Telling My Family About My Mental Health Condition

We asked four people about their mental health and family relationships. What they didn't know is that their family members were listening in.
If you are struggling with your mental health, please remember that support is always there if you need it. Speak out, ask for help from your loved ones or mental health professionals, or find out more about resources and services related to mental health on Belle, Beyond the Label helpbot go.gov.sg/belle-helpbot.
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00:00 - Introduction
00:45 - What would you say has been your biggest source of worry or stress?
02:15 - Tell me more about the kind of worries or stress your face because of this.
04:15 - How have you been coping with these struggles?
06:31 - Who are you closest to in your family?
07:53 - What was it like growing up with your family member?
09:28 - The Reveal
10:00 - What has he/she told you about their mental health
12:25 - What happened when they tried to open up about their mental health to you?
14:03 - What do you do to help each other feel supported at home?
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[@TEAMNOC]

Who is your greatest source of support in your family? ♥️

[@henguin4289]

Everyone

[@Masraf1407]

Everyone in my life

[@nicothepro2615]

My mom always take good care of me and always ask whether i have headache. I mental condition that i have is tension headache… so i hope that everyone has a good life and give up on urself😕😊

[@aashesprod.34]

My chair because it anchors me to study and do my homework and also play video 🎮

[@sxlllvxxaaa]

@Giselle Omar same...🙃

[@filmschen]

the fact that aiman has been through SO MUCH yet he still had to face, and did overcome, all the hate during the knockout season. respect. 💙

[@reacttoyn..4950]

*I pray who ever reads this becomes successful , And we can all arise.*

[@jirehchoo2151]

I pray that whoever reads this, Jesus shall come to them, and he shall give peace unto all.

[@kncnsm]

Thumbs up to Aiman, Aiken, Sikeen, and Grace for being brave on sharing their vulnerabilities. Everyone has life struggles. If everyone can be nicer, it would make this world a much better place. 😍

[@venti8100]

i suffer from depression, anxiety, borderline personality disorder, ocd, adhd and ptsd (ik i have a lot of issues) without any support from my family. i was kinda losing hope that people, especially parents, would look beyond the stigma that surrounds mental health but this helped me regain faith that someone irl one day will understand what i'm going through. thank you noc

[@TEAMNOC]

We may not be able to do much but we're here to entertain you weekly! Fighting!

[@jirehchoo2151]

Hello! Here to say that whatever you're going through, Someone does understand you, Your thoughts, Your struggles, Your weaknesses. He knows just what you need even before you say a word, Peace so unexplainable, Love so undeniable, Jesus Christ is always with you and will help you, If you call on his name he will come to you, Though you may have lost all hope, But if you place your hope and faith in him, He will restore the hope in your life. He has not come to condemn you, but to save and help you. If you are willing let him into your heart, and let him do your life's work. God bless!

[@venti8100]

@@wuzz i prefer not to disclose it in public, as it's triggering for some people.

[@H3LlO3vEryone]

Damn you've undergone alot, I hope things get better.

[@ivegotajarofdirt1534]

This channel consists of everything It makes us emotional It makes us laugh the hell out And They kinda control our emotion through the video and give us life lesson sometimes

[@imaginepm21]

not to forget thought provoking and educational

[@pallrajpakhiaraj3601]

I cried watching this. And I was not surprised when aiman said he was diagnosed with depression and he wanted to suicide. Because all of us have hard times and one that breaks us the most... But if you look on the bright sight you will always have to think you will solve the problem that makes you crazy...

[@pallrajpakhiaraj3601]

Thank you Noc for sharing this with us 😔🥺

[@Joel-zi2ou]

@@pallrajpakhiaraj3601 thx for the heart noc it means a lot to me

[@Joel-zi2ou]

i am pall raj by the way which is my dad name and i told aiman he recently passed away

[@arabesque2222]

My heart melts slightly whenever Aiken calls out "mummy"... just like a little boy. Very sweet.

