Tami Roman | Me, My Husband & A Baby

So much talk about my clip from The Real. I was hoping you would understand but how could you from a 2 minute segment 😂 and you still may not understand but I hope this provides some clarity. I love my husband and only want what’s best. He loves me and we’re just trying to be good to each other. Thank you all for your comments and to the ones who exuded love & understanding, we appreciate you 💛

[@CrookedSmilez83]

I am a single mom and am blessed to have a special needs child with autism and it is NOT easy! He is a blessing but it is NOT easy. Tami we love you and you don’t owe us any explanation for the choices you make in your life and in your marriage.

[@MiscellaneousMichelle]

My 7 year old son has autism also. I know actually how you feel 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️

[@CrookedSmilez83]

@@MiscellaneousMichelle Salute to you Mom 💪🏾 we are in this together

[@annedraherron546]

Same here my young man is 27 and I have no support but he is a blessing and teaches me things every day💕🧩🧩

[@CrookedSmilez83]

@@annedraherron546 Salute to you Mom we can do it 💪🏾🧩💙

[@scwaters2u961]

My daughter also has autism. So we all can agree it is definitely not easy but they are worth it all💜

[@MsLeah777_]

After 3 miscarriages, 1 failed artificial insemination with my then husband, at age 43 I had my son he's now 7 and now I'm 50 so with God all things are possible! !! Even though my marriage didn't last we got our miracle child who's healthy, and so full of life! I'm praying for your journey God bless you and your husband Tami❤️

[@tjj6362]

Congratulations !

[@DEEDEEEason]

Congratulations! What a blessing. I would have a 10 year old right now. I was able to love on her physically for 4 months. I pray for a favorable outcome over the next 12-24 months. In 2022 I'll be 43. I've chosen the year to began trying again. There's no way to know the outcome, be it a 25 y/o mom or a 45 y/o mother. But what I do know is that 43/44 will be it for me, especially with having other health issues.

[@moisemensah8233]

Congrats ❤️

[@marquita948]

❤️

[@vaderthekittenchannel1979]

AWESOME Testimony! 🙌🏾

[@teresacraig177]

Your private business is not everyone else's business! Don't worry about what other people say or think! Live your best life! Love you Tami!🖤♥️🖤♥️🖤♥️

[@danijones819]

she spoke on it so it was not private

[@hipstanator]

This is a update though.

[@4dyamondx745]

Yes, it is her private business, therefore she did not have to tell anyone.

[@rogers5622]

Love Tami but she really didn't have to tell the world this info.

[@FlyyHigh834]

its not private if shes telling us

[@NinaBrownnn510]

This is exactly why every relationship is unique. Your relationship ain’t for everyone to understand, as long as y’all understand it that’s all that matters.

[@truleeblack5558]

Amen sis..this my sentiment exactly. Wish I could meet a man that understood this, but men so into what their jealous and miserable family and friends think. ❤️. Be Blessed girl!!! But I still wanted her to give him a baby tho.

[@leticiabrooks1474]

I understand what you're going through my mom had a special needs child

[@just_channing]

Period sis

[@moniqueruffin525]

I am also a mom of a child with autism. His dad passed away four years ago from colon cancer. My son is the joy of my family's life. Is it easy....absolutely not. But I believe that we were chosen to be his parents for a reason. Each one of us have to decide what is best for us. Be blessed and confident in your decision.

[@CurlyQgirl]

I have 2 boys with Autism.. and I’m a single Mom.. it IS NOT easy!! Do what’s best for you and your family 💜💜💜

[@cynthiadavis9917]

God bless you Queen!

[@shezylaw564]

Bless you 🙏

[@-goldenrootsbronzebeigebro5074]

Curly G. You have 2 autistic kids AND SO, you KNOW THE BURDEN. May GOD HELP YOU ! MY PRAYERS ARE FOR YOU!

[@daphneepaul3737]

Which one is more of a burden? Autistic kids or bipolar kids? My friend has 2 and it s a burden on her as well. But idk which one is worse.

