The Braxtons Clips and Cocktails EP 3

[@tanyamoore8760]

I feel like Von keeps cutting Trina off every time she starts to talk but then attacks her when she’s silent

[@aleshiahardy984]

I wonder did anyone else catch that,,Let her talk& express herself,Now I see why Toni,says Keep the men out of there business..

[@chrisw.5823]

When he said she did not say something quickly i wanted to reach through the screen

[@Rokia2003]

It’s giving narcissist

[@pleaseandthankyou3037]

Yes. Why did he think she stopped talking?

[@User8727-r8h]

@@tanyamoore8760 it’s giving the show us about HIS family….we wanna hear from TRINAAAA

[@LoveTheEighties]

Why are you so combative and argumentive??? Stop being bratty and mentally abusing her. She's been through enough

[@yadielvega6593]

It is very hard for me not be mad at him, the way he talks to her triggers me.

[@MalikMcmillian]

same

[@user-ip5fm3ck4p]

Same

[@Jahton.]

Me too gurl 😂😂😂. 2 shots melodramatics and a splash of sarcasm

[@AngellBrown-t9p]

Me too! He's so rude. I don't feel as if he covers her? Does he work?

[@Jahton.]

@@AngellBrown-t9p I think visually they do, but I have seen this before in marriages she might leave him but he does her. If she’s strong enough

[@MsSooobless]

Von seems like the type of Man you have to tip toe around to try and get your point across.

[@UniverseBeauty-ff4eo]

RUN!! MY LADY RUN!!!😢😢😢😢😢You deserve way better than that. I watched you when you went LIVE but i lasted for a couple of minutes. I couldn't take it🥴🥴 I love you so much, sending love from South Africa ❤❤❤🇿🇦 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@shalisedixon6771]

Vonn your delivery towards Trina is mean. You kinda fast talk and over talk her. Then when she put her head down and you kinda started coming at her like a child.

[@Kamili1970]

I totally agree

[@natoshasutton4538]

He’s not acknowledging none of that. It’s all about him!!

[@tysheracarter8413]

His energy is dark. Did you see the way he looked at her hand when she touched him? Body language is LOUD. TRINA RUNNNN.

[@tabposey]

Yes, You can see why Trina is not like she use to be. I know as you age , you mature more. Some anyway, but Trina use to smile alot, joke a lot, was more excited about life. These days she don’t smile, laugh, or seem like her old self anymore, and now we see why. People like him can steal your joy, and change you in the worst way. That Fun Trina is gone, and Trina that had the fun music is not there. I’m sure he played a part into why!

[@AscendingHigherwithme]

Very dark

[@AscendingHigherwithme]

She’s a Sagittarius she will leave soon . They are calculated in their exit remember when she said Gabe took care of boys . She knows trust me she need her freedom he about to find out !!!!!!

[@organicsforhealing342]

Yes He does not portray himself as a loving and caring man.

[@nenej12]

@@tabposeyshe also had the best hair/wigs out of all her sisters just a natural glamor fun woman just pray for her & if you want pray for the marriage but I would pray for her because death isn’t easy & if you can spew venom when your loved one is seeing loss in there life pray to protect her from that venom.

[@Aliasss]

Von 😩…You stopped talking at the 18:48 mark. You didn’t even give Trina time to talk, before you said “so you just gonna sit there” at the 18:53 mark. That’s only 5 seconds. She didn’t even have time to gather her thoughts 🥴

[@trishalachell]

Right, because she probably was trying to remember what she was saying before he so rudely cut her off.

[@geaninedrakeford0969]

He wanted to make her the problem, he’s coming across as a controlling manipulator. I was done with him once she wanted to wrap up the live, he then says you said it was going to be an hour.

[@RuReady115]

Frankenstein

[@missymciver6562]

Through all of their ups and downs, Gabe held a special place for most of us that watched the show from the beginning.

[@FeelGood-ph3mx]

❤

[@Vwmsneal]

He’s the reason you are drinking!

[@brittanipaster-roland6052]

@@Vwmsneal I so agree!!! I'm a recovering alcoholic and I see it he's making it worse!!!!

[@Tee-kc3pn]

I know I would...... he's beyond draining

[@carolynswan1171]

I’m not taking up for him because i don’t like the way he treats her but Trina always drinking way before him she just drinking more and more now

[@JANICEKail]

Yes she drank quite a bit before him but it's worse now​@carolynswan1171

[@MJ-2701]

@@Vwmsneal you are right about that!

[@YTwatcher-d2m]

Von is literally jealous of a deceased man & he can't hide it. He's trying so hard though😮

[@Kamili1970]

Exactly it's written all over his face

[@MZAWESOMEFORLIFERID]

No he wasn't hiding it, he said, he got jealous because of the way she was mourning him. And that's fine because who wouldn't have a moment, but it's the way he handles it that's not olay

[@lateishacarroll56]

He needs to grow up!! Get over urself and insecurities let Trina heal how she needs to sir, if u really care about her 😮

[@karyminamyning2972]

I guess y’all didn’t listen to him

[@lateishacarroll56]

@@karyminamyning2972 what did we not listen to?

[@Xavier-Valentino]

There's no way I would get on social media, disrespect my wife, and hurt her feelings in front of thousands of people. You can't tell her how to feel about someone that was in her life for 20yrs. And why would you be jealous and coldhearted towards a deceased man. If I was Trina, there's no way I would put up with him. This video pissed me off!!!!

[@ItsJenonthemic]

Me too!!

[@UniverseBeauty-ff4eo]

🥹I feel so bad for her

[@veronicaveronica4946]

So triggering

[@AspiireK]

TRINA I tune in to these for YOUR commentary! YOU are the star this is not "the Von show" and the way he was speaking to you was absolutely deplorable. You could barely get a word in and whever you did he was unattentive...talkin bout a damn hang nail! And who is he to tell you how long you need to be on live?! Very controlling, Very rude, Very disrespectful, Very NOT demure

[@yourstrulyEbby]

@@AspiireK I kept thinking "Trina, YOU are the star, not him" while watching.

[@SonyasSilverPuffer]

I wonder if it was the alcohol?? Like he couldn't focus??

[@trishalachell]

​@@SonyasSilverPufferNo, they've commented that he's like that on the cooking episodes and I don't think they're drinking then.

