The Cl!t is Not a DJ Booth ft. Michelle Hope - WD w/ Mandii B & WeezyWTF

[@chelsim7398]

Weezy needs to take her personal opinion out of the context. When discussing sex in a public forum, there should be a general language that promotes sex as a healthy act. Rather than exposing our own personal preferences on what sex should be like. Especially the words "beat" or "murder", states that those entering the sexuality should have this premise for their experience. I agree, I would love the language to change. I want my son/daughter to be exposed to healthy experience rather than what the media suggest. Like Mandi said, "pose the question to just explore the thought and the conversation."

[@Alexis-wp7tf]

I have to agree with Michelle. The question is heavy and I don't think people were ready to hear that we ALL contribute to some shape or form of negativity surrounding sex, even if it is joking or for entertainment. We always blame porn or the patriarchy, but this is something the majority of us all use. The mention of the middle schoolers was telling. I remember being in middle school and boys slapping my butt or hugging me from behind because they liked me and even me saying no or visibly looking unamused did not fase them. So I think this language feeds into the agressive nature of sexuality that unfortunately puts a lot of people in unpleasant situtaions because it is culture and mostly impacts the youth. I'm also surprised she did not mention for her argument the fact that majority of women watch lesbian porn because a lot of us do not want to watch women being objectified and the agressive nature of how heterosexual porn is portrayed so women specifically have to find ways to move away from this agressiveness in order to find pleasure sometimes.

[@MsShar1983]

Being aware of language when talking about sex is something I totally agree with. Especially out in public it’s a time and place for everything the things I talk to my partner in the bedroom is definitely different and more filtered than when I’m out in a public setting.

[@ashleyydeniece]

No one: Mandii: My man my man my man😂

[@henryewald9327]

She has a show to promote...

[@elianarodriguez6947]

I agree with Michelle. I think it's the fact that violent language has become predominant in the way we talk about sex. There's nothing wrong with saying it personally but factoring in the way women are objectified, talking about having sex with a woman violently can exacerbate the way black women specifically are perceived. It's compounded by the stereotype Michelle spoke about, Black women being strong, masculine, and incapable of vulnerability. I think having that kind of talk dominate our conversations about sex does a disservice to both black men and women - women being seen as invulnerable and men as beasts.

[@yellow54321]

I understood what she was saying in the original post. People were making it out to be about kink shaming or respectability politics and it was neither. For me the issue is the language is being created by and popularized by misogynistic men. These men are disrespectful to women in their music and outside of their music. You have to visualize a generation of young men and boys who are listening to sexually aggressive lyrics, watching aggressive/ violent porn and now listening to misogynistic podcast. It influences how they see and interact with girls and women.

[@sillymia1206]

I looove Michelle and how she incorporates historical facts into the conversation and shedding a light on how negative sounding and aggressive sexual language has become. Amazing Episode!!

[@alikarturner]

They need a talking stick. Lol!

[@Kezafrika]

I know! She the expert but they keep not letting her talk

[@itscarlamcd3122]

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your guest on this episode- so informative and on point! I COMPLETELY agree with her statement about the OUTSIDE LANGUAGE we use about sex- ESPECIALLY in our music! Many (too many) young people (KIDS) listen to and hear this language in the music they listen CONSTANTLY! This is how they think they (boys) should talk to girls, but as with many things that have become “accepted” by us Black folks, we don’t consider where a word (or statement) came from historically. We continue to use hurtful/harmful words and claim them WITH PRIDE! She makes a damn good argument that needed to be said👏🏽👏🏽

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

I agree with Michelle! She’s not policing what people do in their own bedrooms, but we do need to be conscious of the words we use especially when younger people are having their first sexual experiences with awful messaging. I feel similarly to porn - as an adult, I don’t see much wrong with it but the problem is when younger people who are virgins or still very inexperienced get a hold of that content and begin thinking that is how sex should be because they have very little to compare to.

[@yokoohellno]

loved having Michelle Hope back on! it's been a minute ❤️

[@LOPPuddin11]

Really loved this episode. Very informative and thought provoking. Thank you Ladies! 💖#YeaHeaux

[@LordZevv]

I'm in my early 30s now. As a teenager I was talking to this girl about sex and I used the term "make love" and I was called all kind of lames and basically accused of being a virgin because I used that term. Fast forward to a few months ago the woman I was dating had a problem when I said "fucking" and I had to explain to her that I use that term to describe the intensity of sex, not necessarily to imply the person I'm having sex with doesn't mean anything to me. She prefers the term "make love" for any type of sex. I say all that to say a lot of the time women perpetuate what is or is not acceptable. My young mind was molded to believe making love was uncool and I had to "fuck". Which became a habit to use that language and could have possibly pushed away other women. The culture of sex needs to be relearned. Not to say people can't like sex language that's aggressive but a lot of children get the idea that aggressive sex is the only way to have sex and aggressive language is the norm. We need better sex ed at some point.

