Mark didn’t have to cheat on his wife. Meredith didn’t have to start an affair with a married man. Janaire certainly didn’t have to kill Meredith. Humans make dumbass decisions every day
@one3DoiNWoRk3 жыл бұрын
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned
@heather21253 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@heatherpolley85013 жыл бұрын
@@ellabetful they didnt just decide to start a life together. They cheated first. No one would have cared if they did the decent thing and divorced before cheating.
@katrabbit3 жыл бұрын
@@ellabetful agreed! 👏🏽 she murdered someone. she chose to plan out a murder. A "normal" human can not do that regardless of reason. she thought about ending another person's life and actually acted on it. she could have just as easily left Mark when she found out about the affair, but she wanted Meredith dead. That is not even close to a normal response to an affair. She is psychotic and she hid it well until she didn't.
@heatherpolley85013 жыл бұрын
@@ellabetful Im not saying poor Jennair. She absolutely shouldn't have killed someone. But Meredith and Mark aren't without blame. Mark more so than anyone. He should have divorced her before he cheated (Meredith should have also divorced her husband). He absolutely should have ended things before making Jennair pack up and move to him. If Jennair would have killed just Mark and herself Im sure many people would not be defending him as being just a victim. And Meredith is just as responsible for the affair as Mark. Its a shitty ending to something that didn't have to happen.
@angelinaschneiderporco41403 жыл бұрын
merediths ex husband is just over here like 👀👀damn
@DanaeTuckerChannel3 жыл бұрын
I shouldn’t be laughing this hard but just imagine him:🧍🏻♂️”damn” then continuing with life.
@issafula3 жыл бұрын
@@DanaeTuckerChannel 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@shamaal1233 жыл бұрын
@@DanaeTuckerChannel I tried so hard not to laugh 🤣
@JazminDaneen3 жыл бұрын
I’m mad I laughed so hard!
@Ni-gh9ln3 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@MsClaudiaDuran2 жыл бұрын
I always advice women who get cheated on to remember Shania Twain. Her husband of 15 years cheated with Shania's best friend, and wanted to split up to start a relationship with her. Shania was devastated, and at one point begged her husband not to leave her. But he did and moved on with his mistress. What happened? Shortly after the divorce, Shania met this sexy Swiss-French hunk (a MAJOR upgrade from her ex) and they live together in paradise. The lesson here is if your husband wants to leave, let him. The sooner he leaves, the sooner you'll find your Swiss-French dreamboat.
@salenalemanski97522 жыл бұрын
That dreamboat is also her husband’s mistresses ex husband ❤️ Go Shania!!
@iamflawless42562 жыл бұрын
@@salenalemanski9752 exactly
@kimberlygregory20912 жыл бұрын
Shania ended up marrying her former best friend's husband and the other relationship w/his wife and Mutt didn't last 2 seconds. :)
@elsie37242 жыл бұрын
I don’t think she just met him - wasn’t he the guy her best friend was married to when she had the affair? I’m almost positive they basically just swapped husbands hahaha (minus her best friend and husband being terrible people and doing such an awful thing to their spouses and best friend.) power move, honestly 😂
@PeaceDayCortez2 жыл бұрын
Great advice and reminder
@itsjuliannajo2 жыл бұрын
If he wants to leave, let him go. After my husband left I was in agony. My father had always been my rock and two years after my husband had left, my father died suddenly. My last conversation with my father was me still crying over my ex-husband. I realized I had spent two years surrounded by people who loved me, focused only on someone that didn’t. I learned not to waste our precious time on those who don’t love us. Just let that person go, let yourself grieve, and then let yourself heal.
@jojoskuse2 жыл бұрын
I needed to see this. 💜
@KacieC12082 жыл бұрын
This comment was so powerful!! Wow!! Thanks for this lesson!! Also rip to your dad!
@NotSoTypikal2 жыл бұрын
🎯
@morooj99582 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this ❤️❤️
@kimberlyontiveros91752 жыл бұрын
Agree I was in a 15 year relationship I just felt time was wasting be with my boyfriend there was no spark anymore no communication at all so I left now im happy and focusing on myself
@eastridge093 жыл бұрын
Jenair put all this effort into keeping a man who didn’t even want her. Ladies, it’s never worth it.
@katemaloney42963 жыл бұрын
Husband: I found someone else and I want to be with them. Me: Go with God! Bye!
@cuppycakey50133 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Going through trash, spying, recording him, committing murder, then killing herself over a man. It’s actually crazy. If a man isn’t happy with you, let him go. Being jealous and crazy doesn’t change anyone’s mind.
@sandracollin153 жыл бұрын
This 👏🏽
@Mairslme3 жыл бұрын
Facts MARK EVEN TOLD HER HE FELL IN LOVE WITH SB ELSE SHE SHOULD JUST LEFT HIM
@karencooper34283 жыл бұрын
This
@jennmcdee80143 жыл бұрын
“He really liked how she looked in her Taco Bell uniform”- I’m sorry but 😂
@peaches443 жыл бұрын
I wonder if it's the same level as men in uniform 😂
@melonypullen61493 жыл бұрын
I snorted
@andreapadillaruiz3 жыл бұрын
😂
@kellygallisdorfer84543 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@nicoleloves94833 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@sarahburk2010 Жыл бұрын
My dad had an affair and left my mom after 25 years of marriage for a woman twenty years younger than him. He also would have my mom come over to "talk about things". She full-on thought that things would work out. I have zero sympathy for Mark. Watching my mom go through what my dad put her through was a nightmare. Anyone that can do that to someone they "love"...truly horrible people.
@miguelsalas85837 ай бұрын
So was he suppose to be miserable for the rest of his life just to make Her feel better? 🤨🤨 SORRY BUT MAYBE Your MOM WAS THE REASON. Sorry but NOT SORRy. This man fell in love with someone and tried to do Everything right and now his life is ruined because his ex was a fkn psycho lunatic. PEOPLE LKKE U Should BE IN A MENTAL HOSPITAL. Giving me Gerardot s vibe. IF IT WAS A MAN THAT WAS IN GETARDOTS POSITION YOU WOULD BASH HIM AND CALL HIM A FKN PSYCHO. The double standards here is disturbing
@lisascountrycreations334 Жыл бұрын
My husband did the same thing to me. We married in college and after he was commissioned into the Air Force and became a fighter pilot, he changed drastically. He said I didn’t praise him enough, and that this person did. We were living overseas when he told me he had already begun divorce proceedings and I had to take my daughters and leave Germany immediately. I was devastated!! I went to talk to someone at the mental health clinic on base. I remember the doctor asked me if I was suicidal or homicidal and I told him that no man is worth going to jail or losing my life for.
@frenchappletarte32529 ай бұрын
The new woman always says and does everything the wife doesn't. Isn't that amazing
@brusselsprout76343 ай бұрын
@@frenchappletarte3252right! “SHE shits in my shoes and smells like milk, unlike YOU.” Lmao when a person wants out they find ANYTHINGGGGG in the affair partner to justify their shit behavior instead of just being honest and filing for a damn divorce. 😂
@clararose3 жыл бұрын
This seems like the plot of a Lifetime movie.
@sad-qy7jz3 жыл бұрын
I mean most lifetime movies are based on true crime, so it might be in the next year .. I remember the Jodi arias movie came out RIGHT after it happened as if they started production the second the story broke. It’s actually kind of disturbing lol
@Mark-sd5jk3 жыл бұрын
Yes i cant, like she was a spy
@ClementineShmementine3 жыл бұрын
Inspiration is generally real life situations
@natalieserrano30293 жыл бұрын
Won’t be surprised if it ends up being a lifetime movie lol
@aqua_finessa60303 жыл бұрын
Wow this sounds eerily similar to the movie Acrimony where the wife went mad after watching her husband happily move on with another younger and succesful woman.
@itsjustkay72513 жыл бұрын
Girl you can’t fulfill everyone’s requests about a chair, lighting, all that. You could make videos in a box and I’m sure we’ll all listen
@kaylapatrick45013 жыл бұрын
Agree thankyou for saying this♥️♥️
@Mrs50Racerchick123 жыл бұрын
Awesome comment!!
