THAT DIDN'T GO TO PLAN !

[@benbarnes7277]

I sensed a lump in Tom's throat & a tear in his eye when Dad was saying they will have to go, shows the passion, love & care Tom has for his animals.

[@tinnnn1]

I've recently discovered this channel. I'm literally watching every single episode with huge respect and total appreciation of what Tom and his Dad do.

[@padraiggeaney3167]

Chin up Tom glad you didn't edit all the bad news out that's real life farming unfortunately

[@BenFiler95]

One of the many reasons I love your videos Tom, you show everything, the ups and the downs! You show people it's not a fairy tale where you look after the cute animals, you take great pride and care in looking after everything to the best of your ability. Unfortunately things don't always work out but you've made the hard decision to cut your losses and move them on to the farm shop. It would be so easy to hide it and tell people you've sold them, I've got a lot of respect for you for showing the hard decisions!

[@paulareeve5923]

People have to understand that you're a Farming community, yes it's hard when you name an animal and have bonded with them. Sometimes the hardest choice of letting go for the better.

[@HM-0410]

May 2021 for the calving.

[@mikkelhansenprivat]

@@HM-0410 op q

[@billtheunjust]

When Ginger Warrior said "We've got 'em inside they're not going out again" that got me. I was already thinking to my self: well it's a farm the cows are either for milk or for beef, but man the suddenness was more than I expected.

[@dutchgram3799]

It hit me too. Reality

[@ghostrider7688]

That’s the instinct that kept him in food production and delivery over the years . 👍🏻

[@jenkeep8123]

Lingering with a decision always makes it harder. Better to decide and move on. What other decision could he make that wouldn't eventually lead to the same conclusion? I feel for Tom and the Ging though; farming isn't easy. Especially if you care.

[@christinetracey8090]

I can understand why they do it but what I don’t understand is why they name them. Once you name them it becomes personal. I think that’s why it makes it harder.

[@gregedmand9939]

This is a working farm not a petting zoo. I know all animal lovers, myself included, come here to enjoy watching the beasts as much as the people but it is what it is. Factor in the added expense of keeping these cattle and add to that the extra demands Highlands create, destructive and dangers to people and other livestock due to horns... They can't afford too many, as show animals.

[@kendallricker9633]

Sounds like you are improving your herd by clearing out the infertile ones. It's always rough when you have to cull. It is part of the business your in. Thanks for sharing and look forward to your next video.

[@cdemo1186]

Tom that's tough,but half a loaf is better than no bread. 🖒 At the end of the day you are a working farm not a pet farm so sending the ladies to the chopping block is probably the best option. And as the guy with the ginger mooooostache said it will be beautiful tinder heifer beef. 👌

[@cowsrcool1103]

Tom is half a loaf anyway

[@cdemo1186]

@@cowsrcool1103 really? How?

[@cowsrcool1103]

Hes stupid...🤷‍♂️

[@cowsrcool1103]

@@cdemo1186 you cant train stupid

[@cdemo1186]

@@cowsrcool1103 and explain how he's the stupid one if you are a subscriber to his channel? 🤔

[@hesback9727]

i just have so much respect for Tom and his farming family for getting up everyday and milking them cows

[@user-mw1lz9xf8f]

More than Flora and Toffee's fate, more than the farming /business life, I am grateful Ginger and mom raised a son that has a tender heart - hard for you to take a life of an animal. Head understands - heart-hurting decisions. Thank you Tom for showing is your inner soft heart.

[@RunaVanBeeck]

I'm so glad someone's showing the reality of farming. It ain't all sunshine and rainbows. Keep it up Tom

[@SB8-8]

Decisions in farming.... tough but necessary. Circle of life💗

[@ryanwaege7251]

Over two decades removed from my time on our family farm, I still remember some of our favorite milkers...and some not so favorites LOL!

[@TomPembertonFarmLife]

You remember the naughty ones first!

[@paulbracewell1535]

I am so obsessed with your channel. I dont know why but I find your videos so satisfying. IT LOOKS SO EASY !!!!

