THE 5 REASONS SHE COMES BACK AFTER YOU GIVE HER DISTANCE

[@FITXFEARLESS]

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[@aprilfrantz743]

Isn't simping doing hints for a girl to get the box and make her fall in love with the things that u do for her ?she not truly like u for u she just like what u doing for her be a vlown ujust keep entertaining her u said u do that hahaha 😅

[@avnish.dixit_]

Is there any way to get contact you?

[@jugginsito]

Be kind to family and loved ones only and make others earn it!

[@ahmadkholaif8477]

@fitxfearless background music is so loud and super annoying. Better if you lower it down.

[@SABSCORPION]

Normally, we meet 2 a weak we exoly didn't have time this weak we see each other 3 times she feelt bad so I broght her to doctor 2 time I he'd to do some stafs where we go to school and Friday I go to her for the weekend can't wait but I try to be natural about it

[@veritevraie4433]

The reason why she comes back does not matter : if she left the first time, forget her

[@TheTalisman515]

onto the next one

[@wokefromthenarc-awakenmyspirit]

Big facts! Abundant mindset

[@Noname-od5zy]

She ain’t coming back man just seen my ex on a dating after only broke up 1 weeks ago after a 4 year relationship

[@RickySpanish12344]

@@Noname-od5zy Sorry to hear. Here is the deal. If you've been with someone for a long time (years), and the break up with you... It's been over for them for a while, and it took them a while to work up the courage to end things. So for you the breakup happened a week ago, but for her it's been over for probably a couple of months. Sorry man. But if you do want her back, just take this guys advice and move on from her. Level up. Start attracting other women. Chances are this guy she's with now won't last and she will come crawling back. As long as you don't go nuts and be contacting, or chasing her.

[@Noname-od5zy]

@@RickySpanish12344 thank you bro yeah your right it was over for her because she was being distant for many months and I asked her why she being like that but she wouldn’t come clean or be honest she did at one point say she doesn’t feel the same towards me after I left her once for 3 months so I asked her to tell me in black and white if she’s breaking up and she just kind of ignored my question and carried on seeing me. 3 days before break up she was saying she loves and misses me and wants to go on holiday with me. I did go abit crazy and started bombarding her with messages and calls when she broke up with me but then I stopped I felt like I was embarrassing my self

[@TheVillageBeast]

They can’t deal with silence 🤫

[@OM-pu9yi]

I gave her the silence treatment in work and she asked me if everything was "alright" lol

[@justody1]

💯 facts

[@seensay2132]

At. All lol 💯💯

[@danielvelasco3586]

@@seensay2132 They thrive off attention. The key is to know when to give them attention

[@seensay2132]

@@danielvelasco3586 Already

[@Ginger_demi_god]

The part where you speak about your ex leaving for more than a few weeks is 100% accurate, It happened to me when my ex left and a few weeks after me completely going silent she seen me in the gym and approached me and asked how I have been followed by tears and then her hugging me but I had already heard stories about her and other guys she was trying to get into during her few weeks away from me so I turned her down and told her I am now happy on my own, still to this day she contacts me now and again but she is in the rear view mirror probably getting pumped and dumped while i've moved on and found someone who adores me. KNOW YOUR WORTH GUYS!

[@Solar546]

Great story Bro. Thanks for sharing

[@darkstar4982]

You go champ 👏🏼

[@jrjosee]

Proud of you bro :( I wish I'd knew how that feels

[@ClearWater7.62]

💪

[@guitarrlos]

Im so fucking happy for you, truly. Hope I can relate to this one day.

[@alijahcordova8359]

3 things in life women can’t handle silence rejection and the truth

[@christianbenn316]

True facts & those are red flag women.

[@Noname-od5zy]

True bro I was with a chick who I wasn’t too interested in and she kept trying to communicate and see me but when I got with her and committed to a relationship she left me after 4 years blocked me and told me she don’t love me anymore and is now on dating apps, when you treat them like shht they stay but when you become too nice they lose respect. I tried communicating first week I sent alot of messages and calls but I give up now she can go do what she wants

[@sjaymabaso9391]

🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@WillK278]

I silently rejected one at work now she won't stop actively pursuing me. She's attractive but I'm not interested in her energy at all. She gives off heavy Delilah vibes (Samson and Deliah). She's the type that isn't use to rejection. Not my problem she can join the club and get used to it. I will be that one who dodged the bullet and got away from her.

