The Alcoholic's Struggle-Mike Faria

Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Mike Faria, a man struggling with alcoholism in Newark, New Jersey.
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[@crashburn3292]

I'll never forget hearing an ex-heroin addict talk about how he truly felt sorry for alcoholics. He explained; A heroin addict can avoid other addicts and avoid their dealer, but alcoholics have drinking shoved in their faces every single day, on TV, in movies, at parties, at restaurants, during the holidays, etc....and their next fix is just a short drive to the nearest liquor store away..

[@firstlast8258]

I'll drink to that

[@Scuba_Bro]

I never really thought of it that way. It must definitely be hard to recover with all the easy access.

[@_dreamscape]

So true 😢, so accurate a statement

[@deadmanswife3625]

Half the world does not drink alcohol so that's BS

[@SpacePope420]

I'm a recovering addict (opiates). I bought all my stuff on the Darkweb. If you give me a phone with internet, in less than an hour- I can get literally any drug in any quantity delivered to any address in 3 business days. And once i do it the first time, (finding a legit market, making an account, etc) it takes literally 10 minutes to order something afterwards. So don't feel too bad for alcoholics.

[@jaqueitch]

The fact that he went out again AFTER nearly dying tells you everything you need to know about alcoholism. It is cunning, baffling and powerful.

[@jerzeymike]

💯💯💯

[@tanyamcginnis742]

Jaywalker - been there done that! But by the grace of God and a program, I’m 4 years sober ❤ and happy joyous and free finally

[@kristineplummer7607]

So right. It's a vicious cycle and it's really hard to battle.

[@danasalazar-ng6un]

its demonic. life is spiritual.

[@catwalkernyc]

It says more about who Mike actually is. And that nothing is what it seems.

[@matt_milack]

I've been an on-and-off alcoholic for the last 4.5 years. The scariest thing I've realized about alcoholism is that there's no such thing as an ex-alcoholic. I was perfectly sober for 10 months, absolutely positive that I'd never have alcohol again during that time. Then, one day, I simply went to the store and bought a bottle of whiskey. I can't give a rational explanation why. Once you're an alcoholic, you'll be one for the rest of your life, and the only thing you can do is battle this enemy every single day for the rest of your life.

[@chaoticature]

Thank you for sharing an absolute truth mate! I have not had a day off in 15 years. but I care about my temple. There is definitely a mind aspect to addiction that is rarely addressed. I'm still a cigarette smoker and EVERY SINGLE person I know whom has quit, says it's always there. We'll get a proper hold some day my friends.

[@firstlast8258]

I'll drink to that

[@leej-wp9ft]

You have never been not an alcoholic and you never will be. You need to accept that and find a programme and a higher power.

[@jcast8756]

One day at a time, it works if you work it. I know people who have truly stopped for good but relapsed many times, there is no such thing as an alcoholic that can control it. I how you can stop for good, life is so much better than having a substance control your life

[@biddibee3526]

Well while you and others like you are sober or even if you are drinking, do yourself a favor if you don’t want to end up with Werneke-Korsacoff syndrome which is a terrible drunken dementia also called wet brain please get yourself onto a really good B vitamin regimen. B complex and thiamin.

[@Tracy-ks1vk]

I am an alcoholic in recovery with 1679 days sober one day at a time. Wouldn’t wish this on ANYONE! Together, we can and do recover. Thanks for sharing, Mike ❤️‍🩹☀️

[@freakinthegardenfreakinthe4840]

Stay strong- you got this!

[@Geloskeelo]

Nice work

[@Nonnew705]

You rock!

[@mddell58]

That's so, so awesome! And, ONLY YOU really know how difficult each day was. Please .... NEVER throw all of those days away. ❤

[@surferrosa8392]

I'm at 1684 days ✌

[@jaqueitch]

1585 days sober as of 8/16/2024. I finally found peace in my life.

[@jessaddison9454]

Aww happy sober birthday tidatsxtge 16th of August 💯❤️😉 god bless you

[@shirleyelliott9848]

Well done you.

[@tanyamcginnis742]

Yesss I celebrated 4 years on July 6th ❤ one day at a time I have found peace and joy and purpose. Congrats!

[@jessicadutridge9882]

Stop bragging. I'm an alcoholic too and I bet you got this sobriety date thing from AA. I've been to so many meetings and all that jazz. My sobriety date means nothing. It could be gone in an hour. You can't both brag a sobriety date and truly believe in the fragility of one day at a time. It's a point of pride, I understand, but you can't be both prideful of it and remain humble at the same time. I guarantee pride will work against you some way somehow. Best of luck.

[@jaqueitch]

@@jessicadutridge9882 Angry words, my friend. You don't know me at all. I hope you find peace.

[@mannylamont5757]

When it comes to alcohol there is no such thing as moderation. I've fooled myself with that lie plenty of times.

[@lmcov4]

100%. One drink and a switch flips.

[@My_Naginta]

Yep. I can probably have a tall can and a couple shots tonight. It's going to snowball really fast though.

[@Haddley333]

Well, I used to drink moderately and even then I felt like absolute garbage. Haven't touched the stuff in almost 3 weeks and its' amazing how diff i feel. I was just slowly ingesting poison.

[@lmcov4]

Just keep going one day at a time. Hard times will come, depression will come, you will want to drink again. Just fight through that shit, talk to people, and remember that the bad feelings will pass. Alcohol will only make things worse.

[@southphillylilly]

That's not true. I have less than a dozen drinks a year . My husband has less than that. Neither of us have ever had an addiction to alcohol. Moderation is possible if you're not an addict and I'd say most people use alcohol in moderation.

