DEALING WITH POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION AS A COUPLE

[@barbarabutler3345]

Whoever raised Tato did an awesome..I mean AWESOME job. He is the epitome of a true gentleman and husband!

[@tvs9978]

Yep, blessings and Kudos to Tato's parents. They raised an asset for the world

[@ucheiwuajoku1037]

Absolutely

[@danielastarbuck5307]

Oh yes i salute his parents

[@theresawright8140]

Absolutely!

[@brioniethompson6519]

I went through so much alone.Pregmancy and postpartum with very little support or understanding from my partner so I know just how important it is.I wish I had the opportunity and the grace to truly feel my emotions and be vulnerable.Tato gives me hope that maybe one day I will b able 2

[@donjerthemisfit]

I feel like Tato is THAT ONE GUY that ACTUALLY studied women INTENTLY! I respect it very much because it goes to show that he's always wanted a committed relationship/marriage.

[@josephinesarpong6606]

Absolutely ,he’s an amazing person. He made sure he was prepared for the task. It’s all joy when two people who are self aware and healthy come together for a relationship or marriage ❤

[@Nordia16]

I feel like I'm seeing Tato heart. He really loves his wife. Also, when she says she would feel like she's falling apart and he just comes and collects her and the baby and makes them feel like one. That's security in a relationship that I yearn for.

[@nca4794]

Tato's flirting is so hilarious, but it's really heartwarming when he's being serious. Even through the jokes, it's evident he's thoughtful and has a heart for his wife, and now his son. Vira, you were meant to be a Mom. No matter how hard or difficult, you're equipped with everything you need to raise your beautiful baby. Keep being patient and encouraging to each other. You two are doing great! It's not surprising, but it's very sweet to witness. I hope baby Enzo's sleeping gets better soon! God bless you all. ❤️

[@theo_oraz]

He looks at her so lovingly and I’m here for it. Love you guys and congratulations on the new bundle of joy ❤️

[@pauletoussaint3583]

I love you guys and the way you love each other God bless the family.

[@pauletoussaint3583]

at least till his 2 years old

[@Madz278]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@godwinchioma253]

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[@Bev01hns]

Let me tell you all this: Tato, Vira and now the king, Enzo. My life is better for knowing you. I feel like family. God has done the best thing by putting you two together. Your family is an inspiration to so many. What I love best is he treats you as his Queen, she treats you like her King. Love is a beautiful thing and you both embody that. Tato: my greatest respect to you for being a husband, friend, cheerleader and lover to Vira. You bring out the best in her. Vira, thank you for respecting and supporting your husband. You put him on the pedestal where he belongs. God bless your union, family, home and everything you do. May your love for each other keep flowing like a river, steady , strong and pure. The world is a better place because you both are here. May Enzo inherit the best qualities in you both and with Tato's leadership and mentoring he will be a force to reckon with in this world. Don't forget to PRAY together EVERYDAY with each other and FOR each other. I pray one day God will bless me to meet you in person. His greatest blessings, from my heart to yours. I love you BOTH!

[@noneofyourbuizness]

Such a beautiful message I hope they give a like to this comment

[@ganiyahtijani9674]

Please Tato and Vira ,pin this message

[@danielastarbuck5307]

This comment gives me goosebumps

[@tatoandvira]

Thank you 🥹♥️ this made my day

[@kateanyebe3130]

This is so beautifully expressed.You sure are a beautiful person

[@priscilla.acquah]

Tato is so respectful and wise. So wise

[@dayswithsim9881]

I'm utterly obsessed with Tato's love and affection. He not only loves Vera as a wife and partner but as a woman and a mom and a girl . It's so beautiful to see, he's so witty . He flirts with Vera and he gives her looks that only a man in love gives . I love love , I love you guys💓

[@oratiletsimatsima9643]

Tato is a very self-assured and empathetic person. Any person who has a Tato in his life are lucky. Vira looks like a very protective wife. She loves her man very much and I love her very fun but enigmatic personality. They are wonderfully compatible.

