The Bully vs. Control Freak: Yogi Harris v "Ty" Gidron S24 E 10

[@beyond_beauty8468]

I’m trying to figure out, how are you a “social butterfly” and “party girl” with 7 children?

[@roxiestarr7124]

That part! The only socializing should be at pto and the playground!

[@kokobee3383]

I am wondering that too? Cuz baby I have two little kids and being social is not on my list cuz that take away sleep .. 😂😂😂😂

[@gospel4303]

….that’s how she got’em! 😂 She’s listening to her friend(s), who apparently are not married or in a relationship..at All! He deserves so much better

[@estherrodriguez3782]

That's how she got her 7 kids, she needs to stay home.

[@iluvdimmuborgir53]

She been busy socializing in the bedroom.... obviously. I actually do feel bad for him.. she's a straight up bitch that just wanna get back to her thot lifestyle 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

She admitted it herself. “I married him for stability”. That’s all you need to know she don’t love him. He needs to move on and be happy

[@eternal1blue]

JJ with the total truth gonna set her straight lol

[@mauricesutton1906]

Judge on point, she wanted the husband for stability so she could be with “Tyrone”, “Boo-Boo”, & the boys from the club.

[@DDT2358]

Thank you…. I felt I need a pay check in my spirit. This woman wants the bag, not the man…. And that so called best friend…. A mess. A friend encourages, they don’t tell you to walk away from your marriage.

[@yvettewilliams5967]

Exactly Jazzy Jeff

[@stephanieoates127]

Shoot! I’d take him I’m love stout/husky men and he’s good looking! She’ll miss him when he’s gone for sure! With 7 kids she should be GRATEFUL he is wanting to be with her!!!

[@yasmin6376]

I swear it’s disgusting the way she’s treating him. He looks like he’s been broken down mentally so many times by this woman. He’s literally on the verge of tears. I wish him the best and happiness

[@MyLocsRock]

I am really feeling Star as the new divorce court judge. I still miss Judge Toler, but Star is giving something I didn't know I needed or wanted from divorce court. I like her style & her bluntness.

[@Janneel.Christine]

Agreed ... I'm enjoying her!

[@Aquaria2291]

Right!! I wasn't sure what to expect, but I am very pleasantly surprised lol.

[@lamarplaterimages2332]

I agree 100 percent

[@skylarjaxx2399]

This is my first episode. I just couldn't bring myself to watch but I'm giving in. I hope it is good.

[@jaylenjones7726]

Toler was my favorite!! I was ready to give up on my show when faith came, I LOVE STAR she really a great addition

[@Teeville1]

She is going to miss him when he’s gone. I hope he realizes that he doesn’t have to deal with this disrespect.

[@janiceparkerson4727]

That's 💯👍.

[@hermanhorton5944]

I wish him well. But. I think he may try to keep holding on. When love is gone. Hey. Butt Taylor Swift said To. Shake it off. Shake it Off. Just leave that fool behind and.you should be ok

[@robbbietheim2096]

"I HAVE TO POP UP WITH HIM" WTH she sounds like having to go anywhere with him is a total embarrassment for her, OMG 💯

[@copperrose1506]

He will have to get himself together and lose weight and feel better about himself b4 he leaves her.

[@copperrose1506]

@@robbbietheim2096 yeah she did say it like that but at the same time if it’s an all girls events the Fran who brings her man like I have a sister who does that a.m. the rest of us to be like when it is supposed to be yes.? Then I have the sister who has been calls the whole time we are together and when I say the whole time I mean like every 10 minutes. And if I had seven kids to raise and my husband every now and then not every weekend but every now and then I should be able to have some meantime doing the things that I like to do or that I want to do. So I don’t think she meant it like that but she did say it like that

[@AfricanTeacher2.4]

The moment she started saying “toxic” I knew she was manipulative, and to top it all, she has a friend who wants her to be single. This guy should leave as fast as possible and focus on himself.

[@Shellygrrl2573]

I agree... She kept calling him toxic when she's the toxic one. Trying to party acting like she doesn't have kids or a husband.

[@janiceparkerson4727]

Exactly 💯.

[@offoribeh2803]

@@Shellygrrl2573 we in Africa always negatively think that black American don't value marriage, but you guys speak good about this issue, replying from Biafra in west Africa thanks

[@SB-tc2jr]

The friend does know exactly what's going on - because she's hearing it from both of them. She's in the middle and there for it all.