[@csftw1544]

Going into my third weekend of no drinking. I hope anyone struggling gets through this

[@Toonces666]

You can do it, buddy! I wish you way more than luck.

[@londondaze]

Wow, that's great! . I hope you can find the person that you really are underneath. You still exist under the alcohol. You, the real you. I respect you for making it to a third weekend !

[@csftw1544]

@@Toonces666 thank you! I appreciate this!

[@csftw1544]

@@londondaze thank you so much!

[@mkf628]

lots are.. stay sober bro it's worth it God bless

[@CaroleDavies2708]

I am 3043 days sober. Thank you Mike for sharing your story. We can recover, I wish you well with your sobriety 🙏

[@jerzeymike]

I wish you the same 🙏🏽 congratulations and thank you so much for

[@jackiwannapaint]

I am an alcoholic and instead of drinking myself into an early grave I quit and havent had a drink in 40 years and became a writer and wrote 14 books

[@jerzeymike]

That’s a beautiful story 🙌🏽

[@dubaiedge]

Nice.

[@ReapingTheHarvest]

That's a loooong time. Congrats! I never get much sober time under my belt unfortunately. Or if I quit one substance I just substitute it with another. At this point I've been hooked on just about everything, but opiates and alcohol are the toughest for me.

[@pavlos8844]

Amazing. May more people be like you

[@katkohlerschwartz7386]

That’s great. What types of books have you written?

[@CGriffinGo]

Mike, you went off the deep end but miraculously found there is value in life without alcohol. Congratulations on all the new and exciting events now coming your way, especially your baby!

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@dmxlovesmenotu]

Ive been watching white underbelly since it started . I finally met MY match. Homie even comes from the same city as myself . Good luck to him and anyone else here struggling with alcoholism. It's truly a curse.

[@fritzfxx]

DMX loves you

[@mjonez973]

Newark in the house

[@markg.4246]

A "curse" that can be turned into the greatest adventure of your life..."IF" you're willing to live in the solution, instead of the problem! 30 plus years of continuous, joyful living is all the evidence I need! Sincere best wishes...Mark

[@dmxlovesmenotu]

@@markg.4246 I mean ....I'm never bored lmao

[@kristineplummer7607]

It is a curse.

[@Hope-pp4ty]

Alcoholism is terrifying and painful for families.

[@carlmorgan8452]

Drugs and alcohol = DRAMA / 16 years clean and sober now, thanks to JESUS and CELEBRATE RECOVERY

[@janiceg7661]

I lost my husband to alcoholism after he relapsed. The shock and devastation are a daily struggle for me. Alcohol killed part of me that day too. I beg anyone struggling with whatever substance issue to get help. I learned the worst lessons of my life, you can’t love an addict sober - I loved him so completely- we met at 15…partying..hate that word now…and I learned once an alcoholic you are an alcoholic for life, so work your program to stay sober every single day. Only you can do the work, how I wish I could’ve done it for him, relieved him. God bless all addicts to find help. Thank you, Mike. ❤ Happy sober anniversary!

[@Parrotgirl-tattoo]

Alcoholism is no joke. I've tried pretty much every drug. Alcohol is the one that always calls me back. I am older now & I just can't do it anymore. It feels good to be sober. You can do it Mike. ❤ I hope you can heal yourself & heal your broken family. 🙏

[@firstlast8258]

Tots and pears 🍐

[@binzypoo]

@Parrotgirl-Tattoo May I ask how old you are now? I am 55 and feel like I just cant do it anymore. I'm ready to just stop.

[@Parrotgirl-tattoo]

@@binzypoo ill be 50 in a couple of weeks. 🥰

[@binzypoo]

@@Parrotgirl-tattoo I'm so proud of you. Lots of love from New Zealand

[@chaoticature]

I'm 41 and as much as I'd like to "just stop", how does that happen?I've been to a withdrawal clinic for 5 days and went straight back. I know it the set and setting scenario but the people need proper mechanisms of care. I never ask for help but many of us have obviously experienced crap and the coping ways are folly.

[@josephlungu7846]

Been drinking since I was 18 after finishing 12th grade. What was just a weekend thing eventually turned into an everyday after work thing when I hit my mid 20's. Now in my late 30's, as much as I convince myself I don't have a drinking problem because I get to work on time and meet deadlines, the fact that I can't resist the urge to have a drink after 5 means I surely do have a problem. This video has been so eye-opening.

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@joannasunday]

You're a "functional" alcoholic but alcoholic none the less. I am also. And guess what? I was a functional meth user back in the 80's. The point is - our brain has changed from the poisons but it can be re-wired. Get down to the root of why you use to get through the day. Trauma is the usual culprit. Blessings to you.❤

[@diane9247]

Oh my dear, please reach out to some kind of help. AA doesn't suit everyone, but if you ever feel utterly lost, it can save your life. You are functioning now, but the tragedy is that it gets worse and worse. 🌻🌻🌻

[@sarahcashmore6736]

Im the same, i do well in life but i carry this burden every day. I have drunk alcohol every single day for the last 15 years. I dont know how to stop. Ive been hooked on other drugs & stopped them eventually but alcohol has a hold. People say you have to hit rock bottom before you stop but i will never get to rock bottom as i will never let it get that bad. But i hide bottles, i hide the amount i drink but no one knows. But i know. I want to be a better person

[@joannasunday]

@sarahcashmore6736 i think, by sharing your story, you have taken the first step! I'm not an AA person but i do know admitting it a great first leap! I'm the same kind of drinker as you. Functional but hiding as much as possible. I can tell you what works for me and i know this isn't popular, but weaning helps. The thought of having nothing gives me anxiety. So now i buy a small bottle, pint or half pint, and take a few sips when i feel overwhelmed by life. I have periods of abstinence and periods of drinking, but i drink a lot less. It's a tough road. Be gentle with yourself and don't let anyone tell you that you can't do it. A lot of addicts can't do the wean thing. Just try it. Much love to you!

