DAY 17: Planning To Get Married? Watch This! | Sayed Mahdi Modarresi

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[@amiraalshafie4646]

True ..& i think the right age to get married is when you are ready to take on the responsibility to take care of family

[@ItachiAli1993]

There are definitely advantages to getting married early however they need to know what marriage is all about before they sign up to it. Once they are ready mentally and physically then it'll be possible.

[@Mohdzn]

Exactly

[@asmahamidullah9571]

Maa shaa Allah! So true Sayyid! May Allah lengthen your life. Allah is able to take care of us in little and big things! 🤲🏽❤🤲🏽

[@hasanmirza1904]

Well said Asma. Such lectures and reasoning need to be propagated and shared widely within our community, especially the youth.

[@abubakarkabir7357]

Masha Allah as we are nigerians we looking that way since. Alhamdulillah

[@GrayzoneGab]

Often, when we wait for the "perfect time", the time never really comes! We have to make sure that our pragmatism isn't just doubt and apprehension with window dressing. But at the same time, do make sure you self-assess if you are ready for marriage. For example- how is your emotional maturity? Do you know how to resolve conflicts well, or are you quick to anger each time? Are you self centered, or are you capable of truly caring for someone else's well being? Is there any unfinished business you have with your own family that would make bringing a spouse into the picture volatile? Do not be phobic of marriage, and do not rush either, approach it with a sober, wise mind. At 18, I don't think I would've been a good spouse- but today in my mid twenties I think it is a good time. Insha'Allah I will be blessed with a spouse.

[@Thaqlain]

InshaÁllah. Stay blessed and keep sharing :)

[@JaefarSABNW]

In America and much of the world, those who can have kids are still called kids till they are as old as 30. Independent morality and the ability to choose for ourselves upon our resources means we are ready for marriage. There is far more resources in this world to provide for several times the population and society will improve with a growing focus on marriage. The opposite builds problems in life for you and others that you won't expect.

[@MrAlig1988]

Mashallah inspiring verse indeed.

[@suraiya9977]

Masha Allah Sayed...Could we first teach boys and girls what marriage actually is? It seems as if it is just a joke for many of us. That's why it has become harder these days to find a spouse with good character,In my Opinion its not about having no faith in God its more about lack of maturity. Anyways Jazakallah

[@UR_FAV_zaynab]

Mashallah, Jazakallah khair for sharing ❤️

[@Thaqlain]

Jazakallah for watching :)

[@No-ij6kf]

The problem is that some youths fresh off of high school or college probably wants to get married, but sometimes the society and the culture we’re living in, limits us. It makes us afraid of what they’re going to think. Some doubts that is raised in our minds is that, “ even if I wanted to get married young, my parents won’t let me, so I won’t even bother telling them. I’ll just wait it out.” I’m not speaking on Behalf of all young people, but from my perspective this is the things I have to go through bc of cultural expectations. Sometimes it’s the culture or the society we live in that causes The problems. I’m pretty sure there are some youths who wants to get married young, but can’t bc of obvious reasons

[@Azakhana.Azadari]

Masha Allah

[@amanraza9924]

Oho to yahi video Dekh ke apni Shaadi ke liye inspire hue the😅👍

[@roohifatima1109]

Excellent explanation ❤️

[@Fatima-kt7sp]

I think it is not important when you get married, rather it is more important who you marry. I ask Allah to guide us to the right way. From Holy city Karbala💚

[@Thaqlain]

Indeed. Find the right person and then trust Allah. He will take care of the rest. Remember us each time you visit the Holy Shrines 🙂🤲🏻

[@Fatima-kt7sp]

@@Thaqlain Insh'Allah 🙏🌷

[@aijazfatima1234]

True... Pray for me for the same whenever U visit the Holy Shrine!

[@kokabbatool2170]

ماشااللّہ ، بہترین 🌹🌹🌹🤲🤲🤲

[@fatimaoezoguz3528]

Unfortunately most muslims (let alone the non - muslims) are completely unaware of the worth marriage has got. I Know an Iraqi taxi driver who married his wife when both were at the age of 16. Now they are 47 years old. But this was the elder generation, maybe today a marriage at this young age is regarded aş unnormal. Unfortunately this is the result of soft war, the war against moral and cultural values.

