The 5 Laws Of Boundaries | Exit Strategies | Part 6 | Jerry & Tanisha Flowers

[@noemi3074]

“What you allow is what will continue”

[@Kimmylux]

“It’s not your responsibility to discover how they feel about your boundary…” that hit me like BRICKSSSSSSSS

[@rosaparks9287]

Same!!! 😅

[@_clarisse_manishimwe]

Saamee!

[@brendaw657]

RIGHTTTTTT!!!

[@BillyMuka]

Absolutely!! This is the one truth I really need to live by! ❤️

[@nikkyshamz2696]

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[@lilyjs]

FATHER, GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS, TO ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES FOR YOUR GLORY, AND MY SANITY; IN JESUS’ NAME!

[@hizbonnymyclyde12]

Amen.

[@jessicasurette6901]

Yes!!

[@Hear_usgrow_pod]

FATHER GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS TO ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES FOR YOUR GLORY AND MY SANITY IN JESUS NAME❤❤

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

"What you allow is what will continue." THIS right here. Especially in this day and age with social media where people dont understand boundaries, or family members for example. Know and understand your boundaries. Youre not responsible for how people react to them or their response to your boundaries. Boundaries are Godly and healthy. Also what he said about how some fights that dont matter to your destiny and purpose. Please someone in the name of Jesus, receive this word. This will save you headache and time. Even in the church, we need to learn boundaries and how to utilize them.

[@dejajust6286]

BOUNDARIES ARE THE HIGHEST FORM OF STEWARDSHIP ✨

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

Yes!!!!

[@ccd5942]

You can be Christlike and stilll say no!! Amen ! I needed this. I need to increase my boundaries in all areas.

[@tajaking4946]

Amen, likewise. God bless you with increasing your boundaries, Lord knows, in the name of Jesus, I'm about to get better at increasing my boundaries. ❤️🙏🏽

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

Amen. It's good to increase your boundaries. It's Biblical

[@Reddtoopretty]

What a WORD! I found myself setting boundaries & absolutely ppl felt a type of way. But I knew it was God who placed it on my heart to do so. I’m currently still in this season, I told myself if I could name it I’d call it “Clean House”. Well to say the least I feel amazing emotionally! Thank you for this video, it has shed light on something the Lord showed me & I’m so glad I listed to His voice, even when I didn’t know where it was taking me. This video has been reassuring for me 💛 Glory to God

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

Same. It's so freeing. Many will feel a certain way and feel and become offended. Especially when you're growing in Christ and you get exposure to these kind of teachings. It's also tied into notions that people are so comfortable with mediocrity and complacency, and it's some of those people that will hate the boundaries you enforce. This word is such confirmation

[@123NopeNotMe]

"What you ALLOW is what will CONTINUE... it's not the 👿🔥 DEVIL🔥👿, it's the absence of BOUNDARIES"

[@elloradiehl]

“I don’t care who you are, you can’t talk to me like that!!!” Word!

[@sissyb576]

Excellent teaching 👏 Know what else.....some "religious" folks think boundaries mean unforgivness. That can lead to people staying around toxic people and situations. We need to know the difference. You can be firm and still set a boundary without attitude and rudeness.

[@terriwatts9424]

I totally agree!!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

All facts. A lot of ppl have remained in situations that impacted heavily on their mental health and life as a whole bcos of sentiments. Boundaries are a must, and our boundaries only annoy ppl who benefited from us not having boundaries

[@billystevens6076]

Yes you can because I do it 😆

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

Amen. So Good

[@Flawed-beautifully]

Thank you Lord!! This message had my whole name on it!!! Thank You Jesus 🙏🏽Amen!!!!!

[@opalwalters372]

It is not your responsibility to discover how they feel about your boundaries!!! that just hit me, this is so good! God is speaking 🙏

[@hughtwinnn]

FATHER GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS,l TO ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES FOR YOUR GLORY AND MY SANITY; IN JESUS NAME

[@mzsonsie]

I love how they're preaching together as a team. Never seen this kind of sermon before. 😃 good message too. 👍 praise be to the Lord

[@lindahlexxie9301]

It took me pain ,intense pain to finally learn to set boundaries & limits with my own family ,was exhausted of being the bigger person after a having along intimate talk with God to an extend of finally understanding its all good....And God's peace is qll over me since then .

[@msaverielle]

Thoughts are apparel don’t wear your THOUGHTS.

[@TheComposerRell]

FATHER GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS TO ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES FOR YOUR Glory AND MY SANITY. IN JESUS NAME.

[@sarahsteel2424]

Preach Mrs Flowers!!!