@andreashelton3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@kimberleejane74123 жыл бұрын
Yesss! This is a fact
@shelbyhenderson71313 жыл бұрын
100% but I will say I greatly appreciate the seating idea for the pets lol
@laurairlbeck916 Жыл бұрын
Mark has become an advocate for mental health. Isn't that nice? Maybe he should become an advocate for not being a jerk, and sleeping around when you're married.
@Nobody-xr9xz5 ай бұрын
won't be surprised if he writes a book. they always do lok
@Lucy-ym8ch4 ай бұрын
Exactly! Weird flex, when if he'd never had an affair this would all have been a non issue.
@IAMDivine77774 ай бұрын
I know right
@sunflower80354 ай бұрын
@@Nobody-xr9xzPretty sure he has 😂
@zoeroux42223 ай бұрын
He wrote a book 💀
@DF-es6tx Жыл бұрын
I hate that they call her “jealous “ no she was betrayed and heartbroken backstabbed …. She wasn’t jealous . Her whole life was destroyed . Mark deserves nothing . Jen and mark destroyed all their lives.
@bm-ww8kb Жыл бұрын
No, she was jealous. Both of those things can be true. She can feel betrayed, heartbroken and backstabbed while also being jealous. If she wasnt jealous, she wouldnt care who this person was that he was with. However she did care. She cared that she was younger, beautiful and successful. And thats fair! However, its not true that she lacked jealousy.
@esra_al_ Жыл бұрын
I thought so too by the idea that she killed her instead of him. But I think this is a worse torture for him, because he can't have the person he cheated for either. Either way, he is an a**hole and has a huge hand in the events unfolding as they did.
@diann3880 Жыл бұрын
@@bm-ww8kbridiculous comment. Anyone would be its called being human
@horizonkyun7203 Жыл бұрын
@@diann3880 so you agree she was jealous….
@OkayMaybeImDoneNow...11 ай бұрын
Plus jealous means you want something that isn't yours and feel it would look better on you, if I'm not mistaken. So I agree. Jealousy isn't quite the right word as she was Mark's and Mark was hers. Absolute bs that they called her jealous
@Zaynahco3 жыл бұрын
When Kendall is over 30 minutes!!😍❤️
@pamelavaltierra80593 жыл бұрын
No but fr!!! I always get excited 😭
@ameliafuentes12463 жыл бұрын
What just thinking that !
@marsharowaihy67253 жыл бұрын
It’s really cool to see how the channel has grown.
@ashleyyyx23553 жыл бұрын
Love it!!!
@andrear.fontes3 жыл бұрын
Totally!
@alleyj8263 жыл бұрын
Imagine the sleep she was losing while she was messing with all those recordings. She truly went insane.
@budgiebirdy3 жыл бұрын
This is what I was thinking. Why go through all that? He's obviously checked out. Just divorce and be on your way. He wasn't worth all that time and physical and mental energy. There was no need for recordings and all of that tracking nonsense. First piece of evidence was all she needed.
@casspower3 жыл бұрын
She knew too much it drove her insane
@brittanybriana62023 жыл бұрын
Been together since they were so young obvious attachment issues she didn’t know what life would be without him
@AnupSharma783 жыл бұрын
Do you love anyone
@AnupSharma783 жыл бұрын
Do you love me
@maryannanderson2213 Жыл бұрын
If Jennair decided to kill someone, I'm not sure why her cheating husband wasn't number one on her list. Her killing the mistress and herself but leaving him alive is just bizarre.
@Eponine_Sandon Жыл бұрын
Maybe it was so he’d live miserably
@AFBudgets11 ай бұрын
@@Eponine_Sandonhe was a narcissistic. He did not. He wrote a book and profited from this
@elh197711 ай бұрын
Same question I have. We know he all looking for the next woman to be with. I think it was a spur moment decision to end herself.
@lahueramasgabrona10 ай бұрын
Right? Or why not bring that dirt to court and get a decent alimony payout. Or at least take her out right in front of him and then shoot his penis off before killing yourself. At least leave him without his junk.
@kellyeaton99946 ай бұрын
@@AFBudgets Have you read the book? Do you know where the proceeds are going? You have no idea Mark was a narcissist. I definitely don't agree with his and Meredith's affair. It's horrible, betraying, and destroyed 2 families. But you have no proof he was a narcissist. It takes 2 to tango, and it sounds like there were problems in Mark and Jennair's marriage long before the affair.
@owlgirl19982 жыл бұрын
He cared so much about his wife's mental health that he had an affair while dragging her to another state, isolating her from everyone she knew, instead of talking to her and figuring things out like adults 🙄🙄🙄
@brootr2232 жыл бұрын
I had the same thought. He has a lot of nerve.
@bunnymad50492 жыл бұрын
bingo
@loralieisa2 жыл бұрын
It was all about him and no one else. He told Jennair he didn't know if it would work out with Meredith and didn't pursue a divorce right away for that reason. I found a podcast a bad bad bad thing that gives more details about this case because Jennair had kept a journal that was found saved in cloud.She became unhinged because of the betrayal, and never got the right sort of help to get through it.
@WillChil466 Жыл бұрын
He deFinitely should have dumped her before that move! Why dud Meredith buy such a huge houSe I wondered.
@WillChil466 Жыл бұрын
He was enjoying having control over Jennaire.
@Me-mb1ex3 жыл бұрын
That neighbor looked a little too excited to be interviewed for the news about a murder case.😂
@arielbleen66163 жыл бұрын
Been waiting their whole life for that moment smh
@twinkstar77383 жыл бұрын
I know. I was like why is she smiling like that????
@marycherry20013 жыл бұрын
omg same thoughts! she was wide eyed and grinning. creepy.
@YoungGamerx33 жыл бұрын
@@twinkstar7738 please list the time stamp 🥺🙈
@YoungGamerx33 жыл бұрын
24:20
@GroovyCatMom3 жыл бұрын
The best revenge you can give a mistress is to let her have him.
@nhmooytis70583 жыл бұрын
Amen to that. My best friend of 7 years and my college bf cheated on me. They later married and were miserable, and had 2 troubled sons. Another ex was a malignant narcissist, a few years after we broke up he got married and after less than a year his new wife booted him out on his arse.
@amandafrank69863 жыл бұрын
Lol
@ivi1223 жыл бұрын
I know right! Lol she’ll be doing her a favor
@FreeChild7773 жыл бұрын
If the cheat with you they’ll cheat on you.
@jennyB073 жыл бұрын
Nah burn her house down ❤️
@coffeecatscauses4418 Жыл бұрын
Love that he couldn't be bothered to write a note for the wife he betrayed after her suicide but wrote one for his mistress.
@kz56292 жыл бұрын
This is hands down one of my biggest fears.... To be married and loyal to a man for 25 years and then once I am in my 50s he gets with someone half my age, and someone who could be our kids age pretty much. My dad did this to my mom... :/ & he abandoned me and my bro to live the lifestyle of a 20 something yr old... god I think about it all the time and I almost don't even want to date because I am so scared of that because I feel like I would lose my shit as well.
@mizzlynzz2 жыл бұрын
My biggest fear also and a big reason I'm staying single these days
@gurvirj4792 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you, your brother and mom had to go through this. I fear the same after reading these stories as well as fearing that if my husband was to find someone else he’ll murder me to get me out of the way instead of telling me the truth. Being single really doesn’t seem like a bad idea for now
@TopThunderStrike2 жыл бұрын
It happened to me 😢 the love of my life left me for the girl he told me “not to worry about” basically, I had my suspicions, but I trusted him with my whole heart. We have 2 girls, and he left us all and went to be with the girl 10years younger than him and I. 3 years later and I’m still mourning and grieving the person that used to exist. I just found out today…they just had a baby, I had no clue, he left me 2 weeks after I had a miscarriage. It’s like a million needles piercing my head and heart every time something reminds me of what my life used to be. My poor girls feel so abandoned because he’s got “the family he wanted, not the family he had” It’s really tough I tell ya 😐
@87prawblems2 жыл бұрын
Happened to me... now in my 40’s, a single mom with lupus, he remarried, had a baby, and then they divorced. I’m much better, but it’s been about 8 years. Still depressed, lonely, and regret so much. I see how someone can fixate on the new woman as I did, but in the end, it rarely lasts and you see it was him all along.
