The Art of Seduction - The Dandy By Robert Greene

[@Kamn_exe]

just remember the "without losing his masculine identity" part

[@rayonzray8357]

If you forget that part then you become something else 😂😂😂

[@daddybruce8084]

@Boxing Boxing No they still like the cruel and devilish male side of it. So basically you have to integrate BDSM into it lmao. There's many studies and surveys that says most women like bdsm and the other women prbbly either don't like to admit it or just a minority

[@deewill1226]

@Boxing Boxing Homosexual. It's ok if you are 😂😂😂

[@banderas2000]

Yup

[@th1andonlyyy]

Yooo deadass doe nigga

[@camozar100]

With the feminine psychology play along with cologne and perfume it is a mix of the masculine and the feminine never speak too much about yourself sometimes be mostly interested to whom you are speaking to watch two movies that you can learn dandyish wits and style The author of these movies is Oscar Wilde The name of the two are "An Ideal Husband" and "The Importance of Being Earnest"

[@rizla8602]

Examples are welcome and nutrient, thank you for helping out!

[@StephenOconnor-g2o]

Show em how to suck a dong😊

[@clintjohnson1023]

True,I mean look at Prince.

[@terrellepps9548]

Finally, someone who agrees with me.lol

[@briannaburch6737]

Definitely A dandy for sure

[@Smoothflowshow]

Right

[@th1andonlyyy]

That’s an extreme version of a dandy

[@jamiemohan2049]

He is too feminine to be a dandy.

[@mmxw2294]

I have lived like this my entire life and didn’t even know there was a term for it lol

[@MikeVODKA]

It's important with any style type, in my opinion... to have a personality that fits

[@DD_MENEN]

Im a natural and the star. I combine that with the running hot and cold tactic and wow let me tell you I havent worked in a year and will never again need to work, I get gifts and my bills paid by men HOW??? I was born the last born of my siblings and all are boys I am the only girl so i grew up spoilt and extremely guarded so naturally i always expect to be spoilt, protected and taken care of. I have a very innocent and childlike nature and approach to life the men I date always want to spoil and take care of me it comes naturally to me i dont even have to try. I also add the regression tactic and take people back to their freedom and childlike nature of always dreaming big without seeing any limits.

[@Imsleazy666]

this goes against the bad man being the only man who gets women, its something I always suspected. how does the human race continue if its only a certain type that is attractive to women,. I think a certain confidence is what is key. but this whole, loud mouth "alpha male" shit has gotten out of control, I see men who are not that type in public with great women all the time.

[@adamkonantovich4304]

Jack Lindsay bad men are subtly feminine, the narcissism, the selfishness over chilvalrous honor, etc.

[@sunnc]

Jack Lindsay nń

[@kevincampos3797]

That's great imput.

[@owengreene382]

Never forget the rake, (dandy) is an animal in bed!

[@aavalestormiconicperformer]

Look at all of the Pharaohs! They exude the Dandy qualities.

[@jameskonzek8892]

Well they are kinda fem looking.🤔

[@stanleyharris9247]

What a marvellous extract!

[@Major.haythem]

Most dandys we see these days or (they think they are dandys) are have female appearance.. but that’s dangerous.. maybe women will like them, but there’s alot of men don’t.. and that’s not perfect.. because real dandy should seduce both men and women and make a crowd of people fall in love with them and imitate them in my opinion.. the real dandy must take care of his elegance very well in his special ways, but he shouldn’t imitate women, The secret is just they’re psyche, he should have a woman's psyche and be a woman from inside even more then alot of females .. that’s what Robert Green intended in his book .. “The more feminine you are in a more subtle way, the greater the seduction”

[@kevincampos3797]

The dandy doesn't have to look extremely feminine at all. Just by not looking extremely manly will do. Remember, he doesn't care about conventions, even on his own dandy pattern I guess. Your second paragraph is brilliant. I immediatly recognize it's like us dandys are better women spiritually than them, and we are immune or even beat them at their game! If they play passive games, we know, and we play even more passive than her, we understand, and emulate her dirty deception better and more deeply and in an earnest way while doing so. They have no choice but to submit and be dominated by us to our superior spiritual power and principles.

