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[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Hello Beautiful Tribe. Thank you all so much for the pre-emptive likes 👍🏽 as the are also love 💖 in this family. Please keep them coming on the Premiere and the replay - they truly help our channel get this information out to the masses. I love you all - thank you.✨💖

[@lilemukule7510]

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@mollyjohnson3234]

Tea how can we talk one on one??

[@aalston7able]

I have been married to a narcissist for ten years,took care of his daughter since the age of 4. I went through abuse the entire duration of the marriage. I would leave and kept returning because I had no place to go and all my resources he had sucked it all up. We just bought a house,he put the house in his name only and Everytime I stand up to him he kicks me out or give me pure hell if I stay. It happened Sunday,he kicked me out with no money,no place to go, nothing. I don't know where to begin to pick up the pieces. 😭😭

[@larsandradouglas3119]

Where is the cruise information?

[@jameslewis9441]

You are absolutely beautiful and so amazing!! Keep givin em Hell!! Strong, phenomenal, woman!!

[@sophiamcleod1841]

Stop worrying about how this person looks -- or worrying about what he or she is doing ! Work on self ! Bank account ! Credit score ! Your job , and your children ! Time will reveal ! Stay Focus on your business let God handle your case ! God have never lost a case !

[@marymotherofgod4861]

Facts amen 🌈✝️💜🙏

[@blossom3468]

Amen

[@danetspeaks8708]

Wow Amen 🙏🏾

[@queenb8244]

Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@charissemcbroom6766]

Amen 🙏 Sister love the 💎 you shared just saw it today 6/10/22 and that’s exactly! My Energy God Bless you

[@nikkyluv2244]

He thought that last silent treatment would be like all the others....he was ready for some love bomb but he didn't realize I was holding a grenade.....I denied him fuel, ignored his sexual advances that morning he finally came back to bed, took my divorce papers and filed them, locked him out, blocked him, no contact, 13yrs, but I'm finally out and I'm staying out #JesusDidIt 🙌

[@shug_no_avery8172]

The love bomb don’t last long once they’ve done it it’s like they don’t make or take the extra effort to get u back they bread crumb u with jus enough

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. I know that’s right how old in a grenade is right. I love it. That’s right Jesus did it hallelujah. Staying out and never going back that’s awesome. I’m proud of you sis!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@nikkyluv2244]

@@shug_no_avery8172 yup and once you began to awaken, you can no longer play asleep

[@nikkyluv2244]

@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships I truly appreciate it, and I pray God continues to use yourself and so many others like you to be a vessel for his people....I pray your virtues are consistently restored and that you earn a double portion for your selflessness, God bless you and THANK YOU🌻🌞

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

@@nikkyluv2244 such a powerful prayer and likewise for you. Sister thank you so much for the encouragement. You’re so welcome I appreciate you💎.✨💖

[@purpleheart1842]

I showed him that I am a grade A, I discarded that bird!!!!! I took my peace back. Queen Tea is popping!!!!!!!

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

That’s what I’m talking about taking your piece back. Taking your power back. You are a 💎. You will be treated as such. Bye bird is what we told that narc. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@kimpointer21]

Yes she is!!!!

[@TeresaGarcia-qt3oz]

Yes sir😂

[@indiahindiah7295]

You too 🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓

[@emmaharper860]

Amen

[@toniwilliams9817]

He thought he had me wrapped around his little finger and I would never leave. I kept trying to let him know, but he just disregarded me. Well, he found out just how serious I was. The sad thing is, at the time, I thought he was able to realize what he had and would do what he needed to do to save the relationship, but he didn't care. I learned he never had what it took to sustain a real relationship. He could not EVER be that man. They don't change....it's a waste of time to talk to them, try to work it out, or stay for whatever reasons. Love yourself and your life enough to GO!

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Oh that’s when they cut the fool when they think they have you wrapped around your finger. They are not capable of being me and they are only grown boys.

[@lanadst6745]

Yes true they are just very low fruit ! And rotten too. They want to save nothing ...

[@jacquelineblack3337]

Sounds like the "relationshit" I just ended with a covert narcissist. Definitely took advantage of my "inner child" but I'm a resilient person. When I started feeling that he was trying to control me mentally and emotionally, through childish behaviors, the silent treatments, quick temper if I confronted him with ANYTHING, and literally pouting. I kept my promise to end the relationship if it continued. I definitely got caught off guard in lowering my standards...the caring and nurturing nature in me, overlooked the first warnings. I left! Keep it all!!! No leash to hold me to you....GOODBYE FO' EVAAAAA'!!!! 100 % THIS QUEEN STRAIGHTENED HER CROWN!!!❤❤❤

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

@@jacquelineblack3337 I’m so happy you got away. Go on with your bad self Queen!!🌟💖

[@jacquelineblack3337]

@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships ❤❤❤❤

[@WBrown-gm4er]

What's astonishing to me, is these FOOLS expect to treat you any ole type of way & expect you to like it. This is why they dumb tails are so shocked & in awe when you walk & cut em off.