[@LaMorre06]

I have a 6 month old. My husband got all the pregnancy 🫃 symptoms. I was like nothing.🤩. My husband also got post -partum depression. It was so bad he would say he didn’t want to live anymore. Thank God he got help and he’s better.

[@belaynema4723]

CONGRATULATIONS!!!! You may need to stop rocking or pat him once he has fallen asleep. Otherwise, he will ask for it forever. Let him try and soothe himself. He is gorgeous. Lovely family ❤️❤️

[@chelleobenne]

I agree because I have a 2 year. He has a hard time sleeping by himself..

[@Deenie1215]

Congrats on baby Enzo...put him down, especially when he's asleep!

[@cee9809]

​@@chelleobenne same😭

[@kerikksweet]

Yea my daughter is 3 and I'm still rocking and patting her to sleep she put herself to sleep sometimes though

[@candycedavis-hill5710]

Facts!

[@lazygirl8877]

Wow his mother did an amazing job raising him 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Sisima13]

I was honestly hoping the baby would inherit his mom’s beautiful big eyes ❤ I love how he ended up being her twin 😂

[@MySafetyNex]

I have never seen any vlogers grow on KZbin so so so fast as you. It's mind-blowing and I am happy for you my Cameroon 🇨🇲 sister. Congratulations on being a new mom and always knows there will be challenges

[@tatoandvira]

Thank you 🙏🏾♥️

[@sharonabee3967]

​@@tatoandvira Love you guys.

[@janicejennifer9861]

Tato you’re a lucky man loll. We love you lil sis Vira. Africans we’re in here 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@Belise2004]

Burundian in house

[@cosmosadorabilis7677]

Togolese here.

[@rejfoundation]

I SOOOO APPRECIATE y’all’s openness, honesty and real ness THANK YOU

[@pandafam4360]

Wow hearing your man talk about the post Partom as a single mom of 2 , I’m 25 my son is 6 and my daughter is 4 and I never had anyone to help me or their dad to help me , not even my parents so it was nice to hear it’s okay aslong as they’re healthy and happy and warm and clothed and fed , it really is all that matters . You guys make me feel very good about my own parenting I know you guys will be the best parents

[@munahjesuslove9296]

May God continues to give you strength my dear sister, you're doing awesome. May you enjoy the fruits of your labor.

[@sarahafere7270]

Yes but that only applies to wen they re young, wen they re grown or teenagers, its no longer mainly about all that, its u being present,being their best friend, being for them emotionally, mentally, physically. And validating their feelings. I know its not easy but u can do it mama❤

[@preciousemmanuel933]

Tato is the best husband a woman can ever ask for, his pick up lines for his wife are so fire and cheesy always making baby girl blush

[@TheUnapologeticSista]

The realness and honesty coming from this video is absolutely beautiful 💚

[@scarlett5674]

Vira, hold on to your man tight!!! His mama deserves best mama award ever! Love you both. God continue to bless you both as you aspire to be the best parents to your son. ❤❤❤

[@chii_nik]

I love the transparency, I love the way he loves you and I love the way you acknowledged where your emotions took over and took accountability As a mom of a 2 year old, I’ll tell you that the journey is a long one but you both are on an amazing path and Tato don’t give up on your wife, Vira, tryyyy your best to pick your battles so you don’t push him away ❤️

[@euniceolawoyin1041]

Tato is a great husband and Dad, supportive of his wife,God bless this spirit of yours.You'll notice from his looks that he loves his wife and this care and affection helps get over the post partrum depression on Time.Enzo is such a cute baby 👶. May God continue to bond this family 👪 divinely 🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹.

[@StressedOutMonkey]

The "He's a good man Savannah" keeps making me YELLL and just .-- it's hilarious. Tato, Vira..