[@banderas2000]

Subtle is key. But you have to know what character traits are natural to you. Moderation moderation moderation. "Imitating" women is a good tool to lower one's resistance and puts one at ease. Because it's familiar. Then when you make a bold move it only heightens your alure

[@christiangodin3185]

"I'm the humble dandy strolling down the street"

[@DeMenteMinds]

Russell Brand: a feminine dandy

[@wasitjustadream2345]

Robert sheenan

[@85shaBaby]

This is the one i need....

[@DennettDanielle]

I am an unintentional masculine dandy and unwantingly attract bisexual men like crazy.

[@briannaburch6737]

Tupac was a dandy as well as Michael Jackson and prince

[@maybachmerv7546]

Young thug

[@beau_de_jour]

Maybach Merv def a dandy

[@ThereminArkuton]

My thoughts exactly! Plus he mixes it with the natural.

[@KILLUMINATIish]

I use the dandy character,all the way from the way I'm dressed,and smell and I manly man wich balance me out,between my dandy ways and my personality.I love the dandy chapter.

[@aavalestormiconicperformer]

That is Prince.

[@briannaburch6737]

Most definitely agree with that 💯👌😊

[@pwetty4r4]

aha. now this is me.

[@HanKSN101]

austin powers

[@mustaffa1611]

this is me. Im definitely the dandy. nothing but the best for me.

[@BlackAtticus]

5:42 ' -- but a Dandies style can NOT be obvious, for dandies are subtle and never try hard for attention. ' -- you can pull all this off without doing the 'beyonce dance' and driving ya point home with too much flashy make up, in other words.

[@KILLUMINATIish]

I'm going to check these movies out,the dandy is one of my favorite chapters of the book,and when it comes to seducing the opposite sex,this has really sky rocketed my abilities to seduce,I thaught I had game but boy was I wrong until I read this book lol..

[@suzeesix]

Prince (drops mic)

[@SESVth]

Prince.

[@deejkingz4116]

Aaliyah? since she dress tomboyish but still have that sex appeal.

[@briannaburch6737]

Yes she would definitely be considered the masculine Dandy since she was a female just like Grace Jones but feminine dandies and just like masculine men who Embrace their feminine side

[@HanKSN101]

Think of it as a personality trait, more so than an actual person. Sexuality, in this case, is more of an insinuation "hint or suggestion of something bad."

[@omgpips]

Please reiterate, I don't understand

[@courte28]

My favorite dandies are Michael Jackson and Prince

[@briannaburch6737]

I thought about both of them while watching this it's very true😂

[@hanakobeauty]

This is so true--- dandy (feline masculine) and (mannish female)

[@allistertenpenny6871]

Anyone interested in playing a dandy need to listen to the Iceberg Slim biography. I pimp is basically a dandy

[@haseozenithmaru1186]

Subtly...if you understand.

[@camozar100]

please let me know how everything goes the dancing lessons are posted upon KZbin if you want to and feminine dandies mostly bracelets

[@HaNa-hh8vd]

Harry styles!

[@annalopinski4459]

I never knew i was a Dandy until a guy pointed it out to me lol. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Cool 😎 haha. Jesus how did i do all of this without even knowing....? I am also an ENTP.....

[@phasemitski3918]

Ur a girl....

[@banderas2000]

Imo besides the coquette the dandy is quite a successful seducer

[@moneyfive]

I feel like i am a feminine dandy but i was wondering if you have any tips on how i can play this role better. I have a little bit of trouble with female psychology

[@pakintsilo]

spend more time with females...whether family or friends or colleagues...say less and juss observe for the most part

[@I.am.my.ancestors]

"I am Dandy"

[@HowToBecomeRich100]

wonderful

[@camozar100]

You can also learn how to speak with their dandyish, conversational skills remember to make everything an aesthetic choice talk about anything that you can turn into a grand aesthetic adventure there is one movie not by Oscar Wilde Beau Brummel This Charming Man take care write back whenever you want to

[@KTRSandy]

Sandy the Dandy

[@stephannypereira9449]

Eu sou uma Dândi.👮🏽‍♀️👩🏽‍🎤🧚🏽‍♂️👩🏽‍🚀🧙🏽‍♀️

[@Wargoat6]

Peacock say WHAT!