[@xreediculousx]

I have been sober from alcohol since January 13, 2022. One of the greatest decisions of my life.

[@jerzeymike]

🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@kaylirodgers413]

Alcohol is a wonderful slave, but a terrible master

[@Mr93sharpei]

Alcohol is also an impossible mistress in a relationship...lost my husband April 26,2024....alcohol related liver and kidney failure...

[@kaylirodgers413]

@@Mr93sharpei I'm so sorry for your loss

[@cxinthechat4276]

That’s deep

[@J54.]

You got that right! 😢

[@Ahn-mu3db]

Wdym by wonderful slave?

[@TheAnthoula14]

I appreciate each and every person that comes on this channel, and speaks from the heart. (Not all do).

[@Anonymous-km5pj]

Yes. i also appreciate Marc for thoroughly showcasing our white priviledge. Sorry, that was head not heart...

[@medokarbo]

I do too. There’s such a kinship I feel with every person on here.

[@jeanroth159]

So proud of you Mike.Your interview made me quite emotional being an alcoholic myself,thankfully sober for many years now but it's a part of my story. Your meant to be here,my friend lost her only son , cirrhosis took him,it wasent your time and I'm happy for you. Enjoy your life and your family and a new baby,how precious. Much love and keep taking care of yourself♡.

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🫡✊🏽❤️‍🩹

[@michaelwilliamson3551]

50 days 2 hours 35 minutes and 14 seconds clean and sober...

[@jerzeymike]

LFG 🙌🏽

[@grifyn882]

felicitation....57 day now...i hope you didn't relapsed

[@dgannon4]

That's great! I'm at 54 today. Stay strong. One day at a time bro

[@batsnackattack]

Don't you miss it? remember how nice that drink felt?

[@MrAraag]

Thanks for sharing your story Mike.....I quit drinking in 2019, and it changed my life completely. I felt worthless, hopeless, miserable, lonely and suicidal. I lived for the weekend and drank because it was the only thing that made me feel good. I would wake up the following day with no phone, keys, clothes all over the floor, and having spent hundreds on booze. I'd make a fool of myself, lose days at a time, and have constant feelings of anxiety and depression.....then one day it became too much and I quit; cold turkey. Best decision I ever made. There's hope for everyone struggling through this addiction; I was at rock bottom, wanted to end my life, but I turned it round just like Mike and so many others on this thread. Bless all of you trying to beat this monster

[@cherrygirl64]

This man's story is so important. So crazy how people think no big deal drinking your whole life thinking there's no consequences because alcohol is legal. As a career nurse I've cared for many patients only 30 and 34 years old dying from chirossis, alcoholic pancreatitis. liver and pancreatic cancer. See alcohol as poison folks because IT IS. It's a miracle that he lived.

[@jerzeymike]

This is why I share my story, to bring awareness to matter of so many young people dieing from this 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@chaoticature]

Within the first 5 seconds of analysing this guys body language and eyes, I knew I was in for a similar truth bomb of an Alcoholics life journey. I shouldn't be excited but this is what Marc does so well. A safe space to express the real human condition. I've learned so much from others and expect to gather some influence yet again from this. I'd bite my tongue and shut up but that's a symptom of alcoholism, midnight jaw thrashing., Now back to the interview haha I LOVE you.

[@chaoticature]

Gut instinct verified after finishing watching this interview. What an inspiration!

[@terrytownsend5583]

Slow hand clap. EYEROLL

[@deedeeduncan9347]

What a thoughtful comment

[@lovingmydior]

My goodness. Everything that’s being described I lived. I almost lost my life in dec 2023. Same exact symptoms. I quit immediately! I ended up with varices in my esophagus, went into shock, my BP was 69/34. I’m still sober but I did just have a bleed and ended up in a ventilator for five days. All because of my sick liver. I’m now almost 8 months completely sober. But I have so many health issues that I will have for the rest of my life. I haven’t finished this video. But I’m praying for him and anyone else who’s struggling. I promise you, alcohol is a lie and it’s not worth your life, your mental health and especially it’s not worth the amount of heartache it is for our loved ones to see us slowly dying. For anyone struggling, it gets better, takes a lot of work, but it’s amazing work!

[@jerzeymike]

So happy you are here 🙏🏽❤️‍🩹

[@MK-Hogan]

How long were you drinking before you developed serious illness? Asking for a friend’s wife. 😕

[@patriciaque197]

😁👍

[@lovingmydior]

@@jerzeymikethank you. I appreciate those words. I’m so glad I am too!

[@lovingmydior]

@@MK-Hogan 😢 hi there, just was drinking for about 10 years every day, vodka. I would try and quit but it never lasted long. It didn’t get really bad until march of last year. I was drinking day and night. I didn’t even know what day of the week it was let alone what time of the day it was. I was in literal hell. I didn’t notice major issues until fall of 2023, I ended up having major ascities, very swollen feet and I was yellow everywhere. So I drank a lot. But it was during Covid when it really picked up. I knew I was sick. I was just terrified to hear a doctor tell me that. Scariest part of my life, but I would do it again if it meant I’d be sober like I am today.

