The Big Reveal! Our autistic and nonverbal son sees what Santa brought for Christmas!

Gabe is autistic and nonspeaking! It is typical for him to walk right by the Christmas tree on Christmas morning. For the first time Gabe sat and opened every present in one sitting! It normally takes us days or weeks!
Merry Christmas! #fortheloveofgabe
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[@Myjourneywmeadow]

Thank you for talking to him like his age. Treating him like an actual person. I’m a new follower. I’m autistic and was nonverbal until I was almost ten. Thank you so much. I love this family so much.

[@tommyreusse3858]

What was it that kept you nonverbal and why did it change at some point?

[@Myjourneywmeadow]

@@tommyreusse3858 lots of therapy helped me. Music therapy helped me the most.

[@Myjourneywmeadow]

@@balthasardenner5216 there’s actually a lady who is autistic. She’s in her 20’s, nonverbal and is a very famous author :) she has written a few books so far, and is incredible with her words. I’m not exactly sure how to explain it . I could read and write before I could vocally say my words.

[@midnightwriter79]

So wonderful to hear your perspective. My son is 6 and semi verbal. I also appreciate when people talk to him like a kindergartner and not a baby. Maybe he’ll be fully verbal some day, maybe not (that’s okay, too) but he’s still a “big boy” and deserves to be treated like one. ❤

[@catherinewilcox6173]

@@googleuser4530 could be a variety of things. Some people are physically unable. Sometimes it's neurological (like apraxia of speech). Sometimes it's developmental, though it can be hard to tell how much non-verbal people have going on in their minds if they can't express themselves. There are also disorders like selective mutism but even then they want to speak, they just are blocked. There are some people who prefer using technology rather than speech for communication but in this case they can speak but prefer not to. Non-verbal generally means unable to speak (or with very limited speech/verbal language capacity).

[@amygone2pot]

The best gift this boy has received is his loving mother. This was very special to share, thank you.

[@rachels9598]

I 2nd that!! My daughter has a 7yr old boy with autism. Patience is key. Bless those kids and their families!!

[@cazzaline1]

Mothers

[@sherryab3964]

First, let me say thank-you to the parents for the amazing job you do. This is 24/7. I also have autism and was diagnosed at 45. I’m now a nurse and therapist. In the 70s and 80s, there was no such support or even diagnosis for what is formally known as aspergers and ADHD. My parents did an amazing job with me emotional outbursts and meltdowns. I once had to correct a lecturer that nonverbal autism does not mean low intelligence! I also pointed out that everyone on the spectrum is a human being and should be regarded as such. Thank-you for sharing moments like these with us ❤❤❤❤

[@Jaycee555]

Hi Sherry, I’m 48 and know what you mean. My parents took me to be evaluated in the 70’s and they were told 1) I was a girl so I couldn’t have ADD (no H back then yet) … and 2) I spoke so I couldn’t be on the spectrum. Even though my main form of communication was drawing, because I spoke at home (never in public though) I was ruled out. It’s great that things have advanced to where they are now. My son is on the spectrum and had selective mutism but with countless hours of therapy since the age of 4 (he’s 13 now) he has made huge progress. They didn’t offer anything close to what they do now when we were kids. I just stumbled upon this video and I fell in love with this momma and Gabe. You can literally feel the love and support in this short clip! Happy New Year!

[@virginiaconnor8350]

Does your son Gabe use an electronic device to speak for him?

