The #1 sign your narcissist has found somebody else

[@libertycan6959]

Have friends..don't date...stay off apps..talk to real people. If God willing you actually find a genuine compatible partner outside the matrix consider it a miracle.

[@Haroun.Benmahdjoub]

Just one genuine person is enough

[@90jagadish]

True that

[@AlineDreams]

Being alone is just better, I've learned.

[@90jagadish]

@@AlineDreams I feel it is difficult as a single dad with a three year old in a country where you don’t have family. My parents are in India. I am in the US and my son is a US citizen. I cannot leave for India with my son permanently because his mom lives in US.

[@SquishyGrayMatter]

Ikr. Dating apps are the devil’s work.

[@Doodlefisher]

Expect narcissistic people to be the first ones on dating apps to like your profile because they stalk victims for whatever reason.

[@KEPSAGAMER]

The reason is obsession. they treat people like job advice "never leave one unless you have another"... just a fair warning. expect them to be out with someone else while simultaneously watching EVERYTHING you do. I've had one get a new dude with the same sort of car as me, while she was with him she was having her friend (narc+ also practicing black MAGIC!) watching my stories and stuff.

[@Doodlefisher]

@@KEPSAGAMER there is a striking similarity in a lot of people that got into some sort of witchcraft that I’ve noticed . They love power from a distance because they are covert. It’s like watching an episode of criminal minds in real life!

[@youtubeguy22]

Yep my ex narcissist jumped into a relationship recently with a way younger, softer looking dude who is fawning over her every move. It's so openly a weird, next "supply" type of relationship. I actually feel sorry for the guy. He has no idea what kind of web he's been caught in. Im sooo thankful I chose no contact months ago. GNC for life!

[@OlBlueshound]

That's exactly how my ex covert narcissist girlfriend acts and you're right she did absolutely have someone on the back burner always and I didn't know this was a thing. But I've realized now I was just a new supply and now I'm just the old supply and there is a new one and that's been her lifestory. They are very cruel heartless people.

[@randyscrafts8575]

Something to look out for also is their cell phone. Those with something to hide will protect that phone with their life and never let you see it and have a code to get into it. When this stops and they leave it unlocked and you are free to go thru it they've gotten another phone with a different number and didnt tell you about it and keep it hidden from you. They've played this game before and are very good at it.

[@BlessedHealer75]

I have a code on my phone to keep my husband out. This man has stalked my through our house (absolutely crazy watching him do it). Watched me through cameras inside and outside of the house. Used our kids' computers to read personal emails then question me about them/use them to try to manipulate me (have written proof). Kept my paper mail from me (including but not limited to my bank card) and so much more. I'm just writing a post, not my biography. I have no expectation of privacy but he sneaks and lies (including having his own coded phones) about everything and expects me to be okay with it. All that to say, a coded phone is a safety net for non narcissistic people especially if you are planning an escape.

[@thepragmatist]

I agree. The cell phone is key.

[@Meechl]

This is so true! The coldness is unbelievable and you find you doubt yourself because their switch towards you makes you feel at fault. It’s like how you should feel about them, which they mirror. The funniest thing ex narc told me was that he felt so alone when he had other women and humongous support when he made sure I had no one!

[@EdelweisSusie]

My Narc (now I know he WAS one) broke me: destroyed my faith in relationships, my trust in men and my belief in love. I’m now destined to be alone for the rest of my life. What a world we live in!

[@MiteshDamania]

How old are you

[@RandallGlatt]

You need to get yourself together. In time you'll heal from this monster...

[@AlineDreams]

Well, maybe it's for the better. Better staying alone than meeting yet another one of those weirdos. It's what I believe for my unlovable self, you know?

[@SquishyGrayMatter]

Same

[@meme-zv7kw]

Nobody can break you

[@tarekahmad2978]

This was fire, thank you Danielle, once we realize the reality and gravity of the situation it makes it easier to move on and NEVER look back!

[@90jagadish]

You are spot on mam! This is exactly what happened to me. I got a strong intuition that she found someone else. Now I am out but having to coparent. Thankfully I have the primary custody of my son.

[@76_Red_Pills]

After pain+education; the ridiculousness of it all is pathetic.

[@JacobCarlson-uq1my]

Although I've never met you, you are truly the kind of friend I seek in this very short life span. Thank you for your great help!

[@ShaisTime]

Completely. Spot. On. ‼️‼️💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

[@BJBlaskovichGaming]

Yep, her ex bf from 16 years ago was the back burner guy. Even during her marriage, which as far as I can tell, hasn’t been ended by divorce yet. I confronted her about it and she absolutely died oh that hill. Started with she didn’t have anyone (she was back with him days after we broke up, or possibly before we broke up) but soon went to stonewalling and “if you ask any questions about him, I will not answer them”.