@asmrwishes2 жыл бұрын
High self esteem can help that. So you don't get your validation from someone else
@Greyfaye9993 жыл бұрын
I'm just glad they were smart enough to not have children.. I can't imagine how this would have turned out with children in the middle
@jegeriufanen44153 жыл бұрын
faith marquez-andersen As I said in another comment: since they met in the 80s (when ppl had kids young) and married young, had they had kids in their 20s, by the time all this happened, their kids would have been adults.
@Yonniee0_03 жыл бұрын
@@jegeriufanen4415 i dont see your point. even if they were adults its still hard to watch someone (the mother) go through depression and deal with this whole situation at her age. then to deal with their mother dying as a result. try to make more sense next time.
@Grace-ce7gy3 жыл бұрын
At the same time I’m not sure it would’ve ended the same had she had children. I feel that Mark was all she had. If she had kids she may not have been so obsessive about him. Who knows. Such a sad story.
@frostythehoeman69693 жыл бұрын
More ppl need this restraint IMO...
@christiegroves3 жыл бұрын
My Mom cheated on my Father and then my Father cheated on my Step Mother, I can say as an adult now at 49 it really was awful as the child, shocking and hurtful, it was hard to get through.
@aldenerowe53343 жыл бұрын
The lesson my grandma taught me as a young girl: "Make sure another woman's tears are never on your shoulders"...according to her, nothing good can happen after that.
@CJ2023Incognito3 жыл бұрын
Dang. That is good.
@christydiaz31793 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@lauren93733 жыл бұрын
Well my best friend got with my then boyfriend, they're married with kids now.. 🙄
@jenniferduvall58973 жыл бұрын
Very good advice!!!
@gbecks36723 жыл бұрын
You have a very wise grandmother. Bless her heart ❤️
@jessicam19702 жыл бұрын
I went through a divorce after my ex’s infidelity. We were married for 28 years, so it was very mentally taxing. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever been through. I have never had mental health issues, but for 2-3 weeks after finding out about the infidelity I was on the brink of a mental breakdown. One of the contributing factors was lack of sleep. I hardly sleep for almost 3 weeks. I said things to him I’m not proud of. After starting medication to help sleep, I was better the next day. I think lack of sleep was probably one of her biggest issues. 😢
@HeatherE3032 жыл бұрын
So sorry you had to go through that. It is tough. So glad you're doing better now.
@claudiaruen95272 жыл бұрын
Wasn't the lack of sleep....that sleepless nights were bc you realized that your life has changed forever...I hope and I'm sure you are so much better now
@alyssa018252 жыл бұрын
hope you’re doing better now love. that’s awful to hear i’m sorry.
@L0v3brittany2 жыл бұрын
my brother is being cheated on by his partner of 26 years...his sleep was fucked up and probably still is, i hate that he started drinking again and that she enabled it, after hes been sober for years
@Slightly_Classy2 жыл бұрын
You realize you’re sympathizing with a killer with this comment, right?
@Amvndah2 жыл бұрын
I wonder how Meredith’s ex husband felt when he first learned his ex wife was killed by the wife of the man she was having an affair with…..that’s pretty deep
@AstarionWifey2 жыл бұрын
Probably shock and then relief he wasn’t part of it
@lexxxylux2 жыл бұрын
well he was portraying himself as a victim the audacity
@Thumper-dx3yn2 жыл бұрын
He wasn't in any better of a boat. He lost a lot as a result of this as well. Poor guy
@tired.5565 Жыл бұрын
This is why I can't fully understand the sympathy for Meredith. The husband of the woman she killed now has to have the anger and betrayal of her cheating and leaving him and now has to grieve her loss. Very complicated emotions. He is the true victim of this story as he was able to control himself as an adult. Meridith was clearly having a mental health crisis and was experiencing severe depression if she was willing to take her life and the sad thing is I feel like if she was able to get the help she needed no one would have died but as someone who has suffered with depression for years I am not dangerous and I would never kill someone who wronged me. If she were alive she should have gone to jail.
@tired.5565 Жыл бұрын
@@zak27986 Oh I meant to say Jennifer I mixed the woman's names up! I was referring to the killer having a mental health crisis. One of us messed the names up it might have been me.
@thenerdygirlblog3 жыл бұрын
Eurgh. He wrote a book. The only thing men have is the audacity.
@jegeriufanen44153 жыл бұрын
Jessica Evans You shouldn't generalize about all men like that, but yes he is a giant POS for monetizing this, it was his fault
@mariahholden20883 жыл бұрын
Trueee
@frostythehoeman69693 жыл бұрын
Lol @ all the triggered men in here
@skittycat3 жыл бұрын
it makes me laugh that women experience so much discrimination on a daily basis but there are men in these replies mad that someone said they have…audacity. if your extent of gender-based discrimination is a youtube comment, please expand your worldview.
@rachellejones62543 жыл бұрын
Honestly, if the bastard cheats on you, get over it, realize he’s not worth it and become a lesbian.
@jasmineboomy3 жыл бұрын
She must of been driving herself crazy listening to his recordings every night and having no one to talk to about it all...
@CrazyMazapan3 жыл бұрын
must have
@connorcountryman41783 жыл бұрын
She was a murderer don't feel bad for her
@vandanacasm3 жыл бұрын
It would drive me crazy too 😭
@hetokaachumi51813 жыл бұрын
@@vandanacasm it would drive anyone crazy when you continue to listen the conversation of affair of you lover, and that was her biggest mistake, she crossed the line by breaking privacy. She was smart but in the end she used it against her in a negative way in my opinion.
@Blanca-44443 жыл бұрын
@@hetokaachumi5181 I agree. I understand how painful it is, but in my opinion the only thing to do at that point is to walk away. Even if he was not with Meredith, she would never trust him again. I've been in that situation, like not recording, just finding messages from other women and it hurts so bad, it's awful and it does drive you crazy, specially if you obsess over it. But she took it super far. She should have stopped, not for him, but for herself. She only hurt herself, she already knew what she needed to know, so what is the point of listening to it over and over? It's tempting, but in the end it's only self-destructive. In this particular case, 3 lives affected and 2 just wasted. Sad story.
@ohjordyn83122 жыл бұрын
I never thought I’d hear of two people SO unlikeable that I’m siding with the killer. Wow.
@cateyes10802 жыл бұрын
😂 I’m here with u like how
@zanecreed Жыл бұрын
Same!! I honestly feel so horrible for Janeire.
@user-mv4os8pq2i Жыл бұрын
Same
@nat4695 Жыл бұрын
I hate feeling for a murderer but this guy would’ve driven me insane.
@DustSoilStudio Жыл бұрын
Same. 😂 like. Am I supposed to be sad for her? She cheated on her husband with a married man. Mark trying to end on good terms and getting mad about being recorded when he lied in the first place? “Feels bad” about kissing her but not about going on the date in the first place?! I hope you never find happiness too. Lol
@seilrang2 жыл бұрын
My husband cheated on me. I did everything what Jenair did. From recording phone calls, confronting the mistress, confronting him. How he slapped me to go away as he didn't love me anymore. How the mistress told me not to bother her or them. How I thought I'd flash their story in social media. How I'd slap her in public, etc. But at the end, I left him. I didn't do anything to them. I didn't ask for alimony from husband. Now m happy on my own. I focus on myself how to improve myself. How to be more happy. I hvnt forgiven them but I want to be good myself. I don't care what they are upto now. M in peace now. 🙏
@ohitsarcangel21822 жыл бұрын
Good for you! Hope everything is ok in your life
@seilrang2 жыл бұрын
@@ohitsarcangel2182 thank you for your concern. M much better off than those years with him. I have dogs now. But I still have flash backs of what happened, small small things also remind me and my mood would be off suddenly. PTSD is really bad. It's been 2 years l left him but m still struggling to forget what happened. I can't open up to anyone. I have trust issues. M better off leaving him but m suffering from PTSD. Praying I'll recover soon.
@Bri-nc8yp Жыл бұрын
@@seilrang Your never going to forget what happen. Its trauma but you can only learn to be at peace with yourself and know you were not at fault. You control what other people do only how you react to it and what you are willing to tolerate.