[@AfricanTeacher2.4]

@@SB-tc2jr I agree with you, but her solution was not to find "middle ground". She wants her friend back on the groove because,"misery loves company".

[@opulence_prime]

I agree with the Judge. This lady don’t want him. She saw the opportunity for a come up and took it. He need to let her go.

[@Espressomoon1133]

Agreed

[@janiceparkerson4727]

Wonderfully said 💯.

[@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287]

That friend is no good. She wants her to go out and party with her because she's the one who is miserable

[@monica62888]

Yes and that is effing ridiculous. She's gonna miss him when he's gone because no other man is gonna fund her running around like she is single

[@flowergirlproductions]

Good friends would not encourage someone to be a bad/lazy/unattentenive/absent mother.

[@annabella7188]

Plot twist: friend breaks up the relationship and ends up being the new wife🥴

[@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287]

@@annabella7188 I bet

[@lynnmoses5509]

Them misery likes company sorta friends beware of them. They will ruin your relationship in a hot minute.

[@smithgabrielle101]

My husband is a big guy and I'd never bring up his weight in such a hateful way.

[@robbbietheim2096]

She is a very mean-spirited individual, who seriously believes he is beneath her as a human being , screaming to everyone with -in shouting distance on National TV that he honestly had no reason for his cane, it was all out act, in order for sympathy, a total low blow that was nobodies damn business for her to be putting on blast for any reason whatsoever, it was done with pure malice, but she loves him YEAH RIGHT 💯

[@claryp1509]

Big men are sexy to me.

[@emeraldeleven8197]

My boyfriend is too and I love him to death. My baby is such a sweetheart and my best friend.

[@sharoneh8929]

It seems like she loves what he does and provides for her. He is the stability. She has 7 children and still wants to be a party girl. Love the comment that, "relationships are murdered by Ego, Attitude, and Ignorance."

[@mrsaunders9989]

I love the holding of accountability. Please be contagious

[@gwendolynosler3930]

Amen Amen

[@SharpieDarlingLLC]

She love the fact that he pays for her to live and run free. She don’t love him for him.

[@Shellygrrl2573]

Exactly! Talking about she's an independent woman... No ma'am you are not! She's spending this man's money to go run around in clubs. Her friend is going to be ruining some guy's life while she's over there condoning her friend talking about she's a social butterfly... I don't understand women these days even tho I am one. 😬

[@samanthaandrews6282]

These terrible women always find the good men ❗😡

[@gospel4303]

@@samanthaandrews6282 Agreed! She’s a horrible person. She needs to stop having kids and get her lazy azzz a job! He needs help providing for her and all her kids

[@naamahria2549]

She's very selfish, 💨 brother

[@vlove888]

“ I married him because of stability, I didn’t even marry him because I love him first”. Well there it is.

[@candacebishop3474]

Nothing is wrong with that.

[@vlove888]

@@candacebishop3474 So I don’t know if you’re married or not but what if your husband told you that he just married you because “the sex was good “or he just married you “because you kept the house clean, I didn’t love her at first” that wouldn’t bother you?

[@nyorkiacupid4988]

@@vlove888 There's nothing wrong with marrying for stability and not love. Correct me if im wrong but I believe that's how arrange marriages work. You marry into a "stable"/ wealthy family and the love is supposed supposed come after. It actually makes a lot of sense. Generational wealth is important.

[@vlove888]

@@nyorkiacupid4988 You’re 100% right a lot arrange marriages are based on stability but the problem with that is if that stability goes away then the marriage is going to go away and if it’s just based on one thing even stability, sex, etc. etc. when it goes away the marriage is going to crumble and if that’s the case the phrase, for better or for worse, sickness and in health” is a lie.

[@nyorkiacupid4988]

@@vlove888 think about it as a whole. It's also based on the concept that the love will grow, and most often that not it works. Stability is a firm foundation to stand on. The people who marry for love and forget everything else, usually ends up divorce due to FINANCIAL REASONS. If dome right, marrying for Stability&/ to a man that financially stable is the 🔑

[@dr.jeffreyperson417]

I appreciate how Judge Star shut the friend down with one question: "Are you Married ?"