[@goddessvibes08]

God showed me his true colors. I picked myself up. He can't break me. I survived so many illnesses. He ain't shit

[@kynathomas4809]

💣💣💣❤💯

[@ekechibreeden8855]

Amen

[@WBrown-gm4er]

I cut the Narcissist & the friends, mutual friends, everybody got discarded & Blocked! 2022 Vibes🤣

[@hazeleyes2381]

I thought I would die after "it" discarded me after 24 years together, 19 years of marriage and 3 beautiful children. I cried and begged for 2 solid months and upon the discovery of his other supply, I simply went numb inside. The pain of his betrayal and the people he betrayed me with, as they were people I knew, was just too much. I felt like killing myself. He then bombarded me with videos and articles on narcissism telling our children, his family and our friends that I was crazy and that I suffer from Cluster B Personality Disorder. Little did he know that God would use exactly what he sent for me to educate myself on who he was. I felt so sick but also relieved upon learning about the monster I had been involved with and married to for all of these years. It was like as if the light bulb went on. The epiphany of who he was was and what I had endured all these years rocked me to the very core of my being. I now knew that I was not crazy. After 2 months of crying and begging, I had "woken up" and I took back my power. I now understood that his leaving was God's protection. I was the beautiful and educated trophy wife who helped to built him up so that he would appear normal to the community and society at large. His smear campaign almost destroyed me. He tried to demonise and assassinate my character together with the help of his narc family but what he does not know is that most of his friends are laughing at him behind his back because of his downgrade picks. First it was the maid who is also the baby mama and he has now has moved in with the assistant who is pregnant. The baby mama is the forever supply and the assistant was waiting on the back burner all these years to be promoted as the primary supply. Both supplies were part of our daily lives, pretending to be my friends and after his discard and the horror of his double life came to the fore, I finally understood the extent of how both of them were envious of my life and the extent they all went to try to destroy me and my children. What they do not know is just how sick and twisted of a monster he is and what I was going through behind closed doors. After 15 months of no contact, he has now been hoovering for the past few months. He thinks that I am still this stupid and gullible person that had put up with his lies, cheating and bs for so long. I am so keeping that door shut and locked! I know I still have a long way to go in my healing journey but that's okay. Being the Grade A supply is nothing to be proud of or to celebrate in a manner of speaking because you become the doormat, you bear the brunt of the abuse the most for they know you will never leave no matter how bad they treat you. The trauma bond is so difficult to break no matter how badly you want to leave. The supplies may gloat, make fun of me and think they have succeeded in stealing him from me but they have no idea the pain that is coming. I thank my Heavenly Father each day for rescuing me and for giving me a second chance at life. I also pray each day for the Holy Spirit to empower me with the grace to forgive them and to let go. You are so right. They underestimated how strong we are. No matter the pain, I now see the discard as a blessing. My God has my back and no weapons forged against me shall ever prosper.

[@rochelleb1338]

This sounds like my life story but I can say to you I applaud you good job no matter what keep the faith and you pray for me I will pray for you because it's truly sounds like my story God bless

[@pytrotter5618]

I’m going through the exact same thing , 15 years and 1 child , he has left and came back several times over the years but the last three years he been from me to another woman and back to me , now with another woman, I finally said enough, yes it hurt so bad , it’s been four months no contact, but when I found these videos omg she help me so much, I didn’t even know what a narc was until a month ago

[@hazeleyes2381]

@@rochelleb1338 Will keep you in my prayer my beautiful Sis.

[@hazeleyes2381]

@@pytrotter5618 I know it is hard now Sis but things will get better. Your healing journey is for you and you alone. Take all the time you need to educate yourself on this disorder and heal your hidden wounds. I also took the narc husband back several times but the abuse only got worse every time. I do not want my children to see me this way anymore - as someone who had lost herself so much so to the point of not knowing who she was anymore and just existing in a continual mental fog of pain, confusion, depression, suicidal thoughts and so much more.

[@dixiewaller1379]

Wow!!! I feel your pain!! It’s like you’re telling my life!!! You are soo right- it’s God’s protection; long way to go, but I’m in the way!! Praying for you & all others I here that are such an inspiration!!! Tea, you are the bomb girl!!!!!! Thank you so much for all the wisdom & support that you provide!!

[@toniwilliams9817]

I remember him asking me how I figured it out he was cheating. I said, My Daddy in heaven will always let me know. Plus I could tell by the way you're treating me. Just stupid...lol

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

That’s right the Almighty Creator in heaven shall reveal those hidden things that’s how you knew.

[@elopez1221]

My husband was treating me bad too and coming home late so I started snooping in his wallet and car…couldn’t find anything until the other woman contacted me.

[@plazar7389]

Yup.

