The 10 Dos and Don'ts of Turning 30

[@LauraSomeNumber]

I started sewing at 35 it's become my favourite thing. I just made my first pair of jeans and I feel powerful.

[@stephanie6676]

❤

[@athena6832]

GIRL! You SHOULD feel powerful!! What I wouldn't give to have a custom pair of jeans 😭

[@calicofloof]

Spoiler Alert: that IS powerful! you go, pal!

[@lindseyb1980]

Jeans are HARD to make!!!! I am so genuinely impressed

[@TheBlueMandarine]

I tried twice to just to cinched the waist of two jeans and it was so difficult, I barely made it and you could see it was a novice job lol. Kudos to you for sewing jeans ! It's such a difficult item to sew !

[@milikoshki]

Dude, people in their 30s complaining about being old is a HUGE pet peeve of mine. I got hit by a car at 28 and experienced true fragility for the first time. I am really grateful I experienced the contrast between healthy and injured so starkly, because I learned such a deep appreciation for everything my body can do and how valuable it is, mentally, physically, emotionally, to be as fit as you're able. Without the shocking before/after experience, I'm not sure I wouldn't just become a victim of the slow decline into a sedentary life where every year comes with an additional few kg of fat replacing muscle. I heard someone say their traumatic injury and recovery was a preview of old age, and I couldn't agree more. It's so important to stave off fragility and not think that vitality and fitness are things you have no control over. Coming back from being so broken, I can vouch for the body's incredible ability to reverse damage and get strong. At 34, I am the fittest I've ever been and I feel better than I did at 24, physically and mentally. Even considering the limitations I have as a result of my injuries.

[@thefinancialdiet]

Glad you are doing so much better, that is truly incredible!!

[@ngeri1000]

😅

[@Pomagranite167]

I got a double shoulder injury due to my love for acrobatics. It was very painful, and i poweres throigh it for about 6 months, until my dominant shoulder began feeling the same, and I finally did something about it. I never took my youth, health, and mobility for granted, but I started thinking a lot harder about longevity, being more careful and cautious with my body, because I really did not want to experience that pain or lack if independence again. My left arm healed within 4 months of beginning therapy, my dominant took about a year and a half, but thankfully, they both made a full recovery without any invasive methods. Huge wake up call at 23.

[@Forceprincess]

For real. Life is a blessing and aging is a privilege. I'm sorry you had to go through all that. Not everyone would have come through it with such perspective ❤

[@Fugalism]

THANK YOU! All these videos of 30+ year olds complaining about back pain piss me off so much. Sedentary lifestyles are why your back hurts, not your age.

[@Forceprincess]

Im 42, and let me tell you all, 30s isthe decade where you can level up. In general you still have enough health and vitality to be active, but you realize that society's expectations are garbage and you can throw them away. Get a little exercise, moisturize your skin, drink water. Indulge some hobbies if you can. Life can be awesome.

[@juliak1615]

This actually makes me excited for my 30s! Life can be awesome is a beautiful phrase.

[@Stannlag]

just turned 30. Due to circumstances out of my control, I had to start over from scratch at the beginning of this year. New career, new city, new home and zero savings. only thing that I can say is a big plus is I am almost have no debts. This channel is really a big factor in the fact that I am somewhat confident that I can still make it and achieve any financial goals even though I feel I am having a really late start compared to other people I know. Thanks Chelsea. ❤TFD

[@thefinancialdiet]

That's still amazing! I'm so glad we were able to play a role in that journey

[@HighTeaToys]

This is so reassuring to read. I know we are complete strangers but knowing that starting over at 30/29 is doable is good to hear. I am terrified, but if others have done it, I hope so can I.

[@steph6473]

Wow. It sounds like we are both living parallel lives. 1000 years of success to you, friend 🎉❤

[@jejaramillo]

I’m 30 and feel like I’m starting adulthood from scratch. Due to a break up and being laid off within the same year I had to move back in with my mom. However I finally did a career change I’ve been wanting and although it sucks I’m at entry level again I feel a lot happier these past 6 months. I think things are starting to align.