[@Nerine98]

this is pretty spot on for me, she would find new targets so fast and call it a "large coincidence" that someone actually turned out to be her new target who already was somewhere in the background

[@mortischahicks5341]

I just went through this myself. My now ex bf was active on a dating app. I met him on the same app a couple of months ago. When we met online, we both decided to delete our profiles. I did mine, but he didn't. His profile is still active. I made a fake account to see if he was still on there. The answer is yes! I took a screenshot and texted it to him. I wrote liars and a cheater across the pic. I blocked him and changed my number. I am done dealing with a narc/toxic person....

[@MiteshDamania]

Done very well! Even better is if you ghost them without telling them! Hahahaha!

[@John-mh7uz]

Super strong message thank you

[@Den-pf5wz]

Witnessed the narc i “ dated” for 6 years monkey branch to another after a series of breakups that she covertly orchestrated and became more emboldened to swing on top of another flush with cash fool. learned she had a history of “ moving on up” monkey branching in search of a charmed life. Sneaky,sinister and poster child conniving manoeuvres throughout tumultuous relationship. She acted outshone the narcissist married to previously. Danielle your videos are helpful sorting this s- out.

[@stevejackson8625]

From tipping point to tipping point. Exhausting.

[@rocco6396]

💯. Been though all that

[@lt827]

This happened with my ex. He was going to couples counselling with me after he suddenly split. The counsellor wanted to talk to each of us individually. My ex refused to say anything in the one-on-one session. You guessed it, the next one was lined up by then.

[@Mountainhippiedude]

My soon to be ex once screamed at me that I was not the real father of our daughters in one of her fits of rage. At the time I thought she was just saying it to hurt me, but yesterday I ordered a paternity test.

[@psychotherapistmft7927]

Even after my ex gave me an STI they still looked me dead I’m the eye and lied about cheating . Mind you they were literally getting treatment for said STI , when I asked them to just be honest about what’s happening I was called annoying .

[@silviamihailova6042]

I was calling just that as well, they both are the same😢😢😢😢

[@forumicebreaker]

When "mom's friend" helped change the locks on the marital property and that friend was taller than my son, it's a pretty solid sign. 🤣

[@SquishyGrayMatter]

Lol 😭

[@vikingmike8139]

Deplorable predatory natured.

[@JeffreyNColeman]

All true. Found out from a mutual friend that my narcissistic ex had spent six months working on her next target before he finally committed, and she unceremoniously dumped me, the supposed love of her life. Then she suggested that we remain friends. My immediate reaction was to go no contact, even without any counseling from anyone. That was very natural decision.

[@MrTwinkieeater]

They didn't find someone else. They're married to their trauma. Everything else is an affair.

[@Meechl]

I don’t understand? They marry their target and yes they have affairs and traumatise their spouses looking in their faces and lie about cheating! Been through it all. Even with proof they lie and the spouse will apologise for their cheating because they will twist everything.

[@Sheri-sb1yr]

They only find themselves because they are only looking to supply and support themselves. Once a LIAR and CHEATER always a LIAR and CHEATER.

[@ashton1952]

​@@Meechlthey, them and themselves will always be their priority, and their trauma outweighs everyone else's ( in their minds, of course)

[@mollierose77]

THIS!!!! So Spot on! Happened to me...I confronted him on it and I was spot on! He denied and yelled and verbally abused me like none other. just a few days before we were enjoying ourselves and he told me I was his home.

[@randyscrafts8575]

The most educational thing about a narc is seeing it in others before you get tangled up and run long before you screw up your life with another one. For me, narc's are very easy to pick out and unfortunately there are a lot of them. Females have really gotten bad since metoo made feminism go retributive.

[@wickidblazed420]

My woman's intuition dug at me when I was with Antonio..yes he moved out a couple of times, moved back in but he stopped bringing his clothes to my apartment and he kept everything in his bookbag..we slept in the same bed, the sex stopped and I just knew he was already with someone new...I wish him all the best

[@TheMichaelCardoza]

Literally my ex wife

[@matikramer9648]

Thank you All true That happened to me And final discard was terrible, just terrible. It totally lost it I wish somebody would tell me all of this 30 years ago...

[@treesaremadeofwood2145]

This explains soooo much.........

[@gigantopithecushominoidea8779]

I love my ex so much I'm happy she found someone else's house to live in, I could never make her happy. Good for her, her dad must be proud.

[@palmamingozzi5736]

They have sticky fingers, but nothing ever sticks with them.

[@waynerandles6126]

I guess they have many irons in the fire stoking some🔥and letting others smoulder but not go out😳

[@propro693]

Was I that wrong If I told her she is narcisist???

