"Clutter is unmade decision!" Well said, I think this will help me help my hubby.
@shirleygermain57072 жыл бұрын
I started decluttering so my son wouldn't have so much to deal with after we passed and found that living with less gives me more life! It was eye-opening to see how much we had and what we didn't need in our life. Our home is a breeze to care for now while still living!
@solidstate94512 жыл бұрын
That's why I started to take pictures of my sentimental stuff and save the pictures in the cloud. A) When my house burns down I still have the memories, B) When I'm dead, they can just delete my account and don't have to deal with physical stuff.
@ivanpadilla44792 жыл бұрын
My mom passed away and I would have appreciated if she had done some decluttering. My brothers and me couldn’t decide what to keep and was important to her and us since there was so much. Side note is, I’m glad you’ve found it so helpful in your life too.
@solidstate94512 жыл бұрын
@@ivanpadilla4479 Keep what is important for you, not for her. She will not come back, so you don't have to store stuff for her. Give the stuff to somebody who uses it and appreciates it. I would not want to burden my children with usesless stuff. I would want them to be free.
@accenttunebyellie2 жыл бұрын
That is an amazing idea, well done! I'm sure it was difficult and emotional but you did A LOT, not only for yourself but for him. I plan to do the same when the time comes.
@shirleygermain57072 жыл бұрын
@@accenttunebyellie, I didn't find it difficult at all. My son took what he wanted, and my grandkids also. My memories are not their memories. I have what I love and use them daily now.
@moderndays.oldways26092 жыл бұрын
My hack is that every time we receive a box in the mail I challenge myself to fill it and then drop it at the donation center. I almost always let go of more than what I brought in. I also treat diaper boxes the same way😉
@BlondeQtie2 жыл бұрын
you must have a lot of stuff 😱 i decluttered my room yesterday and only got rid of a few old papers, small boxes (like the ones your phone comes in) and two books.
@janas1922 жыл бұрын
That’s a great idea! I think I’ll try this!
2 жыл бұрын
Damn I thought I was a unique genius for doing that, haha. Makes you think twice before ordering on amazon too ;)
@sandraoconnor57002 жыл бұрын
Very creative and helpful idea❤❤❤
@thegoldenzipper Жыл бұрын
🤯⚡️👌🏆
@ArtyAntics2 жыл бұрын
My 2 big ones are ‘If everything is precious, nothing is precious’ and the lesson I learnt when I lost my dad. I had 5 precious items he gave me, one being a photo of us. All of the items except for the photo were stolen or lost over the 20+ years and after loosing the last one I realised that the items didn’t hold the memories, I did. ‘If I keep my memories in objects, then they can be taken away, but if I store them in my heart they are mine forever’.
@haplesstoad2 жыл бұрын
I just love this.
@sleeplessinchicago9082 Жыл бұрын
The best way to preserve my daughter's childhood artwork was to frame it and use it as part of the house decor. It is beautiful, unique, and full of memories.
@corinnelee9965 Жыл бұрын
We were pretty good at staying on top of clutter except when it came to the holidays. All the extra gifts that came in from Santa, the grandparents, friends, etc. was very kind, but also overwhelming. We found ourselves drowning in clutter every January. So we came up with the rule “Santa can’t bring you new presents until you’ve let go of the old presents. Every year during the long Thanksgiving weekend we do a big “stuff” decluttering. We look for clothes that no longer fit, toys that we’re no longer playing with, books that we’re done reading, etc. and we donate them. We use the time to be thankful for joy the items have brought us, and grateful that we can pass them on to someone else. That way when December comes and the gifts starts rolling in we have plenty of room to enjoy our presents instead of feeling overwhelmed by them.
@sarahnelson8836 Жыл бұрын
Two things: one it’s never too late to get started decluttering Two- there’s a difference between clutter in motion (dishes in the sink, a project you are working on) and stagnant clutter (things you don’t even see anymore) this understanding is particularly helpful for those of us with ADHD since some level of clutter in motion is inevitable for us - but we can still reduce stagnant clutter and learn to deal with clutter in motion How to ADHD has a great video set on this
@Aagebymyside2 жыл бұрын
It’s me again! I find incredible joy when I give things away. Recently we gifted a leather sofa on Buy Nothing Easton PA. The people were SO happy. We could have sold it, but the money would not bring as much joy. They even posted a picture of them sitting in it with a thank you note on the buy nothing page! Win win
@healthylifeingredients62112 жыл бұрын
What helps me the MOST with decluttering is asking myself this: "would I box this item up and move it to a new house?". Thinking through the steps of boxing something up (finding a box, wrapping up so that it won't break or get damaged, tapping it, moving it, unboxing it, finding a home for it and then responsibly discarding the box). That's A LOT of work to keep an item that really doesn't serve me.