[@ctanaw]

You hit the nail on the HEAD! I always knew something was off, I just couldn't put my finger on it. When I stopped suppressing the Holy Spirit's still small voice and my intuition, I prayed diligently for wisdom, discernment and revelation, and God opened my eyes to the truth! Now, I'm at peace, my crown is straightened, I have a new song in my soul, a new dance in my step and I'm continuing to work on my GLOW Game, cuz that's who I am! I said it, and I mean it!!

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. Yes your intuition and everything you mentioned here was telling you from the start that something was wrong. That’s what I’m talking about you adjusted your crown got your glow up game on and kept it moving. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@barbaraellzey3586]

Come on now!!

[@1sexyredzz4u]

Yes same with me, my gut feeling told me something was wrong. I prayed about it a lot and asked God for answers, he eventually opened my eyes. 🙏

[@sistergoldensunshine4069]

Yes! My intuition was relentless but I kept hitting override. Finally I prayed for God to show me the truth and He did! So painful, but I learned to never ignore my intuition again. Relying on God now!

[@vvicente85]

❤

[@lovelykeeya532]

No other channel EVER made me feel so encouraged! Nothing like light & love from a God fearing Black woman! Yeah I said it !

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

That is so awesome Sis. We are happy you are here. Welcome to the beautiful family. Empowerment, encouragement and healing is what we do here.✨💖

[@eveningowl9443]

me too lol

[@adriennesyllahammonds5363]

It takes a village to raise a child and to bring you back in with love and to let you know that it's okay .

[@blonde_w_thewind1253]

One day in the middle of prayer, God opened my eyes and showed me the truth of all of it. All of it. Saved by Spirit. And that devil didn’t see it coming. Glory to God, never again will some bird get in with me! Love ya, girl!

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Love you back my Sister.✨💖💕💕

[@tiayvette2048]

My ex fiancé narcissist had the nerve to say to me that it’s easy for him to get someone but I will have a hard time meeting someone. Of course it was easy for you to meet the bird because you was messing with her during the relationship I was just the last person to get your the damn memo. And I will meet someone and he will not be a narcissistic lunatic and he will know how to love and treat a good woman

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Oh yes they love to tell lies like that. Trust me they do not come across women like you every day. That’s right you got it narcissistic lunatic is what he is. He doesn’t know how to love you and will never know unless he receives an exorcism. Thank goodness you got away. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@shaniecegullison]

@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships lol unless they have an exorcism LMAO 😂🤣🤣😂

[@shaniecegullison]

@Mz. L. Saud yes absaloutely true

[@darleneware2039]

@@shaniecegullison 😂😂😂😂

[@shaniecegullison]

@@darleneware2039 too funny

[@OhhNo2.0]

Lol ... snatched the generator 🏃🏃🏃🔌👩‍🔧...I own the electric company 👩‍🔧👩‍🔧👩‍🔧

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Yes!! Now that’s what I’m talking about!! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@mariasewell3825]

Yes I woke up I woke up kind a late though because I guess I was slower than mine because I didn’t realize what really was happening but I tell you that Holy Spirit took my hand and just cut everything off completel

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Such a powerful comment wow. There is nothing like the Holy Spirit.✨💖

[@md-mx5zb]

Same thing with me. It truly was the Holy Spirit speaking truth to make him for months that made him go in discard phase, twisting reality making it about me ...crazy twisted shit ... and. I changed the lock

[@md-mx5zb]

Amen

[@adriennesyllahammonds5363]

Yes ❤ don't feel bad it took me a minute too but when I started my conversations daily with God and my God gave me messages through Tyler perry movies .I wrote the pros and cons honey I started planning in private honey .

[@ninath13]

But u woke up though

[@mollyjohnson3234]

I serve a mighty God who can do all but fail!!!!

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Yes we do serve a mighty God that never fails hallelujah!!

[@jerrilynray1320]

Yes, they did underestimate me!! I had already built a beautiful home, I owned two businesses! I already had a Masters in Social Work and Business Administration! This clown came in quoting the scripture about a wise man leaving an inheritance to his children’s children! He was planning to use my resources to assist his children and grandchildren!! REALL? To make a long story short, I beat that DEMON at a game I didn’t even know I was playing!! Signed Armed To The Teeth!!

[@Vetted_epiphany]

Yes!!! Could never be still. Different jobs every other month. Wouldn’t stay home, always busy no NOTHING lol. Always looking for people’s faults and complaining about things that had absolutely nothing to do with them…..Smh….

[@nikotopnotch2832]

Yes I did!!!! Woke up, adjusted that crown and cut that whole family off. 👑👠💄🕶

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Yes Sis!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@horussun6496]

Damn. Cut the whole family? Thinking bout my future. Is it really necessary?

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

@@horussun6496 if the family is not toxic and you have kids with the narcissist then I can understand maintaining a relationship with them. Which most of the time they are just like the narcissist.

[@scarthecheetah]

Yaaaaaasssssssssss

[@riasattva2805]

They THOUGHT we were going to be some back burner supply. Nope, no side pieces here. We are kings and queens. When we walked away with that no contact, destabilization began!!! Energy source snatched!!!

