THE 5 STEPS OF THE INFJ PHOENIX

[@Wenzes]

What has helped you get out of a depressive state as an INFJ?

[@jessmason2112]

"Well this sucks, what can I do to change this or make the situation better. "

[@petervervaene5301]

the fact that I am always able to look at things from a different angle

[@raft115]

Spending time alone at the sea and practical conversation with fishermen ,they even invited me to join in with their fishing expedition , simple joys are awesome to get back on lives battle track

[@francisjudge]

I sought out the truth in all things, and discovered the world and reality itself, is not at all as we've been taught, and most importantly, that we have a Creator. And have since strived to better myself and be worthy of God's grace.

[@realizationstation2173]

Long drives with a LIVELY soundtrack, dog on my lap, camera in hand! Works every time! :)

[@rick3747]

I am a 56 INFJ. My best advice is to learn to say "no", create boundries and you do not owe anyone an explaination.

[@michaelwalker5943]

To all my fellow INFJs that have been tormented by a narcissist, there is hope and peace, when there seems to be none in sight.

[@Parmis_Dax]

🙏

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

The little shaman you tube channel is a must to gain insight

[@pleasereadbooks5009]

INFJ is the rarest personality type, it's amazing that you dedicated a whole channel for a select few people like us.

[@TheAleksandros]

She's INFJ herself

[@lindateuling7862]

Yes, the INFJ is the most rare personality type. But we are far from being an endangered species. Apparently the world population is at least 7,888,000,000. (As of 2021) If we go on the assumption that INFJs are 1% of the population, that means about 78,880,000 of us 😊 exist. And that was 2 years ago! Yes, the numbers are approximate - but you get the idea. That's a heap of people out there! 😊.

[@vincentkretzschmar4988]

The money is in being unique and specialised and rare. Internet succees is about the niche inside the niche

[@cledosliop4175]

This channel helps me a LOT.

[@timothygeorgie7021]

Shocking news guys. INFJ is actually no longer the rarest personality type... That title now belongs to the ENTJ.

[@charlescarte3337]

Dear INFJ - This can be the most important video you ever watch. -Fellow INFJ

[@AnyaAnnika67]

I think for the behavioural but not the cognitive INFJ - for that check out Cognitive Personality Theory...after watching people will realise they're not this rare cognitive type but are rather ISFPs & ESFPs. This channel whilst giving good generic advice isn't applicable to the cognitive INFJ 😊

[@R.S-1986]

If your success hurts people, start hurting people today 😂. No one will live your life for you, yet people will tell you "how to". Becoming a Phoenix will require getting rid of old belief systems within you. YOLO doesn't mean party hard, it means live well. 😊❤

[@matilda4406]

YOLO ?

[@R.S-1986]

@matilda4406 The phrase "You Only Live Once", that people misinterpret as a justification to party or doing something "wild".

[@grababundoberni]

​@@matilda4406YOLO is...an ESTPish way to present the statement but I agree with the idea it wants to transmit. I think we INFJs present it as in Memento mori. Remember you will die.

[@HaleyMary]

As I get older, I never worry about dreaming too big. It makes me feel motivated to work towards the goals with as much determination as possible.

[@PenelopePitstop0078]

Oh wow, Wenzes, you are truly gifted in your encyclopedic knowledge of infj. I marvel at your ease in delivering a mass of insight with such poise & pure intentions; only wishing to encourage and enlighten. Your joy, enthusiasm and passion for your subject is incredibly impressive & so inspiring for me, ty❣️ I’ve been binging your videos and feel fortunate that you exist and decided to claim& live your EPIC infj life.🌸

[@Chercheure_Indépendante]

1:42 #1 Face judgment head on 2:04 We have the capacity to get ourselves out of really dark phases 3:49 We have to get out of our comfort zone without overwhelming ourselves 4:30 The more often you face judgment, the easier it's going to get 4:59 #2 Set outrageous goals 6:01 *It's more important to be on the right trajectory than to achieve it* (this is for me....) 7:07 The idea is to not give up on myself and my dreams 7:45 #3 Focus on who you're becoming 8:56 *but that doesn't mean that you have to settle with a life that doesn't excite you* (this is for me...) 9:36 #4 Don't stop yourself for others (make others look bad) 12:50 *You're tapping into your light doesn't mean you're taking it from others* 13:04 *I'm so full of joy for life* (this is for me...) 13:13 #5 Create a fighter soundtrack for your life

[@Chercheure_Indépendante]