@seilrang Жыл бұрын
@@Bri-nc8yp thank you for your kind words. And you are right about not forgetting. It's been 3 years but i find myself lost in the flashbacks of what my ex used to treat me. It's frustrating. Life will be never be normal again.
@jacquelineamanda2703 жыл бұрын
The fact that they were living together and he was ''spending quality time'' with Jenaire right up until the end of his divorce, and that she got so upset about that condom leaves room to assume he was in an intimate relationship with both women at the same time and may not have been honest with them both. We only know his side of the story and I think there is more to it. All three made bad decisions.
@wolftownesque3 жыл бұрын
my exact thoughts. i honestly don't believe men especially cheating men.
@wiggl3s_8213 жыл бұрын
That would make sense. I mean Jenaire would've known that meredith and mark will have been sleeping together she wasn't an idiot so for her to become so enraged that she kills the other woman because she found a used condom doesn't make sense unless he was sleeping with or trying to again be in some kind of romantic relationship with both of them. Jenaire still guilty as hell though, she absolutely didn't have to kill meredith or herself.
@jasonhaynes29523 жыл бұрын
I don't know. It sure sounds like Mark and Jenaire were over, but she just refused to accept it. She did everything she could to try and keep him from leaving, even though it was clear he didn't want to. I think Jenaire and Mark may not have lasted, and Meredith might have moved on with her life and met her true love...but she had some kind of mental illness that prevented her from seeing a better future.
@noelgobrutz39783 жыл бұрын
this is what i’m thinking also.. sounds like he wanted the best of both worlds
@NaimahWJones3 жыл бұрын
this is exactly what i thought as well
@kimberlybass69823 жыл бұрын
Seriously.. why don't people just get a divorce or wait until they finish with one relationship?? I'm someone who was cheated on after 17 years of marriage... just finish it.. don't douple dip!!!
@misscummingsart3 жыл бұрын
I’m uhhh 🙄 I iiiiii
@noonespecial6193 жыл бұрын
Million dollar question
@cayladelorenzo40473 жыл бұрын
Because cheaters are selfish
@ChocolateMilk..3 жыл бұрын
He never deserved you. He'll get his part eventually.
@cadymills4243 жыл бұрын
This always blows my mind as well. How do you look someone you love in the eye and lie through your teeth.
@caityyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyt1 Жыл бұрын
I’m not justifying murder by any means, but Mark and Meredith were clearly horrible people. Cheating is disgusting and really hurts and damages lives. Mark doing everything he did was disgusting and Meredith willingly getting with a married man WHILE also married omg 🙄
@nisharahsuresh-hw4xj8 ай бұрын
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@justkidding698 ай бұрын
Good thing she’s in hell now
@LG-vb6xd8 ай бұрын
Agreed that what they did was horrible.
@Lina321_7 ай бұрын
It’s so funny Meredith’s family said she’s a great person while her behavior proved the absolute opposite
@vydenr4866 ай бұрын
Seems like you are justifying murder
@samanfersilyk10 ай бұрын
as someone who has been cheated on (and not murdered) i can honestly say the people saying they drove her to murder are crazy. she had the ability to let go and walk away and she chose to kill. they are all horrible people.
@infinityawaitsus3 жыл бұрын
can we just appreciate that kendall bought a whole chair for the background so we can see her pets 🥺
@BetzyArosemena3 жыл бұрын
@VegaTron2020 Yeeesssa! who hurt you? 🙄
@dilanarellanes78473 жыл бұрын
yea yea yea i’m here to hear the story not to. watch no pets
@sarahharrison33323 жыл бұрын
She's amazing 🥺💗
@emilyloveslife31153 жыл бұрын
She’s literally the cutest lol
@angelika_munkastrap46343 жыл бұрын
@Dilan Arrelanes Most of us here care about Kendall herself aswell, it's why we watch. If I wanted just the story I could read an article online in two seconds flat and get the gist from that. Basically we enjoy HER, not just the story. Feel free to watch however you want, just be aware we're not all here only for the one reason
@jebplayz86353 жыл бұрын
Moral of the story - don’t cheat! Even if it doesn’t end up in murder, it still destroys lives
@irelandcarey19973 жыл бұрын
YES
@oOThatsNotMeOo3 жыл бұрын
Agree
@ShyOne10313 жыл бұрын
THIS
@imagicarolinavlogs3 жыл бұрын
True.
@nothisispatrick26153 жыл бұрын
If you want to cheat, just talk to your partner about it and how you can fix it, and if you can't, then you could just break up/divorce. Who knows, maybe your partner will even be okay with you cheating. But its always okay to get out of a relationship if you dont want to be in it, and its never okay for your partner to do something you dont want them to, even with small things like making jokes about you, or getting mad at you because you look at random hot people, or telling you that you cant go see your friends. Again, only if you dont want them to.
@christinecervantes37222 жыл бұрын
ALWAYS end one relationship before starting another.
@caitlinadalton2 жыл бұрын
By him saying he can’t forgive Jen for what she did to Meredith shows that sadly he loved his mistress more than his wife of over 20 years. This makes me really sad for Jen and makes me empathetic towards how she felt when she killed Meredith. He really did make her do it.
@yolandawilson66192 жыл бұрын
Agree!!
@paulblake18923 жыл бұрын
It's a shame that she couldn't transfer her pain into becoming a private investigator. She would have been great at that.
@LauraVittadini3 жыл бұрын
Sounds easy, though it can be a lot more difficult and complicated for someone with severe psychological disorders to be able to think that way.
@TheMinaify3 жыл бұрын
Yeah and reliving her trauma with all affair cases, sounds great
@harrisonfording85233 жыл бұрын
True that!!!
@lizbethmaldonado16543 жыл бұрын
She was really good!!
@moriahgrace27023 жыл бұрын
@Ryleigh Odell 1
@annebailey14553 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine moving to a new place and not have a support system. Just to have your husband cheat on you and move on. That has to mess with your psyche
@KendallRae3 жыл бұрын
seriously thats SO awful
@soundescape46533 жыл бұрын
@@KendallRae but like just move back...
@ashauntioates73283 жыл бұрын
@@soundescape4653 it’s not always that easy. Moving is expensive even more so when it’s a whole new state and she had already rented their home out to someone else.
@soundescape46533 жыл бұрын
@@ashauntioates7328 I get that but if you think you might murder someone take the financial L and do what you gotta do... (for example ask family or friends for help, it is hard but it is a better option then murder suicide!) she also managed to buy a gun, bullets and other stalking supplies and had enough money to open her own bank account. I can empathize and still realize she was completely in the wrong and avoided steps that could’ve prevented harm.
@erickahope98643 жыл бұрын
It’s great. Let me tell you. Definitely enough to make you go crazy.
@Introvertcat2 жыл бұрын
This is such a sad story. The husband showed zero restraint and set zero boundaries with that younger women. He was completely selfish. He lied to his wife and showed total disrespect. Women who are being lied to and betrayed like this get obsessed with finding out the truth and get very vindictive. I’ve always thought there should be a hotel for women to go to when faced with situations like this. A place that provides emotional support. A place to protect them from themselves, just to let time pass away from the toxic situation. I would probably go crazy if my husband did the same to me and would probably need to fly to CA to be with my family and grieve with them.
@TejubescDM2 жыл бұрын
You are talking about murderer as if she was a victim of the story. If you listened to the video, you would know she was a stalker and abuser.
@positivity369 Жыл бұрын
@@TejubescDM she did that because He had cheated on her and you know Marc side story. We actually don't know what really happened
@Bri-nc8yp Жыл бұрын
@@TejubescDM Well if you don't want to be stalked and murdered then don't cheat stay faithful or stay single. It's really that simple.
@bm-ww8kb Жыл бұрын
@@Bri-nc8yp lol soooooo thats a jusifiable and normal thing to do in response to your marital crisis?
@shekwaga Жыл бұрын
Agree!
@TheMikelikus2 жыл бұрын
it's amazing how the victim is portrayed so perfect...people don't understand just how it affects you until it happens to you...I choose to walk away and never look back.