[@reacttoyn..4950]

*Whoever is reading this:* *Your skin isn't a paper don't cut it* *Your body isn't a book don't judge it* *Your heart isn't a door don't lock it* *Your life isn't a movie don't end it* *You are beautiful and don't let anyone bring you down* *Be you.. Stay safe!!* *Just wanna spread positivity !! ❤️* *For everyone who will support me You are a wonderful friend, and i appreciate your love, support, and generosity Thank You!*

[@jirehchoo2151]

Finally this comment gets into good use

[@alsonio5216]

Thanks

[@smileyjing]

Thanks

[@shurebearys3482]

My heart is not a door but a lock which contains my darkest secrets

[@joannazhang8809]

“You have your own life and you’re gross. And I have my own life and I’m great” well if that doesn’t describe any sibling relationship

[@lynnlenny7600]

Honestly, I'm not clinically diagnosed with a mental illness but I had suspected that I was not okay back in 2018. I didn't dare to talk to anyone about it but some people do realise the change in my behaviour especially my closest friends and teachers. My own family don't really know at all like they don't even know that I've been through counseling for 3 times this year after I open up about my mental illness to my teacher. I hated my school counselor but at that point, my teacher didn't really know how to help me yet because they didn't expect the severeness of my issue since I was a quiet and kind student. However, what they didn't know was the fact that the way they show affection and treating me like their own kid actually made me feel happier. During the day i didn't feel like living, I was crying but after my teacher pat my back and comfort me without knowing why, I calmed down. This is why I trust my teacher more than my own family.

[@TEAMNOC]

You never know where support can come from! This is really heartening to hear (:

[@Aimanmage]

This video was one of the hardest to do but at the same time, I really hope that it shows that life is still POSSIBLE despite all the things that we may be going through. You can have mental disorders and still make it in life. Keep the faith and keep going. It gets better and it’s so worth it!

[@shayminlee8452]

Thank you for sharing, Aiman. Really encouraged by how you far you've come. You're awesome!

[@lauelwin1]

You are never alone. I hope you find your way to a happy space in life.

[@subscribesingapore3131]

You are awesome Aiman!!!

[@TEAMNOC]

All our love for you bb

[@kobekobekobekobekobe]

Aiken and his mother’s relationship is so beautiful

[@ejlim3335]

I never cry for anything but this mental health thing ...

[@nimama0101]

i’m really glad that y’all made and posted this because it really helps people and educate others , thanks noc 🥺

[@athenanc.]

It's really hard to open up to family about mental problems because they don't really understand about this. I actually had similar situation with Aiman where my family found out because of my self-harm marks. And I was quite young, still 15 at that time, so my family was in denial and disbelief that at such a young age I could be having Bipolar. It really sounds cliche but it gets better with time and also it's very important to vent out your emotions to people that you trust. Mental illness is more than just negative thoughts and pessimist mindset. Let's all learn to be more compassionate towards each other because you never know what other people's going through.

[@joannazhang8809]

I think I figured out what issues I have through this video. Of course, I’m not diagnosing myself. But I relate to Grace’s anxiety a lot and like Aiken, I either bottle up my emotions and they’ll suddenly come out as tears or I can’t process them quickly when I need to move on (I can’t find a better word, maybe transition?) to my next emotion

[@TEAMNOC]

We're glad we could help you understand yourself better. Hang in there and do reach out if you need to!

[@minyinghuang9844]

Our 5 year old little boy might have selective mutism and today was the first psychologist session. Thank you for the video, it meant alot to me. Let's all be kind to each other :)

[@smileyjing]

When Sylvia walked into the room, I can’t stop crying till the end of the video. Reminds me of how I had depression, confessed to my sister and was diagnosed with bipolar disorder when I was trying to overcome it. It was a huge step forward for me to discover my own problems, since I grew up with a Mum with personality disorder and Bro with schizophrenia which I had been though stages of hurt, misunderstanding, despise, pity and felt burdened across different periods in my childhood.

[@user-mc6wx1dv8h]

Whoever is reading this, can I pray for you? Lord holy father, relieve and remove any stress or worry this person is having rn. Show to him/her your love for them and show that you really care for their well being. May you work miracles in their lives and restore peace in them once again. In Jesus’s name Amen. God loves you and he always will. Even if you aren’t a catholic/Christian, he will still love you no matter how great you sin. Jia you! You got this!

[@aleeyh69]

Great to 'normalize' mental health and recognize that it could happen to anyone. Good on you, NOC.

[@syiennysusanna463]

I wish that when my kids grow up, i will have the same relationship that Aiken shares with his mom!!! Beautiful relationship.

[@jasmineyau5285]

they are all so strong. infront of camera, they look so happy and they can make everyone so happy and make everyone laugh. but off camera they actually are very sad and depressed. thumbs up to them.

