I LET MYSELF DOWN

[@Staceyleighfromthesoul]

You are so humble Joe, I can relate to the social interaction growing up 100% as a mum to two now it’s completely changed but my oldest is now how I use to be. Keep spreading your greatness hun x

[@wilaey.w9539]

I love when Joe opens up about himself !!!!! I have this strange feeling that the song at the end is actually the song that he did with Byron

[@veex220]

I laughed so hard when Alfie called and Joe's phone said "Pointlessblog calling" 😂

[@louisemuxworthy7556]

I love how Alfie is saved as pointless blog on Joe's phone 😂

[@nicolewhite6443]

Pampered Owl Girl L.M Zoe is saved as zoella

[@lou_jane]

It's so humbling to listen to you open up about these things Joe! It's so rare to see a young adult male feel comfortable enough to do so. Thank-you for using your voice/platform to normalise this a bit more. I think it's fair enough and valid that you feel you let yourself down by not being able to pay for the products, but try not to remain hung up on it now and still bash yourself for it - instead take it as a positive that you've been able to notice and accept that behaviour in yourself, just accepting that your struggle is actually real & occurring is a major step in getting over your anxieties! I sincerely hope you can overcome this, you're stronger than your concerns.

[@sln6000]

You need to release that damn single, we’ve been waiting for so long

[@s.w.mayfair4536]

Really liked the sit down chat at the end. We all have the moments that make us feel weak and insecure. You recognised it and that is the start.

[@laurenchavez4729]

I have experienced the same feelings too. I find myself in the shop almost having a panic attack scared of what people are going to think of me for buying a certain product. Don't beat yourself up about it, even though you did make a video coming out with your anxiety and how you dealt with it doesn't suddenly make you perfect and rid your anxiety, You overcome these feelings when you face them. sometimes its just the fact of taking a risk and realising its not so bad. Your great Joe x

[@rach97134]

I'm like that Joe. Even now if I go to a boot sale and there's no price on something I generally just leave it because I don't want to ask. Don't beat yourself up about what happened, we all have our off days xx

[@amypoo2267]

I’ve got social anxiety which is similar to what you describe. I find it so hard to interact with people sometimes, other times I’m absolutely fine with it. Knowing that someone as successful as you suffers with a similar thing is inspiring ☺️ thank you for talking about it

[@jessicasherwood9174]

Aww Joe ur so cute to share that... I go through the same exact thing with social interaction. I always avoid asking teachers questions and try to use the self check out as much as possible. You sharing that means a lot to me.

[@fightingsinner]

I've had social anxiety since I was a kid (I'm 26 now), so I understand how you feel. When I'm at a grocery store that I've been to many times, I don't get too anxious anymore, but whenever I want to buy something at a place I've never been to, or a place that's very busy where I have to answer quickly, I sometimes ask a friend, etc. to buy the stuff for me. And whenever that happens, I beat myself up over it. On the other hand, I'm proud of myself when I don't get anxious in situations like that :)

[@jjkwoos]

joe i'd love to say something like don't worry too much about not paying for the items yourself but i'd come across as a massive hypocrite. for years i've suffered with social anxiety and i still today can't do those things which leads to me beating myself up MASSIVELY and ending up doing something stupid. point is, don't feel too ashamed! your age, gender, job etc doesn't matter and a lot people can understand and relate to your situation :) x

[@ashcontemplateslife]

mackenzie gw same. The worst thing is that you know how stupid it is to fear those things, but you can’t get yourself to just do it..

[@chloelewis5786]

I share the exact same fears as you Joe, when I grew up I was so shy and nervous during social interactions. I'm now 20 and still have moments when i'll ask my dad to ring someone for me, thats something I especially hate - phonecalls, I'd much rather text and not have to deal with any awkwardness. You haven't let yourself down Joe, it's just the way you are and it's just the way I am, I find people who are shy attractive. :) x

[@emilyisme8]

Joe I love to hear about your life issues like that it makes you seem more human to me as you experience that kind of embarrassment and i guess we all let it slip about how human you actually are and how similar you are and i totally relate i have always been and probably always will be too scared to ask people things in case i embarrass myself or seem stupid😍😍😍❤❤❤❤❤ ilsm❤❤❤❤❤