[@tanyag7567]

Thank you so much for sharing some hope. You really described the illness of alcoholism perfectly. The insanity of it all. I too couldn’t see my life without it. I must have done 50 detoxes and kept going back to it. Nearly killed me several times… but I’m now 3835 days sober.. and I keep counting the days as it’s an absolute miracle! I do have regrets. I never wanted to hurt the people I hurt over the years.. but I’m gradually making up for that and to help another person in or out of recovery helps me heal. Thanks again… all the best for the future and your new baby. Best wishes. Tanya

[@tanyamcginnis742]

Pure insanity - hopeless while drinking. Now I’m 1,503 days sober - one day at a time. So grateful 🥹 Congrats on your new life ❤ Tanya

[@markg.4246]

The "living amends" help us heal from the hurt we caused others.

[@TheRexGolden]

I am fighting a years long battle as a physically sick but partially functioning alcoholic. I experience withdrawals every day. This episode tore me up in a deep way. I think I'm scared enough to fix it. Thank you Mark.

[@diane9247]

Oh, with all my heart I hope you start on a sober path. Just remember how commo this is and how many millions have gotten sober and stay sober. 💖

[@ellenschulz1229]

You can recover. As cliche' as it sounds, one day at a time. Be patient with yourself.

[@krystallira9399]

This man is a beacon of hope. I am so grateful to have listened to his story. God bless

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@greatlakesgirl8882]

The very end of this made me so happy inside. His smile is beautiful!

[@OG213LA]

Thank you for your story. It’s very inspiring. I’ve been sober for 14 months now and hearing your story makes me feel like I’m doing the right thing

[@ellenschulz1229]

You are doing the right thing. Stay the course.

[@carmelaburrone5029]

Wishing Mike all the best. He's truly a walking miracle. I pray🙏 he stays clean and sober and has a wonderful life.

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@CarleyJoy]

423 days sober. I work hard every day to not drink even though I rationally never want to again. Thank you Mike for sharing your story.

[@jerzeymike]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@Tenacious1952]

Mike is such a good, sweet soul. His kids need him. I’m grateful he made it and is in a much better place. His story resonates with me as my older brother died of late stage alcoholism in Jan 2023. I witnessed the same liver and kidney failure with my brother. For family members, it’s a traumatic thing to witness. My brother’s death has left a hole in all of our hearts.

[@jerzeymike]

I am so sorry for your loss 💔🙏🏽

[@dubaiedge]

Yes, it's very traumatic. Was present for my 44 year old father's ruptured esophagus death back in '80 as a teenager. Bloody hospital sheets & all his agony certainly went a long way to ensure I avoided alcohol in life. The pain & sorrow shifts through the decades but never leaves, esp. those last minutes of his life where he was still conscious & saying he was scared. Best we can do is be as healthy as we can. Such a thin wisp between life & death. Good luck

[@catwalkernyc]

He’s not being authentic. Sorry to say.

[@vinzen14]

​@@catwalkernychow would u know that?

[@bakeraus]

Phoenix Mike Faria! Rise from the ashes, my man. Keep on going

[@aimeemcallister7416]

Boy, what an insightful video. There is alcoholism in my family and just listening to someone who lives it really opened my eyes. Thank you.

[@digger3578]

As a mortician for many years, I’ve seen the coffee ground purge. That’s usually combined with lots of blood purge. This guy was super close to death. These images helped me moderate my drinking until I could quit. I’ve worked in many states. Most of these alcohol deaths were in Alaska. It’s beautiful but a bad place for a single guy with no family and a propensity for drinking.

[@aracnadei13]

Yeah, indicative of a GI bleed which could be fatal in a few minutes. Good thing he was already with medical personnel by that time.

[@Toonces666]

Thank you for this interesting comment and the valuable information.

[@diane9247]

Yes, Alaska has a very high rate of alcoholism - lots of single men and there's the Native factor. In all regions with large Native American po[ulations, the alcoholism rate is just horrible. Such a tragedy for not only the USA, but also Canada.💖💖🌻💖

[@Everythingismeaningless344]

This dude has held up physically very well for being a pretty much 40 year old alcoholic. I also still see plenty of hope and joy in his eyes. It's a tough road ahead but he definitely has all the tools to be successful with his life.

[@jerzeymike]

Thank you very much for your words 🙏🏽

[@crockpot2283]

I've been an alcoholic since I was about 16-17 years old, drinking anyything and everything put in front of me. Jameson was my favorite. I'm 30 now. When my wife and I got married this past December I promised her I would slow down. For myself, for her, for the family we want to have. I did for the most part, cut down to beer and was doing pretty good. Then I started sneaking the nips in, the half pints before I got home etc. The moment I realized I was hiding it I put myself into rehab that following day. 8 months clean and wouldn't change a thing. I hope anyone else out there scared or on the fence for looking for help...DO IT!!!! BUT IT HAS TO BE FOR YOURSELF!❤🙏

[@jerzeymike]

I remember hiding nips! So happy for you! You got help! And I commend you for that! 🙏🏽🫡✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

[@NenasMund0]

My brother is a Alcoholic. I see him and I see a glimpse of who he was prior to drinking. This kind of stories give me hope that one day my brother stops drinking. God continue to guide your life and your family.

[@MrsM334]

🙏

[@patriciaque197]

🦋🙏🦋Only he can choose and we shall pray😊🕊

[@Chemsci-j1v]

He guided his own life and did the recovery himself

[@Stolimel]

I was never an alcoholic but in my 20’s and 30’s I drank everyday. I divorced and my ex was a functioning alcoholic that ended up passing away. I found a partner that I loved and things changed in my life. I will have a glass of wine on occasion but I can’t drink anymore. I hate the hangovers. You have to surround yourself with people that are like you have things in common that aren’t surrounded by alcohol. I even donated my kidney last year to a stranger.