*I'm so full of joy for life* is now my number 1 goal in life and no matter how much s*it I was given to swallow, nothing is going to steal my power anymore. Screw people who don't like me because I'm wonderful. Period, end of the story. Music theme: M.C. Hammer - U Can't Touch This

[@sheilagavin6536]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@raft115]

Your perspectives are so close to what true heroism really means

[@jennaferknight3850]

Be a legend to yourself, you will be legendary to others. We are the heroes, own it.❤

[@AnyaAnnika67]

This sounds very ISFP in a good way 😊

[@DearYoungerSelf111]

Fighting - Asserting my emotions - Saying No - Doing the things that fill my cup - Doing the Se activities that Show the World I have boundaries And I will bite back if you cross them - This frees up so much space in my mind and heart because I have less regrets on what I "should" "coulda" did - Instead I respond now and apologize if necessary later - What a freeing feeling ❤

[@joshuachase9742]

I feel like I am at this exact point in my life right now and finally putting these things into action. The hardest part for me right now is having the patience for strategic timing, both for when to do things and when to take a step back and allow things to percolate. Especially since one of the goals I've finally committed to actually doing something about has been a huge desire for a long time, but I know if I act too soon/quickly then I will only destroy it. Thank you for sharing this information. Even though they are things I've pretty much already discovered on my own, every time I hear it is another boost in motivation and confidence. Thank you for assuring me that I have power of my own and there is nothing wrong with using it - properly of course.

[@IndigoChild60360]

It’s funny you should mention this because I was going through a bad patch at the end of last year and I saw the word Phoenix everywhere. Lovely video, thank you.

[@lillllllllllllllllllllllllli]

for many many years i have always thought that i wouldn't be able to go to university and study law, although it has always been a dream of mine. i have never talked about it with my family members until a few months ago after my graduation when they asked me what i want to do after school. i actually pulled myself together and made the steps of enrolling and searching for a room i can rent during my time in university (really difficult in germany :')). my parents still don't think i can make it because they think i'm too weak, but i'm really glad i made the steps instead of listening to them. i mean, if i fail, i fail - then i can search for other paths to take, but first i want to listen to my intuition.

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

People try to short you like a stock

[@ms.donaldson2533]

I drove to work EVERY day for a year to the song "Hold On" by Wilson Phillips After I dropped my keys on my boss' desk without a word yesterday, I pulled out of the parking lot listening to "Freedom" by George Michael "Good Vibrations" will be playing on my way to my interview this morning.

[@kristiancrisolo3903]

Everything in this video is resonating with me. I feel powerful. Thank you Wenzes!

[@alexvamco9658]

I'm INFJ and recently find out to how to easly connect to Ni, what I do is 3 simple steps. 1- Result: think about what outcome or solution u want. 2- Question: As Scott Morgan said, Ni expresses easily when questioning, so question yourself how to get to that Outcome u want. 3- Bloom: Be a Chameleon, Think about categories, data, actions, steps, pros and cons, etc. I hope this is useful for someone... If it worked for u let me know and share.

[@KimberlyDo]

Hope this doesn’t sound creepy but u kinda became my soundtrack! I have been doing exponentially better since I started watching your videos. Im on a track I never thought I’d be on. Looking forward to what’s to come!!❤

[@sandracastillo3317]

Same here...these videos have given me such insight that I am also thinking they should be part of my soundtrack. ❤

[@DearYoungerSelf111]

Wenzes was at one point my soundtrack too - I listened to her everyday - this was at an integral part of my journey at the time - Her videos gave me such strength I needed at the time (and still do 😊) I am forever grateful for her courage to start the channel and continue her work ❤

[@KimberlyDo]

@@DearYoungerSelf111 That’s so nice to hear. Have you grown to start your own thing now?

[@DearYoungerSelf111]

@KimberlyDo like a YT Channel? Yes - I have done content on YT and Instagram

[@DearYoungerSelf111]

I don't mind sharing my pages - will send if you're interested

[@steflynn7772]

Wow I decided to watch a video of yours as it was suggested to me. Thankyou. My therapist is saying the exact same things. All of it. So many people in my life, all at once pointing to the same thing through many different ways. But all patterns leading back to this. Story of my life. Interesting.

[@irodirod4679]

Wow…this video is next level stuff…@7:13 Wenzes says, “If they don’t get it it’s on them,if I don’t bring it it’s on me”. If the essence of an INFJ had a voice it would sound like Wenzes. Thanks 🙏

[@mariagordanier3404]

Dear Wenzes! I have yet to watch this video, but!! My life has improved tremendously by watching your stuff. I am more assertive and sure of myself as I remember the things you told us! I could give you some examples, but my friends and family are getting more truth bombs and I feel much better for doing so. It gets tiresome to be nice to jerks. Feeling less depressed all the time. Yay! Thanks a million. I feel you are in my corner and that is calming too.