[@JazThee]

@@daphneepaul3737 it probably will depend on the care taker/parent.b

[@karolynlea5976]

My husband has 2 sons prior to me. I didn’t have any children. 4 years into our marriage I had to do IVF and ended up pregnant with twins. Unfortunately 1 twin didn’t make it but we now have a 5 year old with autism. He is absolutely a miracle child and a blessing. I wouldn’t change him because he’s imperfectly perfect. But would I choose to have a special needs child? No I wouldn’t. It’s hard as others have stated. But I totally get it. It’s emotionally draining to get pregnant. So no apologies needed. No explanation for your choices. None of us can judge you. God gives us what we can handle. Stay positive and keep doing you. I love how transparent you are allowing yourself to be. It’s not easy and you aren’t alone.

[@ShawneeETV]

Well said. 💛

[@Jazzmen-Reign]

Aaaaawh that was soooo sweet. Blessings to you and your child! 🌹🙏🏽

[@keshaguest9178]

She knows that she doesn’t have to explain anything to anyone. When your confident enough to talk about it, leave right there and move on…. GROWTH

[@rogers5622]

She really could have just kept the information to herself

[@jcrumpley35]

It's sad she got to explain this! Love 💘 you Tammy always real!

[@MisSterious1987]

Yet she did just that!! Make it make sense

[@passionatebliss4591]

The “You don’t have to explain anything to us” crew really seem to think they’re saying something deep. Double DUHHH. Tammy has shared this particular journey EVERY step of the way. I would have found it odd if she hadn’t shared. This is her testimony. You don’t know who else is grateful and needed to hear those words. Or who has a word she needs to hear. Just receive the testimony and send them love 💕

[@keeponliving..1304]

@@passionatebliss4591 AMEN!

[@valadee846]

A lot of people will never find this level of selflessness in a partner. I appreciate their transparency especially in such a difficult journey.

[@funlawchic]

No explanation needed Tami. You and Reggie are real ones, and folks can't handle that ♈🐏 truth! Keep living and loving! ❤️

[@pea1202]

My husband and I have been trying for several years. He has children from previous relationships and I don't have any and when Tami talked about her husband leaving a legacy, I felt that. . I'm in my 40s and have been praying for a miracle, but I'm beginning to lose hope. Prayers to all!

[@alicecoe6767]

Please don't lose hope, somethings happen when you lease expect it. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@ylp3able]

Don't give up. I had my daughter at 40. It could still happen for you ♥️

[@shaycool1806]

Dont lose hope god got you

[@msfergie5851]

There are women having babies in their late 40's and we'll into their 50's. Don't ever lose your faith, we all have a different walk in life and what The Most High has for you, is for you.

[@JLHOneChurch]

keep the faith strong. you’ve made it this far

[@typhanijohnson2061]

Tami has ALWAYS been, in my observation, honest about her life, her family, and her conception journey. Anyone who doesn't already understand the problems that arise with a woman having children, or the inability to do so, is not deserving of her energy. What's understood, never needs to be explained.

[@-goldenrootsbronzebeigebro5074]

Comment# 1/3= Yes,...I have always loved that transparent characteristic of TAMI ROMAN,....but I was a bit perturbed by the 17 years difference in their ages because at first I made the ERROR of thinking that she was a "competitive-mother" like the one I grew up with. However, after seeing her ,"INTERVIEW" videos, & after Tami made her "CLARITY" statement,... I now know and fully realize that TAMI ROMAN is NOT competitive with her daughters .because she sets very good & high standards for them, = requiring that they obtain college educations and abstain from sex before marriage.. In my opinion, she is an excellent mother The 17 years' of age difference is just "one-of-those-rare-things" that happen every now & then. After all,...MEN MARRY MUCH YOUNGER WOMEN EVERY SINGLE DAY !

[@tishgolden4543]

Why do people feel they are owed an explanation? It's your life! Stay positive, Tammi; thanks for sharing your experience.

[@shema157]

Add 5 more likes 👍 to your comment.