[@SonyasSilverPuffer]

@@trishalachell really?!... And I'm over here trying to give him some credit! 🤣 DANG VON, WEEEL!

[@87Lohan]

@@SonyasSilverPuffer I do think the alcohol made it worse… I watch some of the cooking shows he does over talk but not as much. I dunno I like Von I’ll need to see more proof of what people are syaing

[@apthompson79]

Disrespectful. Trina deserves better. She can’t even speak without him interrupting and telling how he felt or what she should have done.

[@DrBongiPhD]

Going through a divorce after 27 years, he wanted the divorce. It’s the best thing that’s happened to me because being out I can see all the toxicity, gaslighting, narcissistic behavior and actions that I was living in. Trina, please continue therapy. Something about him has always been off and seems very off. Love to you sis.

[@therealmotherhood]

@DrBongiPhD I am happy you got out.

[@user-ip5fm3ck4p]

Ladies, travel, get into your hobbies, worship God, get a degree, get another degree, learn a skill, fix your credit, get your bag up, hit that gym and get back fine....IT IS OKAY TO BE SINGLE. If it's meant to be, the right man will find you. Be at peace. Be happy. Enjoy your life. Having a man just to have one aint the move. IT IS OK TO BE SINGLE!❤

[@tabposey]

💯💯💯

[@Tammyjean]

@@user-ip5fm3ck4p 💯 yes!!

[@marsha1758]

I'm a 43 year old childless woman with 2 cats. Some people may think that's pathetic, but I could think of worse things. 😢 Trina I am praying for you.

[@leele2579]

I agree

[@theresamccoy4990]

❤❤❤

[@lindaestelle626]

Von is definitely a big red flag! Why would you talk to your wife like that or to any woman.so disrespectful and Trina looks scared and insecure, afraid to say something wrong. Girl you deserve so,so much better.

[@MrDallasboi]

No disrespect Trina .. but solo commentary on the episode would be much better! His energy is off #condescending #rude #disrespectful

[@vonscales5359]

I agree, but she wants here. Petition her, maybe she’ll change her mind

[@TradeWynn65]

Preach!

[@bossinprinzessin333]

EXACTLY!!! 💯👏🏼

[@lalethiawilliams689]

😂

[@n.v.1173]

Totally agree. 👌🏼

[@stephanieweddle5032]

Being told you're grieving in the wrong way is the last thing anyone needs. And being cut off. Everyone wants to be heard. Von your mother told you not to judge her grief for your father, the same goes for Trina. Love to you both ❤❤❤

[@sweets20062107]

Trina is lit hunnie…I know she said she’s drinking more to cope with Traci’s death but it also seems like she’s drinking more to deal with him. Also why is he the only one reading the comments?? 😏😒 Whew chile this was tough to watch…Definitely praying for her 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@kryssycherelle]

I can’t even finish watching the ENTIRE video because of how he is verbally speaking to her. It makes me cry for her because she’s just sitting there taking it and she’s not going to do anything but defend him.

[@cgogetit]

@@kryssycherelle verbally speaking is redundant. No shade just a fyi.

[@thecommentsection4913]

@@cgogetit What do you get out of doing that? I always wonder when people understand what someone is saying, what purpose does it serve to focus on grammar or syntax instead of the what the other person is saying or the topic at hand?

[@VibesAndDiagnosis]

This definitely is a hard watch. I always give a like to the videos but I couldn’t with this. He was too abrasive but I’m sure he doesn’t see it that way.

[@CC-yg5wp]

@@thecommentsection4913 it doesn’t matter if you understand. It’s a teaching moment. Hopefully what they get out of it, is someone who knows better next time. Why do you all get mad at constructive criticism? Your stance is the epitome of ignorance is bliss.

[@jakestroll6518]

@@CC-yg5wp it ISNT constructive criticism. “Verbally speaking” means “in relation to verbal communication”. This is an example of misplaced pedantry.

[@Yaahrnn]