[@guitarrlos]

4 ACCOUNTABILITY

[@jossell911]

Taking kindness for weakness is facts. People take your kindness for granted!!

[@christianbenn316]

& it has a lot of red flags

[@Understandme44]

And it seems they always come back at the perfect time when u done moved on and r thriving in life

[@EJayyDreadHead]

Exactly I hate that

[@EJayyDreadHead]

Unfortunately I’ve moved on and now I’m in a new relationship so if she decides to reach out to me it’ll be to late her time ran out!

[@jerryjamesz]

Facts

[@Raj-cl7he]

Yupp they know how to catch you off guard it be so random

[@user-wy2xz6yc3i]

Brother please tell what should I do at that moment

[@Endorfen2011]

"being nice to people will get you f*cked over" Well said.

[@user-pb2vo4pt3t]

It doesn't matter if she returns. Just remember, if she left you once, she WILL leave you again! NEVER take her back! The right one doesn't leave!

[@onejamaican1551]

This.

[@meme-zv7kw]

This a message to all nice guys continue to be yourself. Just check all disrespect when people see you don't tolerate disrespect you will be ok

[@Highfreqgaming]

That’s how I feel about it. I’m a respectful person I can’t change that about me. But when I’m pushed away or disrespected. There’s consequences. And I won’t be around for it.

[@august6997]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@Highfreqgamingong, don’t tolerate disrespect bc it’s all i have to give to ppl

[@linalg10]

And be sure to get the message across to all women that you will step if she blinks the wrong way and follow thru!

[@927tripp]

Fit... I cannot COUNT the times you have SAVED MY ASS from MYSELF! Everything ... I mean EVERYTHING YOU SAY has worked for me. I got a new girl. We're 10 months in. She's a hottie, a baddie but she met her match now that I have your wisdom on my side. Was waaay too nice before. This chick would have been GONE a long time ago if it wasn't for me changing my ways. THANK YOU BRO. You have changed my life. For real.

[@akramkhairallah4758]

What were the biggest changes brother that you did?

[@oscargonza2748]

She comes back cuz she misses the attention and validation you gave her for free, even though she's not interested she comes back to reclaim what she took for granted, but this time she will have to work hard to earn it

[@christianbenn316]

& it,s to late for her to come back now sorry for her.

[@Kumari_44]

No bro. She doesnt get to earn it. You never give them another chance, period.

[@oscargonza2748]

What if she begged to giver her another chance, isn't that her earning it,? and should i giver that chance?

[@Kumari_44]

@@oscargonza2748 rarely do people ever change bro. 9 times out of 10 if she fucked up bad enough to leave, she’ll fuck up that badly again. People who dont see your value when they have you, dont deserve you when they’ve lost you. You can never put a woman above your self respect. If you do, the woman will only see it as a pass to disrespect you even further.

[@chernivskiy]

@@Kumari_44I agree bro but you can still mess with her and make her work hard for what she lost 🤣 even tho you won’t take her back still mess with her

[@Solar546]

i was recently contacted by a girl i dated 3 years ago. I was pleased that she contacted me because it means that she still thinks about me, but I'm working on myself and I deserve better girls than her.

[@cqualif]

If you’re going to be a kind person, then make sure you know how to defend yourself in all aspects. Walk away from disrespect if possible.

[@GlobalK]

Yup. Happened to me too. Shorty came back after 4 months. Called me on her birthday and asked me why she wasn’t hearing from me no more. But let me tell u this. If a girl is really interested in you, she’s not gonna play all these games.

[@vicversabeatz3159]

It once happened to me during 2021. This one particular chick sent a text message to me and I ended up responding to it. She decided not to respond and she thought I would be one of those guys who would chase her by constantly double texting or spamming calls but I wasn't those guys because I actually value myself and respect myself. If a chick isn't going to corporate, that's on her. I'm going to communicate with another chick who will corporate with me🤷🏾‍♂️ Next thing she comes back after 6 months with a lazy one second voice note and I just looked at it and laughed to myself about it. It was just pathetic to me. What made her think that a guy like me would respond to a message like that especially when the chick ghosts me for that long. It's insane. So I then blue ticked her and pretty much deleted the number and kept it pushing. How I managed to do it was plain and simple, have a purpose in your life and have options👌🏾 Trust me, you'd never trip over one girl ever again

[@Noname-od5zy]

Yeah bro good stuff my girl broke up with me after a 4 year relationship told me she don’t love me any more and doesn’t feel the spark anymore I called and text her first few days even tried to go see her with flowers and she didn’t see me and blocked me now she on dating apps lol I stopped contacting her I gave up . Don’t know how this will play out but yeah self respect is everything

[@eirik874]

@@Noname-od5zy how did it go?