[@dwahndenson6385]

Judge Star quickly concluded she is not the victim in that relationship, ITS HIM, YOU WOULDN'T TREAT A DOG THE WAY SHE IS TREATING THAT MAN 😗

[@kimr5479]

YES, & he's actually an attractive guy he can diffently get another women (weight & all)!👍😊

[@nayyamymy9980]

She gonna regret this when it's just her and her big friend. Her friend looks big, her friend single. She may as well be with the friend who wants her to be single like her.

[@DJ-vj4vi]

He is the crazy one to stay with a wife that disrespects him like that🤣🤣

[@shorts26]

She was obviously cheating and not marriage material

[@nenew24]

I don't feel sorry for him....he was married to another woman when he got her pregnant.

[@dacyberman0929]

@@nenew24so what mean aren’t meant to have more then one woman 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@peacefreedom4930]

There is so much going on here. She wants his income, but she’s disgusted by him. She’s mean to him because she doesn’t like him, doesn’t respect him, isn’t attracted to him, and wants him to feel as insecure as possible. That way she controls him and doesn’t have to participate with him. This is so sad. I’d be interested in the story of all her children and the fathers. I’m wondering if she is doing this because she has so many children and this man is her ticket to giving her children a better life. He needs therapy to figure out why he is taking this and to walk away.

[@TheNyakaat]

She is everything she accused him of being. I sincerely wish she’ll watch this and listen to everything she said. She is toxic and delusional. She can’t smell her BS.

[@mekawarren]

She has such a nasty attitude. The only reason she is unhappy is because he is holding her accountable.

[@cjwright5458]

Ues she fill of b.s.she kept playing the victim

[@sweetsweet81]

I love the fact that Star Jones asked about the witness being married. Her point of view is different as a single woman.

[@Edward_Strong1982]

Robert yelled omg !! 😂I’ve never heard him yell. That caught me off guard

[@sagthenaturalsiren5997]

“I have 7 chillren “ that’s why she always in the club. Trying to get her youth back she gave up by constantly pushing out a gang of kids she can’t afford.

[@daffodil4500]

Exactly what I was thinking

[@melaniegenuinely]

The way she said....This ain't my man.... should've been the motivation he needed to know it's time to call it quits. She probably has a side dude and his intuition is going off and that's probably why he seems stalkerish. He probably knows something off and he's trying to catch her.

[@Black_and_Green]

He teared up once she said that and then she said it again! 😞

[@jamiex6072]

Definitely why he running around chasing her. He know she don't want him

[@keyeviondavis9647]

Married women have absolutely no business at all constantly ripping and running the street to club hop with single women, she know she was sneaking around what you need two phones for, HUGE RED FLAG

[@flowergirlproductions]

You might be able to do a some ripping and running as a wife...but as a mother of 7 kids, you need to sit yo ass down somewhere unless you ripping and running them somewhere lol

[@fuller8705]

A million red flags

[@HeyMsVal]

How do you not cook for 6 months but have 7 kids to feed? He had to be heavy when they got married. So now it's a problem? You can't be a party girl and social butterfly when you have a husband and 7 kids.

[@Shellygrrl2573]

Right! I'm trying to figure out why she's bouncing around at clubs at all hours and has all those kids?!! He has every right to be mad at that. She comes off selfish when she has no right to be as a wife and mother..just wow.

[@cynthiasaracino7114]

He'd prob lose weight if he got rid of the stress she causes him, meaning getting rid of her. Your body responds to high stress by over producing cortisol which causes weight issues. She's a poor excuse of a woman, wife, and mother. Selfish selfish immature woman.

[@TheScienceNerddAkemi]

@@Shellygrrl2573 Exactly. And did I hear correctly that the youngest is 3 years old? She has a pre-schooler at home but is out dipping and dabbling in clubs, smh.

[@jamiex6072]

When she said she got a husband and baby in the same day that explained it all. She doesn't want him. And he feels that. That's why he follows her around he knows she doesn't want to be with him

[@colors5778]

Exactly 💯😊.😎

[@blackpowerpuff6155]

Then why waste all of that energy following her? Break up with her and co-parent.

[@MyWayWendy]

When someone repeatedly control or used mean words on a person it's considered verbal abuse..

[@cynthiasaracino7114]

She's a poster child for narcissism. He'll lose weight when he gets rid of her. She has no place running around like a 20yo single woman. His body is going to hang on to weight with high levels of cortisol from stress. Those poor children, I can only imagine what they hear on the daily. Mother is some kinda role model 😒🫤🙄

[@rochelleowens6501]

Hopefully he will ask for full custody of his child. She is not going to treat their child well.