[@kathrynkat]

I was diagnosed with ADHD and Aspergers at a young age. I guess my aunt is who noticed it then doc appointments. I use to have melt downs and always been limited on friends. So my school days I was mostly a loner cuz I was weird and different to everyone and would just ignore mem or shrug me off. So I'd assume I was disliked and sat alone quietly allot unless had a group alike to me to chill with otherwise.. :/ Only my Junior and Senior years of high school I slowly started to make friends but still often was alone at lunch and after school. Only had 1 real relationship during school days. Which was just a part of my Senior year.. Mostly just got more a bit more mature by my last 1 and 2 years and was able to talk to just few more people maybe. I'm not good socializing with people unless there is a focused topic and someone that ain't annoyed of rambles. Otherwise I just alone. I even won't go to anime cons or big things alone even when my sister was going as she hated me being around even with my anxieties to be alone. I just know if I were ever single and to try and get out there.. I'd have to have legal rights to bring a companion pet even larger places like cons, not be charged to fly or travel with my cats. (my choice of self trained companion are my cats over my dogs. 1 Gets anxieties himself while younger is just a hyper bean that's not had chance to meet as many dogs to know how to interact calmly and quietly or not at all. I can stay calmer with my cats and stress easily with dogs. It also helps me interact with others more and feel more special cuz I'm able to train cats to handle going almost anywhere with me that I can bring them.) Sometimes feel like my only good life skills is art and training cats and nothing else extra special other than maybe good with kids but ain't a parent yet.

[@nancyzehr3679]

me too. thank you for speaking. i am 55. not so supportive family, but am ok! Happy New Year!

[@susancham6025]

You are wrong. Non verbal is absolutely related to severe cognitive impairment!!!

[@icuinthelight]

His mother is so thoughtful and patient with her son, she is the star on the Christmas tree!

[@cazzaline1]

Mothers

[@RunninUpThatHillh]

Stop correcting others. Addison was commenting on one mother only because there's only one mother with him in the video (with his other mom behind the camera). Geez.

[@trevordonaldson7634]

@@RunninUpThatHillh Sounds like being reminded there's two mothers upsets you. and for the record, any parent who is putting their minor (especially disabled) child onto the internet to make money off of their kids for "awareness" aren't really that great of parents. Children are entitled to privacy. Children are entitled to not having their lives put onto the internet for strangers to see. That goes especially double for children who cannot understand the implications and realities of putting your life out onto the internet.

[@samelis6546]

I didn't know what to expect from this video. So, I thought he didn't like the first present after opening it. Then, he smiled and did that little dance. And that was so wholesome. It's so interesting to see how different his interaction and way of communication could be as compared to ours.

[@empress2529]

Yeah, it seems that the happy situation is a little overwhelming, thus he stops and return to play with the band, and his whole body expresses happiness.... Emotion Modulation is one of many challenges which have in common kids with Autism & kids with ADD

[@edgegymnastics8409]

@@empress2529 my son is the same way

[@ilmwdsm]

Most kids or adults with autism have trouble with facial expressions

[@TheLuckyjoenga]

He is one fine looking and acting young man. You have every reason in the world to be proud of him. 😊

[@gracecheri997]

Children who have autism are usually very smart and kind. Although Prompt Therapy is usually for people who have Aproxia, l have seen work in certain types of Autism.

[@januarybaby]

Finally, a KZbin mom who looks like a real mom. Thanks. From the rest of us mother's. ♥️

[@aprilfisher4947]

All you tube mummies are real mums and those who take care of themselves good for them!

[@januarybaby]

@@aprilfisher4947 The KZbin comment section might not be the right place for you. This is where everyone gets to say what they want regardless of if you agree or not.

[@emily3]

@@januarybaby and they’re allowed to reply, that’s the point as well.

[@januarybaby]

@@emily3 looks like KZbin is tough for you too.

[@emily3]

@@januarybaby you’re the only one crying about people replying 💀

[@mamabear8555]

He is so Beautiful! I had tears in my eyes when I saw him smile! I miss working with my Autistic students! Each one of them touched my life forever.

[@barbrice721]

Bless you and those that work with these children. The patience and love you give to them is appreciated more than you know. My Grandson loves his Miss Mia. Thank You.

[@mamabear8555]

@@barbrice721 Awwww! And I always thank the families for trusting me with their precious children! It's an honor!

