Growing up mixed in Taiwan. Becoming an animator to overcome a traumatic childhood.

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Teddy Lai 賴泰迪

Teddy Lai 賴泰迪

Күн бұрын

My roommate Alf introduced me to Claire.
Claire's KZbin: / @clairetta
Claire was born and raised in Taiwan. Her mom is Taiwanese and dad is Canadian. They met while teaching English and are both hippies. Even though Claire has only been to Mandarin schools, her English sounds like she grew up in North America. Claire thinks of herself as Taiwanese, but she's always felt people treat her like an outsider. For instance, kids magazines would want to hire her as a "foreign model" and people approach her in public to practice their English. Even though she speaks unaccented Chinese, she will sometimes pretend to only speak English because she associates Chinese with distressing moments in her life. Her parents divorced when she was four and moved to Taitung to live with her mom and stepdad, a mountain guide who was her babysitter. In Taitung, they lived a very rustic life because of her overbearing stepdad. She wasn't allowed to play with dolls or look in the mirror. Her schooling consisted of climbing coconut trees and skinning deer. Back then, Claire would spend half of her time with her dad in Taipei, and would take the train alone, which caused concern amongst the other passengers. From third to sixth grade, Claire attended a Taiwanese public school in an indigenous village. All of her classmates were Bunun, and she was bullied for being tall and white. Claire was also bullied because her stepdad's minimalist lifestyle led her classmates to think she was poor. Claire tried to voice her situation to the teachers, but they made excuses to not listen, and even changed her annual surveys asking if she was getting bullied. During this time, her mom and step dad would disappear for months at a time to conduct mountaineering expeditions. Thus, Claire would live with her neighbors, and got to see the reality of indigenous communities. Many children would walk around unsupervised, and one of her friends accidentally killed her baby sister by leaving her in a hot car. Claire observed that many indigenous people have support, and often turn to God as a last resort. For instance, her bully had to pay for his own tuition by dancing in traditional indigenous garb at a tourist attraction, which is something Claire found off-putting. Around this time, Claire's stepfather became abusive, and would even through knives at her and her mom. Only after moving back to Taipei to live with her dad, did Claire realize the gravity of her situation. Therefore, for the first year of middle school, she spent a lot of time crying. In Taipei's highly competitive academic environment, Claire realized that success hinges upon parental involvement. Also, she noticed her classmates were motivated by traditional notions of filial piety. For Claire, this was irrelevant because her parents were hippies. Thus, she dropped out after graduating from middle school. Afterwards, she would spend hours sitting in cafes drawing as an escape. Her determination to become an artist gave her the will to live, and eventually she started gaining recognition through her KZbin channel. Now the classmates that previously ignored her are reappearing and asking to hang out. Despite her harsh childhood, Claire remains optimistic and energized by proving wrong those that doubted her ability to succeed.

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@ilovepenguin7482
@ilovepenguin7482 Күн бұрын
很難過聽到她小時候的遭遇,霸凌性騷擾及家人的不關心,願你往後的生活能一切順遂😢
@georgelien
@georgelien Күн бұрын
其實 不只是她 😂 不少 女生小朋友 小時候 都經歷過 霸凌和性騷擾
@尤俊閔
@尤俊閔 Күн бұрын
言談中 感覺他的確生病了 家庭跟童年影響了他一生 希望他能成功 或許對病情會較有正向的幫助
@瑭哥-v2p
@瑭哥-v2p Күн бұрын
從這些細節可以知道 台東或原民偏鄉的家庭教育有多糟糕 或同學間霸凌有多悽慘...而她僥倖生還到現在...
@祺昌-d7q
@祺昌-d7q 15 сағат бұрын
其實也不是每一個家庭都這樣啦!也有一些好的只是我們不知道而已。
@基督白騎士科學隊
@基督白騎士科學隊 13 сағат бұрын
很正常,小孩沒有道德觀,對錯並不清楚,對於霸凌並沒有罪惡感,同時再加上同學鼓譟,以及小孩會懼怕暴力,導致會惡性循環。 學校的教師很重要之外,學生也很重要。 如果學生大多數來自於家庭教育不管小孩的父母,那就大概率到學校會變成不懂善惡,專門欺負別人的霸凌者
@shunshun1999
@shunshun1999 Күн бұрын
很高興看到她現在能對這些過去侃侃而談並堅強的生活著 作品很有潛力 期待未來看到她越來越厲害
@robertwei2282
@robertwei2282 Күн бұрын
社會局與教育局應該介入
@HuangRex
@HuangRex Күн бұрын
偏郷很難
@manbat-kc5oc
@manbat-kc5oc Күн бұрын
當地議員應該有所回應,否則就是失職!