[@Noname-od5zy]

@@eirik874 bro we spoke 2 months after the break up she messaged saying she misses me but thinks the break up was for best. I replied saying I don’t have time for games if you still want to make things work we can talk if not then I’m done. She didn’t reply after that and I left her to it. Tbh bro that break up was probably the best thing to happen to me… I levelled up big time it was her loss not mine I got everything going for me so many options… i do miss her sometimes but it’s okay life goes on…we just have to keep moving forward

[@nicbell8090]

Appreciate this one, it’s timely. I get too thirsty or available, they pull, I ignore and don’t try as hard they come back and the cycle continues. Gotta keep the mindset

[@youngwahlee]

Bro saves our lives everyday, C'mon guys, like it up! 🔥

[@01fredm]

Recently just happened to me I was big simping despite getting my bachelors, own pad, car, new good paying job, etc., which I ignored her now she’s reaching out. Another, one I’ve been friends with who recently broke up with her ex bf and left me on sent, so I just ignored her and didn’t talk to her besides a short answer as we have mutual friend groups. Now she’s liking my stories and reaching out. Silence is the way to go gents! Keep your heads up and grinding in the trenches! 😎

[@HojaFPS]

I think in the end most cases are kinda the same - for my case my ex gf broke up with me 1 month ago, we dont live in the same city but pretty close anyway - she broke up with me cause in her words she lost feelings because I wasnt mature enough and she saw now future - those reasons probably sound stupid and like things everyone would say - but I gotta say one thing. She was Definitly right. I had no goals in life, I didnt feel good I was depressed all the time - my life was done and I thought when she is gone, i m gonna die or sth. So basically I was toxic. When she did leave I changed my mood, went on diet, went to gym 6/7 days, found a new job, canceled a contract with university ( just paid a lot and it didnt get me anywhere), finished driving lessons and gonna by a car soon, learning new stuff to earn even more money next to the job. It feels like I threw away a relationship that could ve been awesome by not being myself or becoming the man I m becoming right now. I m in no contact aswell, it would be wrong to msg her, and I m not at the point yet where I m done with her. Maybe one day I ll be the guy she wants to be with. Maybe I ll find someone else tho. Who knows. But working on yourself etc. is just the best thing to do

[@se78836]

I’m kind by nature because that’s how I want people to treat me. But any disrespect, I check that immediately. You always have to teach people how to treat you

[@michaeljordan9506]

Number 4 is real. I usually take my classmate home after class parties when the party's getting dead, but one time she didn't want to leave with me. Saying we never do anything when we leave the parties but have sex. She was expecting me to do more and invest more time and energy, but I didn't budge and went home by myself that night. Then when I came home I texted her that I enjoyed the time we had been spending together the past few months, but I want to be alone now. She immediately kept calling me and apologizing and saying she didn't want us to end. I don't always agree with every video, but most of the time FITX hits it on the nail

[@tobeslmao]

W mans for not budging

[@davaa7649]

Brub ure nut

[@d.e.c1609]

GREAT JOB!

[@MGradowskiTrip]

That's sick. I mean, you only proved that ignoring a girl is a powerful tool men need to learn. Took me a while to understand it and I'm still not the master of it, but at least now I realise how lethal this tool is. Lethal for a girl's ego, that is.

[@blackcarriebradshaw]

So she called you out on using her for sex, and you decided to play her even further by not giving her the time and attention she wanted. Sounds like she was a girl who was genuinely interested in getting to know you more on a non-physical level. And you played her for fun. Nice job.

[@TopViralMiX]

i chase money and success then women chase me. If i chase women i lose money and success

[@onejamaican1551]

This

[@harpreetlidder1]

“She don’t know you watch fitx” lol. Fitx is the secret weapon 💪🏽

[@TSierra]

Don’t give her too much attention, you’re suffocating her and she doesn’t like that. You should have a life that doesn’t always involve her, mind your own business.

