THANK GOD I SURVIVED 🙏🏼🥺 || CHILD TRAUMA ? || TIBETAN VLOGGER

[@PhayulInspires]

Sorry to hear you went through tough times, hope things have changed in your old school. Forgive and forget and I hope you move on and stay be happy. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@TenzinMinkey]

Doing good now and I have already forgiven them but will not forget how they treated me.

[@amazingguy9756]

Stay strong and courageous. Leave all those painful memories behind and it only gives you more pain. Keep moving forward🎉

[@choekyianutsang]

My heart broke listening to you. I am so so so sorry for your traumatic experience. It sounded like a story from Middle East Country. The physical and mental abuse these kids go through are at another level and the trauma they still live with. Time up for school authorities to look away and those foster parents, they have no right to call themselves evolved human beings. I think more people and kids should tell their stories and call them out. Dear minkey, you were such a brave girl and you still are exposing those people. More power to you and remember you did nothing wrong! Hugs. ❤

[@TenzinMinkey]

Thank you 🥺🙏🏼☺️🥰

[@Tseringyangzom-93]

I agree with u ..it’s not easy to overcome thru childhood trauma…ur childhood is what define ur present…let it all come out…and heal with lots of love❤

[@TenzinMinkey]

❤️❤️

[@tensel439]

5 years in tcv was a torture for me as well.school was great but khimtsang amala was something .Lived every day in fear.long story short left school and never looked back.I pray no kids gets treated that way.i am glad you are speaking up.

[@TenzinMinkey]

I am glad that me sharing my story might help others to get awareness and for those who suffered back then and couldn’t use their voice and our story left untold, can finally feel heard and let go of those trauma and can heal. ❤️

[@tensel439]

@@TenzinMinkey Absolutely!More power to you.😃Stay happy!!

[@TenzinMinkey]

@tensel439 ❤️🫶🏻🙏🏼

[@kungalhundup-vf8ue]

😮That's pretty sad, and I'm sorry to hear that you had really hard time💔

[@TenzinMinkey]

I am all healed now 😌🙏🏼

[@Tenkyi-zo7fc]

I’ve spent 9 long years in Rajpur and I had a good time and memories in SOS until I reached class 9 where you will be transferred to hostel and there my life started to change completely because no one can imagine how strict the hostel is!(specially Amala,pala, school prefects and captains) there are certain rule that you people can’t imagine like we don’t get to eat properly cuz while eating you’ll get card even if you drop a pinch of salt on the table and later whoever is the last desk to get the card have to do frog jump which is fine but in front of bunch of boys who’ll be laughing at us intentionally! And yah we have only 10 mins to eat and if you don’t complete within the given time you’ll be punished I mean should we worry about the card or eat? Ngl most of the teachers knows about the hostel rule but no one took a stand for us and we couldn’t raise our voice either cuz we are small and afraid of pala’s stick!!!! There are many more rule which you couldn’t imagine in ur wildest dream but we have been through it and what I’m regretting the most is I couldn’t raise my voice at that time thankfully pala Amala has been changed now. Minkey I know you’ve been through a lot and everyone who’ve been through it knows too but let past be past and chill now 🙂😉

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah I clearly remember those tensions we had like so many rules and we really have to be so careful for every action n every words we use. Like u said past is past, n m glad if they really changed.

[@Asian_tib_gal]

Yeah, I still remember, we used to get lots of punishment for such silly things like we couldn’t eat lunch in 10 min n still remember we have to go hostel by 5 to 10 min after the study time orelse they talk shit abut us like we have been with boys n all.. omg I’m glad that u talk abut it n really hope it’s not the same as our time now a days..

[@TenzinMinkey]

@Asian_tib_gal yeah I know how stressful it was back than like we were always in rush n never free. Yeah hope it’s not same right now.

[@sonamyangzom3141]

M, good that you shared and opened up. Good for you and for many who went through the same situation. Stupid and barbaric act of those foster parents and the concerned for treating in such an awful way. They really need to be sued or atleast call out names properly and apologize. People need to change and learn from each other and open up. Strict is not only the way to treat students. You are very strong and the guts to open up though late. More people should come out and share. Good for the community and to grow. Cheers.

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know it’s late but I am glad I shared it after regretting for so long to not stand for myself. Now we had this social media platform where we can share our story if something unfair happened coz we can share around our community and the head will take action on every single details.

[@tenzintenzin529]

Girl! You are very strong. If I was in ur place I wouldn’t even stay there I swear to god. But you were very strong and matured too. I cried when u were sharing it. And tbh there wasn’t any mistake of urs. I felt that. No one deserves to be beaten like that. I hope that khimstang Amala and that pala watches and regrets it. I don’t even feel like saying la to them seriously. They don’t deserve La. Now past is past don’t think about it and be happy with ur family and bf. Stay happy and blessed 😇

[@TenzinMinkey]

Thank you ☺️ I did felt like leaving school but knowing I had to repeat my class again in other school, I stayed🥲

[@dhendupfamily]

Beautiful Bhumo la, it’s not your mistake. So sorry to hear this kind of real Truman we to go through. I totally understand . Very similar this happened to me when I was young . My Tibetan teacher he bit me unforgettable without any reason.