[@TheCinderella2108]

I'm so glad for your little story at the end! As someone who suffers from social anxiety, I feel like that pretty often. I think about every "social fail" for DAYS! I'm really trying to change my mindset, because I know that nobody really cares if I make a fool out of myself. So yeah, thanks for sharing and don't beat yourself up too much, you're still the coolest person! xx

[@_l_i_n__]

I just love how cardboard Oli makes an appearance in almost every vlog

[@katygoodall5734]

jacquelin I saw it in the last vlog in the background and almost gave myself a heart attack, literally physically jumped 😂😂😭

[@jennicabansilchang5892]

aww Joe you're sephora story made me really emotional! we all have those days so don't beat yourself up about it. it's great that you can reflect back on things like this and use it as a tool to grow personally

[@j.a.n_0343]

Joe it’s okay we all have these panic attack’s sometimes.... I’ve been through is LODS!! am pretty sure next time hopefully ur gonna be strong enough to face ur fears.. Xoxo 🌹🌹🌹

[@ellie-pm9hp]

You are so incredibly humble and sweet. 💗don’t worry about thinking you’re weird, you’re really not. The fact that you said this makes you very humble, which overrides anything else. You’re amazing for saying this and being so honest :)

[@almond334]

I don't like social interaction with strangers too, I usually just leave it because I don't want to ask for something and as a result I sometimes regret that I didn't ask for it and knowing I won't have a second chance to ask for it

[@MorganCash]

I just want to say that I really appreciate that you shared this because (generally speaking) it's rare to see a guy open up publicly about literally any issue they're having and I think it's just as important for guys to have someone to look up to as it is for girls.

[@bubblebuswell]

can you let byron do your asos shop

[@Meme_Kween]

Yah, I can really relate your situation. I have social anxiety and I tend to overthink situations as well as over analyze them afterwards and going up to someone is extremely hard for me and for some reason I just can’t get myself to do it. So I can relate and let me just say that I am really proud that you were able to admit that on camera because it’s something very personal and I look up to you for that and I am sure many others do as well. So I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your situation and how strong for being able to admit something that you are not proud of😊

[@katemustafa7831]

I know how you feel and i have so much respect for you that you speak about stuff like this and i know some people may belittle it but it takes courage to speak about things like this so dont feel down because you have nothing to be ashamed of just smile and say hi to clive and Davith for me (the house tour was great)😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ love you joe ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@morgancurtis111]

I really relate to the whole social interaction thing. I'm 16 and I've felt this way for as long as I can remember. Thanks for sharing, it means a lot knowing that other people go through the same/similar things.

[@bloggerimmeamy6524]

I completely understand your embarrassing feeling of buying it in the shop, I’m 25 next month and I still absolutely die having to buy things like sanitary towels especially if the staff on the till is male. I was also the same as you at boot sales, I hated having to ask the price of something and still do now really. X

[@lauraegan4709]

Blogger immeamy OMG me to I have these problems to !!!

[@carolinerose1067]

Oh my god same! I'll also be 25 next month and I can relate to this so much.

[@jessicaspratt397]

Joe I'm the exact same. I struggle so much with asking how much things are etc. So proud of you for even talking about it. Love you Joe. Will always support you xx

[@reshmimanthripragada1610]

Joe : "Please don't gif or screenshot that...😥 Oh why do I even say it... they're gonna do it anyway" 🙄 I say You know your fans very well Joe becoz I actually screenshot that 😆😆😆

[@susanmorgan9074]

Tipsee Toes don’t worry I’ve already done it

[@katiex4680]

Can someone tell me what bit of the video that is at

[@faithwestern8953]

Katie Campbell yeah

[@ashvankad8467]

Or a bit before that

[@Becksnnc]

You only done it because he planted the idea in your head by saying that.