[@Magagirl2024]

❤

[@ClearWater7.62]

I'll will try that next time, most men's will think if we don't give them enough attention, she lose interest and start to cheat. Girls think love is a game. Smh and when you treat too well, even getting close to her family she becomes overwhelmed.

[@playersclubworldwide]

So true about the smash and ghost 🤣 I made a baby mama get back with her baby daddy after ghosting her and showing her how cold the streets were

[@chibuzonachi302]

Focus on yourself 😅

[@blackcarriebradshaw]

Question...what made you decide to smash & ghost? What made her deserve that?

[@chives3034]

​​@@blackcarriebradshawIt's happened to me and ima dude. What goes around comes around mf

[@TeddyP1980]

Right on fit 🔥 that’s what happens when these females realize that they’ll never get that same feeling/experience she got with you anywhere else

[@jnetwork3232]

“But you watch fitx, she don’t know that!” Lol love this mans 😂😂😂

[@jakemartin8524]

Just broke up last night. Can’t believe that we once told each other that we wanted to marry. However she broke up with me and told me she doesn’t love me anymore. Don’t know what went wrong to make her feel that way and it hurts me to the point that I can’t sleep. If anyone is going through a breakup, I just want to wish you good luck and that we will hopefully get past this real soon👌

[@dillo5881]

Same thing bro, literally same thing, just happened 3 days ago. I spent the first 2 days going insane, drinking, and trying every way I could to contact her. She told me to stop contacting her, and that she no longer loves me, but then unblocked me last night so she “could see when I’m typing and if I read her message or not”. Today I got up, got a workout in, cleaned the house up, and just tryna get back in the grind. It kills but I can’t let her be right, I have to level up. So do you. We’re in this shit together my brother, get after it 💪🏽🤙🏽

[@rogue_spirit]

@@dillo5881 Bait n switch tactic! She's a manipulator so better let her play games with herself, and not a good quality person to begin with!

[@dillo5881]

And here’s an update boys, got her back. But I do wanna say, focus on yourselves PLEASE, I realize I still have a shit ton of work to do if I want a better life for us and even for myself. It all starts with us. That heartbreak you feel when someone you love leaves is different. But you’ll never get what you want until you level up. Peace and love my brothers, best of luck to you all.

[@christianbenn316]

When a red flag is raised cut ties with her & move on she,s not worth your time she cross the line sorry

[@B_midnight_007]

It’s another guy bro. It happened 4 years ago to me… walk away

[@ThomasMcDowell-hl1ud]

Needed this FitX. She was trying to manipulate me to chase her by ghosting and coming back a week later and then flaking on our meet up. Out of fear of losing my respect and dignity and becoming a simp, I texted her I moved away a few days to a week later instead of chasing her.

[@ekeminiudonte3986]

Works Bro! Sent me a message after two weeks of ignoring her. Now I am gonna use the power to renegotiate everything

[@vickwekesa2714]

Let's go mahn😂😂She came back after giving her distance💯

[@user-bp3wu4uf2m]

Thanks for the video big brother. To my fellow guys out there, pls if ur kindness and respect are not reciprocated in a relationship by a woman, pls leave sooner or else ur energy will be wasted and u will regret it tomorrow 🤔👍

[@edr4374]

Bruh, the reverse uno play works EVERYTIME ! Makes them panic !

[@ingrained2train]

I had this happen to me last year! Was dating a chick and everything seemed to be going solid Then out the blue she hit me with a long text saying it wasn’t Gods will for us to be together Even though it stung I simply replied “ok thanks” Unfollowed her on social media and went no contact 6 months later I got a text from her apologizing, saying I didn’t deserve how she handled me, talked about how great I treated her I wasn’t falling for it done moved on to a badder chick already, nothing to say to her Got to credit Fit for dropping game on using space to your advantage

[@EJayyDreadHead]

Happen to be but instead the girl texted me after 3 years on instagram she made a new account I’ve been move on

[@taylorbee4010]

I don’t get why they’re like this tbh

[@taylorbee4010]

It’s a sure thing better go and… leave or fuck it up

[@ingrained2train]

@@taylorbee4010 after being with my new lady I learned most women are wounded and dont know how to be treated right, so when they get it, it scares them…a lot them need to heal

[@Noname-od5zy]

Wow 6 months is a long time by that point you won’t even want her - my girl left me after a 4 year relationship things were solid but now she told me she don’t love me anymore and doesn’t feel the spark I been nothing but nice and took care of her lol she already on dating apps. I did call and text first week but she said she’s not interested so I stop communicating and deleted her number and all the memories from my phone

[@Ballinout30]

Bro the number of people that come back here after they find and lose a girl for the 10th time because they ignored or forgot the strategies is astronomical😂😂😂😂😂

[@sjaymabaso9391]

😂😂😂😂

[@cliffchampion5501]

All facts but if she decides to come back after the grass wasn’t greener. Make sure she stays off your lawn and over there where she thought it was greener.