[@TenzinMinkey]

As a child, we really need to know the reason why we r getting beat up. If it’s something that we did wrong that we can learn from it but without any valid reason, we lost our childhood.

[@Pems123-z2o]

It’s true that lots of children got in ths kind of trauma. Including me also, i am frm ex upper TCV. I came frm Tibet. I have no cousins or anything. Our home amala, she will do good with kids who hv rich backgrounds not like us. And she beat us like dog. We says past is past but for reality it’s keeps in our mind forever, BCZ OF ALL THAT TRAUMA i couldn’t concentrate on study also!!! SO I REQUEST ALL THE STUFF IN TCV SCHOOL OR ANY OTHERS PLZ DO GOOD WID ALL KIDS. Kids life is depends on u all. I m still crying while writing ths. I would say that I still hate that amala

[@TenzinMinkey]

I hope you are doing lot more better now. I know how their action remains on our mind forever. When the times goes on, we think that we successfully escaped from them and it never gona come back. But in reality, we can’t help ourself but keep going to that moments and pity our younger self to endure all those unfair stuff and find ourself sobbing over that past experience. I hope they had learned their mistake and won’t do this anymore. ❤️❤️🫶🏻 sending lots of love

[@888tenzin]

The foster parents were worse but captains and prefects (girls) were no less. We have this rule if you remember, we were given chilli paste and tingmo for breakfast sometimes. Hostel amala usually don’t allow us to eat (our private)chilli for breakfast but we must eat the one given by hostel kitchen whether we like it or not. One or two spoonful for each girls bench compulsory. So one time my friends bench have not ate the chilli paste since no one from their bench can tolerate spice so after breakfast time. They were stopped by girls captain and prefects and were forced to drink that chilli paste without anything to eat with it. (my friend had intestinal burns and indigestion she was prescribed not to eat anything spicy by the doctor yet she was forced to drink that )

[@888tenzin]

I use to count every single day till we get our winter holidays. Each day in that hostel was dreading. My last year at that hostel was something else I use to sleep in class everyday because waking up means I have constant thoughts about hostel. The taunting behaviour of prefects to hell of an atmosphere created by room monitor and dear hostel pala amala. Sleep was my escape from reality. God knows how I survived that year. Rethinking about those two years in Rajpur girls hostel makes me agitated, frightened, nervous and emotional.

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know how much we were forced to do something even if it’s something normal related to the schools rules. I hope the schools head can do some research on each hostel n khimtsang so the students can really focus on their study.

[@TenzinMinkey]

Sorry to hear about ur experience. Hope this will stop one day and everyone can have a courage to fight against those injustices.

[@NgawangChoekyi-mj5eh]

Yeah I hope school administration could do meetings somtimes n ask the kids abt their problems openly without any fears. Coz not every child is same who can take these experience so easily n forget, some r sensitive n get trauma in their future.

[@tenzingtsering7508]

Life is not fair to everyone, You just have to leave those bad Memories behind and take all the good ones with you. I know you’re strong enough and that you able overcome it keep at it . ~Ten Tsering

[@TenzinMinkey]

Thank you 🙏🏼 I know how it’s not fear and we acted like we were okay. I am all good now. Take care and have fun :)

[@xenpalmo]

Its so sad to hear ur story , literally shaking and getting emotional here😭after listening to it. I can’t even imagine wat u hav gone through. I see You as strong girl, capable of overcoming any obstacle. Your strength and determination are truly inspiring🙏.

[@TenzinMinkey]

I am glad that my story might inspire others.

[@tenzinchoden8117]

Ya, I also have the same experience in Rajpur It is really hard to survive there 2yrs feels like 2000 thousand Yrs and I cry every night. I'm also one who has the highest zero and that zero feels like Hell 😢

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know right? Punishment n putting zero was not a problem but just getting zero for silly stuff was the most annoying n stressing part.

[@tenzinlakha9791]

I am boarding school at CST mussoorie. Our mama la is so mean too. If she don’t like she beat you whole bunch of key at our head. I feel you. Please don’t think. You are strong girl. Take care . God bless you. They got punished from god .

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah I know how we all endure those stuff when it was not a Normal.

[@tenzinchoeying932]

Yes 🙌for having the courage to speak up for urself Hope parents of student who r in boarding school will watch this n show interest in there school life Seriously,I also avoided speaking up about such incidents since I was too scared of making it into bigger issues But at last we should always seek help in such situations

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know right! We thought we were no more kids and we were trying our best to be majored, to be strong and not cause trouble to everyone. Now that I looked back, we were really innocent and scared for speaking.

[@tenzinbe.]

