i know my love should be celebrated but you tolerate it.
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@LindsUnhinged3 жыл бұрын
i feel like this song is so under appreciated. “i made you my temple my mural my sky now i’m begging for foot notes in the story of your life” is so deeply accurate. she captures what it’s really like to love someone who gives you barely anything when you love them so completely
@vj87113 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more..💔 in a loveless marriage, and this song hits me on a personal level..
@user-tz4jd9ul1y2 жыл бұрын
Any advice if he says “I think you are insecure and I’m just more independent” after I am upset we don’t spend time together
@stella8737 Жыл бұрын
@@user-tz4jd9ul1y he just doesn't care enough about you
@wuthxringheights3 жыл бұрын
I didn't realized how sad i was until evermore came out. I realize that all i do is pretending that i'm okay and acting like everything is good. Tolerate It hit me hard. The lyrics,her voice and the music. "While you were out building other worlds, where was I? Where's that man who'd throw blankets over my barbed wire? I made you my temple, my mural, my sky Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life" hits different.
@justinelim98713 жыл бұрын
I hope you’re doing well.
@wuthxringheights3 жыл бұрын
@@justinelim9871 thank you
@Gmimi0123 жыл бұрын
It hit me too. It just described me and made me realize that i was just tolerated
@wuthxringheights3 жыл бұрын
@@Gmimi012 same...
@maddiesmart76683 жыл бұрын
*Sending a virtual hug*. ❤️. Every thing will be fineee
@talyauzunlu81893 жыл бұрын
i feel like we should have our own little support group in the comments since this was all our song of choice
@misspotatohead19593 жыл бұрын
Well, so tomorrow is supposedly my birthday but I have exams tmr too, so I’ll just have to tolerate the exams, I do wish I had time to celebrate tho😢
@sofias92383 жыл бұрын
@@misspotatohead1959 i hope you had a nice birthday🥺💛
@misspotatohead19593 жыл бұрын
@@sofias9238 yeah I did okay in my exams and bought a small cake afterwards, thank you🥰♥️
@tripleaaa63593 жыл бұрын
I always cry myself to sleep to this song. And thanks to this song now i know that i need help. And i’ll see a psychiatrist soon. Thank u Taylor❤️
@sofias92383 жыл бұрын
@@tripleaaa6359 congratulationnnns💕 hope it goes well for you🥺
@hassanmalik81903 жыл бұрын
‘but what would u do if i break free and leave us in ruins?’ this physically hurts
@goldbananas6083 жыл бұрын
hey this song is what it feels like when you come out to people that you trust and they “accept” you but still act like you ruined something
@talyauzunlu81893 жыл бұрын
:( i'm sorry bby, sending love
@saigakale3 жыл бұрын
mhmm closeted gay swifties gang
@sophiebutterill92953 жыл бұрын
100%
@hatake9439 Жыл бұрын
you just made this song 10x sadder now, and i agree 100% with you
@joseahhhs3 жыл бұрын
best song on the album
@PrimeValenzuela3 жыл бұрын
OMG YESSS😭😭😭
@hassanmalik81903 жыл бұрын
ur taste>>>>>>
@aguilarinternational10443 жыл бұрын
For me it’s so close with tis the danm season😭
@christy13853 жыл бұрын
@@aguilarinternational1044 SAME
@nadnad44133 жыл бұрын
Is cowboy like me
@ololadeabiodun641910 ай бұрын
Evermore is her most underrated album and tolerate it is her BEST EVER SONG in my opinion. It might not be her amongst her bestselling like blank space, cruel summer, bad blood and the likes but it is, there is just something about it. The raw emotions, lyrics and sadness in the song is so poetic.
@ivanagustincervantesdiaz92343 жыл бұрын
If you’re reading this, are you okay? Don’t worry! You will heal, things will be okay, you matter, you are important. Take care!
@aqsaansari59853 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@_just1day8983 жыл бұрын
you too!
@addy191362 жыл бұрын
i love you
@alecs88019 ай бұрын
I'm crying
@amayawengernuk3 жыл бұрын
This is the first song i’ve ever found in my 20 years of life that describes my relationship with my father. He’s in super denial of being a narcissist to this day. This song just makes me break down but heal every time i hear it. Still learning that my love shouldn’t be tolerated.
@tommie37003 жыл бұрын
Check out BANKS, she wrote a whole album about being in a relationship with a narcissist. Start with 'Till Now' and 'Contaminated'. Hope you're okay.
@amayawengernuk3 жыл бұрын
@@tommie3700 Ooo i have one her songs already! Thanks so much! Recently cut him off and i finally feel a weight off my shoulders.
@tommie37003 жыл бұрын
@@amayawengernuk You go girl xx
@ankitavishwakarma38202 жыл бұрын
you are worthy of love, just know that, and that too unconditionally!
