A Metal Drummer’s Guide To Inner Kindness | Peter Wildoer | TEDxLandskrona

[@krzysztofwaclawski9002]

Took me a while to understand that my idols practiced a lot to get there. Now the key for me is balance joy and challenge on drums. Remember that extreme metal drumming is like a proper athletic skill

[@carlosoliver1887]

Look at his physique lol he looks like an athlete

[@jerryskid420]

You'd be better served by learning how to drum instead of learning blast beats like this guy does.

[@krzysztofwaclawski9002]

@@jerryskid420 thanks for your concern, actually I'm not pursuing blast beats and that type of drumming, there's something limiting about it for sure

[@perlundgren7797]

@@jerryskid420 If that's your takeaway from the playing in this video, I can't help but wonder: What do you think blast beats are?

[@matthewshelley1365]

​@@jerryskid420you'd be a lot better off silent

[@DrProgNerd]

The fact that he was one of a handful of drummers to be asked to audition for the job in Dream Theater is an enormous compliment in itself. They are an incredibly technical band. Stepping into the shoes of their (then) departed drummer was the musical equivalent of climbing Mt. Everest. Most drummers would view being *asked* to audition as one of the highest honors of their career.

[@SuperballBG]

The audition was just PR basically. They were going to go with Mangini anyway. Not saying this to take away from any of the drummers that took part in that, they're all great in their own way.

[@daffanurfauzan1220]

He was James LaBrie's solo drummer, so yeah not that difficult to ask for participation in DT audition

[@chrisl2466]

In my opinion, Pete was the 3rd best drummer after Marco and Mike.

[@Voltaphonic]

​@@chrisl2466Correct me if this is wrong but I remember him messing up a bit on the dance of eternity

[@zmlhezmlhe4843]

​@@SuperballBGi have read somewhere that it was supposed to be Minneman but they didnt allow to do side projects so he declined.

[@OfficialLSDStudios]

As a metal drummer it's absolutely AWESOME to see metal drums and people like Peter to get the spotlight they deserve being on such a large platform, it's such a technical and rewarding art, and I love the recognition metal is getting lately! Such inspiring words, thanks for sharing your journey Peter!🤘

[@b3naqua]

As a huge fan of both Darkane and TEDx, this is an extremely satisfying combo 🤘🏼

[@darkkrenaissance42]

his work on Old Mans Child ~Slaves of the World was unbelievable

[@carlosruizesparzadiazcontr1259]

I'm a drummer, 53 years old, and i play since my 16. Peter is just AMAZING!

[@BrandonGrieve]

Peter is being humble. He IS a world class drummer and human being. Loved this.

[@Pigsandpies1984]

As a 54 year old amateur drummer, this hits close to home. Social media can take anything you love, and make you feel hopelessly incompetent. There is always a six year old kid who's way better than you.

[@lobbyrobby]

I'm 43 and I've been learning for 1 year now. I was literally just telling my friend about watching little kids play the drums and feeling like it's not worth me trying anymore.

[@brunovanhoose6854]

I talked to a guy who is a mathcore drummer and I told him that I struggle with odd things and he said he struggles with linear patterns. I was completely blown away at his response being most music is linear. I thought I was just the majority and he was some sort of music genius, but everyone has strength and weakness. It's more important to learn from each other than to compare ourselves.

[@criops]

There’s something about knowing that the best players might be in their garage, playing music only a few hundred people will ever hear.

[@gregfender]

Don’t let those kids discourage you. If you’re having fun you’re doing it right. 🍻

[@deth.thiana]

I for one am more impressed with people who have a job and responsibilities on top of music, pay for their own gear, lessons, rent, and have an actual life story, faced adversity and overcame it. The greatest music tells a story and is an expression of yourself and your truth, and what story can you tell when you are 10 and aren't a fully developed person yet and all the things you experienced are your mama's house and elementary school? It's more than just notes played accurately at fast speed. Songwriting and improvisation is where adults could truly shine and express themselves. And yeah you can just have fun and just play whatever you like whenever you like, and there are no parents who yell at you behind the scenes and try to use you for views and clout 😅

[@zhcoop]

Be kind and present. Present is a gift 💚

[@jas_bataille]

As a jazz drummer, you, in fact, truly are one of the most exceptional drummer I've ever heard. I thought this was one single song, the way everything floated. I didn't saw a single mistake and your metric modulations blew my mind. I rarely ever listen to metal - but I must hear more from you and your band!!!