[@liz.w.24]

[from 15:50 to 16:32] I relate to this so so so much. This is actually me. I'm 16 and i'm trying my very best to overcome this thing. I think it's gotten better and I'm getting more and more confident with asking for things etc but the weird insecurity comes back from time to time. It actually feels nice knowing that there's someone who felt or feels the same as me. It makes me feel like I'm not alone. Thanks for talking about this so openly Joe! Love you! ❤

[@OliviaRushworth]

I'm totally the same!!! I hate social interaction with people o don't know too. I get anxious and nervous about it and in the end I just don't do it. I've done things like that where I couldn't bring myself to buy it so I put it back or got my friend to get it for me. I hate attention too. Don't worry too much about it. Next time you know how you felt so it will be easier. Love you loads xoxo

[@khushiamit4110]

I love that you are opening up and showing us the more real side of you. I have struggled with minor social anxiety my whole life and have always hated talking to strangers. 100% relatable

[@maryrahmat]

I can definitely relate to your social interaction, im also afraid to ask a stranger and even someone close to me for something. Also hope the new products work for you ❤

[@morelzo09]

This vlog really touched me. As much as we all try to owe our flaws there is always something in the back of your mind that stops you from doing something. Thank you for sharing this xx

[@yb134]

The number of things I remember from 5 years ago is bigger than my damn future. It’s frustrating because the chances of others remembering the event or whatever are extremely low and I know that so well yet I still can’t stop thinking about the way I acted and what others think.

[@JTWhiskey]

Yuval Ziv you’re not alone, today I had that specific day during which I basically repeated those thoughts that you posted to myself and yet, nothing actually changed 😫

[@nohaf1618]

I love it when you sit down and talk like that .. I relate to social interaction with strangers till now and I am your age as well ..

[@liv3438]

I get moments like that all the time! Just like you, I go over and over things and I’m not doing well with social anxiety ☹️ let us know how the products go they sound good xx

[@sallyedmondson9275]

Velvetf4n Same!

[@MeliAzof1322]

You’re not alone joe ! Dont worry though, that experience will just serve as motivation to avoid doing the same thing next time. If at first you don’t succeed dust yourself off and try again 💪🏼❤️

[@jocelyn7836]

I now know exactly where Joe lives since I seen the grass outside the plant photoshoot 😂😂

[@laurenpegg3464]

You are the most inspirational person and I also struggle with doing things like that because I’m scared of what people think about me but what you’ve said has made me realise that maybe I shouldn’t care what other people think your other video has also helped me and now I feel way more comfortable in pubic and don’t care how people look at me. I’m 13 so I’m in secondary school and people find anything to pick on you for so I’m very grateful☺️ if you’re reading this joe I just want to say thank you x

[@nataliedavies7567]

I’m in the same boat with the interacting thing, I get so anxious and rely on others to ask for prices&stuff, since I was younger I told myself I’d grow out of it and I’m almost 19 and still trying to convince myself I’ll get over it, it’s so frustrating Ahdjkf

[@hedwig041]

Speaking about your insecurities is the first step to overcoming them, and speaking about them to a huge audience is smacking those insecurities in the face 💪 you’re a legend Joe, don’t feel badly about anything!!

[@taramailey8357]

Joe look I have the same thing but with clothes, I quite like boys clothes and I will go buy some of those clothes but when it comes to buying them I back out and put them back. I will walk out of the shop and regret it so much. Then I will take a breath and walk into that shop like a pro and get those clothes!! It makes me feel so sad knowing that you feel like that! You are like me and you just need to know that what ever people think or say shouldn’t get to you down because they are just talking shit and you are perfect xx

[@bonnielass277]

feel the fear as at the end of the day, in terms of our anxiety as a collective, the only way through an 'attack' is through.

[@ameliamoo927]

You are the best KZbinr!!! Please play more gta 5 with Oli!!!!! ❤️😊

[@terezacrhova356]

oh yas!

[@kerisleggett5005]

Amelia Moo. YES! YES! YES!

[@hannahHAHAHA]

YASSS!!!!!

[@lightshadow9404]

Joe i COMPLETELY understand, I do the same thing a lot. Just know that we all love you for who you are, and we're always here for you. Stay positive and strong, you'll get to the place you want to be soon. I believe in you Joe. 💞💞

[@millywoollard19]

Joe: "And we've got Jack; the attractive neighbour." JOECK IS STILL GOING!

