Terry Crews Breaks Down His SUCCESS PRINCIPLES & How To Deal With NEGATIVITY | Lewis Howes

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Terry Crews is an actor, activist, artist, and former NFL football player. He plays “Terry” on Brooklyn 99 and is now a host on America’s Got Talent. Terry was included among the group of people named as Time Magazine’s Person of the Year in 2017 for going public with stories of sexual assault.
Terry has a powerful way of talking about what it means to be a man. We all can benefit from hearing his story.
So get ready to learn all about guilt, shame, and toxic masculinity on Episode 760.
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In This Episode, You Will Learn:
About Terry’s history of addiction (14:00)
Why men need intimacy (21:00)
The three stages of every man’s life (28:00)
The difference between shame and guilt (31:00)
The definition of toxic masculinity (40:00)
About Terry’s #metoo moment (45:00)
Plus much more…
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[@Retipster]

Terry Crews is the man. I so appreciate his vulnerability and authenticity, that's a rare thing to find in this world.

[@15.johnsonangel]

He cracked Hollywood WIDE open. Cracked toxic ideologies WIDE open. Did not know Terry was this deep. Much love 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@christinesnitkin9619]

Lewis, this interview proves more than ever what a great listener you are. That contributes to why you are a great interviewer. When Terry talked about his anger and about football, you could have interrupted and joined in and shared your own experiences. But you let Terry talk. You never step on your guest's words. Thank you.

[@mequable]

Other hosts share more too, and sometimes it is valuable to the conversation. But sometimes I too want to hear more from the guest, and I agree Lewis is a very pleasant host.

[@aweinmanyok5273]

i saw this too in his many interviews as well. i thought of him to be a great listener

[@bongekandwandwe5205]

Bra I was thinking the same thing when I was watching him interview someone else, HE IS SUCH A GOOD LISTENER

[@MF_OXF]

one of the rare times though...most of the times if not every god damn time he finds a way to turn it around him...

[@adaku75]

I am so glad that he spoke about the mental health issues specifically in the black community because our dysfunction has many levels. Furthermore, so many black women are suffering because we are involved with men who are suffering but they refuse to show who they really are. But most will show you anger, manipulations, etc. And many black women are suffering because of it, but we don't really have serious conversation about the plight of black women's pain. This was an awesome interview. I love seeing men who are vulnerable with integrity!

[@AlexCio]

What kind of dysfuntion? It has more to do with self awareness... and self reflection... If we just would think a little more about other people we love, these things wouldn‘t happen.

[@werkdatdancefitness]

That’s right. I’m so glad these kind of issues are starting to be discussed in the black community from people with a voice. I think the pride of black people is high and that doesn’t allow us to express ourselves because “we” don’t have those kind of problems.

[@randy1568]

Terry crews! What an amazing man! I don’t understand why the world would put Bruce Jenner on the cover a magazine and not Terry Crews

[@booates]

is there any problem men can just have themselves without it having to be about how women are affected

[@freudianslippers6567]

@@booates No, as humans we are a collective community. What we do creates a ripple to all of us.

[@cynsini9211]

Terry is a fantastic role model to stand up for all these issues: mental health, toxic masculinity, feminism, sexual assault, just showing how you can grow and learn and change as a person and live well.

[@scottperryfitness]

This interview is one of the most impactful talks I’ve ever heard and as a man, this hits home. Terry, your openness to the truth and the raw honesty you share has inspired me to be a better more open man with my wife and children. Thank you!!!

[@WhateverItTakesMotivation]

LOVE Terry's ability to be vulnerable and share his darkest struggles with us and explain how he overcame them! He's a legend

[@sashamagician]

Ok, wow. I’m 7 MINUTES IN and I’m already delighted, heartbroken and impressed!

[@dberry8778]

Hes a breath of fresh air in a world that is so lost. Grace and forgiveness are things i never understood antil i had to give them.