@jcz75445 ай бұрын
True, meredith is a homewrecker
@linlin_693 жыл бұрын
Mark was an ass for dragging her along to another state knowing he wanted to get to know Meredith better and losing interest in his wife. He should have broken it off while she was still in SC. Never right to kill someone but I can't imagine giving someone 20+ years to be thrown away like that. I'd go crazy too.
@_vickyp3 жыл бұрын
💯
@lauradrinkwine76733 жыл бұрын
I’m sure he didn’t know at that very time what he was going to do. He had feelings for Meredith, but it was still early.
@chelseabobet45913 жыл бұрын
@@lauradrinkwine7673 he had several weeks before his wife followed him... He could've easily broke it off before she moved her entire life to follow him and his mistress.
@jenellebacchus37583 жыл бұрын
True
@mizz18yaya2 жыл бұрын
@@lauradrinkwine7673 you must date married men to be trying to justify this
@jessicawashington19723 жыл бұрын
My mama always said never let a man tell you more than once that he doesn’t want you. What I won’t do is go crazy over a man!
@sbg19113 жыл бұрын
That! Why do people lie to themselves!?
@katharineshepherd2533 жыл бұрын
Your mama is a very smart woman. Sorry but there are too many men out there for me to hold on to one for dear life. You don’t want my fine ass anymore? There’s the door and I’ll enjoy my own company until I decide I want another one. Value yourself ladies.
@kaylakoenig70512 жыл бұрын
Seriously
@alkahinat45582 жыл бұрын
Your mama is on point. Men come and go, wellbeing is forever.
@botticellichick63932 жыл бұрын
I agree with your mom too! If a man doesn't want to be with me? Adios!! My cat 🐈 is great company Anyway and he's my baby.
@annarchy6652 жыл бұрын
Jenair should have channeled her bad behavior into a career as a private investigator. 🙄
@despinacharalambous17285 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right! Even James Bond would envy her. She was so dedicated and resourceful.
@royalcrow190011 ай бұрын
I tried to read his book, got half way through and wanted to throw it across the room. He's a narcissist. Really tried to play the victim role. Disgusting.
@feedmeanniething3 жыл бұрын
Entire time, I was thinking "Alright, which one of them is going to die?" Definitely didn't see that coming!!
@zacharycoltrane31283 жыл бұрын
Riiiight
@salazarmaralisa3 жыл бұрын
I kind of saw it coming towards the middle because Kendall kept talking about the girls in a past tense. I knew Jennair was going to die for sure because she said since the beginning that "we only have Marks version of the story."
@beatsdontstop3053 жыл бұрын
Marriage is not for the weak at heart omg. That's so terrible the way it ended
@smmacey54782 жыл бұрын
Some of my biggest takeaways from allll the true crime I’ve consumed over the years - you are risking your life if you cheat on your partner, have a relationship with a married person, or if you tell your partner you will take away their kids or ruin them financially if they leave you. It’s never worth it. Do things the right way if you want to live. 😅
@LilithTheAquarian369 Жыл бұрын
I knew a wife that was killed by the side chick! It’s not always so cut & dry.
@ltapias882 жыл бұрын
Moral of the story is: WOMEN-- DONT GET WITH A MARRIED MAN!!!! Pretty simple 🤷🏻♀️
@mariangely95462 жыл бұрын
Or men and women: don’t cheat on your partner!!!
@ltapias882 жыл бұрын
@@mariangely9546 that too
@MoreCoffeePlease.2 жыл бұрын
Moral of the story is not to commit cold blooded, premeditated murder?
@ltapias882 жыл бұрын
@@MoreCoffeePlease. Yeaaa you see that would have never happened if she would have not gotten involved with a married man. Now a days there’s A LOT of mental issues, especially in the U.S….. so it’s not worth it
@MoreCoffeePlease.2 жыл бұрын
@@ltapias88 In a civilized society, even the US, the punishment for infidelity is not murder. In fact, it’s not even a civil or criminal infraction deserving of imprisonment. But please, do go on justifying *fatal corporal punishment* for a widely held moral violation. 🙄
@mandymckk3 жыл бұрын
No romance is worth all this death and destruction. It’s obsession and ego, not love.
@greenray5483 жыл бұрын
So true...
@emmaline51913 жыл бұрын
exactly
@heatherettebabe3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Not all relationships work out, sometimes people fall out and find other people that they have better chemistry with. Mark and Jennair should have gotten a divorce once she found out about Meredith. Mark and Meredith should have started their own relationship. Meredith’s ex and Jennair should have forgiven, let go, moved on, and found new relationships.
@jasonhaynes29523 жыл бұрын
If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were. I feel like it all comes down to destiny and finding your soulmate. Mark and Jennair were not destined to stay together, and were not soulmates. They were never meant to be. Jennair couldn't accept this. She should have let him go and moved on with her life. She probably would have found someone who made her happier than Mark ever did. But she had some kind of mental illness. People get divorced everyday and move on with their lives. It's painful. It hurts. It feels like your life has ended. But you've got to show some self-respect....you can't force someone to love you and you can't force someone to stay with you against their will.
@rishaa6823 жыл бұрын
more like trauma and attachment issues
@kylahlenore34833 жыл бұрын
A terrible relationship will leave you batshit cray, depressed, and insecure! And I’m speaking from experience. My daddy told me if you feel you have to go through his phone whatever you think is in there is in there, put it down and leave!
@wildolive36303 жыл бұрын
TRUTH
@noelsmaison6853 жыл бұрын
Omg true i have been in this place uff i picked myself up on my own
@seateg123 жыл бұрын
GREAT advice!
@nourishevolvethrive41643 жыл бұрын
That’s what I did
@jessicasnyder45073 жыл бұрын
THIS!!!
@madarch3r2 жыл бұрын
Honestly...It's really a shame she decided to kill Meredith and then herself..She really could have been quite the successful private investigator. You really have to admire her tenacity in all this. The lengths she went to uncover the truth without Mark knowing exactly how deeply she was digging is astonishing. Such a huge shame she didnt recognize her potential and what opportunities could have awaited her and this divorce as a blessing rather than the end of the world event. I definitely have sympathy for her. To many people end up dead because of affairs and love triangles...People really need to stop and think before playing with the feelings of others. Murder is never the answer...But there really needs to be accountability here for the ones doing the cheating.
@Peachcobler2211 ай бұрын
Mark was so selfish for letting his wife relocate to be with him, when he had clearly started an affair and had 2nd thoughts about their marriage. That was so conceited. She was alone, isolated from friends and the one person she trusted betrayed her.
@rokeishiarodgers72053 жыл бұрын
This is a horrible horrible situation! I'm just glad they didn't have children together...that would have been so much worst..
@TaLisaLovesDaveDay983 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I know the child of a murderer and they're terrified it's in their blood. It's so sad 💔
@novab87203 жыл бұрын
I think maybe if they had kids the tragedy could have been prevented. I think Jener felt all she had was Mark and nobody else. She moved to a different state, sold their house for him and he was going to move in with another woman and she probably felt backed into a corner. It’s so sad because Mark was her life and he did her so wrong smh...
@KendallRae3 жыл бұрын
Yeah great point
@jegeriufanen44153 жыл бұрын
Well since they met in the 80s (when ppl had kids young) and married young, had they had kids in their 20s, by the time all this happened, their kids would have been adults.
@rokeishiarodgers72053 жыл бұрын
@@novab8720 That's a good perspective as well!
@holymarina66223 жыл бұрын
GIRL! Mark should not profit off these women and this tragedy. He’s so twisted
@nicoleloves94833 жыл бұрын
He profited? Wow... there should be a special place for cheaters in hell.
@ambarvizcarra96563 жыл бұрын
He’s trying to help those struggling with mental health issues to prevent this situation from happening again. I think if he was a real twisted person he would have gone a different route but it sounds like the only thing people care about is the fact that he cheated on his wife. She still killed another human
@hobbs3173 жыл бұрын
Amber Vizcarra he's helping people with mental illness to prevent this situation from happening again? I mean it could have been prevented by HIM BEING LOYAL. He caused this. The kind of pain he caused her can cause mental illness. I have been through it. Pain does a lot of mental harm.
@emilyplays10543 жыл бұрын
wtf, he cheated, that was bad, but Jenaire murdered someone. And in this case,Mark and Meredith are the victims, not the criminal.
