Stop wasting time trying to be the Narcissists ideal partner

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terryjoeljunior

terryjoeljunior

Күн бұрын

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@BrianKarmo
@BrianKarmo 5 күн бұрын
My bro was venting, man I feel you deeply, it's gonna be alright, at least you didn't have kids with the evil entity!
@ShinobiShaw
@ShinobiShaw 5 күн бұрын
Then would have Rosemary’s baby😂😂😂😂
@BrianKarmo
@BrianKarmo 5 күн бұрын
@@ShinobiShaw Jezebels
@ShinobiShaw
@ShinobiShaw 5 күн бұрын
@@BrianKarmo the male version is no better either, I know because I am BI 😂
@BrianKarmo
@BrianKarmo 5 күн бұрын
@@ShinobiShaw Hello self-aware, at least you got the balls to admit it and the narcissistic brain to realize it, and become self aware. I commend you!
@ShinobiShaw
@ShinobiShaw 5 күн бұрын
@@BrianKarmoi am not a Narc, that would be TERRY😂😂😂😂
@beautyintradition8027
@beautyintradition8027 5 күн бұрын
I felt sick as I looked back at old pictures of me and my narcissistic ex while deleting them. Pictures of us smiling and doing fun things together, knowing now that it was all just a game. His words, his “I love yous”-none of it was real. He was filled with contempt for me, despite the fact that all I ever did was try to love him. The worst part was knowing he was already replacing me with new supply, future-faking with me while talking to other girls to line up his next source of attention. It was devastating to realize the extent of his manipulation.
@billthebutcher6873
@billthebutcher6873 4 күн бұрын
You sure you weren't the Narcissist? It kind of sounds like you were. Men don't leave good women. Men leave women who are difficult to be with.
@beautyintradition8027
@beautyintradition8027 4 күн бұрын
@ That’s a pretty tired narrative. Narcissists leave because they’ve drained their supply or moved on to their next victim, not because someone is ‘difficult.’ Maybe read up on it before making ignorant comments.
@beautyintradition8027
@beautyintradition8027 5 күн бұрын
It’s the ultimate mind f%*k to realize you fell in love with someone who never truly existed-just the mask they wore. Meanwhile, they’re still out there, alive and walking around, putting on the same fake act for their new supply, and there’s absolutely nothing you can do about it.😖
@brianbachmeier34
@brianbachmeier34 5 күн бұрын
We're all gonna make it brahs 👍
@wt5626
@wt5626 5 күн бұрын
Brahs❤
@JamesOlmos-z5m
@JamesOlmos-z5m 4 күн бұрын
Yup , goosebumps , but you can’t let them get you down, you have to heal and become a better version of yourself, you will get experience and be self-aware
@datasmall5954
@datasmall5954 3 күн бұрын
I ain't gonna hold you 3 mins in he's spot on
@minajeetjemineetje3002
@minajeetjemineetje3002 5 күн бұрын
One of the best videos that describes what someone goes through with a narcissist. It has been absolutely crazy to experience this stuff, sometimes I still cant believe it 😅
@ScrewySnare
@ScrewySnare 4 күн бұрын
Don’t stop putting truth out there. People need to hear this stuff
@bregjejabra25
@bregjejabra25 5 күн бұрын
All true. All correct. You desribed just my ex....Thank God I had the balls to call off the wedding 2 months in advance....No regrets almost 10 years later.
@LaBelleJouJou
@LaBelleJouJou 5 күн бұрын
Well, I’m super proud of you I know a couple that went through with it and… pure hell with kids now added to the mix I had to cut them off Blinders on and enablers that are just ignorant
@bregjejabra25
@bregjejabra25 5 күн бұрын
@@LaBelleJouJou Thank you. Yeah.....These video`s can save lifes....
