The Captain Save-A-Bro Show Episode 13 - Chargehoephobia

[@dedricklane4899]

I think this is me I have a gf that I’ve been debating to break up with for the whole 8 months on and off. Thank you. After hearing you describe me and my relationship to a tee. My next next move is going to have to be charging her or correct the bs. I thought I was red pilled before getting with this girl but really I was getting no play but even then that don’t give af attitude from me is what attracted her to me but the longer this relationship goes on the more I simp, fall deeper into depression and get disgusted by my bending to her wants. She even told me that although it was hard to get used to at first she was turned on by the no nonsense more serious side I showed earlier on and now she’s not turned on by how much I softened up let things slide and always begging for some sex and wants me to go back to checking her when she’s wrong and being more disciplined. Although I’m frustrated and feel manipulated I can’t blame her for my weakness and mommy issues.

[@allenmickey8756]

If you’re not a man these women will MAKE you one.

[@kennyblessed2523]

I fucs with the guy heavy. Solid dude.

[@afikingdombooks]

For the algo 🔥🔥🔥still got 30 left..Saving it for the ride home..Salute my bro

[@wrcinc]

A lot of guys of also fear losing access to sex. The chick might have been their only piece of azz and they know charging her would mean no sex for a while. I would rather be at zero and in a long drought before I let a chick disrespect me. I think by charging these chicks, you pay it forward for the next guy because hopefully she’ll think twice about being disrespectful knowing that a guy will walk away. If guys keep doing this, before long women will shape up and your next one might be your best one 😂

[@drslimldn]

Great video, I definitely have symptoms of Chargehoephobia - particularly fear or rejection and I definitely dragged out breaking up with my 10.5 yr relationship. Still workin on it! Thanks King Dre

[@timothyrushdan8570]

That moving around a lot as a adolescent was my issue. That had a huge impact socially on me. It took a while to get through that. Great video, Dre!

[@mediamarv18]

Same here brotha

[@spark5558]

Good episode today also for some people from other spheres in the red pill charge is basically a hard next and a check or checking is simply soft nexting or putting her on ice. Could also be a more minor boundary reinforcement depending on situation

[@vulture116]

I accept the challenge.

[@shehateme9955]

Beyond deserving of the growth

[@beatsbybobiano7168]

King Dre thank you for this gems

[@ANFMOOREP]

I ACCEPT THE CHALLENGE.

[@hunterpozzi9051]

Your saving lives our here

[@9525joe]

I accept the challenge.

[@cdeep120]

Challenge accepted

[@MiguelRodriguez-dg2dl]

Great content overall King. Keep up the good work/fight 💪 Let's get Chargehoephobia in the dictionary, these simps need to know about these simptoms.

[@nycepapi]

I think the prob with those examples, Will and Johnny, is they are both dealing covert narcissists and there is a whole section of Dr.s and therapists on here that speaks of the damaging psychology of covert narcissist and how they hook their victims... they dont show that manipulative crazy side until ur hooked at that point they are so intertwined in ur life that dropping them literally would have destroyed them... u see how hard Amber lied on Johnny and ppl believed her over him, not to mention his career took a major hit, same with Will.... Only difference is ppl see Jada for who she is now... while everybody are starting to see exactly who Amber is...mix that together with will and johnny both prob having major simp tendencies, well... u see the outcome

[@tru00085]

I only had this dilemma with one woman and that's my soon to be ex wife. In every other relationship I've ever been in I put myself 1st.

[@MiguelRodriguez-dg2dl]

Similar to the Sunk-Cost Fallacy. Definition: The phenomenon whereby a person is reluctant to abandon a strategy or course of action because they have invested heavily in it, even when it is clear that abandonment would be more beneficial. "the sunk-cost fallacy creeps into a lot of major financial decisions"

[@Marctavious]

I accept the challenge

[@9525joe]

I wanna get better. I believe I can get better.

[@zerubbabelsbridge]

I clicked on this video simply because I love the title and channel name. Maybe I'll listen to a video one of these days and become a subscriber. I'm not doing too well. So I don't really plan ahead

[@kingdreism]

Welcome. If you aren’t doing to well, you should listen asap. Will get you to where you need to be

[@twin481]

I accept Challenge

[@imissmygen4]

Nun but facts

[@himalayandrip6828]

so tell me about yourself line how do you all usually answer that?