@alizaras2 жыл бұрын
Tip: If you struggle with the ability to declutter because of chronic illness, mental health, exhaustion or pain, start looking at what would save you energy or what prevents you from living your life smoothly. Do you constantly deal with overflow of dirty dishes in the kitchen? Pick your favourites and essentials and try to get rid of the rest. Also for those that struggle with illness or pain remember that it is okay if you cant resell, drive to donation store, recycle or similar. Try not to overwhelm yourself by being perfect or even doing what your healthy and well rested version would. If your only option is to keep it or throw it out and you would feel better if it went out in a garbage bag then throw it out. Baby steps is key, work in small areas. Pick an area that you can just pause if you feel unwell, a drawer or a shelf is a good start. Don’t get everything out on the table or floor, your health might not let you finish. Try to find some things that are extra consumables you wont use anytime soon as well as trash or broken items.
@amieshook24822 жыл бұрын
So helpful. I have a chronic condition and can’t start a whole declutter project. So I did a drawer and my husband took the small donation bag to donate. I felt accomplished. That’s all I can do for now. When I can, I will do more. For now, I won’t bring in more stuff.
@lindascull63272 жыл бұрын
@Alizara YESSSSSSS!!!Thank you!!!!
@alizaras2 жыл бұрын
@@amieshook2482 Happy you found it helpful 💛And that is awesome! True, it can be so rewarding, especially if you have someone else who can do the no-decisions-needed tasks 💛 Deciding what needs to go and what will stay can be rough enough
@solidstate94512 жыл бұрын
I dealt with depressions for the bigger part of my life. Additional I have severe pain issues and there are days I hardly leave bed because the pain is so exhausting. It is very calming for me to know that even when I spent several days in bed I can easily catch up the housework.
@ss-ht6uz2 жыл бұрын
@Alizara That was really helpful thanks for sharing your thoughts
@KawaiiCat2 Жыл бұрын
My dad passed away when I was a child. He was a piano teacher and artist that collected a lot of piano books and art books. He signed every book he owned in his collection. I had kept them for more then a decade because he owned them and had signed them and it was sentimental to that degree. I finally got rid of them, because they took up so much space but before doing so, I cut out his signature from the books to keep them as memory and kept everything in a box with his photos and some small things that reminded me of him. I love the idea of memory boxes especially for loved ones that have passed on. It helps us remember them but most importantly we remember the most important things about them that we can revisit whenever we want.
@solidstate94512 жыл бұрын
I put _everything_ from the kitchen in "time will tell"-boxes and stored them in the cellar. Not only the stuff I wasn't sure about. So I had to go to the cellar for every pot and every wooden spoon. It is very interesting how much you can refrain from when you have to take the stairs ... When it is easier to clean the pot than to go downstairs you'll notice that 2 pots are enough, for example. And you don't need 5 wooden spoons when you can clean the one you already have in your kitchen. Did the same with clothes.
@gwenj54192 жыл бұрын
Love this idea!
@june.w.12882 жыл бұрын
This is a really great tip!
@rebekahdeere2 жыл бұрын
Totally trying this! We have an attic instead of a cellar, but it will be just as annoying to retrieve things.
@mchmonster2 жыл бұрын
The time will tell bin is an idea from the minimal mom here on KZbin
@normanelson2332 жыл бұрын
That is a great idea, I’m trying that with my kitchen
@dawnforlife2 жыл бұрын
"Will I BUY this item now (if it were at a store)?" is a great question that helped me go through hand me down clothings for my 16 month old! I think it may work for any decluttering!? 😊
@frederiquedelage18312 жыл бұрын
"Remember that objects are not your loved ones" - SO SO powerful! Thanks a million
@margiemanns584310 ай бұрын
After my husband passed away, I took some of his shirts and pieced a nice quilt, and made matching pillow shams. I discarded a lot of his clothes, and passed some on to family members. I now have this special memory quilt....but not all his clothing boxed up taking up space. I am still decluttering ,because I don't want my children to have to sort it all out when I pass. Things don't make us happy, the special people in our lives is where our happiness lies. I just found this video, and want to say - you are very inspiring. I subscribed and activated notifications. I'm looking forward to the next one.
@barbaracardoza97862 жыл бұрын
Yes. Decluttering "hack" number 9 always works for me. I imagine someone shopping at my favorite Goodwill store discovering my donation; and being filled with joy.
@dunjabakic4012 Жыл бұрын
Yeeeah, good idea :)
@Ripplesinthewaters2 жыл бұрын
I love the “Time Will Tell Bin”. That’s what Dawn from the Minimal Mom calls the quarantine bin. I can take an item out of the way and store it in the garage. If someone asks where it went, I can go get it. No one ever does. 😂
@AtoZenLife2 жыл бұрын
I love that we all have different names for the same thing. 😂
@Deb_Creamer2 жыл бұрын
@@AtoZenLife I think she changed the name due to the pandemic 🙈
@Saforra992 жыл бұрын
I seem to remember the "Time will tell bin" being more specifically for paper clutter, meaning papers that you may or may not need (Dawn often lists seed catalogs, coupons or paint samples as falling in this category) and that, when it starts getting full, you can look through + see if anything (usually at the bottom) has past the time of even potential usefulness :) That being said, Dawn has certainly also put things away in boxes to see if she or her family members miss them...maybe she called it a quarantine box? Either way, both are useful concepts! :)
@briannab52962 жыл бұрын
I've always called mine "The Use It Or Lose It" box.