[@shawnh8754]

ha, ha, easy is the LAST thing being a dairy farmer is. That's why you don't see dairy farmers sitting around at the sale barn watching the sale, drinking coffee.

[@paulbracewell1535]

I love your comment!

[@adiebugx]

nice one minute! Love your videos! EDIT: I volunteered on a farm in Scotland one vacation for no reason other than I enjoyed petting the sheep, and ended up really loving herding the sheep on the ATV. Your videos remind me of that and that's why I like them :D

[@lizhrubik3936]

The Highland are so beautiful. It’s a bummer. 😢

[@HannibalAfricanus]

Congratulations Harriet! June 8th 2021. I'm going to miss Toffee, I hope she's delicious.

[@misty_moss]

I'm completely gutted, that was so hard to watch. What a huge disappointment after all your hard work and care. My heart broke when your dad said they wouldn't be going out again. Thank you for sharing the ups and downs so honestly.

[@veutsavoir]

It speaks to how well you care for your animals that you're quite disappointed about Flora and Toffee. That said, the Ginger man is right - you've got to make good business decisions, and it costs a bundle to keep a non-producing cow. Looking forward to seeing Minnie & Harriet's little Angus crosses.

[@gavinkilkenny5197]

you can see the disappointment on toms face when he says they arent in calf

[@danielwells172]

Look liked he was about to cry towards the end

[@patshhi4620]

Tom really cares about his animals, and that's nice to see.

[@TomPembertonFarmLife]

Ups and doesn’t of farming I geuss

[@seansexton729]

@@TomPembertonFarmLife it’s often said in farming “you can kill animals with kindness” Flora and Toffee by your own admission is in really good condition, good grass and cake, whereas in their “normal” environment, they would be grazing rough pasture in the most harshest of climates with nowhere near the same level of care. Over fat cows are the most difficult of all to get in calf. Neptune despite his lameness issues was with them for over 12 months and got other herd mates in calf. He had 17 opportunities to get them in calf, so it’s highly unlikely he’s the issue. I would really like to have seen a full blood profile analysis of Flora and Toffee at the time they were suppose to go in calf, to see what metabolic issues they were facing then, that prevented them from going in calf.

[@cowsrcool1103]

@@TomPembertonFarmLife 😪😪😪😪😪😪 mama

[@jackboy1993]

The look on your face Tom said it all from the very first moment Andy said Toffee wasn't in calf. You and Ginger warrior made the right call. It's part of farming life. Looking forward to the Highland/Angus calves!

[@deebee9151]

Thanks for showing this Tom. As someone who deeply appreciates the hard work farmers do, but knows very little about the practical aspects of it, this was good to see and learn about the realities of how we end up with quality food on our plates and the work farmers do to ensure that. We could all see the disappointment on your face when Andy said Toffee wasn't in calf and that reflects the man you are, because your disappointment was about more than just the lack of a future calf. It is reassuring knowing that the food we eat it is produced by people like you.

[@joycehook4832]

Tom, the disappointment in your face when told the 2 were not pregnant tells it all. Love watching you and your dad and the others doing g what you do. Thank you for inviting all us in.

[@inglis7086]

you can see why the big farms that hold their own bulls do a full health and foot check 3 months before they go in with the cows - its is a shame the girls are not all in calf but this is the 2nd time for the youngest 2 and so they have to go - Highland meat as a specialty item for Christmas maybe limited stock and people can pre order - I hope you are thinking about getting in 10-20 of the milk cows in that have been in with Neptune as if they are also only 50% breed you are going to need another bull and quickly

[@TJMack-]

Maybe a bit early to write off Neptune just yet. These 2 heifers weere barren with the highland bull too..

[@Lilee177]

Sad to hear about Flora and Toffee - however that is life, and honestly it is quite a fair end. They're costing money and they have to give back somehow.

[@rommelsaint8869]

Its because we gave them names thats why its sad. The beef cows nobody is bothered apart from vegetarians. Hope the baby calfs next year are not named.