[@kiera5234]

Milly Woollard joeck sounds like joke

[@rosijimenez9828]

Noooo Jaspar is still better though

[@millywoollard19]

I love Jaspar, Joe and Caspar have the best friendship. I ship Joeck as Joe and Jack have kissed and they must get together ASAP! I love Jaspar too though :)

[@rosijimenez9828]

Milly Woollard Do you not see the way Caspar and Joe look at each other?! 😍 Or the interview where Joe gets a point if he answers the question wrong and he was asked "have you ever kissed Caspar?" He said "noo.." girrlll 😂😂

[@maryfridaysolarjova3869]

It's interesting🤔, and I still like Jaspar. But for now I think that Byron&Joe is a new thing 😏

[@jasp4309]

Hiya joe I just want to say I found that so inspiring when you told the story about how you were to nervous to go to the till and buy your products and how you used to be nervous with Asking for prices and things growing up as I’m 18 nearly 19 and it still happens to me and I always have to ask my friends to ask for me !! So I that’s why I found this so inspiring!

[@Sophia-ko6zx]

You’re the absolute best xx💕😇

[@brittanyharding8908]

Thank you for sharing that social interactions were hard for you growing up. I've always had a difficult time with that as well and still need my mom to go with me most places at 19 years old. I've been feeling really insecure about it lately and this made me feel less alone, so thank you.

[@LI.77]

You're starting to become a daily vlogger Joe (If you see this Joe sorry)

[@cathystratton5506]

LARIBA IQBAL ikr

[@cassie_harrington]

LARIBA IQBAL yasss! 😂

[@oneday1459]

shhhhh... or he may stop lol

[@ora4305]

LARIBA IQBAL ikr!

[@cassie_harrington]

One Day yes, Joe if you see this please ignore us... 😂

[@erinlinnea1091]

Joe I admire you so much for talking such a hard topic for you and definetely for a lot of people as well. Thanks for being an amazing role model

[@pr1mo4u97]

Joe as much as I love u I can't give my life away and watch All of your videos again it would be utter torture only joking xx

[@leahheapp]

You actually break my heart.. you’re so adorable😭😩 I love it when you show your more vulnerable side🧡

[@rinaisbored]

I’ve had times where I couldn’t go up to the cash register to buy something too!! I got someone else to buy it 😂(I feel your pain.)

[@stephie222]

the fact that you are comfortable enough to tell us how you felt about buying the products by yourself is reassuring to me. I too sometimes panic about buying products that I need for myself by myself. I get this weird feeling that the cashier will judge me or have something to say about it even tho they never do. Thanks joe, now I know I’m not alone😊

[@reshmimanthripragada1610]

I'm loving these Vlogs 🤩😍😍

[@canna8676]

the more joe reveals about himself, the more impressed I am... his head and his heart are definitely at the right place

[@rinaisbored]

You should try The Body Shop’s tea tree range !! I’ve tried it, and it’s worked so far for me!!

[@ellamai6530]

Rina N thats only an american company isnt it

[@2011naomi]

The Body Shop is in England. I'm a consultant for the body shop. Get in touch. Facebook...Mims Beauty Haven Xx

[@sophieroot6951]

the tea trea range is my favouriteeeee! The facial spray is the best if you're feeling lazy:')

[@mynameisambica9474]

It is not good for ancne though (good but not best)

[@gabymcmurdo9793]

I can soo relate to you joe!!! Social anxiety has always kept me from doing anything. You have nothing to worry about. Wish we could have a proper chat about it💜😊

[@jessicab4751]

I love your vlogs, and I have watched every single one.

[@emilygordon5333]

Jessica B same

[@luxxltyd]

So how many times has he said "back on the gym thingy whatever Joe says"????

[@reganjones5686]

This is just a short message as I'm not sure how to word it but I'm really thankful u put this out and explained your worries about going up to tills and in the past struggling to ask prices I still struggle with that now at 17 and countless times I still have to ask my parents to go up to the till or a friend to ask the price its not something u should be ashamed of however if it makes life slightly easier I hope ur able to get past these things but still thank u for discussing this as I thought I was alone in my shopping/asking worries xx

[@jocelyn7836]

Joe I see what you mean about not getting things off your mind I still have random stupid things on my mind and not being able to ask people things who I never talked to and will probably never speak to again

[@saik3107]

You didn't let yourself down! Love that you've spoken about it, feel like we all need to be more honest about stuff like this

[@rinaisbored]

That’s nice of Zoe !!