[@missyk2984]

Lmao.. I’d rather make love then fuck

[@Dgeorges19]

Couldn’t agree more!

[@cpiercejr]

Great guest, I couldn't agree with her more.

[@kmedd]

I truly enjoyed this episode, the social and perspective the guest brought was dope! Love from Toronto 🙌🏻💜

[@Wriqhton]

This episode 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 might one of the most mature episodes yet. I mean they’re all mature but … y’all know what I mean 🤣🤣🤣

[@GTfromAG]

21:09-11..."And they wear Tims"🤣🤣

[@dreamqueen317]

Michelle is right. My mother makes the same points. She’s talking about the macro of the problem not the micro (your own individual feelings).

[@richardpowell2633]

Another excellent and informative show! Thank you ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

[@NonidleEnt]

Very great episode! Laughs, realness, the energy of all 3 of you 🔥✨

[@mfs98COL]

Totally agree with Michelle. Mandy and Weezy, I have to say I Love to see this kind of episodes y’all need to bring more people like her, educated and with facts to support her words. 👍

[@anaelisar5279]

"brah they're colonizer, they're violent" my definitely be my favorite mandi line ever. Wow.

[@davis0730]

I love how much I'm learning from the guest.

[@syckindahead]

Guess who's back?!! Michelle Hope? This gonna be 🔥🔥🔥

[@MiaJay1090]

OMG.. I'm finally caught up oh lawwd!!! Love y'all

[@thestreetsdontlie7691]

I think weezy is too small minded for this. Shockingly Mandy was a very good addition to this conversation.

[@torieanast.pierre5204]

I agree. I feel like weezy can’t look outside herself in the conversation and missed several of Michelle’s points about this being a cultural critique.

[@addicted2bbqchicken]

Powerful conversation about the language used. Thanks Michelle!

[@lalaginaaa]

Great episode, it’s great to have an episode where culture norms are being challenged. It shows the difference between London and the US

[@medinab6035]

This lighting got y’all lookin tan!😍

[@disorientedbutterfly]

I love when Micheal speaks. She’s always adding a lot of nuance to the conversation of sex.

[@Jayandreaaa]

Loved this conversation ❤️

[@naiasworldd]

So happy to see Michelle Hope in a different space because it really showed a different side of her in a more intimate setting. I did watch the majority of the podcast in which that clip came from when it came out and was very turned off and just generally unimpressed for various reasons aside from the clip. While this is still very much her same intentions but presented differently.

[@Kristalraq]

I was coming outta Delta Sky Lounge LAX and walked past Weezy going in, she’s so effortlessly pretty!!!😍😍😍

[@itscarlamcd3122]

Also, she’s a sex educator so she’s coming with actual FACTS not just personal experiences. She’s very good at how she approaches the info she presents. Thanks for saying it Michelle🙌🏽. One more thing- I COMPLETELY agree with Weezy about the jerks that we’ve all heard spouting their immature, ass-backwards opinions of Black women (not mentioning the name of the show, though I do know it) when she says it self-loathing that forms their opinions.

[@sasukefroupie]

What’s the show? I wanna get ahead and block the content

[@lalakeeshiex]

Mandii can be so hypocritical smh

[@BreeSaysHey18]

Really loved this episode!

[@chichomukonde417]

😂😂😂 Don't she sound like Dr. Haddasah from "The black lady sketch show"

[@willied.5885]

I love Mandi & Weezy!.. any advice how I could make my old lady feel the same way 😒

[@truuff]

18:15-- i think this guest is missing the MAIN reason why men use that "violent" language...a big part is cuz women make fun of men who dont put in work. So men feel the need to talk up their game to avoid being put on blast. 33:27-- chicks who are shy to say what they like, communicate thru moans. Pay close attention to the moans and her body's reactions and vibrations to what ur doing 😉

[@DreTheCoolest]

Damn Michelle got a brotha out here thinking for real and dropping gems

[@2011courtneyc]

Yes, be aware of language! I listened to this Episode today & then realized a verse from 1 of my favorite songs "I'm the pioneer Beat that pussy up, I need riot gear, Any volunteers?" (2Chains, It's a Vibe)

[@LOPPuddin11]

Weezy massaging the puppet tho 🤣🤣🤣

[@MadonnaBlack]

Where do I have to go for the 5 min Patreon exclusive? 🥴🥴🥴

[@db-fq4pk]

The concept is Dignity, as a race we’ve taken part in our own demise for entertainment

[@jmellothagreat131]

Another great one!