[@nicholetolita]

He tried to destroy me mentally, knowing that I have struggled with my mental health for a while. After dealing with him especially, I am a lot better at standing up for myself. I am not his emotional punching bag. For whatever reason, they won't quit and then will cry when you decide to care about your mental health more and leave them alone. Narcs are such a headache to deal with. 😩

[@shug_no_avery8172]

They love when u already going thru it mentally so it’ll be easier to take u down so when u shutdown and have a meltdown they’ll blame it on mental health when what they did to u was the knife in ur heart that took u over the deep end

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

They will not stop because they are demons they are built and preprogrammed for distraction. I’m just happy you got out of there. They are terrible headaches to deal with. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@donnettewoods5577]

Yes they are a hand full of chaos and confusion!!!

[@rhondacooper7957]

Came in due to lack of knowledge about NPD. These videos weren't around back in the day I had NO knowledge of NPD, yes he definitely had me pegged wrong after a year of narc abuse I finally got the opportunity to end that toxic hell. Thank goodness God answered my prayers and freed me, thank you for sharing your video it's educational and informative 🙏🏾

[@mattiematthews9310]

He actually told me girllll "the bar maid is better than me" baby i told that fool okkkk now give her a 1000%. We're DONE! Filed for divorce and now he doesn't want that. Again I am DONE@!!!

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

That’s all you can do is just bow and get out. These birds are never going to change. You just have to save yourself. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@mariasewell3825]

Yes he thought he would be a doormat to come back-and-forth here whenever he pleases but it didn’t work out that way he can’t ever come back in this in this apartment ever again so he can stay wherever he wanted he thought I would be stupid to allow him now to come back-and-forth and back-and-forth

[@Cat-sx6ep]

Sounds like the fat ass I was with discard him on a playe

[@Cat-sx6ep]

Plate

[@ocruz4013]

Mine did come back and forth back and forth until I finally just didn't fall for his BS and didn't take him back!

[@fephoenix9208]

Yes sounds like a lot of our stories but we discard the narc we got the victory!

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Well he had you pegged wrong you showed him what time it was when you vacated the premises. Snatched your generator and kept it moving.✨💖

[@stephaniepena5904]

I got discarded for the back burner baby momma supply, she tried to take me down along with the narcissist, and destroy me but she can have that bird cuz they will not get the best of me, the best is yet to come #2021

[@ebonyadams7060]

Amen been there ❤ when my ex narcissist boyfriend said he no longer wanted to be with me I actually told him that I don't need u and I blocked him out of my social media page changed not only my phone but my number he tried me for 2 years trying start up fights with my daughter to get through to me it still wasn't gonna work now last year I was in rehab because I broke my ankle and I got a weird phone call From my daughter saying that they found my ex narcissist boyfriend sitting on a park bench dead due to smoking laced Marijuana Now while I don't wish death on my worse enemy this here was karma because I refused to take him back they play with the wrong person but also they failed to recognize u learn from the best and I definitely learned from him I was no longer gonna tolerate the bs. Another thing he failed to realize I told him in the beginning I was a brain and spinal cord cancer survivor God is good because this year bout to be 17 years since being in remission this should have been a warning that I wasn't as weak as he thought here it is 2024 and I'm still standing ❤🎉😊

[@narcsmarksnarcissisticabus5093]

The narc said to me, 'if you leave out this door, don't come back.' Lol, I left out of his door and NEVER went back. 30 days ago, today! Feb. 18, 2021 👏🏽😁💃🏽

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Congratulations I’m happy you left and never going back!👏🏽💃🏽🙌🏽💎

[@narcsmarksnarcissisticabus5093]

@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships thank you. You are helping me so much. I literally thanked GOD for leading me to your channel. Now today, I got a blocked call and the caller did my say anything on a Saturday morning. I haven't had a prank call my phone in 10-20 years. Ugh. Narcs are relentless and so childish. Ya, I'll NEVER go back to his dungeon of torture and turmoil!

[@doesitmatter9022]

Same! I was told to choose btwn safety or them - ah, duh?!? Hello, you just LITERALLY told me YOU ARE NOT SAFE. So now that we have established you don’t care about how I feel or how I’m doing, I’ll be up and out asap. Wth. No thanks - do ya thing and I’ll be in my way to my King! Honestly, even the bizarre edited storyline they came up with made no sense and logic was missing. They said they didn’t meet my friends but they attended 2 weddings w my friends and also met another group of friends @ breakfast one day. #GetYoMindClear!! Was even told if I leave (choose safety, apparently) it would be over. Well it’s better than that stale hell! I cannot -CANNOT - live a “dead” life (Duet. 30-19). Bizarre and it was always off…always - right from Go. Without family and friends praying for me, idk if I would have fully heard the Holy Spirit - it would have been years of my life wasted and for what?! I praise God it was only about 3 years…it could have been soooo much worse. I couldn’t figure out why I wasn’t doing me and then, once out, it all made more sense. Pray for her, but not my problem anymore.