[@donagaleta]

Love this boy, love the way he moves, walking gracefully down the stairs, sitting with elegance ☺️... My autistic son is now 19 and he talks, but his reactions when he was a little kid in front of the Christmas gifts were almost the same 😅😍🥰. Congratulations, you are a wonderful family ❤️🎄

[@littlemissshihtzu]

Gabe's smile is everything! 🥰

[@14caz68]

❤❤❤

[@ella-vm6vf]

I have an adult son with Autism, he is verbal but the hand movements, the walking back and forth is the same. He will turn 30 this spring and his greatest joy is Pokemon and baseball cards. You are doing a great job with your young man. God bless your family.

[@a..c..2469]

The smile was more beautiful than Christmas morning❤️

[@traceephenix623]

The autism spectrum is so vast. My husbands son is a high functioning autistic young man of 26 years old. He is amazing and also non verbal. He is very intelligent just like your young boy. He is unsure of people he doesn’t know, understandably, but once he gets to know you he opens up a bit. He can feed himself, dress himself, brushes teeth he even cooks the easy stuff when under supervision, plus many other important duties including cleaning his room (somewhat) and loves to do puzzles. Oh, and he laughs and smiles as well. There is nothing more beautiful than that emotional connection and those hard to form feelings coming out in the personality that makes these kids who they are during their lifetimes. I am truly honored to be a part of that development and his life. I enjoy every moment.

[@VCountess]

My 20 yr old son is verbal but had trouble with speech until he was 10. He's had challenges but Ive always worked hard (and still do)in teaching him how to be as independent as possible. He can cook simple meals and do small chores at home. It hasnt always been easy, but he's come a long way. He graduated high school in 2020 but is still there learning job skills. He works a couple hrs each day in the cafeteria. He may not be able to fully be on his own, but I've always taught him that there's nothing he can't do as long as he tries. I couldn't be more proud. And he still believes in Santa. :)

[@dreamthedream8929]

but dressing themselves, cooking, cleaning teeth and cleaning in general are basic things, why would that be worth mentioning or why wouldnt he be able to do something like that? also a lot of autistic people have no problem with such basics at all, in fact not doing them would make them feel bad which just makes sense in general

[@petlover0231]

I am Autistic as well and while I am verbal and may not have all the same challenges that Gabe has I still notice some similarities between us especially in the way he walks down the stairs and it warms my heart! Hope you guys had a Merry Christmas and have a happy New year! ❤️

[@marktegrotenhuis]

Talking about autism and stairs: At home I only walk up the stairs like normal people when I'm trying to be quiet when going to bed while my parents are already in bed or when I am carying something big or heavy. But in any other case I will run up our 12 step stairs only placing my feet on the even steps (2, 4, 6, 8, 10 and 12 aka the floor).

[@gracecheri997]

A Beautiful Boy and wonderful video.

[@catherinetiernan5888]

He is magical. Hard work,frustrating, and sometimes sad but that smile is magical. Such a handsome boy. I'm a grand aunt to two ,one boy, one girl with autism,one verbal one not. It's a surprise everytime we meet. Keep doing what ye are doing because he is a happy boy.

[@hahr2751]

You just have to love this young man. He touches my ❤️

[@kerryquinn6218]

I've never seen one of your videos before and this one popped up today. I'm not very familiar with autism but I know routine etc is essential. That must make the upheaval etc which comes with Christmas a bit unsettling for your son. He has the most beautiful smile and it was a joy to see it, he's a very handsome young man. Happy New Year to you and your family from Northern Ireland.

[@midnightwriter79]

I can’t speak for this family, but my son gets a combination of happy/excited/overwhelmed around Christmas. He looks forward to the festive decorations and music, etc, but the change in regular activities can bring on more outbursts. He handles it a little better each year.

[@dreamthedream8929]

arent you autistic yourself? a lot of people are! you may be more familiar with it then you think

[@mikealalee2889]

What a sweet and handsome boy! He almost couldn't handle having to pick just one present! The turn around like oh man so many options! Lol bless you guys.

[@lindalauragouws4703]

My grandson is also autistic and non verbal. Bless his soul. 🙏

[@garycooper9207]

He was so excited ❤️ My daughter also is on spectrum, verbal but special in her own way. After Christmas she said too hard to have celebrations and said easier to have average normal days 😆 but she had fun on Christmas.