[@JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness]

He is so real, love how he kept catching people out on their BS, He didn't let them get away with the lies that they tell themselves. Thats not easy, takes a lot courage. He is just so impressive.

[@montellmason033]

So many brothers need to hear this but are afraid to be vulnerable. Be accountable!

[@zippytippie453]

I’m so thankful for Terry Crews telling his story. I grew up Pentecostal. The way he describes his mindset as a child with parent pleasing, church and porn hits home. Thank you for allowing him to share how this impacted his life.

[@kamerya]

This is my favorite interview yet! Terry's vulnerability and self love is incredible. I love his story. It is so inspiring. What a man!

[@ivandelacruz1141]

Thank you for sharing your strength, experience, and hope Terry Crews. Your vulnerability is courageous and offers strength.

[@steelresilience]

Magnificent interview. You gotta have him back on. I didn't want this one to end.

[@mellymelz24]

Same here!

[@pascalsimonskoufos8066]

Yes cant get enough of Terry.

[@adalynroseprescott8927]

He is a real man. Amazing the results that are possible when your willing to work on yourself and your past. Live your present life, don’t live your pasts life. I already loved this guy but now I am a real fan.

[@sohaibahmed226]

Very deep man. I like what Terry said about accountability part about the car. You apologize but you go back in your car and on with your life. Real accountability is when you apologize but you actually go through the consequences and pay your dues. That's real right there. Very charismatic interview man loved every minute of it.

[@jjadams2850]

This is probably one of the most important things I've watched in my life!!! Thank you Terry for your candor...and thank you Lewis!!!

[@Positivevibes-ef6tw]

I couldn’t get enough of this podcast. Terry crews is an Amazing man. It takes a lot of courage, strength & vulnerability for anyone to be this open & authentic. Very inspirational!

[@SueFaunt]

I just listened to this during my daily 4 mile hike and I am awed by this man stepping into the best version of himself, after everything he's been through. Thank you Terry and Lewis.

[@angelamelville67]

I just love Terry Crews and love his total honesty ❤🇬🇧

[@saxophonexsb1407]

TERRRY CREWS! The three big lessons: Accountability, Love, and Creativity.

[@itsmelanislyfe6438]

Success is the warmest place to hide...😳🤔 Geesh ! That was good

[@JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness]

thats a great quote!

[@PedroMarata]

I knew Terry's story but hearing it again with such honesty is so healing. May everyone can express themselves with such honesty!

[@PedroMarata]

Lewis Howes thanks!!

[@claudiagonzalez1719]

I have always loved Terry Crews but now his my HERO!!! Thank you Terry for your story, your transparency, courage, vulnerability, and advocacy. Lewis great job, your such a wonderful interviewer!!

[@jorgecarlos4120]

This has got to be one of the best interviews I've ever seen. Thank you for this.

[@wib6044]

This felt like 5 minutes. Same thing with Tim Ferris interview. He has a way of story telling that compresses time. Good dude.

[@pascalsimonskoufos8066]

Loves this interview with Tim. A true jem.

[@Fififashionista27]

i like the fact that he just lets him talk and tell his story

[@alfreda2711]

A perfect example of a great man. Terry Crews 💕

[@mequable]

Love this guy. Definitely a figure to look up to, for me. And now I am surprised to notice his character in Brooklyn Nine Nine is basically the same man - a guy with a huge heart.

[@j.87558]

This is so insanely inspiring and captivating, I couldn't turn away. Especially feeling that all is lost, dealing with p addiction, and seeing this vulnerable and honesty turned into streghth and passion steer me towards the good path that I deep down know I should follow but have forgotten or been blind to.

[@FeelGoodWithin]

Self-awareness is powerful!!! Rest Noone is perfect we all are work in progress!!! I loved his advice on Forgiveness😝

[@Joe161964]

Great Interview...... that's it. I will say....these interviews are fantastic for Monday mornings!

