DAY 10: How Many Children Allah Wants You To Have? | Sayed Mahdi Modarresi

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[@HouseofHalal]

Mashallah...just would be good if Molana isn't use bad words like 'stupid'

[@rabiarabia8733]

Problem nr. 1 for women can never be ruining our bodies. It's probably being able to provide and give a child a good start in life. It's pure loving instinct that drives most women. It's the men that usually make our changing bodies a problem.

[@corpsefoot758]

I’ve heard many women oppose the body-changing nature of motherhood, especially in Western/superficial society

[@funtime5778]

Every child God gives you, he send with them blessings. Our life got better and better after having each of our kids. We stopped because of old age. I personally stopped because I’m afraid of the labor pain.

[@zahrakmuamir7144]

We love our children's dunya more than their Akhirah just because we experienced hardships in this world which of course is our own mistakes by distancing ourselves from Allah

[@kokabbatool2170]

ماشااللّہ ، مولا آپ کو سلامت رکھے ،امین 🤲❤️

[@orlandobanto5781]

Allahuma sali ala muhamd wa Ali muhmad wajjil farzahum shreef

[@abdullahibrahimhabhab]

Mashaallah

[@FM-kl3iu]

Also in a two income household we have issues.

[@syedasghar8617]

With all due respect, I suggest moulana to visit Shia Muslim in India. Some families rely on charity to educate their many children or some of them end up being illiterate altogether. Maybe family & financial planning is not that bad in today's world.

[@Thaqlain]

Are you suggesting only the "haves" have the right to have children? :)

[@corpsefoot758]

Is the fault of child poverty upon the families, or upon the societies which impoverish them?

[@syedasghar8617]

@@Thaqlain nope, I am suggesting that quality should always outweigh quantity. Please correct if I am wrong.

[@syedasghar8617]

@@corpsefoot758 governments have to be blamed for economical disparity. But that doesn't mean that one should continue to have children way beyond their financial capabilities

[@Thaqlain]

@@syedasghar8617 Islam has allowed family planning. And one should definitely look into his situation while planning his family 🙏🏼🙂

[@farwanqv]

I once read a Hadith that small family is a blessing. And we are allowed to use contraceptives so I don’t understand why he mentioned them as translation of Quran verse. I agree that don’t abort or kill a child due to fear of not providing for them. I personally think it must be a couple’s decision. But overall I agree may be number of kids must not be capped. Let it be a discussion for later times.

[@Farah-fc5hp]

Poverty or the money isn’t the problem according to what I think because Allah says that He will give the rizq. But not being able to train them correctly is the problem.

[@OldNohay]

My sister, who was number 1, tutored me (number 6) throughout my school life...

[@abbaselsayed1515]

Does anyone have the references to the mentioned verses?

[@Thaqlain]

Can you share which verses are you referring to?

[@OldNohay]

How does the argument of NOT killing children apply to contraception? In my opinion, there are three parts to this... 1. The maulana says that this clearly refers to killing (mainly Female) babies after birth - AGREE 2. The Maulana says that this can be extended to Aborting the unborn - MOSTLY AGREE as it depends on the circumstance and may be allowed in some extreme circumstances. 3. Contraception is the same as killing children - MAINLY DISAGREE. as do a lot of religious scholars. Other arguments - about circumstances, nuclear families are a matter of individual choices (good or bad) but do not have a general, overall bearing. The argument, "I was the 15th child" also is in the same vein and we must bear in mind that Stalin was a third child and Hitler was forth of six.

[@mutansar27]

How Muslims pick and choose their religion to suit them, not go with the religion as ALLAH s.w.t has decreed. But more like being in a sweet shop having their pic'n'mix what a surprise..... NOT

[@corpsefoot758]

Exactly. That’s why the Caliphate makes no sense

[@l187]

lol he's a little triggered

[@corpsefoot758]

Generally speaking, these scholars constantly have to interact with some of the dimmest intellects of each community

[@Ali-xx8ej]

he's upset with falsehood and illogical excuses if you are not upset then you must have no passion, power or dignity left in you