i see so many people envying wonyoung for her confidence, positivity, resilience and strong mindset. i agree that these are admirable traits, and iโm happy for wonyoung that she can live that way. however, she is very blessed and lucky to have had such loving and supportive parents, and a stable happy family life. so while it is partly a credit to her, it is also a credit to her circumstances. so if you are comparing yourself to her, donโt be too hard on yourself. not everyone gets to grow up in a stable and happy family. itโs much harder to be confident and resilient if you grew up with constant criticism or conditional love. for lots of people, it takes years of internal work to overcome the self-doubt that their parents instilled in them. if you are someone who is experiencing that, i want to send support and encouragement. despite the disadvantage youโve faced, youโre still trying your best. that makes you a strong person. if you look at wonyoung and wonder why you arenโt mentally strong like she is, i want to tell you that you are, just in a different way.
@milqvetoast5 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
thank you for writing this!! i grew up with great parents, but my other life circumstances have been very difficult (external trauma, neurodivergency, mental disorders etc) and my parents have dealt with a bunch of shit so they havent always been as supportive as wony's parents, so it makes me a little jealous, but, i can see that her and i are strong in different ways
@Dinonugget064 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
thank you so much for taking your time and writing this thoughtful comment. it's hard for people's to understand what others might be going through, how they might be feeling unless until they are in the same position, so you writing this comment, encouraging people like us is so thoughtful and lovely of you. hope you are being happy and living your life to the fullest.
@yangzhang998210 ะบาฏะฝ ะฑาฑััะฝ
this is one of the most thoughtful comments I've read. I've actually had that problem before so this was something I needed, so truly, thank you. Everyone has their own experiences, highlights and struggles in life. If we see something in others and don't know the exact process to get it, or can't replicate the circumstances, it can be easy to see ourselves as fundamentally deficient in it. And even in the process of developing a good mindset it takes a lot of work that can be underrated. Indeed, if you're working on this, taking it day by day, that's a strength too.
shes so smart! I had no idea what books she was reading but it totally makes sense since she said if she wasnt an idol she'd be a lawyer and lawyers have to read A LOT of complex things. Its great that she still finds time to read. I hope she never stops that hobby!
Sheโs actually so wise for her age! I donโt really know much about her or other IโVE members but Iโve just become a fan of Wonyoung!! โค I can see why sheโs popular and why people are jealous of her