The clock is ticking to get married

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[@OnePathNetwork]

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[@HK00088]

I’m 35 year old man I’m old to get marfied

[@faizamunye753]

May Allah grant us all with righteous spouses that will bring peace to ours eyes Ameen

[@helenandersson1320]

Then you need to accept Jesus Christ as your savior, so that you can pray to God the Father in Jesus name asking him to send the right one and he will. Put God first always.

[@ultrapowerlevel]

Ameen

[@SHK8553]

Aameen

[@erzascarlet5078]

‎أمين

[@kausamsalam8543]

Ameen. May Allah help us with our marriage and family life, as Allah is so Merciful to us in our times of need/suffering.

[@bejmire3084]

My cousin, she had to take care of her mother which passed away from cancer, then her father became sick and passed away, and my cousin got married at 40 years old, and now she has two children. God is Great!

[@fatimahzakkari8315]

I really needed this.thank you so much may Allah bless us all

[@isahshuaibu-um9re]

I love you

[@Rknazari4679]

Ameen ya Rabbul aalameen

[@bounoumelia7059]

I needed this too I'm 24 yo and not married My family is making pressure on me i cant stand it. May Allah guide us all

[@native5647]

​@bounoumelia7059 it's about time. Why are you waiting ?

[@fatimahzakkari8315]

@@bounoumelia7059 I’m 26 dis month nd I’m facing the same thing with my family nd community

[@thiziribs3742]

It's comforting and relieving to hear this from another woman as a lot of women in society do rush other women with this kind of stuffs as if it's the end of the world indeed. Al hamdoulillah 🤲✨

[@sieg6635]

Best to get married young. Women expire after a certain point (the wall)

[@MI-vc9lp]

@@sieg6635 'Expire' - we're not milk.

[@sieg6635]

@@MI-vc9lp except that you do when it comes to producing eggs. Women as well as men expire in terms of milk, they both decline. But the diff is that women age faster than men in skin (by 2.5x), and men can keep making sperm but the quality decreases. But women outright stop creating eggs. I wasn’t saying this to be sexist btw. My main point was that it’s best to marry young.

[@tisbutascratch2045]

​​@@sieg6635Sure, but men's sperm doesn't just 'decline.' For a man of 40 years old to try to have kids SIGNIFICANTLY increases the chances of the child being born with some kind of developmental issue or delay, along with even physical deformities and issues in that realm as well. All science backs up, in fact, that almost every developmental issue including personality disorders derives from the male's DNA rather than the female's, and that older men have increased risk of passing on bad genetics the older they get. Men and women's fertility declines at the exact same time and it is deemed irresponsible for men who are 40 years old and above to try to have children because of these adverse effects. For women, the consequences are the same, so we are equal in this way. So if women age like milk, so do men. Let's get real here.

[@sieg6635]

@@tisbutascratch2045 Yes men’s sperm does decline, you say that I’m wrong yet you went on to explain how which proved my point. Also you have 0 proof for most developmental disorders coming from the Male’s DNA. Also we aren’t equal in aging either, ik you’re one of those sad feminists that desperately wants men and women to be biologically equal but honey that isn’t the case. Women’s skin ages 2.5x faster than men. Women and men also differ in hormonal decline as well. >Regardless of age, men have a higher density of collagen within their skin than women. This is why women appear to age faster than men of the same age. It's even been said that women are visually about 15 years older than men of the same age in terms of collagen maintenance. Men's Hormones Last Longer - This quicker decline in hormone levels is the reason that men seem to age much more slowly than women do. When men “decline” their sperm production decreases, when women decline, their egg production outright stops. So that’s a clear difference. >A study published in the journal BMJ in October 2018 found that children of men ages 45 to 54 have a 14% higher risk of premature birth and low birth weight, compared with those fathered by men ages 25 to 34. So what are these “significant” effects after 40 you’re talking about m8? Quoting the article even more: >Eisenberg doesn't want his research to scare men over 40 away from having children. He points out that although the risk of complications does appear to rise with age, the overall risk of birth problems remains low. Again, what are these “significant” effects after 40 you’re talking about? So yeah, even if both genders age like milk. The rate at which they age and their effects differ. So to sum it all up: On avg, visually speaking women age faster than men Women’s egg production outright stops, men producing speed slowly decreases. Chances of disorders (the claim you made) unsubstantiated but pretty 50/50 from what I’ve read. And all of this is taking into account that men tend to live unhealthier lives than women.