[@rachelcastaneda1381]

You have a handsome son and you don’t talk down to him which is wonderful 💙 May he continue to hear everyone talk to him and he can talk with you one day 🙏🏻💙

[@benholmes4328]

The look in his eyes and change in his body language when he finally prossessed the moment was beautiful

[@karenfitzpatrick6256]

Oh, to have half the energy of children! I hope your family continues to have a wonderful Christmas Day!

[@kenhartman9981]

🎄 Hello 😊 Karen ❤️ how 💞 are 🎄 you 😊 doing ❤️, Merry 💞 Christmas 🎄 to 😊 you 🎄😊❤️💞

[@prissilou]

When watching this video, I didn't expect to be so overcome. We have raised 2 special needs granddaughters, one of which has been diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder, but I see we are blessed that they are higher functioning. God bless you guys and Merry Christmas!

[@alisha8586]

I have a non verbal autistic son he just turned 5 seeing him open his gifts reminded me of my son they show excitement in a different way but it's such a great video to watch made me happy

[@evelynberkowitz8134]

I had a son just like this, he passed away nearly 3 years ago. Sending much love and light.

[@5thribroarn304]

A Hug for You. 💕 So sorry for your loss.

[@shantalynn]

May the light and love you send return to you from everywhere, many times over to hold you in comfort in the face of your loss.

[@evelynberkowitz8134]

To all you who share my sorrow know that he is now whole . He helped me become a better more understanding and compassionate person. Bless all of you. Thanku

[@kimparfitt1409]

🧡♥️❤️

[@moanahughes3593]

Well done family for supporting your young man to enjoy and participate in special events...so much time, energy, patience and keeping your spirits up for him! Heroes 💜

[@malhughes]

Looks like Gabe got a haircut! Merry Christmas, Gabe!!! Hope it was awesome!!

[@jlhpotter8133]

I didn't get diagnosed with autism until I was 27 years old now I am 30 and still learning why life has been difficult for me. Watching Gabe is super inspiring, he's adorable. So nice to have such a supportive family too. I struggle with a lot of things but seeing how far Gabe has come gives me hope.

[@brooke80448]

Seeing him smile brought a tear to my eye. What a beautiful boy and awesome how great you are with him!

[@george_2172]

This was really nice to see! I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas and have a great New year 🙏

[@angelablasilopez6718]

He looks so genuinly happy that It made me happy too🥰🥰

[@julieparker7606]

I learned of Gabe and your family on SBSK. I LOVE Gabe. ❤️ You are wonderful parents and, just thank you for sharing your joy.

[@lindamcmahon3577]

What a handsome boy, overwhelmed with all the gifts sending a big hug.

[@v3708]

What a handsome young man. My friend also has a son with autism. These beings are such beautiful souls. I pray for God's blessings & favour over all these special people and their families now and for the new year ❤🇿🇦

[@Manami_Miku]

I have mild Autism & seeing him i wish him all the best hope that 1 day he finds a friend that'll still w/ him for life.

[@annieblackmun8023]

I could just keep watching! And normally it would be boring to watch someone open gifts, but I am so drawn to how he is reacting! So sweet! Merry Christmas!

[@MaxineHarmon]

Merry Christmas to you all ♥ X

[@brandyl2183]

I stumbled across the video because it was randomly in my recommendations. I decided to watch. I am not very familiar with autism but I truly enjoyed watching your son enjoy his Christmas. It was so heart warming. Thank you for sharing your family and I hope the New Year brings much love and happiness to you all. I am now going to study up on autism so I can have a better understanding and learn the proper ways to engage with these special souls. Thank you again.

[@aleksandra...]

Awsome for you (and the world, we need more of that) to be open to learning more, just, be careful, there is a lot of bad information about autism out there, even from well regarded professionals/sources. See if you can follow autistic people themselves sharing their experiences, and more broadly disability justice/equality advocates, as they/we are often critical about how is talked *about* them/us. #NothingAboutUsWithoutUs All the best 💛

[@brandyl2183]

@@aleksandra... Thank you so much for that information.