[@Jazzmaster1992]

I'm 32 as of this September, but turning 30 was really a slap in the face. It was a completely unceremonious day, puncuated by nothing but a trip to the DMV to renew my license and tags. The one friend I had made plans with to celebrate bailed on me, and my family all live out of state and are pretty emotionally distant, so I really had to sit with myself and think about many of the things you mentioned here, from who I choose to associate with, to what my future would hold in terms of career and finances. Your segment about inertia is truly on point, since it took a lot of struggling through repeated disappointments and the universe going from wispering to shaking my shoulders and screaming in my face to make a lot of important changes. I'm happy to say that in just two years, virtually everything in my life has turned around for the better, and although it didn't come without some serious trials or any cost, I don't have so many regrets or hangups about my choices now.

[@thefinancialdiet]

Ahh I'm so glad to hear that, you should be very proud of yourself!

[@jego207]

Now that I'm leaving my 30s, it's been fantastic! Establishing financial discipline early is crucial. You'll likely have more disposable income, but also increased financial responsibilities.

[@ipsilonia]

this is such a sweet review :)

[@SoliRhymesWithJulie]

I turned 50 this summer and still don't feel "old." Though I have been actively reminding myself that given overall family history I am over halfway through life. Which means I am making sure even moreso to do all the things I want to do and stop saying later or maybe someday.

[@LoboLady2007]

Welcome to the 50something club!!!

[@tenaciousbre]

How on earth did you know I was having an existential crisis today about turning 30 in April. 😥

[@thefinancialdiet]

You've got this!!

[@MKatelynn]

Sameeeee

[@sean640]

I turned 30 this year weeeeee

[@alexp233]

LOL also turning 30 in April, hello

[@xmartamarques]

Girl! Exactly my thought... and also in April 😅

[@anajovanovic265]

I'm 35 today and I first started feeling young when I turned 30 😊

[@acrrazywriter]

I turn 32 this year and despite ~ the state of the world ~, I really feel like my life has improved so much in my 30's so far! I have prioritized my mental, emotional, financial, and physical health. I've invested in my relationships and re-evaluated my priorities. I'm happier than ever and I still feel like I have so many opportunities to improve my life even more. Aging is scary but I try to remember that it's a blessing to be alive and to make decisions about my future that align with my values. Thank you so much for this video!!

[@abbieamavi]

5:00 I'm so glad you talked about this!! It's so linked to the Loneliness epidemic. If we're selfish, who wants to be friends with a selfish person? This also affects the dating scene, everybody is now so individualist and self-centered even more so post COVID. Like we've forgotten how to live and relate to other people.

[@alfamaize]

So we need to be honest- we are a consumer economy. Everything is driven by people who consume stuff. We all want to take advantage of that. That being said, one can combine some of the suggestions- about not consuming stuff you don't need/consume high quality stuff to taking care of yourself. If you have access to local farmers or growers- consume the locally grown food. It's more expensive, but higher quality than brought in food; it's better for you since it's far closer to being fresh; it TASTES better; it's good for the environment; and it's good for the local economy.

[@seekingfreesolace]

thank you for unshaming the comparison trap of personal finance. there are so many creators on KZbin telling people here are xx number of things you should do by 40, and... it's so discouraging. it will take me years to get to debt free, and that's okay. I'm always working on it, so your kind words are encouraging!

[@anber4129]

I just turned 30 a couple weeks ago…. wow. My 20s felt so long. It is a new feeling for sure. Thanks for posting

[@valentinavegas7672]

I’m turning 30 in a little less than a month, thank you for this 🥺

[@thefinancialdiet]

Happy birthday!!