[@amber-simoneingram7608]

I admire and respect you so much for trusting your viewers with insecurities that you face. We love you so much!!!

[@sandrajacek4370]

Joe: “please don’t gif that” Oh, you know us too well Joe

[@hopemartindale5532]

Joe im realky glad you are opening up more and more about this. You have nothing to be ashamed off, buying tje produces shows you care about your health! Proud of you buddy

[@bethmartin6793]

omg I have the same problem I can never ask how much something is in a shop

[@kelly49ful]

I completely get where your coming from with not being able to socially interact, as a kid I was often told to be quiet when asking something so now I really struggle with doing it. I often get others to ask etc or I go with out! Thank you for being so honest Joe x

[@elliek3397]

I also hate having to go to someone to buy something or ask prices and I didn't really know why.... Even buying cinema tickets feels awkward to me having to speak to people I'm not familiar with xxx

[@milliem3052]

It’s so amazing that you are so open about and talk about an issue that affects so many people 💕💕

[@anabelbumchum467]

Hi joe your the best ever

[@lakshminarayanan9260]

I feel you joe.... even I never asked the price of things but asked someone else to ask for me... stranger interactions are the worst...love u sooo much!!!

[@isladruvesket765]

It's been flooding where I live because of the rain😫 you've been in New York so your lucky😂

[@JeamesGranger]

Sometimes we forget we are all human. It is tho we live on different planes of existence but sharing stories like this make you more relatable. You didn't let anybody down you just had a human moment. You have identified that you have a issue, it now time to discover the tools you need to overcome it if it happens again. Thank Joe for this honesty.

[@JeamesGranger]

Our brains are a curious enigma which we must learn to enjoy and at times are totally random. For example my brain when watching this vlog wondered whatever happened to Harry Styles with one shoe that lived on your window sill at your old places?

[@nataliedavies7567]

“don’t gif or screenshot it!” everyone: *screenshots and posts on twitter*

[@Simrankaur12.]

Aw joe, I honestly had the same and I think everyone has had that same problem for being ashamed to ask for something or the fear of what someone else is thinking about you when they’re probably not thinking about it at all, really proud of you though and I hope you’re not too hard on yourself x

[@kateemily7986]

to not just joe but anyone: dont be ashamed to buy or speak to or do anything in public you think would be embarrassing if it will benefit you. Trust me, theres a very good chance you won't know the cashier or people, so they probably either don't care or will just forget about it. and even if you do know them, they won't say or think anything weird because they know what you are like as a person anyway. There really is no reason to be embarrassed, the people in public wont care. The product is there to be bought, you are literally just doing what anyone is supposed to do with it, regardless or gender, race or anything. This goes not only for skincare but buying clothes or hygeine products or anything that you would deem 'embarrassing'.

[@liza2444]

Kate Emily legit I work at a chemist and people buy some ‘embarrassing’ stuff as you can imagine... but I barely even look at the person who’s buying I’m here to do my job in fact I just try to make conversation that has nothing to do with the product so they don’t feel embarrassed or as though I’m judging them

[@briwood29]

I feel so bad for joe when he spoke about not being able to buy it, I can totally vouch and understand what he means. Even when he spoke about asking for prices at boot sales and stuff used to scare me and I’d stumble and stutter over my words, at the minute in getting so much better at it. My job really helps with it and I’m grateful for that

[@toni3668]

I just relate to you so much its actually stupid :)

[@bluepiggy9]

I get the same way buying stuff. Sometimes it's embarrassing buying things but everyone has problems at one point or another. We're only human. 💚

[@livmay1570]

I get scared going in to the supermarket, I have to have someone with me and I cannot buy anything by myself cuz I get to nervous and for the same reason as you I think people are going to judge me

[@queenilynsanchez7979]

liv may same here

[@μαριατριαντάφυλλο]

a cashier will never judge you on what you are buying! I promise from experience! :)

[@leahlistenbee7076]

We always think people can tell what we think are our obvious insecurities or flaws, but usually people don't even notice. The best advice my mom ever gave me was "fake it 'till you make it" and it has helped me feel more comfortable with the things that I was insecure about or scared to do!