[@comfortetuk2187]

They're a catalyst for each other. I like their rythm and compatibility. While Tato is the funny one and always coming in with twists and turns like Shakespeare, Vira can be very dramatic and feisty, but with the kid coming in, the vents died down. They complement each other. Tato is such a sweet soul. ❤️❤️❤️

[@jessicameche753]

My husband worked over 12 hours a day. So I took care of both of my kids when they were babies. Meaning I did everything. Get up at night with them, did all the changing, feed them. I didn't get any help. No matter how tired and sleepy I was I still did it cause I had no choice. At some time I did feel like a single mom since I was doing everything. My husband never did anything with neither of our kids. All he did was go to work, come home and sleep all night while I was staying up all night being a walking zombie. I would just sit here and cry when they would cry cause I was so desperate for sleep. The only way I was able to get sleep was I had to sleep, when they sleep. So All day and all night I slept, when they slept. That went on till they started sleeping longer. To the women that the father's helped out is so lucky. Cause I never got to experience my husband helping me out with both of our kids when they were babies. Then I had my son when my daughter was about 3 and she had just started Pre-K when I had her baby brother. So while she was at school, I was home with her baby brother. So I had my newborn son and a toddler to care for. It was rough. But only for a little while thou. It does get easier as they get older. My son is 5 years old now and my daughter just turned 9 yesterday! And now it's pretty much easy going! Yes their dad still works over 12 hours a day and I still take care of them both all on my own. Now since they are older he will watch them at home on weekends if I need to go somewhere cause he's off on weekends. But with them being older and now out that baby stage it's a lot better now. I did not like that newborn/baby stage at all. I rather this age than that newborn/baby stage. Cause at this age they can do a lot of things on their own. Like feed their self, wipe their own self, and tell me what they want, and tell me if something is wrong. That newborn/baby stage is rough cause they can't tell you what's wrong and they can't do anything on their own till get get older. I'm so happy that stage is over for me lol. Both of my kids are in school (Kindergarten and 3rd grade) and now I'm able to get all the rest I ever wanted for 8 hours a day lol. But now I go to the gym cause I do weight lifting and work out so I still don't rest or sleep even if I can lol. But they both sleep all night now so I'm back to my normal sleeping schedule like it used to be before I had them. If they wake up before I do in the mornings they will watch tv and play on their tablets and wait for me to wait up lol. I'm like yall do realize it's ok to wake me up. then they say yeah but you be sleeping and we don't wanna wake you up.. So yeah I can promise yall it will get better before yall know it!! Enjoy that newborn/baby stage long as possible cause it does not last long at all. The older they get, the better it gets. And yeah I'm done having kids. I got both of my tubes taken out after I had my son. I know 100% that I was done having kids. I really didn't wanna go through that labor and pain and newborn/baby stage again and the lack of sleep again. 2 is more than plenty for us. We got our girl and our boy and were complete. I haven't had baby fever since I had my son.

[@omaramcfarlanewilliams2368]

Awesome! Tato there aren't many men like you left in this world. Being parents isn't easy and there are no mistakes. Keep doing what you're doing guys.

[@Wanda402]

Oh their still out here 😊

[@jwalt8019]

I love how you love and support each other. It really does put a smile on my face.

[@dingstrini]

It’s such a pleasure to see you guys understand and discuss and stay United at all times. Keep up the good work. Watching your husband be a dad and taking care of the children is just the sexiest thing to me. Sometimes I’m just in the corner looking at them and it just makes me happy.

[@TheLadyhypa]

Omg you guys brought me to tears as a mother and seeing a guy who is so good to his wife is so beautiful ❤ and I promise baby girl it will get better and you will have so much confidence

[@deajalong]

I love this, you guys are so real. You can tell the difference between people who are genuine and being their true selves with their content, vs. people who are acting off of scripts and pretending to be perfect. You guys I can respect and I love it. ❤️ Congratulations on baby Enzo he's beautiful, I'm so happy for you both. 🤗

[@OnedafullymadeBeauTi]

Congratulations 🎊 🎉 welcome baby Enzo! It's so good to see you guys. ❤💕

[@candycedavis-hill5710]

Take it from a mother of 4 wonderful children... enjoy each child...give yourself time with each child. My oldest 26, 21, 18, 17...yeah those last two was like having twins...yet I spaced the first 3 pretty well...they were all planned pregnancy except that last one was not planned...yet definitely a blessing. The first 3 were girls, and then my boy last. God's plan.