I appreciate you r bold enough at school life, I can understand ur feelings. There is no mistakes frm ur side .. y AMA la is there for ? Her duty is to understand ur feelings of freshers and at new atmosphere, she discourages you from the beginning.. Ama la’s r not meant for discouraging her children, showing hatred and partiality.. Shameful such pala n ama la as warden .. But my dear minkey la u deserves all the praise and respect, happiness in ur life ❤❤❤ lots of blessings

[@TenzinMinkey]

Thank you so much! I am getting better and so grateful for everyone who was there by my side. And I am genuinely so happy and loving my best life 🫶🏻❤️

[@choenzinbinitsang7095]

Minkyi you are so strong God bless u girl 🥺🥰🥰 I got tears on my eyes

[@TenzinMinkey]

Thank you so much ☺️

[@kalsangmethok7413]

I am ex student from Homes from 2013-2014 and during our period we had the best hostel foster parents. There are certain rules for sure that you can’t over-share inside problems with outsider before it is clear within.Certainly zero are giving for late comers and who are talking during studying period.And yes indeed beaten you up without having clarification is totally wrong and sorry to know that.And whether it's Rajput or homes Mie both are great institutions with disciplinary students but sometimes certain staffs doesn't know how to keep it .They forget that we as students do have feelings and sorrows that I can't share with them and had our parents and closed ones are worrying about us from long distance.When I was in 11th grade I got seriously sick it was during raining seasons and the head nurse didn't believed in me nor the principal , I cried like almost every day after the school for an half a year.I can never forget about it.😢

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah HOMES SCHOOL itself is so grate and some staff are really kind but it’s just becoz of some people where we have to go through so much and now speaking about it feels bad too coz u don’t want to hurt the school but u really don’t want others to go through same.

[@tenchoela]

People who grew up in homes all have some trauma related to these problems. Teachers and hostel Pala’s and Amala’s and captains think they are entitled. Yes you are more experienced and adult but that doesn’t give you the right to do such things. Teachers humiliate you , captains give you warnings based on false rumours. I never realised until now that it was such a toxic environment. You get humiliated for laughing too loud, talking with boys, for just being beautiful. Students spread false rumours, Character assassination is always present when you’re out of the box. It was such a trauma but I did enjoy my school life. And I hope it’s not like that anymore!! And Minkey you weren’t in the wrong. It was just how small minded people think. You were just being you. I hope all the people involved get their karma !! 🫶🏼

[@TenzinMinkey]

We suffered for something that we didn’t even deserve and now we all are trying our best to heal from those wounds. I hope whoever has gone through such painful trauma, may heal soon and we will leave them to the KARMA. God saws our tears.

[@ocean_eleven11]

Being a ex-student of Rajpur & Mussoorie , same here 😡, same goes………be strong 💪 Good awareness ❤

[@TenzinMinkey]

🙏🏼🙏🏼🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@Me2yota]

#tibetangovt please do something . Kids go to school for education not to gain awful experience like this. This is tortures that can traumatise a little soul for life. Bless you little girl . Please email the government now so we can make sure our future brothers and sisters don’t suffer

[@TenzinMinkey]

It’s been almost 8-10 years since that incident happened. I already forgive them as the time passes. But I feel the importance to share my story and my feeling as it was a traumatised experience and sharing it really makes my heart lighter and I can finally not cry.

[@tenzintenzin7201]

That Pala should have been jailed for harassment and child abuse…

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know right? But it’s okay I already forgive them from my side.

[@TseringyoudonDorjeetsang]

❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@tenzin8458]

Yess so true, can't believe we all been through this at one moment.

[@TenzinMinkey]

Let’s be proud of ourself 🥰❤️‍🩹

[@kyizombhumo9846]

Rajapure is the worst place for students because of very lack of parenting. Foster parents were very overloaded towards students. Students are just under 18 years so whenever I see them beating It is the kind of Chinese government bullying Tibetan children in Tibet. 😢 you are very brave to tell this story. Omg, so sad!

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah the rules are super strict like u even wonder if this is how ppl there are suffering like us. I am talking about our girls foster parents idk about boys.

[@karchoe7229]

I still remember that next day, when you showed me all your bruises, I got all teary after one glance, and the fact that he hit only over the upper thighs which won’t be visible over the level of skirt. I don’t know how u handle back in those days but you are one of the strongest girl I have ever known. Keep on going dear ❤

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know right! I still remember how u cried that day and how u helped me with all the cleaning duties. ❤️

[@tashidelekdokpotso]

Aww, I'm crying missing my old friend who once took my place in duty when i was sick having fever but Khimtsang Amala still made me do my duty 😢😢

[@TenzinMinkey]

@tashidelekdokpotso yeah that’s the problem like if someone is doing for us and it’s getting cleaned up, just leave us alone

[@TenzinJinpa-sy8hl]

Little Minkey and big minkey. Nice to see you little Minkey, hope you are fine now, don't think too much about the past, i know we all have faced difficulties in that smal are school with only two groud to play and one day of outing.

