The Delicate Dance With Exes 🫣 | The Unpopular Opinion UG

[@theunpopularopinionug]

Do you guys think we need a new song? 🤔

[@tiny_k738]

Not at all! I love the current song.

[@donjb6829]

The current audio intro is perfect, we have grown found of it.

[@joan87u.k]

But the current one sounds so good!! Plus it sums up everything you guys talk about in a catchy fun way.

[@kaihuramercy1673]

Absolutely not!!! The intro is perfect

[@fridahkemunto6898]

I love the current one

[@ainembabazichristellah463]

All guys that I've been in relationships with before I've made 25yrs, they aren't my exes, they're all my childhood friends 😂

[@xndrrh]

😂😂😂 💯

[@BirungiZura-kq2nm]

Nange😂

[@naigashakirah6172]

Thanks for releasing us😂

[@naigashakirah6172]

Thanks for releasing us😂

[@akotclare2133]

My flowers to people who attend functions of their exes. Kale I can't even contribute, I would rather use that money to buy shoes, bags, gnuts and bananas 😂😅

[@jacquelinemuwonge3618]

They are confused.

[@lorrecco]

Prim went from being the biggest in the group and now is almost the same size as Fiona! Wow Prim, you've really put in the work

[@RosesandBliss6767]

Trick is, don't leave a relationship or marriage unless you are done done. I can not do nothing with my ex. There's nothing my ex can do or give me and i wish to go back honestly because before i exit i make sure i have given you all the chances, i have been patient, understanding, forgiving etc etc.

[@drewmiltons]

Breakups hurt, the fact that this person you so much loved each other won't choose you anymore, and furthermore choose someone else. Its only human to want be chosen always, to always be referred to the best. But, if you are able to face the true fact that there is always going to be someone better than you, face the fact that people can choose not to choose you. You get to heal completely, and know that you can also always get better or not. But rather find peace. This heals and give a peace of mind and moving on completely, where by you can still be friends with your ex if their character adds anything to your life, and if they don't add anything, you will be okay with them just being humans you won't detest them or feel a certain way when you meet them... So, being friends or not with with exes all depends on how you dealt with you two breaking up. And how you've moved on. Remember this is just a person you cared for, loved, so it doesn't stop when they become exes. What changes is that it's not in your obligations anymore. So, how about drawing lines and boundaries to only friendship. Love and care for each other with boundaries. That's if they aren't toxic... A person who knew you that much becoming a stranger always feels surreal. As in did you really love each other?? But also if your friend list is full, part ways. All I'm saying, is it shouldn't be that hard. No math...

[@BirungiZura-kq2nm]

I wouldn’t call them “friends “ but rather people I know of, I treat them with respect, kindness and politeness just like any other human being 😊. On that note, I don’t expect us to be in each other’s business

[@txchestnut1837]

Wow it really feels so light and youthful and easeful and fun. It’s so fun when our energy aligns when the miracles we have been praying for show up. 🎉

[@namulindageorgette.m6243]

Very soon prim and bubu might get back together. 😂

[@crinahnasasira7128]

Did they break up ?😢

[@jillnandaha6435]

Definitely feeling the renewed energy ❤❤looking good ladies ❤

[@LindaTinahTV]

I am cordial with all my exes and we are in touch hwre and there. But these are people I had a thing with in my early 20s because I was already married at 25 so I dont think they even count. That being said i think the nature of your relationship after also depends on the breakup circumstances. Some people are evil and you want nothing to do with them, some breakups still have unresolved feelings that is safer to stay away. Even if I am not good at it, they say the healthier way is always to cut ties completely unless there are kids involved.

[@everythingwoman-blessingba3378]

Thank you ladies for always sharing your thoughts and experiences allowing us to learn through you🙏🏽 Claire, I think when it comes to staying friends with the family of the “ex” ( it’s a tricky dance ) owing to the fact that it depends on how genuine & mature the family of the “ex” is. Saying you can’t be friends with a sister/brother of the “ ex”with whom you have cultivated a substantial friendship over time simply because you want to be loyal to your sibling can cost you a good friendship especially if your sibling is the villain in the story (i.e the reason as to why the break up happened in the first place) so indeed with some situations, there are exceptions. When it comes to the question of loyalty… do I want to be loyal to my sibling even when I know they are the problem? -No! I would think it’s important to choose to be loyal to what is right, what is JUST as opposed to blind loyalty simply because a human being is my sibling🤔 I think it’s an unfair way to look at things because if that person wasn’t your sibling, then your view might be different. As Fiona said, to every rule, there is an exception.

[@batuzesandra3784]

Your podcast is my weekly motivation.

[@sarahkarennsiimenameewambe4347]

Personally I believe exes are in the past for a reason and I can’t mix my past with my present. There’s no being friends with exes. I’m friends with ONLY one ex and that friendship is wishing each other happy birthday and merry Christmas 😂

[@Flourish_today]

To piggy bank on what Prim said about keeping in touch with ex's to show them what they missed. When facebook became popular in 2006, people were adding their ex's in the name of i need them to see how i am doing well in life. I do not want an ex to even know what i am doing in life.

[@BirungiZura-kq2nm]

Nange. The moment we part ways that means our business in each other’s lives is done ✅. Until we meet in the next life if there is 😊

[@Flourish_today]

@@BirungiZura-kq2nm Absolutely!

[@biryerihafusa2778]

Some exes will try to get back at you. I hear teaching you hard life lessons. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Some are really good people, for example one typically calls for professionals gigs.

[@cathyatusiimire2240]

Naye Prim car story 😂😂😂😂

[@augbae]

Y'all ladies looking goooooood😊

[@theunpopularopinionug]

Thak you ❤❤❤

[@anonnona6433]

🎵 🎶 🎵 waddawa exe waddawa🎶 🎵 🎶 😂😂😂

[@asiimweshallon6137]

Once we are done I don’t know you 😂😂😂

[@kennedyserunjogi6088]

Hi Ladies, yr episodes are always the reality of life 🎉

[@ladydee.6289]

🎉

[@nakittohellen3390]

I used to keep them friends but I was taught a tough lesson😢😢😂😂😂

[@sandrahkyomuhendo8035]

Personal l don't even have the time to jazz with my exs.

[@namulindageorgette.m6243]

You have no bussiness with your ex ,cut off ties.

[@Roselinenjeri9]

🎉 congratulations

[@akisiimireisabella4132]

❤❤🎉

[@samuelmugisha8632]

Hello ladies

[@shamimkagere]

Fiona is that our beautiful natural hair? I love it

[@sheillaconstanceapio8434]

☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

[@doreenk.arinawe]

once i am done, i am done. I can say hi when we meet but that is it. So far that is my experience. My POV could change in future though. Also just learnt that SOS is Surprise on surprise.

[@cathyatusiimire2240]

Naye Prim car story 😂😂😂😂

[@DeDollyshow]

❤❤❤❤🎉

[@theunpopularopinionug]

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