[@patjean8038]

Same for me ! It’s my best ! And im not a big fans of métal . But From him yes !

[@-Ruben]

From metal, Kriegsmachine have great drums 😁 They aren't the most complex, just super fun and well done. Maybe you'd like Residual Blight.

[@brunovanhoose6854]

I listen to both and you would be surprised how closely these two genres really are. Currently dipping my toes into mathcore stuff and I realize I have so much more to learn

[@Cshack93]

⁠​⁠same here I listen to all genres and love jazz but metal is one of my favorites. For what it’s worth I highly recommend checking out Dream Theater, Polyphia, Animals as Leaders, Protest the Hero and August Burns Red. Just to name some great listens if you haven’t heard them yet

[@colbykinney5633]

​@@Cshack93Animals As Leaders is gonna blow his mind lol. Rivers Of Nihil is great too if ya haven't heard of them

[@ianjohnson9077]

Darkane is amazing and Wildoer is one of the best drummers in all of metal! I've loved their music since 2002 and man, I really hope they get another chance to tour America some day! Seeing them would be a dream come true! Awesome Ted talk and I loved him sharing his wisdom!

[@Cantstandtherock]

The discussion about competence/confidence is so true. This year marks almost fifty years of being a “musician” and I was never supported by my family so they kept my confidence low my entire life. When I finally escaped their negativity I was already trained to always feel inadequate so even when my friends and other musicians gave me praise I still, to this day, feel inadequate. I have done thousands of gigs and had some amazing times playing music but even last week, at the age of 57, I played a gig and left feeling like it wasn’t good. As a parent I want my son to be supported and I realize how much damage the negativity my parents instilled into me for life. If you’re a parent don’t do what mine did because they truly sucked as humans!

[@DEADLINETV]

Peter is an amazing drummer, who played on some of my all time favourite albums! He is incredibly creative. Thanks Peter for this excellent talk! A message we all need to hear.

[@cmadrid]

I really needed this. You've been an inspiration as a drummer and now you give us an important life lesson. Thank you Peter.

[@ShannonLucasDrums]

Big fan Peter. I wish more drummers would talk about these types of things. Thank you.

[@MJ-dw7lc]

This talk from Peter was absolutely fantastic ! What a very wise human, and awesome drummer. Everybody that watches this will be better for doing so. I too am a drummer,and I am also super hard on myself. After seeing and listening to Peter, i understand that we all need to be a lot more kind to ourselves. Thank you so much for sharing your story Peter, very enlightening and positive. I am going to try hardest to be more kind to myself from now on 🙏🏻😊👍🏻

[@gregfender]

One of my absolute favorite drummers for many years. This was so awesome to see.

[@Erix77]

This is gold! Peter is an absolutely phenomenal drummer, and obviously a great person.

[@Jaisabaapwaisabeta]

Been into Metal since the last 90s. Never thought I would see a drummer from the metal community speak at TedX

[@drums4life80]

Absolutely incredible drummer and so humble! 🤘🥃🔥🥁

[@fritterskitter9125]

Love the humour and warmth in this talk and such great advice.

[@joshbolton7118]

I've always known I can write music. It's all I do when not working. I think all musicians know they are musicians in their own way. I'm 36. And listening/writing music is what I need to share to those who need to hear it. I've doubted my ability for a very long time. BUT my friends and family kept my chin and motivated me. 2 weeks ago I started to see the small things collectively and slowly getting bigger with music. Working as a stage hand. Inspiring people to learn. And then this video

[@wtandrews5347]

Your work with James LaBrie was phenomenal! Much love, Peter. 🎉

[@GrassRoots-fp4ty]

Amazing!!!!!! And, speaks right to my heart and soul right now!!! From one Peter to another, thank you so much for this. It transcends drumming. Just be kind to yourself!!!