[@Blossom996]

I really needed to hear this. Jazak- Allah for this. Society shames the women so much if there's a delay in their marriage. I'm 28 myself and I lost so much in my life had to take care of my entire family and my own father shamed me for not being married. I am grateful to Allah for everything. All the pain, misery and trauma was worth it and I trust in his divine judgment completely that whatever he has planned for me will be in my best interest ❤

[@reemazaman2703]

Believe me sister , this is exactly what happens to me. I am 25, and today I was holding my nephew and my father told me that you are getting older if you got married earlier you would be having children like him. And I was like 😢.

[@sarahpangarkar565]

Salam sister. I can relate to what you are saying. My family didn't support me when I wanted to get married to the man of my choice and now blaming me and saying things that I am still unmarried at 30

[@nela5708]

Sisters you are still at a good age. Maybe if not the best age to get married.

[@moynabegum8923]

​@reemazaman2703 may Allah bless us all with spouses with the coolness of our eyes. Don’t feel alone I'm 40 still not married 😊

[@nela5708]

@@moynabegum8923 Ameen!

[@MohamadMohamad-cd8og]

I think what Dr Haifa is trying to say is that yes try getting married young but if you haven't met your naseeb yet or have not able to conceive a baby then its not end of the world. It happens by the Qadr of Allah

[@Abdarrahmani-hp5tt]

Very helpful mummy.....

[@piqueny8872]

Don’t rush to get married and don’t rush to have a babies. So many young women are divorced with children because the husband doesn’t understand Islamic responsibilities or is self not to use birth control Automatic blame the wife is she’s not pregnant

[@Tubayuno]

Being someone with a pursuit of becoming a medical doctor, Thank You!

[@sarwaturooj5673]

This lady should be saved at all cost embodiment of motivation and positive energy

[@SweettoothMarie77]

Im not Muslim but wow no judgement in what she said! So comforting!

[@FaizanRathoreDurg]

You know any Young, long, beautiful and Humble Girl, (with sharp standing Nose) who is Ready to Marry a common Indian Boy/Man ❓

[@chickennugget3325]

I'm not even Muslim and I still needed to hear this. Thank you ❤

[@FaizanRathoreDurg]

You know any Young, long, beautiful and Humble Girl, (with sharp standing Nose) who is Ready to Marry a common Indian Boy/Man ❓

[@Happy_Potato0]

I needed this please brothers and sisters pray for me and all the pious hijabi females who are waiting to get married patiently🤲

[@helloyou9533]

This was so comforting. Alhamdulillah

[@afshahanfi9479]

Don't rush it, don't delay it

[@Tabislol]

And some people believe in Santa also....

[@afshahanfi9479]

@@Tabislol what santa??

[@Tabislol]

@@afshahanfi9479 I have no idea, what santa they believe in... Our Beloved and Final Prophet said, Do Your best, then trust Allah AZW. If you are in your thirties, and you are only now you are ready to settle, then you have in no shape or form done your best! Then the chance of pregnancy is what it is!