[@nicolnicolaou8671]

Omg Im soo early what shall I comment? My feet are cold.

[@cassie_harrington]

Nicol Nicolaou Put on some fluffy socks like me 😂 😊

[@nicolnicolaou8671]

Cassie Harrington I did!😂😂

[@erinndunning]

Same though mine are freezing 😂

[@daniellan5779]

Joe I’ve been watching you for 3 years now and you never let me down to make me smile with your uploads. Thank you for always being so genuine, hope you see this 💚

[@jenh8056]

Joe you're daily vlogger is showing... Almost

[@oliviamorgan6901]

Jen H not rly showing lol

[@cassie_harrington]

😂

[@kadiesworld381]

Jen H it's your not you're

[@charlieedwards2122]

Only recently started watching your vlogs and really enjoying them you’re very entertaining Also appreciated your honesty, I’ve always been scared to ask questions if I wasn’t 100% I’d get the answer I wanted - no idea where this has come from but still do it to this day at 21! Nice to hear someone else talk about something similar

[@eleanorlloyd1745]

Yasssssssssssss Pls just like this so I can feel good about myself 😂😂

[@jv.9261]

Eleanor Lloyd now you have 27 reasons to feel good about yourself

[@eleanorlloyd1745]

Emily Atkinson Because I had 27 likes x

[@minpd]

it's nice to see you sharing this with everyone, and it shows that you're trying to get better at not getting embarrassed so it's ok

[@nataliedavies7567]

cardboard oli is almost as entertaining as real oli in these vlogs

[@evew7961]

*more entertaining 😂

[@josieshearer5481]

You now what. I am the same and so nice to hear someone say what i have been thinking. I have always struggled with speaking for myself. I feel like acually my brain just goes on pause and my mouth womt catch up. Complelty gwt that not wanting to go to the till i do it specially when its somewere i dont now and will worry for weeks after to the point i struggle bad with anxiety. Its all a massive difficult circle 😐

[@mariannegepp83]

"I didn't like social interactions with strangers much" SAME. I still don't to be honest. The future looks bright for me doesn't it? Ha ha ha... 😞

[@samanthagrace8481]

I was the same growing up about asking strangers about things and I still get nervous about it, but it's also alright to have times where you couldn't do something and its okay to forgive yourself.

[@nadiaewart3042]

I love the way he has Alfies number saved as pointlessblog ahahah :)

[@johannaolsen9372]

You're an amazing human being. You didn't have to tell us that, but you did so we wouldn't do the same. Amazing.

[@jaimedickson2595]

You have such a nice sister

[@FaF2rox]

Aw Joe, I've definitely have had those moments where it's similar to anxiety and I kind of scare myself out of doing something I shouldn't have to be scared about doing. I really hope that you find ways to work your way through it. Much love xx

[@sophiefowler86]

69 times you said it on all of your vlogs 😂💗

[@TheSamyell93]

the bit where you said "I m not a big fan of myself at the moment" made me want to go through that screen and give you a giant hug but also felt like a slap in the face... because I heard and saw what I look like when I say that to my friends. I am 25 and I get what you mean about not wanting to interact with people sometimes... I am very sociable but when it comes to asking things to professionals for some reason I freak out. Last week I got my mother to call the hairdresser to book my appointment for me but I am completely fine making a speech in front of 80 teenagers. Being 20+ nowadays is very scary especially when you have not figured your shit out and every one around you seems to have. You probably read, hear that a lot but don't brush it off take the compliment: you are a brilliant young man who is handsome, smart and creative you are doing so many great things and are an inspiration to loads of young boys and girls. I usually am the same... I love smiling and making people happy but it is difficult for me to "be a fan of myself" I'm working on it! I moved to London away from my friends and family, don't know many people here but I am determined and creative andmy super power is to make people happy! I like that about just start by the facts and hopefully in a vlog sometimes soon we'll be able to hear you say " You know what I like myself " :) Sorry I got carried away