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah! All good now happy here :)

[@Tenzinla07]

Stay strong girl I’m from Mussoorie homes n we also went through the same situation. Everytime I think about that situation my tears comes

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know it was not easy but kudos to us. We survived and let’s heal together ❤️🫶🏻

[@Karma_pema]

Beautiful & pretty always 💓 They are not so that’s y they got problems with u being frndly n lovely lol

[@TenzinMinkey]

🥰🙏🏼

[@JadevRohan]

Almost all the girls who has stayed in girl hostel had traumatic experience..... Boys don't have any rules to follow but girls they have very strict rule to follow.... Even while eating girls r not allowed to spill even one rice bean on table, not allowed to talk, not allowed to sing, not allowed to put leg on table, have eat all food on time if v r even one minute late v hv to do frog jump on big ground. They even other lots of rules to follow.... They give special treatment to monitor, they treat school monitor like a god and treat other girls like peasant

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know how we got jealous for boys as they don’t have any strict rules even if it were them who cause most of the problems and do something out of rules like how unfair our life was.

[@JadevRohan]

@@TenzinMinkey we were just too young to understand that

[@Kdolma63]

Yes rajpur is best school but pala and amala is not good . I am ex- rajpur I been go through same situation. Like Minkey I now your felling . Be strong.

[@TenzinMinkey]

Lolo thank you 🙏🏼

[@tenzindakar1765]

I’m one of the former student of Tibetan homes school , but I haven’t been there at Rajpur school as I was sent to Mussoorie.. Tbh I’ve heard lots n lots abt there foster parents even the school captain n prefect were misused the power, by seeing at your scenario , it was illegal n totally it’s seen misleading the power…… You didn’t deserve all this harsh n thrashed out…. Stay happy & try not to recall all this trauma that you’ve experienced….. I can understand how you fell… Even for me,after hearing those strictness & rules n regulation that made by themselves.. Ik that I can’t tolerate all this stuff , thank god that I was sent to Mussoorie.. It’s was my luck frfr :) Keep smiling & never change your character for sake of others .. Live your life happily as we all individual have one life after all ♡︎

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah I know. My younger brother joined Mussoorie one year before I joined the homes. He used to tell me he is happy there and I was like okay I might joined him. But than I was send to rajpur where the hostel life has traumatised me so much.

[@Sampelmo]

Discipline is discipline right if you didn't follow discipline then you wil get punishment so leave it lo past is past so be happy lo

[@TenzinMinkey]

🙏🏼🫶🏻

[@JadevRohan]

In rajpur there is a separate rule for boys and for girls, there are lots of discrimination Boys have more freedom than girls almost all the girls who have stayed in girls hostels have traumatic experience

[@TenzinMinkey]

Only people who experienced themselves will know the story and that feeling. Hope it’s not same anymore

[@tashiphuntsok3721]

You are a strong girl. Nobody deserves to bite at a young girl. Look now you become an independent, strong and cheerful girl. Stay strong and keep making beautiful vlog❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.

[@TenzinMinkey]

Lolo thank you. And yes I am proud of myself for who I am rn even thought it’s nothing big to others. Happy n proud to survived those days

[@gcut4182]

That bruises tears me up for real! Some hostel pala are sick for real! I was hit by gas pipe( that shit is really thick and hard)…

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know how they beat us with weird stuff that we can’t imagine. Idk how we all endured those things. Even I saw some boys captains who beat with the 2 bed 🛌 stick( panglep) n saw them broken and made me tears up. Hope no one is going through this rn.

[@yeshilhamo2467]

U r strong girl

[@lassywale]

Minky you are very sweet but just like you said we all think different see different, khimtsang pala mama they maybe close minded so i hope if they see your video hopefully there view will change, regret, thanks for speaking maybe future khimtsang pala ama will do less strict and also means less trauma to students 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 again thanks for awareness 👍🏻🙏🏻

[@TenzinMinkey]

I really hope they are not proud of their own made rules and their actions. May they regret those and trying to change them for the better version.

[@lassywale]

@@TenzinMinkey 💯🙏🏻

[@animelife6612]

So sad to hear oh my God😢😢😢 hostel amala do discriminate.minkey don't worry .be strong ❤❤

[@TenzinMinkey]

Lolo 🙏🏼 all healed here n happy now ❤️

[@KLR12464]

Honestly, Tibetan school is grateful to everyone HOWEVER the staffs way to handling kids is pathetic. I studied at Gopalpur school, the hostel Amala beat 7-8 girls of 11 standard cause they named their friends group Pangko gang. It was pathetic. She made the monitors get their books and photos and all. I found it weird. She would call girls who were friendly with boys. That Amala was later kicked out as Matron and was made a baby room Amala. Good for her but her husband was a great human. It’s sick. Tibetan school’s teacher shouldn’t be an arse. Not saying all of them tho. Some of them are sick, they are the reason why some kids are having mental issues even when they grow up. Sorry to hear what you went through Minkyi la. Sending love

[@TenzinMinkey]

Exactly like I am forever grateful to the teachers who really helped us to gain knowledge but due to some staff, their actions remains on our head for so long that we didn’t realised when it become the trauma.

[@KLR12464]

@@TenzinMinkey Indeed. Staffs are meant to guide them and not give them traumas. That’s why so many Tibetans grown ups have trauma related issues now.