@daniellejoo950
@daniellejoo950 Күн бұрын
不是沒有社工介入而是環境太不友善,都市原住民可以更快更有效地拿到資源,然後父系社會的原住民又比較古板
@manbat-kc5oc
@manbat-kc5oc Күн бұрын
@@daniellejoo950 是的,是綜合性的社會問題,需要有更多關注!
@chuanchang8290
@chuanchang8290 Күн бұрын
問題家庭
@EnjoyVa2FL
@EnjoyVa2FL Күн бұрын
She is a strong girl.
@lara9652
@lara9652 Күн бұрын
Agree w u but I feel like her heart is weeping idk
@yuyuchen1683
@yuyuchen1683 20 сағат бұрын
The Taiwanese government broke its promise and did not give the indigenous peoples the right of autonomy; it also failed to equally distribute taxes to the indigenous peoples, allowing them to live a life of fend for themselves, which led to human trafficking. The indigenous peoples are the owners of this land, and there is no The reason is to pay taxes to the new government, this is my opinion
@k22163939
@k22163939 20 сағат бұрын
@@yuyuchen1683nope,no single human “owned” the land. So the indigenous don’t have to pay taxes thoughts are not gonna work.
@月風-m4h
@月風-m4h Күн бұрын
Claire真的非常不容易、也非常不簡單~靠自己走出屬於妳的一片天空👏👍。
@jasoncheng1673
@jasoncheng1673 Күн бұрын
很鼓舞人心的訪談,感謝她沒放棄自己,加油.
@劉兆崴-h7c
@劉兆崴-h7c Күн бұрын
在影片的最後,Claire似乎還沒有說完,影片就突然結束了。令人感到一種錯愕和意猶未盡的感覺。
@teddylai886
@teddylai886 14 сағат бұрын
抱歉
@memento805
@memento805 Күн бұрын
每個人成長路徑不同 只能希望他找到自己安身立命之處 祝福
@wine3737
@wine3737 Күн бұрын
假如現在想對壞人提告也還來得及,我覺得應該要有人協助一下
@katelu9662
@katelu9662 Күн бұрын
她在那個原住民國小時被性騷擾跟被霸凌的事情,應該對當時的男同學及國小老師、校長究責。同時,她繼父對她所做的事情也該究責。花東原住民那種性騷擾、盯哨、尾隨女生每天發生。跟主管機關反應,得到的通常是原住民很熱情 ! “很熱情所以性騷擾、盯哨、跟蹤、尾隨陌生女生????” 這種腦袋的邏輯是??? 個人的做法是遠離。
@daniellejoo950
@daniellejoo950 Күн бұрын
母系社會的族群應該不太會比父系社會那些族群還要會霸凌(DanielleGrace) 永遠都是唯一一個白人女生no others,所以我其實很排斥和父系社會族群的原住民往來 我不能說我姓Dickinson,因為大家會更猛烈攻擊我,說Grace or Hanna反而比較少被欺負 但是因為不教英文所以小時候被欺負嚴重到住醫院進急診室,現在還有泌尿系統的問題 每次看鏡子新聞拍美軍子弟紀錄片都會一直哭、潸潸落淚,不是沒有社工介入而是環境太不友善
@RC681102
@RC681102 Күн бұрын
你講的好像其他縣市都沒有發生過類似的事情似的,台北台中還有隨機殺人的,高雄也有人喊過,是不是乾脆離開台灣算了?有問題去解決問題,不要在這裡開地圖炮。
@magic32v7182
@magic32v7182 Күн бұрын
漢人吸毒、擄人勒贖斯票、分屍等等! 那漢人要不要消失在台灣啊!? 我是原住民,我非常怒霸凌人的畜生,我們原住民出這些垃圾我也很生氣! 畢竟我在都市唸書也是被閩南人欺負,不管是身體還是言語的霸凌! 但我不會覺得所有閩南人都這麼王八! 我也為這混血女孩感到心疼! 很抱歉原住民這樣對她!