[@chelseamarlow1357]

I’m turning 33 in December and thanks to TFD I’m at my pinnacle of savings investing and earnings, with no debt except for my mortgage. It’s hasn’t been easy getting here but it’s been worth it. 32 was the hardest year bec buying a house was the most stressful and expensive thing I’ve ever purchased. Hopefully 33 will be better!

[@thefinancialdiet]

Ahhhh this comment has made our day!! You are killing it

[@crocodilesmiles8095]

i turn 30 next year, and just had my 29th birthday yesterday here in australia. this is so timely! the part about ageing and "feeling old" is so true. i nearly died a few times in hospital in 2020 at 25, after getting a stomach tumour removed. so i know how short life can be, and don't give a fuck about aging now like tiktok (that i dont actually have) seems to shove down people's throats.

[@thefinancialdiet]

Happy birthday!

[@keshinilt]

I love this as someone who is 29 and "prepping" for 30. I'm actually looking forward to it which isn't not common among my peers. I feel like if i finally have control over my life while still being long enough to enjoy the things of youth.

[@EliQ3]

I'm turning 28 in Dec. and this is completely hitting

[@paulinanarvaez8317]

As a 26 year old more recently I started thinking more and more about where I would like to be financially when I'm 30. I've made some huge shifts, but anywho- I deeply appreciate this kind of content. Thank you!

[@hippie1252]

I'd be curious about your shifts, if you'd be willing to share. I'm the same age and I'm not sure where I'd like to be financially at 30.

[@Janitabonita19]

Man the comment about having zero debt vs 100k+ in student loan debt for the same exact degree and starting salary just made me feel so seen. In our video earlier this year I got so positive comments but the negative ones were really going for the jugular. And learning to compare my progress to my former self has been so helpful. Thank you, Chelsea.

[@thefinancialdiet]

Trust me that I've been there, and I'm so grateful for our conversation!

[@theomnithinker]

Yeah! People ignore how burdensome and limiting debt and being low income can be on our daily choices and opportunities. Having student debt can be severely limiting for young adults trying to get started on their financial journeys.

[@diana-mun411]

I am turning 30 in a few weeks. Thank you for the compasionate and balanced advice. I felt disappointed for not doing better financially and not being able to reach certain milestones

[@thefinancialdiet]

We are all running at our own pace! Be kind to yourself and focus on small victories

[@annie-sc]

I stopped partying and binge drinking in 2019. Pandemic hit and I realized I really don't need alcohol in my life. Started working out in 2020. Lost 18kg since then. I am never drinking again.

[@chiplease]

I turned 30 in April of this year and the states of my physical, mental, and financial well-being are better than ever. It's not even that life got exponentially easier; I've just learned to deal with stress better and walk away from things that aren't a good fit for me. Love it here!

[@Bri.510]

Omg!! The advice on jeans!! I literally got so depressed from trying on multiple pairs of jeans the other day because none worked. Excited to try this advice! Also, another great video! Really appreciated! Thank you! :)

[@Letsgohsiwb1782]

Turning 30 next year and the panic has started. Any content in this series around relaxing, not panicking would be great 🙈

[@MariaLCirillo]

I turn 29 in March so looking forward to watching this series before I hit my new decade!!

[@Mystic_Paths]

At 30, it becomes more common to reassess priorities and focus on things that will lead to long-term satisfaction, but this journey looks different for everyone. The key is finding balance between what you feel you should learn and what genuinely enhances your life, based on your own needs and desires

[@joditio3024]

This was honestly exactly what I needed today - my internet big sister bringing me back to Earth and making me feel better about myself. Thank you for ll the work you do, Chelsea and TFD!! ❤

[@playsomething4029]

Clicked, saw Chelsea, instant like, but also I do sincerely appreciate the more specific shorter vids. Referring to 19:00 I'm in my early 20's I do not view anyone on the channel as being removed from me because of their age. Y'all are spitting facts! My peers and I are trying to envision where we want to be at 30 and so on and trying to take on a healthy view of life.