[@fuller8705]

@@rochelleowens6501 all those kids ain’t his

[@t.sangrini]

Oh that weight will fall right off without much effort when he finally has enough lol

[@Shogunn_Vee]

The fact the judge even said you talk to him nasty and she continuously disagrees with her actions and make up excuses as to why. What really killed me was having a friend talk on their relationship as if she knows whats going on behind closed doors. She just wants to be single along side her friend so they can party their 40s away while he stay home and parent.

[@kimnlemont13]

Definitely not the case

[@samathawright1496]

Shut up you don't even know what you're talking about lol

[@Shogunn_Vee]

@@kimnlemont13 Its clear as day.

[@kimnlemont13]

Some things are not true and that all I'm going to say.. your entitled to your opinion..n I'm entitled to mines... have a great day...

[@Shogunn_Vee]

@@kimnlemont13 I appreciate you stopping by Karen, have a great day too😭😭

[@patrickmiller1834]

He’s doing damn good if he lost that much weight that quickly. Applause to him

[@leelee185]

What does he see in her, she is so meanspirited and unpleasant.

[@cmbsr4851]

he probably thinks he can't do better and settled instead of leaving her and doing him

[@refi6438]

He probly doesn't realize plenty of women would take him as is. He doesnt have to put up with this foolishness.

[@successfullysarah585]

These cases have been WAY better than what Judge Faith had. Reminds me of the cases from Judge M and the early days of Judge Toler.

[@rochelleowens6501]

Yes you're correct but I am going to wait and see. It's too early in the season for me to make that call. 😀

[@SC20256]

@@rochelleowens6501 I’ve said the same, let’s wait and see. But, so far much better @Sarah

[@ladyluck538]

I think it is Star's reaction that is making it better

[@essence4life23]

Right they were trying Judge Faith with some ridiculous plaintiffs. I knew she was going to leave that contract. Judge Star probably came in with high standards for her cases.

[@God-Love-Freedom]

He has a lot of energy for a big guy: Working 16 hrs a day, cooking at home, following his wife afterwards 😆. God bless him. He seems like a good man. I pray for his weight loss journey and a better marriage.

[@Unique77783]

I'd marry him and treat him rt...

[@margaritaduvander9931]

The man is hurting. You can see that in his face

[@beezybmb]

Facts

[@ogunkanmimodupe2265]

He's been married before

[@margaritaduvander9931]

@@ogunkanmimodupe2265 And?????

[@chasitystrawder420]

Wow….she is the TOXIC one and is so nasty about it. 😤 He needs to leave her NOW! 🤨

[@user-ny8hl8iv8r]

She just likes the idea of marriage. This man has sad eyes. I hope he finds true love , and I hope he flex’s on her when his self esteem is back.

[@heathermcclain657]

Facts!

[@kwasiaking1989]

The plaintiff will learn that she’s not in high demand, with her 7 children and her nasty attitude. She doesn’t realize that she’s already hit the jackpot, having a man who took care of you and your children, being a provider. And you show your gratitude, by being very disrespectful and mean spirited. When y’all part ways, watch and see… you’ll be single for the rest of your life. Note: many wombmen (black women) mistake “I got men wanting to deal with me all the time”…. A man “dealing with you” isn’t the same as a man wanting to be with you; sharing his life with you. “Dealing with”… mean he’ll have sex with you.

[@itsdebbiecakeyoubigdummy828]

You got a lot to say considering you are the most submissive,conquered non producing group of (B)roke bucks lol. 80% of bm leave their children. You have no resources. Eat up other men's food and water lol 😆 Don't generalized, because y'all are T-R-A-S-H heheheeee And before you start lying.... I have NEVER dated one of you hehehe 🤗🤪🤭 *No bullying, no harassment, no lies*

[@dushaneburnley5263]

Judge star has made me a divorce court fan again. Judge faith wasnt a fit for divorce court

[@kdw1356]

Something is wrong with a lot of women these days. They want to be the ratchet city girls and want to be treated like queens at the same time smh 😔

[@hierva2]

Lol...your mother is a wombmen......what does that make you? May my children revere the life they have by respecting/ loving self. Self hate, race hate......seek help.

