Telling my mum I am pregnant, her reaction & why African parents don't support unwed lock pregnancy.

On today's episode, I have an in-depth conversation with my mum on why African parents react negatively to pregnancy before marriage, the process of acceptance and why the society should stop being judgmental.

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you guys for the overwhelming support, I don’t take it for granted. I might not reply to each and every one of you but just know that I have read each and every comment and I appreciate. Please keep subscribing ❤❤❤

[@maajeegafarmpharm]

Mum is so sincere and direct with her exact feelings. It has allowed me to see into the actual thoughts our parents generation had. Especially how i don't know her yet some of her statements i have heard from my own. This episode has triggered alot of mercy in my heart.

[@samkaybeauty2862]

Si kwa ubaya but my biggest problem with parents wa kitambo is they cared more about their 'reputations' more than their own children 🤦🏽‍♀️. Goes to show how self centered and selfish they can be.

[@MrsMabusu]

You’re stating facts so don’t be apologetic

[@linajamwa-musibi2978]

It's the way they were brought up. Their mindset was different

[@Meryl01171]

That's the fact

[@brendaokola3893]

Fact

[@bettynyokabi5932]

Exactly, my mom used to bit us like dogs just to impress the neighbors., it created resentment to-date..

[@netsaigiro2458]

As children i think we should also be considerate of the emotions of our parents before we do certain things. In as much as we need their support they also need our support.

[@TeacherVee]

Am a first child, one of the parents a pastor,I got expectant before marriage but I had a job and done with school .I was so devastated of what my parents will do to me,and what the church will say...I bet I cried every night and I never slept, living with them,they noticed I was expectant,called me for a friendly talk and this took off the biggest burden from me.They supported me morally and It gave me esteem and confidence and even the church members couldn't utter anything before my face coz I had their support and they didn't disown me.Parents support your kids no matter...it helps a lot and may God bless my parents so so much ❤

[@GALANJERI34]

This is so amazing, may God bless your parents ❤️

[@helleninzeyi]

Team LNN lazima tuwakilishe,tukiitwa naL Lynn tunaitika mara moja🎉🎉

[@irenelopez7804]

Who wouldn't be disappointed imagine you are struggling with poverty you can't even afford a good house,na pia labda kuna watoto wengine wamezaa kwao awajui baba yao,i definitely understands our mum❤

[@jero.n]

The mum is so genuine. Candid conversation❤.

[@WanjiruMuya]

Our parents always care for what others will say😅i feel her😛

[@kuislittleworld2909]

Raw and candid conversation 👌 also, I love how your relationship with mum has blossomed ❤

[@kasichanaednar1521]

Here from LN..❤..I like how mum is unapologetically explaining the cultural perspective.

[@itsjuliam]

Lynn Ngugi sent me here. Love the set. Love the conversation. You're doing well. I'm here to stay.

[@GALANJERI34]

Thanks and welcome

[@faithkisiangani5702]

From LNN

[@mercyKatheo]

From LNN. Congrats for this step.

[@salomekimunya6241]

From lyn pia I love the conversation

[@tshwarobagopi6732]

From LNN. Congratulations❤

[@nelimajudy280]

U ve great mum Galanjeri thank God she supported u very much others once u conceive out of wedlock u're treated as an out cast and chased away i really love ur mum she's a great woman❤❤❤

[@jeromebamugaya3509]

Culture and Traditions MUST be taught early, let the children know what to stand for or they fall for anything

[@GALANJERI34]

Yeah, very true

[@wambuinderitu2461]

Am happy for you Gala❤ i have known today you have a channel 👏. I have loved the convo n your momma she has done way better than us in English 🎉eeeish . Keep up girl we are here to support you

[@janenjuguna7904]

Team Lynn I’m here and I can relate I was made a grandmother at a very early age I took my girls back to school and 20 years down the line I have never healed 😢

[@GALANJERI34]

Hey, I’m glad you supported them. If you’re willing we could have a conversation on the same 😊

[@tabbyndinguri8743]

Here from LNN, happy for you gal such a bold decision

[@susanwambui41]

Here to support you gal❤❤our African moms as usual❤❤

[@esthermuindi5922]

Amazing conversation ❤ my people.