[@tpmash]

I’m surprised at how assertive I’m getting! She’s really amazing 😅😢

[@davidrider3765]

Fighter soundtrack? Thanks, now I have the theme to “Rocky” stuck in my head. Lol

[@benniesatto1678]

love your work. dont want to write a whole thesis to explain how I admire the conviction behind each words you usher. just love ya (in a respectful way).

[@Mamasprincess-i9s]

Exactly not all INFJ's are the same first,I'm not even trying to be perfect anymore second,also the third My ESTP side is stronger fourth I'm not afraid of my emotions fifth I gave up on my past self that's it

[@michaelwalker5943]

Wenzes, you have taught me so much, things that I never could understand about myself, until I found your channel.

[@HiddenHorizonYT]

Wow it's like you see in my soul. I'm an INFJ, recently had a vivid dream of a Phoenix and when I saw this video I thought it was meant for me. I really reflect myself in everything you said, even the soundtrack part! Music has a strong power on me, other people normally can't understand. When I find something that really communicate with me, it's like it give me life. It's like through that music I can finally express my excitement for life and focus on my energy. Thank you for your suggestions, soon I will finally be in my new home, a new space where I'll have the opportunity to express myself and be my real me for the first time in more than 2 years, and I will try my best to do what you said. I cannot wait to stop holding back my excitement for life. To create space between me and those who hold me down.

[@alightinthetent]

“You are tapping into YOUR light. You are not taking away anything from anyone else.” -Yaaaaaaaas! So important. I def resonate with the last section about having a soundtrack for your life. My only caution is, if you have medical conditions, don’t hurt yourself if playing your soundtrack while working out. In my own experience I’ve found it VERY motivational, to the point of overdoing it lol.

[@realizationstation2173]

As always, epic! Many thanks!

[@technical157]

on point 5: i dont need music. all i need is to watch videos like this. thank u so much! 💚

[@luisarusgen6921]

Wenzes, your videos are life savers for me. I thank you with all my heart. ❤❤❤

[@eliali6484]

So true! Finding a leading soundtrack for hard situations was crucial for me when I was a student. It happened very intuitively for me but works every time! I highly recommend it! It works for another types also - all my students who used it were successful. It could be everything - my fighting song is an old military march song created 200 years ago. Just think about a melody what brings you in the flow 🙂

[@gammarotor]

Brilliant!

[@charlielondon722]

Im not crazy on labels but its better than complete ignorance and infjs are like the sun see everything never stop seeing indesructable all knowing but humble I'm very proud to be the sun sigma infj great work sweetheart keep crushing, as our tribe awakes and rises❤️🙏😇

[@ocho8172]

Wonderfully inspiring! Thank you, Wenzes!

[@lindateuling7862]

I think I've done a lot with #4 in particular because of my experience of teaching piano and later being a full-time school teacher, then becoming a substitute teacher. I always like the idea that I can come up with something that will be able to help the students - maybe for the rest of their lives! ❤️ Deep down, it was about influencing others. I do have a satisfaction that I have helped a lot of people... Maybe even making them them to "look better." 🙂 I've done a lot of these Five Points in the past, but it's great to see them written up into a way to make them easier to remember. It was a lot of encouragement to me to read this. Super video, and very inspiring.

[@gypsylee73]

The Phoenix is my symbol.

[@MarkTannenbaum-i2x]

I was nodding my head yes through 1 to 4, the ah ha moment was number 5, creating a soundtrack, as motivational, visually and auditory. Made sense, right to the point, simplicity, especially through music vibes, resonates much! Thank you for shining the light, very helpful in the moment.🎯💯⚡️🧲🌐🥳☯️🌞🐬

[@avalonarkka5938]

MUSIC. it's the eternal timeless one and only factor that signal the Eternal Phoenix WITHIN to bring forth and go beyond life-death. Bring out the MUSIC IN YOU !!!

[@jenniferbentley4355]

Learning to know and love ourselves for all the good, bad and indifferent. Working on our shadow self.

[@gordonrichardson9393]

the best video you have ever made i can say!

[@williamriversiatse835]

Perfect timing

[@barbarahall5514]

I love you Wenzes....so validating. I just hung up on a moron during a phone interview for an Admin Assist job. I can't believe these idiots roam the planet. Unbelievable.