[@shirleyelliott9848]

Great news. Your an inspiration to us all.

[@morgenmachen2400]

Love the light in his eyes at the end of the interview

[@Echo-o-o]

Yes!

[@ginnybrien9530]

Beautiful light in his eyes.

[@ianmckinnon8461]

@@morgenmachen2400 alcohol loves you alone too,

[@morgenmachen2400]

@@ianmckinnon8461 what?

[@macciddy7689]

The pain from the betrayal associated with infidelity runs deep

[@JustASmallTownGirl601]

Never being able to fully trust again, no matter how hard I try, will destroy me at some point.

[@lifemusic1980]

Yup

[@JamesChessman]

It’s playing with fire, guys will want to destroy the guy involved in the cheating. It takes many years to find a mature perspective on everything. It’s not really an insult, people really live in their own bubble and they just do what they want, it’s not an insult to other people.

[@scootertelford9873]

Mike, I know what you’re going through and I see myself in you. Brother…you’re not alone. All love.

[@jerzeymike]

Much love to you brother 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@emersonkerin7046]

It’s really so sad to me how alcoholism can take over some of the nicest people. My uncle Don passed a way a few years ago, liver failure due to constant drinking for years. I was never the closest to him up until a few years before he passed. I still remember a few months prior to his death, my sister and I had driven to his house to grab something from him for our mom, he had us come in and sit down, talked a bit, really had a good chat with him which we never really got to experience. He passed away on his couch watching tv with a beer in his hand, no one heard from him for a bit and my grammie (his mom) had gone to pick him up one morning and found him lifeless. He was one of the funniest, nicest guys you’d ever meet, I still wish I’d got to hang out around him more and that someone could’ve done something, he was only 58 years old. It really makes me happy to hear that this guy is now doing well and is hanging in there, I’ve never been through that struggle myself but both my uncle and my dad too has struggled with alcohol, not to the extent of my uncle but my dad always tells me how serious it can get. Genuinely happy for this guy, makes me think of my uncle, I’m tearing up after hearing this man’s story.

[@jaydasolai2559]

Congrats on getting sober. Thank you for sharing your story. Addiction is hard because it creeps up on you throughout your life. I hope you stay strong for you and your kids. They need you in this world. You seem so genuine and down to earth. I’m rooting for you!! Thanks Mark

[@amstel5468]

The party ends when you wake up needing a substance just to feel normal..

[@world_of_manny_malibu]

Besides coffee tho

[@amstel5468]

@@world_of_manny_malibu yep and weed never destroyed my life and left me sleeping on a park bench

[@MrSifublaquerogue]

Been an alcoholic since I was 16 I’m 46. Functioning alcoholic. It’s a beast

[@jerzeymike]

💯🙏🏽

[@jerzeymike]

Wish you the best in your Journey 🙏🏽

[@MK-Hogan]

How are you not seriously ill by now? Someone close to me is drinking very heavily for 4-5 years now and I’m so worried. I don’t know how long the body can take that before serious illness sets in.

[@brianulery786]

Hang in there. You have to dig down deep to overcome it. Hope you find your way

[@littlepils4187]

@@MK-Hogan what amount of alcohol is considered heavy drinking?

[@user-in7cx5lz9c]

My father was an alcoholic and only stopped when he got cancer. Mike, you have the chance to and seem to be making things right in life. Make sure your kids get counseling. Even if they seem fine, their early years of what you all were (as a family) going through can/will affect them in their lives for a lifetime. The early years will shape their adult lives. Make sure they get counseling for a long time. It will be the best gift you can give them. You needed it and they will too. I promise you. Read Adult Children of Alcoholics. So glad you are doing well now. Make sure your kids are too...for their futures.

[@mcarrusa]

This is such important testimony. Way to go, Mike! You are truly an inspiration, my man!

[@catherinefernandez2239]

So I sit here and cry after hearing this intelligent, loving man's story of fighting a monster. God bless him and everyone who is affected by addiction.

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@SSR6464]

19 months sober after trying AA since 2018. Was functioning for about a decade. We don’t all make it out. Love to this man. One day at a time.

[@Nan-ly8zb]

God bless this guy. My, God…..what a story. Mark….please interview him again. 🙏💛

[@doodleartlover]

Alcohol sucks. I started drinking when I was 12 and I'm still battling with it at 57. I recently did a little over a year sober...best year of my life. Until my precious mother got sick and passed away recently and I've fallen off the wagon again. God bless everyone dealing with alcoholism! 👃

[@Toonces666]

I am sorry about your sweet mother but she would want you to take care of yourself and not use her death as an excuse to hurt yourself. I am very close in age to you and have a wonderful mother too. I worry in advance about her passing and wish you strength and peace. Please stop hurting yourself.

[@brianulery786]

Hang in there buddy. Hope you find your way

[@RobertoLopez-dm4gq]

Get back on the wagon and keep going where you left off. Life is hard but we never ever give up . Learn from your mistakes and ask God for his help and you got this my brother. We are warriors with this vice but God loves and is waiting to help you . God bless you

[@sarahcashmore6736]

I always liked a drink but when i had to watch my dad die slowly it fucked me up. The pressure on my chest wouldnt go away until i had a drink, the pressure went away when my dad died but the drink didnt. Its fucking hard

[@Toonces666]

@@sarahcashmore6736 I am sorry about your dad, Sarah! I wish you peace and strength.