[@pwangui443]

Loved this conversation Pls make sure your mum is back for more colabos she is simply the best!

[@margaretsoita3851]

I'm here from Lynn. I love where both of you are coming from. It's such a precious gift to have a mum around you during pregnancy journey and when the baby is still young.

[@GALANJERI34]

It’s the most precious thing ever

[@josephmwanzia4661]

Beautiful convo @Gala Njeri, keep rolling

[@brendaokola3893]

From Lynn Ngugi's channel❤I loved the conversation and it's openness as well🥂big up

[@rachelfaraja]

Here from team Lynn Ngugi....keep going GN. Mum is so beautiful and I love her honesty.

[@MissEvaWambui]

This was a very wholesome conversation. Really love the openness and vulnerability. Thank you for sharing.

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you ❤️

[@me.georgiaj.5685]

From Lynn and the US. Blessings on your channel.

[@sheilahendrich6995]

Hi Gala and Mom ,good to see you.I love your Deco,those Chairs ni kali sana❤ ,so beautiful ...Everything there is cute plus you both.❤❤❤🙏🙏

[@bethwangui9083]

Thanks for supporting our girl

[@emmanuelkinyana9679]

Thanks for the good Mummy Daughter talk. Leta Dad atwambiye on his side

[@jkatini]

From team Lynn.. we are here to support you...🎉

[@denamimms]

❤❤am here to show love all the way from LNN .😊😊I just love this mummy she's so honest aki to a point of enlightenment on some other stuff we never knew

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you so much, let’s learn together ❤

[@lilianmakena]

Team lynn tuko apa kwa mpigo. Congratulations our girl gala njeri.

[@seelakoina6858]

Here from Lynn's show. I so so love you Gala and congratulations🙌. Loving the conversation big up mama Njeri.

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you so much, love you right back

[@johnsfabian4070]

Tuko hapa Mum Lynn ametutuma na lazima tuwakilishe good job

[@janetdunda6331]

Here from LNN, congratulations Gala

[@evalynengiciri3957]

Am here from Lynn congratulations Njeri🎉

[@m.c.1387]

May God bless you both. I personally have been in both of of your seats. I have two girls 🤦🏽‍♀️ so i have experienced the situation three times😮. I am/was a PK when it happened to me, and oh my!! Did I go through!! Ladies, continue to remain Blessed 🙏🏾👵🏽🇺🇸 I couldn't have this type conversation with my mom- she told me that i was pregnant, and I had no clue🤦🏽‍♀️!! [She was a RN] Mind you this was 50+ yrs ago, with very strict parents! But I thank God that times have changed 😊. I was of age, but not married. 😲😲

[@LaureenOuma]

I'm here from team Lynn, good job Gala

[@wambuinderitu2461]

I would love you Gala to talk about the pregnancy journey n now the motherhood coz you have opened that door n also bring us your reaction after finding out you were pregnant

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you for the suggestion, will definitely do❤️

[@carolinekahare1118]

This is awesome my lovely niece keep on shining

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you Aunty

[@joymwangi7789]

Congratulations Gala and Mum

[@WhiskerWander3r]

Call me old fashioned but I believe that a child needs two parents…🙏🏾 That’s why marriage is universal.