Love how he's controlling the comments and not allowing Trina to see what's being said on HER own page. Talking about he doesn't care what people say about him but then proceeds to read comments supposedly in support of him, and LIE about it being 50/50, he's clearly insecure. Trina isn't wrong, you don't get to have an opinion on someone elses grief. Telling her that her grief for Gabe was "a bit much" is in fact telling her how she should be grieving and the gaslighting is absurd. How in the hell is her grief "a bit much" No one knows what their greif will look like until it happens. Grief is grief, there's no levels to it, there's definitely phases but it's never levels. You can't "grieve a little bit" and you certainly can't grieve a little bit over the passing of someone who mattered to you. You cannot control it and that was such a disgusting comment for you to say to Trina. Whether you agree with her friendship to Gabe or not, she knew him almost 20 years, married him twice and after all that they remained friends and his sudden passing greatly affected her. Point blank period. There is no agree to disagree when it comes to her mourning someone who was important to her and Trina is just trying to pacify him and walk on eggshells. What was displayed in this 41 minute video is textbook emotional and verbal abuse. Whether you like it or not Gabe was/is important to her and you completely disregarding her, her grief and her feelings is unnecessary, unsupportive and nasty! She lost three people in her family very close together and you're making it about the fact that you've never seen someone become bestfriends with their ex. You don't need to see it, that was her choice, way before you came along. "That was some new shit to me" Wow, so I guess she couldn't forgive Gabe and move on while remaining his friend? Some people do it, some people don't and that's fine but you blantantly judge her for her decision but then in the same breath you say it doesn't mean the friendship doesn't have a right to exist. Which one is it? He's unbelievable, it's almost laughable. We can all clearly see that you haven't experienced that and we can see why. You don't know what forgiveness is and you don't have an empathetic bone in your body. The fact that he even opened his mouth to say she grieved him too strong is very telling. He can't understand it because he is very cold hearted. Your issue isn't with Gabe, then who's the issue with? With Trina for mourning her friend? So he's a good dude but you couldn't fathom Trina having a friendship with Gabe because they had a bad divorce? I mean he is a walking contradiction. He's getting caught up in his own lies because he never liked Gabe and he hated that Trina remained friends with him. Just call a spade a spade. I mean he won't even say Gabe's name "that guy" "the dude" You are almost 60 years old. Grow up! Just like a narcissist, goes out of their way to take every opportunity to justify why they're right. I knew what type of guy he was when I saw that he was a trump supporter. Just listen to him talk about the dynamic he had with his Mother and Father, he hates women. I'd love to hear what his ex WIVES went through with him. 18:46-19:21 Absolutely insane how he treated and spoke to her here, he hates Trina. He talks to her like she's beneath him, the way he roles his eyes at her... Very abusive behavior. You don't treat anyone you claim to "love" like this. She's not a "TV Show Host" she should be able to respond and take as much time as she needs to respond in HER VIDEO for HER CHANNEL, about HER SHOW. It's not that serious, I'm sure she just wanted to sit down and just talk. That's it. Things don't have to be perfect but he wants to control her and everything she does and says while he's cutting his nails instead of stepping off camera to do so. 11:55 Like are you serious? Why're you trailing on about your beard? Interrupts her to thank someone for complimenting his beard? This is not the von show! All the attention has to be on von, von has to be right! 5:36 This man is literally arguing with Trina because she rightfully so wants to apologize to the viewers for what happened to her page. That is a noble and logical thing to do especially from someone who is well known. Trina has a big heart and she cares about her supporters. That is HER brand and that was the right thing to do and for him to tell her not to apologize says alot about him. He just HAD to be right, it's his way, just completely childish. He absolutely does not want her to have any control over herself. He wants to control her thoughts, her actions and her character. She can apologize if she wants to! He wants absolute control. 9:34 She talks about how to make the drink, he rudely interrupts her to talk about his hangnail and then has the nerve to ask if she talked about how to make the drink because he wasn't listening... Just unbelievably disrespectful. The way he glares and snaps at her is insane. The way he immediately stopped smiling and cut his eyes at her when she mentioned an ad being a game, was scary. This whole part was very hard to watch 22:49-23:45 ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING the way he speaks to her here, like what the hell are you so angry about? You're not being forced to participate and her reaction and the look on her face says it all. She can't even defend herself, you can see her physically and emotionally retreat and then he prevents her from speaking when she trys to defend herself. Then when she does try to defend herself about certain topics, he tells her that she "didn't do it quickly enough" or HOW she should have went about addressing something. YOU ARE NOT HER FATHER. Disgusting. Notice he said "If you gon sit there we should just get off here" How dare he speak to her like that! He can clearly leave himself and let her finish her video if he's that irritated because she tried to control her reaction to how he's speaking to her. She's even trying to speak and he constantly keeps interrupting her to reply to comments and lie about it being 50/50 when it wasn't because he doesn't want Trina to feel supported in her truth. He knows what he's doing. If you've ever experienced abuse you can clearly see what's going on, it's the little things like 14:23 22:10 & 30:10 Trina is afraid of him, she's afraid to speak her mind and express herself because he always has to be right and she walks on eggshells and waters down how she feels. He is controlling and abusive. Most men are aggressive? No... they're not. You're not "aggressive" von, you're a condescending narcissist with a complex and insecurities issues. You said with your whole chest that you have a TEMPER... That. Is. Not. Normal. You also say you and your brother were raised with "an edge" So your parent's raised two narcissists? "We carry it" You say this like you're proud... like it's a badge of honor but what it really is, is an affliction. He is the problem, he says he has a tough time talking to someone who is paid to listen to him (A therapist) So do you not trust your primary doctor? Your dentist? The cardiologist? I mean com'on, his logic is absolutely ridiculous. Only problematic people look at therapy in that way and he's just trying to convince people that he's right and that he knows what he's talking about. It's an excuse to not better himself and take accountability for his toxic behavior. That's way beyond having a dominant personality. You're not supposed to be "aggressive" with your wife. You let her be secure in her femininity while protecting her and her feelings. You make her feel SAFE with you so that even when conflict and disagreements arise, she knows you are her safe space and she can express her feelings with you and vice versa but you on the other hand make Trina look meek and below you with the way you speak and interact with her, like she's a child and it's getting worse and worse. Trina says you can't put a timeline on grief and how you get through or get over things and then says "but we did" No... HE made her do that and she wanted to comply. She had to grieve to SUIT HIM! Never stay with anyone out of convenience or the fact that you "don't want to be alone" because you end up being alone anyway by abandoning yourself and allowing someone like von to come into your life and treat you with such disdain. 8:41-8:52 The way he spoke to her here and throughout this entire video is terrible. The hate, arrogance and annoyance in his voice is disgusting. Meanwhile he's taking time out out of the video to interrupt her to talk about his beard and his hangnail.12:22 -12:42 She can't even be herself, she's trying to be playful and he's making her look like she's a bothersome, annoying and asking the audience do they know what she's talking about. He's TRYING to humiliate and embarrass her. Absolutely nothing can justify this shit. I'm praying for your strength Trina. Choose yourself, you don't deserve this!

[@user-ip5fm3ck4p]

He did NOT want her to see those comments!

[@carolynswan1171]

Well said well said I’m through pretty much the same thing and I’m so sad 😞 stress and mentally drained

[@pander8382]

1000% agree,,, she's not her authentic self & walking on eggshell with him

[@ItsJenonthemic]

Comment of the year 🥳🎉 👏🏾 to all of that

[@kaylajasmine3035]

I really hope she reads this. I'm so worried about her.

[@discourcewithdee]

Von comes off very aggressive, cold and mean. I hate the way he talks to Trina. It seems as if he does not like her. He’s always irritated with her. I can’t finish their lives cause it’s so cringy to see.

[@stillstanding5732]

He doesn't like her. Heartless Narcissist

[@WhenMotherhoodLooksDifferent]

This is painful to watch! The way Von is talking to Trina deeply saddens me - cutting her off and disregarding her feelings. She is a sweet spirit!!❤ Trina, don’t be afraid to root in what is best for YOU in this moment! I cannot imagine my husband behaving this way… praying for you, sis! 🩷🙏🏾📿🙏🏾

[@trillviaplath]

TRINA, PLS READ THE COMMENTS! WE DID/DO NOT SIDE WITH HIM AT ALL - He absolutely lied about that "50/50"! Von is dead wrong, and antagonizing you just to get the pleasure of shutting you down before you can form a complete sentence feels sick. Please share this with your therapist. I stopped watching your cooking lives because the digs and the way he spoke to you. It's unbearable. You deserve the very best.