[@fuller8705]

She is definitely out of pocket

[@wellnesswithfrugalmama]

Ego, arrogance, and ignorance Factsssss She said it, she married him for stability So sad 😞

[@BrianWright485]

hi wellness

[@wellnesswithfrugalmama]

@@BrianWright485 hiiii

[@BrianWright485]

@@wellnesswithfrugalmama how are you doing

[@wellnesswithfrugalmama]

@@BrianWright485 excellent, thanks 😊

[@BrianWright485]

@@wellnesswithfrugalmama me too

[@ObjectivelyBias]

She has come up in the world financially and feels that she doesn't need him anymore. In the club with her single friends.

[@tam9856]

She definitely doesn’t love him and used him. However, I can sense he has low self esteem and thought financially supporting this lady would make her love him. Essentially, she walks all over him and he allows it because he’s passive. And I’m sorry, but I believe her when she says he stalks her. You can tell he’s very suffocating and possessive & that can make someone crazy. I believe he knew who she was in the beginning, but hoped she’d change. She said he’s been married several other times… and cheated with her while he was married. This is probably his karma.

[@joanpasley2181]

When people show who they are; you'd better believe them.

[@lifewithangelina92]

😮😮😮

[@meljames9920]

She didn't have to bring up his weight just the problems in the relationship

[@mimineren8787]

But being 500 lbs I’m a relationship is or can be a problem..

[@bria7379]

She doesn’t wanna let him go cause he pays for everything!!! Lol :/

[@robbbietheim2096]

Obesity and Low- Self Esteem are normally closely related, he should seriously seek both counseling and therapy, to begin loving himself again, because she has both mentally and emotionally destroyed him, and to rebuild the ability to even begin the recovery process he must totally separate from her, she is the cancer that is responsible for 90% of his pain, he deserves much better, GOD BLESS HIM IN HIS JOURNEY 💯

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Theres only one to blame for ones weight and thats the person whos carrying the weight

[@keyeviondavis9647]

@@angelacarlisle1708- she is a very mean-spirited individual who should be alot more supportive in helping a man she claims to love progress in his fight, losing that type of weight is an constant struggle, which is a very difficult process, negativity is not what he needs, he needs love ,something she seems to be incapable of giving him, SMH

[@jennevamadison3803]

@@angelacarlisle1708 I know several children who are severely overweight...I blame the parents unless it's a health issue.

[@rebeccadincher9049]

Funny… unless you ask a person why they are overweight, you won’t know if it is because of a health issue or because they are lazy and overeat. So maybe don’t judge someone on how they look, or talk about them.

[@preciousjemstone2816]

She definitely likes what he can do for her, but she doesn't love him at all. It's interesting that she said 'He taught me how to love him', which shows his always known she doesn't love him, but just hoped that things would get better over time. This relationship isn't it.

[@radrew684]

Preach Judge Star-- she the nail on the head-- she don't the definition of marriage; she told on her herself I wasn't in love with him I only married for stability

[@tracyleesmith781]

This is just sad! Leave, my brother, change the situation for u can happy. It did happen to my brother who was overweight & now he's divorced with full custody of his son with visitation(for his son's mom). Now he's happily remarried, very healthy & very blessed.

[@tamikalee4441]

I definitely Agree!! She definitely mean spirit 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@kimberlydorsey1435]

She finally told the truth, she married him 4 "Stability" not 4 "Love" n alot of women do that n wonder y their marriage is horrible, wrong motives/intentions

[@truthseeker4460]

Girl if he working 16 hr days and providing for you in the kids,loves you, not abusive, weight or no weight he’s a keeper.

[@sya286]

Damn this bailiff dont play

[@rennaeh6682]

He scared me haha

[@mathildap.7705]

Love how Judge Star includes the bailiff in the end. That's someone who has great respect for her employee. Different than a tv Judge who didn't.

[@moussabby]

Mr Gidron, you deserve so much better. Keep working on yourself Sir, and let her leave.

[@larrymenefee1046]

I like Judge Star, she definitely was able to see how his wife didn't care for their marriage, or her husband, then the single friend as a witness is just apart of the problem in their marriage.

[@tamikalee4441]

Facts 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@rebeccadincher9049]

Exactly! How can she be a good mom if she is always running out to the bar and partying!

[@loliqueenloco6495]

The wife started crying when the toxic friend started talking 😂 wtf

[@wezzman1]

First off, I am loving DC again cause Star is absolutely great. On another note, that lady only used that poor guy to look after her and her 6 other kids. Awful human being.