[@bosslady9108]

I love Tami's transparency on a private matter between her and her husband. She doesn't owe any of us strangers an explanation for her decision or choices between the two of them. I can't imagine the heartache of experiencing one miscarriage let alone three. People should respect other people's choices especially when it has no impact on your own life. I wish the two of them a healthy and happy marriage.

[@dr.100purrscent5]

Been watching you grow since the Real World. You have made us laugh with your realness, made our eyes pop with your sassiness, made us want to hug you through the tough times. Whatever is going on, may GOD keep you and continue to BLESS you in ways that resonate with your Soul 💗

[@novavega7394]

I'll be 40 in May. This past April I made the decision to have a hysterectomy after 20 years of trying with my husband. I feel incredibly guilty not being able to give him a child. We've thrown ourselves into helping take care of my sister's four kids (she's got 2 sets of twins 😳). It helps a little bit I feel like you can understand the grief. Keep your head high, sis....heavy is the head....💜

[@danijones819]

an hysterectomy is so drastic please reconsider your decision and get a 2nd or 3 rd opinion

[@novavega7394]

@@danijones819 I already had it done. Physically it was the best decision I ever made. Mentally I'm still dealing with the loss. I still mourning.

[@danijones819]

@@novavega7394 healing and light to you and take care of yourself

[@pritypantee9248]

Why a hysterectomy I don understand plz help me understand.

[@lisaymc1]

I know a couple who were trying for years. They finally adopted a child then six months later they were pregnant. All the stress from trying so hard was gone after they adopted which is probably the reason why they were able to conceive.

[@keiaskloset]

Yes her age makes her high risk to potentially have a special needs child. I'm 40 and was told the same thing last year when my husband and I unexpectedly had gotten pregnant. I had to see specialist OBs and had tests ran and our baby came out very healthy! So I totally understand where she is coming from. Continued prayers to her and Reggie on fulfilling their family wishes 🙏🏾 ❤

[@MariaEOD]

Well, have you had your baby yet?!

[@keiaskloset]

@@MariaEOD I said that she came out very healthy. So yes! But I was saying that I was told the same thing she was told due to my age.

[@originaleverythingelseisca5977]

Yes God is truly in control. What a decision to make for older women who want to gave more kids

[@keiaskloset]

@@originaleverythingelseisca5977 Yes exactly! We prayed about it and took our chances and our daughter came out very healthy! We are truly blessed!

[@originaleverythingelseisca5977]

@@keiaskloset praise GOD.

[@Rayna429]

Ooo Girl, I'm shedding tears for your happiness! You got a good one Tami. They don't make em like that anymore 🙏🏼

[@loveabounds611]

No matter, the what, the why, the rhyme, the reason, or the season...... Just know that you are LOVED!!!!❤️🙏🏽

[@freema9246]

Tami girl. i agree with these folks, you do not owe this world NO explanation. God's grace to you both.

[@Iamdaunwaun]

TAMI YOU’RE SO ADMIRABLE ! THANK YOU FOR TELLING YOUR TRUTH, WE NEED MORE PEOPLE LIKE YOU IN THE WORLD !

[@DEEDEEEason]

Thank you! I agree. Reading some of these repetitive comments has given me yet another topic to chat about on my channel. Why do people feel they are helping by telling a very grown and open woman what she doesn't owe us? She clearly knows that and is CHOOSING TO SHARE pieces of her self beyond the surface. But then, if all she gave was surface, then she wouldn't be human or down to earth enough. I just don't get people. They will complain either way. If all of the milions of KZbinrs stopped sharing personal details and talked about the weather and how good iced coffee is, hardly anyone would watch. It is, after all, broadcasting yourself. I'm proud of Tami. And I respect her so much.