[@preciado936]

@@trillviaplath I thought the same thing

[@divalisafoster4242]

Although this segment was a month ago, I feel the insecurity generating from Von, to say, she grieve for Gabe the way she did for Tracy and so what? ? I wouldn’t grieve for my first husband should anything happened to him but for the second I probably would but Von, just know, every heart of a man isn’t the same and it’s no disrespect but I prefer Trina to read and respond to the comments. I was sad about Gabe, and my heart goes out to Trina sons and Gabe family like siblings and parents. Von, you’re not going to grow your business through Trina. You have to start alone and let people see you as you besides Trina husband. Because had I was a new viewer, I’ll have my federal us Marshall’s check on you and surveillance you for her safety but we already know Trina.

[@TammyTheBlackPrepper]

Trina deserves a soft life. Someone that handles her with white gloves 😢 It’s okay that you grieved Traci and Gabe the same. Your grief process is no one’s but yours! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥺 “For the dude”he’s a narcissist.

[@Jordanoou]

"The dude" was so disrespectful. He's claiming he has no problem with Gabe but his comments and the way he speaks about him says otherwise. He's very insecure and controlling. He's emotionally and verbally abusive

[@AuroraArroyo714]

​​@@Jordanooui don't understand why von hates gabe so damn much and gabe is not here to defend himself

[@yankeeyobaby]

Well said. Cause I’m livid with this man.

[@AuroraArroyo714]

​@@yankeeyobaby gabe is not here to defend himself 😢

[@nicolekinsey8441]

The fact he said, the comments were 50/50 is such a lie. Hopefully he can reflect on this conversation and see how belitting he was towards you. 😡

[@Jordanoou]

Big lie! Acting like this at his big ass age is insane. He should be embarrassed. He is embarrassing and controlling

[@beautifulgorgeouslovely4661]

He need’s glasses 👓 anger management classes and a chill pil. 50/50 NOWHERE!!!!!!

[@movinhigher]

He's probably gonna delete them so.she doesn't see them...But she needs to rewatch this episode and look at herself and just listen to him. It's time to Heal...I pray she has a prenup

[@dezmonique7]

@@beautifulgorgeouslovely4661lol😂😂😂

[@mykoniichistorychannel]

He gaslit the hell out of her.

[@ItsJenonthemic]

There is a difference between being a man's man and secretly dominating and crushing to a person's spirit

[@sandram4753]

Exactly

[@tiffanysedits5406]

Yesss!

[@trishalachell]

@@ItsJenonthemic Right!! And just because you've always been a certain way doesn't mean you don't need to change it. Especially if it's hurting someone you say you love.

[@mykoniichistorychannel]

You can tell just by looking at her. She looks so defeated.

[@kamtheproducer]

Whew! Watching this was very triggering…😣 Von is a toxic, controlling narcissist, & Trina deserves so much better!

[@JustCoraSharice]

I said the same thing!.. Smh

[@brigittiJ1]

Girl, that man acts like he doesn’t even like you anymore. Run as fast as you can before…

[@Deni19640]

Why is he not letting her hold the laptop? He wants his cell. He wants to answer. Nobody cares about him. Just because you can't read from a laptop doesn't mean she can't. He picking and choose what to read.

[@keepsit100atalltime9]

​@@Deni19640Yeah he is a mess. Everyone has faults but he has serious issues that he refuses to see and deal with. This is not a healthy relationship.

[@MissBeeMarie]

Von, please allow her to talk…please. She couldn’t get a complete sentence out of her mouth without being interrupted.

[@jakestroll6518]

Not just interrupting. Some people interrupt because they have ADHD or are manic. He deliberately talks down on her when he cuts her short. He wanted to go through comments because he thought they’d be a bunch of Pick Me women but as soon as he realised they were lighting him up, he don’t want the comments no more.

[@MissBeeMarie]

@@jakestroll6518 He just needs to 🤫 up.

[@shabazzsmalls6338]

@@jakestroll6518 in my Trina voice "he needs to cut it" lol

[@mykoniichistorychannel]

No please, nothing. He needs to be gone. If someone ever fixed their mouth to talk to a woman I know or love like that? BAYBE, it’s go time.

[@MissBeeMarie]

@@mykoniichistorychannel I was trying to keep from saying what I reaaallly wanted to say, when I made my comment. But, I definitely agree with you.

[@Dawn_2a]

Look, grief is not something we can control and someone else’s insecurities can’t dictate how another person’s grief manifests. How dare someone who loves you add to your burden as you grieve. Unimaginable.

[@shabazzsmalls6338]

Amen! It's also a red flag, she needs to run from him fast!

[@hurtspublishing3906]

Exaclty. I'm like they was married for years. So dispute everything good or bad that her and Gabe went through. That was her husband for years. He's the father to her kids. You think she not going to grieve.

[@Kamili1970]

definitely a red flag

[@tabposey]

@@Dawn_2a well said! He is completely out of line! He claims not to be upset, it the same time, he upset with her, and tells her she was wrong! Trina, my sister, you are and was not wrong! Saying, he can’t tell her how to grieve, but telling her, she shouldn’t be grieving like she was over Gabe, is sick in itself! He got the problem. The fact that he feel’s people can’t be friends after a divorce after going through alot, just show you the type of person he truly is, snd how he holds things against people. If you have a good heart , you can be friends with someone after they have hurt you in the pass. And to have to explain that to someone like him, is a waste of time. They will never get it, or understand it! I know Trina has to walk on eggshells around this man, cause I got the same type! That’s why she saying nothing! She know that there is nothing she can say that will be right to him. Nothing she say will even reach him. He won’t get it, nor hear it! Everything, and anything she says he is going to feel is she is the problem and blame her for it all. Blame her for his feelings. Cause she is not allow to have her own feelings. Her feelings are always wrong. He is mentally abusive. I completely understand Trina, and I see it! I see what she is dealing with off these cameras, and behind closed doors! Nothing she does is right, snd everything is her fault, even if it’s his. You can see in this video, he is upset with her, and he keep telling her not to do this or that, he don’t like this and that. He cold to her, and she just trying to be nice, so she don’t upset him on camera, but it don’t matter, he still upset! And she will have to tip toe around him with what she has to say, cause she can’t speak her mind of speak her true feelings, cause he get pissed! I get it Trina! I know the feeling, I see💯👀And like you said How dare you!! Tell someone how to feel, what to feel, or even how to be with your own heart!