@millyleo5695
@millyleo5695 23 сағат бұрын
@@RC681102你又不是當事人,不會講話就閉嘴
@sloburber
@sloburber 17 сағат бұрын
跟是不是原住民沒關係啦,原住民很多很正常,漢人很多也很噁,用種族來歧視最噁。
@holmiumh
@holmiumh Күн бұрын
她真的是一個人看遍了台灣很多的問題. 希望她能找到自己的平安. 附帶一提, 美國很多嬉皮士的後代都面臨類似的問題, 父母永遠都像是青少年, 從來沒把後代的發展放在心上. 美國很多流浪漢都是嬉皮士的後代.
@yyll7142
@yyll7142 21 сағат бұрын
她繼父很有錢,不可能是嬉皮士
@hwasan86
@hwasan86 20 сағат бұрын
@@yyll7142 女主有說她生父是嬉皮
@tyrantsean
@tyrantsean Күн бұрын
以前去同學原住民部落 拚酒一個晚上 有一個瘦小的男子 整晚都不起眼 一直到早上大家還還在宿醉 他卻說他要去上班 滿身酒氣得穿上衣服 嗯 警察制服......
@mcgogo1984
@mcgogo1984 Күн бұрын
所以隋棠之前去偏鄉小學宣導性教育,就是因為偏鄉沒有足夠的學習支援,封閉的環境,造就一群病態的人。
@Zendaya.Schuhlein
@Zendaya.Schuhlein Күн бұрын
I feel her and she has been so strong. Thank you for sharing us the story.
@jade_mark
@jade_mark Күн бұрын
First say sorry! Thank you for sharing your experience. You are not the only one. I don’t think it’s a surprise. Taiwan is like this. Taiwan is political, and it has also been affected by it, and achievements have become two extremes. Don't think that this has nothing to do with the growth experience you mentioned; rather, it is because there are ignorant people. Modern Taiwanese feel this way, which is really a kind of ignorance. I cheer for the people of Taiwan to come forward! I feel sorry for her, come on! Now Taiwan has made a lot of progress... 抱歉!她的過去遭遇,跟是不是外國人血統,根本無關。即便是現代,還是需要、為台灣人民主加油👍
@林阿力克
@林阿力克 16 сағат бұрын
很多老師都是披著羊皮的狼,我媽是基督徒,很小她就提醒我地位高的人品德不一定好,教會裏也會有壞人,所以小時候有一陣子媽媽會叫我戴有口哨的項鍊。
@raininthesouth
@raininthesouth Күн бұрын
Taiwanese education system seriously failed this girl. Someone need to call CPS on her parents too. She went through so much, but major respect for her toughing it through and turning her pain into art.
@劉兆崴-h7c
@劉兆崴-h7c Күн бұрын
Could you explain what "CPS" stands for?
@raininthesouth
@raininthesouth Күн бұрын
@@劉兆崴-h7c Child Protective Service = 兒童保護服務。
@劉兆崴-h7c
@劉兆崴-h7c Күн бұрын
@@raininthesouth 十分感謝。
@智程楊-q9b
@智程楊-q9b Күн бұрын
加油!你是這麼堅強、勇敢,自己面對生命,相信你未來是美好的,祝福你!
@Terry19640621
@Terry19640621 Күн бұрын
關於訪談中談及的議題,希望當地的教育、社會、文化當局能正視片中所說的一切,真的是很讓人訝異~
@liebfraumilch3518
@liebfraumilch3518 Күн бұрын
這個訪談太珍貴了,謝謝!
@jeychen5888
@jeychen5888 Күн бұрын
我讀過六個國小, 我爸爸從我小時候就開始不斷地交女朋友外遇, 他根本不回家。 幾年前他將近八十歲, 與一個幾乎小他一半年紀的女人結婚了, 他的另一個女友就跑到他家要跳樓鬧自殺, 直到我出現才沒有跳樓。 而我媽媽也無法接受並且精神長期衰弱無法照顧我。 還好我小學就相信了上帝, 才從聖經學做人處世。 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Vickiehou
@Vickiehou 21 сағат бұрын
你的大哥是耶穌👍
@jeychen5888
@jeychen5888 21 сағат бұрын
@@Vickiehou 老爸是上帝!
