taylor swift - tolerate it (slowed + reverb)

i know my love should be celebrated
but you tolerate it.

[@LindsUnhinged]

i feel like this song is so under appreciated. “i made you my temple my mural my sky now i’m begging for foot notes in the story of your life” is so deeply accurate. she captures what it’s really like to love someone who gives you barely anything when you love them so completely

[@vj8711]

I couldn't agree more..💔 in a loveless marriage, and this song hits me on a personal level..

[@user-tz4jd9ul1y]

Any advice if he says “I think you are insecure and I’m just more independent” after I am upset we don’t spend time together

[@stella8737]

@@user-tz4jd9ul1y he just doesn't care enough about you

[@wuthxringheights]

I didn't realized how sad i was until evermore came out. I realize that all i do is pretending that i'm okay and acting like everything is good. Tolerate It hit me hard. The lyrics,her voice and the music. "While you were out building other worlds, where was I? Where's that man who'd throw blankets over my barbed wire? I made you my temple, my mural, my sky Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life" hits different.

[@justinelim9871]

I hope you’re doing well.

[@wuthxringheights]

@@justinelim9871 thank you

[@Gmimi012]

It hit me too. It just described me and made me realize that i was just tolerated

[@wuthxringheights]

@@Gmimi012 same...

[@maddiesmart7668]

*Sending a virtual hug*. ❤️. Every thing will be fineee

[@talyauzunlu8189]

i feel like we should have our own little support group in the comments since this was all our song of choice

[@misspotatohead1959]

Well, so tomorrow is supposedly my birthday but I have exams tmr too, so I’ll just have to tolerate the exams, I do wish I had time to celebrate tho😢

[@sofias9238]

@@misspotatohead1959 i hope you had a nice birthday🥺💛

[@misspotatohead1959]

@@sofias9238 yeah I did okay in my exams and bought a small cake afterwards, thank you🥰♥️

[@tripleaaa6359]

I always cry myself to sleep to this song. And thanks to this song now i know that i need help. And i’ll see a psychiatrist soon. Thank u Taylor❤️

[@sofias9238]

@@tripleaaa6359 congratulationnnns💕 hope it goes well for you🥺

[@hassanmalik8190]

‘but what would u do if i break free and leave us in ruins?’ this physically hurts

[@goldbananas608]

hey this song is what it feels like when you come out to people that you trust and they “accept” you but still act like you ruined something

[@talyauzunlu8189]

:( i'm sorry bby, sending love

[@saigakale]

mhmm closeted gay swifties gang

[@sophiebutterill9295]

100%

[@hatake9439]

you just made this song 10x sadder now, and i agree 100% with you

[@joseahhhs]

best song on the album

[@PrimeValenzuela]

OMG YESSS😭😭😭

[@hassanmalik8190]

ur taste>>>>>>

[@aguilarinternational1044]

For me it’s so close with tis the danm season😭

[@christy1385]

@@aguilarinternational1044 SAME

[@nadnad4413]

Is cowboy like me

[@ololadeabiodun6419]

Evermore is her most underrated album and tolerate it is her BEST EVER SONG in my opinion. It might not be her amongst her bestselling like blank space, cruel summer, bad blood and the likes but it is, there is just something about it. The raw emotions, lyrics and sadness in the song is so poetic.

[@ivanagustincervantesdiaz9234]

If you’re reading this, are you okay? Don’t worry! You will heal, things will be okay, you matter, you are important. Take care!

[@aqsaansari5985]

Thank you

[@_just1day898]

you too!

[@addy19136]

i love you

[@alecs8801]

I'm crying

[@amayawengernuk]

This is the first song i’ve ever found in my 20 years of life that describes my relationship with my father. He’s in super denial of being a narcissist to this day. This song just makes me break down but heal every time i hear it. Still learning that my love shouldn’t be tolerated.

[@tommie3700]

Check out BANKS, she wrote a whole album about being in a relationship with a narcissist. Start with 'Till Now' and 'Contaminated'. Hope you're okay.

[@amayawengernuk]

@@tommie3700 Ooo i have one her songs already! Thanks so much! Recently cut him off and i finally feel a weight off my shoulders.

[@tommie3700]

@@amayawengernuk You go girl xx

[@ankitavishwakarma3820]

you are worthy of love, just know that, and that too unconditionally!