[@mariasewell3825]

I took care of him but buy him clothes shoes food to eat have a bed to sleep in everything he needed I bought him and he still did was not happy he didn’t appreciate it he was lucky he got greedy so he thought somebody else out there will help him out so goodbye to go to bad rubbish

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Yes even with all that you did it can never be appreciated it nor will it ever be appreciated. Narcissist can never be satisfied ever. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@keshapowell632]

I did the same thing he didnt appreciate anything I did, always gave me his ass to kiss afterwards, he always called everything I got him ugly, so I would never help him ever in life again, then he would ignore me, and told me things just feels different, I never got an answer to what was different just I dont know, what u want me to say, and ok, so I ok and went silent only this time he didn't know I wasn't coming back to him, and im ok and at PEACE

[@tiffanymccarthy9219]

My sister, you are 100% CORRECT, bless your heart! The discard is always a true blessing, when you remove yourself, god is ready to RESTORE you. Don't ever give up hope,because jehovah God never gives up on us.

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

That’s right sis. The discard is always a blessing it may not seem like it at the time but it is. It is our road to freedom and restoration by the Almighty Father. That’s right never give up the Almighty Creator will never give up on us I love it. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@Jujulocs88]

Oh I have to replay this video again and again! I am feeling this all the way.

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Sis keep this video on repeat if it keeps your encouragement energy empowerment empowerment in full force. I’m so happy you are enjoying the content of this video. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@rhondagoin2639]

Me too. A good one!! I've listened to it about 20 times. Thank you T!!!!!!!! You keep them coming. You help me stay a MS. A!!!!! :)

[@shirleymadiva6886]

I’m right there with you!! Yesssss

[@carol-xk3lq]

Oh boy you really get it going with this message💫so much passion! They underestimate us. Let them go back to their backburner supply & crawl back into their dark cave. We need no lies, cheating or disrespect. We do deserve BETTER

[@brerob]

Finally somebody who is just as hype as I am about this mess!... Lol seriously though!

[@mariasewell3825]

Pray for whoever it is because he could never duplicate me with whoever he has especially the low life he is and he found himself probably a lowlife just like himself

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

He will never find another one like you.

[@lanadst6745]

When I put my trash out? I don’t care who comes to pick it up !

[@kmydesire12]

He accessed my inner child, the need to be loved.. wow that’s why he always wants to be around me, so he can suck the life source out of me. I’m a breast cancer survivor and he knows that. He get free meals, rides to work, love and attention. He not my husband, what was I thinking!!🤦🏽‍♀️ if he could monopolize my time, then I have no time to think for myself and figure out what’s going on. And yes the drama! He rent is late, the bus is late , the boss is disrespectful etc... it’s always some story!

[@jonathansmith6426]

They know no lows 😪 STAY AWAY

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. You are absolutely correct and they have no bottom. They are lawless and despicable. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@nayarevolutionary5811]

He has me twisted. Shouldn't have never let me start researching...boom, no contact! He started getting po boxes and using my email to get my attention. Boom "wrong email"😂😂😂 nope, keep all your vacations and money and shit. It ain't worth it 💁

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. Twisted and bent over several barrels is what they have you. I’m happy that you showed him what time it was with that no contact Bam!!! That’s right it’s not worth it not at all sis.🙌🏽🙌🏽 Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@AbsoluteMdot]

When it comes to ''friendships'' My one so called ''friend'' took advantage of my kindness and seen it as a weakness. She would make snide comments, act Jealous and Envious towards me and would always act insecure around me. I cut her off and never looked back now she is left looking foolish and has no friends.

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

That’s right they are the same way in friendships these people are all the same no matter what capacity you meet them in. They all do the same thing undermined back by like cheat steal everything evil. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@TeresaGarcia-qt3oz]

People tend to mix up kindness for weakness until they are handled accordingly

[@desertflowerz89]

Every time he tried to neg me by saying maybe we should break up I was like ok. Left him but stayed involved for months before my apartment was ready then called it and got all my stuff spontaneously. Like a dummy reverse hoovered myself by unblocking him months later. 45 minutes later he sent me a message with no contact. Talked to him for 2 more weeks then gave HIM the final discard. All contact blocked all traces erased. Told him the next time he made contact it would get legal. In the meantime I increased my credit score, got glowed up physically, and got a job making more than him. He couldn’t even look at me when I was done. I took my licks but got mine too.