[@meyesight]

I love how he’s always flirting with his wife, pls don’t ever stop 🥹 it’s so refreshing to see parents engage in loving ways 💜

[@sharolmason4344]

I’m so proud of how both of you have transitioned. May the good Lord continue bless your family.

[@misst227]

You guys are awesome! You communicate so well with each other and you both seem to actually care about each other's feelings and want the best for your relationship unselfishly. You will be great parents! Love yur content. ❤🤜🏽

[@nethansmomma9795]

The only thg I wish I had was a husband to support me bc I still suffer from depression from taking care of my son all by myself I feel so sorry for my son bc he was rejected by his dad but that joy of motherhood n his smile keeps me going 🥰🥰

[@Heyitschy03]

Marriage first.

[@dillianlewis-pertarb556]

Hang in there mom, that "man" is going to regret one day not stepping up to his responsibilities. In the meantime focus on what you do have. A healthy son who has his mom. For both you & your son you have to raise your vibrations in order to get up out of that depression. Use your son as motivation After all he's already been let down by 1 parent so never stop pouring love into him. Remember he's your LIFELINE & you're his. You got this💯 OneLove🇯🇲💫🦁💫

[@nethansmomma9795]

@@dillianlewis-pertarb556 i appreciate you for this I’ll never stop doing my best for him 🥰🙏thank u so much

[@byfavour852]

The Lord is your strength. It's not easy, but you can do it, I did. My son is in his 30s, and a very accomplished young man

[@nethansmomma9795]

@@byfavour852 that’s amazing I can’t wait for my son to be a great person one day 🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏

[@AyanaInChrist]

I appreciate this healthy discourse. We all need people who can help us work through difficult moments.

[@michellec8473]

I swear Tato will be flirting with Vira even they're 100 yrs old ❤️❤️

[@oratiletsimatsima9643]

Right?! I love that!

[@bobbiew6930]

I absolutely love these guys! Continue to let God order your steps as a family.

[@Jsweet8308]

To me, Tato looks like he's more exhausted than Vira 😂😂 she looks well rested and beautiful ❤

[@lakemafreeland8149]

I absolutely love how transparent you guys are.

[@Noweaponformedshallprosper]

I pray for blessings and covering over your family. Stay strong Vira…you’re doing amazing! Tato you’re awesome!💪🏾💜🙏🏾

[@hydronicrocker]

I love you guys so much! I got emotional just seeing the compassion and level headedness you have towards your experiences. Keep going strong, you're inspiring and your content makes my day ❤️

[@nafisatujalloh1660]

I loved you mentioned listening to the doctor and ad flexible with your birth plan. I struggled with my first son. With the second baby, i was open to advice, and it turned out well for all of us

[@July52237]

Really sweet video with Baby Enzo…you guys are so positive, inspiring and still super funny!❤️🤣👶🏼

[@jasonandestelle]

Really informative. Thanks for being there for her Tato Not many men understand that phase of postpartum Hope people learn from this

[@pauletoussaint3583]

I love, how you two love and care for each other plus one more. God bless your family, with good health continually, and his protection.

[@Morris774]

I just love you guys content. Thank you for sharing this. My dad passed from Covid. I still feel heart broken. But I watch your videos and you both remind me of my parents and it lifts my spirits. My daddy was a loving man who had the utmost respect for my mom and loved his children so much. He had the biggest heart and was so understanding. When I hear your husband it reminds me of my dad. Congrats to you both and thank you so much for sharing. 🙏

[@shaneenthegreat]

@Tato & Vira, I admire the relationship you have together. The love emanates through the screen :-)😊

[@sylviaasomaniwaaasante8732]

I think tato needs to start a channel on how to groom men to be thoughtful. Knows when to say what such a Beautiful family. Love u guys

[@lizy3812]

Your husband is very responsible and respectful. Love your love for each other. Keep it up

[@hostenseabit5362]

I truly admire you both, I just had my baby a week right after you, and I must admit to all you said about postpartum depression cos I am having hard right now, I pray God helps go through.

[@qewsb5299]

Congratulations once again 🎉we are the online auntie’s and uncles. All the best.