@mathewvanostin7118
@mathewvanostin7118 4 күн бұрын
Dont hesitate to cancel marriage If the women wakes up decide to divorce no matter how unfair or mean it is You gonna get ruined with divorce alimoney, lawyer fees and cs cheques + if you manage to double your salary or more. She can sue you to increase cs cheque and alimoney in front of judge Its really no joke So dont be afraid to cancel when you have some proof relationship wont last
@rainpain3655
@rainpain3655 4 күн бұрын
The only relationship narcissists will have is with alcohol
@AidenErickson-bg3dr
@AidenErickson-bg3dr 4 күн бұрын
Or meth
@michaelmoran8780
@michaelmoran8780 4 күн бұрын
For sure 😂
@billthebutcher6873
@billthebutcher6873 4 күн бұрын
Not true at all lol
@LynseyMorrison
@LynseyMorrison Күн бұрын
I feel every single word and its so painful takes so long to recover 💔
@user-ju6zx3rm8d
@user-ju6zx3rm8d 4 күн бұрын
it's the same with girls who have BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder)
@btasner7037
@btasner7037 4 күн бұрын
I saw her on your IG and thought she was sus. I don’t know, maybe I’m just too cynical, but those tattoos were the red flag. I don’t know a single woman that has tattoos that hasn’t been through severe trauma. Tattoos on women speak volumes bro, just my own opinion
@LeeEverett1
@LeeEverett1 4 күн бұрын
I never got to see her but facts. Visible tattoos on a woman is like spots on a snake telling you it's dangerous. He fell for the love bombing like we all do, these women are wild
@btasner7037
@btasner7037 4 күн бұрын
@ 💯
@thecurmudgeon7350
@thecurmudgeon7350 4 күн бұрын
Tattoos on women absolutely disgust me (especially when they have them anywhere on their chest or stomach) but I still dealt with these women in the past. Ironically, the women that treated me the best and went out their way to do things for me were tatted up.
@TheDirtyChef
@TheDirtyChef 5 күн бұрын
Just left a narcissist. I have been supporting her in her time of need because I knew her when we were teens. She is not the same person she was at 17. That being said I found out through just hanging around that ehe isnt serious about fixing her future. She just wants the help. I didnt start helping you so you could be like ok, well he's got me now so I dont really need to fix me. I called her out and she turned into everything you stated a narcissist will do when called out. Im now a piece of shit because I let you know that I want a better woman.
@marciusss22
@marciusss22 2 күн бұрын
You are perfect master of men's mind 👌 Thanks for all your videos. Very clear and very useful and helpful bro 👍
@jonathanhalverson9536
@jonathanhalverson9536 4 күн бұрын
I needed to hear this.
@Konrad-cj8fr
@Konrad-cj8fr 4 күн бұрын
After 2 diabolical narcissist women, who claimed to be good christian women, I am done chasing drama, psychopathic games, controll, lies and betray. ✅
@armyparrot9353
@armyparrot9353 4 күн бұрын
@Konrad-cj8fr Honestly at the end of the day the periodic sex is not worth the constant frustration.
@LeahMoonbeam
@LeahMoonbeam 4 күн бұрын
Anyone who “ claims” to be “ good Christian woman“ is like the oldest trick in the book. Religion is literally the oldest trick in the book. Hopefully, you won’t become the monsters that hurt you. Hopefully, you are exercising and eating well as much as you can. Life will be okay. ❤
@LeeEverett1
@LeeEverett1 4 күн бұрын
Just take a break from women brother and focus on yourself. Most of them ain't worth it nowadays and aren't good women
@mathewvanostin7118
@mathewvanostin7118 4 күн бұрын
There is no true 100% pure honest christian women under 40 anymore At best they like to have the delusion they are good christian. But without doing the efforts/lifestyle the bible ask from christian The only thing left is mouslim women in some conservative countries where the american way of dating-relationship influence didnt well suceed
@mysticallymary
@mysticallymary 5 күн бұрын
My covert ex narc hid the fact he had a child until he had me hooked with his fake charm and positivity. So by the time I found out I knew it was a red flag but I was really smitten w/him (lesson learned, I should have run).