[@thefinancialdiet]

I love that!! Early 20-somethings are welcome here, too :)

[@bruceguy247]

Folks in their 20s should watch this.

[@b4rbarbar]

Hey Chelsea, I know you're obviously American and so is most of your audience and so this type of oversight is incredibly common and in no way does it make me less interested in you as a long time subscriber. However, being Portuguese, I am always on the lookout for "only available in the US" or the beautiful but incredible rare "available worldwide" when it comes to sponsors. Since I didn't hear it or see it in the description I went to the site, started filling in the info (since the website here also doesn't state regional info) only to get to the question "where do you live? (We can currently only work with US citizens.)" Still an expected outcome in my experience, but as it wasn't stated upfront and clearly, I still spent some time getting hyped about a fruitless avenue. So as a humble international listener, I would just ask that you include what regions your sponsor is available in, in the future. Thanks and keep up the great work! As a 31 yo, I loved this video and it validated a lot of my own thinking along the same lines of feeling like a "full" adult who for the "first" time has enough knowledge, self-awareness and intention to construct a life of my own choosing rather than stay on the rails I had been in for most of my life previously.

[@thefinancialdiet]

Thank you for sharing and that's good feedback we will note! I'm sorry this one doesn't work in the EU, but other sponsors we have do and we can be clearer about it!

[@b4rbarbar]

@@thefinancialdiet Awesome, thank you so much!

[@HmmmInteresttting]

I’ve been noticing my friends changing for the better and it’s been scaring me because I don’t know if I fit in with their worlds anymore. I’ve been panicking about it a lot recently wondering how I can fast track my growth to reach up with them.. but I know ultimately I’m on my own journey and I can’t hold on to what is coming to a natural end.

[@samspotz8r8s]

I recently left my job moved back to my hometown after 9 years to take care of an elderly family member with cancer. The move came a month before my 30th birthday and the shift has been really tough. I feel very ungrounded right now, so this video is useful

[@danielleb5663]

Also turned 32 this year and wow has it been less of an emotional roller coaster, but also my intro was a wake up call to a deep understanding of relationships. I hope to never claim perfection at any age, but trial and error comes with a little more cushion❤. I’ve been listening to your podcast for a few years now and enjoy it so much!

[@ZaydaFleming]

I turned 31 this year and am trying to work on the physical health and friendships aspect of being in my 30s. I manage my finances fairly well, slowly building savings and retirement fund. I did stop buying clothes for 9 months this year which enabled me to upgrade some furniture instead and while those purchases might not be a financial investment they sure felt like an investment in my mental wellbeing to actually like the things in my home.

[@Marie_Garwood]

I’m turning 30 in January, and I’m excited! This is a channel that has helped me to feel that way though! 😊

[@thefinancialdiet]

[@adventurousbec]

Happy January birthday!!

[@Marie_Garwood]

@@adventurousbec Thank you! 😊

[@BetaCarotin04]

Same here 🎉

[@darkrinji]

Intrigued to see the next part of this series. Couldn't have come at a better time for me!

[@lucilasandoval3084]

I don't know if it is because I'm just a few years behind you, but your advice always hits sooo hard.

[@hamzaaqeel3436]

In my late 20s, and so much of this already applies.

[@jaimeerindy4573]

I'm 27 and this is all so great to hear!

[@ThatAlbatrosser]

Thank you for being so mindful and respectful about the fact that entering your 30s does not necessarily mean you're at a certain stage financially. I needed that ❤

[@Dear.Maria27]

I turned 30 in September, perfect timing!

[@SpirituallyAbstract]

I’ll be 30 in March. I’m already feeling the shift in maturity. I’m ready for the new era and i’m taking notes!

[@crystalhenderson4542]

I'll be 26 in March and I really appreciate what you said about all of being in your 20's feeling messy. I've been really stressing myself out about being over halfway through this decade of my life and feeling so behind from what I had envisioned for myself. But it's very refreshing and helpful to know it's totally okay to not have life entirely figured out yet.