[@SheIsHer242]

I’ve never seen him treat her like this in their cooking videos. This whole video had me feeling so uncomfortable. . I hate this for her.

[@vthe_listener886]

This is hard to watch because the communication is not IT😢 🤦‍♀️ she can't complete a full sentence without him interrupting. Trina i wish yall the best BUT Von needs to respect you as a woman and his wife. He's to love his wife as Christ loves the church. You look unprotected in front of thousands 😢 it is not given on thissss screen

[@sosoblessed9762]

I totally agree!!! He was VEEERRY DISRESPECTFUL!!!

[@TheKchorton0811]

Agreed

[@aleshiahardy984]

Agree😢😢,very hard to watch .

[@bridgetteray7180]

I hope Trina looks at this video and see just how verbal abusive Von is! I can imagine how he talks to her off camera!

[@234forte]

Trina, you have created a monster. VON is addicted to attention. You are trauma bonding he is upset that he is going to mention in a negative way

[@UniverseBeauty-ff4eo]

🗣🗣You Deserve better Trina. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE BABY!!

[@FeelGood-ph3mx]

That's your wife not your kid to boss around😏😏😏This Live revealed your true self. Trina Braxton stay away from this man. You cannot ignore those 🚩🚩🚩flags😢😢 We miss that bubbly and funny Trina😂😂You're such a beautiful soul i love you🥰🥰

[@UniverseBeauty-ff4eo]

💯

[@Lenora1966]

Trina get away from this man, he’s emotionally and mentally abusive!!!!

[@trishalachell]

That part!!

[@mznaturallyfit]

@Lenora1966 wonder if she asked his 1st wife why they divorced. Her history shows she's a bad picker. It's interesting that he even wants to be forefront on the camera.

[@tabposey]

Completely!

[@Yourlegacylounge]

Wow...she is so patient❤,gentle,compassionate & loving.Unimaginable how he is off camera...my goodness😢

[@KrystolCowart]

Trina deserve a man like Him ❤❤ there couple Goals ❤❤

[@tradingmadeez4546]

@@KrystolCowart what do you mean? Are you saying his disrespect and disregard is good for her? Where’s the honor for his wife… he appears to be a bully . If he display this behavior for the public to see ; I cringe to think of how he treats her in private. No one deserves that! If you can’t or won’t love her then leave her alone

[@sexyblonde3936]

True! If he does it on camera I’m scared to think what happens off.

[@ReReJSB]

@@tradingmadeez4546well said!! Thank you for speaking up!! My heart breaks for her. 😢

[@leele2579]

@@Yourlegacylounge that's what I said. Ion like it/him

[@ToastyT-l9k]

Von seems to think that saying things in a calm low voice, doesn't make it disrespectful. Believing that Trina should prioritize his "hurt whittle feelings" in the middle of her grieving is nasty work. The gaslighting and overall blanket of disrespect and rudeness was hard to watch. I am not a fan of this guy!

[@ItsJenonthemic]

OMG yes, Just because you are low, it's just as despicable.

[@mykoniichistorychannel]

He’s controlling, manipulative, and he gaslit the hell out of her.

[@beardzgorski8397]

ikr...lowkey piss ant of a man

[@maganblair2005]

Right! He is disrespectful!!!! He’s giving nice nasty. I’ve had this before and can spot it from a mile away. You feel like a child. She’s such a beautiful soul and he HAS to learn how to speak to her. He won’t see it though more than likely because he said he doesn’t care about what people think about him.

[@gemyni293]

Trina please love yourself sweetheart. You’re a beautiful woman and you deserve so much better.

[@michelledouthard81]

Why is he so defensive, on edge?? Not letting her speak?! Trina, you had a life before Von and he shouldn’t be able to tell you how to grieve and what’s too much. Also, why is he taking over the conversation?? We want to hear from you Trina. Von seems insecure. Trina you don’t have to explain. Your grief is your grief. Why is he reading the comments alone?? Trina should be privy to them as well. Trina you are the star. We love you!! You are strong, important and beautiful.

[@kittiekat540]

Von should not be on the show recap!! HE IS SO ANNOYING TO US!!! AND TRINA SHUTS DOWN WHEN HE EXPRESSES DISCONTENT!!! 🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️

[@UniverseBeauty-ff4eo]

True💯

[@shabazzsmalls6338]

This man is COLD HEARTED!! HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU TRINA!!😢

[@yepswanson7234]

HES JEALOUS OF HER- THEY'RE MAKING MONEY BECAUSE OF HER. HE TRIES TO PRETEND LIKE HE KNOWS WHAT HES TALKING ABOUT, HE CANT EVEN SAY MODERATORS CORRECTLY HE SAYS MONITIZORS, QUIT TRYING TO ACT LIKE YOU KNOW IT ALL BRO, YOU LAME.

[@nicky1682]

He seems not to understand that it's her pain and it's not something he experienced

[@shabazzsmalls6338]

@@nicky1682 Exactly

[@tabposey]

And you can tell how he has changed her , and taken the fun out of her! He is the fun snatcher. He won’t even let her see the comments. He really showing his true self!!

[@shabazzsmalls6338]

@@tabposey she's dimming her light for him, while she is grieving speaks volumes, talking to her like she is a child smh

[@earthawilliams5598]

Trina - you are a VERY strong person. May the Lord God Almighty keep you!

[@ashleynicole2963]

The fact that Trina said she feels like Von is PUNISHING her for grieving Gabe says a lot 😞 it makes me worry for her and the way he talks to her is just frustrating to me 😔

[@meeky0420]

Why was he measuring grief?? 😂 It seemed too strong? I absolutely love you Trina❤ Stay strong honey.