[@joyous1011]

I completely understood and understand Tami❤ I'm 7 yrs my husband senior and have children from a previous relationship and he doesn't. I would absolutely do this for my husband! It's the ultimate show of Trust and sacrifice ❤ Prayers to yalls journey 🙏🏽

[@brangeeellis3083]

I am 6 years my husband's senior. I have a 20 year old daughter from my ex husband and my husbae doesn't have any children either. I am 46 years old and carrying a baby just isn't a "realistic" situation for us, but I would do what I could to give him the child he desires

[@joyous1011]

@@brangeeellis3083 same ❤

[@JaiMeideax]

Tami spoke with so much confidence and clarity when she was on the real. I understand how people could have misconstrued her statements but at the same time if you really stop and think for a moment it makes perfect sense. People completely missed where he opted out of all that and I believe the love they share is what is most important in all of this. Love wins!

[@beattyterrie9881]

Bless you and Reggie, Tami. I've always respected and admired you. I'm glad you've moved on from basketball wives, Shaunie and the other fake- sters on that show. They're ridiculous and petty.

[@jatreldixon1906]

You don’t owe anyone any explanation! I have a daughter with autism and it’s difficult being her advocate for her as a special needs child but also as a child of color! I commend you for doing what is best for you and your family! ❤️❤️❤️

[@Hidden_Horror]

Hi Tami. My husband and I are going through something similar. I am 42 and my husband is 41. We have been trying to have a baby for the last 3 years. I had 15 fibroud tumors and a polyp removed from my uterus. We are still trying. I am praying for you and wish you and Reggie the best in this journey.

[@shamay4893]

I hope it work out

[@msfergie5851]

Prayers up🙏

[@franco2b145]

Geritol (liquid or pill form), prenatal pills, take as directed for at the least 3/6 months. I had all the conditions you stated in the above and after a year I was bless with twins! He said.. here’s TWO for your troubles. 😭🙌🏾 God is still in the miracle working business! God bless..

[@DENDAINTY]

No need to explain. We Love you Tami!!!❤️

[@vince3900]

HEY TAMI MUCH LOVE TO U! U HAVE NOTHIN TO EXPLAIN TO THEM! YOUR REAL FANS ROCK WITH U NO MATTER WHAT, WE FEEL U!!! KEEP BEING THE STRONG QUEEN THAT U ARE!!! MUCH LOVE AND SUPPORT FROM THE BAHAMAS!!! 🇧🇸❤🇧🇸

[@karathompson2558]

This is your Marriage No Explaining!! You both are beautiful people 💜💙🙏🏽

[@torriebrown9607]

Well Said

[@psalms2346]

AMEN!!!!

[@nikki5674]

So true.

[@debbiebsn1104]

Exactly! She does'nt owe anyone a damn thing. He got married to her unconditionally.

[@tightbrotha1]

Just when I thought my respect ✊🏿 for you couldn’t go any higher you do this. My Queen you are the personification of the poem by the late Dr. Maya Angelou “Phenomenal Woman”

[@shamegashairstudio9370]

This is so selfless of her!!! I love how she loves on her husband!!

[@binky1339]

I JUST LOVE TAMI......

[@queenbaee8514]

She really is 🥺

[@reportcred]

I understand when people say she doesn't owe people anything its her business, but if you know Tami from when she was 1st known on the RW she has always wanted to talk about & share things others wouldn't, she believes others may get something that they need from her life as a public person & I admire her for that, because most live in lies & shame NOT privacy a lot of times, so sharing is actually healthy, freeing & putting the control in her hands versus others looking to sale lies & rumors. 1💙 to All

[@francesreed4420]

I'm definitely praying for you guys. I've been a fan of yours since The Real World and has always admired the love you and Reggie have for each other. It's beautiful❤🙏🏾 Sending love and light✨ Also strength and togetherness❤🙏🏾

[@staceyculbertson6784]

Tammy take care of yourself. Don't allow this situation to continually add stress to your life. I pray God's abundant health & blessings over your marriage & family.🙏🤎

[@lilmadea07]

Tami what I can say for sure is that whatever God's plan is for you and Reggie is going to be amazing. If a child comes into your world he/she will be exceedingly blessed with the most amazing parents for the job. Do whatever works for your family and the faith, love, and understanding will guide you through it all. Keep doing your thing queen. I'm proud of you and love you both. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@feliciajohns4148]

AMEN

[@deecarter4658]

Amen

[@LoccNessMonster]

It takes a lot of courage to be transparent with a bunch of folks who attempt to cast the first stone🙏🏾🧘🏾‍♀️❤️. Thank you for sharing🧡

[@nalliebell]

My son was born through surrogacy, we used donor eggs with hubbys sperm. Wishing you all the best. I understand wanting your husband to continue his lineage.