[@selfridgesforever4399]

Thank you for this video. I turn 30 in two months and this is helping me think about my future. Definitely will stop telling myself I'm old, even if gen z makes me feel like it lol.

[@thefinancialdiet]

Happy early birthday! It's gonna be great.

[@odo93458]

My 31st birthday was last week and I have to say I do feel younger than I did ten years ago. Even though, I’m doing the best I can with my financial situation, let alone my college debt and mental health, I’ve never been this okay with myself. But with that being said, comparing my situation to others my age is such a struggle 😫.

[@xxmegababygirlxx]

Love the style and financial grace line 🙌🏾

[@MeganHart-j2k]

I'm sending this to my younger sis who's only 20 and my dad who's in his 50s because...this is so applicable to everyoneee

[@Marvelous_M]

How did you know I just turned 30 on 10/18. I have been in the deepest of financial nightmares but I’m overcoming it in this tough market. Love your content!

[@0_0Mushroom0_0]

Going through the comments I’m seeing the audience is mainly people in their 30s which make sense but as a 15 year old I really enjoyed the video

[@mayennegotanco4329]

Wow! I just turned 30 yesterday. The timing of this video!

[@thefinancialdiet]

Happy birthday!

[@mayennegotanco4329]

@@thefinancialdiet thank you

[@sostoked07]

Happy new year, Chelsea! ❤️🎉 Excited to see you and TFD grow more in 2025 🥳

[@Raptros01]

28 turning 29, really getting called out by the “Don’t feel old” bit. It isn’t rational but I wasted a lot of my 20s developing no skills or useful habits, and most days it’s difficult to not feel like it’s already too late for me. Thank you for the encouraging perspective.

[@cassiemeyer1164]

I turn 30 this year and I’m honestly so excited!!! Thanks for this video 😊

[@itsmejetzza]

I am 35 , I love every year throughout my 30s so far , I can tell you you will lose a lot of friends, it is for the better, you will gain new ones , be open to it , it is important . And yes, do not quit working out or gym time, this is also very important.

[@bonnie6866]

absolutely re friends! I have noticed a bunch of younger people obsessed with the show 'Friends' and I think it is because they wish they had a friend group like that

[@samsong3788]

Haha today is actually my 29th birthday 😂 I feel like TFD is trying to tell me something

[@thefinancialdiet]

Happy birthday!! You're going to kill the next decade

[@indiaaa1095]

Happy birthday! My 29th is on Friday ☺️

[@kellie5130]

Today is my 29th as well! Happy Birthday! ♎️

[@samsong3788]

Happy birthday my fellow Libras and Scorpios ❤

[@helenmcdonald2737]

I don’t think there’s a problem with anyone thinking they are old. The problem is people thinking old is bad and young is good. Old has good and bad aspects, as does young, and probably needs to be viewed on a spectrum rather than at the extremes. Young and old are relative anyway. To my niece I am old, to my father I am young. Please consider reconsidering your thoughts about old and young.

[@paytenbeene625]

Thank you, Chelsea, for touching on physical health! It is absolutely central to overall well-being.

[@Shaktibug]

Chelsea, your makeup looks amazing in this video.

[@thefinancialdiet]

Thank you!!

[@tetianazakharchuk5841]

"be honest" actually the main thing is to be "honest" to yourself. your body, your "friends", your goals and abilities. yep

[@Nikilittle.mp4]

🎉🎉🎉 missed videos like this!!!

[@jjpp3301]

Yeah some of my friends are already thinking we’re entring an old era. I personally feel younger and healthier than I have ever been. Started going to the gym at exactly 30 and have never felt as young

[@jennybien-aime3725]

I’m an illustrator. So I like to draw my characters wearing things I find cool. Like that no need to consume or purchase

[@thefinancialdiet]

I love that!