[@dreamthedream8929]

well if you gonna study it then you may as well find out that you have autismo yourself, it happens to a lot of people

[@mmc1086]

I feel sorry for those that don’t see children as the gifts that they are. I’m not ‘damaged goods’ or full of ‘baggage’ because I’m a single mother. I have family that I’m extremely proud of! xox

[@mrbeanieboy2752]

You may have to tailor life differently but that joy is no different 😊 even if it takes weeks, the fact you give him the time and space to do things his way makes you an amazing mom, it’s not easy but you make it work and put him first and that’s what matters, that smile and happiness is all that will ever matter! Merry Christmas and God bless you for brightening all of our day with this ☺️

[@paulcoverdale7169]

Your absolutely amazing and I am literally crying as it makes me realise how lucky I am but also appreciate the humility and kindness in others. Send you all lots of warm hugs from Manchester UK ❤️

[@richdorak1547]

These kids are pure spirit and truth. I, too, share my life with a few . God bless your family today and always.

[@derekflegg2670]

My son didn't start to speak until third grade.. He needed a lot of love and patience and the help of some really amazing people from his school and the various Autism programs that used to be available here in Ontario, Canada until the conservatives canceled or gutted them. We were lucky our boy got in when he did.. Now, he talks up a storm and has a really developed sense of humor, makes KZbin videos and - has a best friend :) My thoughts and prayers for you and yours :) Happy new year!

[@SR-vs9kj]

What a wonderful family and special time together! Thank you for sharing!

[@SirCrepitus]

Superb parenting mom. You’d be shocked at how many people don’t bother to take the time to do special things like this with their autistic kids. Much love to you and your family.

[@eeltenaj19]

I love Gabe's teenager aloofness that cracks just a little with that smile. He seems sweet. He has good moms!

[@ChickenPop2023]

I just found this post scrolling through, and I have to say that I didn't realized how much I was smiling watching this until my husband asked what I was watching. Seeing your son's smile warmed my soul, it was the most beautiful thing. Thank you for sharing with us, you are a remarkable mother 💗

[@LoisFox131]

That child is a perfect human! I love his responses to everything. He’s extremely unique! ❤️

[@ChiTownsFinest1225]

Thank you for sharing this moment with us. I love your family so much. Idk what it is but you guys give me the warm and fuzzies ♡ so much love. Merry Christmas 🎅 🎄 ❤

[@Summer73343]

A patient and loving family. Now that is the best gift anyone can have. ❤

[@wadeunderhile7977]

God bless this wonderful family

[@karenlaw2002]

What a beautiful child. He makes me smile and reminds me of my grandsons.

[@jen-lnicole2043]

So happy he did it all at once with you all. Very cool. Blessings to all

[@nancyzehr3679]

I am verbal. Gabe makes perfect sense. And its easy to see he loves you! How could he not? What a fine young man, and what a fine family. I like the blue strip. A Mobius strip.

[@jamielyallleathan]

How beautiful and wonderful is your love! I'm only 22 years old but I get emotional with your videos!

[@barbiebeeks8203]

Love his smile made my heart so happy. What a wonderful boy

[@brianlawson363]

Watching Gabe and the grace he reflects makes my soul smile. This world would be a very dark place without his and others' presence. God bless you and your family!

[@honestwithmywordshughes3783]

Bless his heart !!!! So nice to see someone enjoying the holidays !!!! God bless !!!! 😊😊😊😊

[@BTTF-fb7oz]

This is beautiful! Gabe have a wonderful, joyous holiday season!