[@jerome6572]

Wenze's I enjoyed your talk.Jerome.Wenze's thanks you for your guidance.Jerome❤❤❤

[@grumpyschnauzer]

Perfect timing... I'm about to fly!!

[@neilsunderland7691]

Awesome call out on the soundtrack, that is at the top of my thrival plan!

[@dortegladbjerg5733]

Well Said! 😄 🦋 🌸 🦜😃 😺 Love from Denmark ❤️👍🍀

[@annsjoholm7310]

Thank you!

[@clemfitz2995]

Hey Wenzes! I was wondering if you had any book suggestions relevant to INFJs (even high level psychology books)? That could make a cool video!

[@luciana1930]

thanks to your channel, I am gradually regaining my strength and finding the confidence that I thought I had lost for good. Thank You.

[@vhayashi7369]

This is fantastic!!! Thank you for explaining how we heal! 🙌💜❤️

[@lionofJudah77730]

Thanks

[@johandancinggypsy2911]

You have really impacted my life in a positive way. Thank you sooooo much. ❤

[@anneheerdt8701]

Omg, i have songs that describe my days. Somedays it is between a Rage Against the Machine and 5 Finger Death Punch. I am going to look for some other songs that may be less angry and more motivating 😂

[@ElPresidenteKhan]

Saw your comment. Had to help as a fellow metal lover (Band Name, Song Title.). ZZ Top, Sharp dressed man. The Killers, The Man. Volbeat, A Warrior’s Call. Trinidad James, All Gold Everything. Rick Astley, Never Gonna Give You Up. Kendrick Lamar, Bitch Don’t Kill My Vibe. Clutch, Spacegrass. Sonny Rhodes, Firefly Main Title. Carpenter Brute, Paradise Warfare. Trans Am, Afternight. Deftones, U,U,D,D,L,R,L,R,A,B,Select,Start.

[@anneheerdt8701]

@@ElPresidenteKhan thank you, I have been collecting and this helps

[@underwaterpanther]

Sitting here with my gold phoenix necklace 😂

[@nourfattouh6547]

🩵 thank you

[@A.B.magnetic]

Thank you I truly truly appreciate your video and the guidance and the guidance

[@1200times]

Thank you for the encouragement

[@D.E.Middleton]

Thank You

[@cherylclough1804]

7.10 "If they do not get it, it's on them. If I do not bring it, it's on me." Sometimes you have to play bold or go home. Sometimes you have to ask did you try enough, do enough, created enough. If you do not play the cards, then others can just sit on their deck and go "whatever". But if you play your cards and call their bluff then it is on them. There are some souls who are they should have, would have, could have, if only... Sometimes you have to play the "if only" so that their not doing the should, could, or would is not being given the opportunity but simply choosing to do nothing, even when served to them on a platter. Later, they cannot say they were not forewarned, asked, invited, given a chance for a preview and assessment of information and how to play the game. If you say there is a game going down and give them a chance to look at the game and choose whether or not to play. If they decline to even look at the cards and game plays, that is on them. They end up looking like f*ing idiots.

[@ambraiezzi5037]

Wenzes thank you. 💙

[@ResidentEvilReVerseUniverse]

Amazing ✔️🟣

[@KuldeepSingh-gg5kq]

Thank you 💕🙏

[@UplandReviews]

Your video's help me tons thanks

[@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142]

A little dip ? Thad must be an understatement !😊😊😊😊 1:36

[@MrGadfly772]

Sadly I'm at a stage in my life where I not adding people to my life. I'm stuck in hermit mode as I retired last June. My friends have left or I have realized that they aren't who I thought they were. If not for my son I would be alone. This isolation has been healing ina way, but it does leave me with Avery confused direction.

[@gordonrichardson9393]

i have done my utube channell! with photo's, now im gonna try video :)

[@DearYoungerSelf111]

Kudos for taking the next step -

[@rudysdream]

great content 😍

[@lisabrightly]

Powerful message. Thank you.