[@johannafernandez6879]

You guys have grown tremendously. Beautiful to witness. Love to you!! ❤

[@AkosuaOfewaaOpoku]

You two are MASSIVELY brave for sharing all that you did during this video, especially your collective encounter with postpartum depression, rage & anxiety. Keep being cute (with the little one in tow). Love and light!❤

[@RoseSmith-jd4df]

Give Tato all the love you can. Thank God he has an advanced level of tolerance.

[@florencesmith291]

Sooo nice to see you guys settling into being parents beautifully 🥂

[@Nia_TV-88]

❤❤❤❤ You both are amazing people, I love the way your husband loves his family 😂 not you got a good man Savannah hilarious love it❤❤😂😂😂 but you guys just keep me smiling the whole time and watching you do you have an amazing husband and you guys complement each other wonderfully in the ups and the downs and that’s super important. Your husband understand you and you understand him as people and y’all allow yourself to hit the lows support each other pull back up that’s what life is about man💯💯💯💯💯

[@ThatGirlRuchie]

Oh my. The way he looks at you! So much love! Tato is a good man! Vira is a good woman! God bless your beautiful family ❤😊 Tato better stop calling another baby cos that’s how they come forth 😂😅

[@Perfectkelz]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@vallawson5198]

Your baby is a few weeks older than my AJ. Your journey has enlightened me and your postpartum experience taught me alot (glad i watched your video because i had an emergency C-section). I am looking forward to growing with you and the family. Stay strong.

[@dremichellephotography9267]

Love your channel. Where real issues, real conversations, real reactions get handled with real love. Tato, great husbanding skills. Vira, you got this, mama!!! Give yourself some grace. Every new mom has to.

[@shirleyhenry-vf5ox]

Tato, you are RIGHT ON respecting your spouse, not saying things that would minimize your partner is SO important. Children live what they learn and learn what they live. AWESOME YOU THREE.

[@marlynmorgan3658]

This was such a cool video! Real, raw, authentic, and all fun at the same time! I LOVE IT!! 😊🥰❤❤❤

[@siyolisemakaka6013]

The teamwork is amazing😍😍😍😍

[@cynthiacameron7891]

Ok...ok...from experience #2 can happen really fast... You two facial expressions are the best...

[@AkosuaHephzibah]

You're such a brave woman Vira, and Tato loves you so much. 🤩

[@nigistsabab3777]

Congratulations, your baby is adorable. May God bless your beautiful family🙏🏽💕🍼

[@divine5582]

I can see his eyes at night, it's like an owl 😂😂

[@VEESREVIEWROOM]

Aww. Thank you guys for the transparency. Much love!!! 💜

[@Luciano19309]

This made me 😢 omg y’all are so unique &’ beautiful. I’m not a mommy yet but ahhh you make it seem so worth it , your husband us so pure into you the baby the family life 💙 He’s a phenomenal man , your a wonderful woman &’ together YALL made a royal baby. Congratulations 🎉

[@patriciachapman9397]

I totally love you guys and what a beautiful family you two have started❤❤❤

[@corneliasewer9857]

You both are very wise. You make me laugh. You support each other so much. The content of this discussion is so very mature for two young people. Tato, you are the man. I truly appreciate the way you stand by your girl- Vera. Blessings to you. You speak with wisdom, shows and express genuine kindness and understanding. You are so supportive. Vira hang in there and hold to each other. You are both beautiful not just outwardly but also in expression and words. Blessings!!

[@crystalcc5205]

They finally posted i have been rewatching every single video and actually misses you both or sorry now three 🤭🤭🤭😚

[@sharonbrown7806]

As the baby gets older trust me…IT WILL GET EASIER!! Baby will sleep all night, sit up, walk and be his own unique self!!! However enjoy every moment because trust me when you look up he’ll be in college! It goes by so so fast! Hope this helps!!! Take it one moment at a time!!!

[@jennk8243]

You’re blessed to have Tato coz he’s a great husband and father who respects and fight to make you happy and bravo 😢

[@liyahlizz6843]

I love how he’s always flirting and she just start freezing up it’s so cute but funny at the same time ya so cute together and baby Enzo is beautiful

[@avenabolarinwa4126]

I love this such a loving and supportive husband, so great to hear and see this. Thank you guys for sharing these precious moments with us.❤

[@MunaAbbas.]