[@Otto8845]

5:20 The couple: *arguing* Robert Hernandez: ONE AT A TIME! 😡

[@Amal-ku9xq]

I enjoy all the judges on divorce court, and they are all wise in their own way.

[@Otto8845]

So do I. I like them & I like "Divorce Court".

[@qasimjabbar5680]

its funny how she just glossed over the fact that she was talkin with another man in the bathroom and thats why he followed her to the club

[@monica62888]

I was wondering why the hell they all ignored THAT PART!

[@cmbsr4851]

​@@monica62888 right, like we all didn't just hear that 💀

[@cjohns1005]

Then called him toxic

[@quichequiche4274]

They also ignored that he cheated WITH her on his wife and got her pregnant, so that's probably why he's stalking her too. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@mermaidtingzzz]

Her: He was never my man! Also her: I love him, I can’t see my life without him. ✋Ma’am, please!

[@hateisforlosers6116]

Exactly stop the shenanigans because you don't want to lose your income!!

[@youmakemelaugh1797]

It's plenty of women who loves big men, plus he's working on himself, has a job playing bills, and he's not ugly oh someone will be coming along for her big daddy!💕🙌🏿

[@deonnecaines7610]

The way she said "this NEVER was my man!!!" She has never liked him. She got pregnant and he liked her and she said "what the heck, why not?" She has never had any interest in him and now she feels stuck and annoyed. He needs to let her go with haste. She will continue hurting him as long as he let's her.

[@lzl3lol]

So basically, she never loved the man, never wanted to marry him, she only married him to use him for his money and the stability he could provide so she could run round the town and be an independent woman, messing around behind his back (which I 100% believe after how she acted in the courtroom), her friends are toxic as hell and she just genuine hated the guy. He's a sucker for not seeing all the red flags because as soon as she opened her mouth I cringed and yet he still married it. Trust me bro, these ladies are just as dirty if not more so than men are. The falsehood that men are the promiscuous ones, that we are the unloyal ones, etc is being disproven and theres information out there to show it as truth too.

[@Shellygrrl2573]

What Got on my nerves is her saying that he's so toxic and a stalker when she's a manipulative shrew. Running around in clubs like she's some spring chicken when she has seven kids!! Talking about she's independent! No you are not independent while you're spending this man's money. It's that "modern women" type of thinking that's causing dysfunction in these relationships.

[@lzl3lol]

@@Shellygrrl2573 that's the thing, 7 kids and she didn't get the man she wanted so she settled for the provider she doesn't even like to sustain her lifestyle while he slaves away trying to make her happy and to gain her acknowledgement, if she's so brazen to say those things infront of the judge, what do you think she was saying behind closed doors? He had every reason to be paranoid in my opinion

[@rochelleowens6501]

Basically he is the definition of a Simp in this new age. When I was growing up they used the term himpeck husband.

[@ericjefferson6249]

She is the epitome of "you can't turn a hoe into a housewife."

[@SPtheGREAT]

"Relationships never DIE A NATURAL DEATH...They often die of EGO, ATTITUDE, AND IGNORANCE..." RIGHT ON JUDGE ⭐!!!

[@KWin-ik5cl]

"toxic" is a go to word now. When she used it, I had a problem believing her on anything. Weight does not fall off overnight, she needs to be more supportive and recognize when he has done so.

[@missnyc8621]

I’ve been in a relationship that was suffocating. You love the person but you can’t breathe. You try to show them you love them but it’s never enough. After a while you start to say whatever and it may come off as meanness but it’s really resentment. Once the resentment takes over it’s time to move on.

[@mimineren8787]

I honestly feel like she might be misunderstood… she is mean but I think it took time to get to that stage n she’s listening up her single friends.

[@yarasulaiman1149]

I couldn't agree more. I feel like everyone is misinterpreting the situation fr. Sometimes u love someone so much but there's a lot of pain, anger and as u said resentment and u start to say nasty bad things to ur partner out of frustration and the constant pain u r enduring. There were a lot of other episodes where ppl were nasty to each other just because and this ain't one of them.

[@nyorkiacupid4988]

Madam! Thats it right there.