[@shaunjones1712]

@@layparisss Yes, her son is her child Period end of story. Btw your comment is very rude and insensitive.

[@keziahmyself4296]

@@layparisss that’s her child!!!

[@layparisss]

@@shaunjones1712 I deal in facts. Fck the sweet shit.

[@bettymwangi4092]

@@shaunjones1712 How is it rude?

[@shaunjones1712]

@@bettymwangi4092 @Lay Paris deleted her first comment which stated "So technically that's not your child". Yes I find that to be very rude and insensitive PERIOD.

[@silverspoon8656]

Prayers up for you and your husband on family planning. I admire your courage to share with us all and I wish you nothing but peace, love and blessings.

[@staceyhazel5367]

Tami thank you for your consistent honesty. As a women who husband is 13 yrs younger than me and have no children, this definitely hits home. I totally understand and agree with the decisions you and your husband have made. You are an amazing woman for always thinking ahead and keeping your husband and your relationship first. There will always be naysayers. Although you are a public figure you do not have to explain every statement or every decision you make to the public. Your life is your life to do what you want with it. Keep loving your husband and your daughters. That is what's important!!!!

[@be.yon.ce.]

It takes a lot of maturity and strength to make decisions like this and it can't be easy🥺🙌🏾 God bless you and your family❤ let his will be done, whatever that is and I pray that you all are happy with the outcome.

[@callmesisi]

Tami, I’m not a surrogate but I would totally carry a baby for yall. I don’t even want any money. Y’all deserve it seriously.

[@meatyme6844]

That's wuts up queen 👸 👏 🙌

[@callmesisi]

@Bree Yah okay……

[@safiayatou1]

As a fan who watched you, from the real world i am surprised. God makes no mistakes. You choose to do this is your way. Either way of choosing your choice God has the final say. A lot of women do this and there is never a baby. Therefore, I wish you the best.

[@ylp3able]

You are too sweet ♥️

[@moisemensah8233]

You're a real G!

[@TheSkyhamilton]

Thanks for clarifying! Your clarity is different than what was shown/featured on that snippet. Context is everything. Thanks for the context!

[@MsDezB1]

Sis, remember when Jennifer Hudson was on Wendy Williams? Wendy was prying into her relationship and said she didn't understand... Jennifer said, "you ain't gotta understand it." Nuff said. I hope you, Reggie and your family are well. Stay blessed!

[@kristynam1497]

Thank you for always being real and classy. No need for explanations. Stay blessed and have a amazing day!!

[@mspepsi7777]

🥰 I love it ! And I would absolutely do the same thing ! The love that you and Reggie share most folks will never find! Do your thang gurrrl🥰

[@______-fz8w]

You are so commendable, willing to give your husband the opportunity of having a child. You have always been a fav 💓 of mines and Reggie is great also, you guys are wonderful together!!

[@blamemeblameme7980]

That's real love Tami. It's beautiful that you still want your husband to have a child to leave his legacy with, despite all of your struggles to conceive and deliver your own child together. Big respect to you to both ❤

[@feliciapatterson9751]

You don’t owe any of us an explanation. We support you and all you do.

[@MissShele]

Amen🙌🏾

[@9290SC]

You don't support that. Stop lying

[@feliciapatterson9751]

@@9290SC yes I do and please be respectful and not call me a liar. Be blessed 😇

[@julnarshelby-brown6881]

Let me say this; as a married woman, I understand the desire to want to see your spouse's dreams and wants come to life. In saying that; whatever and however you and YOUR husband choose to have children, create happiness and peace within your marriage and home is YOUR business!! No one else opinions matter because at the end of the day it is you and him. God bless you and your family Tami!