@陳建成-i5o
@陳建成-i5o 14 сағат бұрын
聖經就是教導人們反省及認識自己,認識自己才能跟別人相處,你很棒完成人生的大部分的事情,對你感到敬佩!
@jeychen5888
@jeychen5888 11 сағат бұрын
@@陳建成-i5o 這是我生命一路上充滿神蹟! 榮耀歸於上帝!
@陳建成-i5o
@陳建成-i5o 11 сағат бұрын
@@jeychen5888 我也堅信,愈謙虛為懷的人,會受上帝及眾神明的眷顧的,所謂物與類聚吧!
@黃鳳琴-k7q
@黃鳳琴-k7q Күн бұрын
在推特上面,有個醫師本來對在偏鄉部落從醫感到高興到真正落實服務後,才知道這些人有多令人不喜歡。討厭的事情很多。她都想離開了,因為心累。
@liuanne8625
@liuanne8625 Күн бұрын
心疼她的遭遇
@artsilentroad
@artsilentroad Күн бұрын
恐懼 悲傷 無能為力 ....等等等 OMG 這些都是最糟的感受
@JonProphet111
@JonProphet111 Күн бұрын
怎麼聽起來很像 Hillbilly Elegy 的故事,少了毒品而已。
@bigbrother1211
@bigbrother1211 23 сағат бұрын
對 社經條件跟地域人口狀況,影響大於文化、種族因素
@star727798
@star727798 Күн бұрын
That’s fucked up. sorry to hear your bullying story..
@VickyHfc
@VickyHfc Күн бұрын
她的情形確實是在有不良父母的情況下又在偏鄉地區沒有老師和社會局幫忙照顧下的受害者,真的政府相關部門需要回頭再檢視原住民部落文化需要的關注。😭
@peanutworkshophuang5276
@peanutworkshophuang5276 Күн бұрын
沒 政府只照顧金主跟選票 偏鄉都是被犧牲的 這也是為何某些勢力可長期盤踞偏鄉
@黃鳳琴-k7q
@黃鳳琴-k7q Күн бұрын
​@@peanutworkshophuang5276他們的補助比平地人多哦。
@hsiu-huitsai5979
@hsiu-huitsai5979 Күн бұрын
@@peanutworkshophuang5276原鄉的候選人跟其他一樣嗎?高金是哪來的?長期有優勢的政黨又是哪一個?政府如何照顧這些只認特定政黨的原民部落?金主跟選票都不在執政黨這邊,你看清了嗎?
@林阿力克
@林阿力克 16 сағат бұрын
補助多,大多看的到吃不到
@springcity2008
@springcity2008 Күн бұрын
Very fascinating story and I believe this young girls story is going to help many young kids who may have the similar experience but are currently struggling. Bless her and everyone
@童美惠-i2f
@童美惠-i2f Күн бұрын
我家小孩不會欺負人,家教很嚴,想想自己被人欺負你覺得如何?
@nobucho5855
@nobucho5855 Күн бұрын
還好她還有唯一的優勢,就是白人血統white privilege 隨著她長大,這個社會會對她越來越好。 反之,在台灣如果是東南亞或是非洲混血,就算長大也幾乎沒辦法逆轉。 這個社會就是這麼偽善跟現實。
@2019009
@2019009 Күн бұрын
我人生的前半段可以理解他的求學過程,而後半段我理解了偏鄉教育制度下的偏差,我原住民朋友有一次喝醉說了你為什麼不上我?你一定是嫌棄我很髒對不對!他才說他幾乎被他家庭成員強盜過一輪…還有一次在台東,路邊一個男人叫他老婆把小孩放下來,他要打她,因為他老婆喝酒喝到喂米酒給小朋友喝,當時整個場景真的超級魔幻
@花君-n2e
@花君-n2e Күн бұрын
我到底聽了什麼。 超級傻眼😢
@蕭秀美-c2y
@蕭秀美-c2y Күн бұрын
真心希望即使他是混血兒外表像外國人但他們有一半台灣血統台灣長大小孩教好不要讓他們欺負他們,誰都不希望自己是被欺負的那個
@henrykenyon311
@henrykenyon311 22 сағат бұрын
As the father of a mixed kid (now four years old) whose marriage also fell apart when my daughter was only two, this is my worst nightmare. Fear of an outcome like this has been why I have refused to walk away from my daughter’s life, even though it meant making many personal sacrifices. We have to make sacrifices for our children: that’s how it works. Life throws us things we didn’t expect. In this young woman’s case, it seems like the adults in her life were more interested in their own needs and not her well-being. The stepfather, mother, and father all seem to have failed her. And sadly, the education and social services system don’t seem to have helped much, either. My heart goes out to her.