[@Resourzful]

"Youre not going thru a storm, youre hanging with storm carriers." Teach!

[@caredfor391]

Yes, Tanisha, speak! Yes, yes, yes, yes. We have been taught to tolerate. Putting burdens on our backs that are supposed to be the weight they live under to cry out to God for help.

[@unomene]

“Should have left that city a long time ago.” “We can’t shake some things off ‘cause we’re staying in the place that made us dusty.” “Shake the dust off your feet. How do you do that when you’re in a place that keeps putting dust on you?” 🔥💥🔥 OOHHHHH that HIT!!! 🎯

[@veleciadudley5383]

FATHER PLEASE GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS TO CREATE BOUNDARIES AND SAY NO TO THINGS THAT ARE NOT BRINGING YOU GLORY AND MY SANITY IN JESUS NAME

[@morofmii]

🗣️🗣️🗣️You can be the whole package but if you’re sent to the wrong address they won’t handle you with care‼️

[@LatoyaG_]

It’s okay to have boundaries & to say NO!!!🙌🏾

[@travarcusvalentine4492]

FATHER, GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS TO ESTABLISHED BOUNDARIES FOR YOUR GLORY AND MY SANITY; IN JESUS' NAME!

[@shalimarie9016]

Wow ,Mrs.Flower’s Speech was powerful.Talk about boundaries ,and you won’t tolerate how people treat you .Gotta protect yourself .That was powerful .

[@tajaking4946]

God bless Mr. & Mrs. Flowers (and their babies). This was right on time. May the Lord bless, anyone that needed to hear this sermon in Jesus mighty name amen. ❤️ 🙏🏽

[@ladennayoung2939]

YES. Boundaries are VERY MUCH SO NEEDED. And toxic and dysfunctional people don't want you to ever learn that, to set or enforce boundaries. Because they know that they can't have their way with you anymore. Because they want to be able to continue to use you for their benefit. They know that if you are healed, then you won't cater to their every need and desire and want. That's why even some people in your church (including pastor's) don't want you to be healed, get God's truth, and get healing and deliverance from the LORD. Because they know that they profit off of your brokenness and your lack of Godly knowledge, wisdom, insight, and perspective. They DON'T want you to be free. God or His word isn't imperfect or flawed whatsoever. But the people that are supposed to be representing Him are toxic and selfish, in so many ways. Not all of them, but quite a few of them are.

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

This is so good. Love this. Toxic and dysfunctional people also have their way with control but when you establish boundaries like Ms Flowers said and disconnect with certain people. Especially in ministry, we need boundaries. It's not everytime we need to say yes to someone. Boundaries are amazing. It changes our lives.

[@Mikhailamuwa]

ITS NOT A BOUNDARY IF YOU'RE NOT READY TO SUFFER FOR IT I cut off a number of people lately and I was feeling so low but this 😮 has showed me that indeed I really need this boundary

[@sharlitawilson6503]

Hey Mr. & Mrs. Flowers, that was a beautiful message that I needed. You all taught it so clear and precise. Thank you for the message. God bless you all and keep teaching God's word.

[@ItsTamaraTaylor]

28:02 COME ON NOW! 👏🏾🔥🔥🔥

[@hairandmakeupbypealar7627]

FATHER GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS TO ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES FOR YOUR GLORY AND MY SANITY IN JESUS NAME 🙋🏻‍♀️🎉🤗❤️

[@charnitag1420]

Healing scares people who benefited from your brokenness, THIS‼️

[@TheHeartHelperPodcast]

The way this message blessed my life. Thank you pastor and First Lady.

[@nerrissarichards]

I love that they work together like this, message well received. ❤ Free therapy!

[@ItsTamaraTaylor]

RIGHT!!!!

[@msaverielle]

What you ALLOW is what will CONTINUE.

[@terribryant7699]

@RedefinedTV PLEASE MAKE “EXIT STRATEGIES” A BOOK!!!! I need every single note!! Meantime, I’ll relisten Thank you Bro & Sis you are saving souls!!! 🙌🏽🔥😇📖❤️‍🩹♥️

[@laurenjordan7349]

When Mrs. Flowers spoke on boundaries; I felt it in my soul. Especially when she said “no you can’t treat me like that”. Whew this was good Mr. & Mrs. Flowers. 🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@Execstyle8]

Amen!💚I was just talking about Jesus told the disciples if they don’t receive you walk away! Levels & stress reducers. Test the spirit by the spirit. Your word should mean something.