[@audreyb8368]

it hurts so bad having to slowly realize the person you gave your whole heart to doesnt love you anymore

[@bianca_lol4241]

hurts like hell

[@hayley6607]

Me listening to it from the POV of a married woman: Oh.....sad Me realizing the song applies to my relationship with my father: ☔️☔️

[@frogluvrfr]

same

[@madhurimamukherjee23]

I didn't even know why I related so much to this song but then I read your comment. Damn!

[@physiovriddhi]

omg :(

[@lindabelcher974]

Oh god your comment made me realize that this applies to my mom and now I need to go find a therapist

[@katiefarquhar3176]

Reminds me of how I say " Dad?" And I say it again like 30 seconds later cause he doesn't answer cause he's on his phone and like 10 minutes later he answers

[@Teddyhammy]

The fact that every single lyric in this hits so close to home… even the dishes the way I would clean and be yelled at for how I cleaned…. And how at the end it just repeats and the cycle starts all over again. Everyone always talks about abusive relationships and how hard breakups are but no one really talks about how unbelievably painful it is to be gaslit by your “best friends.” Break ups make you not want to date again, friend falling outs makes you not wanna be friends with anyone

[@charlottebascomb3576]

begging for footnotes in the story of your life. hits so different

[@il3077]

Ikr 😭😭😭😭😭

[@sophiachristopher9089]

god is anyone here ok

[@sophiachristopher9089]

cause i'm not

[@kswaggey]

absolutely not

[@candletabletop154]

no ✨✨

[@coffre2666]

No:)

[@rorozahranabilahaq4828]

Of course we are not

[@snarat764]

taylor released this when it was too late :( i wish i could've realized everything sooner...

[@sierrawelsch4573]

its funny how i only listen to sad songs and then listen to them slowed which makes them even sadder. what is wrong with me...i used to be so happy. i used to not be second choice. i used to love myself.

[@yourfavitgirl999]

You will get through it. You deserve happiness just like anyone else

[@sierrawelsch4573]

@@yourfavitgirl999 thank u sm so do you

[@eshaani]

people who post slowed songs deserve more than the world can give.

[@destinychance2836]

this song is so deep. it makes me think that she wrote this song for people who find themselves in relationships that seem inescapable, in a way that they can only tolerate their situation or be tolerated. It’s like a relationship that is bound together by something stronger than emotions and the fear of heartbreak, but by oath or blood. I think of a marriage of 20+ years where someone finally falls out of love for good or of a failing relationship between a parent and their child. Those relationships are not always something that one can walk away from, so they are often tolerated.

[@vj8711]

Or a 7 year marriage, and a daughter who will be broken when her parents get separated..

[@holly289]

there’s just something about this song... it tugs on the heartstrings

[@valarirussak11]

i remember when i came out to my dad. i was fifteen. it was a foggy night in october. he took it well, i think. i’m his daughter and there’s nothing i could ever do that would make him love me any less. but he’ll always have his opinions, and that’s just the way that it is. later that night i went to start the dishes. i put in my earbuds and started my playlist. and the first song that came on was tolerate it by taylor swift. i never listened to that song the same way again.

[@SwiftieFan]

This song explains without me having to say a word. I relate to this song to the point it hurts.

[@Emp158]

Stop I’m crying

[@wonderstruck3]

I sit and watch you reading with your head low I wake and watch you breathing with your eyes closed I sit and watch you, I notice everything you do or don't do You're so much older and wiser and I I wait by the door like I'm just a kid Use my best colors for your portrait Lay the table with the fancy shit And watch you tolerate it If it's all in my head tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated But you tolerate it I greet you with a battle hero's welcome I take your indiscretions all in good fun I sit and listen, I polish plates until they gleam and glisten You're so much older and wiser and I I wait by the door like I'm just a kid Use my best colors for your portrait Lay the table with the fancy shit And watch you tolerate it If it's all in my head tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated But you tolerate it While you were out building other worlds, where was I? Where's that man who'd throw blankets over my barbed wire? I made you my temple, my mural, my sky Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life Drawing hearts in the byline Always taking up too much space or time You assume I'm fine But what would you do if I Break free and leave us in ruins Took this dagger in me and removed it Gain the weight of you then lose it Believe me, I could do it If it's all in my head tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated But you tolerate it I sit and watch you

[@peanut.buhtur]

think it’s “our love” in the bridge

[@zahrabintdaud829]

This song hits different when you think about how your parents will never accept who you love and who you are 😭

[@magicalworld4891]

I have felt attacked OMG

[@beentheredonethat3213]

this song describes the person who emotionally abused me for a year and how I left them the best by far

[@manyavasudeva800]

The bridge hits so fucking hard

[@musab3014]

This was.. everything...

