2769]

I was really blessed. If you're praying about a guy and God is silent? Does it mean a NO? Is it right to go on with the relationship? Does God's silence mean , I should relax, that he's the one but I shouldn't go into the relationship yet? I really need clarity

[@damikasim1576]

I love this episode soo much, Sis. Darasimi, God bless you ooo 😂😂😂 “your pride is stinking”🤣🤣😂😂😂. Very true ma

[@teeconcept2225]

Lolz, i like the line 'we are praying for you' 😁😁

[@PurposefulRelationship]

Wow...I was so blessed by this episode. God bless TED

[@kelanioluwatoyin6387]

Thank you for been a blessing

[@DrMobolaJide_Olatunji]

Thanks TED may the Lord continue to bless you guys. You broke many myths and shed light to many things that's affecting relationship. Keep up the good work 👏 I and my husband also had serious challenges before we got married to the point that our first wedding date was cancelled by force 2 weeks before the D-day. Hmmm, it was war but thanks be to God who always gives us victory. It's true the tell tale signs are there if you're in a relationship with a fire extinguisher I remembered one of the brothers that was showing interest in me but usually get angry that I listen to music every time 🤔 and knowing I love praising God. I took a bow before he extinguished my passion for God

[@EuniceBalogun-wk6hm]

Sis dara don't mind them just calm down for God😅😅😅😅

[@edithuwafili7086]

A very insightful, impacting and correcting session. God's bleßings on TED always in Jesus name 🙏

[@patiencequansah4452]

Well done. I have sisters in you 🎉❤

[@olasojipraise2833]

Your boldness in Christ will not decrease in Jesus name.

[@anniemarynkunika3845]

My best sisters in the world ,Dara, Tolu & Ella❤

[@eniolaanuoluwapo231]

Ma'am weldone 🙇🙇🙇 I really love sis dara sense of fashion so well😘😘😘 . God bless u all.

[@helenabijo7827]

If you’re a believer and you’re in a relationship with unbeliever the foundation is already wrong 🤔

[@grace.paula.folashade]

Was really blessed by this. May God increase the oil. God bless you sisters😊 ,"TED❤"

[@iyanuoloyede4566]

I am blessed oooooooooo Thank you sister Tolu, Doctor Emmanuela, Sister Darasmi God bless you guys real Good in Jesus mighty name

[@pombingtonshirclair_victoi6977]

God bless you Evangelist Mike Bamiloye.Your home is blessed.All.your seeds are blessings yo this Generation.Thank you TED.Love you from Cameroon

[@pombingtonshirclair_victoi6977]

Brothers you are arrogant to a woman that will bring you favor,build your house,gate keeper

[@pombingtonshirclair_victoi6977]

Brother John in Gbemi come and hear this

[@Omosalewa_Grace]

Thank You TED for this I am so impacted by this message

[@Diamy]

I loooooovvveee this Trio. So much wisdom. My love to tolu❤❤❤ your home is blessed. A very wise young woman 😍

[@BlueDiamondSolarTech]

You re right great women. Love you all. Grace be multiplied.

[@victoriaowoeye]

This episode is really a wonderful one. I've been really blessed. Thanks so much for this dear sisters. God bless you and bless your homes.

[@emilyoluyomi2284]

Thank you so much for sharing this with us. God bless you all abundantly.

[@queenesther909]

This topic today is so exciting and interesting... God bless you TED sisters More grace ma'am

[@akintolatiwalade5600]

I never knew Dara can be this expressive.

[@pombingtonshirclair_victoi6977]

Dara made me wstch this episode more than 3 times

[@chidinmaokoro3105]

I am so encouraged by your words TED. They really are direct and explanatory. God bless you guys

[@titilayotemitope-ee1ug]

So lovely,suitationship is mostly the common thing being a friend with a guy without a good clarification Thank you so much TED may God help you so much

[@TimileyinFolashade]

More knowledge for you Ma's..... Am so so blessed 🥰

[@andamandin626]

First on the comment section 😅

[@odekeblessing2976]

Mmm...this is very insightful 🔥 🔥 God bless the TED But they're some marriages where you hear the husband say to they wife that "since I married you it is one problem or the other, a wife is supposed to bring favor n peace to the husband but mine is different" n at the end they make their partner feel like she is wrong choice, Would we say he married wrongly because of the challenges he's facing?

[@BrendaAponyo]

Situationship thing😂😂,thank you TED

[@christlike7694]

One thousand years courtship cannot reveal all about your partner to you

[@anuoluwapoayodele8464]

Thank you so much for this honestly God bless you abundantly

[@ifiokabasiokop]

I enjoy listening to Darasimi!

[@ekomobongabijah-zp2uj]

Kai......🔥🔥 Thanks so much ma's Greater Grace ma's

[@Olamide_olanrewaju.O]

I am richly blessed with TED, God bless you all in Jesus name

[@favourolayioye3145]

Spiritual Pride🙆🏾‍♂️😂...

[@nwaoparafavour7080]

Something has changed about Aunty Dara. And I love the new her. It's so beautiful ma.

[@oghenekevweatenaga3643]

I noticed too❤

[@ajakayeanuoluwapo3071]

Thank you TED.God bless you abundantly.your marriage shall be heaven on earth in Jesus name

[@sarahjoshua7785]

God bless #TED🙌

[@Toluwabori.A]

The brother 'God said' is just like 'eyi je, eyi o je'😂, 'I can't lose on both sides'

[@ejisimekwuprecious4109]

This was so enlightening. Thank you so much TED. Every part was liberating.

[@jannie4748]

Wow This really blessed me and I have shared immediately because it needs to go out. Thank you so much ma's I really admire y'all from afar. I hope to fulfill purpose like y'all are doing. Great grace to y'all 🙇🧡🧡

[@chidiebere]

That brother talking to Four sisters at a time that "God said " is a sporadic shooter. Increasing his chances 😅😆 Brother repent !! 🤣

[@bunyuibrenda9416]

I am blessed. Thank you, TED sisters

[@anyaegbunnenna4982]

Thank you TED. God bless and keep True Talk. May the oil keep flowing and blessing souls. Thank you

[@BlueDiamondSolarTech]

Pls share this, someone needs it.

[@ayomidebalogun2500]

God bless you all abundantly above all you could possibly think of or imagine ❤️

[@uchennajideofor]

Tableshakers 😂

[@amusitandamilola2086]

This is amazing, thank you Ted for the clarifications, spiritual pride indeed, brother beware

[@anitagrace7031]

God bless the TED ladies. I love you, Dara!!