[@mattsakko7832]

I must have listened to Crossing the Rubicon by Armageddon 500 times. The drumming on that album still inspires me.

[@TheReincarnatedDeath]

Is t that Daniel Erlandsson, also in Arch Enemy?

[@mattsakko7832]

@@TheReincarnatedDeath Nope. It was Peter Wildoer, who drummed for Arch Enemy on Stigmata (also a great album).

[@theadamblock]

Wildoer is one of the drummers you immediately know when you hear them and that is such a poweful thing, not only being great but being unique as well.

[@chrisl2466]

This was my 3rd time watching this talk. You can apply this concept to any job, hobby, and/or professional development. Very insightful and relatable. Thank you for being you and uploading this talk.

[@davidsorge7008]

sow TRVE thank you Peter for sharing this GOLDEN KNOWLEDGE

[@zacharyseibert6788]

Peter is a BEAST.

[@Kitanaii]

The painting analogy is so great!!! You are great!!! Thank you sooo much for the talk!

[@tiagoshade]

Amazing words!! Sometimes I beat myself too… focusing too much on the small mistakes and not looking at the big picture.

[@michalwlosik3544]

You're an inspiration Peter! Never expected to see you on TEDx, this is a must-watch

[@isolateddemon9438]

I'VE ALWAYS BEEN EXTREMELY THOROUGH.THE OLDER I GET THE MORE PERFECTIONIST I AM.CURIOUSLY, MY MUSIC JOURNEY STARTED AS A DRUMMER THEN I BECAME AN EFL TEACHER, SO MUSIC AND ENGLISH ARE MY PASSION...ROCK ON!!!

[@Supershy_84]

Well deserved. Peter is an exceptional drummer!

[@moisescrespo2132]

This was so needed at the perfect time.

[@Dark-Sky-Park]

These are very wise words from a great guy. I've been a full-time rock musician for a long time and I learn new musical things every day. Whether I can actually play them is another matter! 🤣

[@ChaosPootato]

This dude came THIS close to being Dream Theater's drummer, one of the most renowned metal bands. He's more than qualified to be called a world class drummer, Darkane is awesome and he is too

[@kaakatin]

I needed this. I was just in a band where the atmosphere was super critical. After pretty much every rehearsal and gig the bass player told me that my drumming was not accurate. Not surprisingly, the band broke up, as no one reached their perfectionistic goals.

[@frayedsanity]

What a way to start a TED talk!!! WOW!!! And I only started watching it! So COOL!!!!!

[@supreethkurthukoti9851]

Thank you! As a drummer in my late 30s trying to progress, this made my day ❤.

[@lassala]

Great talk! I hadn't heard of Peter until his DT audition. Out of all the drummers, he was the one that stood out for me, not only for his playing skills, but also his attitude. I then looked him up and found the album he recorded with James LaBrie, Impermanent Resonance, which I've listed to a LOT since then. I also found Darkane, and it's another band that stayed on my list. And this talk made me a bigger fan. :)

[@JanPatrickLucas]

That "tip hit it right on the head"! Thank you Peter! I relate to this entirely, and will be purchasing the album...sounds killer...but in a good "kind" of way of course.

[@captweirdbeard]

Peter is one of my all time favorite drummers. Of course there are drummers out there who could be considered "better" than him. But I love his playing because it's so unmistakably Peter. He has all the skill and creativity he needs to express himself meaningfully and uniquely on his instrument and it's always a joy to hear him play, whether on record or on stage. To top it off he seems like a great guy and easily the coolest teacher you could have. For anyone interested in more of his drumming, he did a phenomenal drum duet with Dirk Verbeuren (another drummer I highly rate) at a Meinl festival in 2013. Pure joy to listen to!