[@chiquta904]

Wow!!! Great Episodes!!!

[@CelineAdobea]

Love this episode!!

[@SoniaLopez-px6jc]

Weezy! You help me see how to accept others points of views without being awkward and keeping everyone be comfortable. So inspiring ✨

[@notanotherjasmine]

Loved this conversation

[@whoiszionwalker]

This was so good

[@ChinotheJet]

I just wanna know is that Radio on Weezy shirt?

[@judealowery1078]

I need that shirt that Michelle has on!!

[@keelaleath4037]

Michelle looks like the light brown version of Jules from Euphoria

[@blackroc01]

Yo.....what RnB person was Weezy talkin bout. I can't tell and the captions dont know either 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@Shalayah2010]

So Weezy, if you wont say a brand name because they didn't pay for the episode, then why mention for example where you ate, what hotel you stayed in, what brand of phone your using, etc etc ... Like where does it stop

[@DecisionsPod]

Great question. Hotels, restaurants, and phones aren’t a common sponsor for my show. Sex toys are literally the biggest market for us. If I was fitness influencer I wouldn’t talk about how much I like Nike unless they were cutting a check.

[@cedunstoppable]

BONELESS WINGS AINT NO DAMN WINGS

[@jamiejames203]

I love everything about this episode! I grew up with the biracial struggles as well. I was always the "white" girl trying to be "black" and I'm black, but my hair is thin and I also can pass for Latin decent. Anyhoo, and the pussy PALLOW (in my weezy voice) LoL was everything! Michelle covered all the things! 🙏🏼🙌🏼

[@RevolutionaryRAYRAY]

Is the Temperature in the room worth a question in a Therapeutic Podcast

[@Tyra_Night]

13:20 I saw her on that other podcast/show she was def giving bad vibes 😂😂

[@yellow54321]

Also, her disagreeing with the language but supporting consensual aggressive sex is like us supporting sex workers but not supporting the abusive porn industry.

[@hfj957]

if you boring just say that

[@Deadxssb]

My girl and I say passion time 🥂🤷🏾‍♂️

[@jessikabulli2027]

I really liked her as a guest

[@sydsaywhaa]

Michelle is backkkkk

[@Lemonsplats]

Why does Weezy remind me of Doja Cat tho

[@leebishop7591]

1. Just wanted to say, ima certified Michelle Hope groupie. Love her content, Hope she does her own podcast. 2. The WD Patreon, why is there kids on there??? 3. I understand when dude or the producer describes whats going on, on the show; but the other times he's playing P. DIDDY on the track, nahhh son. Mad annoying. Other than that, great episode.

[@shinethreu]

21:15 NOT HER SAYING DEMURE a whole 2 years ago!!! now its the trend!?!?

[@keelaleath4037]

OOOooh gosh, does this mean I can't listen to Ying Yang twins anymore??? I love that song.

[@barrytaylor6886]

When a girl says no I go period.

[@crystalrubbie9383]

weeezy braid colour is fyre

[@user-vb7ud2id3h]

Do an interview with Tiana trump! Would love that!!! Very on brand

[@everlyngathoni3027]

THIS is the only time I have disagreed with my girl Weezy 💔

[@lilloworldwide]

Not hunt you down to China town 😂

[@sevinspencer3876]

If you ever want to interview someone that has a disability on your show I know you have done a few already I'm a huge fan congratulations on all your success

[@tiannaamber9136]

Michelle looked like Angela Rye in that clip

[@RevolutionaryRAYRAY]

Why snatch or non verbal communicate stress when Duality who is blessing who in a discipline world you do not own . Gather yourself then who cleans your soil lining from those tears

[@elichosen3931]

I guess I'm a square I just don't do alchohol before sex lol I hate being under any influence during intercourse. I just don't get nothing from it I love being aware of everything it's sober sex for me. I never hear anything about ppl smashing sober smh so many ppl are the same. I guess we were all trained by society that alcohol and sex have to be linked thats a form of brainwash, I feel individuals that drink before intercourse is a form of low self-esteem/low confidence on top of whats learned from society. If you can't be aroused and at full compacity on your own then you have to reevaluate some things, do some self reflection understand that's alcohol or anything is not necessary to enjoy intercourse.

