I love how jen is. She has a good head on her shoulders. Make sure you understand what situations you in sometimes we just quiet in this family affairs.
@thandekandou4653 Жыл бұрын
I love Jen she is so matured her questions and sense of wanting to understand what they are saying
@priscillakhambule1141 Жыл бұрын
He said we should not discussing things with the wife. And Pink is the lady she should be not involved or the matter should be discussed in our of Jen s house if they don't want her input. And they say they are modern ?
@priscillakhambule1141 Жыл бұрын
She is Bala no Pink makathule man mnx
@priscillakhambule1141 Жыл бұрын
She is the family there
@siliziweseya6932 Жыл бұрын
Jen is asking questions that should be asked.
@hlakaniphilegumede7383 Жыл бұрын
Yes but ye criticism her ,this is wrong
@mtombomagadla8399 Жыл бұрын
Pinky and Zwai don't know what they want, they first wanted Loyiso and Jen to be involved more. But now that they are doing that. They are upset with her
@luyandadlamini1604 Жыл бұрын
pppl
@hlakaniphilegumede7383 Жыл бұрын
Abazazi ngempela basangene
@NanaMazwide Жыл бұрын
If people don't like you they don't like you. Whether you do right they still won't like you full stop.
@sibusisosihiya97792 ай бұрын
Firstly im i don't how Bala family i ran, Traditional or Western.They gave her liberty to be comfortable but not to forget kuthi uganile.
@abbysibiya2023 Жыл бұрын
They have issue with Jen BC's she doesn't beat the bush🤣😂🙆she confronts the situation like wow...she's not rude,she just has the guts to say what others r thinking.. Tati Jafta is married to mama unless they hate the marriage nje n wish it dissolved...very selfish n don't care by bout mamas joy😊
@thembinkosimgetyengana9274 Жыл бұрын
Zwai and Pinky are the epitome of a Xhosa family 😅.I say this as Xhosa myself ..so stubborn.
@AdelineLephotho2 ай бұрын
Loyiso and Jen lovely family and his children ❤❤❤
@sibongiseninyathi8073 Жыл бұрын
Yesss Jen, ask them 👌
@sibongileperish8515 Жыл бұрын
Isn't Jen part of the family or some times she is and at times shes not? Ai asazi mafra
@luphelele2 ай бұрын
They want Jen to be involved and then they don't want her to be involved in the sense of asking questions about tact. I would be so confused.
@portiamalobane5062 Жыл бұрын
Now I see why Zwai is divorced & Pinky not married hayi they're too much🤣🤣 well done Jen one minute they accuse you of not being interested in their family affairs the next minute you shouldn't be involved hayi😅😅
@estherlekgate6435 Жыл бұрын
I've lost respect to Zwai😮how can he say umfazi ufunani... clearly Melanie she had to get out of this Marriage😢
@hlakaniphilegumede7383 Жыл бұрын
Pinky and Zwai are confused
@kundaichitiga705210 ай бұрын
😅😅😅😅
@nomusamakhubela93122 ай бұрын
Iqiniso elimsulwa
@QueenRuthMokhoamme2 ай бұрын
True@@hlakaniphilegumede7383
@Chi__22 Жыл бұрын
Love u Jen ❤❤❤
@khululwankala42234 ай бұрын
Wow. I'm with Jen and don't understand the "its not your place" part. No wonder Zwai got divorced.
@Fifi.T2 ай бұрын
And it seems like he's jealous of his brother's successful marraige
@Nelly..28 Жыл бұрын
Omg I love Jen ❤
@SiyandaTheoSolani-i4z4 ай бұрын
Phelo uznxilele kamandi😂😂😂
@zamamanana1124Ай бұрын
I love Jen 😂😂😂😂out spoken
@tsidisobeke-beke2 ай бұрын
Jen uthetha inyani but Zwai & the Big sis abafuni uphikiswa. witthout understanding yonke into
@celestie4609 Жыл бұрын
Wow I never knew that Zwai and Loyiso are sibling, on which plannet was I🤦🏽♀️
@aloissbaleni1037 Жыл бұрын
For me the challenge here is the Bala brand and it's legacy. The Balas are not ready to be consumed or submissive to utat'uJafta. Loyiso brought up that there has to be clarity on utat'uJafta's role and advocates for a situation where the Balas would still carry their own legacy and make decisions at their level and their mother does hers at her level with utata without overstepping on them.