[@ilovebuyers]

Alcohol is the hardest drug to quit! I have heard that so many times! I totally sympathize with anyone who’s an alcoholic! Some people can drink one drink and not drink for another month or so … some unfortunately can not even smell it! Don’t even drink once! I’m so happy you are sober! God bless!!!

[@jerzeymike]

💯🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@WillS-pl8wg]

Benzo’s are worse.Thee worst.

[@ilovebuyers]

If you know of anyone with a benzo addiction… have them try Kratom. A good quality Kratom. I know many people that have quit both alcohol and benzos by taking Kratom. I highly recommend.

[@lmb4876]

@@WillS-pl8wgYes, there are many addictions out there….I have heard tobacco is a “beast”, too. Opioids, gambling,tobacco,alcohol, eating…most of it is a symptom of something going on in your life or childhood trauma

[@hillbillyrocker3257]

You got this bud! When the question was asked, “Do you have regret”, you gave a great answer. I feel you need to accept the trials and tribulations of life and move forward. Accept the past and keep on keep’n on on day at a time my man. 🤙🤙🤙

[@catwalkernyc]

No regrets for traumatizing his sons? Not just them but even just last year- due to his addiction which is no longer alcohol. He doesn’t regret harming women- blaming women- for his own choices.

[@metalmick4454]

Thank you once again Mark Liata, and thank you and your story in particular Mike Faria, this did wonders for me. Life can be good.

[@jerzeymike]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@ArtSmith-cg7uc]

I never understood how anyone could become an alcoholic until about a year ago. I have made some huge financial mistakes, and I have become extremely depressed. All day, I am perpetually regretful, angry, disgusted, and disappointed in myself. I had two drinks about a year ago. The first two I've had since my financial mistakes. For the first time in a long time, I felt good, I felt like weight had been lifted off of shoulders, and I felt happy. I then realized how someone could get addicted to alcohol. I have made sure to stay away from alcohol at least until I've fixed this mess I've made or until my kids are adults, and I can just let go.

[@stacynortham376]

Yeah. Don't do it.

[@leej-wp9ft]

You don't become an alcoholic you're born one. We are alcoholics long before we take a drink.

[@ArtSmith-cg7uc]

@@leej-wp9ft K

[@ArtSmith-cg7uc]

@@leej-wp9ft K

[@mattparr3038]

​@@leej-wp9ftwhat's the difference between an alcoholic and alcohol addiction, how does one know which one they are.

[@MrsM334]

What a nice guy, so glad Mike's turned his life around. Thanks Mark.

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@joebarracuda6038]

Good to see he made it! For many people with similar stories including myself, this hopefully will be a wake-up call before it's too late 👍🙏💪

[@firstlast8258]

Tots and pears 🍐

[@jackandlill]

You CAN DO IT!!! You got this friend...days only come one at a time. Do your best to be where your feet are...that's what I try to remind myself each day & it has helped me! Ask for help - you deserve it! All the best!

[@917hazel]

Mike has a very resonate voice and tells his experiences in an honest bare bones way. I know a lot of ppl will benefit from his coming forward and being so honest about all the bodily functions that have been impacted by drinking excessively to deal with stress initially and then emotional pain. Great interview. Thank you Mike and Mark☀️

[@jerzeymike]

Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@917hazel]

@@jerzeymikeMike, I left another comment about de-mineralization typo-ed demonitization🥸) Anyway, as a health practitioner I have seen a mineral rich diet, stop refined foods as a regular part of diet, as part of healing addictive drinking, eating, etc. There are many layers to healing, but this is one, imho, part that often goes ignored. The ending to your interview is truly uplifting and your smile says it all. Best wishes to you.

[@catwalkernyc]

Honest… not quite

[@catwalkernyc]

Sometimes people just don’t understand how much they believe their own lies. The root cause is not the alcohol. It’s relationship that is his issue. Like all of us. The root cause. Stop playing the blame game Mike.

[@917hazel]

@@catwalkernyc The longer the time sober, the more clarity onevcomes to about who they are, past present future events.

[@katherinetreiman9480]

Mike has the warmest smile

[@SueMarie-tg7xu]

You can just see the good in this man. I commend him for speaking about this. I’m Portuguese myself and I know how hard it is for a man in our culture to admit he has a problem with alcohol. God bless you Mike.

[@jerzeymike]

Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@JeremyNewell-f1z]

This one spoke right to my heart Mark thank you for doing these interviews. It helps us all realize that we’re not alone even though in a world of all these people a lot of times we feel alone in our struggles but just knowing that we’re not alone does help a lot.💚💚💚

[@Aura_glow]

What a gorgeous young man. And talk about self awareness. He understands everything he’s going through. Well spoken. I hope he can get away from his own intrusive thoughts.

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@Fnaf_lover_indi]

This sounds a bit like my fiancé's story , except he didn't make it. I watched him puking blood and drink himself to death all the while refusing to stop or go the hospital. He ended up having liver failure and a stroke. He was put on life support for 2 weeks. I watched his entire family and friends say goodbye to him including his 5 year old daughter and on Valentines day the love of my life was taken off life support. It's been a struggle for me ever since without him. Mike you're so lucky , I wanted your story to be our story so bad. But it wasn't. I'm really happy for you. And I pray to God you continue to stay sober for your children's sake and your own. God bless. You're story really hit close to home.

[@jerzeymike]

I’m so sorry 💔🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@kal22222]

I'm over 25 years sober. I was hospitalized numerous times with doctors having to call my next of kin. My second last time in the hospital I was still lying about how much I drank. This is even after overhearing the doctor tell my brother that I might die. My last time a nurse asked me if I would talk to someone about my drinking I said sure and as soon as she left I took the IV out of my arm got dressed and left. Shortly after that I finally realized it would kill me and I haven't had a drink since. The physical withdrawal didn't last too long but the mental obsession was the tough one. Once that left I haven't had a thought about drinking since as I accept that it would kill me. Through the years it has been a journey of self discovery and self acceptance.