@charliebrown17963 жыл бұрын
He’s a total narcissist. All he wanted was constant attention and to have his ego stroked by women who were honestly much too good for him, and now he wants his narcissistic supply again from the public by writing this book. He doesn’t have the capability to love anyone but himself. He is a revolting human being.
@annmariebarratt42132 жыл бұрын
My husband left me after nearly 30 years together for a younger woman😭 But it never occurred to me, to hurt either one of them!!!!!! I just don’t understand how you could do what she did. Yes I was angry, yes I was hurt, but to hurt one of them, no, not my style!!!
@teresatv92092 жыл бұрын
Sending hugs. Hope you have found happiness
@erikablu429 Жыл бұрын
u have class ! good for you. i hope your doing good, putting all that energy into yourself, rather than them seems like such a better thing to do
@chrystaladams255411 ай бұрын
Him becoming an advocate for mental health is a joke. Both women deserved better and I hope the families can heal . ❤
@Nobody-xr9xz5 ай бұрын
Meredith didn't deserve better. she was a Homewrecker
@k8te693 жыл бұрын
I noticed that in Grey's Anatomy, Derek cheats on Addison with a younger woman named Meredith. In the parent trap, the dad leaves his wife and almost marries a younger woman named Meredith. Hmmm...
@albani_christina3 жыл бұрын
Guess we gotta watch out for people named Meredith lol
@Ang.09103 жыл бұрын
@@albani_christina Meredith’s and Karen’s! Lol
@starrsmith38103 жыл бұрын
The dad was divorced from the wife before he even met Meredith lmao. She dumped him when he picked his daughters over her.
@k8te693 жыл бұрын
@@starrsmith3810 still the point is that she was considered "the other woman"
@albani_christina3 жыл бұрын
@@Ang.0910 Yep
@BetterLifeAhead353 жыл бұрын
The weirdest thing about this is someone being turned on by a Taco Bell uniform
@gimmefeedback3 жыл бұрын
Once she mentioned that I knew there was something wrong with that man
@thekristenhutchinson3 жыл бұрын
Right?!
@ange32613 жыл бұрын
...not me constantly checking my bf out in his tacobell uniform 👀👀👀
@laurenmelton7243 жыл бұрын
Dead 🤣🤣💀 DNR
@badumtiss52883 жыл бұрын
I Thought I Looked Good In Mine 😂 I Liked My Little Hat
@meganhardwick15982 жыл бұрын
Ignorance is bliss. She found out too much about the affair. Hearing those conversations and seeing photos and seeing so much of their relationship must have been devastating causing an obsession and so on…..
@stephaniexrenea2 жыл бұрын
this made me re-feel the feelings i had when my ex-fiancé was cheating on me and i was trying to convince myself it wouldn't happen again while also going through his stuff and not trusting a word he said. god i don't miss that relationship lol
@robjenstreet3 жыл бұрын
Damn why can’t people just learn to divorce and move on instead of cheating. The cheater always gets caught eventually and it never ends well.
@violet32makingit643 жыл бұрын
Sadly, this will never happen .
@krysg13043 жыл бұрын
It sucks but people even cheat when everything is going well...people suck. And then they claim that monogamy sucks- if you cannot commit to a relationship then do not commit to begin with?
@Justdance63363 жыл бұрын
People are stupid af. That’s why unfortunately lol
@NikkieTwix3 жыл бұрын
I also think this could be applied to Jennaire? Like why can’t people just learn to divorce and move on and not murder another person ?
@heatherpolley85013 жыл бұрын
@@NikkieTwix if you read his book he was still telling her he didn't want to end it. He wanted to stay in both relationships. He wasn't even honest about the affair until like 2 months before she killed Meredith and herself. And she still wanted to be in the marriage. Plenty of marriages come back from infidelity. She had a right to want to work on a 24 year marriage. Mark did not have a right to have an affair regardless of his feelings.
@minhdo34823 жыл бұрын
The best revenge is to let the other woman keep his cheating and he'll probably cheat on his new woman eventually
@ceegee63233 жыл бұрын
I was thinking I woulda been so out and living my best life, but I'm 30 and this woman was almost 50. She probably felt so unattractive and that it was too late to start over. Plus they made a decision not to have kids together, leaving her all alone when he decides to go be with a younger woman he could potentially start a family with. Super sad. I feel for her.
@katrinagraham76153 жыл бұрын
Those who cheat with you, will cheat on you!
@triciab6123 жыл бұрын
Katrina Graham • Right. He was 15 years older, maybe he would have gotten cheated on eventually. Kind of sad story 🤨.
@katrinagraham76153 жыл бұрын
@@triciab612 My boyfriend and I are 15 years apart. I would never cheat on him. He means too much to me to lose him.
@ED80s3 жыл бұрын
Or Meredith may have cheated on Mark. She was married 3 years and already cheating. Sounds like commitment isn't her thing
@dkyipyip9 ай бұрын
“Skipping kids is sometimes pretty tempting.” lol 😂 if ya know you know. Love you Kendall 💕😘
@maryjocassell4811 ай бұрын
For 2 years my husband worked toward getting hired by Philips Medical and finally landed the position We moved to New Mexico from California and were buying our first home with our 2 little ones. Within 6 months he left for a woman he'd met, nine months later she left him.
@josephconnor231010 ай бұрын
I'm sorry.
@Asyoulikeit1232 ай бұрын
did you take him back? I had something similar happen to me.
@Mark-sd5jk3 жыл бұрын
Everyone just cheating on everyone, and they’re MARRIED..... Jesus
@alizastaygolden3 жыл бұрын
People have no respect for the concept of marriage at all. It’s sick.
@wheatbread20023 жыл бұрын
That is what happens when you rush into marriage. He is a helpless romantic, and she is a jealous control freak. Both didn't date enough to know how many other companions there are. They rushed into everything. They didn't really know who they are.
@shplms3 жыл бұрын
@@wheatbread2002 still doesn’t make it an excuse to cheat. they most likely grew up together, and then just grew apart
@LuuCaicedo3 жыл бұрын
Staying single is not that hard and is cheaper 😡😡
@wheatbread20023 жыл бұрын
@@shplms Having a reason why people do the things they do is not equate to excuses. They've done no internal work on themselves which is why this all manifested in the 1st place. When you rush into marriage without doing any internal work on yourself, this is the results that lead to their actions. Death doesnt happen everytime, but disfucntion does. They fell out of love because they don't know who they are outside of their relationship. The relationship defined their self. Not their self defining the relationship. In the 20 years they were complacent, almost disfunctional with whatever childhood insecurities they had. (Jeniere had abandonment/jealously issues, and Mark probably never had much female attention growing up. And have a passive stance with women, but still want both. Similar to Chris Watts)
@thejanetflights73963 жыл бұрын
Words to live by: Never, EVER, get involved with a married man. For probably five million very good reasons.
@lauraowen81423 жыл бұрын
I went on1 date w/ a guy who lied about being single! Then I told him to man up & FO!!!
@ashleykathleen853 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@dollymadison23972 жыл бұрын
No kidding! I agree! People need to get their own spouse instead of interloping on someone else's marriage.
@OhSnapAGirl2 жыл бұрын
@@emalee916 My exact same thought!! 💭
@Sarajiii2 жыл бұрын
Same goes with married women
@Nonayabizness3602 жыл бұрын
My first marriage ended because my ex husband cheated on me after almost 7 years and I was devastated but I’ve been remarried to my second husband for over 10 years and sometimes you just find even happier. Moral of the story don’t screw someone else’s partner.
@edwinacross34522 жыл бұрын
You are a great storyteller. Unlike similar programs, you give the story the front seat, without your ego intruding. Your voice is beautiful, well-modulated, and - this sounds strange, but your language usage is perfect. I have listened to several others with similar programs to whom I wrote below, "could you see a dialect coach?" or "get help with your verb conjugation." You are perfect and ready to roll. Good even-handed conclusions, letting the audience know when something is your opinion as opposed to straight facts. The best in the business as far as I can tell. In this case? I think and anyone in a committed marriage who sneaks around behind their partner's back is at fault right upfront. If he had come back from his trip and told her he felt something for this new person and they had gone to counseling then, he would be off the hook. Sewing recording devices into clothing is a bit bizarre, but not really any worse than going off on a trip alone and deciding you can "fall in love" et. al and then come home to your wife and say nothing. Keep up the good work.