@yomie7026 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree with you. In preserving customs and tradition, it is customary for a children to follow the example of the mother who in turn is expected to be dutiful and submissive to the husband. The Bala siblings don't want that at all
@joyb3914 Жыл бұрын
i didn't know zwai is sot hot hot sleeperd and very rude...and he covers it very well from the outsiders..people inside took..am dissapointed, Jen,loyiso and the younger one they are very wise..i like..
@CAROS_FITNESS Жыл бұрын
In order for the Balas to sort their personal issues / differences with regards mama and Tata they don't need Jen to intervene for now until they have decided on the way forward.. zwai is correct right there there. Their wounds are still fresh and coused a lot of friction between them.
@waynesworldofpharmacy Жыл бұрын
Zwai and Pinky they are a problem to get this right they don't know what they want .Jen number one that's why they have a problem with her straight talk and it makes sense
@thandomaphumulo1385Ай бұрын
I love this family
@polokegomampane28482 ай бұрын
Zwai being emotional for nothing. Jen simply presenting an alternative view…so called Devil’s advocate. If you are a leader, you must CONSIDER ALL perspectives! Always! Then filter all of them to arrive @ a sound decision…or direction that has to be taken! You can’t just unilaterally decide ukuba this is the path & this is how we are moving…qha!
@sisandamabusela2803 Жыл бұрын
Lol love them kodwa bhuti Zwai no Sis wakhe
@Pearl_cooks Жыл бұрын
Why is Jen all of a sudden an outsider not family,such double standards really yet when a bride comes into de family we say we welcome a daughter into the family,why has it changed now
@monkisethojane2218 Жыл бұрын
100%
@ZoliswaMtsishe4 ай бұрын
Exactly my point 😅they only want uJen to be a part of the family when it suits them 😅and it's not fair
@zandiswantelezi1091 Жыл бұрын
Im Jen sherm i would have asked the same questions 😢its seems as if they don't wanna be challenged kule mbhanxo yabo
@zandilemthethwa6243 Жыл бұрын
If she not allowed to participate, why they discussing at her place
@LifeIsGood492 ай бұрын
I kinda understand where zwai and pinky were coming here...Jen's timing and comment was quite out of place, about Jafta's children. It's giving, she should have just tried to listen where they are coming from, but it seems a lot has been going on between them, so it's hard for her and zwai together with pinky to find each other on common ground.
@NtombikayiseNkosi-y7w Жыл бұрын
Pinky and Loyiso bayakhathaza yuu ! Jen is also a family member she should also comment if she has something to say.
@SiveZanie-rl8po10 ай бұрын
Pinky no Zwai chomie not uLoyiso
@maphefodikobo Жыл бұрын
Big brother is being too hash 😊😊
@masivuyencedo2 ай бұрын
Awaiting is so mean, my Gosh. Nooo
@nirimalanaidoo46072 ай бұрын
They need an intervention
@ngqiqosizwile7869Ай бұрын
Zwai always had a problem with Loyiso and Jen
@thabomol Жыл бұрын
They being unfair because bona are celebrities and the other family it's not so they want to shine alone for now......ya that's black people for you abafuni ukuphakamisa omnye umuntu
@thabomol Жыл бұрын
Zwai and Pinky in particular
@ThandiweNdala-o4f2 ай бұрын
Unyanisile nje ujen guys...
@lindokhumalo1744Ай бұрын
Uhmm no wonder Zwai and Melanie parted..Zwai is something..
@yomie7026 Жыл бұрын
uMama no tata Jafta bebajola prior to ukusweleka kwa Mrs. Jafta
@IreneZulu-q8k4 ай бұрын
Wh marry coloured
@amandaclbn83242 ай бұрын
Why not if they are in love
@n.a.n.a43602 ай бұрын
Jen oversteps and especially because she is not even aware of the cultural issues with the matter....
@VelaDlame2 ай бұрын
You have a problem of not finding a husband and you should find one
@NtombekhayaYali2 ай бұрын
Zwai end Pinky are 2much tjoooo
@CleopatraKikkieGwente3 ай бұрын
Ufana nabani uPhelo kle family??
@NtombekhayaYali2 ай бұрын
Uzothula njan Jen hay Pinki khawutshate
@AsuzMainlane2 ай бұрын
They divorced for a reason u zwai nale ntombi u sisi wabo.. Bullies its either their way or high way, loyiso is bullied emtshatweni wakhe, they actin like spoilt brats zwai n the sister, r bullyin their mom