[@Execstyle8]

Stop giving your word and your actions don’t follow through...God sees all! God honors those that are genuine by the spirit. Don’t fumble the blessings parasites vs partners. Preference versus purpose

[@Alenachey]

seeing this 2 years later and I absolutely NEEDED THIS! Going through a LOT with my mother and sister & it’s like me saying no to them is impossible or shameful

[@larrissawest5773]

Yes. God even set boundaries in the Garden of Eden when he told Adam not to eat of the tree.

[@daschuhow]

My husband and I would joke “Control is an illusion “.

[@terriwatts9424]

It’s okay to say no!! I was just talking to God today as I drove home from Walmart…I said, “Lord, we are here to serve You. We are here to worship You. Father, I believe you want us to still enjoy our lives, but there must be a balance! Thank you so much for this word, Jerry and Tanisha - My heart will no longer be used as a punching bag! And the 5000, 72, 12, and 3? Wow! Absolutely a Devine revelation!

[@EmergencyBeatsByCiCi]

“It is not your responsibility to wonder what they think or feel about your boundary”!!!!! Where that was a WORD!!!!

[@karinansang9561]

THANK YOU LORD FOR YOUR LOVE, GRACE, FAVOUR, PROTECTION, PEACE, JUSTICE, FORGIVENESS AND MERCY UPON MY LIFE AND DESTINY

[@Ivoryandtea]

That breakdown of burden v. load freed me 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@mzsonsie]

Wow thank ya'll do much for choosing this topic. Very rare but very very important and much needed. The Lord pointed out to me that I had a wrong understanding of loving my neighbor as myself which made me a doormat and a walking target for all kinds of demonic attacks through people. I spent a good number of years suffering from relationships because I felt obligated to accept people as they are and allowed them to do and say whatever they want. When I realized that loving people doesn't mean not having boundaries, I was set free completely from these unhealthy relationships. I thank the Lord who did the good work in me 🙏 I absolutely 💯 see how critical this message is! Many blessings to you both IJN! 🙌

[@elegantlady7029]

Reciprocity happens in called places!! This hit me so hard I just wanna give yall my whole BBQ plate right now!!!

[@charlenerobinson2965]

This was so good and helpful. My God Lord Thank you 🙏🏾

[@all4god116]

No is my favorite word especially when it comes to family!!! Heavy and SO needed!!!

[@KasiMalula]

Mrs Flowers I’m so sorry that you had to go through that with your father. This is as an amazing sermon

[@nkechivictoria6282]

I have cried all through this! I've been sick from playing childhood hurt till now! It's gradually.....I will get there. I'm also the boundaries people need to set from .... 😢😭😿

[@CallmeAri_]

Talk Holy Spirit 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾

[@jadanicole625]

FATHER, GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS TO ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES FOR YOUR GLORY AND MY SANITY; IN JESUS’ NAME! 🙏🏾

[@God-sWillto]

Amén... blessings and wise insights spoke over THE WORD , enjoyed the entire experience with gratitude ❤

[@Misswaiters]

The most powerful message I am watched. Thank you for confirmation

[@mmapoomaredi7799]

I have been struggling with establishing boundaries. I kept on feeling like saying no makes me less Christ like🥺 I really needed hear and understand this❤❤❤ 🙌🙌

[@treaser1184]

It's midnight and I have been failing to sleep because of speaking out my mind on reciprocity and boundaries. Not feeling valued and all.But now I know better what to do.Thank you so much😭🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@angiepeace4830]

Adopt me please 😭 You two are a blessing to us all 😍 I love pastors who teach me, not preach me. 🤯

[@mz.sophisticatedlady8398]

Phenomenal Message. Thank You Mr&Mrs. Flowers. Blessings To You And Your Ministry. 🙏🏾❣️

[@karent6770]

I almost cursed watching this, you was freaking preaching tooooooooddddaaayyyyyyyyy

[@india_milan6305]

Jesus!!!! I needed this!

[@seeyouonthewest7030]

I just want to say, thank God for him working through you. Your messages have been keeping me from the unthinkable and brought to me many peaceful sleeps in the night. Listening to you during this difficult time in my life I am ultimately grateful. It’s a hard truth but appreciated at the end of the day. Even therapy Thursday! Therapy Thursday is exactly what it says it is, therapy. Thank God… I’m getting through this time and I for sure appreciate it!

[@valeriemiller575]

It is sad that when seniors believe that just because they are "older" than you they can talk or speak to you any kind of way. Understand that respect goes both ways. We need to pray and ask God to teach me, give me the word to say to express my "Why". And how I feel.