[@ghostrider7688]

You shouldn’t be giving them names n getting emotionally attached to an animal . It is a farm not a petting zoo 🤩😜😎

[@evanmaloney1516]

They going to be in yur tummy

[@marcamp5450]

@@ghostrider7688 with respect I don’t agree. Compassion and love are never misplaced. Just a little harder on the heart is all. 👍

[@reneetherese1963]

And I am sure they are slaughtered as humanely as possible. Knowing that does give some comfort.

[@marilynbowie4631]

I admire your commitment to providing quality product. Ultimately that is what they are.

[@samanthacheung1023]

Before you let go of Toffee, the Hoof GP wants a Highland

[@gaynorball5233]

Yeah I told him that too days ago, I hope that someone rescues them before they just end up as Toffee & Flora burgers 🍔

[@sophieharrison1088]

@@gaynorball5233 yep i agree toffee and flora burgers don’t sound too good.

[@cindybrodie9769]

What a hard job you have. It takes so much heart.

[@Wetthewhistle]

At the end of the day your running a business and for the business this is the best decision 👍🏻

[@annebell7274]

Aww Tom I'm so sorry. I had my fingers crossed that the Highlands would all be pregnant. One could see your disappointment on your face. Im sorry 😔😔😔😔🌷

[@alainanorzagaray5266]

I appreciate that you put videos out that show the reality of farming.

[@clarissaa3003]

Literally stumbled upon your videos yesterday (your cows getting a brush for the first time) and I've been binge watching ever since! All your cows are just adorable but I do have to say that your highland cows (especially the babies) are especially cute!!!

[@shutteredmoments9300]

Thanks for sharing this harder topic, it is reality. Not easy but true.

[@matlindquist1361]

Great video! Shows the reality of farming as well as the thoughtful decisions that are being made. Keep up the videos, it's insightful as a non-ag viewer to see what goes into producing healthy food.

[@robertmacleod4058]

I appreciate how honest you are in your channel about the realities of farming. People ned to know how the world really works

[@tinawiese]

Such bad news....RIP Toffee and Flora. Minnie and Harriets calves will bring Peace and Joy. Please put the birth date of April 10, 2021 on your list for possible merch winners. And....which ever day they arrive......a lovely day that will be! Don’t forget to put pony harnesses on them! 😉. I miss my SH, Patsy...she was the spitting image of Toffee but bigger. I do know and feel ur loss. Hugs from Alabama! Ty for being so honest and kind my ❤️ bleeds will you!

[@danielgillett3074]

Can you do a video of the process of your beef from farm to shop counter please Tom. I know you said you were possibly going to. Keep up the good work

[@ads0608]

Sad they aren’t in calf but you breed them for meat if they can’t breed then I agree with the ginger warriors its time for them to go they aren’t pets at the end of the day, great video as always tom, 18th and the 24th for calving

[@thandiwolfe813]

You can hear the emotion in both Tom’s voice and the Ginger Warrior’s. Always a tough decision to make, but I think it was a good call.

[@lolax6900]

As a meat eater and animal lover, I am glad and thankful this is a decision I’ll likely never face. Recently discovered your videos and there absolutely fab, been hooked on farming for a while now and so glad I stumbled across your page. Thank you for the great content and taking excellent care of your animals, watched the cow brush yesterday was in stitches at your excitement but honestly so good to see.

[@jamesag7830]

I feel really bad for you Tom, I hope you'll have a better year next year

[@thestrengthcircuit7556]

This is one of my favourite TP videos. Why? Because it highlights the bond and emotion good framers have with their animals. You could see instantly what a negative result on the PD meant to Tom P by the look on his face when he received the bad news. Hard decisions are made on the farm on a daily basis, if the farm doesn't at the least break even at best turn a profit a farm doesn't function. Farming is tough! Farmers are caring, nurturing and hard working people. They want nothing but the best for their animals, yet the harsh reality is it's a business, and The Ginger Guy with the Moustache has accepted this lesson a long time ago. I felt for you Tom when you didn't get the desired result. Chin up. The highs and lows of farming with livestock.