[@FaizanRathoreDurg]

You know any Young, long, beautiful and Humble Girl, (with sharp standing Nose) who is Ready to Marry a common Indian Boy/Man ❓

[@husseinabdullahi6635]

Whatever good that you need in this world or next ask Allah through patience and prayers..its very important that you keep asking Allah through your daily duas. InshaAllah

[@azzurakhairunisa]

Dr. Haifa, may Allah always bless you ma’am, this is exactly what I needed🤍

[@semsamatanovic5454]

AMIN...AMIN...AMIN...YA RABBI ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊

[@shaikhfarheen8342]

This one really give a lot of hope🥺

[@FaizanRathoreDurg]

You know any Young, long, beautiful and Humble Girl, (with sharp standing Nose) who is Ready to Marry a common Indian Boy/Man ❓

[@SassyMa_]

I love hearing this😊 God bless you woman 🙏

[@lukwagorashidahbabirye917]

Exactly worthy watching Thank u doctor because that time is the right time.

[@h.alqahi5595]

Her talk comes to the heart ❤... I love her

[@hashimhussain363]

what a balanced advise....👍

[@ultrapowerlevel]

Motivating and positive woman. Her face is like noor Masha Allah. May Allah Bless her. Ameen

[@desilivingcanada3668]

Ma Sha Allah, agreed 💯

[@__Fatimah__]

I love itt..such a comfort..6 in forties

[@FaizanRathoreDurg]

You know any Young, long, beautiful and Humble Girl, (with sharp standing Nose) who is Ready to Marry a common Indian Boy/Man ❓

[@malaika2863]

This brought me to tears 😢 . Thank you for posting this ❤

[@FaizanRathoreDurg]

You know any Young, long, beautiful and Humble Girl, (with sharp standing Nose) who is Ready to Marry a common Indian Boy/Man ❓

[@hanihani8612]

Thank you, I love your wisdom.

[@sevenrenae2788]

May Allah bless you, thank you for this message. I appreciate real woman reminding us of this. You said this so beautifully. MashAlllah

[@a.centimeter]

I needed this. Thank You

[@tdona77]

Excellent Advice!

[@ajx_z1713]

I needed this!

[@kishwerislam4646]

SubhanAllah!JazakAllah khairan sister for the mist needed reminder!🙏

[@hearty1240]

Even if you're single until the end of your life, it's not the end of the world. Just keep yourself pure for your spouse in Jannah. Life is so simple and beautiful. People and their egotistical judgment are the ones that make it hard and ugly. So return to Allah's judgment.

[@eishamehmood10]

AssalamuAlaikum... U know what... I needed this... That's what I wanted to hear... ThankU so much... So many Duas ur way... JAZAK ALLAH... ❤

[@WhatTheFWAFA14]

Thank you. I’m new to Islam and this is a beautiful reminder.

[@FaizanRathoreDurg]

You know any Young, long, beautiful and Humble Girl, (with sharp standing Nose) who is Ready to Marry a common Indian Boy/Man ❓

[@FaizanRathoreDurg]

​@@eishamehmood10 You know any Young, long, beautiful and Humble Girl, (with sharp standing Nose) who is Ready to Marry a common Indian Boy/Man ❓

[@hkhan2413]

I really needed to hear this today, Alhumdurilla

[@nazeemasameer3293]

Mashallah so positive it really calmed me cause I am anxious to see my son getting married when he is not ready but know i leave it to Allah thank you 🙏

[@RoseGoldFemininity]

Thank you so much!🎉🎉🎉 I was waiting for this guidance.

[@realtalk4478]

Thank you for this next time when my mum tells me my clock is ticking I'm going show her this 😂

[@AbdAllah_54564]

This. This right here is a good example of how these Western scholars either misguide people, or in this case when their words are misinterpreted according to the liberalist mindset.

[@KDworldwide]

I literally never thought of the fact that our mother Khadija (RAH) was 40 when she married the Prophet (PBUH) and had 6 kids😮…Dr Haifa you are just a blessing ❤

[@womanatwork7992]

Thank you!