[@NasnTheKitchen]

God Bless You, Tami! 💗 I wish people would understand that everyone’s journey to motherhood is different. You didn’t have to explain yourself, beautiful. Those of us who understand definitely understand, no explanation necessary. 💕

[@vanessalawson7664]

You’re a beautiful human being that owes no one an explanation, yet you give one. What you want for your husband shows how much you love him. How wonderful!!!💯💯

[@venicez3]

My heart goes out to you and your husband. May the Lord bless you with every desire you have for having a healthy baby!!! I love you!

[@denisegilliam842]

I knew what you meant. Do what’s in you and your husbands heart! Bountiful Blessings to you and your family!

[@rogers5622]

I believe Reggie was realistic from the beginning which was why he said no to that arrangement. Tami was in her mid 40s when they married which is not an easy time for alot of women to get pregnant .

[@tobconnected]

You were REAL on the THE REAL as you always are. Tami you give clarity here BUT, Sis you didn't have too, Sorry you felt you had/needed to give such a personal explanation. Love the Love that You have for Your Husband and the Love he has for YOU ♡♡ Blessings to You & Yours

[@mikec957]

I mean Tami to be honest! You shouldn’t have to explain. You said what you said! What works for your marriage is y’all business. I hate that in this society you have to explain shit because people formulate they own interpretations and try to tell you about YOUR life! Keep doing what you’re doing and God is ordering the steps 🙏🏽

[@jamillaslife3696]

I think it’s no one’s business. I think you are a grown woman for making the decision and show your true love for your husband. Instead of giving up and being selfish. 👏🏽 Best wishes on your journey.

[@marcie2208]

Now that Tami explained it I understand totally even though she didn’t have to explain decisions she’s made between her and her husband. Wish you both the best

[@Lilbit2215]

You understand it now but if she didn't explain it would you you still have understood it???

[@angelawhite7418]

You don't owe us ANYTHING Tami!!!! God Bless you and your husband on the baby journey 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

[@mrsbook5206]

We've missed you Tami. I'm definitely praying for you and Regie!! 💜

[@shea1219]

Thank you for being honest about your journey, I am also married and will start trying with my husband. I am 38, so yes I get being "up" in age and trying to get pregnant. It is not easy. I think you are a selfless loving wife, and I truly understand why you said what you said. You don't owe anyone anything. Sending you 💗

[@Raegandaboss15]

Girl - Don’t entertain “getting up in age” if God says YES you have have your children. People out here pushing out their first child at 45 👀… God got his hands on you.

[@Raegandaboss15]

Will have **

[@deshajames2224]

Well said

[@NAVIGATORSnetwork]

Sis I completely understood what you were saying. You guys have a special relationship and I pray for whatever process you decide to have for your family.

[@kymberliethefreespiritedone]

I love Tami! I have enjoyed her since the real world. She's one hell of a warrior in every way and so incredibly honest! That's the kind of friends I want in my life

[@lashawn8981]

Thank you for this, but honestly this is between you and Reggie. You don’t owe anyone an explanation….everyone needs to mind the business that pays them. Love you Tami 💕🙏🏾

[@purpleposh1230]

Thank you for the clarity, even though it’s not our business, but I understood “intelligently” what you meant from the beginning. Blessings to you and your family.

[@honeybunns4364]

I'm glad he loves you for you and enjoying the time you two having remaining. He is a wonderful and I have no doubt he'd be a wonderful Father!

[@jameskirk1638]

She is so open about things. She keeps it real, the good and the bad.

[@drmonica]

It’s a shame people intervene in others’ marriages so negatively. Thanks for sharing what you wanted us to know ❤️

[@MariaEOD]

No one “intervened”, SHE told us willingly and publicly!! 😒🤷🏽‍♀️

[@drmonica]

@@MariaEOD Translation: Giving negative opinions that were not solicited 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@softcaramel53jab58]

I don't think you understand , Tami is responding to the video floating around , of her saying that she will give her husband permission to go for 2 years have child, with another woman. And she will help raise the child , because her body isn't able to carry their baby. several blogs have already posted it. And under the post many comments was like .. No they couldn't do that. Or Why don't she just let him go on with his life. But ppl don't understand it's not Tami , her husband really loves her and he's loyal , he could've stepped out when they was dating but no he didn't. So yes this why Tami explained her reason for saying what she said on the "REAL" .