[@ollieelk]

Great video. Just as important to show the lows as it is the highs. Look forward to seeing the progress of the two Highlands in calf and hopefully you can profit from the other two

[@leemiller199]

The up and downs of farming but youv got to new ones on the way tom so thats pritty good bud ok anothere lovely vid all the best fro brit man in austrailia all be safe out there

[@sebchu7593]

If the highlands are going, can we get a butchering video? Not the graphic type but maybe show where they go and have your butcher explain the process that they will go through. I think it would be really educational and interesting to know what will happen to the cows once they go.

[@SquidandCatAdventures]

I think this is a good idea in general, but there were so few of the highlands that I'm sure there are many viewers like me that have become attached to them as individuals, I thought of them as more like pets that visitors to the shop would enjoy seeing. Even though I realize it is a farm and I eat beef, I'm already sad that they have to go. It can feel very personal - even down to knowing that these cuts of beef in the shop are Flora and these are Toffee. Some are named after the Royal Family. This might be a better video idea for some of the other cattle. It's also sad because they are probably fertile but Neptune might have been subfertile because of his foot.

[@shishkebab5306]

@@SquidandCatAdventures I totally agree. Because of the following these cows obviously have on this channel, personally I would have one more attempt at getting them in calf, just in case it was a problem with Neptune. Last year they know it was a problem with the bull.

[@jwhitley101whitleyfarms9]

@@shishkebab5306 well you don't do that it makes you go broke if they don't breed they go rule 1 we raise beef cattle and if you keep inbred animals your wasting feed and limiting your ability to have a profit send them and hope for better next year because even if they breed they apparently have a defect and you dont want the genes past high fertility and high production means profit

[@DAZ28111]

@@shishkebab5306 two bull can't fireing blanks surely

[@shishkebab5306]

@@jwhitley101whitleyfarms9 Just my opinion on these two particular cows.

[@MrRabiddragon]

My guess is Harriet on the 20th of April and the other the 21st of April. One will go and the other will be like me too. *LOL*

[@darksides3596]

What month

[@kthemi10]

Great news that 2 of the Highland are in calf, but also such a shame for you all 😢 to have to make the descision you have done.

[@cindythomas2116]

Aww it was hard to see u down with them not being in calf Tom. I'm so,so sorry xx 💙

[@peterrichardson9355]

Tom share your pain but your Dad, as all Dads, are usually right new life is just around the corner.

[@pauldoc567]

Feel your pain, we bought a young Sim bull this year and he got 2 in calf out of 8 😢thankfully we gave them a second chance with a limousin and 7 out of 8 are in calf.

[@lukib.8970]

😯😯😯😯😯

[@johnsebar7807]

Tom have you ever thought of a video on what happens after the milk leaves the parlour. You must have a bottling process and delivery system. see the milk trucks outside once in awhile. Do you pasturize some of it? Bummer about Flora and Toffee but you are operating as a business not a petty zoo. I think some viewers forget that. Really like how much you care for all the stock, no cattle prods etc. Would like to visit the shop but a bit far from BC Canada..

[@IvyWhiskeyDram]

Just a thought, if Neptune had a bad foot, and he isn't on top form, maybe he only got the older two because they're experienced and are happy to stand still. Where as a the younger two, who have never been bred might not be so patient, especially an injured bull. Just a thought.

[@lexir820]

So sorry to hear about Flora & especially Toffee, they will be missed.. but 50% is better than none & you are great people and did you best for them! My predictions are Minnie April 14th & Harriet April 18th

[@deandon08]

Sorry to hear they aren’t in calf Tom! We all see how much hard work you put into the farm, was gutted for you. Your dad is right though, if they aren’t giving back to the farm they need to go. Would love to see a video of them being prepped for the store and some videos of how the store runs. Local produce is best!

[@thomaskerrigan1073]

Tom my Birthday is on the 9 of June aswell Best day ever ❤ 💙 💖 great video tom as always

[@randolphbutler1832]

Thanks Tom and to Andy for his explanation. Too bad about the open girls. Good luck.🐂🐂

[@Sarcasticallyinspired]

Good video Tom. You can't keep them all. Look forward to the new not-so-little additions next year. My guess is harriet 19th, mini 13th April 2021

[@jonwright7394]

Really the only sensible decision you could have made. Great video, shows how you care but these are also not pets for pleasure.