@sunflower80354 ай бұрын
Spot on 🙌🏽
@Naturalhumblewise3 жыл бұрын
The fact that they were living together and he was ‘spending quality time’ with Jenaire right up until the end of his divorce leaves room to assume he was in an intimate relationship with both women at the same time and may not have been honest with them both. I don’t think he handled the situation right and it got out of control.. this is probably why he forgives Jenaire to some degree? 🤷♀️
@yorkandpomona3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@marlacarroll31923 жыл бұрын
Absolutely 100% I’ve voiced my opinion but also you’re the first commenter down the line that so very closely,almost literally is the same as I!!
@michellerain82213 жыл бұрын
100% he tryna act all innocent like there was nothing when he was probably doing a lot worse
@nickieisknittingtoomuch3 жыл бұрын
Jenere should have let her have Mark. That’s the worse things she could’ve done to her. He would have eventually cheated on her too.
@joseehill59943 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@brookebailey43303 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! There is no excuse for an affair.
@avengingstorm17103 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. She would have gotten old eventually too.
@volcanisty3 жыл бұрын
Yes, only I think Meredith would have eventually tired of Mark and cheated on him like she did Luke.
@ghfamghgam11723 жыл бұрын
Spot on! And Meridith would of come crying to Jenaire in a few years trying to be her friend. always the way
@brootr2232 жыл бұрын
This is probably not a popular opinion and forgive me please, but I honestly do feel really bad for Jenaire. It doesn’t justify her actions in anyway but I can absolutely see why she was driven as mad as she was to do this. I hope Mark takes accountability for this bc it is literally 100% all due to his actions.
@anahill2366 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, it’s really sad
@horizonkyun7203 Жыл бұрын
you can feel bad for her, but saying it’s “100%” because of mark’s actions is just false. so many people go through awful shit, WORSE than this, and don’t murder.
@brootr223 Жыл бұрын
@@horizonkyun7203 do you think she would have killed his girlfriend if there was no affair? It’s all bc of his actions, literally, his affair sparked it all. I hope his conscience eats him alive to the point of the instability he drove his wife to.
@maggiee6399 ай бұрын
I never understand being mad at the mistress, she doesn’t even know you! Be mad at the man who married you and betrayed you!
@eluseaasginarte80562 жыл бұрын
Kendal, I truly love your channel, and I watch wvery morning while i workout. Your set up on your bed looks awesome, and seeing your pets, makes me smile. Keep doing great, girl! Proud of you!
@PinkFlameofLiberty3 жыл бұрын
Never an excuse for murder. He is a scumbug. She was a homewrecker. All three of those facts can be true.
@baileighb3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@eastridge093 жыл бұрын
This
@PandemicEv3 жыл бұрын
Why is he a scumbag? He was married to a psycho and wanted out, what part of that makes him a scumbag? She was the scumbag, murdered the girl to make sure he could never be happy.
@eastridge093 жыл бұрын
@@PandemicEv the cheating is what makes him a scumbag. Wanting to leave a marriage is fine but you can’t start dating someone behind your spouses back.
@molly53763 жыл бұрын
@@PandemicEv shutup
@tracymartell40403 жыл бұрын
Sadly I have been in Jennairs's shoes. I get how jealousy drives you insane knowing your marriage is ending because your spouse is in love with someone else, and the "bad guys" get their happy ending. I wished every day that my ex and his mistress would get their karma to come back 10x but so glad I decided to eventually walk away when I realized saving my mental health was more important than saving my marriage.
@user-sj4ty5ot2v3 жыл бұрын
Good for you girl ! 👍🏼
@roxannemoser3 жыл бұрын
Karma does come. My ex remarried. Now, they're raising her grandson because his new stepdaughter overdosed on heroin and died. I didn't wish that kind of karma on her. I cant imagine losing a child.
@brittrichards53373 жыл бұрын
👏👏
@user-cy4vw1qj9m3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't believe anything he says he is a under handed so and so so was his new woman
@nhmooytis70583 жыл бұрын
I wished my nasty narcissist ex would get hit by a bus, and he ran his motorcycle into a car. I felt sorta bad. Not REAL bad 😂 PS I watch out for cars and buses since finding out karma does work.
@TheNEditYT Жыл бұрын
I feel so so sorry for the wife. Mark started the affair well before she moved to the new place to be with him. If he had a drop of decency in him, he'd have ended things with her before she moved and allowed her to heal. And to imagine the paranoia and pain she must have gone through to have spied on him the way she did, it just seems like he world shattered while he was dreaming of a new life. And I can never find it in my heart to feel sorry for women who get into affairs with men while they are still married. They're both disgusting.
@djs21822 жыл бұрын
Listening to Kendall say “Skipping kids is sometimes really tempting” while she’s in the hospital having her baby right now a year later 😍
@patienceRachel3 жыл бұрын
Merediths ex was just chilling and should be a reminder to ya'll that if someone doesn't want you...MOVE ON
@heatherbukowski21023 жыл бұрын
Agreed. It's painful af to get cheated on, but let's not ruin your entire life in response. Healing is on the horizon.
@grainyveg75573 жыл бұрын
Yes. Your time, energy, and presence are valuable and deserve to be given to someone who wants, and will reciprocate, those things. Straight up. Not saying it doesn’t hurt, but the pain over the loss of a relationship will lessen with time. The pain of being repeatedly rejected, ignored, by someone you’re choosing to stay with, will not.
@Sarah-eh7bw3 жыл бұрын
Right?! Just move on. A cheater is not worth ruining your live over!
@loralieisa3 жыл бұрын
@@grainyveg7557 She also listened in on them with recording devices causing herself more pain and anger. She was a smart, very intelligent woman who could have found somebody else.
@Findpepperbridge3 жыл бұрын
They had only been married 3 years
@estellagrace70253 жыл бұрын
Now Mark is in love with his writing coach because he thought of a clever sentence, so she patted him on the head and said "Who's a good boy. Yeesss.. Who's my good boy"!? He's not very complicated..
@marsarchive3 жыл бұрын
i read that in the voice i talk to my dog to 💀
@gbecks36723 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂
@PennyPennyPennyPennyPenny3 жыл бұрын
I wonder what her eyebrows look like
@estellagrace70253 жыл бұрын
@@marsarchive Hahaha
@nicoleloo63863 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh 😂😂
@brendaleepearson2509 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos! I really enjoy listening to you and how you tell the story. Bringing awareness to these stories is very important!
@gaynorgregory25282 жыл бұрын
You’re right, Sadie’s sweater is adorable. Your stuff is great Kendall, you don’t tell people what they should have in their homes. Loved the gold skull btw. ❤️
@mystiwilkins82903 жыл бұрын
As someone who has been cheated on before, I can understand how the wife ended up snapping. It starts with a suspicion. Then the snooping. And if you don't catch yourself, you can fall into a full on downward spiral into crazy town. I personally thought about utilizing the spyware, recording devices, etc. It makes you feel crazy, and that can certainly lead to snapping. Luckily, I made the decision to just walk away. If they are cheating, it isn't worth your time, energy, freedom, or life. Now I am of the mindset that if I feel the urge to snoop, the relationship is probably over. This is an unnecessary tragedy. And I feel like all 3 of these people had their own roles in this happening. The husband is simply the only one left to take the fall. But they all played a part in this happening.
@cecep1533 жыл бұрын
amazing point !!
@rachellejones62543 жыл бұрын
I agree. 👍🏾
@blossomalchemy3 жыл бұрын
Very much agree.
@Thatgradgirl3 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you had to go through this :( my parent’s marriage ended after an awful affair and it destroyed my mom. I myself have also been cheated on too. Some people who have never experienced it don’t quite understand how it can really tear a person apart. I hope you’ve healed from that and that you never have to go through that again❤️
@kasperorganics-organiccott68813 жыл бұрын
There are so many people that resort to murder out of a desire for control. I think she acted out of anger and a desire for control more than heartbreak. People experience heartbreak all the time and murder never crosses their minds. Even in situations much worse than this. He wasn't a habitual cheater. He fell in love with someone else. I think he should have compensated her for her making the move to a different state, and upsetting her life that way. But he couldn't force himself to love her if he just wasn't feeling it anymore. That's what Jenaire just couldn't accept. It infuriated her that he actually found a young, beautiful, intelligent, successful woman who loved him. She thought she had the upper hand in the relationship all those years. I think that's what pushed him away. I'm tempted to buy his book.