[@jonesnbones]

I also stopped when I recognized it was suicide. I sought help for the underlying trauma. I choose life and my family. Sobriety felt like being reborn.

[@anitamartindale3585]

Soooooo happy your sober, it's really the only way to live. I've got 24 years sober. My life was a mess before sobriety.

[@terrig1229]

🎉congratulations 🎉

[@susanmarkovitz6855]

Wow Mike...When I first saw the title "The Alcoholic's Struggle" I thought they must have the wrong title because you looked so good. Clear eyes, smiling and healthy. Congratulations on your two year sobriety. You are smart, humble, and have a strong moral compass. I wish you the best in life. One day at a time.

[@jerzeymike]

Thank you Susan 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@flyingtiger666]

My friend just died from this. She was only 35.

[@jerzeymike]

I am so sorry for your loss 💔🙏🏽

[@VeeMoraless]

I'm so sorry for your loss 💔🙏

[@RougeMaster]

How long did she drink for ? And what would she drink?

[@TheKeltris]

You are such a wonderful man with so much to offer!! I'm sorry for your battle with alcohol. You're worth more than that drink!!

[@prosciutto92]

Been following Mikes journey since 2020. So proud of his strides and accomplishments! He’s been given a second chance and running with it! ❤

[@jerzeymike]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 thank you 🥹

[@pamelaparr2965]

One of the best interviewees. Very genuine and his smile seems very genuine. Congratulations on your sobriety! We do recover.

[@jerzeymike]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@Tonyscalo]

I heard this quote about alcohol recovery that stuck with me. I can't remember who said it but it's "No matter how far you go, you're always the same distance from the ditch." Just stay away from that shit. Attempting moderation is one of the most high risk low reward (more like no reward) lifestyle choices I can think of. Such an insidious thing alcohol is.

[@Toonces666]

Great comment, Tony! Thanks.

[@anniwunder]

Probably my favorite SOW interview of all times. Mike, you're an absolutely incredibly human being and inspiration! I wish you, your wife and your kids an amazing life!❤

[@jerzeymike]

Thank you so much 🙏🏽

[@ivanestrada3468]

This channel is such a great resource. Thank you to all the people involved

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@catwalkernyc]

This has been my favorite channel and interviewer for years. 🙏🏻🫵🏻✍🏻🫶🏻 grateful for him

[@somaticjourney]

As an adult daughter of a father who struggled with his addiction to alcohol all his life, I do feel regret on behalf of your kids...My dad passed away in May...I cried listening to your story, so glad you've made it to this point in your life...therapy helps, keep up the good work. Blessings 🌞

[@mattkeith1180]

Thank you for sharing this. I have a very similar story. I’m so very grateful that you are alive.

[@kristicallnc]

Glad you are alive too ❤❤

[@belindalouw6049]

Mike I cannot express how proud I am of you, I was married to an alcoholic for 18 years, we supported him through rehab twice. I think the main difference between you and him is that you take responsibility for your actions. God Bless you my friend, what an incredible story, what an incredible man you are🙏 I wish you all the happiness in the world❤

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@katie-z3i]

I'm glad he shared and keep up the good work.

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@cindykeudell316]

He almost dies and his buddy takes him to Florida to drink and party. Insane. I’m so glad he made it and is here to tell his story. My son is a “functioning” alcoholic. I pray he makes it to sobriety before his liver gives out.

[@truesavings1988]

You give me hope Mike. Drinking 9/10 ends up badly. It has ruined so many events in my life. I really want to stop.

[@VeeMoraless]

Please stay strong 💪 you got this ❤🙏 I love you and I'll be praying for you!!

[@brianulery786]

Hang in there. You have to dig down deep but you can do it. Hope you find your way

[@agev8016]

Wow thank you for sharing your story, I honestly was so relieved you are in recovery. Most of these stories do not end positively and watching this I was expecting the worst. I am so happy you are thriving and sober. Such an inspiration.

[@carolinerocha5938]

Mike. I ammm soooo proud of you. Keep it going. 🇵🇹🇺🇸

[@andydixon2980]

I'm pleased this man has another chance and has hope in his eyes. It takes alot of courage and discipline to become sober and stay sober, and he has that. His love for his kids saved him.

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@aminabatmunkh6488]

He is really handsome. Wish he could get better life.

[@evam.2101]

Mike Faris, THANK YOU FOR SHARING WITH US. GIVING HOPE TO FAMILIES THAT OUR LOVED ONES MAY RECOVER AND HEAL. I AM HAPPY YOURE ALIVE❤❤❤💪💪💪🔥🔥🔥

[@jerzeymike]

I’m happy your alive as well 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@eatzbycheri]

I'm what's referred to as a "functional" alcoholic. Thursday, I told myself I'd stop drinking. By 2:02PM yesterday, I caved. Today, I didn't even make it to noon 😢 This shit is so hard. I truly do not understand it, and it's fucking killing me.