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah hope they all r healing ❤️‍🩹

[@Pemslha]

Don’t worry minkyi, god will punish them for sure👍

[@TenzinMinkey]

WE BELIEVE IN KARMA 🙏🏼

[@Pemslha]

They will never be success in their life👽

[@NgawangChoekyi-mj5eh]

I’m also frm ex-Rajpur n I’m forever grateful fr the school bt yeah how u describe abt the hostel rules, foster parents n those fucking captains most of them they were misusing their powers. I can relate ur story abt the boys complaints on gals who were frank or have a Gud sense of dressing. Those fucking prefects literally took the complains seriously n gave us warning or get punishment in worse! I used to get thes criticisms abt my dressing sense n my expression lol if I think back Im laughing at them. Apart from this situation I reli enjoyed my skol life in Rajpur. Fortunately In my first year in hostel ‘B’ our fosters they were both kind n gud to kids. Bt those prefects n captains were so strict not in a healthy way. Bt I reli hope things has changed nw n the administration n management they r doing the job well n concerning on kids well nw.

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah I hope so 🤞🏻

[@Asian_tib_gal]

I still remember like how we wants to play game n all, but we won’t get that opportunity in Rajput scul. N also the boys are always enjoying n playing football even if we look at the ground when boys are playing how the pala n Amala are looking at us n talk shit. Omg I can’t believe we used to be so scared of such a fucking things. When now I think abut all that I feel like why we don’t have that courage to talk abut all shit back then. If we cooperate and fucking complain then maybe we didn’t got that much torture back then fuck I still regret for all that.. be strong gal, here for you🥂🙌

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know how we all were so scared back than right? I still regret for not complaining after my incident but well we were just a kids and we knew that standing for ourself means that (they will think) we were just disrespecting them and trying to be some guentok pari.

[@tenzchoe8207]

Wooowww thats so fucked uppp. I am so sorry. I hope you are okay. 😢

[@TenzinMinkey]

Getting better here ☺️🫶🏻

[@Gangster-b1c]

Hi dea I was there when it happened and i teared up at that time while hearing those belts slap Later when I was able to absorb it all I was so furious at myself for not doing anything at all, and cursing myself that if I had done smth or if I had spoken up against that (which I know I could l never being the coward I am) I would have been able to stop saved you both fromat least one two beating You didn’t deserve that at all and I really appreciate the way you explained it, made it sound so less horrifying than I remember Overall I hope you know I am so glad you shared it to us And I don’t know why they were always like that to you You were so cute so loving and outgoing You were like a ray of sunshine in that dark place

[@TenzinMinkey]

Thank you for your words. Don’t feel sorry coz I know how we all were so scared of being the next target of them. We had no power back then to speak up coz at the end of the day we have to come back at hostel and face them. I am happy that I can share this finally and to know how many of you had faced the same and was there to witnesses my story. Now alls good 👍 living my best life 😉

[@Gangster-b1c]

@@TenzinMinkey yes totally we were helpless All and all so happy for you now

[@TenzinMinkey]

@user-uk5ur4jc2h thank you 🙏🏼☺️

[@dolyang1518]

I m sorry ache for what you been through . u really don't deserve it

[@TenzinMinkey]

🥺🫶🏻🙏🏼

[@Caydei]

Traumatic experience i felt in my environment was so little infront of yours and some people who have shared theirs. I wonder how many more have gone through such. 😢

[@TenzinMinkey]

Hope we all are healing with our unknown traumatic experiences. 🫶🏻

[@Rinchend614]

I'm very sorry to hear that and it is very emotional my younger sis got the same problem. The last she left the school 😢😭

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah I also thought to left the school but I was in 10 grade and if I changed the school, I need to start from 9. So endure all those. 🫶🏻

[@behonest9812]

​@@TenzinMinkey yap 😢 be strong and stay happy 🥰😘❣️

[@tenzin173]

So upsetting to know your terrifying time in school😞

[@TenzinMinkey]

Praying no one has to go through things like this.

[@Molam95]

Hi dear it’s really saden to hear that… u should reveled that foster mom and dad so that this kind of things won’t repeat again to anyone… they might learn the lesson, may be they r still doing this for hunga to others kids who knows.. so reveled there name

[@TenzinMinkey]

I would love to so they can know that it was wrong but since it’s all in past and I don’t want to hurt their kids feeling.

[@yangchenphuntsok6684]

😂😂😂😂 😂I can feel u my child ❤please try to forget lo.God bless you more ❤

[@TenzinMinkey]

🙏🏼😌

[@yangchenphuntsok6684]

@@TenzinMinkey❤I love you my dear.So sorry my dear

[@kunnlhaa5210]

I’m so sorry that you had to go through all this

[@TenzinMinkey]

🙏🏼🥰

[@Gangster-b1c]

❤❤❤

[@tashiiwangmoo]

When I was new to Rajpur, I heard that someone named Minkey was beaten so badly by the hostel Pala, that her thighs turned purple with bruises, almost like blood clots. It was that severe. Now that I have watched this video, I can truly understand how much pain you must have gone through. I am very sorry for what your younger self endured.It's true that in the past, the environment at THF Rajpur hostel, was extremely strict-almost to the point of being like torture. The prefects and Amala Pala, enforced very harsh rules. This made life very difficult for the students.