[@Imnotyourdoormat]

When is the very best time to go out and get yourself a "New Job?" Everybody knows the answer to that 1 that's easy. When you have a job already. There is no better time ever to go out and improve yourself it's the..."American Way." And when is the absolute worst time to go look for a job? When you need it. When the chips are down and bills are due that's when they close the Factory or the TV Station gets bought out and they already have their own Danielle Raidin that's when. Narcissists are Masters of this Dynamic and they always keep a tax-free 2nd income from a secret job while they're working on a 3rd along with sheltered dividends compounded hourly coming in from all directions. And when is the best time to shop for competitive insurance prices? When you already have insurance. And when will you pay thru the nose? haha LOL Surely it was Narcissists that geared engineered and pioneered this eternal infernal inverted backwardness.

[@Imnotyourdoormat]

For me, IMO Robin Meade was the best. The best of the best. If you ask me altho Danielle and Robin are for sure their own girls they still must've been pulled from the same branch came over on the same boat graduated same school of "Ladylike" University. She is also multi-talented like Danielle. She was invaluable unfirable irreplaceable. And she's gone. Long gone. What does that tell an Empath...LOL just realized Danielle probably knows Robin Meade they're both "Emmy" Winners.

[@vaughnlewis1953]

Smh wow this is sick

[@sayusayme7729]

Graceful he did, secretly hoping he would was my saving grace. Thank you

[@nicholette]

Its so hard for me to understand it and how bad it is because he does go around looking for replacements and placeholders or whatever. He just gives up entertaining me and told me he does all this because of he just is heartbroken for someone else, and not me, he cant love me or care about me but he does for another.. Its just devastating. So I guess now I'm just even more hurt that not only he didn't like me enough but he said he could for them supposedly. Btw. He had finally confessed this supposed heartbreak and feelings for another after telling me several months earlier that he cant love and its just for himself. After also previously giving me some breadcrumbing, false hope, bs etc.

[@thingsIdoforlove]

💯 true I lived through this!

[@AlanBoldt]

My Now x GF covert Narcissist, With much Experience, because she's been for many years ( I have No Doubt ) A covert narcissist, always has SEVERAL , Supply at the same time + Several on the Back burner. This way , there never actually alone to except ACCOUNTABILITY. if she drops below 3 ,she can always promote a back burner on a minutes notice...a call...a text ...This guy has been waiting months or years to be promoted...Even if he's Married...Maybe easier for her to keep him close, because he is married 🤔

[@MelanieWard-ni1em]

Am going through this now. Broke up with my narc one month ago after finding online sex chats with many women from when we first met right up until end June. He admitted he was wrong apologised asked for another chance and said he will prove i can trust him again. I first said okay because was under his power still then after two days i sent voice note its totally over. He messaged me for two weeks asking still for another chance and saying he will not let me go will always love me etc. Then for the last two weeks hasnt been online watsup and totally silent whih means he must be using another number to contact someone else. He obviously has met someone else. Well good luck to her is all i cansay and so glad he has not contacted me as has given me time to think i must never go back to him. I have blocked him now and do not want anything to do with him am moving on

[@jb689]

Yup, absolutely true!

[@anneyoung2310]

Please! Please! Please! Oh, Lord, can it be true? Never thought about reconciling, as he was never "my" narcissist. I was always trying to keep distance, but this narco-path is extra sick. I don't need him to admit anything. I don't need apologies. I don't need truth (LOLOLOL). I need him to be exposed or he will kill someone.

[@WillyNillyBaptistBilly]

"The #1 sign etc" Why give a shit; I mean its/this is clear; to me: when I did the reverse discard. Its because we already know this is not going to be a situation were we are the only one. Whether that was already going on or not, at the time of the reverse discard seems moot now. Cause eventual I know it would have happened anyways. She is a liar and a button pusher. Let someone else deal with that; I didnt sign up for it when I bought the rings.

[@SquishyGrayMatter]

Mine admitted he cheated (100th time). He threw it in my face 2 days after a fight where he told me “he was sorry for taking me for granted and scared to lose the best woman ever” two days later cheated and changed his number and went to a cop when i drove to talk to him. Is my narc the worst or is this actually what other people go through? I’m severely trauma bonded to him bc of 11 yrs of abuse and love bombing.

[@robertacosta7586]

Thank god I did not get with my narcissist she was trying but she got to cocky

[@mschoy1597]

Very true!

[@jaketedesco9497]

Mine put us on trial,, its fucked

[@silviamihailova6042]

My ex swears in God he wasnt be with somebody else, but i know he was lier and never ever believed that, i knew that perfectly well, but loved him so much, but i am done ....

[@cynthiacassel]

Yippee!!!! Praise the Lord!!!!

[@TheCowardStrikesBack]

Truth

[@nicholecornes1915]

Oh hell no no no

[@nicholecornes1915]

Oh yeah! Its badddd

[@MarkAble8]

Pop the champagne when that happens.

[@heatherbowman9450]

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