[@crystal_crochet_it]

righttt

[@CosmicJournee]

This is disgusting….like wow!!! Trina is going through a lot more than grieving, this husband is not good. She’s literally grieving even filming these recaps and the way he’s so dismissive and not even letting her talk. This is narcissistic behavior and the lack of a relationship they have with their father shows in the men they’re picking. Very hard to watch. 😅

[@TOFAINNAIJA]

Wow!!!! He is something else.....TRINA..........wow!!!!!!!I am not feeling this guy at all and he is very disrespectful and condescending to you Trina......BUT IF THATS WHAT FLOATS YOUR BOAT...GOOD LUCK THO!

[@themesongz4u]

I never noticed how much Vaughn annoys me until now..smh my God

[@teriking1187]

omg!same here

[@RuReady115]

They say it every week in the comments lol

[@Kamili1970]

Same!!! he's very annoying

[@ChameleonOne]

I've NEVER liked him from D1. Always saw through his "persona".

[@stephaniemason881]

Von really showed his REAL colors here. He needs therapy.

[@michelleross656]

All I’m going to say is Trina, I’ve always admired and adored you and your soft heart. You always come across so loving and nurturing and sweet. Protect that, protect your heart and kindness. I don’t know what goes on in your life and behind the scenes but I truly hope and wish you are happy. I wish you peace and happiness and if it means that changes need to be made to keep that peace and kindness, that is ok. If it means things stay the same, that’s ok too. I support you. ❤ Live your life with joy, may God bless you and your family.

[@serenityplus3786]

He is triggering. His narcissistic behavior is concerning. I pray for Trina she is in a no win situation with him. She’s grieving and dealing with an aggressive man that appears to be extremely rude and condescending.

[@DishinITwithD]

VON PLEASE watch this video back and observe how you showed up to this conversation! Then go to Dr. Spirit and have a serious chat about it. Take a break from social media as well.

[@UniverseBeauty-ff4eo]

He will defend himself🤷‍♂️ hence, he said "All men are aggressive "

[@Tamisqueen]

I’m here for Trina but I can’t stay because of her husband. As a DV survivor his tone and demeanor is very triggering to me. The way that he over talks her and dismisses her is definitely a form of abuse and I pray to God in heaven that she see’s that.

[@DishinITwithD]

I rewatched this with my daughter who is a DV survivor and it was triggering for her within the first five minutes. Trina the signs are all there. RUN 🏃‍♀️

[@ItsJenonthemic]

​@@DishinITwithDthis was me too watching this. Not good energy... This is about her grief and you are too cold to her.

[@SincerelyEMartin]

Exactly! And he says maybe we haven’t seen that before. Umm sorry sir DV survivors absolutely have and it’s alarmingly triggering

[@Xy-oo2sm]

This is extremely alarming. Trina pls love yourself more than staying in your very toxic marriage. Free yourself. Your voice even trembles when you respond to his nonsense. Let it go.

[@tradingmadeez4546]

Trina you deserve better then this!!! He is soooo disrespectful…

[@geaninedrakeford0969]

It’s pretty sad to watch because he didn’t start out this way towards Trina. And, to watch her cater to him, touching and rubbing his leg to calm him back.

[@sadegarner9723]

He repeatedly beat her down in front of thousands of people and she just took it…and not because he’s jealous of “that guy”, but because he’s never seen or experience exes become platonic friends after a breakup. Gabe is deceased and you’re worried about her love for him. Wow. The justification for tearing her down is alarming. This was so unnecessary and very triggering to watch. I hope you get to see this - Trina you are a light. Always have been. I love watching you on the show. You’re beautiful, funny, and intelligent. You deserve emotional protection and support. You’re in my prayers. 💕

[@ashleyteal6555]

Knowing him… he’s probably not allowing her to view the comments

[@decemberc.3271]

Von kind of acts like Vince acted with Tamar in similar ways

[@aidabeyene6834]

Yes, like they are children.

[@RuReady115]

RIP Traci and Gabe we won’t forget u ❤❤❤

[@JoJo-z3l2g]

This really hurts my heart to see how he treats Trina. He talks to her like she's less than and you can just see that she has adapted to this unacceptable behavior. It's not a job interview, she can go at any pace she wants to on HER channel, about HER show! I feel disgusted, this is absolutely narcissistic behavior. I knew since he appeared on the show it was just something about him that rubbed me the wrong way but of course I do not know him but if he can talk to her like this on social media in front of thousands, WHILE LIVE, I can only imagine how he acts in private and this just solidified everything I felt about him. No matter what he talks about, he just has this malicious tone behind his voice and in his mind, whatever he says is 100% correct. Yes, even though we do not know him personally, there is no justifying this churlish and condescending behavior from him! Trina I am praying for you, you do not deserve this kind of man or even this treatment from ANYONE, especially with everything you're dealing with. You need peace, not to be bullied, mistreated and talked down to like you're just there to take up space on the couch. It's beyond disrespectful, it's just downright nasty energy. Please take care of yourself Trina.

[@RrnettaBoomer]

@@JoJo-z3l2g ABSOLUTELY AMEN TO ALL OF THIS!!!

[@TigerBoy-49]

This was VERY HARD to watch, Von!!! You were AWFUL towards your wife! You don’t EVER need to get on the air treating her like this! The CONSTANT interruptions and BELITTLING was BEYOND immature and was ABUSIVE. YOU need therapy! Trina, you are so much better on the air WITHOUT him and are LOSING VIEWERS bc of him. He has some serious issues that shouldn’t be resolved with an audience. Once resolved, it’s good to share and help others. Schedule that therapy appointment ASAP, Von! You’re going to lose a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN if she isn’t allowed to be her AUTHENTIC SELF. You don’t have the right to shut her down. Deal with your issues, Man.

[@trishalachell]

I agree 100%!!

[@crysC3]

I’m glad you used the word abuse.

[@mrs.prettyclark6843]

You can tell Trina was trying to keep her composure and not snap like she wanted too! He’s a mess and completely embarrassed her!! Snh

[@Primeboss33ivcloud]

Trina you showed me that as a man I do not have the capacity to be a submissive woman in this now life or a past life. I would have been cussed this fool tf OUT!!!! STAND UP! STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!!

[@iconicmindsetters2160]

Baby no… he is trying to dim your light

[@monalisasmuse27]

Yes! Preach!

[@mykoniichistorychannel]

Trying? He has. He’s an eclipse.