[@narcsmarksnarcissisticabus5093]

Im celebrating myself today! 30 days since I discarded the narc. 😁💪🏽💃🏽😂 He didn't see it coming. See, I geared him up to make him think he had me wrapped, stuck around his finger. I kept threatening to leave him, but I kept going back. One day I told him, 'you can just expect that I'll come back, you don't even have to worry, you can just sit at home and tell yourself she'll be back.' I did that after he told me how he can't eat when I'm not around etc. But then, Boom!!!!... Just when he thought I had sealed the deal to accept being abused, I left out of his door and NEVER returned. 😂😂 That bird probably still sitting in place at his kitchen table, next to the fridge, not eating, losing weight and thinking I'll be back!😂😂😂 NEVER!! My spirit fought hard to be treated right. I knew what he was serving me was against my moral value, and beneath my standard. I gave him a few months to rise to my level of maturity, he didn't have what it took to keep a great GROWN woman like me.💃🏽 I don't feel bad at ALL. I laugh and I smile, and I even patted myself on the back today, and did a little dance..in celebration of my strength. He was pecking crumbs off of my table, trying to steal and ruin my identity. He failed big time!! He picked THE wrong ONE to try to bird feed off. I told him to take them bird feet, that he kept hidden from me for almost a year, and scram. 😂😂👏🏽👏🏽 His self esteem is SO low. And what he thought he had left of it, I utterly destroyed! I read him for his filth up and down, left and right after I made my exit. I told him about his ripped up draws, he had before I came into his life, and how he's wearing the NEW ones that I brought him..to even allow him to lay down with me. I told him about his dirty teeth, that I went out and bought plaque remover mouthwash and toothpaste for.. Not to mention, how I wouldn't even kiss him with his rotten tooth, until he had it pulled out. Yessss. Lol. I did that and more! I was trying to build a boy into a MAN. But I inevitably broke down his childhood trauma and built up some more adult trauma in his life. Yesss. He tried to ruin my inner and outer beauty, and instead, I got the last laughs, with my beautiful face and teeth. 😁

[@marvanewborn2287]

😂😂😂"A 'CLOWN', WITH '3 WIGS', ON!!😂😂😂😂😂 THATS "REAL" TALK!!!😂😂

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

This part lol!🤣🤣🤣

[@geraldharmon9170]

YES MA'AM!!! YOU PREACHING TONIGHT!!! That narcissist ran out of my life like a bat out of hell...😭😭😭😭...YES SIR! She said that I was dead to her! I gave her the 👍🏾...BYE!!!😂😂😂

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. Amen and thank goodness she did and placed on the “never again list. Lol!😂😂. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@lesliehighfill5385]

I left the idiot it took me 18 months I did everything for him and his kids I’m blocked him him on everything I’m the best thing he ever had

[@k-sunflower6033]

This encouraged me soooo much! I feel even more confident and at peace with my decision now. Your words always touch my heart and brighten my mind!🥺✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

That is so awesome and humbling. I’m so happy your soul has been encouraged and instilled more peace and confidence in you about your decision to leave that narcissist.✨💖

[@sharhughes1086]

They always think their so cleaver. When you wake up and see the depraved mind of those Monsters you no their not walking in the Holy Spirit. They do not have the heart and mind of Christ because of the way they behave and act out of chracter, if you don't leave you will pick up their Narcissistic Fleas!

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Yes it’s true they always think that they have the upper hand because they are such manipulators. The Holy Spirit will reveal all things to us all we need to do is pray. You have to go that’s right we do not want any narcissistic fleas on us. No birds allowed. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@kristinej.4182]

You are like a psychic….how do you know so well how a narcissist operates bc what you described is exactly what my ex narc did! Thank you so much for your support! 💕

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Sis I have been through it with these birds. No psychic here just experience and the Holy Spirit. You’re so welcome Sis.💯💗🙏🏽

[@surfshack2]

Damn right. Nobody's takin' me down. Thank you

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

That’s right nobody and I do mean nobody. That’s what I’m talking about empowerment. You’re so welcome. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@Betternow1974]

Yes. Yes. I adjusted my crown when I found out he lied about being a deadbeat dad. I literally jumped up and wrapped it all up. Yes he pegged me wrong. I kicked him to the curb so bad. He was pathetic begging me not to leave.

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. Sis I know that is correct. If the fool won’t take care of his own kids how in the world will he take care of you. No way I’m cool. I would have ran too! And you are post crown adjusted and glowing up.🌟💖

[@barbaraviniegra]

Thank you for your videos! Very empowering. You are correct. They will never find anyone better than me. Because I am awesome and a child of the Creator. Kind, smart, empathic, and beautiful. He couldn’t handle me.

[@gigattwarrior6201]

I am having the time of my life😁😁😄😄😆😁😁😄💝💓

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

That is awesome I’m so happy you are enjoying the content here. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@jazzyj.693]

I ADJUSTED MY CROWN & SNATCHED THAT GENERATOR & KEPT IT MOVING 15 MONTHS AGO MADE THE X NARCISSIST HEAD SPIN CAUSE HE THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO STAY IN THE MIST OF HIS CHAOS & DRAMA MS. QUEEN TEA VIDEO/VIDEOS R ALWAYS ON POINT THANKS AGAIN FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE & WISDOM

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Yes indeed now this is what I’m talking about you go on with your bad self sister yes!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@skylersky11]

I have been in a addictionship for 7 years and the second I stopped putting up with the being ignored and the no communication and then told him flat out no when he asked me to block a guy. He sadistically got revenge on me and moved in with his co worker. He had been gone for 3 months and is trying to come home now. He has the other women lying to me saying they never had sex and that he misses me. It’s triangulation. I’m thankful to have you because I have been going thru lots of pain and hurt and you really help me feel better. Thank you for teaching me about the pigeons and the toads and frogs in the pond where I’m making him stay. He deserves that bald pigeon and the whole zoo he has going.