@mathewvanostin7118
@mathewvanostin7118 4 күн бұрын
Is this his only bad point? Cause if the relationship went bad cause of that lie and everything was fine before that life discovery. You did mistake Cause many men gonna lie about things where we think we have a better chance at dating Cause women be rejecting you for clown reasons. Youre too old. 18+ but too young. You are unemployed. Dont make enough money. You were divorced. Your have family already. You have a recent ex. You did jail time. You abandon wife in other country etc Even nationalities😂 some nationalities are a turn off for some wommen while other nationality boost your dating chance. Like lie youre italien or french. And watch your dating sucess triple😅😂😂 Those lies are excusable if it was done cause he wanted to boost dating chance. Best thing is give 1 chance to come up honest clean and move on without drama about it
@mysticallymary
@mysticallymary 4 күн бұрын
@@mathewvanostin7118 no there was a lot more...but looking back that really stuck out for me as a big secret.
@hugis430
@hugis430 5 күн бұрын
I’m glad I’ve found this video. I have a very similar situation for a long period of time already. I know the solution but there will be caveats for sure. Specially the impact to my partner and my 8 year old daughter. I just want a peaceful agreement and peaceful settlement in the near future. Thank you for sharing brother.
@LeeEverett1
@LeeEverett1 4 күн бұрын
One of your best videos yet. I can relate to so much of it with my last narc ex.
@Lar-r2e
@Lar-r2e 4 күн бұрын
You are so 100 percent true. I went with 3 narcissists and 1 borderline. What you say is what I saw from all of them
@randyscott2981
@randyscott2981 4 күн бұрын
Love from Mississippi
@leonone7377
@leonone7377 5 күн бұрын
Very true about you feel like there is a hater in your house...the sudden realisation 😮
@iconicintuitive
@iconicintuitive 4 күн бұрын
Great topic. We're all ideal partners. Some of us can even fly high. But narcissists who are partners in any sense... expect what doesn't exist
@jamaalwilliams2241
@jamaalwilliams2241 5 күн бұрын
Terry this is a powerful message I want to let you know I appreciate you thank you for sharing that really helped me out
@jetsam12
@jetsam12 4 күн бұрын
Sucking air through the teeth is hilarious, why does he do it😅
@mathewvanostin7118
@mathewvanostin7118 4 күн бұрын
Bro nice neck muscles💪🗿
@UpwardsSpiral-t7v
@UpwardsSpiral-t7v 5 күн бұрын
I have had times in relationships, when i saw the mask slip, and I realized, "oh, this is what it would be like if I married her" and it is fascinating, to see someone who is seemingly all sunshine and roses, reveal their cold true nature, then they try to put the mask back up quick when they see your reaction. I made a video about pre marriage warning. it seems all men think that their gf is the unicorn according to many divorced men. edit: wow i just watched the video and it described my comment and past relationships to a t. haha
@grumpeechat
@grumpeechat 4 күн бұрын
Truth.
@treefiddy4663
@treefiddy4663 4 күн бұрын
4 years actually 4 years with the narcissist in a relationship I feel like my whole world is going down I don't know what to do.. definitely hurts but I'm trying my best not to go back and not hear deam word about her
@dyna1937
@dyna1937 4 күн бұрын
That background noise gets louder every video lol
@btasner7037
@btasner7037 4 күн бұрын
Great content, great video quality….but lots of people listen to these while they’re busy, and the audio quality is rough on the ears. A wireless mic would make a world of difference.
@SamsanSoren
@SamsanSoren 5 күн бұрын
reading the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki could completely shift how you see and apply the principles of attraction
@pauljimenez6594
@pauljimenez6594 5 күн бұрын
Sooo true 💯
@Jmatrixxxxxxxx
@Jmatrixxxxxxxx 5 күн бұрын
Good luck finding someone like that. Might try Amish country.
@Manuel-6
@Manuel-6 5 күн бұрын
I just need my soulmate with me and forget about Joel.
@ShinobiShaw
@ShinobiShaw 5 күн бұрын
He is one of THEM, he is showing revelation of the method😂😂😂😂
@crystalmorgan9118
@crystalmorgan9118 4 күн бұрын
How long does it take to get over 48 year long family narcissist 10 years
@GeoCeoLeo
@GeoCeoLeo 4 күн бұрын
Their ideal partner is evil, so if you want to be evil stay with them
@El_izabethheart
@El_izabethheart 4 күн бұрын
An old flamer is the saddest of sad 😂 like little old ladies are cute and ok!! Old flamers are still MEN at the end of the day and it's a bad time for them
@DevinDillenger
@DevinDillenger 4 күн бұрын
🚩💃🏻🚩 Ms. Lisa is here for attention fellas 😂😂😂😂
@TestTheSpiritsIfTheyAreOfYAH
@TestTheSpiritsIfTheyAreOfYAH 5 күн бұрын
Test the Jezebel /Every spirit (including Yourselves yes You) against The Word Of Almighty 📖 The Holy Bible.