[@Thaqlain]

And we should respond to the soft war by spreading the values preached by the Quran and Ahlulbayt (alaihimus salaam).

[@skarzimabedi100]

6:46 love it

[@Sixty9nine]

I know this probably wouldn't get a reply but I'm going to ask anyway. How can I find a spouse that would be compatible with me and vis a vis. I know this is an 'excuse', but it makes sense. Second, I'm not a social person, so I can't approach a girl and create a conversation. But what is the best recommended way to finding a spouse other than asking your parents? It would be much appreciated if this gets a reply.

[@NahidaKhan-l6j]

You should recite surat yaseen for 40 days but with a niyat of finding out the right one for u ..In sha Allah you will find her

[@Thaqlain]

First things first, ask Allah to help you find one. He likes when someone gets married and He will surely support. Secondly, ask those who help find spouses. Imam Ali asked for his brother's help to find the mother of Imam Abbas. Lastly, look around you. You would have surely met someone who had clicked to you. If you feel she will be good as a wife, either talk to her about it or ask someone to talk on your behalf to her family. We pray that Allah help you in this blessed deed 🤲🏻🙂

[@Sixty9nine]

@@Thaqlain thank you for your response. Great advise, Inshallah I will take your advise into consideration and find someone. Please pray that the right one will come 🤲🏼

[@arrowofpatience]

Recite these verses from the Quran often and inshallah you will find a spouse. رب لا تذرني فردا وانت خير الوارثين Surah anbiya (21) verse 89 رب اني لما انزلت الي من خير فقير Surah qassas (28) verse 24

[@fatimaoezoguz3528]

Read Ziyarat Ashura every day

[@syedashahla1107]

Please kindly informed us what is the right age of divorce Thanks you're doing Great job for us

[@Thaqlain]

Hi Syeda, we will be covering the divorce related issues in future clips.

[@mehboobali5570]

The point is I ist decided to talk to my parents about marriage .. and finally did that but they are taking my words in a negative manner and are saying you are just 24 and focus on your dreams and education ... when the right time will come you will get married .... but I swear upon Allah that I'm 100% ready and seriously wants to get engaged ... but I don't know what to do now .. How to convince my parents... please anybody advice me ...

[@NahidaKhan-l6j]

U should give them reference from Islam...n the drawbacks of not getting married at the proper age...even I being 27 can't talk to parents about my marriage but my parents tried to look for a perfect match for me n it didn't work but u know what...the actual problem is the society who prefer a working women rather than a highly educated one..

[@NahidaKhan-l6j]

U definitely should focus on ur career but u can atleast get engaged ...bcz the life is pretty much hard without money

[@bushrafirdous2727]

Excellent explaination please recommend some dua to get a good husband

[@Thaqlain]

Insha'Allah we will post content about it 🙂🙏🏼

[@muhafizali14]

Just curious is it the same with couples having kid soon and wait and have later.

[@farzanak8107]

Dear sayed Mahdi moderrasi, u would do me a great favor if u asked the "WEIRD Allah" for my marriage as its becoming harder & harder & he is turning a blind eye.

[@MrAlig1988]

do Salat al-Istikharah , and have respect please... this is a daily struggle and jihad we are doing, you need to build up your faith, life is not easy.

[@NahidaKhan-l6j]

WEIRD? ?????

[@farzanak8107]

@@NahidaKhan-l6j i meant his system is weird!!

[@NahidaKhan-l6j]

Astaghfirullah...........look sis even I have had n actually am having really very hard time but I never gave up on Allah swt..his system is not weird its our deeds...n moreover Allah gives us the best....n when ur prayers r not working in His bargah that may be the fault in ur praying or it won't be the right time for u to get it or it won't be good at all...so if u really want that to happen u should start offering the salah of tahjud n 40 days recitation of surah Yaseen n um 100% sure you'll definitely find yourself living that dream of yours

[@farzanak8107]

@@NahidaKhan-l6j im a brother not sis!!