[@MEHFILEADAB1]

Even though i dont agree with his view of forgiveness or atleast i dont understand it but this is one of the most authentic conversation ive heard in a long time. Hope to learn from it and pass on these lessons to others as well.

[@sin...5982]

Vulnerability is a scary place. But it has all your answers. Loved the interview ❣️

[@marlene.magdala]

This might be my favorite interview yet! What an amazing storyteller! So entertaining yet full of richness and heart. Also, I love that he calls out those people by name - direct and upfront and no messing around. Wonderful guy and great listening Lewis, thanks to you both

[@LeezPgh]

Oh my gosh. Amazing. Thank you Terry. What an incredible example of being in imperfect amazing human being, like we all are. Talk about hope for all of us. Thank you Lewis for all that you are and do.

[@XxxcrossroadzXxx]

I am amazed by how open, honest and inspiring this interview is! Thankyou Terry for showing us how to be accountable and to learn from our mistakes. Lewis as always thankyou for your hardwork and your service to help us be the best versions of ourselves. I am so grateful for you and Terry.God bless

[@synergy2222]

What A powerful interview! A powerful, inspiring, honest man!

[@akumacode]

Wow! Great interview! I don't typically get emotional from interviews, but Terry's story was just too impactful

[@gruopp9487]

How come I always cry when I watch terry !??

[@yaquelinllerena9239]

Beautiful deep so much respect thank you for this special interview.

[@DreAnthony92]

YES LEWIS! Happy to see you nail this interview!

[@unleashingpotential-psycho9433]

We are all worthy of love! 🔥

[@teavetyskova]

I just love this guy. I barely even know him, but whenever I see him somewhere, he gives me such good and genuine vibes ♥

[@Cacofonixravi]

He touched base with his self and discovered himself, became transparent and now he is on song. Good show.

[@amiradeshon5501]

God Bless you both for doing this interview

[@karagill203]

This is so beautiful. I would love to see his wife’s perspective and process through it all. Get her on the show!

[@emilyhendrix7753]

She gave her perspective on dr phil!

[@JamelleSanIntl]

Lewis, this is one of the most powerful interviews I have seen in a long time. Amazing and I am going to share it!

[@tjtmzms2187]

He is incredibly awesome and honest im so impressed

[@ginnynilsen5106]

I sincerely think this, for me, has been the most consciousness-awakening interview and I have listened to many many of Lewis’ KZbin, FB and instagram posts. I’m sitting here pondering everything I heard and seeing how Terry’s insights and life-demonstrations match with my owns accomplishments, goals and aspirations. Terry and Lewis are the real-deals. Thank you!

[@chiaraflorio6718]

😩😩😩😩😩 I can’t I love his transparency and that he isn’t scared to talk about his feelings as a man

[@werkdatdancefitness]

Thanks Lewis for showing more men being vulnerable. I think it’s very important for more to be more open an honest about sharing our feelings. Keep using your platform to help people.

[@Rossini737]

Thank you Lewis, this is beautiful. I love Terry Crews, thank you for bringing him to us.

[@Rossini737]

@@lewishowes Thank YOU! Great videos and an amazing vibe. I like how you keep it clean and cultured.

[@le3423]

SUCH CHARISMA!!! It takes such a strong, confident and caring person to share his history, emotions, vulnerability, ... His messages of LOVE and ACCOUNTABILITY are so powerful. I particularly appreciated how he stressed the fact that we all look for excuses to justify our behaviour, aspirations, expectations, ... or lack thereof.

[@FreelancingwithFaith]

This is really touching! More blessings to both of you. 😍

[@angelface14angel]

Loved this && everybody needs to hear this!!!! Much needed conversation in this world! The way he talked about his wife is beautiful at the end. I hope we all find this kind of deep respect && friendship in a partner. ❤️

[@bedtechportland7628]

I love how he said, "I forgive you."....then you block their number. Thank you for validating the choice to CHOOSE SELF CARE and not think that forgiveness means you have to allow them into your space, your life. This is the same scenario that I have with my father- I choose to forgive him but I have blocked his number. I love and respect myself, my space and my life too much to allow toxicity to come in and wreak havoc. Thank you Terry for validating this choice!