[@maureen-Mulandi]

At least it's what you believe Others don't and we respect them regardless 🙏🙏

[@perpetualgathii8102]

Lyn Ngugi alisema tufike huku,and here I am 😊

[@BlessingsKamau-ez8cj]

The mum got the voice 💓 walai

[@rkubai]

Missed your interviews on Lynn's channel.......actually I was wondering what happened to you bt I'm elated to see you're well. May God Bless you and this channel including all guests who will be featured here❤

[@GALANJERI34]

I did one the other day but more are coming. Amen and thank you

[@janemamaboyz2090]

Team lynn coming to support

[@bilhahnjeri6427]

Wow mum's advice is spot on loved the conversation looking forward to more amazing episodes

[@GALANJERI34]

Glad you enjoyed it, stay tuned for more

[@japhethrobby3092]

Am hear send by Lynn ngugi my best therapist 🙌

[@user-vp3wo1eo7l]

Nice one gal continue with the pase my friend ur ever amazing 💓

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you so much, stay tuned

[@ndeshidumeni]

Here from Lynn Ngugi to give you my full support. Keep climbing girl...this is just the beginning and the sky is the limit.

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you

[@anneoduor8457]

Min warembo here... keep it up gal ❤

[@bettykawe8660]

Congrats Njeri,what an amazing and sensitive conversation with mum.

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you

[@fatumaibrahim2105]

And the lady was so comfortable..Mimi ningemfinyia macho asichome Sanaa...I like how she stayed put adi Mum akasema yote!This is very beautiful ...I'll try na Mum...waaaaaa

[@faithnthiani7183]

Congratulations 👏 gala..keep going

[@veronicanjuguna-ed7oc]

Team Lynn have arrived 💃🏻💃🏻

[@Evemuiruri_]

Mum is so articulate and very lovely - She wanted the best for Gala and much more for her generations. Thou her expectations were not matched she knows where to be accommodative and how to stand with her precious daughter. All mothers think so highly of their children.

[@GALANJERI34]

Facts….I’m glad she has my back

[@NdinaNehemia]

I love that mom was honest and genuine about her feelings and is standing by her beliefs. I also appreciate that she accepted the situation regardless of her stance as a Christian woman. Congratulations Gala, you make a beautiful mom.

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you so much Ndina 😊

[@pauline2604]

Lynn ametutuma hapa.❤ I Love you Gala

[@khadijakimana8809]

Lynn sent me here, but I m also your fun kwa Chanel ya vijana too! Good job! Kama mama ninajifunza mengi👌👍🙏💕

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you so much, let’s keep learning together

[@DamarisKimaniTv]

Such an informative conversation 🙌🏾

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you ❤️

[@christmaslyzzekagwa9573]

Lyn ngugi sent me🎉. I want to be a part of this beautiful journey ❤❤❤

[@GALANJERI34]

You’re so welcome

[@evankya1955]

GenZ guts jamani, here is Gala interviewing her mom😅. Enzi zetu jamani jamani hahahahah there’s no way we could even think about that.

[@GALANJERI34]

Ah 😂😂😂 Things have changed

[@lilac8794]

Gen z is from 1998

[@ess1444]

I'm happy for you Gala.🤗🤗...we were classmates at matgee...glad you took up the journalism dream.... This was a great session 💕🥳I'm excited to be here....

[@GALANJERI34]

Hey, thank you so much. You’re very welcome on this platform

[@EstherNungari-ii3db]

Here from team Lynn...congrats gal

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you ❤

[@orokokemunto4769]

Team Lynne I'm for Gala too Gala heri wewe ulikua Mimi niliitwa na madam Naambiwa nko na mimba nilikataaa😂😂😂 3 months na sijui mama akaja but still nilikataa😂 wuuueeh

[@sophieotieno8222]

Team Lynn we are here..❤❤

[@LadyS-02]

Am subscriber number 234 wapi chai ya wageni Gala😊😊.Good job keep up utaenda far

[@risperwambui8369]

🎉🎉🎉I love Gala's eloquence❤❤❤

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you Risper

[@meshackmaundu8326]

Good job Gala...❤

[@moniqk9420]

I love Mum's honest

[@Cbgaming13.]