@audreyb83683 жыл бұрын
it hurts so bad having to slowly realize the person you gave your whole heart to doesnt love you anymore
@bianca_lol42413 жыл бұрын
hurts like hell
@hayley66073 жыл бұрын
Me listening to it from the POV of a married woman: Oh.....sad Me realizing the song applies to my relationship with my father: ☔️☔️
@frogluvrfr3 жыл бұрын
same
@madhurimamukherjee233 жыл бұрын
I didn't even know why I related so much to this song but then I read your comment. Damn!
@physiovriddhi3 жыл бұрын
omg :(
@lindabelcher9743 жыл бұрын
Oh god your comment made me realize that this applies to my mom and now I need to go find a therapist
@katiefarquhar31763 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of how I say " Dad?" And I say it again like 30 seconds later cause he doesn't answer cause he's on his phone and like 10 minutes later he answers
@Teddyhammy3 жыл бұрын
The fact that every single lyric in this hits so close to home… even the dishes the way I would clean and be yelled at for how I cleaned…. And how at the end it just repeats and the cycle starts all over again. Everyone always talks about abusive relationships and how hard breakups are but no one really talks about how unbelievably painful it is to be gaslit by your “best friends.” Break ups make you not want to date again, friend falling outs makes you not wanna be friends with anyone
@charlottebascomb35763 жыл бұрын
begging for footnotes in the story of your life. hits so different
@il30773 жыл бұрын
Ikr 😭😭😭😭😭
@sophiachristopher90893 жыл бұрын
god is anyone here ok
@sophiachristopher90893 жыл бұрын
cause i'm not
@kswaggey3 жыл бұрын
absolutely not
@candletabletop1543 жыл бұрын
no ✨✨
@coffre26663 жыл бұрын
No:)
@rorozahranabilahaq48283 жыл бұрын
Of course we are not
@snarat7643 жыл бұрын
taylor released this when it was too late :( i wish i could've realized everything sooner...
@sierrawelsch45733 жыл бұрын
its funny how i only listen to sad songs and then listen to them slowed which makes them even sadder. what is wrong with me...i used to be so happy. i used to not be second choice. i used to love myself.
@yourfavitgirl9993 жыл бұрын
You will get through it. You deserve happiness just like anyone else
@sierrawelsch45733 жыл бұрын
@@yourfavitgirl999 thank u sm so do you
@eshaani3 жыл бұрын
people who post slowed songs deserve more than the world can give.
@destinychance28363 жыл бұрын
this song is so deep. it makes me think that she wrote this song for people who find themselves in relationships that seem inescapable, in a way that they can only tolerate their situation or be tolerated. It’s like a relationship that is bound together by something stronger than emotions and the fear of heartbreak, but by oath or blood. I think of a marriage of 20+ years where someone finally falls out of love for good or of a failing relationship between a parent and their child. Those relationships are not always something that one can walk away from, so they are often tolerated.
@vj87113 жыл бұрын
Or a 7 year marriage, and a daughter who will be broken when her parents get separated..
@holly2893 жыл бұрын
there’s just something about this song... it tugs on the heartstrings
@valarirussak112 жыл бұрын
i remember when i came out to my dad. i was fifteen. it was a foggy night in october. he took it well, i think. i’m his daughter and there’s nothing i could ever do that would make him love me any less. but he’ll always have his opinions, and that’s just the way that it is. later that night i went to start the dishes. i put in my earbuds and started my playlist. and the first song that came on was tolerate it by taylor swift. i never listened to that song the same way again.
@SwiftieFan Жыл бұрын
This song explains without me having to say a word. I relate to this song to the point it hurts.
@Emp1583 жыл бұрын
Stop I’m crying
@wonderstruck32 жыл бұрын
I sit and watch you reading with your head low I wake and watch you breathing with your eyes closed I sit and watch you, I notice everything you do or don't do You're so much older and wiser and I I wait by the door like I'm just a kid Use my best colors for your portrait Lay the table with the fancy shit And watch you tolerate it If it's all in my head tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated But you tolerate it I greet you with a battle hero's welcome I take your indiscretions all in good fun I sit and listen, I polish plates until they gleam and glisten You're so much older and wiser and I I wait by the door like I'm just a kid Use my best colors for your portrait Lay the table with the fancy shit And watch you tolerate it If it's all in my head tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated But you tolerate it While you were out building other worlds, where was I? Where's that man who'd throw blankets over my barbed wire? I made you my temple, my mural, my sky Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life Drawing hearts in the byline Always taking up too much space or time You assume I'm fine But what would you do if I Break free and leave us in ruins Took this dagger in me and removed it Gain the weight of you then lose it Believe me, I could do it If it's all in my head tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated But you tolerate it I sit and watch you
@peanut.buhtur Жыл бұрын
think it’s “our love” in the bridge
@zahrabintdaud8293 жыл бұрын
This song hits different when you think about how your parents will never accept who you love and who you are 😭
@magicalworld48913 жыл бұрын
I have felt attacked OMG
@beentheredonethat32133 жыл бұрын
this song describes the person who emotionally abused me for a year and how I left them the best by far
@manyavasudeva8003 жыл бұрын
The bridge hits so fucking hard
@musab30143 жыл бұрын
This was.. everything...