@lovinglife39542 жыл бұрын
@@Saforra99 yes her Time Will Tell is for mail
@MariaSegovia2 жыл бұрын
OMG! Can I say I started crying when you mentioned me on Tip#3? Thank you for reading our comments! This really means a lot to me :)
@LI22IEEE2 жыл бұрын
My top hack is to just do it. Just get started. Decluttering only one thing is still better than keeping everything.
@theinnerworkclub6060 Жыл бұрын
❤🎉
@Lynnrazz22 жыл бұрын
I'm so late to this community, but I'm so glad I've found you! My top hack is kinda digital... when I think I want to bring something into my home, I put it in my website vendor store basket, and then close the site and get busy with other things. If, the next day, I'm still thinking about that item, I will go to the site, and complete the purchase. Often, my desire to purchase something is about feeling great about buying something, not the thing itself. So, I've spent the pandemic decluttering from the last 30 years - when we first got married and joined households. Now, we're in a looking-at-retirement-phase and the decluttering is necessary. I'm grateful for the time the pandemic gave us to declutter and that one purchase hack to prevent unnecessary items from coming into our home. xo ;-)
@nanettelamb1519 Жыл бұрын
My decluttering hack is to create limits or boundaries for specific items. For example, I allow myself one shelf of books, one small bin of workout clothes, one small box of creative materials like paint, glue, brushes. I also don't duplicate clothing items: one black t-shirt with short sleeves, one black turtleneck, for example, not multiples. I always tell myself I have just one body, so I only need one black t-shirt at a time.
@nikkibadzik39489 ай бұрын
This is what Dana k White from a slob comes clean calls "the container concept". It's helped me so much.
@dorotapikula3442 Жыл бұрын
One of my besties helped me combine my 2 storages into 1 and her tip was this - Rule of 20. Can it be replaced in 20 min or less? If so, get rid of it. Can it be replaced for $20 or less? If so, get rid of it. Of course there are exceptions such as sentimental items or expensive items. But honestly, this helped me so much when I was going through stuff.
@lindamcdermott81572 жыл бұрын
I have a donation basket in my linen closet, whatever I have that I don’t use/wear, etc. goes in the basket. When it is full, I transfer everything to a large garbage bag and take it to the donation center. The time it spends in the basket, serves as a quarantine time. I have never missed anything and took it out. It comforts parting with things. I store clothes, crafts, and everything I have in canvas cubes. When decluttering, I can tackle just one cube at a time. There is great satisfaction to reducing the contents. And greater joy in having empty cubes.
@ninnymuggins5159Ай бұрын
Hello from the future. October 2024 you have 320K subscribers. Way to GROW!
@samramsey11422 жыл бұрын
Right now in my phase of life I am focusing on "loving one item twice as much" from fumio sasaki. It really helps me with things like plants because instead of 5 that are alive I can have 1 that thrives.
@tacopie3102 жыл бұрын
You..got..rid..of plants?! I'll see myself out, thanks. I smell cult.
@samramsey11422 жыл бұрын
@@tacopie310 😅😂🤣
@georgialush82819 ай бұрын
I take the ‘one in one out’ rule and raise it! ‘One in two out’ is my rule. That’s way I’m downsizing rather than just maintaining.
@npigwnl2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on 100,000 subscribers! The #1 question that helps me declutter is “If I had rented this item, and it was time to return it, would I mind? Would I want to continue to spend money to hang on to it?”
@Saforra992 жыл бұрын
ooh, that's a fun spin on the idea of spending money on it! I like it :)
@theinnerworkclub6060 Жыл бұрын
Ooh that one is going to help me a ton! Thanks so much!!!! ❤❤❤
@roselewis14262 жыл бұрын
Favorite is the donation spot in each closet for kids to declutter as they put grow items and clothing.
@sarahfuller80082 жыл бұрын
I work a room in a circle when I clean. I pick a starting point and work around until the entire room is clean. Makes most jobs easy!
@paulajames61492 жыл бұрын
When I feel overwelmed, I pick out what I want to keep and get rid of the rest. Makes decluttering easy and quick. Having habits and systems to keep clutter out is also needed.
@carnivore_princess2 жыл бұрын
I made a photo collage of all of my childhood memories and hung it up on my bedroom wall. I also keep a back up of some photos in case a natural disaster happens so that I don't lose any of my old photos and can make a new collage. When decluttering items in my home I usually will clean as well because when cleaning an area of the house you will sometimes find things that you totally forgot about and don't need.
@nanettelamb1519 Жыл бұрын
For sentimental items, I take them on a Victory Tour (one last use in a fabulous and memorable way) before letting them go! Tablecloths, special serving pieces, for example, got Victory Tours for special meals, then buh-buy!!
@mjadler20962 жыл бұрын
Oh, also I very much advocate using things up and making a plan to really get through them. It's more environmentally friendly (so much of donated stuff ends in landfill) and it'll save you money. I googled recipes for unusual ingredients and used up sample packs of face creams and hotel shower gels. I actually ended up finding a new favourite face cream through it. The cheapest and most sustainable choice is using what you already have :)
@jeannavisser59944 ай бұрын
I really like your suggestions, they are more helpful than a bonfire. thank you for sharing.