[@jerzeymike]

One day at a time, you got this 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@joannasunday]

Me too. Just keep trying. Every hour without alcohol is positive.❤

[@Serenadelijn]

@eatzbycheri. I did not understand it either why I always started again. So very determined to stop, and to find yourself drinking again after a max of 2 days. Asking myself: how did i forget? Who am I? And that, that is where the answer to your question is to be found. You are 2 personalities, a drinking and a not drinking one. I used to drink daily for a very long time. A little was one liter of wine a day. More is, well, more. A month ago i was in an argument with my girlfriend, grabbed her by the hand, and broke her handbone. A complete accident, nothing on purpose. We were not drunk, just had 2 or 3 drinks. But i was 100% sure this would not have happened when sober. So this shit gave me the final kick in the ass to quit. Eatzbycheri, this is why it is so hard to understand, and to get though this first weeks. I found out myself that I am truly a different person when I dont drink a drop. At first I did not have a clue what was happening with me. It took me 3 very puzzled weeks, and only now i am landing a bit on the other side. And here i am, writing this. For 20 years I thought I was a very outgoing person. The fun guy. Good storyteller. Always the first to be invited at party's, and the last guest to go home. Just found out I don't give a shit about half drunk stories. I nod and I walk away. Sort of the opposite. I seem to be a sort of friendly anti-social. A happy asshole. Who would have thought that. And I like it! I like myself this way!! Having some fun with it too. Sorry my friends, I just found out that I am somebody else! The look on their faces. They will get used to it. Or not. So, Eatzbycheri, If you read this, I hope this is useful for you. The trick is to get mentally past the first weeks, when everything is competely strange and scary. No medicine or anything. Just a clear and curious head on your shoulders. If I, ex-walking bottle, can do it, you can too. Good luck

[@jtlittle19]

Sometime you gotta break it down into 10 min intervals, just don’t drink for the next 10 min and build off that. It’s super tough, but it’s absolutely worth it if you can finally stop!

[@agentlindaliu]

You got this! You can do this.

[@nicolewasilewski4282]

Such a great story. Thank you for sharing. Ive been clean for 7 years. For several tried and tested reasons working an AA/NA program hasnt been necessary for my sobriety. Ive also done a lot of therapy. Everyones life is different, and we all deserve to find peace in a way that works for us. Best wishes on your future Mike.

[@jerzeymike]

Thank you, congratulations on your sobriety and Best wishes to you too 🙏🏽

[@bonniejean207]

Thank you for telling your story, Mike. It is very brave of you and I'm sure it will help others! I'm so glad you're still here, especially for your kids & family. Keep going 💪 you got this! ✌️ ☮️ ❤️

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@REZNAP]

MASSIVE RESPECT from Providence, RI my friend

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽✊🏽

[@scottcrouse7571]

Choosing drugs and alcohol are life changing for most people and it takes a change of life to leave them behind.

[@jerzeymike]

💯💯

[@mysuperduperlife]

i see so much beauty in this human being and i resonate with him on so so many things. there's much pain, grief but also appreciation in his eyes. When he ends his sentece and smiles, i see the gratefulness in this man. Shame on anyone who still believes addicition is a choice and not a disease. I am so very sorry that this disease took away from this awesome human being but as i can see he's looking for the good in the bad and that's fkn brave and amazing. I just relapsed on weed (which i have very unhealthy habits to) after i stopped for almost a week and I just want to say this man here really gave me the final push to keep going forward with my sobriety cause tomorrow's gonna be 23rd of August. Keep on shining and being great, Mike.

[@jerzeymike]

Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏽

[@Mellissa_Michelle]

When my 13yr old son died by suicide in 2018, I immediately went to the liquor store, drank so much that I woke up in the car with the door wide open. I was woke up the next morning by phone calls I didn’t want to answer and went through the motions, but told myself at that moment, that drinking was not the answer. If I can stop drinking, anyone can.

[@Toonces666]

I could not agree more. And I am extremely sorry for your loss.

[@conniemarlow9719]

Mike, Praise GOD for being here to tell your story!!! May you continue to help others❤❤❤❤ Much love from East Tennessee ❤️ ❤❤❤

[@jerzeymike]

Much love and thank you 🙏🏽

[@reneebrown55]

What a powerful story, thank you for sharing it, Mike

[@janetpersons7647]

My mom has been in sobriety for over 40 years. She is 89 and just recently quit going to meeting although she still does a once a month on zoom. Keep doing your steps Mike. It's lifelong. Blessings!

[@samsham8218]

Quit heroin. And cigarettes over 10 years ago now.. But alcohol is soooo much harder for me to stop.. I know i have to.

[@VeeMoraless]

Take it one day at a time. You can do it I'm praying for you ❤🙏

[@tonibrill6706]

Nice job, it’s not an easy one with our addiction at every store, restaurant, and every gathering. I have 4 1/2 years of sobriety from alcohol. If you’re ever in Maine, let's grab a coffee, and I’ll show you around.

[@jerzeymike]

🙏🏽🙏🏽✊🏽 congratulations on your sobriety and happy you are doing well

[@bigfoot7323]

Look bro, alcoholics and drug addicts can NOT drink or do drugs in moderation! Period Case Closed!

[@paulthecpa2717]

This is the part of AA and NA that they don’t tell you when you come in for the first time. They tell you that we have a process that works. And it does. But they can’t tell you that it involves never using drugs or alcohol again, at least at that point in time. Because you’d walk right back out the door.

[@savannahnickel1041]

Yep. It's true.

[@jackiwannapaint]

i agree. The problem with drinking in moderation is that its always on your mind--the next drink. You must quit cold turkey and no more thoughts of drinking because its going to kill you and destroy your family and thats that!

[@psalm421]

Alcohol never gives, it always takes.

[@jerzeymike]

💯💯💯

[@SouthPadreSurfer]

Alcohol will never make you a better man.

[@ralphromeo7066]

"Abstain from any type of liquor." My advice is the best you'll get from any professional.

[@carlmorgan8452]

AA is helpful for novice