[@jdaragon]

I have been a long time viewer.... and being 32 I was very intrigued to watch this one. I will state however, that these scenarios around employment sound good to your average worker who should be looking for better opportunities. But as a person with a disability, my job, no matter how stressful it can become at times, is dependent on a multitude of factors that accommodate what is best accessible for me to live as independently as possible, while still being affordable of course. I am no on SSI and have been with my employer since the age of 21. I've shifted between 3 roles in the past 11 years, but the decision to "switch things up" is yes a fear of the "unknown" but also I am factoring in what alterations I would need to make to my routine and transportation arrangements. Not to mention that my current colleagues have a general understanding of my condition and are familiar with my limitations but also I am comfortable enough to know that I no longer really NEED to explain my condition to those I work with. Have you ever done an episode in any way related to living with a disability?

[@JauntyCrepe]

I just literally turned 35 today, but I’m still gonna watch! lol

[@AboutAysha]

Turned 30, put my house up for rent, and immediately started a digital nomad year. Tried out 5 cities and 2 countries so far this year. I guess I’m the stereotypical “turning 30 requires something drastic” 😂

[@shasheytm4155]

Dang. I just turned 31 two weeks ago and Im still in the "college era".

[@shasheytm4155]

Im not in a bad financial situation, its just my brain inside the nostalgia mode.

[@Raystratos]

As a 33 year old. I feel this. Maintaining friendships has been harder for me in my 30s. For one I have a mental disability, so communicating can be harder for me but the friends I've made in my 20s are getting married, having kids, and moving away for work (the cost of living has increased so much and so unaffordable, people are relocating to cheaper areas). Which makes hanging out a lot harder and while communicating online has helped maintaining the relationship. It can only do so much because I miss physical interactions.

[@PocketKanin]

15:01 My partner and I keep getting told by older people we know and I don’t know how many times we have to tell them if we could we would; we’re trying hard getting closest to what’s best with what we got, and I’m even starting a container garden.

[@hippie1252]

I turned 26 this year. I feel like I'm mature emotionally, I just lack the financial stability that comes with your 30s. I lost 25 pounds for my new year's resolution(I stuck to it! 🥳), I became vegan, and started practicing yoga and calisthenics. I also dropped a friend of 10 years because he was acting stupid and I realized that I outgrew him. I'm very excited to get older and having wisdom from women like you and a community like this will help tremendously as I continue to grow. Thank you very much ❤

[@noahfranks984]

I'm getting to the point where I feel like I really just have to let go of any idea of how things are supposed to be or where I am supposed to be at. I'm not going to really retire in the traditional sense. I am not going to have wealth like previous generations. I am not going to have security like my parents. My experience is going to be very different. My struggles are going to be different. I have to live with less expectation and less attatchment. It's just the way it is. In a way it's better. It's a more spiritual existence. In another way it's more stressful and materially difficult. Ultimately, just different

[@meghansullivan6812]

15:30 the way my eyes kept widening as that description went on. Hahaha fuck u just described me on a nightout!!! Living it up and sleeping with no alarms set the day after is what im doing while i still can ❣️✨

[@ashleighzoda738]

28:09 I finally got my jeans tailored last year and am so glad I did! They fit so much more comfortably!

[@feargalfitts]

Good God. I turn 30 next month and this video is right on time!

[@thefinancialdiet]

Happy early birthday and welcome to the club!

[@Pursuitofhealthwealthhappiness]

YESSSS to the Friendship Inventory!! I just recently turned 32 and one of my resolutions this year was to stop putting in effort with friends, and let go of toxic friends. I got so BORED of being the one putting in the effort all the time - texting, arranging meet ups, being the one travelling to visit, paying expensive travel and hotel costs and also hanging on to friendships that were fading (on their part, not mine), guess what happened this year? I've lost friends completely (including a 12 year friendship) and I only had three visitors this ENTIRE YEAR. So be it, it's exhausting and I have instead invested that time more selfishly into myself instead - like building my youtube channel, doing house renovations and exploring hobbies. I understand that everyone has their own lives and naturally people come and go, but life is too short for one way and poor quality friendships, OUT with old and in with the new, like minded, high value friends who choose you back - I'm ready for you!!