[@drmonica]

@@softcaramel53jab58 Yep, and she’s explaining herself after the interview because of the negative responses. That’s her and Reggie’s marriage 💯

[@softcaramel53jab58]

@@drmonica Yes agree💯

[@The7thHope]

Tami I love that! You did not have to explain it to me. I know you two know how to do what is right for you when love is there things always go well. Happy for great things to come!

[@williammcdaniel595]

I totally agree I wouldn’t want my husband to be left with a child that would be special! I love your reasoning and you love him that much🙏🏼❤️But donor eggs could be an option but that’s for you two decide! Love you Tammy I am 45 and as a Black Woman I respect your hustle growth and I am just so happy for you! Loving you in family business!

[@Alma-999]

Loving Ur Transparency on The Real.ThankU for being U! May God continue to Bless U, Ur Family & Everything U Aspire 2Be! 💜

[@ashliphillips1825]

I appreciate the explanation and vulnerability that you are giving but in life I wish we could grow to a place that you didn’t have to explain a decision that you and your husband prayed about and made together! Blessings on your love and family

[@sheronrenee]

Not that you owed an explanation you have nothing by my utmost respect for being so transparent. I’ve watched you from the days of Real World & you have always stayed true to who you are . You are a beautiful strong example of a black woman. God Bless you &! Your Family 🙏🏾❤️

[@erinrodman1619]

Love & Blessings to you and Reggie. It is a complex issue - your choices made together are most important... Your fans and Social Media need to mind their business. 🤔 I LOVE Tami, THE REALEST REALIST ‼️ 💖✨💫✨

[@MargaretEllen]

You don't owe us anything, but thank you for sharing. That may help someone else going through a similar situation.

[@ilovederek22]

I completely understand and respect that sis... Prayers to you both. 🙏🏽

[@lakeishadaniels5405]

You are amazing! I have so much more respect for you as a woman to love your husband to this magnitude. Reggie is so lucky to have you. I wish you guys the best on your journey.

[@reginayoung9214]

Aww Tami , admirable that want the best for your husband. I just want to comment to let you know you are very much understood. My heart goes out to you & hubby as y'all get through this. I'm happy that you have love and rooting for you. I get it Sis 💕 #TeamTami 💕

[@taymoore691]

Tami I have watched you since well I’m around your husbands age. I love how raw and pure you are with your work but you don’t owe us anything! This was very hard seeing you have to re explain in detail. Sending all the love and blessings to you and him. Thank you for even sharing parts of you with all of us especially Bonnet chronicles! You always show me no matter what struggle to keep pushing and you make people laugh. Your own happiness is more important than any of our opinions!!

[@187cslim]

It takes really love and care to feel this way and thanks for even sharing this...... I understand totally and you and your husband have my prayers and sending you guys support through words....

[@Metallicgld12]

Tami is quite sophisticated and her perspective is balanced enough - she looked beyond an unfortunate complicated dilemma and saw her husband's desire then made an unselfish decision to show Reggie unconditional love. Demi Moore should take notes. Respect and Love goes out to Tami; I appreciate her sharing this personal journey with people who truly love and care about her. Wish I could send Tami a personal message.

[@yetundeiselassie3240]

Thank you soul much, this is my story as well we just didn’t have the funds for IVF. So many Wombman suffer in silence thanks for sharing your story 💚😘❤️

[@csurvivor6774]

Happy you did this video as it explains alot. The interview on the Real sounds away. I was like what the heck. Wishing you all the best ❤️

[@henriettawalden1513]

I’m always for you Tami from BBW on and happy that your career is flourishing but a Man and Woman has a understanding that nobody else understands ! Blessings whatever you decide!

