The deeper psychology of Love Island Serena and Kordell

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@wandabennett8119 3 ай бұрын

This was the best Love Island ever!!!!!!! The best of all of them, regardless what country. You could see and feel the realness of love and desire for an on going relationship afterwards. There were several couples that showed true promise, with Kordell and Serena ranked highest amongst them. I truly hope this is permanent between them. Make it work!!

@DaTrapTherapist 2 ай бұрын

Agreed it was refreshing to see!

@zraj3433 3 ай бұрын

Serena played Kordell in challenges and then lashed out after Casa Amor but this was due to her past trauma. Even when she laughs... it is to hide the pain. She is a tough woman but she is actually really soft inside. Also you can tell Kordell really likes her & they seem very compatible.

@DaTrapTherapist 3 ай бұрын

Absolutely, very well said! We all have pain none of us are immune to having emotions.

@zraj3433 3 ай бұрын

@@DaTrapTherapist True, honestly I shed tears for Serena & then I realized she kind of reminded me of my younger self..

@DaTrapTherapist 3 ай бұрын

Yesss, that is precisely the point of my channel. To bring life to black women and normalize their experiences. We all know a Serena, or have been her at one point in time. I genuinely appreciate you for sharing that. 💜

@iris-xo 3 ай бұрын

I think one of the reasons why i love serena so much cuz she's so genuine and you can tell she was hurt so badly in the past... the wall/guard she's built up is clearly why it takes her so long to open up to someone romantically but she was just losing that wall more and more with Kordell only for him to do this... like her constantly laughing is such a defense mechanism

@DaTrapTherapist 3 ай бұрын

Absolutely, I can see how his actions were hurtful. I also saw how Serena allowed the things that she has been through in her past to reflect how she felt about Kordell. I appreciate her self awareness and her ability to understand that her defenses are high. Thank you for your comment you’re normalizing Serena and I love that for her.

@abihigh Ай бұрын

Love them!!! The Keke interview filled in the blanks and confusion folks had,.especially the dance floor scene. Didn't know they were given different instructions. Firmly believe if she was told the same thing as Kordell, she would have stayed on the dance floor. The editing was messy. I'm sure to add more drama.

@ShinpakuTales 3 ай бұрын

Awesome video ! I think Serena has the mentality of get them first before they get you. You develop that naturally bc of past trauma, as she said she went through. Serena has definitely gotten hurt in the past. Kordel is not 100% right in his actions but he did deserve to explore something in my opinion. I’m glad they worked things out.

@DaTrapTherapist 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!! I agree, they both had to do what was best for them I hope they win they deserve it!

@sherrylek 2 ай бұрын

It was not only the infidelity ( kissing on another girl). It was the "playing in her face" or "swindlin'" her that was a trigger from the past.

@DaTrapTherapist 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely.

@dangelosmom9031 3 ай бұрын

Kordell really triggered Serena. And I agree they’re young and felling shame. They’ll figure it out. I think they have a chance to come back from this. @DaTrapTherapist What do you think about the editing?

@DaTrapTherapist 3 ай бұрын

Facts it will be wild if they come back and win this whole thing. In fact, I believe that they might.

@applechai 3 ай бұрын

I love them

@DaTrapTherapist 3 ай бұрын

They low key cute af.