[@iconicmindsetters2160]

@@mykoniichistorychannel ots so sad

[@TheMwendaa]

​@@mykoniichistorychannel😂😂😂😂😢😢😢😢

[@monicasaunders82]

Gaslighting and Narcissistic

[@peppermintpetty4528]

Love you Trina but I just can’t …

[@DishinITwithD]

Me either! 😡

[@TOFAINNAIJA]

NOR I!!!!!!TAKE HIM OFF YOUR SHOW TRINA!!!!! OMG!!!!!!!!

[@KrystolCowart]

​@@DishinITwithDhe not your man it's her man he had natural valid points Chill tf out

[@DishinITwithD]

@@KrystolCowart Take the blinders off girl. Everyone can see she is in an emotional abusive relationship with this man. He shuts her down every time she speaks by interrupting. So easily unnerved by anything she says that he doesn’t agree with and doesn’t take any accountability. Chastise her like a child. Says he always have been aggressive, that’s who I am. 🤔These are narcissistic qualities RUN 🏃‍♀️ Trina RUN. If he does this on a public platform like this Lord only knows how he treats her behind closed doors. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@jakestroll6518]

@@KrystolCowart Sis is in a bad situation. We can all see that.

[@neshiaaaaa8974]

Her husband is so rude , Trina don’t even seem the same nomore, she use to be so happy and more energetic despite dealing with Tracie’s passing, but since being with this dude she has changed a lot…she doesn’t seem happy !

[@kaykay26]

Trina, please do the live ALONE! Von is disrespectful. I cannot stomach anymore…logging off!

[@kjbrownsugar504]

The sisters worried about Kevin Sr cheating on Traci but Kevin had her back and very supportive of her. y'all need to be worried about Trina and Von now

[@tavaresleora4286]

THAT PART! AND WAS MARRIED OVER 20YEARS!

[@blusunflower8jones438]

Exactly!!

[@dezmonique7]

Exactly. Wait until they light into him it’s coming sooner than later. Just let Tamar watch and read the comments. She was talking about all their husbands even though that was wrong.

[@monalisasmuse27]

Yesssss!!

[@CertifiedDyme]

This is the Von show and its disgusting. He is a narcissist, he emotionally abusive, wow. Hate the way he talks to her like shes stupid.

[@Martinique757]

Maybe Von needs counseling on his own. I don’t like how he’s talking to her. My husband acted the same way after he came home from deployments and I had to let him know real quick; you are not going to talk to me this way. We are a team. Yes you’re the head of this household but this isn’t a dictatorship. I also want to say; they should both probably have a session of counseling in general as it really does help. I want this to work for them, but he’s gonna have to take a look in the mirror and hold himself accountable! He can’t tell her how to grieve!

[@f8th1der]

Inappropriate convo…he derailed the whole vibe… his ego is butt hurt but he’s making it her problem

[@luvsgod2]

😮 This is rough to witness!

[@aminah761]

😢

[@ItsJenonthemic]

I survived a decade of this. This literally made my chest tighten and stomach hurt.

[@UniverseBeauty-ff4eo]

😭

[@TheMwendaa]

​@@ItsJenonthemicso sorry Love

[@JoyceThornton-p6n]

What is wrong with you today Von you are embarrassing her I hope that off camera she doesn't take that crap from you

[@Live_a_little_smile_more]

Von seems unbearable. I couldn't be with someone like him. He is extremely controlling and demeaning

[@moniquetripp5028]

Trina this mad is tired of the marriage, body language, even the inappropriate behavior. It’s like he doesn’t even care.

[@ka8204]

I know it gets lonely being single sometimes however Trina you can do MUCH better than this man

[@JoyceThornton-p6n]

All men are not aggressive

[@yepswanson7234]

NOPE. KEVIN SR. WAS VERY KIND TO TRACY- THIS GUY VON LOOKS LIKE HES BATTLING SOME THINGS WITHIN HIMSELF THAT MAKE HIM ANGRY. DEFINITELY OVER COMPENSATING FOR WHAT HE THINKS A MAN "SHOULD BE" 100% HES MAD AT HER BECAUSE OF THESE COMMENTS- TRINA YOU CAN DO A LOT BETTER, YOURE SO BOMB GIRL!

[@luckylady05be]

Von is insecure of his self and wants to be heard thats why he takes over on everything. He is a narcissistic person. Gabe was a better person . Trina is to scared to speak out on this issue to him and to all of us. Von is rude, he took over talking and talking over her. She start to talk then he butts in and takes over, than she shuts down and he asks her why is she not talking! GIVE ME A BREAK VON!! She deserves better than him. I wonder if any of her family, Mother, Sisters, and others see all our comments about him and her. If they talk to her about his controlling personality? She needs help! He needs help in a different way! He doesn't care about her feelings nor their viewers feelings and he says it too. Wake up sista and smell the coffee!!

[@DishinITwithD]

Yessss we all SEE it. She does too but I think she is just trying to make it work. Hate admitting failure again in marriage. Her and Gabes relationship now probably looking way better to her. That’s probably why Gabe’s grief was so strong for her. She loved that man!

[@karendavidson7538]

I do see narcissistic behavior with Von,I know that demon very well,I pray it's not so,but that's what it is giving,everytime.

[@karendavidson7538]

He hardly ever let her speak as well,likes attention,but takes attention away from her,this is not going to end well,haven't heard anything as of yet about the episode,we don't know what Trina thinks ever,he makes everything about himself,definitely narcissistic behavior if so she better run for her life.

[@karendavidson7538]

Everytime she opens her mouth,he cuts her off and then gets mad when she's quiet.

[@brendawright8695]

Wow!!!!!!!!!!! 😢

[@rebeccaumble-white8607]

Trina is by nature a free spirit but she keeps getting into relationships with unhealed men who are just different versions of her father. This man seems so old and restrictive. Her opposite. She should do the commentary by herself.

[@lovedo3870]

Hit it right on the head!! He dims her light and she cannot be herself around him, it annoys him. I'm trying to find out what these "solid qualities" he talks about having. Yes I don't know him but he's unbearable and disrespectful

[@saucyking1]

I agree. Solo or with Towanda

[@Alyssa-ux8ke]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@dezmonique7]

Yes, do it alone or she’s going to lose viewers.