[@HunnyBee-w7r]

One thing I did as I turned 30 was made an appointment with an actual dermatologist. Not an aesthetician, but a medical doctor. I wanted to talk about my skincare regimen, do some myth busting about hyped products and ingredients, and get the real information about how to care for my skin as I get older. This appointment was not covered by my insurance and cost about $300 out of pocket but it probably saved me hundreds, if not thousands. I’m 45 now, my skin looks great and I’ve never been out here chasing the latest skin care trend or miracle ingredient. Nor have I ever had some complicated bundle of products to layer on. I just stick to things they told me are proven to work, which are not even very expensive and mostly available at the drug store.

[@pureextract101]

loving the 30's series.❤..kee it up🎉

[@WAMM1994]

I'm turning 30 in 19 days. Thank you so much for the advice!

[@chocfudgebrowni]

I'm literally talking to a therapist about all these topics - kinda validating to hear it isn't a unique experience!!!

[@shanikapowell6672]

This was stellar. You may have just sent me on a tailoring journey!

[@bleepbloop4826]

This is the perfect video for me considering I'm turning 30 this week. 🎉🎉🎉

[@thefinancialdiet]

Happy birthday!!

[@racer4369]

I am 26 and I plan on being debt free by 30 (basically pay off student loans). I've been tracking my spending since Jan 1st of this year and i am way more aware of the spending I do especially if its something more impulsive.

[@amethystscorner]

5:00 I have felt this for a minute now. I was born in 2000, I feel like I kind of get lumped into both demographics at times, and as someone with plenty of mental health issues, unfortunately sometimes we do have to just "suck it up"and do things. Even if it's something like not canceling plans when you really don't think you want to. More often than not, whenever I want want to cancel a plan for a self-care day, but go anyway, I often end up having a lot of fun and bonding with people which is a wonderful, sometimes even healing feeling

[@Fluffcat65]

I wish I knew all that when I was in my 30s or even 40s...

[@lemontreewrites]

Loved this episode 🎉

[@blackbutterfly233ify]

I just turned 32 and everything in the video is relatable

[@meghansullivan6812]

Gahhh im still just 26 and while im a firm believer that 30s are the new 20s, this video is stressin me out!!! But in like a good ~i know i should know this~ typa way. Esepcially the financial hygene bit. Its so tough man!!!

[@PatriciainOz]

When I was 32 I was involved in a car accident, twenty years I do wish I fought for my health care more.

[@LonkinPork]

I can't _staaaaand_ those "How I saved [large sum] by [late 20s]" articles. every time - with *_extremely_* rare exceptions - it's just children of affluence getting highly paid "Bullshit Email Jobs" (not my terminology, just a popular framing) at a company owned by their dad or another family member

[@Memszy]

Turn 30 next month, thank you for this!

[@Anna-lr7dq]

I love this! Thank you so much!

[@anahis1511]

I've honestly been thinking about a lot of the things you mentioned here. It didn't start until i turned 31 with a bunch of mid-20s friends. They wanted to go drinking, and i wanted to go home and watch movies together. 😅

[@anchoredsoul09]

You can not buy your way into being a new person is a WORD.

[@wittykitti]

I'm totally LOL'ing at the avocado toast painting.

[@Oh_my_starz]

I'm in my mid 30s now and I tell ALL of my younger friends and family members to take inventory of their approaches to fitness as they turn 30. I didn't know to do this and boy, have I paid for it.

[@NolanJohnson423]

What do you mean by approach to fitness?

[@animemenga125]

omg i didn't know we were the same age. you seem way more mature and put together then i do.....i know comparing is bad but it was legit my first thought.

[@BadSloucher]

Thank you for making this ❤ I love my boring life