[@imranniazi3983]

After reading some comments, seems to me people look for the negatives instead of the positives in messages by the Muslim educators. Before you comment, think about the possible different ways her message could be applied…

[@ladydina1]

تزوجت وانا صغيرة ورزقني الله بطفلين في أول عامين من الزواج وسمعت تعليقات مؤلمة جداً من الأقارب والمعارف الحمدلله رب العالمين أطفالي أصبحوا في نفس طولي😅 وأصبحوا اصدقائي وأصحاب التعليقات السلبية كما هم بلا زواج أو أبناء. الرضا بالاقدار والرزق والتعايش معهما مفتاح السعادة في الحياة❤

[@bruhda.a]

مَا شَاۤءَ اللّٰهُ ۙ لَا قُوَّةَ اِلَّا بِاللّٰهِ ۚ۔

[@Salma_xx]

This was so comforting. My mother was telling me the other night how worried she was. I just told her to make dua for me. Nothing is difficult for our Lord, Allah. I know He has the best plan.

[@abdelkhan2944]

A mouthful of wisdom

[@user-dn2fl6vg2n]

My mother's wonderful explanation very logic mama i just a day ago start watching her videos full of faith and truth ...i am not a muslim but i feel something iny heart that's is tickling ...love you mother .thanks

[@nanafirdausi4642]

SubhanAllah! May Allah increase you more in knowledge and bless you!❤️❤️❤️ This is the best thing I have heard ❣️💕

[@FaizanRathoreDurg]

You know any Young, long, beautiful and Humble Girl, (with sharp standing Nose) who is Ready to Marry a common Indian Boy/Man ❓

[@Phoenix-fy9zz]

Thank you for giving the example from islam and comforting our soul.

[@WhatTheFWAFA14]

This is so amazing. Really needed this right now at this time. A blessing from Allah that I watched it. Trying to hold onto something that may not be the best for me and I’m 28. People around me making me feel late but I remind them and my self that’s it’s ok, I’m still fertile and if I’m not it’s also okay. I trust Allah will grant us all good partners if that’s what we want. Amen.

[@user-cd2jl4is4k]

InshaAllah....May u find good life and good partner...hoppe for gud ....wht may happen Trust Allah..!

[@yeneko_]

Omg. This is so true ❤.

[@FaizanRathoreDurg]

You know any Young, long, beautiful and Humble Girl, (with sharp standing Nose) who is Ready to Marry a common Indian Boy/Man ❓

[@ForMyRabb]

Goosebumps, i needed this wollah

[@FaizanRathoreDurg]

You know any Young, long, beautiful and Humble Girl, (with sharp standing Nose) who is Ready to Marry a common Indian Boy/Man ❓

[@hasjunitanst7268]

❤ الحمد لله ❤ جزاك الله خيرا❤. بارك الله فيكنا❤❤

[@ridayousufzai7992]

Thank you

[@faryalyousaf8560]

May Allah bless you is awesome to hear you change the dynamic of my thinking.❤

[@bman146]

Prophet Zakaria 'alaihissalam's wife became pregnant at very old age. For us human it seems improbable to happen but not for Allah. If he wills it, it happens.

[@muhammadmostafa4360]

Yes but Prophet Zakariah said And I am concerned about ˹the faith of˺ my relatives after me, since my wife is barren. So grant me, by Your grace, an heir, 19:5 It is not like they did not try. Khadija ra was married previously too. Of course you will never have a child except if Allah wills. But many women delay it for silly reasons when they should not delay it. Many women do not get married when they are young and when they get a bit older they want to marry but now most men do not want to marry her. Men usually can get married for the first time even in their forties. Though they too should get married early if they can. Of course marriage, child and everything is at the hands of Allah. But you need to do what you can do.

[@hani114]

@@muhammadmostafa4360That’s your thinking and the thinking of society. We go by the timetable of Allah, not yours. So if a woman wants to delay her marriage she can.