[@TenzinMinkey]

Omg u made me tears while reading this and m at work rn 😂 Yeah it was not easy and whenever I saw kids around my younger self, I can’t help but keep pitying my younger self n wondering what I did to deserve that. I hope no one has to go through that just because they are in some higher position to rule us.

[@tashiiwangmoo]

@@TenzinMinkey more power to you Acha ❤️❤️

[@TenzinMinkey]

@tashiiwangmoo ❤️🫶🏻🙏🏼

[@Tenkyi-zo7fc]

Even I heard too! After experiencing the Rajpur’s hostel life I’ve never stayed in any hostel cuz that’s how scared I was and affected me a lot!!

[@TenzinMinkey]

@Tenkyi-zo7fc let’s all try to heal from those things ❤️

[@tenzinbhuti7782]

The strongest girl 👍💗💝

[@TenzinMinkey]

🥺🫶🏻🥰

[@elsala6353]

Every girl who lives in rajpur girls hostel has it's own hard story

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know right? Hope all are doing good

[@tenzin2208]

Stay strong ❤️

[@TenzinMinkey]

🙏🏼🫶🏻

[@TamdinTwins]

Bully in school and hostels are very much common..only we tibtan don't take it serious...mental trauma at young age is far serious than any other issues..

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know how we were taught that certain things are okay and even if you feel like it’s not, you have to endure so you wont get another punishment. Now that people are giving importance of mental health, we get to know that it really wasn’t our fault back than. We were all just a kids trying our best to grow fast. It really took that long to finally share it.

[@yeshi5118]

I can feel u ♥️♥️❤️

[@TenzinMinkey]

❤️

[@sangyalrinchen4851]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@zomkyitenzinvlog6289]

Omg

[@dear_sputnik4449]

Fr they needs to be sued 😣 nobody deserves to go through such traumatic experience. In ur case, it is clearly a bully and you kept it to urself . I also teared up listening to u 🥺 I am so sorry that you had to go through such things during ur schooling.

[@TenzinMinkey]

If I can go back, I will try my best to speak up. That’s my biggest regret. But we all girls were so scared to be get tortured again.

[@twilight7490]

We need to report them to the local police or to the Himachal Pradesh State Council for Child Welfare .

[@tenzindekyi2093]

The only person that spoke up So proud of u acha🤍

[@TenzinMinkey]

Hope it helps many people like me 🫶🏻

[@tenzintseyang6504]

Nyingjae minkyi 🥹

[@tenzin173]

I can feel u. It’s not easy to live in a boarding school😔

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah it all depends on the foster parents. Some are really kind and good like they will treat you like their owns.

[@Donsel45]

I also went through this all and much more than that in Rajpur hostel so I can feel you love

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah only rajpur girls who stayed at hostel with that foster parents can know.

[@tashiiwangmoo]

As an ex-student of Rajpur, I understand how everything works at the hostel. I don't see any mistake on your part. It's just that the hostel prefects, Amala and Pala, were overly dominant and authoritarian, with a very narrow-minded approach. Ultimately, it was you, 15-year-old girl, who had to suffer simply for wearing shorts and being friends with boys. I see a significant amount of sexism happening here.

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know right! And the most funniest part is that after 2-3 days, we were preparing for exams and he told me that I will pass and come in 1st position because the beating was a blessing from him. Joke resh like instead of apologise, hearing that it will bring me luck like sorry I studied hard and that beating was a traumatising in my life and not even a blessing

[@tashiiwangmoo]

@@TenzinMinkey LMAO 🤣🤣🤣

[@Paldendolma3445]

And u gals came here for making bf that’s the reason u got betel baby gal..trying sumpathy u will go to helll thik chung..shangri

[@TenzinJinpa-sy8hl]

Yes both the pala and amla are very bad I know.And same that time boys hostel pala and amla also changed and new one is bad too.And pala always used to wash the car of head mistress of school. I think homes should take care of this type of behavior of foster guardians, they are very good power like dictators. Luckily I met some of the best pala and amla after several changes and sometimes in first time. But the environment among the student is awesome their. Still in my dreams some time I dream of my phone snitching.

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah like how foster parents keep trying their best to show their best side to the heads one and this is the reason what stopped us from going to the head office and speak up. May u heal ur trauma. 🫶🏻

[@tenzinwoeser4969]

So sad to hear and ya hostel pala and ama la do discriminate 😢

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know right?

[@faysi4314]

We still remember that night . Even the words won’t be enough to describe it….. 🥺

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah I still remember when it happened like right after I wrote my diary where I said I had a good day n I was happy. 🥲

[@tenzinwangmo-bs3oh]

Same as one of my friend got like that at hostel time

[@TenzinMinkey]

Hope it doesn’t work like this anymore

[@passanglhamo8867]

I also remember telling my mom to give hostal amala gifts so that she’ll be good to me

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah we all did once I guess.