[@nadezda777777]

Hi! Thank you so much for this video! It surely describe some my behavior. Especially dimming my light, so others could feel better. But what should do if my husband can’t stand me shining? Like wearing heels (because I will be taller than him) or being ambitious about my career? Thank you

[@drusillialeavel7533]

It's pleasing to be okowd to be different after all been an INFJ is to be rare and unique ; be exemptional been.🌄🌈🌞🌺

[@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142]

Sorry but I have never being depressed ! I had a lack of sleep ….and more … 😊😊😊😊😊 2:52

[@МарлинЛуизаБлэк]

INFJ phoenix my uncle told me that my dreams are never too big and my opinion should be more important than my Mom's even though I'm super Momma's girl

[@arilicious8181]

Please I need help...Im an INFJ and recently I met another INFJ a girl that I wish and hope we can get to be best friends someday if possible cos she is an amazing girl BUT, I found something about her that annoys me a lot, and I can't understand why , she is not hurting anybody by doing that but everytime, she likes to organize everything for others, if we have a date, she makes herself a reminder for the rest just in case we are enough stupid that we forgot that we have a date , the hour, the place, EVERYTHING detailed in a whatsapp message! If we are going out for dinner, she is the one that will make the reservation , she won't allow you to do it, she has to take the action for you. If we are going to the cinema, before I answer yes she already has bought all the tickets. She LOVES doing this and it irritates me , I can't help it... And I can't understand why, I feel awful about myself, but I feel really annoyed , I don't like this...Does it have an explanation? I dont want anyone to organize stuff for me ...I want to do it myself...And I would love to be the one helping the group too. (I feel like the worst friend and very guilty)

[@dreamingdragon77]

What's the difference between an INFJ and a Heyoka INFJ who has spiritual awakened? I am a combination of these 2. Besides that I found out during a reincarnation session that I never was reincarnated before and that i am a seraph angel that came here to heal people.

[@KassandraWalsh-vk6qj]

I recently became an infj Phoenix. Now I'm working on my soundtrack. 😊 The process is so exciting and empowering! 💪

[@japanesereadingandwriting]

💙

[@MegaCyberleader]

Lol and that sonng would be walk, By Panthera... And of course I like your SOUL witch i occasionly lke to past for you wenzes. I know I get downvoted a lot but, that never mattered to me, when my comments are removed or that my comments are pushed to the bottom of the feeds, Thats where people should be looking anyway. Ive said it before, and you already knew before that.

[@cosmicmonkey4334]

💙💙💙🙏✨

[@rudysdream]

is it normal to fall deepy in love w wenzes as a newcomer?

[@DearYoungerSelf111]

Question to the community: what makes us feel weird and seem weird to others? I know I feel weird at times but can not quite define it concretely.

[@jessmason2112]

✌️💯

[@jamgg4211]

🦁🧡

[@yonyspena7913]

🌹🔥🦅

[@aniokay]

Lol, little dip. I'm experiencing a life crisis like the fewest people (at least in my privilegded country) have experienced. Not to be dramatic or anything....

[@MegaCyberleader]

Thats wierd, howd you know? Oh wait... nvrmnd

[@DearYoungerSelf111]

Another commenter inspired this: Get on My level By Lil Jon Puts Me in a fighter mode: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y32cqqKXfLF8d7M

[@kimtopology4257]

First of all INFJ'S don't toot their horn when it comes to their achievements they are humble people they are conscious of that aspect and they don't want to make people feel bad this is inconsistent with healthy INFJ'S those INFJ'S who are unhealthy will flout their achievements in a person's face and that would make a person feel less competent. this is not how INFJ'S behave .

[@charlesakin4614]

That’s not the point Wenzes is trying to make here. Say you did really well on an exam and you studied hard and you want to post it on FB so your Mom or Dad or sibling can see it. But you say to yourself, “no I can’t post how well I did because it will hurt my friends feelings because they didn’t do so well on the exam” You know you are not posting it to rub it in your friends face. If your friend thinks that, then maybe they aren’t as good a friend as you though. They have other issues. You can’t be responsible for other people’s feelings. If your friend scored in the bottom 25% then does that mean the top 75% of the class shouldn’t say anything to keep from hurting her feelings? Because whether you post your joyful news or not, your friend is going to be offended by someone regardless. Be proud of what you do! It is ok. Just don’t go overboard and post that you got the parking space right next to the handicapped space at Kroger. 😊

[@kimtopology4257]

I think this sort of situation requires decrement and a balanced attitude or an awareness that some people have self esteem issues when it comes to achieving something INFJ'S are not going to announce it for the world to see for that very reason. @@charlesakin4614

[@luisarusgen6921]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6XTeaGcbt-qbNE a soundtrack that always lifts me up 😊

[@TheCyanPhoenix]

😂

[@hazirafel]

two really empowering rap songs by Snow Tha Product that helped me in a tough time :) 1)No Cut kzbin.info/www/bejne/pmXQZHykltmde9U 2)Going off kzbin.info/www/bejne/pIG8anZolN96jdE

[@vanessaserrano5722]

Thank you

[@underwaterpanther]

Sitting here with my gold phoenix necklace 😂

[@riyajacob2909]

We INFJs do crazy😂things like these....😅