[@muhammadmostafa4360]

@@hani114 Again, of course she can. You can not force her. But provided that there is no chance of falling into fitna. And how many say they will not fall into fitna then they do? Almighty Allah says: “And marry such of you as are solitary and the pious of your slaves and maid servants. If they be poor; Allah will enrich them of His bounty. Allah is of ample means, Aware.” (An-Nur: 32). The father of a girl must not delay marriage of his daughter if a proposal is received from a compatible man of equal status who is of sound religion and character. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Three matters should not be delayed: prayer when its time comes, burial when the funeral has arrived, and the marriage of a single woman when a well-suited man has proposed.” (Reported by at-Tirmidhi) The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) addressed the youths encouraging them to get married as soon as they are capable of shouldering the responsibility of marriage saying: “O youth! Whoever amongst you is able to marry, let him marry, because it helps him keep his eyes away from lustful looks and preserve his chastity. And whoever is not able to marry, let him observe fasting, as it is a shield for him (i.e. protection from lapsing in fornication).” This is not just my thinking. I could care less about what society thinks if it goes against my deen.

[@lightkira4119]

​@@muhammadmostafa4360why bother explaining anything to women who will argue with you? The western world has taught many young girls they need to focus on careers and money. By the time they reach 40 and eating chemically destroyed food and water, they will find out how hard it is to have an easy pregnancy. We used to live longer and be taller in the past yet today we are shorter and don't live that many years over 100. So many women delay their pregnancy and it is written for them. If they were written to have children, they will. Even the rich millionaires are struggling to have children and use surrogacy and fertility treatments that come $100k.

[@Slave_of_the_Most_Merciful]

​@@hani114what's the timetable of Allah May I ask?

[@enshrine5825]

Allahuma Barik thank u for this

[@AminaHyat]

Mashallah, I love this message. Islam teaches women to be secure in themselves.

[@s.9806]

Needed to hear this. Feeling hope now.

[@Mohammed-yc6nn]

Unfortunately, society is what pressures most of us. If people minded their own business, so many people wouldn’t be that depressed, and Allah knows best.

[@Siradan_biri_35]

Exactly 💎💫

[@NoojNooj_3]

Im a young muslim girl thank you for this wise words 😊😊😊😊

[@ordinaryvalley]

This gives me hope 😢❤ thank you so much

[@FaizanRathoreDurg]

You know any Young, long, beautiful and Humble Girl, (with sharp standing Nose) who is Ready to Marry a common Indian Boy/Man ❓

[@Sedic_Namsu]

Ma sha Allah tabarakAllah. Also the example of the wives of Zakariah (A.S) and Ibrahim (A.S).

[@user-wq7si6fq6c]

May Allah bless you Dr. Haifaa For checking on me after having Abdominal surgery at Dubai Hospital. Thanks for the kindness 😊

[@bigdaddy7729]

Come on folks. Looks at genetics of women during Khadijah time . Getting pregnant at 40s no biggie for them . They ate organic , pure air, raw diet . And warrior culture. U gonna tell women today they got just as good chance as Khadijah? Be realistic

[@bigdaddy7729]

@@Wtakerman u got it. Also let’s be honest, 99% of women (regardless of religion) who suddenly wanna marry hitting their mid or late 30’s is cause when they were young they just wanted to take their time , bush among their friends , etc etc . Instead of following sunnah of marrying early and keep pursuing their education, they did the opposite. Even right now, if they just start looking for guys I’m 40s or 50s they Dan marry real quick . But they want guy their age , with even higher standards then they had when they were in 20s . Just cause I wanna be a billionaire without working ain’t gonna happen , same thing here folks.

[@z.a.1237]

​@@bigdaddy7729you cant know the lives of people. Assuming Is haram. There Is an hadith wich says not to assume about people. You dont know their lives.

[@ibrahimkool9126]

She wasn’t even married at 40 btw

[@z.a.1237]

@@ibrahimkool9126 yes She was. You believe Aisha r.a. was 9 ( wich Is not proven anywhere by the way ) but dont believe Khadija r.a was 40 ? Impressive.

[@hamzanocap]

​@@z.a.1237Provide the evidence that she was 40 when she was married, if you are being truthful.

[@aishashaik-qs2of]

ربنا هب لنا من ازواجنا وذرياتنا قرة أعين واجعلنا للمتقين إماما. May Allha Make it easy..