[@999togetin3]

Wdym?

[@twangerzonly]

@@999togetin3 The grass ain't greener on the other side, its greener where you water it. What he means is she thought the grass was greener over there so she left you over here. Now hes saying she gets to stay her ass over on that side she thought was greener instead of coming back home.

[@999togetin3]

@@twangerzonly thanks

[@Kumari_44]

@@999togetin3dont ever take her back!

[@allendixon7700]

It just got to think of Amazon single mother, single mother, single mother crackhead that light bites in the spa. I'm cause you're dyed locked out and showed by given shipping on or nice for a long😅😅😅😅😅

[@VivaLaFamous]

I wish I took this advice yearsss ago with my ex gf. Listen to this brother! He’s always speaking facts I was extremely clingy & overprotective and she broke up with me & ghosted me so she can go “live her life!” I was blowing up her phone all the time and watching her Instagram from a fake page for weeks! I was down bad! But when I FINALLY MOVED ON she started watching my stories on Instagram & started checking for me. But I was in college at that time. I’m pretty sure if I was posting how much I was living my life & shit then she would of came crawling back!

[@sirninjaraiden]

Damn... this exact thing just happened to me. Like exact thing. Only difference is ot just happened 3 days ago. And to top it all off, I found out she wanted to see of the grass was greener. Shit is foul

[@VivaLaFamous]

@@sirninjaraiden at least you have some solid advice here to follow. Trust me she’ll come back one way or another once she sees that you’ve moved on. Just don’t act like the breakup is affecting you. And even if it is, don’t show it or let it get to you too much. Live your life and focus on your self as much as you can! & make sure if you’re posting anything on social media then you’re posting those two things. Don’t post anything depressive or angry. Or post subs about the breakup or about her.

[@assassins_nightmare2420]

Literally You care, you be nice and they try take you for granted and the minute you disappear they come back 😅

[@mrbabyhugh]

13:30 a lot of women don't start to think logical until AFTER they smash and they are not seeing the dream that she was being promised. They go hot & cold with that guy when he feeds her scraps of that dream and she likes the smash and there are emotional connections. That's how they end up always going back to the bad guy, you the break up & make up stuff. But when after they smash and for at least a 2 week period she not seeing the dream, then she start to say hmm, let me go msg the other guy I ghosted.

[@willsouth897]

FITX is absolutely right! But just think about how sad the era of dating is now dealing with so called "Modern Women". All of the things a man should be, he absolutely cannot be. If you treat her nicely, your weak. If your consistent, now your predictable. If she sees you care , your now your labled a nice guy. If you let some of their dumb shit ride avoiding unnecessary combat, now your soft and her respect is lost. If you listen to her problems and talk to her, you get friend zoned. If you work to avoid toxicity & drama, now there's no excitement and she leaves to chase another fantasy. If much of your focus + time is aimed at your career to be a good provider, now your not paying her enough attention and the mailman nails her while your away. BUT, if you shower her with attention & love, now she's smothered and takes all that for granted after she punishes you first. In all likely hood she will then chase the guy that pays her no attention and stay there. If your not being yourself, then she would say "your phony and just trying to impress her, BUT when your genuine they could care less. If you don't open up and let them in, now she feels like you can't or won't express yourself. If you do, then she uses what she knows against you. There's now no mystery making you uninteresting. If you help her in anyway, your going to be unappreciated and become a beta simp. But the guy who hasn't a dime and gives her nothing "can make the 1130pm call" even though he has no car to get to her home. Conclusion, if you don't give a dam whether they are dead or alive, it just might work!