[@kinchen261]

Weezy fine as hell

[@keelaleath4037]

I can't get behind this pov. this is the same conversation we can have about the "n-word" which I use also.

[@chunk5214]

Yea y did he interrupt weezy like that

[@ryanrhodes9732]

Weezy went super white w/ Everlast. Lol you ruined the song for me now! SOILED IT! Lol

[@scoopjones50]

yerrrrrrrr

[@elichosen3931]

I enjoy listening to miss Michelle. Ma strong and passionate that shit attractive fr.

[@robonrich6549]

Poor Michelle…..loves Duracell over Man Meat Cell 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️😂😂😂💀

[@chaviiita]

I used to do that also 3:12 :) I like dates both male and females

[@brianaw975]

I know that girl did not say yall close to her momma age. She's to young be listening if stuff like that us weird for her and weezy is hilarious without even trying

[@achanel2015]

It makes sense to me. She said she was 20 and her mom had her at 14 making her 34. I guess it would be awkward hearing such vulgarity from someone 2 years younger than your mom 😭

[@giselle8063]

Is anybody else getting annoyed by Eden. I can’t deal with the ad libs. CUT HIS MIC!

[@srianna0416]

Really I love it lol

[@giselle8063]

Literally haven’t finished the episode cuz I can’t take it lol

[@ivysrainbow6735]

I kind of disagree.I think we as a people need to be more articulate and dignified and proud, but sexual language I think is so personal it doesn’t have to be regulated unless you’re being offensive to a specific person. If I’m speaking on what I like or what I did because I’m comfortable sharing who are you to control my language, if it doesn’t offend the person I’m conversing with??? Language in rap I think is a different animal. But when sw my friends or whatever I will speak how I want sooooo this was a big no for me I just feel it’s inconsequential to the greater good of our people to judge or regulate how I’m speaking about my sex life lol. Come on now.

[@Taylor987-h8j]

She literally said she was talking about language in public spaces

[@ivysrainbow6735]

Yea like pods and in music, public spaces but more than likely in any public space their is a control around this specific topic, like ratings and what not. There is space to speak freely about sex in public spaces too. The whites do it as well if it makes you feel better. I still think it’s inconsequential to the greater good. But go off.

[@nanileeann7690]

Not sock with sandals honey boo boo NO!!!!! I can’t

[@nanileeann7690]

Still love y’all tho🙃 best pod ever

[@prestonlhouse]

Hey. Can we get some info on the best sex clubs in NYC please? Thank you!

[@DFNUVS]

12TH 😜😍😍😍👌✅

[@DFNUVS]

21:00 wait for it… 😳😱😅🤔😳😥😔 32:52 😱😜 *faints*

[@DFNUVS]

35:57 👀😳🤓😜✅😍

[@DFNUVS]

🖤🖤🖤 BRAVISSIMO LADIES 👌✅😎 POOR EDDIN 😅👀

[@njb2111]

IMO, if both yall are cool with it, say whatever you want. Respectfully. This just seems a little nit-picky as most men and women talk like that.

[@Jenny-fu3tq]

Only black women? I just pose the question…

[@Lind419]

I honestly think the point is that we shouldnt involve ourselves in what other races do because we cant afford to talk to eachother in that way. Of course other races are talking that way but black women being harmed the most is why we shouldnt

[@shaksmartmurals8212]

Mandi always talks like that ... I’m confused

[@andresa1490]

Freedom of speech thats all im say.

[@loyaltea3586]

sometimes weezy can really just be ignorant & it’s embarrassing & ANNOYING !

[@camkingcamking4697]

Homeboy needs to be fired!!! Here we are having Mandy tell us how she wants us to go down on her and he starts talking about some BS n one care about But he...Cut his mike plz....

[@jmellothagreat131]

I wouldn’t say fired but he could hold back😂

[@onzygal1]

The convo was about to get juicy 🤣 love him though

[@oliviaross1675]

Weezy, not mandi

[@kaym2426]

For real! Like why can’t we actually listen to Mandi Weezy and the guest ever! His name is not on the podcast. I literally just want to hear them talking.

[@bennycoble8702]

Yes wizzy I will Lord knows I will put my hole mouth on there

[@alyxransoMMM]

I’ll pay a Uber eatd

[@thelastwordwithkenny7183]

Now talking sex has to be PC smh

[@shaksmartmurals8212]

This was a good episode but I totally disagree . Let people speak how they want to lady when it comes to doing the do