@Konrad-cj8fr
@Konrad-cj8fr 4 күн бұрын
Amen
@TheStoicPath_
@TheStoicPath_ 5 күн бұрын
2025 will be our year boys 💪
@TestTheSpiritsIfTheyAreOfYAH
@TestTheSpiritsIfTheyAreOfYAH 5 күн бұрын
No I want Yah Jesus’s Holy Spirit year not my fallen way
@mathewvanostin7118
@mathewvanostin7118 4 күн бұрын
All i am hoping is that there wont be some weird lockdown mask pandemic again 😂
@jamaalwilliams2241
@jamaalwilliams2241 5 күн бұрын
And God bless you Terry you're doing a great job
@El_izabethheart
@El_izabethheart 5 күн бұрын
I'm the Pokemon trying to drink the coffee in the Ryan Renalds movie 😂
@Roseberrylove
@Roseberrylove 4 күн бұрын
Damn sorry ur relationship fell apart thats unfortunate. I pray u get married when the time is right and have lots of babies :///
@skanshuthakur6008
@skanshuthakur6008 5 күн бұрын
if more people read the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, the way we understand attraction would transform overnight
@Aquamarine7
@Aquamarine7 5 күн бұрын
I like you Terry 🩵💋
@Aplacewhereanythinggoes
@Aplacewhereanythinggoes 5 күн бұрын
No SIMPING here 😅
@Aquamarine7
@Aquamarine7 5 күн бұрын
​u jealous?😅
@Aplacewhereanythinggoes
@Aplacewhereanythinggoes 5 күн бұрын
Terry doesn't like simps. I have watched him for 3 yrs 😅😂​@@Aquamarine7
@Aquamarine7
@Aquamarine7 5 күн бұрын
​like he cares what you think 😅
@rocket_smash1681
@rocket_smash1681 5 күн бұрын
terry doesn't like women who enjoy privileges and benefits at the cost of the average man and still complain for more.
@El_izabethheart
@El_izabethheart 5 күн бұрын
Wait, the girl u were just with is a narc?? 🙀🙄 What else is new, world full of narcs 😐
@Aplacewhereanythinggoes
@Aplacewhereanythinggoes 5 күн бұрын
You a Narc?
@El_izabethheart
@El_izabethheart 5 күн бұрын
@Aplacewhereanythinggoes nope. "Empath" narc victim. Was married to one b4
@treydudley
@treydudley 5 күн бұрын
@@Aplacewhereanythinggoesare you a narc?
@El_izabethheart
@El_izabethheart 5 күн бұрын
@@Aplacewhereanythinggoes you know HG Tudor? My ex husband was like That
@SD-xz1ee
@SD-xz1ee 4 күн бұрын
​@@El_izabethheartHG Tudor? That's gross
@Loverboy-f7j
@Loverboy-f7j 5 күн бұрын
they overlook ebooks like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki because its insights on attraction challenge conventional thinking
@TQSinc758
@TQSinc758 5 күн бұрын
2:08 💔 🚩🚩🚩I always get something good out these content that why I can't stop listening 😅👍🏽💯
@4669Mikehines
@4669Mikehines 5 күн бұрын
as long as u got what u wanted who cares lmao.
@El_izabethheart
@El_izabethheart 5 күн бұрын
Put my foot down with the rich old man. Like, if you want time with me it's going to be on your dime, not mine.
@IsaiahGraham2007
@IsaiahGraham2007 4 күн бұрын
Yeah like you said, it has to stop because this is to much, we only got 2 days until new year's like come on now, I want to have a good time during 2025, so at my school one of them trying to make fun of me because I have autism and adhd, hopefully when I get back during the break I should be back to normal, yeah I will see you in a next one stay bless🙏🏾🤍
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