@AtoZenLife4 ай бұрын
Glad we got past the bonfire 🔥 idea 😉
@lannahparedes29732 жыл бұрын
My favorite tips from the Minimal Mom: This idea of "inventory" - how much do YOU realistically want to manage every single day? 100K things? 200K things? Then I saw from one of her video the idea of the "silent to-do list" - everything in your house is silently adding to your to-do list. When are you going to work out (equipment stuff/work out clothes), When are you going to lose weight (clothes that are too small), When are you going to pick me up (kids toys). Not worth the mental energy drain. Another thing is whether you want to "DEAL" with the item again in 3/6/9 months when you re-declutter again.
@leonidasreviews29122 жыл бұрын
Declutter clothing on laundry day. Most of your favorite items are dirty so whatever is clean is fair game to be donated.
@AtoZenLife2 жыл бұрын
That’s a good one!
@lauraramosdelgado2 жыл бұрын
"Your objects are not your loved ones" OMG, this one resonated so deep with me right now. My dad passed away when I was 17. One of his last gifts was a queen bed I STILL USE. My partner and I have been thinking about getting a King size one to be more comfortable. But, I keep the idea of keeping my actual set because of the memories of my dad. It is/has been so hard. I understand he is not around anymore and the items will not bring him back so I think I need to process these emotions and made peace with the past. Love your videos.
@ginagallo57432 жыл бұрын
Buy the King bed and use the Queen bed in your guest room. Or if you don’t have a guest room, maybe give it to a family member for their guest room. My bestie gave me a hutch that she couldn’t use of her mother’s. That way, she knows that it’s still in the family, but isn’t cluttering her home.
@lauraramosdelgado2 жыл бұрын
@@ginagallo5743 Thank you so much for the suggestion Gina. I definitely appreciate you taking the time to do so. I know is a long time coming thing because we deserve to be more comfortable. I love thinking someone else could be treasuring the set. Many blessings, Laura
@mjadler20962 жыл бұрын
When I started decluttering, I started with the lowest-value items first; I had a hard time with toiletries and clothes as I felt like I'd paid so much for them. So I started with cheaper items with less monetary value so I could feel like I wasn't "wasting" money. It got easier!
@erinl79302 жыл бұрын
I am in the process of cleaning out several bins of photos and memorabilia that have been sitting in my basement for years. Its a daunting task but I have been sorting out things that belong to each family member and giving it to them to decide its fate. Its amazing what they choose to keep and toss. I feel so much better knowing that I alone do not have to be the keeper of all the family memories!
@ciannacoleman51252 жыл бұрын
I have been using fabric for immediate family gift wrapping for years. Only reason I don't for others is I usually use fabrics that I plan on using for other projects. I love that the wrapping is both pretty and completely reusable.
@nespeculate2 жыл бұрын
My decluttering tip is to declutter "ONE" per day ... and that "ONE" can change depending on your energy and focus each day. For example, if I'm feeling SUPER motivated, I would declutter "ONE" - dozen garbage-bagfuls of garbage and donatables in a day. Or for a decent energy day, I will declutter "ONE" - bagful of items, and that bag size can be as big or small as you decide. For a low energy day, I'll declutter "ONE" - small drawer or even one section of a drawer/cabinet. On a day I'm just not feeling it, AT ALL, I will still declutter "ONE" item ... even if its an old eyeshadow palatte I'm just not feeling anymore. This keeps me on a positivie streak and allows for the ebb and flow of energy, effort, and time you can give as it changes with the demands of life.
@IQSim2 жыл бұрын
I realized that a lot of my clutter was stuff that people gifted me. So I’ve been trying to tell them what I actually might need. And I learned that you could get rid of those things without having to feel bad.
@hobbyhopper3143 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, this didn’t work out too well for me. I gave something away that was made in a foreign country for me. Not SIX month later this relative of a relative moved to the United States about 30 miles away from me. It’s BOUND to come up. 😢
@thegoldenzipper Жыл бұрын
Wow this hits home for me. I feel rude or unappreciative when I give away a gift. This has also happened in reverse: a beautiful handmade blanket I hauled in my luggage from Viet Nam and gave as a gift to my neice. Well, if I had known her better or asked her, I would have known it didn’t suit her style at all. Truth is I wanted that blanket and I wanted my neice to know how special she is by giving it to her. Big lessons learned, thank you for your comment that helped me to make this connection and give myself permission to let go of gifts. 👏👏👏👏👏
@myconfusedmerriment2 жыл бұрын
The tip that's been most helpful for me is to start by pulling out your favorites or essentials in a category and going from there. That really sets the tone for me, because I immediately identify the things that are the best quality or the most important to me, and decide what deserves to stay based on that barometer. It also helps me see the volume of stuff that I DON'T feel that same enthusiasm for, and then I don't feel bad about giving them away, because I've already pulled out the things I would choose first every time.