[@tracyjacoby2382]

Gabe's smile is my gift!!🤗💕 You are a lovely family and it looks like you all had a great Christmas!!🎄🎅Your Dog is so beautiful!!🐾💛🥰

[@lynnbiden5509]

He did what my son would’ve done first, turn lights on 🤣😆 We can’t go by their facial expressions or by him going back to play with the band, that’s almost a compulsion something he has to do to be able to function and continue on. My son would’ve done the exact thing, doesn’t mean he doesn’t like the gift. We all want to see them jumping up and down with joy but we have learned that’s not going to happen and we have learned to understand how he expresses joy. Merry Christmas to your sweet boy!

[@maureencoyle666]

Merry Christmas, Gabe! And have a very happy New Year!!! 💚🙏🏻🤡☃️🌍☮️

[@monerabaraguir1124]

GABE IS SOO HANDSOME YOUNG MAN WE LOVE YOU GABE

[@antjohnson8284]

I pray that my future consists of finding more people to surround myself with who are like these two women helping Gabe. All three of you are Rockstars !!!

[@henryjames5663]

Thank you for the video, takes me back when I enjoyed working with Autistic students

[@SpookyChicken93]

This is exactly what christmas looks like with my 24yr old nonverbal son. Gabe reminds me so. Much of my sweet Tristan. Wish I could meet yall. It's been a hard road so far but rewarding too.

[@capstonereview5419]

Great family!! As an adult with Autism, this made my day!! Thank you for being you.

[@annegreatorex8359]

Love this video. My son is autistic he is now 43 he gets so excited opening his presents. He loves anything that lights up. My son can talk and is always flapping and jumping around. He now lives in a supported living house and is happy. Have a Happy New Year🤗

[@sarahludos7970]

This is my first time on your channel and you guys are so good with your son. I have a friend that their son was diagnosed with autism and he does not speak either. I pray one day soon that they will get something to help these children. I could tell he enjoyed the gifts. I will continue to watch ! Happy New Year

[@frederickzimmerman8124]

The lord has blessed us all with special people in our lives. He has certainly blessed you with this young man!

[@annefoley7369]

I'm new to this video site and my heart has melted with pure love for your beautiful son. You are such loving parents, so very genuine. You can almost feel the love you all share. God bless you beautiful Gabe and every blessing in your wonderful family in 2023. 🇮🇪☘️❤️

[@diamondheart9268]

Merry Christmas to you and your family! And what a wonderful haircut! Someone did an awesome job! But I miss his locks too. LOL!

[@agnieszkasokol1866]

Ładny chłopiec wysoki 👋Duzo drowia i spokoju miłego dnia 🙂Dla was

[@becky8267]

My son jay is15 & also none verbal . We do have our daily struggles in life . We get it through it the best way we can . And i woudnt change him for the world 💙💙xx

[@kahwana1604]

Christmas was awesome for Gabe. Both you of work well together parenting Gabe. I'm so proud that Gabe has taught me so much about nonverbal autism. 👍

[@jeep1570]

What a cool young man!!!

[@MaiNguyen-cp5uh]

Thank you so very much for showing the world your wonderful Gabe. I'm enjoying watching how he learns what you taught him. Bless him with the best.

[@shirleygiordano7627]

That made me cry. How beautiful. Everyone is on Earth for a reason. This young man brought me so much joy. Is his name Gabriel? If so, cool. That's my father's name. 💙 Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. 😊

[@ithacacomments4811]

At Christmas, when my autistic daughter was 5, my neighbor made her a Raggedy Anne doll. It was gorgeous! When my daughter opened it she said, "I already have one of those"...and she did already have a doll but not a beautiful handmade doll.

[@varidian694]

You can't help but just love gabe. The way he unwrapped the first one lol and just puts the box down like k I'm done lol

[@justranda1]

Such a beautiful son! I love watching his reactions and movie star smile. So much love to you all! Happy New Year 🎉

[@jeanniemesserschmidtz1954]

Gabe, what a wonderful smile you have. Hope you had a great Christmas.

[@joeglennaz]

Merry Christmas guys!

[@pamelawalton1255]

So lovely Gabe has a smile that lights up the world, xx

[@jerethgryphon4244]

How independent is he in things. He seems pretty good at stuff

[@MaseehB]

A Beautiful Young Man inside and Out ❤️.