[@nenej12]

When she brought him on the show is was very apparent that he was very much an opposite to her!

[@mikirosgaroes9093]

Vons energy and the way he talks to her just don't sit right in my spirit. It's almost like she's dimming her fabulous light around him, walking on eggshells. Makes me sad to not see that bubbly energy that we all fell in love with. Trina has always been my favorite and she deserves nothing but peace and happiness esp after all she's been through.

[@mslavender7994]

How in the hell is this narcissistic guy is going to measure your grieving process for the father of your children and your sister? He's got some nerve! Trina, this guy doesn't like or respect you. Seems like you're walking on eggshells. There's no care in his voice toward you. He's controlling your grieving process. And is very rude dismissive, disrespectful, mentally and emotionally abusive. You are worthy of marital friendship, kindness, respect and true love. You deserve better, Trina. Too many red flags.

[@Tee-j6q]

8:43 If she doesn't want to address something, she doesn't have to. It doesn't matter that she brought it up. She said it was going to be addressed later and you're scolding her like a child?! And his cold "NO!" after she said "Do it again" was so hateful. She can't even be herself. He is unbearable.

[@manceycurtis7264]

He's something else run Trina run

[@lamargocoates4094]

She needs to run fast

[@tierrabarlow9905]

He talks to her crazy

[@nicky1682]

@@tierrabarlow9905 He was a coach and I believe he still does that type of coaching approach to her ... He doesn't mean anything

[@lillybethford1915]

@@nicky1682, hogwash. She’s the victim, not him, I’m sure he doesn’t use that tone with his employer.😳

[@beardzgorski8397]

i think Trina deserves a nicer, gentler, more compassionate MAN

[@joannavantull8343]

Grown man throwing a whole tantrum

[@AngellBrown-t9p]

Why did he bring up his beard and his hangnail while she was talking? She paused because it was rude, and then he scolded her because she was silent due to his rudeness.

[@grammy0146]

From now on if i see this man I'll just keep scrolling. He is unbearable 😮

[@tysheracarter8413]

Body language is loud & he is distant from her the whole video. Turned away, dismissive, rude. She tried to flirt with him when he got something off her shirt & he completely disregarded it. That man don’t like her 😅

[@FeelGood-ph3mx]

He doesn't 🤔🤔🤞🏾

[@Vwmsneal]

He has my pressure up

[@nitah.7604]

TRINA - RED FLAG, RED FLAG!!!! VON is over being in the spotlight, so now he is or has been showing YOU who he really is which is not good. LEAVE HIM NOW AND DON'T LET HIM SMOOTH TALK YOU. THIS NINJA IS TOO CONTROLLING!!!! OMG

[@tysheracarter8413]

Trina know that damn man is mean to her. She’s always been sensitive so I KNOW she feels his bad energy towards her. She just doesn’t want a divorce while grieving. Maybe you’re grieving will be better without somebody around being mean to you honey.

[@UniverseBeauty-ff4eo]

She needs some space😢😢

[@char4696]

Trina, please get away from him, he's not healthy for you, he's a narcissist and every body can see how mean he is to you, I would rather be by myself 😢

[@ChiyraGary]

He’s insecure and disrespectful

[@lateishacarroll56]

I dont see 50/50 on here nobody agreeing with this man

[@warmspicytea4285]

I have dated this kind of man. he is a karmic. Likely low self-esteem, but very bossy and domineering. Likely obsessive, which you may mistake as love. This type of relationship can only work if Trina constantly submits and gets bullied by him. I finally stood up to this type of man (which is what you need to do) and it was a warzone. Once I no longer cared and realized how miserable he made every "good" occasion, I became verbally abusive toward him. We finally moved on and he contacted me after seven years (in his usual stalker, love-bombing way). I said to myself, there is no way in hell I'd even reply back. Trina I really hope it is not THIS difficult to communicate your feelings with this man. I hate that this is your first black man because he is not a good example. He needs to be checked. Don't let THIS type of man run over you. You are being tested. That's all. BTW the guy I dated was very much giving and caring to others, but he had a chip on his shoulder and was just miserable.

[@Sweetqueendiva]

Trinia take care of yourself - Von breathe - both of you are adults. This was painful to watch.

[@fefemyluv]

Well said. This was difficult to witness.

[@kmurray559]

I think that Von doesn’t understand grief. She was married to Gabe all those years. He should understand that she still had love for him despite the troubles that they may have experienced 😢

[@kmurray559]

@@LeslieStory I hope not, but I didn’t like this segment. He seemed mean 😢

[@Juicingwjade]

He did say he was furious at his mom when his dad died and his mom had to get him together…so I will agree that he don’t know how to process grief

[@lillybethford1915]

@@kmurray559 , I think he does understand grief, but it’s quite obvious that his feelings are priority. Von is selfish and stubborn and it’s obvious that she’s been dealing with his behavior for a long time; as women, we must take care of ourselves. Trina, no disrespect but please research narcissism.😳

[@87Lohan]

I think empathy is probably not his strong suit. He’s also an older man…well he looks it. Seems to be a product of his generation tbh

[@girlanonymous]

@@87Lohanyep he seems very stoic, calm, non-emotional..they feel differently on the topic of grief…it’s all I took from this.

[@KathyWilson-b2k]

Trina… I can feel your hurt when he talks to you like that. You are not happy and if he doesn’t change, this relationship will continue to break you down. I was in a relationship that looked just like this!!! I was triggered watching this. Wow. Praying for you. Love you lots!!!

[@WenNRome]

Trina you turn 50 this year....I would suggest that you choose yourself, go heal, lose that weight and come back stronger than ever as you enjoy the next phase of your life....don't get stuck in something and end up wasting a whole bunch of time...this was disgusting behavior

[@brcegipsn8813]

That man doesn’t love you, it’s clear to me , why? He is disrespectful and isn’t protecting Trina. He made it his mission to act passive aggressive. Trina you deserve better ❤

[@Jordanoou]

Everytime Trina talks he interrupts her to say something that has nothing to do with what she's talkinh about. Why tf did you interrupt her to talk about your nails? He's so irritating

[@mykoniichistorychannel]

Then gets mad when she goes silent.