[@ssway28]

I was in a bad breakup back in 2017 the 1st time i ever felt so low and depressed in my life. She started dating someone else not long after and honestly she met him before we broke up the signs were there. This spraked something in me i focused on myself and deleted her off everything. Now i have a career in IT i dont own a home just yet, but that is my next goal. 2 years later she reached out to my cousin and told him to tell me to reach out to her so we could talk, which i didnt i had no interest by then. Back in December about 9 months ago she sent me a friend request i didnt deny it immediately but eventually i declined it. Its been almost 7 years now and it seems like she still hasnt gotten the point lol

[@MyLawrence04]

My g your body Inspire me to work out more.. seeing you transform from that raw diamond to a polished one is amazing and not only that we always improving no matter what … love ya brother and god bless ya fam

[@AlpinaDev]

Pause

[@rebelreloading5265]

If you only see your girl on the weekends, and you think things are monogamous, check her phone

[@ClearWater7.62]

I think this is true. She'll probably lose interest and start to cheat. Girls think it's a game smh, especially when you treat them well and become overwhelmed or unattractive because the man is too kind.

[@onejamaican1551]

Once a chick is on social media example insta/facebook/snap/telegram ect they are not lol

[@jaquesswhite694]

“You gotta think about other stuff so you won’t finish cuz she that bad” the accuracy 😂😂💯

[@papacashflow]

I just wanna thank you my guy you helped me find a happy relationship I'm a alpha male mode!

[@Lich5]

More people need to see this

[@royvermalean2539]

I scrolled up😴 I was so needy, but I was kind loving everything she can want from a man.

[@192OOIDJJ3]

Cut to the chase, she came back cuz Chad got tired of her. LMAOO

[@COMARto]

I swear, Fitx' delts be getting bigger every single video :D

[@M0RN1N6_5T4R]

Yeah I found someone better than her. It’s me. ✌🏾

[@elemair9210]

I made the mistake of reciprocating interest and chasing her a bit (she has a boyfriend). She pulled back. I didn't chase. She didn't come back. But at least I kept my dignity and pride.

[@olisg5917]

As a girl personally always being keen in kind n nice guy... Avoiding the guy who can't proper communicate n basically ignorance is showing mean attitude.... Proper communication is adult way to figure out things ....

[@flatlineoptimism2600]

You probably aren't good at communicating either.

[@olisg5917]

@@flatlineoptimism2600 talking a guy who I am in relationships not a random bully comment of unknown person

[@mrbabyhugh]

17:35 this happens when she has VERY HIGH INTEREST or she trying to USE YOU. Her interest got high, so now she pulling back trying to get you to chase to pull you to her level of interest or above hers so that SHE CAN HAVE CONTROL OF THE SITUATION. On the use you part, yeah to get your interest high, get you to invest more & trap your emotions. Then, she starts to say and hint at things for you to do for her in order to get her.

[@joney762]

My God, these women seem like they are from the same mother 😂 Am going thru this same shit 2nd time around in 2yrs. You give them your hand, they want to take the whole arm. I am enlightened now, I am not falling for the trap/manipulation, I will keep my distance and chase money & success instead!

[@Sagatta32]

Thank you I needed that. Losin my simp stance. Much love.

[@anthonybethel1141]

Silence KILLS THEMS

[@AKFit360]

Fit I love you! Your more than half my age but everything you’re telling these men 100% the damn truth. Keep up the great work my brother

[@tw0crows74]

This is the first dating coach who speaks real, a lot on here sound like nerdy college tutors and I've screwed up listening to them, said to arrange a face to face after they break no contact and she left me on read, I'm done with that garbage

[@antoniomassey1212]

Lowkey why my ex wife left so easy and then tried to come back when I didn’t chase her

[@Tonycrossfit]

If she thinks the grass is greener on the other side and comes back DO NOT take her back. She’s been used and abused 😂

[@onejamaican1551]

This.

[@AustinRalls]

Let’s go! Let’s go! Let’s get it boys. Thank you Fitx

[@madameeditalee7676]

Nine times out of ten women don't come back especially if they're aware of the games you men try to play. Kindness, honesty and stability including intellect, Wins!.

[@seanhall7898]

Keep telling yourself that.

[@seanhall7898]

I know a dozen men who were kind, sincere, intellectual and stable. Their wives got bored and started banging some felon. They got destroyed for being good to a woman.

[@johnlessard5077]

Thank you for your advice and knowledge. Without it I would be angry and hurt. You do help a lot and I hope your success continues. Godspeed

[@MrHarco77]

my wife left so I'm trying to just grind at work and focus on myself. hopefully this can save our marriage.