[@ronsingh1090]

Thank you for sharing this moment 🙏, life is not a dream after all.

[@nancysmith-baker3827]

Mr Tom I can see this has upset you , You put alot of time into them .Us city people have to understand that if they do not produce , they'll have to produce another way , they are not pets , Having named them dose do something to the Psychology . So glad for your Dad Straight face and practical wisdom . Look forward to the new ones , Thankyou for the vidio , and the reality of true Farming life , Hello to your Mother and Fiance. Nan in Utah ,US

[@marypaddey4625]

Feeling for you Tom and Heidi, but the Ginge is right, the farm is a business after all.

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[@deedeeiam]

How can a vet look so freaking hot, standing there leaning against a rail with a POOP-covered arm propped on his hip?!

[@hornethunter9079]

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[@jowithinshaw4273]

Tough day and difficult desicons. Above all your love for all you and animals is always visible. A working herd is a working herd. Right decision, tough choice. The brutal reality of farm life is refreshing to see. Never be afraid discuss the truth.

[@Tom-gr6nx]

great video tom sorry to hear about Flora and Toffee chin up tom least you have two calfs better than last year good luck and take care.

[@carylfontaine3640]

Hi ya! Love your channel so much..it's real reality..lol. I am SUBSCRIBED AND I ALWAYS HIT THAT LIKE BUTTON 😀

[@amandawitherspoon3988]

I can't always understand everything you say but I enjoyed your video. Growing up all I wanted in life were children and a farm.

[@bobbybrownshoes]

Sad news regarding Toffee and Flora, you could see that you were devastated, it showed in your eyes, but that's life, we all bond with animals and pets in our lives. Sad times though....

[@Wolf_S]

When you said they have to go I thought you meant you was gonna sell them on. But it’s understandable, they’ve had their best life possible at the farm and you treat them all well, it’ll give you more room for upbringing the others when they calve

[@alexthomson719]

Get them into the shop 👍👍🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@patshhi4620]

Those highlands are so nice looking. I especially like them when they are calves.

[@watomb]

Can’t keep them all so your dad is correct. Good video

[@ryanluckhurst4301]

I think Harriet 13th April 2021 and Minnie the 4th May 2021 also great video Tom at the end of the day your farm is a business so the decision needs to suit the farm and it’s finances

[@culkeenycharolais8248]

Joys of livestock Tom.. Fair play to u showing the negatives as well as the positives

[@flock_ness]

Harriet - 15th April. Mini - 22nd April. I am sorry about the other two. Farming can be so difficult, especially when they are favourites.

[@carolynmaielua2167]

It's always tough when you love an animal no matter what it is. So much love and care goes into them. I would not want to have the job to keep or say bye but as you know you continue to feed and your not ģetting any return as far as a calf. But dang when you know them by name***** that's tuff sorry Tom sorry Dad. We'll but you now have something exciting to wait for now. Have you worked on names yet. Better start now how fun good luck and loads of fun watching you guys just the best 👌 videos thanks again.

[@cajun-n-va.8091]

Tom, there’s a KZbin channel that’s called Hamish and Kyloe. I think you will enjoy seeing these Highlands and the personality each of them have.

[@Tbc2011]

Cheer up Tom things could be worse . Ur doing a great job u and the team.

[@micheallyons3315]

Harriet 6th of April Minnie 9th of April. Its tough that there are 2 not in calf but it is a lot better then last year. And i can't wait to see Neptune/highlands

[@Browniebrownie19]

Sorry about the Highlands Tom. Great video like always. Keep it up 💪

[@gaynorball5233]

Noooooooo poor Flora & Toffee 😔, I’m gutted... if I had a small holding I’d offer to buy them off you! I realise that farming is farming, but you’ve given them names Tom & you’ve even said that Toffee is your favourite 😬. Graeme Parker (The Hoof GP) wants Highlands at his new place 🤷🏻‍♀️...