[@dortekuhler-otuekpo8810]

Wise words from a wise woman. I was 40 when i finally was pregnant with my son after 2 loses.

[@shailahassam2891]

I really needed to hear this subhanallah Allah Hu Akbar

[@hafeezunissa1673]

Thanks

[@seekinganswers1090]

This gave me so much hope jazak Allah khair lovies 💕

[@sarahpangarkar565]

Oh subhan Allah such a relief hearing this

[@FaizanRathoreDurg]

You know any Young, long, beautiful and Humble Girl, (with sharp standing Nose) who is Ready to Marry a common Indian Boy/Man ❓

[@april147]

MashaAllah Thank you sister

[@aliasabrin1508]

Feels so good to hear this ❤

[@rosyapplekitchen635]

I actually really like this I think many rush into IVF. For anyone looking for help the book it starts with the egg worked for me after several years and with a surgery date booked.

[@sudaisissah]

Masha Allah

[@user-wz6di9su3m]

Thank you for speaking for us 😢

[@wamiqsiddiqui2395]

It's not of the world but its best to marry early.

[@whitesugarsweetchristine1023]

Marry the person you feel will bring you the most happiness and make you satisfied that you made the right decision, every day.

[@unibanajam5006]

Thank you mam... jazakallah khair

[@Noorfaraj144]

Thank you so much May Allah bless us all ✅

[@QueenNile]

I agreed

[@SurfyStories]

Ah yes. "Khadija (r.a) done it so we can". No. Don't compare yourself to the elites. Just because Rasulullah (s.a) married 12 doesn't mean an average Abdullah can marry 12. Prophet Ibrahim left Havvah in the desert, that doesn't mean a man can do it to his wife. Once again, don't compare yourself to the elites. Message to men and women, including this lady giving advice.

[@ibrahimkool9126]

She wasn’t 40 too lol

[@kausamsalam8543]

She’s not “this lady giving advice,” at random, but a scholar and knowledgeable woman/sister in Islam. We Muslims have traditionally been taught to respect the lives of our mothers in Islam, and May Allah’s peace be upon the Prophet, all the Prophets and the wives and descendants. 🤲🏿

[@samin1987]

​@@kausamsalam8543No she is no scholar. Yes she knows more than average persons but not a scholar.

[@arm2910]

Alhamdulillah ❤❤❤the best advice ever ❤❤❤❤

[@javeriahabib5356]

The KUN FAYAKUN melts my soul ❤ Allah's love is something we can feel in just one word

[@jetcia7183]

For someone who possibly can never get married this topic hurts.

[@nayranay97]

Love ustadzah ❤❤❤

[@hani114]

This comment section is exactly the reason why a lot of women are choosing not to get married nowadays and men just can’t seem to handle it.

[@junayedmustofaghalib4683]

the truth hurts thus causes people to to take extreme measures (e.g. not to get married)....that is why we should be as hard as the truth

[@samohamed3624]

Get married hani

[@hearty1240]

@@samohamed3624 Some people got married and got betrayed, and left traumatized, and still picking up the pieces of themselves

[@hani114]

@@junayedmustofaghalib4683 Sorry to break it to you but Allah is in control of our fate, not some loser hiding behind a fake account.

[@hani114]

@@samohamed3624 don’t worry hun I don’t want you.

[@dilrubakhatun124]

Sukoon mila sunke❤

[@mackmani6945]

Ive given up on it. Im almost 30 and i pray Allah grants me the gift of marriage in Jannah. Its hard for me to say this as a black Muslim man. Ive truly been in love twice and both didn’t workout. Im afraid of trying again and afraid of heartbreak.

[@funkychick4lyf]

Don’t give up! Allah swt has something better in store for you. You just have to believe it InshaAllah

[@achrafabid1541]

Just the video i needed. May Allah the almighty bless u and ur beloved ones.