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. Oh wow you’ve been in the addictionship for seven years. Oh yes he will get these other women to tell lies like that. That triangulation is the worst. I’m so happy that the content here could make you feel better you’re so welcome beautiful soul. LOL yes indeed teaching you about the totes the pigeons and frogs that’s right make him stay in that pond. LOL he deserves that ball pigeon and the whole zoo gang has gone yes I love it!!!!! Lol!!🤣🤣. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@sophiamcleod1841]

Stay strong they both need you to give him that they both can live off you ! Be that princess that got away

[@mrs8737]

This sent chills through my soul, & brought tears to eyes! Preach sis PREACH!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. I’m so happy you enjoyed the video beautiful soul.🌟💖

[@alandagray4487]

🤣🤣🤣What had happened was....he failed to realize that when I said I have time to give....but not time to waste, I meant it. Peace out dude. I love you and Peter's channels😊

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much. I’m so happy you are enjoying the content here on the channel. That’s right peace out dude. That’s what I’m talking about Sis. We love Peter too!! That is the King! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@genievefrancis2110]

God himself took me out of that situation...thank God

[@richiehermann8067]

You are such a inspiration. I am a former professional athlete and I don't think I ever had a coach get me so pumped, motivated, and entertained in my life. I love the content and you delivery is life changing. I always felt like I was somewhat of a intelligent person and the one thing other than my career that I put all my effort into was my relationship with my wife and my family. I took care of her and her entire family for over 10 years and when I say took care of I mean cars, truck loads of money and everything else that comes with trying to help total chaos and in the end they all turned on me. When you talk on these videos its as if you are finally giving me insight as to how me and my son could go through such abuse when all we did was give our all. I am forever grateful for helping me understand this because all the opinions of "some things you just aren't supposed to know why" was about to drive me insane. You are a true blessing in me and my son's life and i am forever grateful! God bless you!

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. You’re so welcome my brother. What a story bless you. I’m humbled to be apart of your healing journey. This is exactly the things these birds and their families do to loving loyal people. Be encouraged - healing is a process but the best thing about it is - it is possible. I pray you and your son’s healing be Godspeed. Thank you for sharing. Continue shinning king.🌟💖

[@1010QUEEN7]

I love it adjust your crown that's right we are queens

[@mariasewell3825]

He better and stronger than ever he underestimated me

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

And I’m sure he has realized that by now. You are not the one to be toyed with.

[@angieash9560]

i fell on my knees cried out to GOD and THE SPIRIT said pack and get out #feetdontfailmenow !2 years out and chaos still abounds every day. working hard to erase fear and move forward still

[@kyamitchell7620]

So helpful and so on point. The mess I had to deal with was blasted crazy. The discard was a blessing for both the kids and I. We're good! 23 years of marriage don't mean a darn thing to me when someone like this Narc tried to break me. Peace of mind for my children and myself is what matters. I'm holding things down in my home like I always did.... I lost nothing!.

[@Flokix4]

The narc is big mad🤣because they want to give the discard. HAHA my turn demon🎭♟️

[@marybledsoe1206]

Show nuff show nuff. When I found out what he was doing and just looking and all his lies and cheating I was like oh hell to the no. You gots to go. He didn't come with shit I put his ass out with the same shit. You are so on point.

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. Now that’s what I’m talking about you got to go yes put him out and his stuff that’s right!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@pyt3204]

Chile... I broke it off with my (n)ex last Wednesday. I've been completely No Contact! I got so fed up with his inflated ego and self absorbed entitlement. I, was that person who cared far more than he did for me. And not that I was people pleasing, it's just who we are. We do wake up though! When we do wake up, it's GAME OVER! Since I've blocked him and went no contact, I'm getting daily phones calls on my block list 🚫 and even a $1.00 cash app deposit with the memo " I love you " because that's his only way/option to reach me. Poor guy. It pays to block them at all cost. You will feel the weight lifted from the toxicity you dealt with and you coming back to YOU! This really hit home!

[@davinacollins1941]

kept blocking me and coming back when he pleased i had enough got a new boyfriend and when he came back it was crickets lol! i didnt care anymore i know he felt like the biggest nob head.

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. Oh yes they love to play this game. And keep the crickets playing please LOL. That’s what he gets. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@marymotherofgod4861]

We can’t get back wasted time but we can get the duck out of that shitty so called RELATIONSHIT!!! He’s no longer my headache I told him dude TELL UR STORIES WALKING !!!