[@htgscraftycritters]

As hard as it is, livestock have to serve their purpose. I am glad that you included this difficult discussion in your video. I love your videos because they present some very real farm life moments (and your dad reminds me of my uncle). I can't want to see your calves cone April. I'm guessing the 13th and the 18th.

[@annmitchell8759]

Perhaps the Ging as terrific as he is, has a few friends in the local pub. Love the music, hope it all goes well for you. If it looks as though I covet the shirt off your back, I sure do. Let us know when TP Merch is available.

[@francesbruno8445]

Canada...sorry about the hard choices you had to made. Animals are a commitment, responsibility and liability, and all have to work together. Hard when it's favourites. But congratulations on your two girls in calf.

[@nige2377]

Feel for you mate, it’s always the favourites in stock that don’t perform, but look on the bright side you still have some cracking animals who are going to breed for you and the others have had a good life and will not go to waste, chin up Tom, tomorrow’s another day, Ali the best to you and the team.

[@roryjfitzsimons690]

Love Ur videos Tom u should put the bull back in with the 2 that are not in calf and see if they get in calf thhis time

[@PsychoKittee1]

It's a business, I get it but darn it!! They're so cute!!!

[@lukib.8970]

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[@txangel922]

I'm sad for Flora and Toffee, its sad to think they will no longer be around.

[@MrDbone75]

Good afternoon everyone from wellington Somerset

[@williamsnapp2605]

Good morning from Iowa USA.

[@scottogden6301]

I live in Wellington good evening my friend

[@choppercam01]

Somerset is an awesome place to live, I'm in oakhill

[@EleanorPeterson]

Hi, David! Now... get orf moi laaaand! :-)

[@scottogden6301]

@@choppercam01 I moved down here from Manchester it’s not a bad place to live at all

[@agirlandhercows501]

farming is what keeps us al livinng

[@mikeysky8917]

Did the two highlands actually ever go in heat and did you ever see the Bull jumping them so you know they were actually cycling? Sometimes you have to inject them to bring them into heat and AI/ Bull them.

[@dluxsolutionsathome5162]

Such a hard decision, but the term date is coming up - exciting new babies just around the corner 💚

[@donnafink6262]

Love the Highlands and a tough decision had to be made...so sad

[@ruairidhmunro]

At the end of the day, the cattle are there to either produce milk or beef. There well raised, grass fed beef and they'll provide some lovely cuts of meat. Would love to try some of your beef, but (esp. just now) Scotland to Blackpool's a bit far to !!

[@DebbyColindaMulder]

Tom i love to see more of youre highland cow and the baby cows

[@katiemust5794]

So sad about Flora and Toffee, maybe that's why Flora was so jumpy at the beginning she knew what was coming. Poor Tom he looked so upset at the end of the video. 15th and 16th for the calfs

[@radarmike6713]

I love the Gingas attitude!!! He loves his animals. But is still running a buziness. He realizes that at a certain point in time. You have to do the right thing. And he isn't afraid of offending us youtubers that view the videos like you were Tom. Keep doing what your doing. Remember your a farmer first and were here to watch. We don't pay the bills at the farm or have our family names on the door. I ain't going no where. I honestly wish you could do a full "butchering" video. (After the initial slaughter. I'd love to see the butcher doing his thing.

[@johnjones3848]

Invest in yard gates ?field gates not up to cattle 🐮 handling.good video quality 👍

[@leomanterfield8440]

Farming can be difficult but the positives are always better

[@angelastanley1156]

HELLO from Charlotte NC 😊 April 16th 👍 Good luck 😊 It won't happen every time 😉 🤩

[@philiprichardson3074]

The correct decision made, farming is about making those tough calls. Great video

[@stevecrouch6341]

My predictions are Harriet 12th April, Minnie 16th April.

[@huggy1huggy191]

you heard tom say them dates as well,my guess,13/15th april

[@stevecrouch6341]

@@huggy1huggy191 my other half was watching the video I walked in on the bit where he said put dates in comments below.