[@NoBody-lk9fm]

THERE IS one girl ( Tenzin dolma ) She is from mussorie. Homes school 🏫. She is so pretty and she have a bf who is military service ARMY ). But then the MUSSORIE HOMES SCHOOL TEACHERS , principle , THEY BEAT HER SO BADLY AND KICKED OUT FROM SCHOOL 😡😡😡. Tibetan homes school. Should be cancel THEY ARE SO BAD

[@TenzinMinkey]

I am grateful to TIBETAN HOMES SCHOOL. ALL MY TEACHERS WERE SO KIND SO FRANKLY BUT IT WAS JUST THAT MINE HOSTEL PARENTS WERE OVER STRICT AND DO ANYTHING IN THE NAME OF DISCIPLINE.

[@Me2yota]

An adult in army dating a child in school is paedophillia so the school should have contacted the army and got the guy kicked out. The girl is a minor so the school is wrong in kicking her out!!!!!! What education policy says one isn’t allowed to hve bf/ gf such backward mentality stems from us being in a developing country. Minkey you have done nothing wrong . I hope you can forgive and try to forget them . He beat you and hit you coz it is the easiest thing to do; he hit you coz he is. Coward, he hit you coz he surrendered infront of your amazing charisma, he hit you coz he knows you are a child and can’t raise your voice against him but leader you can do is email the education board now so something can be done . Lo ….. shit him out of our life coz he doesn’t deserve to be in that head space of your life . May god give you kindness to move on

[@jamlob2130]

༄། དངོས་ནས་རང་ཁྱེད་ལོ་ཆུང་ཆུང་སྐབས་ལ་སྡུག་བསྔལ་བྱུང་བ་འདི་བློ་ཕམ་གྱི་གནས་རེད་འདུག། འདི་དང་འདི་འདྲ་བ་སློབ་གྲ་ལ་མང་པོ་བྱུང་ཡོད་ཤག་རེད་།། ཡིན་ཡང་འདི་འདྲ་བ་ན་གཟུགས་འདི་མི་ཚེ་ནང་བརྗེད་ཀྱི་མ་རེད་།། ན་གཟུགས་འདི་གི་ད་དུང་མིག་ཆུ་རང་བཞིན་ཤོར་གྱི་འདུག་བ་། མ་ཟད་ཉན་བཞིན་པའི་སྐབས་ལ་ང་མིག་ཆུ་རང་བཞིན་ཤོར་སོང་ངོ་།། དངོས་ནས་རེད་འདི་འདྲ་བ་དཀའ་ངལ་འདི་གཞན་ལ་མི་ཡོང་བ་ཁྱེད་ཀྱི་སྨོན་ལམ་རྒྱབ་པ་འདི་ལ་རྗེས་སུ་ཡི་རངས་ཞུ་།། ངས་ཁྱེད་ཀྱི་ཡུ་ཏུབ་དང་པོ་མཐོང་དུས་ནས་བུ་མོ་སྣང་བ་སྐྱིད་པོ་དང་ཁ་སངས་པོ་འདུག་དྲན་སོང་།། ཡག་པོ་འདུག་དྲན་སོང་ངོ་།། མུ་མཐུད་ནས་ད་ག་རང་ཡིན་གདའ་།། སྨིན་སྐྱིད་ལགས་།།།👍👍👍👍👍👍🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@TenzinMinkey]

ཐུགས་རྗེ་ཆེ་🙏🏼🙏🏼 always blessed to have my supportive subscribers 🫶🏻

[@Sampelmo]

But your hostel Amala and pala did too wrong that's I agreed with you lo so stay happy be strong past is past

[@TenzinMinkey]

Lolo thank you ❤️

[@Usweloajxbeb]

They are different kind forms of bully, like school gentak la ama la or school teachers my gosh seems like a night mare

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah hope it doesn’t affect you now 🙏🏼🫶🏻

[@passanglhamo8867]

I can totally relate with you

[@yangchenphuntsok6684]

I was crying with you

[@TenzinMinkey]

🥺

[@tenzinbe.]

Omg 😢😢😢

[@nawangdolma2436]

Tcv and cst schools are way to different tcv are more friendly

[@TenzinMinkey]

It all depends on the environment and the staffs.

[@praveshrathore5167]

Hello everyone... One of my frd is studying in THS rajpur but ...he is happy with his hostel parents...rule is rule and she is lying about hostel parents...she was having sex with one guy ..I don't want to say his name ... So she got punish that's it ... But this pic is fake ....she download from Google ...

[@TenzinMinkey]

Hostel parents have changed right now. I was talking about 8,10 years back. I didn’t said this picture was mine. Mine was far more worst than those pictures. And idk what u r trying to say by writing such a fake statement like I was 14 years back than. How can u think to create such stories? U can see how many girls has come here to share about their own stories too. If I really did something back than, than it would and should have been the biggest topic around all the staff but no. Just don’t go here and there to create a fake story so u can side with those parents. I heard they already watched my videos.