[@komplacatedtalk7069]

Dam that’s strength you saying so much with our saying it . In the same situation I tied my tubes to early in life.I found my true love but he wanted kids and I knew he would be a great father so we took the steps I love him so much I’m willing to take the risk but scared just what if they have a connection while he temporarily not emotionally involved ,so many what if’s ?Tammi you are Queen with such grace most women won’t even understand what you are also feeling so many worries and emotional valley’s you have sit in ,I’m praying 🙏 for you ❤️

[@dawnharris9719]

You owe us nothing! God richly bless you, and may yours and Reggie’s innermost desires be fulfilled. Peace and favor REST on you ❤️

[@delishabanton8394]

Thank you Tammi ✊🏽 thank you for your kind words and blessings and thank you for clarifying that which you shouldn’t have to clarify. Your relationship is none of our business but for those of us who see you as a friend in our head we totally appreciate you sharing with us. After hearing this I gotta say, I would likely make the same suggestion if I was in your shoes. Much love to you and Reggie, may your relationship be everlasting and filled with prosperity.

[@Sarafoxynpink]

I just want to say I've admired and looked up to you since the beginning and I feel that you and your husband deserve nothing but the best and whatever path that is it will be God's will it will be a beautiful life that you guys have created together so be blessed and know that you have support love and care

[@natz332]

And this is what I call a healthy relationship. It take a certain kind of human to put themselves aside for the well being of someone else. This is Love!

[@missdee4927]

It's so beautiful how much Reggie loves her.

[@jamilatadesola6454]

You don’t owe anyone an explanation. Wishing you two a blessed life and marriage 💕

[@nikki5674]

Very true.

[@alisonassanah-carroll1957]

@TamiRoman You are a very logical and thoughtful woman. Persons don't recognize the emotional imapct that comes with the inability to give your spouse a child. Keep God in your process and you'll be blessed beyond belief. Love you!❤😘

[@debbiekennedy1036]

Beautifully said period “ my prayers are with U an the fam🙏🏽God grace God will b done for u” so precious an delicate to share

[@JilliLayne]

This blessed me because you literally sound like a 2021 version of Sarah in the Bible! Sarah let Abraham have a concubine so his legacy could live on but stillshe got blessed with her own little nugget!! However this baby comes he or she will come because He hears the deepest secrets and prayers of his children 🙏🏽 ❤ blessings to you and your husband and the journey that y'all have been on!

[@marymalone331]

I understand fully about what you are saying. Prayers goes out to you and your husband. Love on each other. Much respect for Reggie!

[@victoriamtshali7922]

I used to watch you on Basketball's wives and respected your opinion,right now I respect you more.Enjoy your marriage Tami and good luck to you and Reggie 😘

[@Alladathings]

You didn't have to explain , but thank you for explaining and opening up. Its so encouraging for me and I know so many other women out here to see real sacrificial love still exists. I'm so happy for you to have that

[@gigijohn316]

Tami, I commend you for wanting to give your husband children. Your husband is blessed to have a beautiful wife who loves him and is on board with giving him an opportunity to have children despite of your age. What a blessing!❤

[@BillionaireB1781]

I completely understand! No explanation was necessary but since you did...this is what unconditional pure love looks like!! Wishing you guys the best! ❤

[@chap1590]

Thank you for the honesty, Tami. Much respect to you guys!!

[@kimisshecandles]

Tami, I totally understand and respect your courage for sharing your testimony. I pray that the public embrace Your journey and stop the negativity meaning, tellung you about What you should do! Bless your heart and well wishes in whichever direction you and your husband choose.

[@OhthatsChauna]

I want to specifically say that you’re brave af. I was dating a man that had zero kids, while I had six and the ONLY reason I broke it off with him is because of that very reason. He swore up and down he was okay with the 6 that I had, but my heart just wouldn’t allow that. I didn’t want to be selfish and he’s too great of a man not to have his own babies. I pray that you and your husband make it work and find the surrogate that’ll bless you both. Trust that God will give you a healthy baby, preferably twins to give him at least two!! 💕💕💕