[@ricohall6124]

Why don't you ladies just admit it. She never loved him. She only wanted his money and stability. She has 7 kids and is out all night. Talks and treats him like he's nothing. Quit making excuses for her. Now the f the husband was telling her same story. Y'all wouldn't be making excuses for him. He would be all kinds of sorryazz man. Y'all would be saying. He needs to stay home and help her with those 7 kids. Y'all know she did him wrong...

[@bria7379]

Wow. I can honestly say I love the new set up and format of the show. Star was great. I miss the previous judges but this was good. My first episode-I will keep watching!!

[@stopit41]

Wow! I feel for this dude.

[@sholondaflynn6483]

She wants him to provide and take care of the kids while, she's out clubbing. She doesn't love him, she loves that he takes care of her financially. "This wasn't my boyfriend, I didn't date him. I got husband and a baby in the same day." "I married him for stability, I didn't marry him for love." Terrible. Of course, she doesn't want to split up, no other man is going to go to work and take care of 7 kids while she rips and runs the streets. I hope he continues to work on himself and divorces her.

[@donaldroberts4144]

what does his eating habit have to do with you being a 304 lololol

[@thesweetlifeofgbaee]

"this never was my man" 😭😭😭 a baby and boyfriend in the same day omgosh

[@t.sangrini]

SHE DON'T WANT HIM FAT OR SKINNY. SHE'S USING HIM FOR SECURITY AND TO HELP HER WITH ALL THEM DAMN KIDS. PERIOD.🙅🏾‍♀RUN MAN RUN!!

[@startinajackson606]

I love love Star Judge, she is always on point. Always truthful and doesn’t take sides. I feel sooo bad for that gentle giant. She has used and abused him and you can see the pain in his eyes. He needs to pack his stuff and go.

[@Phenomenal8448]

Using words like manipulator, stalker, that’s not how you describe your spouse. That marriage never had a leg to stand on

[@iamsadeashley]

He's not a victim, he was a cheater and mad his woman still out there. Both of them got what they wanted.

[@vernicesmith6738]

Girllllll!!!! I just commented that they both got the karma they both deserve. He probably was spending money and she was pretending that he was the man! Even at 500lbs. She never wanted him, but nobody else was trying to take care of six children that weren’t theirs. His ex wife is probably happy as hell😂😂😂

[@ItsUrGirlAR]

He needs to leave her….period!!!!💯💯

[@Black_and_Green]

Good for him! I hope he moves on and keeps losing all that weight! 🙏🏾

[@amybynum8962]

Yes good luck 👍

[@angelicanmn]

Ms. Harris: "I got a baby and a husband the same day." Sorry Ms. Harris, you denied being that girl, YOU ARE THAT GIRL!

[@sinailemor467]

Bro needs to RUN!!!!! She said several in different ways that she’s not In Love with him, she loves the stability he provides.

[@zulu3274]

😏 She sooooo independent yet needs him for stability and if "don't save her" was a person. This is exactly what those RED PILL guys be talking about when they say don't date single mothers or trust modern women... She makes a solid case for their argument...💯 RIP Kevin Samuels...

[@shay-rae138]

When you sleep with somebody’s husband and think you will be happy, plus she’s boldly saying she married him for “financial stability” not love that’s so sad but that’s her karma 💯

[@vernicesmith6738]

He getting his karma too. He probably was spending money on her and enjoying the sex outside his marriage. She never intended to be with this man, he had to be overweight when she met him. Now it’s a hot mess! I wish them the best😂

[@ThetaAlphaGamma]

He's right; when you get married....you change together. You can't keep living the single life with a husband and several children. An occasional night out with the girls is ok but every weekend; no ma'am! Why are you out until 2:00? He deserves a woman that wants to be a wife....this one is for the streets.

[@LaWandaHONEY]

She’s for the streets. That’s it that’s all. I’m with him when he says that you are supposed to evolve when you get married and as you get older. That’s sad. & What’s even more sad is you can tell her single friend wants her out there in the streets with them. Girrrll you got a good man. He may not be perfect but if he leaves, I guarantee you will never find another like him. Help him. Hit the gym with him. Communicate your feelings and what you want support on. Hang with your girls once or twice a month. It doesn’t have to always be the club when y’all hang. Share location just to ease his mind. I see nothing wrong with that especially if you have nothing to hide, and you’re out all night drinking and partying. Baby I love that my man have my location because I feel safe and secure simply knowing that. I know God forbid anything happens, he’ll know where to start at least. Talking about you can take care of yourself, you don’t need him being your security…😐 really?? You really just said that. Then why do you have a husband, besides the selfish need of “stability”.

