Because a child in the womb is a human from conception, ending that life is murder. Thus, the mother is a murderer if she ends the life of the child. It's not that hard. It's not up to me to make someone more comfortable with that fact. No apostle was treated better because they withheld the "punches" of truth. Call sin, sin. In love, with gentleness. But this incrementalist attack on abolitionism is stupid. I personally struggled greatly with my vote this election because of this issue, but I ended up voting in agreement with incrementalist's reasoning. However, to attempt to pin the problem on abolitionism is missing the point and frankly, incorrect.