@meisjeViv2 жыл бұрын
Yes! I also really like to focus on 'what do I want IN my life' (as opposed to focusing on what needs to go). That's actually what made the KonMari method work so well for me.
@merry.minimalism2 жыл бұрын
Drawing a picture is a genius idea and will be more meaningful to me than taking a picture. Love it
@Claire-fq3lq2 жыл бұрын
My number one decluttering hack is to listen to one of your video while decluttering!! I love it, you help me a lot to get motivated and in a happy mood. It feels like you’re here as a friend. Thanks a lot for all your tips and videos. xx from France :)
@suzi437 Жыл бұрын
My gosh, I do that, too! She's so motivational!
@sallydansereau12702 жыл бұрын
My tip is to go for progress not perfection. It takes time to get good declutter habits, but bit by bit it comes. So worth it.
@moniousova2 жыл бұрын
congratulations!! my favourite hack, that I discovered recently, is a simple question, that goes after the usual "do I really need this?" if you're not sure, ask another question: "what would I do, if I didn't have this?" If you can use something else instead, you don't really need it and can declutter!
@AtoZenLife2 жыл бұрын
Good question!
@rivkachakimi15062 жыл бұрын
This is so true. Amazing. I have 9 kids and letting your kids realize how to be tidy and keep onlyou what theyou need is so important. Buy only what i need 2. And don't have. Then you have what you need. Keep it up and thank you!!
@heutegibtsnudeln92332 жыл бұрын
I love that little foot coming up behind you, while you’re talking 💚
@AtoZenLife2 жыл бұрын
😂 I didn’t even notice I was doing it!
@Es24688 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been giving myself the time to explore what my style is and what I truly like or don’t like. This has involved a lot of looking up style inspiration online or window shopping clothes online to see what’s out there. I’ve also been forcing myself to use what I have to see if I want to use it or can live without it. This involves wearing what makeup I have most days of making myself wear everything in my closet I’m on the fence about.
@lasagnasquare56042 жыл бұрын
I've started to only allow purchases, when I've cleared and designated a space to the item now. To let go of some guilt, it has helped me to just talk about it with my partner and try to "argue" why said item should be in our home. This conversation often stops half way with me saying "oh, it's only taking up space. it needs to go". Also postive reinforcement has helped me. As in: showing my accomplished area and being praised for it. It started small and when I realised it only impacted my life positively. It helped me to let go more.
@dawnforlife2 жыл бұрын
Had to pause to comment! I like high volume items! The thing is, I think when we start with small volume items, it feels like we have been working all day and we see NO DIFFERENCE! SEEING the difference and more FEELING it, can be such a motivator! I'm so excited hence the exclamations! I started following when I saw how much a small youtuber makes (me, still small), so congrats for your success! You did it so good because you as so SO niche and focused! I'm finding my way and it's taking forever but I guess like decluttering, better have started than never! 😆
@byusaranicole Жыл бұрын
When you mentioned donating parts, I immediately thought of a tiny pot and pan that came with a set I got for my wedding almost 20 years ago. I've only used each of them maybe once in all these years because they're just too small. I went and pulled them out and put them directly into my donate box!
@Appika2 жыл бұрын
I have a big cardboard box in my storage room on our first floor where I put everything to be donated whenever I find something in daily life. When it's full, I take it to the donation center. That's always such a great feeling 😄👍🏻
@megand81482 жыл бұрын
The sentimental de-cluttering is going slowly, but I'm pretty happy with what has left the house so far. One of the other tips I keep in mind when decluttering is "if my house burned down, is this something I would replace?".
@AtoZenLife2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful tip! ✨
@dobycorder3206 Жыл бұрын
...thanks for this, but in my case, if it burned I could not replace it... artwork, pictures and family items that I love. Yes, emotional ly attached to stuff. 😅
@Spark_Joy_With_Lydia Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing all those amazing tips to everyone! They all help so much! The hint of getting rid of high volume things first is my favourite. 😊
@smitasha2 жыл бұрын
I included my daughter in this decluttering process. I asked her to make room in her closet by donating/rejecting few items before buying something new....So she became more mindful in buying her toys Nd dresses....thank you for your valuable tips
@AtoZenLife2 жыл бұрын
That’s wonderful, you are teaching her important life skills AND about herself and her choices and feelings - well done! 🙌
@jerushacarlson2 жыл бұрын
My top decluttering tips are: 1: Have an established donate place. For us, it’s a box or bin next to the door leading to our garage. 2: When said box is full, bring it right to the car, so you don’t “forget it” on your next trip to shop. Make it your first thing to do so you have space for groceries etc. 3: Keep in mind, you have to live with your home. So what stays or doesn’t isn’t anyone else’s problem. Sometimes they need to be told as much, and that will be either the end of the relationship (toxic relationship decluttering!) or they’ll get over the fact that you didn’t keep the thing they didn’t want in their home.
@jobryant5831 Жыл бұрын
Im in my senior years. Binge watching decluttering and Organizations videos has been an awesome tool to getting and keeping my home easier to manage.