@il30773 жыл бұрын
This perfectly describes me and my ex. I just want to be good enough for him. Finally letting go of him now
@xo89603 жыл бұрын
im so proud of you
@il30773 жыл бұрын
@@xo8960 thank you. It’s been a month since we stopped talking
@illelnihlls65383 жыл бұрын
Im so proud of u too:) be happy with a clear mind and a clear soul
@xo89603 жыл бұрын
god this is so heartbreaking
@ashley73763 жыл бұрын
It's soo good ..I'll cry in the corner 🥺😭😭❤️
@bamboleo63483 жыл бұрын
I'm so close to ending everything but I'm afraid of what that means so thank God for that?
@charliedalton1673 жыл бұрын
all of us with daddy issues deserve better
@ebtrollfan Жыл бұрын
And mommy issues.
@youknowwho75703 жыл бұрын
BEAUTIFUL
@shortbug3353 жыл бұрын
brb crying
@swiftiepharbz3 жыл бұрын
i just wanna stare at the ceiling and cry
@nunita1413 жыл бұрын
So fucking beautiful
@linasaec_2 жыл бұрын
Does anybody else feel disconnected with their own family? And that they only love you because we share the same blood.
@crabbybilly72203 жыл бұрын
I'm not mentally stable enough for this.
@urvirtualstyler3 жыл бұрын
so beautiful :"
@hanahowey3 жыл бұрын
thank you.
@sarahdsilva26553 жыл бұрын
WHY....now I'm sad-DER
@priyalj133 жыл бұрын
Hey you! Will you smile for me? Just a sweet little smile please :) EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE BETTER ONE DAY I PROMISE. TIME HEALS EVERYTHING.
@aaronjeshuarojasramirez55863 жыл бұрын
Esta versión duele más.. :’)
@MonumentToSin3 жыл бұрын
Oh fuck I didn't think this song could get any sadder... shit...
@Rehabriri3 жыл бұрын
I sit and watch u !! in the end of the song
@furaances3 жыл бұрын
Catharsis.
@joanofarc-jz1dg7 ай бұрын
i sit and listen i polish plates until they gleam and glisten
@hannahjoycheng2 жыл бұрын
i know i deserve better but still it's like why could you not see that my love should be celebrated, wanted. why did you not want me like i wanted you
@jen62943 жыл бұрын
this is gonna be the death of me
@marinaelle2423 жыл бұрын
if you're here please visit your therapist
@nadanefeli4822 жыл бұрын
i hate her
@Ikacita2 жыл бұрын
Why does this feel like Anna from Disney frozen wrote this song 🎶
@ssvndynq3 жыл бұрын
2:05
@gracemyers22797 ай бұрын
“tell me i’ve got it wrong somewhere, i know my love should be celebrated, but you tolerate it” 💔
@leximeschino16122 жыл бұрын
I am in a new, loving, mutual relationship now - but still find myself trying to heal the wounds my previous relationship left me with. I still always feel like too much, not enough, and like I have to fight to prove to him why he should still love me. Being tolerated is still my biggest fear
@jesslynfaustinamarella85642 жыл бұрын
THANKUUUUUU😩💓
@bayuananta86043 жыл бұрын
yup
@yourmomcom125433 жыл бұрын
this song makes me cry every time because it makes me realize I’ll have no one to actually tolerate my love unlike the POV of the person in the song.
@JesusChrist-lm4sy2 жыл бұрын
I can only see this as the relationship with my dad…I remember wanting this man to hold me and letting me sleep on his chest and now he will storm off into the night and won’t come back for an hour over a small disagreement after he insulted me for telling my therapist about our family problems
@musab30143 жыл бұрын
Who's the lady in the video?
@fataltrouble2 жыл бұрын
i made you my temple, my mural, my sky now i’m begging for footnotes in the story of your life.
@user-ke1jw1pf8p7 ай бұрын
good❤❤❤
@katiefarquhar31763 жыл бұрын
I love the part when she smokes
@vee.133 жыл бұрын
God..oh dear god.. i didn't even try to be happy today..i guess i'm truly done pretending... :')
@nivia-maria6 Жыл бұрын
Olá todos q ver esse canal tudo bem com vcs? Vamos ajudar esse canal. Si escrevendo por favor. obrigada. Deus abençoa vcs. Fica com Deus.
@saigakale3 жыл бұрын
damn lol
@coradvorovy61843 жыл бұрын
liked at 69
@panimalar3024 Жыл бұрын
Whats the anime?
@tashtube912 жыл бұрын
Believe me, I could do it.
@Vicerooy Жыл бұрын
where was i ?
@sierrawelsch45733 жыл бұрын
its funny how i only listen to sad songs and then listen to them slowed which makes them even sadder. what is wrong with me...i used to be so happy. i used to not be second choice. i used to love myself.