@heyjojo1998
@heyjojo1998 Күн бұрын
I am glad Art becomes her tool for the healing. The parents are terrible and they should take care of their girls. 😭😭😭
@清風-c7v
@清風-c7v Күн бұрын
台灣偏鄉原來還有這樣的家庭.政府不知道在幹嘛?
@王少翔-v3s
@王少翔-v3s Күн бұрын
沒有政黨輪替的地方一切都會被淹滅,我並非刻意指目前花東兩地,也非特指藍綠,只希望台灣每個角落都能沒有被遺忘的人!
@基督白騎士科學隊
@基督白騎士科學隊 13 сағат бұрын
@@王少翔-v3s 花東地區不是叢林好嘛!!你是已經有刻板印象了,你這人絕對沒去過花蓮。花蓮火車站每日人流量可是有至少10萬人的地方,同時當地市區跟台中市沒差別
@張玉玲-v5s
@張玉玲-v5s Күн бұрын
她媽媽被PUA
@minyangjean3496
@minyangjean3496 Күн бұрын
偏鄉的人真的很弱勢,尤其是在一些政府機構管不到的地區。
@wynn002
@wynn002 Күн бұрын
不知道要講甚麼.......這一切當然是你爸爸媽媽的錯 希望你能成功,也希望你的成功能夠讓你脫離憂鬱的痛苦
@hb6sh3tl4e
@hb6sh3tl4e Күн бұрын
混血學渣翻身日誌嗎?😊 很高興女主能有這麼勵志人生故事
@wenmartin1515
@wenmartin1515 Күн бұрын
剛好正在讀´我,刀槍不入´,類似的際遇,翻轉的人生
@chienlee7747
@chienlee7747 21 сағат бұрын
台灣早期的學教與 不少家庭教育 是惡劣的, 即使現在, 學校也大量存在包庇
@openax9328
@openax9328 23 сағат бұрын
對妳的淒慘幼年感到傷心,祝福與希望女主角能成功克服人生每個境遇。
@cheneric27
@cheneric27 Күн бұрын
😮😮😮😢😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤
@abbabbabbac7439
@abbabbabbac7439 Күн бұрын
100%口誤 她應該是在講霧鹿國小 第一、霧鹿國小才是海拔800左右 第二、初鹿是卑南族不是布農族
@Fei0503
@Fei0503 20 сағат бұрын
全班布農的小學應該只有南投才有。
@abbabbabbac7439
@abbabbabbac7439 20 сағат бұрын
他都講台東了你還猜南投XD
@Fei0503
@Fei0503 20 сағат бұрын
@@abbabbabbac7439 所以我就很困惑,台東到底哪裡有全班布農族的部落啊!但高山嚮導工作的確南投布農族比卑南族更擅長。
@abbabbabbac7439
@abbabbabbac7439 20 сағат бұрын
@@Fei0503 台東也有布農族 延平鄉,海端鄉都是 全班都布農族也是可能的 具歷史來說布農族的確是生活在高山的沒錯 所以他們的腿比較適合
@mergelg317
@mergelg317 Күн бұрын
祝她往後一切順利幸福
@walterwang7
@walterwang7 Күн бұрын
台灣有很多黑暗之處
@Dancinginthesnow737
@Dancinginthesnow737 Күн бұрын
Will she consider moving to Canada in the future? Cuz she probably has a Canadian citizenship as her father is a Canadian and maybe moving to another place could help a lot.