[@elijahmatthew5270]

Aye Terry is a Competitive Beast of a Man & Instincts Take Over Sometimes & You lose Control. I still Repect Him.

[@kelliroberts]

WOW...what an amazing and eye-opening interview. Thank you so much to Terry for sharing your story.

[@jl7760]

I have a Big respect for Mr. Terry Crews! All wrong situation we doing, we pay they consequence! Lewis! Appreciate much you my Friend!!! Thank you so much for this Amazing and Wonderful School you have on your Channel!! A Big hug for you man! love ☺

[@mustaphamuhammad9116]

OMG... This is one of the best talk shows I ever watched and felt like I can take something right out of this and Implement in my life....greatness means been vulnerable and yes been vulnerable doesn't mean you are weak.

[@deeray126]

wow i really respect how transparent and honest Terry was in this interview talking about shame and accountability

[@Abundance26]

I honestly wish every single man can watch this video because I am 100% sure that they can definitely relate to a lot of what he said. This podcast brought me such warm fuzzy feeling and understanding.

[@ss-nc2dy]

"Hollywood doesn't care if you lose your family." Wow. I'm not in Hollywood, but I'm in an industry where I can see this holds real true. This was a real wake up call for me. Great Interview.

[@ElectricChaplain]

This is an amazing interview

[@whosdatgirl1]

So compelling. He has truly done the work on himself and come out the other side shining x x

[@Abundance26]

He so definitely has. Gives me hope for myself.

[@whosdatgirl1]

Resilient26 👍🏾👌🏾

[@taniarodrz3660]

I can relate. I had that type of father. Still dealing with the emotional damage.

[@Abundance26]

I was saying the same. Except it was my mother. She was pretty much both his parents in one except she didn't drink but was filled with alot of anger. I definitely relate to his church story as well because I grew up in the church but never felt the spirit they were talking about and they told me that I'm joking around and wasn't serious abt the Lord. Smh

[@sarah29880]

Abundance26 yep same with my mother. She has OCPD and the rage happened daily and she controlled the whole house with this anger. There was always something wrong. Church, ugh, I had to go and go to all the little church events even tho I felt uncomfortable.

[@Abundance26]

@@sarah29880 YEEEEES!!!! I'm so happy now that i know she was simply that way not because she was really strong and confident but rather because she was afraid and not in control of her life so she had to control everything around her. Now, I keep her at a distance and I'm happy that I do.

[@sarah29880]

Abundance26 YES!! I thought I was the problem since growing up. Now I know I am slowly working through all the trauma and she just doesn’t know how to do that on an emotional level. Take care, so glad things got better with your situation!

[@Abundance26]

@@sarah29880 how crazy being able to relate to someone on a KZbin video lol. Thanks hun Many blessings, love and healing to you too. ❤🤗

[@saharaxo5435]

He’s an amazing story teller. This interview had me hooked and was very interesting

[@ireneelisabethhitchcock1365]

Best interview on accountability and masculinity I've ever seen. Terry is amazing and a true beacon of hope. Excellent interview Lew!

[@goshenqueen]

I love that suit, Terry! Love you in bright colors!! Okay, now I can sit and watch the interview. 😉

[@goshenqueen]

Wow! I knew a little about Terry but now I love him so much more and I appreciate the way he talks about his growth. I’m blown away and challenged and so happy for him.

[@itshamiiid]

thank you Lewis for bringing us these valuable life lessons from great models of our world. Shout out to Terry Crews also for being a model for all of us how to be better men.