[@Newbornnurseryreborn]

I’m the walking dandy

[@m.jerwig5354]

Absoluut Ne Yo 🎉

[@EricGAMER-ru7hr]

why don't we have a copy in the Philippines? we are waiting! can you provide in cebu philippines?

[@Dann-md9eq]

Copy on what?

[@HanKSN101]

view my page i have them all posted includeing the Introduction-Prologue

[@flowerh691]

Is this written in the Art of Seduction Book? I cant find it in there

[@banderas2000]

Yes it has its own chapter

[@MarioJPav]

My younger self...

[@MarioJPav]

except for being pretty. couldn't do much about it

[@camozar100]

there is a website called scribd.com this website allows to read any book from word to word in fine print you can read the book of Beau Brummell and Charles Baudelaire's "The Philosophy of Dandyism'' all you need to do is to just type in any book you want to read about remember History teaches us lessons

[@tranebur5450]

I'm your dandy girl

[@romanowskicm]

exactly, but who wants to be austin powers? I mean all the time? Does sexuality only exist in the bedroom? I do see how it can be advantageous in moments though

[@GodesXsports99]

lmfao Asap rocky

[@8492grob]

i'm andy the dandy 'there is something about you'

[@HLecterPHD]

Rather a dastardly Cad than Dandy, good day to you.

[@AssaultPrototype07]

Hmhm. Your call. Being effeminate doesn't actually call for really doing all that. You still have to show some masculinity to attract attention and actually end up with the girl. Otherwise, yes... your image will come up as gay. Dandy means fluttering back and forth, remember?

[@iceblue1457]

Makes me think of Madonna.

[@vfddcv7445]

iceberg slim

[@CastleNoble]

Philosophical

[@camozar100]

watch THE SON OF THE SHEIK played by Rudolph Valentino He shows male cruelty, patient attentiveness (watch part 11 pay attention to detail) learn to dance. women love it when men know how to dance. You can learn how to dance the salsa, cha cha, and the tango if you want to. A dandy is always self conscious of their image. Wear clothing that reflects your individuality for yourself and nobody else. There is also a website I go to Dandyism.net try it and you can more on dandyism

[@hthtv3440]

idk about this, wholly... most women I know prefer a man's man. The yin/yang... wait, unless RG is referring to that little dot of the opposing color in the yin/yang symbol as #TheDandy?

[@takejaylor3528]

Why is Kpop so popular then

[@kevincampos3797]

Hah brilliant

[@kevincampos3797]

@Kriss Perry that's true my dear fellow dandy. We sort of seduce by not trying to seduce, we do without doing. Like the Tao!

[@banderas2000]

Do you ever talk with your women? Connect with her? That's feminine energy. As was stated the most successful male seducers had a bit of feminine qualities. And the most successful seductresses had a bit of masculine in them. Moderation is key. Think of when your car breaks down on the road and your woman doesn't mind getting down and dirty with you to fix the car "while maintaining her feminine charms" that's the mix. And it's attractive. When a man listens to his woman about her day "attentively and attention to detail , while maintaining his masculine energy that's attractive. He doesn't need to bat his eyelashes or paint his nails with her but just to be the presence.

[@djkaizerLA]

im a dandy

[@haseozenithmaru1186]

Ambiguity Transvestite mindset according to you heard.

[@camozar100]

one last thing Dandyism.net is also associated with Facebook

[@MyNamesJohnny14]

Kanye West

[@valerie_d]

Kanye has dandy qualities but i think his main one is the charismatic. Hes like a cult leader

[@th1andonlyyy]

Facts people keep committing Ye like I never seen him dress feminine...my dude is charismatic as fuck mixed with a rake

[@th1andonlyyy]

Even a natural

[@simiebat]

It me. *o*

[@5Gazto]

Sheer psychopathy.

[@KING_PATTEN]

Kanye West prime example

[@th1andonlyyy]

Wtf how?

[@lorenzoreynolds2512]

Lol

[@jasonwright4404]

the femobe

[@ambelong1]

This is totally evil and Sociopathic. I’d rather walk with the Bible in my hand and Jesus in my heart.

[@th1andonlyyy]

Girl bye... Nobody told yah ass to listen or comment

[@yellowjun127]

lying to yourself is a sin