[@barbeegirl7196]

She is definitely for the streets!!He need to believe her when she said that she married him for stability,not because she loved him .She still feels like that.

[@jamesgibson3716]

No wonder this is jacked up....they got together all wrong. So they're supposed to be in this position. He married the side chick. Makes sense....

[@mickeliachambers7291]

It's strange that his weight is now such a huge issue when you met him at 500 something pounds. And now he's 300 something and he's fat and lazy. Lady leave this man be. Sir, continue on your weight loss journey. Self love is the best love. Wishing you the best

[@sharonsimmons1325]

This man is good one relationship is toxic he deserves better run.she a☹️ bully just saying.

[@wright1wright]

Bro u have to leave. She is wasting your time. She don't respect you at all

[@cynthiasaracino7114]

Run Ty RUN!!!!! She's toxic AF. The words outta her mouth are making me sick. She's sticking around so you can feed her lifestyle. Her gf... Excuse me girl your friend is married with 7 kids. She's not supposed to be your party partner. Ty there's a woman out there that will love u up just how you are and make u feel like a king. Trust and believe.

[@ogunkanmimodupe2265]

He's been married before like she said I think the two of them have deeper issues than what is said

[@amybynum8962]

Bye girl ✋🏽

[@sydneycameron681]

I love the after court convo n the break down love di constant changes

[@adlihcrosby1389]

He looks so sad when she talks down to him. He seems so insecure because he doesn’t feel appreciated , secure about himself. He needs to move on and be happy he looks like a very patient person but needs to move on

[@montebebe75hutchinson37]

She said she hasn't cooked in 6 months. So darn what the kids eat.

[@millerforce1donaldson100]

Mrs Jones, I just started to watching your videos and I like you already, you are fair and straightforward, I love that about you!🙏

[@sasha658]

I would not speak about my husband much less his weight in a way she does. this man need someone to loove and not disrespect him. she never love him and that friend need to shut up since she ain't married

[@chapter2nodrama841]

The wife is TRIFLING!!!!

[@jandy5258]

She callin him fat, they’re the same size 😅

[@redgurl60]

This is what they mean when they say "you can't turn a hoe into a housewife". He has low self esteem, and he's grossly insecure. I really want him to find his internal strength and love, and LEAVE! He deserves better. She's using him. She don't even like him. There was a reason the party girl was single with 6 kids. "Yogi" is for the streets!

[@coreyhubbard5820]

Amen to that. Now I see wht u mean

[@02Day14]

She definitely doesn’t love him, she said it herself she loves the stability. She said that so nonchalant

[@bellab320]

Its messed up how she's treating him true enough, but let's not forget he cheated ON HIS WIFE, got another woman PREGNANT, and left HIS WIFE! I'm sorry but I can't feel sorry for him.

[@mogetit5999]

Karma

[@bellab320]

@@mogetit5999 thats exactly what it is!!!

[@thefreebabe]

wow. you're like the only comment that mentions this. so, everyone glossed over this fact, but the wife is what? evil? pls!

[@bellab320]

@@thefreebabe yes, as usual people so ready to blame the woman for everything, but this seems like his karma to me. And she will get hers also!

[@JayloveTheFoodguy]

So just because he cheated we are excusing her behavior... Like Seriously

[@lexislove639]

After she said i married him for stability… why r we still talking to these ppl!

[@lexislove639]

@@Mrs.TJ516 yes maam but if u really think its gonna work then mamacita u r not a victim u got what u deserved

[@kellabillingsley5141]

she has no respect for him clearly and she over it and they should move on

[@savtrill333]

She fat shaming, and she ain't the most thin woman in the world herself.

[@terrence2309]

Ikr

[@vanessakenney3144]

She said she didn't do wifey duties before they got married and he said "that's the problem" He would have had a problem with me then because I don't think a woman should do wifey duties if she's not the wife. Go head with that.

[@testedtried1233]

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@gailsmith836]

But then the baby and the husband on the same day? Because she called that baby “his son”.

[@RITVV]

ok Robert I never seen Juan raise his voice like that 😂

[@muffin3686]

Like she said she got with him for stability and that's what it is. She loves what he does for her.

[@sunshinebutterfly4654]

You have 7 kids and you're still running around the clubs!😫