[@siti5213]

Okay, this is so touching and I tear up just watching this. No matter what happen just remember that there will be someone who will be there for u even if u are in trouble

[@cristallim4706]

I can't believe I cried watching this. From beginning until the end, I cried. I don't think I have depression or anxiety and I'd like to believe that I don't. Honestly, I'm just too tired and confused abt everything that I just don't know anything anymore. I just feel numb. But I'm glad this video made me cry for the first time in a long time. It made me feel more humane and present. Thank you so much

[@mayy.8166]

I major in psychology as well, it really opens my eyes when it comes to mental health, I'm also able to apply the knowledge I've learned on myself. When Grace was fidgeting a little and massaging her fingers when she was talking about her mental health, it breaks my heart because I can tell that she was displaying signs of anxiety. I hope all of you who are stressed or if you are dealing with anything, that you will be able to cope with it well and always look out for yourself, put your needs first before others'. :)

[@jesss1c4]

mental health is just so important, youve just got to embrace it

[@henguin4289]

Mental*

[@henguin4289]

You*

[@Darkzenth]

It takes a lot of courage to say this out. I have been suffering from depression and anxiety for half of my life. Even though night time is the most difficult time, it is also the only time when I can let my emotions out. Sometimes living becomes a torture...but I'm glad that I'm not the only one in this battle.

[@cailinhay8367]

I cant believe I actually broke down while watching this. When I had depression nobody was there for me and all I had was an extremely supportive teacher which I appreciate. This video touched me.

[@JohnArbutden]

Thank you all for the open sharing. I think mental health needs to be brought up into the open so that we can recognize the issues and support each other! It should not be taboo!

[@ly9610]

We love all of you, so so so brave to share about your darkest times. Much love to you guys!

[@honeybun5701]

Props to everyone for opening up about their experiences! It takes a lot of strength to be vulnerable and talk about this to someone, let alone to do it in front of a camera. Thank you for doing your part in spreading mental health awareness and in (hopefully!) reducing the stigma around it.

[@peishanliauw7238]

Million virtual hugs to all who’s going through a tough time this period. Everything will get better soon. ❤️❤️❤️

[@muhdariq5998]

watching this made me cry because it felt really close to myself and my situation. this video made me realise that im not alone. thank you

[@lauyieqie8034]

Thank you, NOC for always shooting great meaningful contents and to bring awarness to the society Hope that u all get well real soon after seeing so many people are with u guys

[@tanuk_]

you all are really strong for actually saying what you have been through and going through knowing that thousands are going to see this video, so i hope you remember that. and i really think many would learn from this video. stay healthy physically also and mentally as well ✊💗 and hurting yourself and destroying your mind is not the answer to anything. lots of love 💖

[@Steph-gh2hx]

Thank you so much for sharing.. It was really brave of you to open up on social and share your stories. If only everyone can be a little kinder, patient & tolerant to others, the world would've become a better place. Will keep you guys in my prayers!! ❤️

[@cloudsrainbow8494]

Thank you for this video. It's so encouraging. Thanks for opening up to your viewers like this. Cos NOC always makes fun videos, I never imagined you guys were actually going through tough times like these behind the camera. Hugs and god bless!

[@randydecastro950]

This was an awesome video! Lots of people are going through the same issues and it really helps to think there are others have the same problems as me... this was very emotional to watch, but it was really good! Thank you very much for doing this type of video! Keep up the awesome videos!

[@beatricelim7860]

Im proud of you guys for opening up..that probably took a lot of guts..thank you guys so much..uve been through a lot..i wish u guys gets better❤️

[@shayminlee8452]

Crying and smiling. Tq NOC for always coming out with content that are so genuine and sincere like this. Tq so much for sharing and being vulnerable on camera. Really encouraged by this video.

[@danieltan1040]

This is how I keep on touch with my sisters these days. Keep the great work up.

[@dericklim464]

Thankful for self-awareness video like this , it do feels really heartwarming and emotional ..

[@sleepy_dobe]

3:20 Grace, I know exactly what you went through. Because that's me too. All the time. The looping, the "I'm never good enough", the ultra high expectations of myself to be perfect......I feel you.

[@kraekern]

Just want to say that Im so happy NOC is doing a lot of mental health related videos! I used to think mental health topics are weird and lame and didnt get why some people kept nagging about the importance of them. Never would I have imagined years down the road Im digging through youtube for whatever mental health resources I can find to keep my sanity as I go through adulthood. And for whoever is reading this comment, mental health is so undervalued.

[@Jay-ru2cw]

Thanks for sharing about mental health... it is important for others to accept others with mental health and take care of them just like how they would when someone is sick physically...

[@Johnspyyy]

What we see on social media is very much all the glam, but deep down we never know what someone is feeling.