@y.a.44642 жыл бұрын
4:42 the boys room is so cozy. reminds me of waking up on a saturday morning, grabbing some cereal, and watching cartoons with the sunlight pouring in
@ashannhow2 жыл бұрын
I think the biggest decluttering hack that's helped me with clothing is asking "Why am I holding onto this? Is it sentimental, seasonal, or because I like the idea of owning/wearing it?" This has massively changed my closet! I've probably donated 30% of my wardrobe with this question! Your journey has helped me so much because I can be emotionally driven sometimes by my purchases or holding onto items. Something else that's really helped me when bringing items in is asking "Can I wear this with more than 1 outfit? Is it easy to wash/will the fabric shed onto other clothes?" This has prevented me from buying SEVERAL items because I hate dealing with fuzz all over clothes when only one item is fuzzy. Thank you so much for being such a great support and continuously showing us what your journey looks like. I'm sure there are days or moments that you don't want to, but what you have shared has truly made a difference. I've suggested your channel to many people wanting to begin their journey of decluttering, my hope is that they take a moment to join the fam! I hope you and your family are well! Happy New Year!
@jennybird27702 жыл бұрын
When going about my day I look for a few things to declutter when I just happen to be in a room. This adds up to big change. For example, when i'm brushing my teeth in the bathroom i'll check the bathroom cabinet for anything we don't use, or when taking a shower, i'll check for products don't use. Check a pantry shelf in the kitchen when waiting for my meal to cook, etc. I guess it's kind of the onion method, but just decluttering a bit as I go about my day in what room i'm naturally in.
@gwenj54192 жыл бұрын
I've been doing this with paper. Whenever I file something, I go through that file folder to see if there's anything I no longer need.
@jennybird27702 жыл бұрын
@@gwenj5419 ooo! Excellent idea :)
@DavidDavisDH2 жыл бұрын
I started by just stop buying stuff when I'm bored and try to use up what I already have first. The right mindset is needed. I started decluttering and then stop unnecessary items from coming in.
@AutumnVine101 Жыл бұрын
Just keep going. Small steps leads to a different life over a time.
@theinnerworkclub6060 Жыл бұрын
❤🎉
@louiseash57052 жыл бұрын
Well deserved getting to 100k 👏👏 my 2 favourites are 'don't put it down put it away' from kirsty and Amy from the Art of decluttering podcast and also using small windows of time like when the microwave is on for 2 mins, or the 5 mins before school pickup to wipe down the sink/ go through the 'junk' drawer / fold some washing etc
@demianaanis96242 жыл бұрын
Your channel is a treasure for me, thank you so much for being such person, I learn a lot from you!
@Lizzy436452 жыл бұрын
My “hack” is to not worry about keeping junk in the car. Meaning if I found something I want to part with and needs to go to Savers I put it in the car right away. Whenever I drive somewhere near the drop off site I swing by and drop off everything - no matter how big or small the pile is
@AtoZenLife2 жыл бұрын
Nice one! 🙌
@gracesimplified38602 жыл бұрын
Same here!
@meisjeViv2 жыл бұрын
Wish I could do this but my car has the tiniest booth and also it is parked not right at my home 🙃 so I'll have to settle for the 'donation box in the closet' thing. Luckily that works as well
@denaclements39362 жыл бұрын
I do that one and it helps
@jessicabrown69432 жыл бұрын
I love these ideas!! I too am a recovering emotional hoarder. I was emotionally attached to so many sentimental things and felt I had to keep them ALL. I’ve been decluttering for about 9 months now and I’m doing so much better.
@MariaSegovia2 жыл бұрын
Another organizing tip for me has been this: When we let go of things we can have the confidence that by making space in our home we are also making space emotionally for new experiences and opportunities to come into our lives. We have experiencing this first hand.
@tanyak22202 жыл бұрын
I started an 'outbox' in a ikea kallax cube right near the door where we go out to the car. I have 2 friends I hand down clothes to so I pass made one box for items to go to them and then the other is for charity. We have a childrens charity where stuff goes directly to the families in need so all kid stuff goes there. Then household items go to the charity shop.
@Woeschhuesli2 жыл бұрын
Time solved my problem to some extent - I had a weakness for lovely deco items I had been buying to beautify my home. And gradually decluttering. But now, what is in the stores has all been there before in the last 25 years - so either I've decluttered it (and therefore no longer wanted it...) or have just already "seen" it, or else I have inherited the "real thing" over the years from older relatives (antique china, silver, glass...that I use everyday)!! Now I can browse without buying.
@effinxrightt2 жыл бұрын
Yes on the clutter basket! I keep one in our laundry room(which is right off of the dining room and kitchen) and one in our bedroom. Makes life much easier when we decide to get rid of things, they go right in the basket and when it’s full, I box or bag up the items for donation and set them aside for our next trip.
@keturahmash93292 жыл бұрын
Choose a small "bite" of space, set a timer and have a go! One draw or one shelf at a time. When the task seems the size of an elephant and needs to be eaten, how do you do it? One "bite" at a time. ❤ your channel ❤ you rock ❤
@kaw84732 жыл бұрын
You don't understand how clutter affects you until you have to watch older relatives spend their final days just dealing with their garage and basement packed floor to ceiling with stuff. The best gift you can give is professional cleaning services for the older people in your life.