@huiyeh8412
@huiyeh8412 23 сағат бұрын
台灣這種霸凌層出不窮!!這世代還有霸凌同學且老師不處裡的事情真的很驚訝!還是台東偏鄉的教育制度有問題?
@康乃武
@康乃武 Күн бұрын
太可惡了
@廖嘉豐-f9m
@廖嘉豐-f9m Күн бұрын
喜歡妳的愛台 妳是台灣美女
@林澄宜
@林澄宜 18 сағат бұрын
Nice to meet you ❤Claire
@LarryNg-mx8qz
@LarryNg-mx8qz Күн бұрын
this is good content
@manbat-kc5oc
@manbat-kc5oc Күн бұрын
這集看了之後心情比較沈重,女主人公的成長經歷暴露了很多台灣的社會問題:原住民的教育資源不足;混血青少年在台灣部分被歧視;台灣教育制度離歐美的多元化教育模式還有很大改進空間,學生學習壓力普遍過大,學習成績是唯一衡量價值標準;原住民立委高金素梅和台東地區民意代表對相對偏遠地區教育關注不夠⋯⋯
@Nosyson
@Nosyson Күн бұрын
說實話我每次看到高金上新聞我都很好奇這個人為什麼會當民代
@yvonne4430
@yvonne4430 20 сағат бұрын
這也不是幾人之力可以扭轉的
@ellyma3759
@ellyma3759 19 сағат бұрын
台中偏遠地區,當地的警察都是當地人擔任,發生事故的家庭可是他的親親完全被壓下來請問一下,上面的人怎麼會知道,如果不是這次訪問我也不敢相信有這種事情的發生!!😢
@plan360
@plan360 Күн бұрын
Truth be told.
@MarkLOWO
@MarkLOWO Күн бұрын
相信有一天妳會成功的😄 加油加油
@dontsai1684
@dontsai1684 23 сағат бұрын
What a fucked up childhood! So sorry for you. I am glad that you turned out Okay...ish. No, seriously, you do great.
@廖嘉豐-f9m
@廖嘉豐-f9m Күн бұрын
祝福妳能 心想事成 自在快樂
@kiddyzheng
@kiddyzheng Күн бұрын
她英文太地道,比很多在这个频道里出现的混血孩子而言,完全不像一个在台湾教育环境里长大的孩子。而且台湾原住民的环境听起来跟美国印第安人差不多。
@GBlostplan
@GBlostplan 23 сағат бұрын
英文真(好)😊
@jerry566sh
@jerry566sh Күн бұрын
縱然遇到那麼多不可思議的爛事,您還是找到自己的舞台,衷心佩服及祝福您!
@yuyuchen1683
@yuyuchen1683 20 сағат бұрын
The Taiwanese government broke its promise and did not give the indigenous peoples the right of autonomy; it also failed to equally distribute taxes to the indigenous peoples, allowing them to live a life of fend for themselves, which led to human trafficking. The indigenous peoples are the owners of this land, and there is no The reason is to pay taxes to the new government, this is my opinion
@tc-kq9rt
@tc-kq9rt 17 сағат бұрын
我覺得台灣人有一種很錯誤的觀念,唸書=有錢,事實上我認識多數的有錢人(我指的是一年幾億收入的),很多都不是會唸書的,但一定是熟悉社會運作的人,台灣社會將分數與收入或金錢與成功掛鉤,造成了社會階級的存在,所以這才是那些小孩會欺負她的主要原因,但我也必須說她的經歷讓她成熟,以後會過得更好,台灣人真的很不獨立。 學習絕對不等於收入,在國外幾乎不會刻意的去強調學歷,我的妹婿兩個都是美國博士畢業,但很多朋友根本不知道,我不是在說唸書不好還是賺錢不好,而是很多台灣人會把這兩點無限放大用來評價一個人,所以讓那些努力唸書也唸不到滿意的人就會對自己沒自信,我真的很討厭這種風氣。
@曾永浤-r4v
@曾永浤-r4v Күн бұрын
😲😳🤔️😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
@mikelee5658
@mikelee5658 Күн бұрын
聽了都覺得害怕😢
@magic32v7182
@magic32v7182 Күн бұрын
這學校在幹什麼?
@etkisskiss
@etkisskiss Күн бұрын
學著堅強的童年…
@chienya
@chienya Күн бұрын
她的繼父是誰?
