THE ART OF UKUXOLISA IN A RELATIONSHI | INDABA

[@NsikeSibisi]

Very important conversation, I was in a situation where the guy I was dating would continuously do the same “mistake” axolise sincerely until one day I couldn’t take it, he asked to talk & explain himself nokuthi kwenzekeni I said nope I don’t want to see or hear him out because I had been through the same situation a few times so I knew exactly where we would end up if I gave him a chance to talk. I blocked him ngaphuma kuye straight.

[@Mntanedlotti]

Very important conversation , Iam facing this situation currently 💔😩😭

[@phumimabanga962]

Losisi oshiywe uboyfriend akamshiye ubhuti. Akuve kubalulekile ukuzithanda kqala ukuze uma umuntu ekupha izimpawu zokuthi akakufun, then uphume kuye. Yes its hard but impilo iyaqhubeka and uyogcina emtholile ozomthanda ngendlela eryt. My mother used to say ukuthi everytime ushiywa umuntu, ungabovuvukala ikhanda to the point of ukuthi impilo ime bcs there is millions of people in the world and at some point one of them is going to give you the love you deserve.

[@nondumisondlovu1483]

Ngempela kuyezwakala ukuthi ayikho nalento ayikhalelayo ubhuti doesn’t feel the same way like u sisi so she must move on !

[@bongythwala9840]

Mina i like to apologize but uma umuntu exolisa kum angixoli , until kuzifikele kona kim ukuthi angikuxolele .

[@gracemasuku6406]

I hate apologizing so I try not to starts fights or arguments. Thanks for confirming that in it's our nature as woman

[@bongythwala9840]

Not in all of us mina I like to apologize if ngiphathe kabi omunye.

[@phumimabanga962]

​@@bongythwala9840Same here

[@bongythwala9840]

Kulula ukuxolisa yazi if ungena Anger in life uzehlisa ungaphakeme ,uzijayeze ukuxolisa kuwowonke umuntu ophathe kabi.

[@Alex-qz8kw]

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