@stewardmoapare403 3 ай бұрын

What episode was this

@shhh7762 3 ай бұрын

Kordell didnt do nothing wrong! Kordell decided to actually give attention to who was giving him attention! Serena kept playing in that boy face while she was exploring other men and he diddnt explore no body because he wanted her from day 1 but she used him to cuddle with & kept her safe. The minute another women sees value in him is when she wants him! She had just friend-zoned him and he even shed a tear he was so hurt but he stopped crowding her then moments later Nicole comes in the house and she kissed Kordell and Serena acted like she wasnt bothered by it but later on she sends JaNa to him and she tells him that Serena is interested in him again. So when he goes to Casa and play the game like Serena's been playing the game now he's the bad guy and she starts going off on him. He never once went off on Serena when she was talking to other guys in his face etc. And Kordell do not follow his friends. Im not sure if you're actually watching the same show as me but Kordell is always sticking up for Serena even when his friends are trying to make him leave her. He always let them know his feelings are strong with her. His friends couldnt influence him to leave Serena are you crazy?!?? Kordell wanted to see for himself if it was real or if she was playing him cuz she kept friend-zoning him. He got the answer he wanted and now I really do hope that its real on her end because you can see its real on Kordell's end! Shoot as fione as Kordell is with them bedroom eyes, beautiful brown skin, gorgeous smile, lovely hair and his build aint nothing to play with. He haas a nice physique! That body is body-ing and not to mention he's bow-legged!!!! 😳😊😫😝🥰 man, I know that boy can have the most beautiful women if he wanted but he obviously see something in her! He's built a real soul tie with her and out of all the women he wants her! I'll say this too, if Serena hurt him she will be reaping for years and somebody will appreciate him cuz shes NEVER gonna find anyone as patient, protective, loving and honors her like Kordell do! If she leaves him she will wake up 10 years later still regretting that decision! 💅🏾 They don't come no better than him!

@DaTrapTherapist 3 ай бұрын

As a therapist, I believe it's important to consider different viewpoints. In the video, I explored the profound psychological impact of the show and how a seemingly simple dating program can influence people in profound ways, affecting their mind, body, and soul. While the show is primarily for entertainment, my goal and subsequent analysis go beyond that. Thank you for opening up and sharing your thoughts.

@dangelosmom9031 3 ай бұрын

Seems like you are a true Kordell fan!! I think @Datraptherapist broke this down so well. Do you know Kordell personally? It seems you have strong feelings about him and his role on this edited game show. They’re young and their brains aren’t fully developed yet at 22 and 24. I don’t think Serena will be cursed if she changes her mind and set boundaries on a game show. Are you subscribed? I am and Datraptherapist has some great break downs of some other shows you should check them out.

@Brandy553 3 ай бұрын

Serena, has loved and adored Kordell too since day 1. I just think she wanted to have the best man as the other girls. According to her like tall etc. but kordell is so lush and probably one of the best looking guys, in the villa. And your correct if she doesn’t act right and make it work outside she is going to regret it, even after 10 years. This man as young as he is is everything. A woman needs

@Conchsaladrocks 3 ай бұрын

I think Serena is a narcissist and a master manipulator.. none of her outbursts were about kordell. It was about her ego..she wanted to shift the energy so that he couldn't bind with someone else knowing fully well that she wasn't feeling him in the way that Daia was. She made it cl3ar to him THEY WERE OPEN. So WHERE did all this anguish come from when you weren't attached? From your ego..thats where. Everyone deserves to truly be wanted. They served each other well since he fell in love with an emotionally unavailable woman and the other girl with kordell,triggered serena addiction to drama. She was on a high and in love with him after the drama but when those hormones and endorphins died down there she was again saying "let's not move so fast"

@DaTrapTherapist 3 ай бұрын

Multiple truths exist in this scenario, particularly considering that Serena, at 24 years old, is still undergoing full brain development. As a black woman, it is crucial to show compassion and grace to other black women, especially those in the public eye and subjected to editorial decisions that prioritize drama for increased viewership.

@HighMaintenanceMinimalist 3 ай бұрын

I swear, you guys need to expel the word "narcissist" from your vocabularies. 🤦‍♂🤦‍♂

@BumbleBee-z3t 3 ай бұрын

@@HighMaintenanceMinimalist I agree this word has been miss used a lot lately. I mean it’s a full disorder /illness and folks don’t understand the layers that come with that.

@angiepangie51 3 ай бұрын

💯

@marveldc9997 3 ай бұрын

u would definitely be the other woman in this scenario