@yhsung1201
@yhsung1201 Күн бұрын
繼父外國人?媽媽原住民?希望這位女孩可以越好越好
@danielc5047
@danielc5047 Күн бұрын
妳可以看影片的附註說明
@Musunivrs
@Musunivrs Күн бұрын
07:03繼父就是典型PUA範例
@Origin.H
@Origin.H 12 сағат бұрын
這年輕人也經歷太多事了, 但仔細想想, 這些故事都發生在部落裡面 只是沒人知道而已.........
@mr.niceguyyang1597
@mr.niceguyyang1597 Күн бұрын
很棒的女孩,柔軟也堅毅,勇敢也聰明。you will be great in the coming future..
@justin_t
@justin_t 22 сағат бұрын
I think there's one part you forgot to bleep out the swear word.
@TW_JEYA
@TW_JEYA 2 сағат бұрын
Claire太辛苦了,很高興她已經離開那個有毒的環境 也讓人反思原民偏鄉到底發生了什麼事
@賴思岑-b3d
@賴思岑-b3d 37 секунд бұрын
希望妳之後能快樂生活,活出自己的人生。感謝這集的介紹,我們應該尊重彼此
@yhsung1201
@yhsung1201 22 сағат бұрын
她的故事令人心疼,希望父母親失去功能的家庭,可以有重要的第三者出現接住他們
@郭銀河-b8v
@郭銀河-b8v 19 сағат бұрын
聽到她的敘述,這種事情發生在台灣,讓人心裡挺難過。社會局竟然都沒有介入?
@Blazelightning-k4l
@Blazelightning-k4l 17 сағат бұрын
對於她小時候的遭遇感到難過和憤怒 她的家長和老師實在非常失職
@TTTT-my6xv
@TTTT-my6xv 12 сағат бұрын
如果她說的是真的,那社會局跟學校看到的不該立即介入調查嗎?
@James0810
@James0810 20 сағат бұрын
這個故事太特別了,希望妳能化為動力。好好生活。祝福,加油。
@該慢慢還是快快
@該慢慢還是快快 13 сағат бұрын
長大了才說 ?妳現在一樣可以檢舉他們 讓事情公開。
@Edh1
@Edh1 3 сағат бұрын
So heartbreaking to hear her story 😭
@RD-ye3zq
@RD-ye3zq 5 сағат бұрын
無法想像,這樣的繼父在美國會被關到死為止
@ran9080
@ran9080 Күн бұрын
然而,要看清真相却很难,因为你被编程为相信你的编程。你的编程似乎是真的,它是根深蒂固的、自动的、令人信服的。你的编程非常有说服力!要发现你的编程的虚假性,你必须愿意检查它并质疑它。这不是一件容易的事;迈出这一步可能会非常可怕。质疑你的编程就像质疑你的根基。质疑编程会让你站不住脚。如果你这样做,会发生什么? 但要摆脱编程,还需要做更多。仅仅确信你的编程是错误的是不够的,因为编程仍然每时每刻都在运行。编程不会因为你了解了它的真相而停止。它会像往常一样继续下去。 为了让编程停止或不再控制你,必 须将其一点一点地拆解。编程产生的错误信念必须一一被看作是错误的,时时刻刻。这就是工作,这必然需要时间。 这项工作要求你意识到你脑海中的想法。但这还不够,因为你还必须看到那些想法是错误的,并停止相信它们。然后,你还必须做一件事:将注意力转向当下,而不是头脑中的声音。因此,摆脱编程涉及四件事: 1. 了解头脑中的声音是痛苦的根源,它不是你的声音,而是你的编程的声音(这是容易的部分), 2. 意识到思想流中的想法,我一直称之为你头脑中的声音。 这种意识是在冥想中培养出来的, 3. 探究你仍然相信的思想流中的想法,直到你确信它们不真实、无用或不值得你关注,以及 4. 将你的注意力从思想领域转移到现实生活,转移到当下。 这种脱离思想的能力也是在冥想中培养出来的。 冥想对这个过程至关重要。冥想是摆脱头脑中的声音并接受其感知的解药。 冥想培养了拆解程序所需的技能。如果没有每天练习冥想,脱离头脑中的声音的过程将需要更长的时间,甚至可能是一生的时间。 冥想将以无与伦比的方式加速你的情感和精神进化。
@yyll7142
@yyll7142 21 сағат бұрын
再換一個新電腦
@帥哥華
@帥哥華 Күн бұрын
原住民的國小 小朋友會這麼壞 都是家長 跟老師學校 原住民現在很壞的人越來越多
@shypxh
@shypxh 22 сағат бұрын
可以参考中国的彝族部落,历程很相似:现代性对原始社会形态的虹吸与破坏效应/汉人对非汉人的强势同化
@stephenlauco
@stephenlauco 14 сағат бұрын
霸凌,種族歧視,性騷擾。還有個變態的繼父。。。。
@ilphi08
@ilphi08 Күн бұрын
原住民自己也是弱勢族群 怎麼會去歧視混血兒?