[@jaydenlow161]

I dont wanna make a joke about their past situations but one minute into the video and tears were shed already

[@sanjanaakristin3567]

I actually cried when watching . Its always important to look after our mental health .. It is indeed a big part of us .. I really pity those with depression

[@natpekk]

Really appreciate this video :) Everyone was so so brave. I think it's always hard to talk about emotions, mental health and seeking help esp for men who have been socialised to suppress/avoid these things. So I'm glad Aiken, Aiman and Sikeen were open with their experiences

[@Rachyyyyy]

As all of us grow up, most of our stress stems from work. Some of us are lucky enough to get the support of our family, some of us aren’t fortunate enough to have that. We spend a bulk of our youth building a career and less time with the ones we love. Always remember that it is alright to feel. Humans have emotions and if you need a break always remember to take one.

[@freeagentnetwork]

Hi People of NOC, thanks for sharing your personal challenges....I believe it will help many of the people tuning in...God Bless🙏

[@kierangoh9469]

The saddest people laugh the loudest and smile the brightest, because they know what being sad feels like and dont want others to go through the same pain.

[@donut16lol84]

I'm crying this is very heartwarming ♥️

[@clarachua4509]

I literally cried while watching this because I can relate to this as well. I also have depression and I also still do self harm and have suicidal thoughts. It’s honestly very hard to open up to my family members but slowly I started to seek help. Today, I’m getting stronger but maybe sometimes I still feel depressed but it’s okay. I hope y’all will continue to stay strong :)❤️

[@lildevil872]

I'm here for Aiken's mum she's always so supportive and loving towards AikenAikeni ended up staying for the rest of them. Haha off to everyone for being so open. May you all achieve all that you wish for in life

[@Venicevoo]

cried cos i also faced depression 2 years ago and i only found a counsellor and did not really talked about this to my parents 🥺🥺

[@playerswitch-3317]

Kudos to those all in the video who opened up to family.

[@bnrjas]

Very informative and touching video. I've had friends who succesfully overcome depression. All they need is really to have companionship and someone they can speak to to take their mind off their dark inner voices. Dont have to specially mention about their condition just hang out with them normally and enjoy yourselves. Btw, Ros' prayer for Aiken "Get married!I hope god sends him a wife.." got me laughing at the end cos my mum prays the same for me every chance she has😂

[@andreechen8283]

I would say that everybody have their own problem that less known to address it as their own mental health problem, may say it still taboo in mostly society, thank you NOC to make such video to show me that I’m not alone facing such kind problem 😊 This video make my day la...

[@joycelynyeoh8377]

Thanks for sharing so openly and honestly

[@peits0213]

I tried holding my tears but failed :"(

[@user-bg2jr8th3q]

This reminds us how fragile and vulnerable we are. Work and money is not everything. The most important thing in life is your family.

[@ewwtyt96]

Thank you for being so brave to post this. Not sure why I broke down watching this but I find comfort knowing that I'm not alone and that there are also others battling with these different conditions. I've always tried to cover up and tried to stay strong but it'll only get worse. It only got better when I seek help from a professional counselor. Surrounding yourself with people who supports and loves you is also a very important part of healing and learning to cope. Social media may be very negative at times, so if you need to, stay off that place too. Take care everyone! ❤️

[@jirehchoo2151]

Hello! Here to say that whatever you're going through, Someone does understand you, Your thoughts, Your struggles, Your weaknesses. He knows just what you need even before you say a word, Peace so unexplainable, Love so undeniable I once tried to find my own reason and my way out of my problems, but could not find strength to break free from my own problems and depression. But, someone came to my rescue, gave me a new power to overcome myself, gave me new hope and goodness I could rely on, gave me peace I never felt before, and love I so needed. He is Jesus Christ the keeper of peace, always with you and will help you, If you call on his name he will come to you. Though you may have lost all hope, But if you place your hope and faith in him, He will restore the hope in your life. Now go and believe in his name, Then you shall find new confidence and faith to believe in yourself too :)

[@shahrizal3656]

I have a partner who suffers from mental illness. & she has been the best thing that ever happen to me & my life. So proud to have her. Shout out to everyone too who still tries to get back into the swing of things with depression/stress or going through so much when life hits them so hard. There isnt enough recognition for those who know how to push themselves, even if they are going through difficult moments and wants to give up. The fact that you are trying to change your life is admirable. You are fighting a daily battle with your own thoughts and still coming on top!