[@user-vm5ud4xw6n]

Thank you for sharing this. Although I am a retired nurse in all my years in practice I never met anyone with autism. This little window of what your life is like as the mother of an autistic child is a learning experience and an eye opener. Thank you!

[@enollydantas7800]

Ai que delícia vê Gabe abrindo os presentes de natal. We love you Gabe 🇧🇷

[@susanhunter1164]

I have a grandson and a granddaughter and both are autistic. Sloan is very much like your son and Audrey is not a severe. I love them so much!!! You son is so handsome and I seehe has is paper he likes to flip around just as Sloan does. I wish you love, peace and happiness in the New Year!!!

[@fortheloveofgabe]

Thank you! Happy Holidays!

[@mordeys]

Merry Christmas. My.14 yr old is autistic and has cerebral palsy. When he was.2 we took him to neurologist to have him "diagnosed " officially. As he was sitting in the room with my oldest son who was 19 at the time they were just chatting away to each other. The doctor walks in with the file open. Never looks at him. Starts asking me questions. One of his first was does he talk. The kid is rattling away 5 feet from him. So i told him getting him to talk isn't the chore, getting him to shut up is. He did a bunch of reading and looking at mri scans. Never looked or talked to him. Just agreed with our doctors diagnosis and ask us to set up reoccurring appointments with his clinic. We went 4 or 5 times. The idea was great. All the doctors and specialists we needed in one place. You get a room and you and the child stay there and the medical ppl move from room to room. But it literally took hours in 8×8 room. No windows, no food other than of small snacks without leaving a crumbs or any mess, limited liquids and try to limit toys. Many of the specialists were great but that neurologist never really dealt with him much. And after the first visit if one of my other sons, who were teenagers or younger, was there or Daddy was there he would talk to them not me. They, including Daddy, would redirect him back to me because i was/am primary caregiver and "his person" . But you could tell the dr. was uncomfortable talking to me. I ended up speaking to other moms who said he was the same way with them and their kiddos. But he was the only pediatric neurologist within the lower half of our state. We finally decided we couldn't deal with him anymore and now have to drive almost 2 hours one way to see a neurologist and she is not familiar with whats available down here to order things. So she has to call our family doctor and send information to them so they can try to find what she is requesting around here. It seems impossible sometimes. I dont get it. With there being so many more kids and adults getting diagnosed why is it so hard to find a doctor to help. And why only neurologists. There needs to be a doctor who just deals with our kids. Instead of having to wait 6 months or longer for visits. Sorry ranting. Thank you for letting me rant.

[@rozieso6543]

Such a handsome young man!! Wish your family a very happy new year!!

[@fortheloveofgabe]

Happy new year!

[@cathycollins9538]

Such a loving and supportive family. Everyone is blessed.

[@NailHeavenAshford]

Sensation overload for a minute there. My son is autistic. Not at this stage, but he gets sensation overload. Even opening gifts is different and out of the ordinary things are hard to process. You want to take him out of routine to celebrate Christmas but routine is key. It’s a hard place to be for you. Balancing act.

[@thehoneybadger1223]

He has such a beautiful smile, so pure and genuine. He is blessed to have you and you are lucky to have him

[@melindaeppard6958]

I am new watching your channel. Gabe is such a sweet and very handsome kid. I just melted when he smiled and I have tears of joy just streaming down my face.

[@johnsimpson8974]

I'm new to the channel and have a 13 year old son who is also autistic, seeing the smile on Gabe's face lit up my heart. Patience is key when raising a autistic child and seeing the smiles on their faces brings nothing but joy.

[@1979ACR]

Melts my heart! Love his smile❤

[@IStandWithHarvard13]

I'm autistic with Savant capabilities. Nothing glamorous. Thank you for being accepting & inclusive. It's heartwarming.

[@jackie461]

Sweet boy ❤️

[@GlitterGum]

Looks like he cares more about the blue toy that he already has, rather than any new presents 😂