[@toyintokoya5956]

So sorry bro.

[@vonmcknight]

Same here. My wife left back to her home state a week ago and are kids are with her. She has been calling texting me telling me how she made the wrong decision and how much she misses and loves me and wants to come back home even better she wants me to bring her back home. since ive been giving her silence these are the results 🤷🏽‍♂️ keep focusing on self brothas.

[@OfficialTEG]

“You think you found a unicorn” 😂😂

[@Kkizz1]

she dont know we watch FITX😂

[@dhamigill8021]

Bang on 💯. Bro you are like living next to me...😊

[@GixxerJohn]

Straight Gold Fit, headed to the bank rn!

[@jur313]

Bro you a legend. She wants me back. I declined because a tiger will never lose her stripes.

[@jlcannady]

I love my space and peace. It’s the best thing I crave in my life. I’ll take that any day over a woman

[@colinlittleford9700]

Dude, you actually are helping me out with this one I girl I really like at my work. Even though she's not into me the same way I'm into her. I'm starting to weasel my way in there. I know she does like me, but she's literally in the middle of a divorce. She's really torn right now. So what I have to do is just play my cards, right. So thank you for the advice. I'm sure everything will work out for the best.

[@rabbiehossain7938]

Give her space and time and let her suffer alone so she understands the pain of the divorce, afterwards she will be more grateful if she gets wifed up again

[@colinlittleford9700]

@Rabbie Hossain Thank you I will do that, actually. Appreciate it.

[@jaycole6824]

If she got divorced that's a red flag bro. Just looking out... Might want to tap into the novelty of new beginnings with somebody less experienced to experience it with together. Because think about when you get married, she already been there done that. She will beat you with experience, on top of a divorce experience. Tread lightly.

[@comparecards5688]

You sound desperate find your own girl

[@Kumari_44]

Youre going after a damaged one my dude. Dangerous ground.

[@futureshock_uk]

Just had one text me out the blue after a month. Initially rejected me saying it's not the right time as she'd just had a breakup and bla bla. Now we've texted a few days, I've been pretty apathetic but not rude, mildly teasing but in a stoic way not flirty like before, and she's stopped replying. I wonder if it's just an attention thing or whether to pursue a bit and setup the smash.

[@johrons]

It was attention bro

[@gralbr]

Words of wisdom …….truth…..my women went from “you make me feel like I am 16 again”…….and you’re the best sex I have ever had”, in three years,………..to breaking up with me 2 weeks ago. Unlike you I fell into the “too kind category”………but then my true instincts kicked in when we returned personal items from our respective abodes. I told her “I respect you wishes, you may find yourself waking up one day regretting you are doing this”, no sniveling. Then out of there. I think she was expecting the “big drama….don’t leave me babe”. Now two weeks into no contact.

[@gralbr]

UPDATE………after 5 weeks of no contact, she came back to me in tears.

[@gralbr]

@@raidakk4326 it looks that way. She seems changed, now that she knows if she leaves me, I will move on and not grovel to get her back. I think she was surprised that I gave her the breakup, without any fuss or pleading

[@xMikeyHardyx]

I pray you didn’t take her back. 5 weeks? I hope she read books instead of partying my brother.

[@davidmbegbu]

Truth 💯Thanks FitX

[@Savior_888]

Sometimes even being strong they gon try to corrupt you give them false info to see who’s not worthy of your discernment

[@devoffak]

Man I just did #5 last night 😂 fell straight for it

[@hectorpinol7951]

Yo Fix you have the posture of skills relating these facts about these tactics! Thank you I know you know your biz!

[@MalaikuZ]

You sir, are a philosopher and a gent. Subed.

[@dhamigill8021]

Bro you should make a channel for women. It would be a godsend to men. ✨

[@gustaveousdennis3703]

Brother FitxFearless...You're The Best Man!!! It's good to have confirmation....Keep Push to Create Alpha Males Globally....🙌🏿🔮🌎

[@chero1gx]

Bro, this was happening to me this week. Awesome Advice Fit!

[@Stop_please_]

Did she ever text u back ?