[@zuhuraali2441]

Alhamdulliah ❤❤❤

[@procrastinateXrok]

Hope you ladies can find the right one

[@desilivingcanada3668]

Ma Sha Allah, subhan Allah. How positive is she? It's a very good example to listen for all the women who are desperate to get pregnant. It's a very important part of a woman's life but life is not all about that. Allah knows what is best for us.

[@parvezislam5793]

I respectfully disagree and think it is naive to say that it is still ok to get married late. Children are just one aspect of marriage btw and by no means it satisfies the biological and psychological needs of an adult. Look at all the Fitn caused by women on social media who have no way to channel their Allah given desires? What’s the solution? By no means we should take marriage lightly. Both men and women should try their best to prepare for an early marriage, especially in this day and age.

[@sma5130]

I think she's refering to those who are still struggling to get a spouse and struggling to have children not to despair. She mentioned get married early but don't jump into marriage ignoring red flags. I had a friend years back,she was desperate to marry any proposal that came her way because they have history of early menopause in her family. Her mother was 35years when she reached menopause. Her desperation was so obvious she won't listen to anyone. I kept reminding her of istihara. Her groom canceled wedding 5 weeks to wedding date. Then she met her today husband and she's a mother of three today. If Allah destine you'll be a parent you will be irrespective of age. That's what I deduce from this video.

[@Slave_of_the_Most_Merciful]

​@sma5130 precisely but from reading the comments most seems to have got the opposite message.

[@parvezislam5793]

I’ve seen other clips from this ustadha and cannot say her views are strictly Islamic and feminine in nature. I would not advise my female folks to seek life advice from people with modernist world views.

[@hearty1240]

​​@@parvezislam5793There are women who couldn't find a pious spouse to marry. So what do you expect them to do, just pick any random bloke on the street? Just pick one, as long as their name is Islamic, even if there's something not right about them, even if your heart isn't agreeable to their character? All people have different backgrounds, different surroundings, different stories. If you cannot understand that, try read more and travel more to broaden your horizons.

[@samin1987]

​@@hearty1240just read some hadiths about how our Prophet and his companions got married. They didn't had this types of fanatical criterias as today's youth. Nobody is ready for any concession , they want everything from the to be spouse especially women in their early 20's.

[@fordowsahassan3540]

Masha Allah ❤❤❤❤

[@muhammadnajmulhasan994]

Mashallah, what a great observation. 💛🧡

[@nurjahannuri8168]

*I wish ma'am could speak about issues like what if the female doesn't want to have children? Because of past trauma and genetic disease? What about if the husband wants children and she is scared that her genetic disease might affect her child and what if because that fear she never gets married? If she doesn't get married because of her past trauma, genetic disease (which might pass on if she have children), or because of fear of being used(cheated)? Please can you make a video addressing those concerns? In modern days many male and females are facing this problem and will it be a sin if they don't want to get *married* because of these reasons?*

[@shaikhiShrat2728]

SubhanAllah! ALHAMDULILLAH! No doubt.

[@lilyrosesoul0077]

Also some women and men are not able to get married because they cannot find a practicing muslim spouse or other valid reasons ( like being the main breadwinner for your family)

[@hemlock2343]

Allahumma barik

[@erzascarlet5078]

I wish videos like this would end up on the pages of those tik tok/ social media bros who are quick to shame women in this regard. But الحمد لله one thing’s for sure, that qadr is in the hands of Allah swt and not them!

[@themessage3114]

Qadr is undoubtedly in the hands of Allah SWT but we too have to make efforts, we cannot sit and ask Allah to say kun fayakun... The examples she gave was about having children as the Qadr of Allah.. But if you see the age of Hzt Aisha, Hzt Khadija they were not married in their 30's Or 35's...this is an exception for people losing hope in Allah not a command or an excuse to marry late.. Allah knows the best

[@jojotree6878]

Beautiful

[@shinzoabe441]

Alhamdulillah ❤

[@yasirsh008]

"he loved her the most" correction... he loved her the most after Bibi Khadija (s.a)