[@TEAMNOC]

Couldn't have said it better myself (:

[@ramen_nek0]

This is an extremely sensitive topic especially when it comes to family- but it doesn’t have to be family that one can open up to,it can also be close friends as well,anyone tbh. As long as one does not keep it within themselves. Good job NOC for bringing out this other side of some of the NOC members,this goes to show that even successful people go through tough things behind the scenes,they may appear very cheerful and jovial when working,but you guys have shown that its okay to be vulnerable and this shows that influencers aren’t invincible,yall are just like any of us. What you guys are going through is what many people go through as well and I think that it’s comforting to know that :D, I must say one of the best local content creators!! Look forward to more good content like this! 👍🏼

[@sarqhzt]

honestly i'm not even close to my family members, the only person i really talk to about my feelings is one of my best friends for like 7-8years. she really helped me a lot during lockdown cause i was crying one night and she suddenly called me and asked me to play games with her and like we had fun and it just made me forget the bad stuff. so like if ur seeing this thank u for alw being there for me >

[@wzc8886]

Thank you. I needed this

[@kokwahho9819]

As A P6 who is going through PSLE and is known by several ppl for being that happy person, this helped me a lot. I have never had anyone to rely on and my parents and friends always finds me fine but I am secretly cracking on the inside. I have always been super fidgety and I sorta yearn attention sometimes and words from others hurt more than usual. I sometimes just have random outbursts and I wonder if anyone would ever resonate with me. I am often that pillar of support for my friends as I know what it feels like to be in the fight alone and I yearn for that support. I feel like I have hid behind this emotional mask for too long and it is hurting me now. Thank you NOC for this inspirational video.

[@joseph4533]

that happy person...hit way too hard. im the same :)

[@alaricchia1729]

Sup fellow p6 tmr got hcl psle then finish liao!

[@alaricchia1729]

@@xianglin1139 thanks the tortures and nightmares are finally over lol

[@TEAMNOC]

It's tough, even tougher when you also have to be there for others, but we applaud your bravery!! You're staying strong and hanging in there and that's what counts. It'll take time to find your own sources of support, but you can do this (:

[@celz_csh6048]

my anxiety and depression has always been high most of the time but im really trying my best rn to be positive and i have to say my depression is in control but my anxiety is always high . im 3 days clean rn and hopefully i will be able to reach a month :) depression and anxiety is not a joke , pls look out for others who are having these illness(es) and encourage them .

[@teyyiyun6664]

Same here

[@jirehchoo2151]

Hello! Here to say that whatever you're going through, Someone does understand you, Your thoughts, Your struggles, Your weaknesses. He knows just what you need even before you say a word, Peace so unexplainable, Love so undeniable I once tried to find my own reason and my way out of my problems, but could not find strength to break free from my own problems and depression. But, someone came to my rescue, gave me a new power to overcome myself, gave me new hope and goodness I could rely on, gave me peace I never felt before, and love I so needed. He is Jesus Christ the keeper of peace, always with you and will help you, If you call on his name he will come to you. Though you may have lost all hope, But if you place your hope and faith in him, He will restore the hope in your life. Now go and believe in his name, Then you shall find new confidence and faith in yourself too :)

[@johneamon6872]

Kudos to you guys for sharing!

[@factisfact9426]

I know that Sylvia really loves her brother. She seems to have a tough persona,but deep down,i know she’s a loving soul. Sikeen,stay 💪🏻.. God bless u guys❤️

[@atlantisoasis3597]

I can relate with Si Keen. The night time especially after I zzz a while, I will woke up and stressed. I'm currently unemployed as retrenched one month back. I felt very useless, very helpless.

[@Typicalqifanq]

press on my friend!

[@jirehchoo2151]

Negative thoughts are never there to tell you what's wrong, They only come to bring you down. Therefore do not let them bring you down, Lest you fall deep into the lies and thoughts of depression and anxiety. But learn to trust and believe in the goodness of the Lord For he is good and has plans for you. He knows your ever single thought and movement, Even down to the dreams of your wonderland. For he loves you and shall come to you if you call his name, So call out to him, For the help you need. God bless.

[@atlantisoasis3597]

@@jirehchoo2151 Thanks so much Choo!

[@atlantisoasis3597]

@@Typicalqifanq I will 加油的！

[@gopikapathangi]

I relate a lot with aiken and aiman But ur videos help me remeber the good side in life. Thank you 💜

[@DeepDarkHoleMe]

I am watching from M’sia for many years and this is my 1st time commenting. For me, this episode is the best ever on team noc. It break all taboo that the society has on mental health. I believe this episode gave many people the courage to speak out and mental health issue is nothing to be ashamed of. Great work guys.