@Mei_x2n-i7r
@Mei_x2n-i7r Күн бұрын
今天看到這真實故事讓我很詫異,我ㄧ直認為樂觀的原住民,平時也很會說笑話,非常時期也會有物資進入部落,應該是生活很不錯,雖然,覺得家家都有本難唸的經,但家裡如果是軍公教人員有房有車的不在少數,少部份原住民不是軍公教人員生活上會倍感生活壓力,在平地的我們周遭也會有人生活不如意喝酒,造成行為脫序,而我接觸過的原住民大部分是公務人員,就算工廠做也沒那麼悲慘啊,只還是改不了愛喝小米酒的習慣,不過我也看過因愛喝酒而失去軍人工做的,他們的父母親為生活到都市做建築、、小孩就放山區或學校住宿,政府這方面做得不錯,但就常看到他們的表面,內心是外人看不到的,(他們原住民議員、、)應該再給弱勢家庭更多關照,(地方議員、、)加油,選了你們就是要為民服務,弱勢族群更需要你們,原住民朋友也應該讓自己變強大,才走得出困境,上帝永遠與你們同在
@teddylai886
@teddylai886 15 сағат бұрын
你的意思是漢人才能歧視人家嗎?奇怪的邏輯
@ilphi08
@ilphi08 14 сағат бұрын
@@teddylai886 不是這個意思 因為原住民長久下來被漢人歧視 所以更應該了解被歧視的遭遇 遇到像混血兒這種少數群體應該也要有同理心才對 就像之前美國疫情時期, 不少黑人跑去攻擊或歧視亞裔一樣 還有像不少華人痛恨被白人歧視, 卻喜歡尼哥尼哥掛在嘴邊講得很開心 這也是讓人難過和生氣的一個現象 不管國內外 很多被歧視的群體, 會出現去歧視比自己更少數或更弱勢的群體, 來達成一種扭曲的優越感錯覺
@Copernicus_Song
@Copernicus_Song 19 сағат бұрын
這是什麼恐怖故事 太誇張了吧 嚇爆
@k22163939
@k22163939 20 сағат бұрын
這集也太hardcore了吧!台東政府單位該來看這一集
@翁世勳-m9s
@翁世勳-m9s 11 сағат бұрын
可否請問是哪一所學校如此糟糕?
@Christina-gj5fc
@Christina-gj5fc 17 сағат бұрын
祝福你未來越來越棒,有去看妳影片喔!
@KaelfromTW
@KaelfromTW 8 сағат бұрын
美眉 妮超酷的!!!!
@kdooo563
@kdooo563 16 сағат бұрын
英文能力ㄅ棒
@MrSeesisher
@MrSeesisher 19 сағат бұрын
必須請政府正視校園霸凌
@臺灣人不是中國人
@臺灣人不是中國人 19 сағат бұрын
臺灣社會需改進。
@team-taiwan
@team-taiwan 8 сағат бұрын
所以來台南吧
@Y雲-j3h
@Y雲-j3h 19 сағат бұрын
送給她❤
@ellyma3759
@ellyma3759 19 сағат бұрын
希望這部片能夠讓當地的教育當局,警察單位,一起徹查,性騷,性侵,霸凌這些部分都該徹查,還有有學校校長老師全部該查到底,包辟的警察單位也要徹察🔥
@leoccc
@leoccc 19 сағат бұрын
花東是什麼ㄍㄨㄟˇ地方?
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