@alicjadzierzak3822 жыл бұрын
I made a long 'To declutter' list on my phone, with everything I want to declutter. I categorized all items - books, dishes, clothing etc. Then I startet from the biggest and most valuable - so I have space and money 😊 And from the cheapest - which I donated because is not worth my effort to deal with that. And now I can see the list of every single item I want to declutter without making a big mess in my home 😊 And almost every day I pick up some items, make picture and put it in the 2nd hand platform.
@Saforra992 жыл бұрын
That sounds like a good way to do things :) I too have, at various times, made lists of things I know I want to declutter/downsize + that has helped me then actually do it :)
@krijoe34332 жыл бұрын
I just started giving myself freedom to not be the keeper of dead people things! I know it might sound morbid but instead of this was my grandma's or mom's or my aunts and etc. It really helped me to think they are dead so they can't be upset if I don't Keep it. And they really wouldn't want me stressing over this thing that they probably kept and didn't really like anyways (which is why they probably gave it to me why the was alive) . So I am no longer the keeper of the dead peoples things... unless I love it!
@khameronevans2 жыл бұрын
I’m currently decluttering and beginning my minimalist journey! Right now, I’m learning to let things go in time/ over time and to not rush toward an aesthetic or particular number of items. It can be super draining, especially when I have an emotional attachment to an item. I give myself more time to find peace in letting these things go. I do, in fact, have a single pause box!
@thecountrychickadee2 жыл бұрын
What has helped me is using a timer 15 minutes to attack a task or space. Declutter a little everyday. Things are always coming in, so they need to consistently be going out out home. Love your videos Marissa! Congratulations on 100,000 subscribers!
@elizabetharaujo13232 жыл бұрын
Although my husband has gotten a few different phones over the years it was a great way for me to accumulate those really nice phone boxes for drawer organization. He no longer has the phones but I still use those boxes all these years later lol
@faithhomeschool27892 жыл бұрын
I get rid of high volume items too that is how we started our minimal things journey like why have 2 dining tables that only get used during family gatherings. Furniture was our first step. Also heard from Joshua Becker back in the day "stage your home for living not for selling" that has been a game changer.
@sarahb53252 жыл бұрын
I'm moving in with my hoarder dad and definitely have some hoarding tendencies myself - I'm so glad to find your channel! This is giving me a lot of hope and motivation to declutter my own family's possessions and potentially helping my dad with his (if he's okay with it). Thank you for your tips and wish me luck as I binge your videos in prep for the move!
@ursulahansen74782 жыл бұрын
I am an emotional hoarder as well. I am learning and growing as I have moved to let go of clothes that I don't like or wear. I "shop my closet" to make outfits and have found what I like and don't like. I have an inventory sheet for makeup, jewelry and clothing in my planner. I will take stats every quarter so I can see where my #s are. I'm starting small but it is helping.
@briannab52962 жыл бұрын
What a neat idea! I'd enjoy seeing a sample of your inventory sheets.
@AM-ln7op2 жыл бұрын
That hoodie really suits you, hue is very nice for your complexion
@angelamelum43042 жыл бұрын
I call my bin a time out bin. One thing that helps is having a ‘wish list’ of things I think I need. I don’t buy right away typically taking several months to really think about them. I often find the longer I think about them the more I realize I don’t need them.
@jonihanna64492 жыл бұрын
This has helped me tremendously!
@Saforra992 жыл бұрын
Yes, I've really benefited from having a wish list too -- I don't normally impulse shop anyway, but it has helped me to remember the things I've been needing (esp. when I am at the thrift store I can look intentionally :) any perhaps come out empty-handed, because nothing was there from my list :D )
@vivianhudacek1556 Жыл бұрын
Great tips! Going to re-watch & take notes.
@TanyaGonzalezPhotos Жыл бұрын
When I go on a rampage, I say get rid of it, if I really need it I'll just buy it again. Guess what, I forget about it and never buy it but it gives me peace knowing its ok to get rid of material things. Thank you for all the tips!
@ma100742422 жыл бұрын
Something simple I have been doing is putting our toaster in a cabinet after each use. Makes a big difference in the kitchen.
@TheCaitling Жыл бұрын
Totally agree with the one about decluttering the bulky things first. This is a reason why Konmari starts with clothing. You can make such an impact decluttering your closet first, that it gives you the fuel needed to plunge into the rest of the project. Small, sentimental items like photos and knick-knacks are absolute last on the list because they're such slow going and you need to really hone your mind before you jump in, but I find many sentimental items tend to be small and easy to just hang onto despite not really loving them. Interestingly, I have also done this in the other direction: getting rid of lots of small things to make space for a big thing that I really want. My reasoning is that if I change my mind on the big thing, it is only ONE item I'll need to pass along to someone else or sell, versus all the small things that take tons of time and are slow to move out of your life.