[@il3077]

This perfectly describes me and my ex. I just want to be good enough for him. Finally letting go of him now

[@xo8960]

im so proud of you

[@il3077]

@@xo8960 thank you. It’s been a month since we stopped talking

[@illelnihlls6538]

Im so proud of u too:) be happy with a clear mind and a clear soul

[@xo8960]

god this is so heartbreaking

[@ashley7376]

It's soo good ..I'll cry in the corner 🥺😭😭❤️

[@bamboleo6348]

I'm so close to ending everything but I'm afraid of what that means so thank God for that?

[@charliedalton167]

all of us with daddy issues deserve better

[@ebtrollfan]

And mommy issues.

[@youknowwho7570]

BEAUTIFUL

[@shortbug335]

brb crying

[@swiftiepharbz]

i just wanna stare at the ceiling and cry

[@nunita141]

So fucking beautiful

[@linasaec_]

Does anybody else feel disconnected with their own family? And that they only love you because we share the same blood.

[@crabbybilly7220]

I'm not mentally stable enough for this.

[@urvirtualstyler]

so beautiful :"

[@hanahowey]

thank you.

[@sarahdsilva2655]

WHY....now I'm sad-DER

[@priyalj13]

Hey you! Will you smile for me? Just a sweet little smile please :) EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE BETTER ONE DAY I PROMISE. TIME HEALS EVERYTHING.

[@aaronjeshuarojasramirez5586]

Esta versión duele más.. :’)

[@MonumentToSin]

Oh fuck I didn't think this song could get any sadder... shit...

[@Rehabriri]

I sit and watch u !! in the end of the song

[@furaances]

Catharsis.

[@joanofarc-jz1dg]

i sit and listen i polish plates until they gleam and glisten

[@hannahjoycheng]

i know i deserve better but still it's like why could you not see that my love should be celebrated, wanted. why did you not want me like i wanted you

[@jen6294]

this is gonna be the death of me

[@marinaelle242]

if you're here please visit your therapist

[@nadanefeli482]

i hate her

[@Ikacita]

Why does this feel like Anna from Disney frozen wrote this song 🎶

[@ssvndynq]

2:05

[@gracemyers2279]

“tell me i’ve got it wrong somewhere, i know my love should be celebrated, but you tolerate it” 💔

[@leximeschino1612]

I am in a new, loving, mutual relationship now - but still find myself trying to heal the wounds my previous relationship left me with. I still always feel like too much, not enough, and like I have to fight to prove to him why he should still love me. Being tolerated is still my biggest fear

[@jesslynfaustinamarella8564]

THANKUUUUUU😩💓

[@bayuananta8604]

yup

[@yourmomcom12543]

this song makes me cry every time because it makes me realize I’ll have no one to actually tolerate my love unlike the POV of the person in the song.

[@JesusChrist-lm4sy]

I can only see this as the relationship with my dad…I remember wanting this man to hold me and letting me sleep on his chest and now he will storm off into the night and won’t come back for an hour over a small disagreement after he insulted me for telling my therapist about our family problems

[@musab3014]

Who's the lady in the video?

[@fataltrouble]

i made you my temple, my mural, my sky now i’m begging for footnotes in the story of your life.

[@user-ke1jw1pf8p]

good❤❤❤

[@katiefarquhar3176]

I love the part when she smokes

[@vee.13]

God..oh dear god.. i didn't even try to be happy today..i guess i'm truly done pretending... :')

[@nivia-maria6]

Olá todos q ver esse canal tudo bem com vcs? Vamos ajudar esse canal. Si escrevendo por favor. obrigada. Deus abençoa vcs. Fica com Deus.

[@saigakale]

damn lol

[@coradvorovy6184]

liked at 69

[@panimalar3024]

Whats the anime?

[@tashtube91]

Believe me, I could do it.

[@Vicerooy]

where was i ?

[@sierrawelsch4573]

its funny how i only listen to sad songs and then listen to them slowed which makes them even sadder. what is wrong with me...i used to be so happy. i used to not be second choice. i used to love myself.