[@camels9654]

I had a girl who was 9/10, looked like a legit Victoria secret model. Girl flakes on me on the second date, says she met a guy a week before and wants to pursue him and doesn't want to waste my time. I said ok cool, I wish you the best and went no contact. She starts messaging me 3 days later trying to get a conversation going again. So I take 1-2 days to reply, and she replies almost immediately. I'm taking my sweet time replying, she's bottom priority to me, I think she wants me as a beta orbiter. I have 4 other girls on the go so that's not happening. Should I bother replying or just ghost her for good?

[@liljoe2235]

No more dates bro, invite her over.. If she declines then cut your losses and ghost. She already showed you that if another option comes she’ll jump ship

[@camels9654]

@@liljoe2235 Ya I agree, she's already shown her true colours

[@OGTrollTroll8]

Keep her in your rotation until she realise she ain't shit. Then ghost her.

[@chibuzonachi302]

Invite her over, smash and ghost You’re welcome ✌🏻

[@jgadonisspeaks]

I’d hit and then ghost personally unless you legit don’t care then stop talking to her completely

[@unknowboysvlogsghana9750]

Look I just wanna say this to you I hope you see this. You just make a nice and simple video you explain everything so right and you clarify everything. I was too nice to her she even told everyone around her, but it get to a time were she will do something that I complain about just a minute ago when I try to speak to her she will be acting like I complain too much and thank God I just felt like I have had enough so I stop calling and answering her calls 3 days now she texted me today telling me she wants to tell me something so I should please pick up her calls I don’t even want to her hear 👂 her voice in my life again I deleted all her pictures I am moving on I have done enough for this girl💔

[@streetheat3366]

The question is, how many women have you had and let go? Are you single now or are you with someone? You’ve got plenty of advice but no end result to back it all up.

[@Swamptel]

Fitxfearless u are more experienced i love ur context

[@fynmerkyYTL8134L]

only started watching your videos on Saturday 6th of May. you've changed my life already

[@BullMarketBandit]

Yeah too late in my case. At least I know what to do now

[@onejamaican1551]

Better late never.

[@tas7997]

Yes #5!! Then she says "You ghosted me."

[@GILLIONS500]

GUD WORD FITX

[@tattoodan95]

Very true, they always come back

[@codyjack8918]

Bro just got a subscriber he talking that talk 💪🏾

[@mrbabyhugh]

15:08 YUUUUPP... FOMO kicks in!! LOL

[@JohnLennor-jf1xq]

Damn You are The man. Thank For this knowledge Bro

[@dumnbuger]

Idk if I can do the distance thing. I prefer to live with my girl and see her everyday after work

[@SkylerDouglas]

This probably isnt the channel for you then bro.

[@markeilcantrell9596]

@dumnbuger simp

[@927tripp]

@@markeilcantrell9596 He'll learn when she bails

[@bigal98761]

Seeing her every day is the fastest way for her to lose interest

[@rayboy321]

Good luck when she lose respect for you and she end up wanting to break up

[@gavinewart9016]

You really know your shit bruh 🔥

[@joney762]

@topViraMix, well said bro. Food for Thought for all of us guys!!

[@marcdaly8472]

Thanks for this I was slowly finding myself chasing.....

[@nonenone6884]

She comes back because it didn't work with the other guy. Are you are better than she believed

[@ChadLubinski]

Screwing up the 9-10s part is too real 😅

[@LordRothschild666]

22 years and 2 small children. I think she's cheating, but she says she needs to heal from me. Recently, she blocked me and has kept the children from me. I don't know what to do. Any help or advice

[@liljoe2235]

Go for joint custody if you can afford it

[@OGTrollTroll8]

Hit The Gym bro. Live your life happily. Make money, travel and just have gratitude. She tryna hurt you. Take her power away by not paying any attention. If she keeping the kids from you, GREAT. That means you can focus more on bettering yourself now.

[@adrianshaw4639]

She's going to use the kids as leverage. Fight for your kids and forget about her.

[@LordRothschild666]

@adrianshaw4639 She has been. I have not heard from them. I then sent the police over for a wellness check. That upset her. I then called dcfs and asked what I could do about my situation, and they were sent out

[@adrianshaw4639]

@@LordRothschild666 Keep fighting bro. Try to get joint custody so you can see your kids. She expects you to give up and take the defeat. That's why she got mad when you called dcfs because she didn't think you would take action. Most men don't but you aren't like most men. Hope everything works out for you bro.

[@franku211rc]

Thanks for this. Sucks i guess imma be alone. Wish i knew this before my fucked up situation 😔, again thank you.