@caseyw.65503 жыл бұрын
Trying hard to find sympathy for anyone in this case. Why any woman would think being with a cheater is some kind of prize is beyond me. These men ain't shit, ladies. Always remember that.
@lunar_light3 жыл бұрын
"These men ain't shit, ladies. Always remember that." wise words! I need to remind myself of that regularly.
@twinkstar77383 жыл бұрын
She was a cheater too, so why would she care that he was?
@stephenjholloway273 жыл бұрын
They both cheated so they deserves each other. It's gross.
@angelapatino95823 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why cheaters think...they won't cheat on me.
@caseyw.65503 жыл бұрын
@@twinkstar7738 Even cheaters usually don't want to be cheated on.
@acelroca Жыл бұрын
I admire how fair you are when you discuss cases like this. I can never do it. I have been watching you for years and have been angered by many cases but this one really got me to my core. I can never have any sympathy for any of them in this case but I hated the guy the most.
@kristinavaldez42412 жыл бұрын
This story is honestly so sad. No man is worth that much of your time, love or life. If you find yourself sewing listening devices into your man’s clothes… it’s time to cut your losses and move on.
@rinn10613 жыл бұрын
Ew I cannot stand when old men tell underage/super young girls that they are “so mature for their age” 🤢
@MsSonali19803 жыл бұрын
Same. This was a over 30 old woman, what did he expect. That she still played with her Barbies?
@chloel.80073 жыл бұрын
For real, young girls are not mature. I'm 26, and I'm mature for a 26 y/o but not mature to be with a man in his 30s. Girl I--
@NikkieTwix3 жыл бұрын
She wasn’t super young though ? 😂
@andreashelton3 жыл бұрын
Yes it's so patronising
@andreashelton3 жыл бұрын
@@MsSonali1980 🤣🤣🤣 he is such a jerk
@samlightner3 жыл бұрын
honestly my worst fear is to have the love of your life find someone “better”
@chefjames33613 жыл бұрын
I personally would want the love of my life to have the best...even if the best is not me.
@mascara17773 жыл бұрын
If they do, then they weren't the love of your life because a good partner wouldn't do that to you.
@Ninamarie813 жыл бұрын
@Linda Mpofu and sometimes it’s just “different”.
@Interstellarpickles3 жыл бұрын
@@chefjames3361 that’s a lame attitude
@heatherpolley85013 жыл бұрын
Better is subjective. In this case I don't think Meredith would have been too interested once Mark got his divorce was finalized. I think she liked (and maybe him too) the deceitful part of it. Even though they were so in love they certainly weren't rushing to be divorce their spouses to be together.
@frankboff12602 жыл бұрын
Background, lighting etc is secondary. We are here for your particular story telling talent, sensitivity and of course the pets! 💖
@greenentertainment46992 жыл бұрын
Jennair's obsession with recording Mark's conversations escalates because the behaviour centers in her brain are rewarded every night with more content. It becomes an addiction then obsession which she can't control anymore. The writing was on the wall when she had them fake a happy marriage in exchange for signing divorce papers. Her attempts for control escalated until death.
@Pw68723 жыл бұрын
I disagree with the notion of Jennair's thinking that "if I can't have him, nobody can." I think it was simply and more accurately "I won't be wronged."
@meganwall64993 жыл бұрын
yeah me too. If it were "If I can't have him, nobody can", she would have killed him instead.
@tracieroughley42883 жыл бұрын
Me too, because she left him behind and he could easily repartner. If she had taken the "if I can't have him no one can" approve, it's him she would have shot.
@melodiechartier51733 жыл бұрын
That!!!! 👌🏼
@albasmith96293 жыл бұрын
@@melodiechartier5173 really
@deeriggs33193 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@bubbles36383 жыл бұрын
I'll never understand why someone thinks: If my new lover cheated on his/her mate.....What makes me think he/she won't cheat on me. Once a cheater always a cheater.
@mariewaffles96242 жыл бұрын
Also how you get them is how you lose them
@MT-oi2ty2 жыл бұрын
100%
@owlgirl19982 жыл бұрын
If they're willing to cheat with you they'll cheat on you
@xxyes88792 жыл бұрын
In this case though they were both married, so that kind of changes things.
@owlgirl19982 жыл бұрын
@@xxyes8879 yeah its twice as bad
@Jan887552 жыл бұрын
I really like your commentary on all your videos, I stumbled across your channel a month ago and now I watch all of them 👍🏽
@estrellaborrego9642 жыл бұрын
A major takeaway from this is to love yourself just as much as you love your partner. I get it, homewreckers and cheaters are horrible people, but let him/her go if they wanna leave.
@adriennepaige40033 жыл бұрын
mark seems like the kind of guy that would kiss himself in the mirror
@april64613 жыл бұрын
😆😂 wtf
@bellezanegra02063 жыл бұрын
@@april6461 narcissist, he seems like a narcissist
@april64613 жыл бұрын
@@bellezanegra0206 a play on words, i know. It was late at night and i was hit w giggles.
@madsdee78033 жыл бұрын
Yeah I bet he did that a lot of times. What a shame he wasn't the one she killed since she just made him single and free to start dating other women. He didn't really care about the subject of the affair either. He was just so self-centred he never noticed anyone else he left in his path (when he thought he was better).
@madsdee78033 жыл бұрын
@@bellezanegra0206 yeah having him being interviewed was a waste and a show of poor acting skills. He didn't care about either of them and he doesn't feel sorry for what he did. I wonder how many women he's used since they've been dead.
@srussell35113 жыл бұрын
We have to remember that not only did he cheat after 20 years, but also he gave her enough hope that the marriage would be stable that she sold the house and moved across the country, where she was in a place where the only people she knew where her husband and his mistress. It must have been so isolating and I’m not shocked that she went insane- it must have been all she could think about (I’m not excusing murder though)
@lovelight69733 жыл бұрын
True. That was really shitty move.
@christinamayhew37982 жыл бұрын
No not an excuse for murder...a reason TO murder 😉😉😉
@christinamayhew37982 жыл бұрын
@Ann Harlan what do you mean?
@gaynorgregory25282 жыл бұрын
Depression isn’t insanity. Most people who are depressed never hurt anyone else.
@yolandawilson66192 жыл бұрын
@@christinamayhew3798 Agree.
@kathrynbillinghurst1882 жыл бұрын
I love your stylish little shelves and the ornaments are YOU! I love it when you are in the mood room with big snuggly couch, and seeing your pets lounging is a lovely thing to see. Cosy and cuddly is how I see you, like a cute powder puff! 🥰 oh yes and my dog Rusty just hears your intro or voice and here’s here relaxing with me. I dare not wear my ear phones.
@sheilamaealbaniel90162 жыл бұрын
Don't get married if you cannot hold yourself from being with another person everytime. Just stay single so you can do whatever you want. For both genders: respect the life of other people ESPECIALLY if the person is already married, that is if you also respect the life that was given to you.
@monas51643 жыл бұрын
The purpose of Jennair telling Mark to take her on dates and act as if nothing happened was a ploy to get him to realize that he still loved her.
@TheBlondeInPink3 жыл бұрын
I thought that too!
@ED80s3 жыл бұрын
She could have let him go and then realize how much he misses and loves Jennair when things go to shit w Meredith
@daisymoreno72543 жыл бұрын
Jennair really worked harder than the FBI 👀
@314three3 жыл бұрын
For real
@loralieisa3 жыл бұрын
@@314three She could have had an impressive career with them.
@idaruth62932 жыл бұрын
crazy that he is more sad and sorry about his mistress than his wife
@Aliyahandusra Жыл бұрын
I think the reason that Jennair literally lost it was because she was listening to those recordings all day! I have been cheated on before and I couldn't even read one message! Much less listen to them all day!