[@atlantisoasis3597]

I feel Sylvia is a doting jie jie to Sikeen actually. Just that she is a ceo of a co and everyone looks up for her for direction and guidance. I'm sure SK has done his best too. I love to have Sylvia as my jie jie just that I'm 44 this year 😂

[@4vyx7x]

aww this actually made me cry. This video help me a lot, but im still scared to open up about my depression and anxiety...

[@poldylove4855]

thanks for the video. absolutely love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@hao5829]

I relate to grace the most.

[@WeniesSecret]

Love this content so much! Thank u team NOC

[@lucaschoo4203]

Great video! Meaningful and touching!

[@muahchee6892]

thank you for such a meaningful video☺️

[@limlim144]

I know what it feels like.....you are not alone......trust me, i have been through something like this cuz I get anxious very easily....like test blah blah❤❤

[@musicjamz3335]

God bless u guys and may u be happy

[@ohohchew4872]

Dear Aiman, Aikan, Grace and Sikeen, you guys are very brave to share what you have been through openly. It takes courage to reveal to others the vulnerable side of ourselves - even more, if done via videos publicly. I have been following NOC for years and have watched many of your videos and I think all of you have done a good job in your areas. [Special note to Grace - you have a nice cute voice. I like. To Sylvia - while looking after others, please take care of yourself too.] NOC Team - jia you! fighting! xoxo

[@annieta4002]

thank you for this video ❤

[@estig7765]

I suffer from depression and some signs of anxiety and my parents found out by taking my phone and sneakily see my messages with my friends without my permission and i was so mad at them but i am also glad that i don't have to prepare myself to tell them myself which will be unlikely.So i am kinda grateful and i am getting help from a proressional pschiatrist and made small progress ever since and i have been clean for a couple of months(i am kinda proud that i manage to stay clean for that long)

[@jirehchoo2151]

Hello! Here to say that whatever you're going through, Someone does understand you, Your thoughts, Your struggles, Your weaknesses. He knows just what you need even before you say a word, Peace so unexplainable, Love so undeniable I once tried to find my own reason and my way out of my problems, but could not find strength to break free from my own problems and depression. But, someone came to my rescue, gave me a new power to overcome myself, gave me new hope and goodness I could rely on, gave me peace I never felt before, and love I so needed. He is Jesus Christ the keeper of peace, always with you and will help you, If you call on his name he will come to you. Though you may have lost all hope, But if you place your hope and faith in him, He will restore the hope in your life. Now go and believe in his name, Then you shall find new reason to believe and have faith in yourself too :)

[@TEAMNOC]

You go girl!! Every small step forward is huge progress for your mental health (:

[@joeylim261]

at the first few seconds seeing Grace tears I alr can't control myself 😭

[@nivedhajeyakumar8163]

I used to cry of laughing in NOC videos,, today I did cry but not out of laughing....🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@SuperCryingdevil]

Not really familiar with depressions and how it really feels. But normally i just tell my friends to speak to one friend when feeling down. Cause in the end we dont seek solutions when we feel down. We just to express out our feelings so it wont lock within

[@jirehchoo2151]

Its never healthy to keep your thoughts to yourself.

[@stumpleztum]

love aikey and his mum relationship ♥️

[@ivanlimzg]

I can relate to Grace the most about this💙

[@ashleytomato]

Stay strong people

[@shafiqnur7375]

You should do more of this with fans and their parents

[@mahikashenoy9983]

i don’t know if i have any mental health condition, but i really cried miserably watching this 😔

[@JamesPaul1995ABCDE]

impacted by this

[@blank-is7qe]

OMG!!!! NOC please help Aiman fulfill his wishes! have a family dinner!!!!!! and of course the rest of the people!!! it will be a great video!!!

[@pikopee_]

This almost made me cry🤧

[@hswithluv9727]

i have anxiety&i might have symptoms for other diagnosis too but i used to always push my loved ones away&i constantly self-harm thought i didnt wish to, i was also extremely suicidal&i had a whole plan on how i would do it. i would constantly cry myself to sleep thinking that i wasnt good enough, worthless etc. but now things are better for me&im about 6 weeks clean from self-harm

[@TEAMNOC]

That's huge! Keep it up, we're glad to hear you're on the right path

[@retrorider7521]

To those who cyber bully aiman from the talent show onwards, bare in mind that you never know how much he has been thru.