You guys have great chemistry,not every couple has that cute baby more blessings coming your way

[@Bobanuggies]

Gurl, HE IS A KEEPER! Tato's parents got it right! I just love your family soooo much!💯❤️

[@ShanayBraxton]

As a mom to be, this is very helpful. Thank you so much for sharing your story!

[@abokipembenadia1596]

I have my face smiling always.. we love you guys .. How can one get this deep, safe, loved and assured in a relationship? You all are👌👌🥂

[@jennifersmart357]

I am just so happy for you two! Congratulations on the baby!! Tati loves you completely! It’s all over him.

[@florenceihunze2687]

I really love this family,ur hubby is really ur blessing cos his kind is rare.

[@dawnstephen]

Congratulations!! Baby Enzo is so cute 👏🏻👏🏻💕💕

[@shoshox]

So sorry to hear about your post partum depression and thanks for sharing. Glad you're out of it!! I also had a csec and I was moving but always in pain and then my nurse told me to use paracetamol, ibuprofen and codeine 2hours apart every 4 hrs. And in 5days I was fine, the nurse would come round and would remind me to take my med. I was in hospital for 6 days after birth so that helped me in regards to taking my medication regularly.

[@abigailo8913]

I've never clicked so fast lol! Good to see y'all again🥰

[@thaismatos7898]

You guys are amazing. And the way you are with each other and open about your marriage. It's very beautiful to see and watch ya'll grow and be fruitful in so many ways in your relationships. Ya the cool parents lol ❤️

[@modernxaliimo4731]

Tatos personality is how I alway imagine a future husband. Love all of you!

[@angelegabe7770]

Mike Drones, thank you for visiting Mal… Also, thanks for giving us an update on his condition, I Hope he continues to improve each day… Love, Prayers & Blessings to the both of you… ✨❤️🙏🏽✨💫

[@crystalcc5205]

Wait until u start taking him to nursery im literally doing work experience at a nursery and seeing babies react is the cutest thing ever and how big they get🥰🥰

[@mrskindly4683]

Vira your stronger than you know. Your very blessed to have someone support you and care about you and how you feel. It's hard to find a man that can articulate his emotions and knows when to just slow down and be your peace. Even when you don't want peace. And looking cuter everyday Enzo. Congrats to you both. ❤

[@melilara4194]

I enjoy watching yall! My little boy was born in Jan. I'm Puertorican and my husband is Kenyan. He reminds me of my boy. Congratulations!

[@chebyhocutt9055]

Tato you are such a deep, caring , loving soul! Vira keep being the beautiful person you are, your son is blessed to have such loving parents! Take care of each other!!❤

[@gcwalz8101]

You look beautiful Vira 😍♥️thank you for taking good care of her Tato💯

[@Qu33n_Qu3]

My daughter is 9 and I'm now pregnant with my second trust me it's no rush take your time.

[@ruthiedinma4066]

My is 6 also ... yeah you so right and even as that it's still not easy 😆😆

[@Qu33n_Qu3]

It's not because I swear pregnancy was much easier in my 20s than my 30s

[@judyk2987]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I had 2 c-sections and you did great! Moving is important. The gas pain is crazy. Good luck in your recovery!!! Continued healing! And Vira, BE CAREFUL, my kids are 18 months apart…😂 Tato is an amazing husband and father-the love he has for his family is Beautiful. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@djmedouble]

Thank you for sharing. You are a beautiful family unit! 🥰

[@BlessingsDavid-dq1hb]

You both just changed my relationship thank you… my spouse has changed a lot after I made him watched you guys

[@kuldoxy5637]

I love how he constantly flirts with her.☺ Love u guys. I just hope my future husband would be really sensitive and caring like Tato esp at times like this. Love love how ur in this together. Love ur channel.💕

[@bigerthanmyself421]

The communication between you both are beautiful and I understand needing help and having those feelings. You both are very beautiful people who made a gorgeous baby boy. My second son was born March 13 same as his God brother. Yup every so often his bday is Friday the 13th