[@cymaraof4]

Especially in Africa 😢

[@HEReIAM829]

Thank you Jesus. This just confirmed that what I did was right by setting those boundaries 🙏

[@barbarabanks5823]

Amen

[@ItsTamaraTaylor]

The amount of times I’ve said “ooo yall in my business” 🫣😂🙌🏾 I love it when you guys tag team! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@livelovehair6940]

I have been seeing this in clips but I am so glad I am seeing the whole sermon

[@ItsTamaraTaylor]

Learning where to place people.. 🤧😮‍💨👏🏾

[@Keegan.Ashley]

I needed this so much! Praise God!

[@AshalynChane]

AMEN!!

[@kyterria]

Thank you for sharing your story Tanisha.

[@robbynannan-hinds5778]

This Word is exceptionally timely! Thank you!

[@FrankiesXpress]

Put me in my place respectfully…I got to establish more boundaries 🧡💛♥️

[@terribryant7699]

Same☝🏽

[@robinscott6740]

FATHER, GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS, TO ESTATBLISH BOUNDARIES FOR YOUR GLORY, AND MY SANITY, IN JESUS NAME!! Awesome Awesome Awesome Teaching!!

[@eleanorpitt8190]

My God my God

[@AshalynChane]

STRATEGY!!

[@Prodigious1One]

Yeah, limits help my mental health.

[@karinansang9561]

FATHER, GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS TO ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES FOR YOUR GLORY AND MY SANITY, IN JESUS NAME AMÉN 🙏🙏🙏

[@cjwanablack173]

Y'ALL GOT ME SCREAMING BECAUSE THIS IS WHAT THE HOLY SPIRIT IS TAKING ME THROUGH RIGHT NOW THIS VERY SERMON IS WHERE I AM AND IT IS BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL TO WATCH TO SEE HIM IN THE MIST AND TEACHING AND LEADING AND GUIDE ME AND HEAR YOU COME WITH THE SERMON AMEN CONFIRMATION CONFIRMATION THAT I'M ON THE RIGHT PATH HALLELUJAH THANK YOU JESUS and I don't mind sharing my testimony because God my FATHER got me 😊🙏 thank you guys for being obedient to the Lord 💜🌱🥰

[@ifiezibeyongosi8205]

This is a great sermon

[@edgarroachiii8098]

My God this is a word

[@DevotedLady53]

AMEN❤

[@kimmieboo1413]

Rhema word for me 😬🎯

[@kimmieboo1413]

FATHER GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS TO ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES FOR YOUR GLORY & MY SANITY

[@halfpynte8977]

Amen, Amen,Amen!!!

[@newenglandtoffee9190]

FATHER...GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS TO ESTABLISH BOUNDRIES FOR YOUR GLORY AND MY SANITY. IN JESUS NAME🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@cjwanablack173]

FATHER GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS TO ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES FOR YOUR GLORY AND MY SANITY IN JESUS NAME AMEN

[@elliemichel1991]

Us being in control is an illusion. You better preach!!! God is telling us to trust Him and just go.

[@GrizzNmyownlane]

This one is amazing 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@melanieh3074]

Her story about her father is so close to my story with my mother.

[@musiclvr76]

Had I stuck to my boundaries, it would have saved me from a 3 year narcissistic marriage that ended in March from a Man who tried to take my life. Awesome message 🙌

[@ladennayoung2939]

Get to the root of how and why you got into that relationship/marriage period. It's deeper then the marriage. It goes beyond that. It didn't start there. Trust me.

[@Mindsetolympics]

God is always on time with these messages! This is what I’m struggling with right now and this is also in the Bible plan for today for me!!!!!

[@hannahbrown5069]

Amen!🙏🏾 Preach the Truth Pastor Mr. & Mrs. Flowers!🙌🏾🎊❤️✝️

[@whitney7728]

Thank you my brother

[@billystevens6076]

Yeah this so good! Thank you.

[@niyaavery9898]

Yet again, my scalp has been SCALPED! Teach Pastor Flowers! 😫🤣👏🏿🙌🏿

[@ladennayoung2939]

AMEN. EXACTLY. If you are going to joke some cool, but you must choose to teach/preach GOD'S word in the way that HE want us to do. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Not worrying about whether or not we are catering to people that choose to have itchy ears.

[@msbriB221]

This! Every bit of this!! Whew! 🙌🏾

[@DrewDynamite04]

Whoooo. I never onew i needed that. Its not your responsibility wow!!

[@dthomas112993]

FATHER GIVE ME THE BOLDNESS TO ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES FOR YOUR GLORY, AND MY SANITY, IN JESUS NAME!