[@db0518]

💔

[@Sampelmo]

Hi minkey nice to meet you and i saw your video and didn't find your any mistake but your hostel pala and Amala did wrong to you

[@TenzinMinkey]

🥺❤️🥰

[@སམཐའིའཁྱམཔོ]

སེམས་སྡུག་མ་བྱེས་འདས་ཟེན་པའི་བྱ་བ་རེད དེ་ལས་ མ་འོག་པ་བྱ་བཞག་ལ་བསམ་ནོ་བཏངས་ན་ཡག་ཤས་རེད་

[@TenzinMinkey]

🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@tenzin1846]

རེད་རེད་མི་ཚེ་ནང་གི་སྐྱིད་སྡུག་གི་ལོ་སྒྱུས་ཉན་ཡ་དགའ་བོ་ཡོད་་་ བུ་མོ་ཁྱོད་རང་ནོར་འཁྲུལ་ཡོད་ས་མ་རེད་་་་སྤྱི་བཏང་མི་རེ་རེས་སྐད་ཤོད་སྟངས་མི་རེ་རེས་གོ་བ་ལེན་སྟངས་ཟེར་བ་དེ་ཐག་ཆོད་ཁག་ཙམ་འདུག་

[@nawangdolma2436]

M from Lowertcv to I know how lower tavern student are frankly m also frnds wth boys to but I was day schoolers

[@TenzinMinkey]

Lower tcv staff are so good 🫶🏻

[@nawangdolma2436]

Yea I know

[@The_Zillion]

what? but but i heard rajpur is one of the better school?

[@TenzinMinkey]

School is good. Teachers are grate at their work. But as my case, it was my girl hostel parents who made me feel trapped.

[@སམཐའིའཁྱམཔོ]

ཁྱོད་རང་གི་་རྣམ་འགྱུར་. Very beautiful 😍

[@TenzinMinkey]

🙏🏼

[@tenchoe99]

I cried with you . 😢 they should kick that amala n pala . They are not Dalia lama follower .. they are Gyame

[@TenzinMinkey]

They didn’t used to be that strict before becoming hostel parents. So I hope they are back to their kind version and doing good now 🙏🏼

[@tseringyoudon6865]

❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂

[@TenzinMinkey]

❤️🥰😘

[@HappyDachshund-qn1dh]

སྐད་ཆ་ཧ་ཅང་སྙན་པོ་འདུག

[@sonam8532]

Really so sad

[@TenzinMinkey]

I know right 🥺

[@Selcangurel]

Oh I also ur situation when I was in Mussoorie! That’s hotel name is Tsering Yangzom from Rajpure right. But when she was in Ghorimafi she is really good but after going Rajpure she changed a lots of

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah idk how someone can change like that right? Hope she is changed now for a better.

[@thuptentenzin9458]

སྙིང་རྗེ་ཁྱོད་འདྲ་པོ་བུ་མོ་མང་པོ་མྱོང་ཚར་ཡོད་ཤག་རེད།

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah… a lot of girls under that same foster parent.

[@thuptentenzin9458]

@@TenzinMinkey བྱོས་ཙམ།

[@Mcyoung]

I think u were good student .do u remember we meet at upper tcv for riklam competition 😊

[@TenzinMinkey]

I do remember:)

[@Mcyoung]

@@TenzinMinkey I seems u as a very talented n kind student so chill lots of love to you 💗🫵

[@Usernam678]

That’s ama lak and pala very shameful for did that’s kind of sheet things 💩💩💩💩💩💩

[@tseringtsovlog1400]

“Yeah, seriously, school life was that horrible, and I don’t want to remember it 😢 #worst hostel life experience I have ever had in my life.” “We went through the same situation at that moment.”

[@TenzinMinkey]

Yeah let’s cheers 🥂 to us for surviving during those days

[@tenzinzompa4962]

It’s not your fault at all ☹️

[@TenzinMinkey]

🥺❤️

[@ngwang9828]

Tbh i don't understand that why you blaming ths rajpur school after so many year I just thought that you didn't get any content so you are telling ur bad story abt ths rajpur school.so please don't leave any bad impression of school on social media as ths is a big family n we all just love our family 🙏

[@TenzinMinkey]

I am not saying any bad on school and staff. I was sharing what i have gone through coz it still traumatising me in my current life even if it was 8 years ago!! This is my channel and I thought that this mental health issue is really important and we Tibetan are not giving that much attention to their kids mind. I am in the process of healing and now that I have reached to a point where I have an audience who will listen to me and be awareness of what’s happening to their child’s mental health. I am not saying they shouldn’t punish if the kid is in the wrong place. I am saying there are some staff who create their own rules in the name of discipline and do whatever they want since they have some name where everyone will see them as a good one. It’s not only happening in HOMES but also in CST, TCV and everywhere. What if I was ur kid? What if u have gone through this?

[@metoktenzin5]

Hey, just wanted to point out that everyone deals with trauma in their own way and time. Sharing what happened to her isn't about getting attention or making content-it's a part of her healing process. Even if it happened years ago, it still matters and can still affect her. Also, saying she shouldn't speak up because it might hurt the school's reputation is exactly why these issues keep happening. It's important to let people share their stories without shutting them down. Let's support her bravery in speaking out instead of questioning her reasons.

[@Me2yota]

Can you not see that clearly this young lady has been scared coz of what she has been put through for no fault of hers. She can heal however she choose to do. If she wants to talk about it then she can, if she wants to write about it then she can !!! If she wants to put them foster parents in prison according to UNICEF she can go with court proceedings. She was silence then she isn’t and well done to her