[@Jeschneider]

One of my favorite drummers of all time. Killer work & songs altogether with Darkane - and also Labrie. Still constantly listen to these albums to this day - Love you Peter!

[@gmorales.audio93]

Great talk, this dude is amazing.

[@9xqspx6]

Peter is an amazing drummer! I've first heard him play in 2001-2002 and recognized immediately that something special is going on on the drums. (Their Insanity album was too much for me at the time - fairly early on my metal journey -, but Expanding Senses quickly became and is still one of my favorite albums) Thank you for the joy you bring us with your music! PS. I'm happy Dream theater didn't snatch him up. I'm very happy with him in Darkane. :)

[@jasonshort1437]

Beautiful and inspiring stuff, thank you. Now I'm going to go play my drums!

[@michaeloehmen6989]

What an amazing, inspirational video.......this is something I definitely need a lot of work on, thank you for your wonderful insight 🤘🏼👍🏼

[@joshuaschmidinger3993]

This man is such a badass and cool dude 😎👌👏 I love his voice and playing with James labrie.

[@jasonlee3759]

Wonderfully put words from a wonderful man!! 🤘

[@sikkis4007]

It's funny that while he's propably been climbing the slope of enlightenment and stopped comparing himself to others, I've idolized and compared myself to him as a drummer. He was a huge inspiration for me when I was a beginner and I'll never forget the moment I heard his playing for the first time.

[@Landenburg]

Thank you Peter! I love you man! You're great!

[@mariasaysthings]

This is something I never expected to see. Love it! As a drummer and as a person

[@BahasaDrum]

Peter is such a unique metal drummer. Crazy

[@deth.thiana]

Focus on your own path unique to you. Great talk. Programmed drums and other instruments can be technically "perfect" but feel artificial, sometimes you want to keep the imperfections and your own touch 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🤘🤘🤘🤘

[@Cantstandtherock]

A 1 and a 2 and a bunch of 7/8/9’s! What a player! This is great stuff!

[@diegomonteirobatera]

Wonderful talk! Thank you from a fellow drummer.

[@oakandiron_]

Ted of all Ted’s fam Breeeeeh!!!

[@Raphaeldrums]

I love his style, his personality... I believe he is a great drummer because music isn't competition. Your style is unique, and you made some great songs. Greetings from Italy

[@stefanemanuelsson2201]

Thank you for the inspiration!

[@cfyves]

This is a fantastic talk.

[@rietijauhiainen907]

Thank You, Peter!

[@josephcrawley4281]

Thank you Peter!!!

[@paulmason6470]

A superb philosophy. 🙏🏻

[@JamesLivewire]

That snare sounds savage!!!

[@marcus.cramus]

Well, he didnt took the DT Gig, but James Labrie was smart enough to play hith him in his personal career, and the colab was amazing. Peter is a beast, and i am proud of his humble character .

[@MikeyTheVikey]

Can't tell you how much I relate to this. Great video

[@AudiophileTubes]

Excellent talk... thank you!

[@Pirates_of_the_Underground_I]

Mr. Wildoer, Not a drummer but have been fascinated with drumming since I was a kid, and even more so as becoming a Progger in 1977, and a Metalhead in 1981-82. And going through all the subgenres invented in my lifetime. I became a fan of yours when finding your debut album with Darkane ("Rusted Angel"). By the time Dream Theater was looking for a drummer to replace Mike Portnoy (co-founder of the band, and a phenomenal drummer and writer), and you were mentioned in the audition for the band, I was very excited for you! I thought YOU would be the perfect drummer to take DT in a new direction to give new life to the band. Virgil Donati & Marco Minnemann were my 2nd and 3rd choices, for the same reason. But I thought you had a sound and technique that DT's vocalist, James LaBrie, thought would be the right fit because of your contributions to his solo albums. I'm sure you are just as happy as us old fans that Portnoy is back with the band he started at the Berklee School of Music . . . but your life-lessons, experiences and being humble helped you to discover what YOU "give" to _others._ And in-turn you receive admiration and respect. This is not just for drummers, musicians . . . but anyone that needs help moving forward with what is in them, that may not be apparent yet, but needed a bit more nurturing and those life-lessons. We fall, we get up and try again, learn from our _habits_ and mistakes to find our "Bliss", and hopefully we are giving something special for those who will reciprocate it, and do the same in their own journey. - Thank you Peter, as an artist/illustrator and fan of various music.