[@9595david]

WOW, an interview where the interviewer gave the spotlight away!!! This literally never happens. Thank you man. Amazing interview🔥 And thank you Terry for being such a big person man. This is powerful stuff and something I related too in more ways than one. Amazing all around!👏🏽👏🏽

[@lewishowes]

So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

[@infinitelyme0704]

Another great interview...Keep up the great content.

[@informedsrthankful2438]

GOLD👏👏👏 This is authenticity everyone and living from truth itself. Good stuff🔥 Awesome interview. Terry Crews🔥

[@optimisticgirl5015]

Omg can't believe my eyes😍 Thank you Lewis for hosting wonderful people 🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️

[@albertarce1135]

Thanks a lot for having this amazing human being in your show!

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome,thank you for being here 💜

[@gyoumans2901]

I'm so glad he spoke about the difficulty that men have coming forward when assaulted. Another great interview.

[@SadeChampagne]

19:00 in and every minute has already been so engaging, encouraging and touching. I love seeing emotionally intelligent men, and this channel is such a blessing Lewis!!

[@Sirjohnny]

Another great job, You are such an inspiration for my future interviews on my channel. Thank you so much for this.

[@Halonablack]

Lewis is coming through with the life altering interviews! I love Terry Crews and I appreciate his honesty. Ive had my heart broken by men who were the old Terry. And I’m holding on to a shred of hope that men evolve as they age (I’m 41). I will have to pick up his book and find some clues on what to look for and how to communicate with men.

[@mellymelz24]

Wowee! This was a Mesmerizing interview. I'am beyond words. Humbly Soo grateful to have experienced this moment of immense knowledge. Thank you!

[@oliviakeane350]

Such an honest, raw and beautiful interview! Thank you

[@ParfaitOfficial]

Getting bigger and bigger names on the show this is awesome !!

[@jennifernguyen357]

I’m glad he opened up this side of him that many men are very blind sighted by their pride & ego to even come close to admit. Great Interview again! 😃

[@daylestevens50]

This might have been the best interview so far. I love how honest amd relatable Terry was. Thank you for providing a safe environment for your guests to share. Great content!

[@chedream6916]

Such a great interview. Accountability, we need this so much.

[@serinat2181]

Good on him for admitting stuff that must be difficult to share. I love him in B99

[@kelvinolg]

WOW... I'm a Terry Crews fan now! He can talk/story tell! Great sharing!

[@HumansOfVR]

“You telling everyone what to do does not make you the boss. You doing everything you told yourself to do makes you the boss.” ― Terry Crews *If you're interested, my channel does animations to bring value on Health, Wealth, and Happiness. Stop by if you have the time :)*

[@chenk2106]

I wish it was longer. He has so much still to share :) thankyou for another great episode! I absolutely enjoyed it ✌🏼

[@nadiamoen7536]

I literally needed this in the worst way

[@randy1568]

Love Terry Crews! If I could talk to one celebrity it would be him! What an awesome guy. Thanks crews for being you and choosing to be REAL. I can relate more than I will share

[@alexandraviola9896]

Looking at the feelings we try to suppress by indulging in our addictions helps massively.

[@juancalynch7340]

"Behind every great man is a great woman". What a wonderful love story, not based on feelings, based on choices. Terry Crew born male, but he decided to be a real man.

[@kingsmustrise]

Great interview!!

[@SiriusAspirations]

I love Terry Crews 😍, thank you for showing us what true manhood looks like, I hope that our brothers are taking note of the sheer greatness shown by your humility. I'll be working on those three values accountability, love and creativity, they really resonate with me 🙌🏾 thank you ❤️💛 and thanks Lewis for hosting another great show with such an amazing guest. Keep it up the world needs it ❤️

[@starclone4]

An Amazing Interview.... Thank you !!!!

[@sherrykao978]

Such a moving interview !

[@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2]

WOWWWWWW !!!!!!!!!!! Pretty much 6 different interviews on major topics in one