@vivcatmickymaus4482 Жыл бұрын
In the region where I live we use "to give away"-boxes. You take a cardboard, collect the things you do not longer need in the cardboard and when it's full enough you place on the sidewalk in front of your house and put a sticker on it "to give away". Now everyone who passes by can have a look and take what they like. So you don't have to check where you can donate your things or drive somewhere. Everyone does it here. Last time my cardboard was empty after 1 day - usally the people leave the cardboard so you can use it again next time😉 PS: I really love your idea of the memory box! Think I will get 1 for me. I don't have a lot of big things I keep because of emotional aspect, but I think it's good the keep all my small things like letters, concert tickets and so on at one place with having a good overview about what I have. 😊
@kerriecampbell30882 жыл бұрын
Freezing your spending is a great way to begin each New Year! We've done this for years and we always look forward to the challenge and the rewards. Really makes you mindful of your spending habits which usually results in your excess clutter decreasing as well:)
@isabelwall17142 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the refresher, I started decluttering about six months ago and made HUGE progress. After Christmas and Birthdays it seems we are right back to the beginning. I’m a clutter bug but also I get very overwhelmed seeing all the things lying around my home. I hope to get up and start again.
@kaylachristensen2 жыл бұрын
I'm just starting my decluttering journey and these tips are super helpful so thank you everyone ❤️
@jasminm87842 жыл бұрын
Oh Marissa, congratulations! My heart is so happy for you, you deserve it so much
@AtoZenLife2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Jasmin!
@olgako678 Жыл бұрын
Hello Marissa, I am pretty new subscriber and keep "catching up" on the videos that are a year old or even more... I really enjoy, and took the decluttering as a project. I am totally not a minimalist and I do not think I will call myself like this, but some good decluttering, organization for what left and overall refresh - is great from time to time. I was waiting till the end of the video to see if you add the hack I would like to suggest. Maybe the closest hack was the first one in the list - allow yourself to let go. And to make it easier (for those who doubts) I always say "thank you, you`ve served me well" to every piece I rid of. Because this item wasn`t always a clutter or trash, once it was a useful item that probably helped to manage something in my life. Saying it short: be thankful to the items you let go. 💚💚💚
@jmsl_910 Жыл бұрын
love hanging out with you! looks like you blew AWAY the algorithm!!!! great job
@AtoZenLife Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much and happy to have you here ☺️
@marisacooper53642 жыл бұрын
I truly appreciate your message and humor, it’s a delight to follow you. I giggle because in the minimalist videos, the sound echos as the rooms are so empty. I am just beginning to tackle our clutter (which includes my mother in laws as well); I’m finding a reasonable middle ground, and beginning to feel the freeing feelings of letting go while understanding my clutter habits and how to change them 💕
@teresakistler87622 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Marissa on 100k subscribers (now103k!)🎉 My hack is that when I’m decluttering things I’ll take them to my work (for example, extra Christmas decorations, paper plates/cutlery, mugs for the work kitchen, sweets and cookies I want out of my house)!😉
@blubbblubb62392 жыл бұрын
hahaha I did that as well with coffee cups! :D We had a shortage in the office kitchen and I was decluttering mine... so I got rid of mine and could still use them for some time :D
@GRMichigander2 жыл бұрын
I've done this too! Even perfumes, etc. My co-workers thought Christmas came early!
@briannab52962 жыл бұрын
I did this with a dozen roses one time that were given to me. Rather than let them die & dry out all alone in my apartment, i gathered 12 cola cans, put a bit of water in them plus one rose each, set them in a box, took them to work and gave them to the other women employees one by one. One bouqet of roses made 13 people (including me) very happy 😉 and i didn't have them cluttering up my home as they withered away.
@pointoflight7332 Жыл бұрын
I have been watching your videos for around two weeks now. Today is the day for me. I am starting today and will declutter my cellar which is really, really full. This will be the first step. Thank you so much for motivating me. I feel so bad because I spent so much money buying all this clutter. I have a flat of 95 m², and it still feels like no space 🥴 I thought that I have to move into a bigger place, and now I think that I will solve the problem by making my space empty.
@AtoZenLife Жыл бұрын
Wishing you the best as you clear the clutter 💪
@pointoflight7332 Жыл бұрын
@@AtoZenLife thank you
@GRMichigander2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on 100K subs! I will add when I began decluttering back in 2014, I went out and bought ALL THE TOTES to 'organize' ALL THE THINGS! The Happy Day came when I decluttered the things and no longer needed the totes! ((EXHALE!))
@briannab52962 жыл бұрын
My bins, baskets, totes are actually the biggest part of my clutter piles!! 😖 but i LOVE them all just as much as the items they hold.
@EricaLucasLoves2 жыл бұрын
My favorite hack is my clutter basket hack! Quick tidy up room to room in a basket you already have, then return items to their place. Gives you a chance to declutter yo trash or donate as you go!
@AtoZenLife2 жыл бұрын
Makes it so much easier! 🙌
@GRMichigander2 жыл бұрын
I have a perpetual box just outside of my back door (inside my garage) that is for items that I am ready to donate. (next to my recycling....which needs to go cuz the pile is now overflowing lol!)