[@sarcophage]

Well written, I appreciated reading that. And agree ! Especially about what ever that one band from Berkelee is ;)

[@isolateddemon9438]

YEAH!! AS A METAL MUSICIAN I MUST SAY THIS IS A BANGER😀🤘🏻🤘🏻

[@osanan]

Thanks, KZbin algorithm, for recommending me this video.

[@Ultimisband]

This is what I needed today

[@alexmanojmathews]

Absolutely brilliant

[@eyeexaggerate7687]

This is really great. I actually worked with a doc on the issue of ability and seeming stagnation. I used to think that mistakes shouldn’t happen but when I opened up to them that’s where I found the jazz in my playing, if that makes sense. Those *mistakes stopped me from gaining the rest of the expression - that’s a big fricken oops.

[@FullpowerStudio]

Thank you, Peter. I am fan of your drumming since the first Darkane album, and also the first Armageddon album. First thing I learnt from this is how to actually say your name properly. I’ve been saying it wrong for over 25 years 😝 You raise a lot of good points. I remember playing shows and walking off stage hanging my head in shame over mistakes I knew I made in the set, but then I would watch a video that got taken that night, and these micro-second mistakes that are corrected so fast actually seem indistinguishable. I think (especially live) don’t hyper focus and dwell on tiny slip ups. In the studio, maybe it’s a different case though 😅

[@czr7j9]

Yes if he was asked to audition for Dream Theater who probably the biggest prog metal band in the world who are known for their technical side he should be proud. And is definitely a world class drummer.

[@sacrotorsus777]

Great Speech indeed ❤❤

[@jessejames9149]

The first time i heard, Peter was on Arch Enemy's album Stigmata!

[@manolocorp]

Peter is not being kind to his guns; this guy is jacked at 50 💪😎

[@DavidOakesMusic]

I am without doubt the best drummer in my house... Ok I live alone.

[@Rg452]

Right on Peter 🤘

[@roloduarte5007]

Awesome!

[@UlfhedinnNorsk]

Dang! I am a huge fan of Peter Evildoer 😂🤘🏻. Endlessly talented drummer. No matter the genre or country 😌👍🏻. Very first time I heard Peter was Darkane’s “Rusted Angel” and I was hooked 😉. His work with James LaBrie was excellent as well (“I will not brake” being my favorite song where Peter sings as well)

[@chkchrycla]

Awesome....Really liked this one.❤🤘

[@chrisb9242]

That was great! Clear, funny and entertaining.

[@sixsixsix.]

He just converted the crowd to Death Metal🤘

[@JavierGarcia-kb1no]

Great Great Drummer!! Dakane Rules!! 🤘🤘

[@MagusSound]

👏🏼👏🏼

[@1llusion344]

MEGA REPRESENT!!!!!!

[@primushimself604]

Amazing!

[@ignacionavarroespinosa]

loved it

[@tiagoshade]

Nice Medley!

[@zodiacmanan]

Awesome Peter Wildoer is awesome. Also today i learnt how to pronounce his name correctly.

[@ZachBratland]

🔥🔥🥁

[@jamesbach7289]

❤

[@JaysonSherlock]

Peter, you ARE precisely one of the truly exceptional drummers out there. Possibly the best drummer in metal today.

[@RileyHell]

This is so cool \m/

[@bixs_drums]

This is amazing talk; I share the very same opinions! (y)

[@Benjamin-om3ih]

What's the song he plays in the start?

[@EricCampbellUAV]

the drummer for Rotting Christ is a saint