All the way from Lynn Ngugi, though I have watched you from her channel. Congratulations to you.

[@GALANJERI34]

Wow, thank you

[@denamimms]

Mummy hajui kucheza chini ukweli yote anaekelea Kwa meza Hadi miaka 😂😂😂😂

[@lucyboboh3024]

Aki😂

[@joshcool2022]

😂😂😂😂

[@fatumaibrahim2105]

Yaani anaweka yote paruwanja.....and Gala gal so composed!Mimi ningemfinyia jicho Kwa mum asichome sanaaa😂😂

[@lucynganga1374]

Team Lynn tuko hapa

[@kathambiEK]

❤❤❤❤ Good job Gala

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@trizahmaina2575]

Loving this mum

[@ruthiewabwile775]

Here from Lynn Ngugi🥰❤️

[@ireneouma9893]

Wow....i also congratulate my mom....

[@njerilinda]

Came running when I saw Lynn recommending

[@maureenakanga7689]

Tuko wengi

[@GALANJERI34]

Karibu sana

[@user-kf7bj9bs8f]

Team Lynn 🎉❤

[@perismkala4275]

Team Lynn we're here, tunawakilisha

[@mbithekingola3628]

From Lynn.... keep going our girl

[@geofreywaweru4223]

❤🎉 in our prayers 🙏🤞🙏🙏

[@tshwarobagopi6732]

Thank you mother for accommodating those of us who do not know your local language

[@diamond-bz3ms]

Am here from lynn, married from a different culture to Kikuyu/meru when pregnant.. Wish I saw this before, 10 good years of misery from inlaws now with 2children..

[@GALANJERI34]

Hey, really sorry for what you went through, please take heart

[@Sir._Kip]

Our girl 👌

[@user-jp3bu3fu7x]

Lovely Gala go girl

[@cynthiaakinyi9829]

How wonderful ❤️.... I also got pregnant while in campus.. For my case I was the role model in my church and everywhere around me... But I got pregnant stayed with my baby daddy for 2yrs then separated.. Currently in saudia arabia...my life story is still cooking 😂😂😂😂😂

[@rosewanjiru5739]

Your mom is amazing 🎉

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you

[@faithndubi402]

Team Lynn kujeni huku

[@MathewKenyi18]

From LNS, weldone keep it up.

[@millyrotich416]

Team Lynn ngugi i am here

[@naaumy63]

From Lynn to here❤❤❤

[@tiarareigns8547]

I wish my own mother was like this 😢😢😢 Have lost 2 pregnancies and she even never bothered to take me for check up🤦‍♀️💔 she's not even struggling with life 💰🤦‍♀️💔Am grateful for strangers who took care of me, financially, emotionally and mentally till today. May God forgive my mother wherever she is. My heart is very heavy to have her feelings as a parent😢😢😢😢💔💔💔 May God bless these kind of moms, caring and protective over their generation ❤

[@user-to4xx3rj1m]

Pole Tiara Such a beautiful name ❤❤

[@tiarareigns8547]

@@user-to4xx3rj1m thank you❤❤❤❤

[@GALANJERI34]

Hello Tiara, so sorry for what you had to go through. Praying for your healing ❤️‍🩹

[@GALANJERI34]

When you’re ready to share your story, I’ll be here waiting

[@gladysgichuhi413]

❤❤❤

[@ericmuendo7608]

Great content 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@GALANJERI34]

Thank you

[@Chiwoful]

Tumetumwa huku na Lynn🎉

[@rosegallus4048]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@eunicemwihaki6248]

Team Lynn❤❤❤❤

[@harrietkambua1399]

Team Gala njeri tupitianeni 😊😊❤

[@AwuorJ]

I love your mom for being real. She's genuine

[@GALANJERI34]

She’s the realest person I know

[@carolynenyarandi7548]

Team Lynn ❤

[@sinyoritan1647]

Good conversations.

[@sinyoritan1647]

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