[@theremystics]

"YOU are the one who always made sense out of craziness" 😂😂😂 OMG idk why but that made me CRACK tf up! You are truly radiating with light. And, guys, IF YOU ARE PART OF THIS TRIBE, or EMPATH'S UPRISING (🙏🏻 KING!) YOU KNOW, you know... that they won't EVER be able to find ANYONE on your level, because they don't. Ever. It's just true based on the facts of what occurs. Inner freedom, TRUTH AND LIGHT is where it is at. AND YOU KNOW IT. ✨ Don't lower your standards.

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. It is nothing but the truth LOL.🤣🤣. We were always the sensible one in the situation. That’s right thank you for being a part of this try we love Empath Uprising as well. Speak the truth you are so right. That’s right never lower your standards for anyone ever again. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@jerrybissessar3837]

I am truly amazed at your accurate projection. Hallelujah!!

[@neha.k]

This is so true guys. He came all love bombing showering presents and giving time and playing the victim. I was such a child falling for it. When I showed strength and whenever I set boundaries he slowly disappeard. Then again after taking his sweet time reappeared again.

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. Yes this is what I do this is how to get down. That’s OK you just believe him. Then you wised up start setting boundaries that Bird had to go. Of course they will always come back to Hoover 99% of the time. They are just ridiculous. I’m happy you got away. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@kmabraful]

Yes!! They play that pity party saying they are depressed blah blah blah and don't even realize it's a cycle they repeated previously AND they abuse alcohol as well. Has therapy ever worked for a narcissist? Their kids have become victims of their behavior and it's sad.

[@24hrs366days]

He made his final nasty comment, I told him so go to your preference, l was done he’s been hovering every since bxxx bye I’m done ❌

[@Updownleftrighthadookit]

I am not 25 types of crazy. I woke TF up, looked in the mirror & adjusted my crown! Thou shall never look back!

[@eskinderkassahun5349]

SHE IS A SUCH QUEEN,, WE NEED MORE PEOPLE LIKE HER IN THIS PLANET

[@loumm960]

I snatched that Generator baby!! When I found out about that Lil supply that new supply, yes I snatched that generator babyyyy when I figured it out.. He looked around and I was gone he had the baby calling asking all kinds of questions!! Dang Bird 🐦

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. That’s what I’m talking about snatching generators baayyyy-bayyy!! That’s right that’s how we do it like a boss leave their heads spinning. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@sandrataylor1896]

So so true👍after two years of push and pull and trying to over step my boundaries, finally kicked him to the curb ⛔ I believe something good comes out of everything bad, and not did just the narc show his true self so did my (so called) friends! And for that I am truly grateful 🙏 no more emotional vampires, thank you God 🙏

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

I’m happy you decided to take your peace back and get away from that monster. Bless you be encourage courage sis. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@sandrataylor1896]

@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships much love to you too, thank you. And also the rest of the tribe discovering their inner warrior strength 💪 💕 they might have broke our hearts and minds for a while but never got what they wanted! , to break our spirits. Amen 😇

[@OneWhoKnowz]

Sure the hell did. I left that apartment brought 2 cars and a house and did not bring them with me. I’m not sad anymore. I am a lion king 👑! They Shoal did! I did what I do and rose up! Got 5 clients in the mist of that pain and gaslighting. I’m a Gem and they a rock! I shine bright like a Diamond. I go after those goals I seize the time, season and moment with my greatness! Thank u 🙏🏽 I will always win I def get indignant about my goals and make ish happen. Yessssss it did

[@kishahicks36]

Bad Beautiful Bold Beyond Beneath and Better!!!!!! Hallelujah

[@kathrynx1930]

🤡🦆🦜🐸🐸🐸👹👹😈!!! Preach sister!! Those demons are something out of hell that’s for sure. I love how you deliver this message! To be free, now that’s what i am so thankful for 🙏🙏🙏.

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

💗💯💗

[@seancorley9335]

Oh how I love you WOG!!! Thank you for your encouraging words. You are truly helping me move out of this funk aka marriage break up. The narcissist discarded me but after I found out that she was cheating. The head games that she was playing placed me in a fog but I can clearly see now what the relationship was all about and how I totally ignored all of the red flags in the very beginning!!! One main red flag was we met and started talking sexually while she was living with her man .... I was so flattered to be her “ NEW SUPPLY” that I didn’t realize that I would someday be in his shoes while she groomed her “ BRAND NEW SUPPLY” and discard me!!!! Never have I been in this type of relationship out of my 53 years of life.... but to God be the Glory and again thank you for your wisdom and knowledge and willingness to share WOG!!!

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

You’re so welcome my Brother. God bless you be encouraged and continue shinning King. Thank you for sharing and being here with us.✨💖

[@KillaCaveLion58.]

The king has returned never too return to that bs.Shining like a gaint lazer that can be seen from mars.thanks queen

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

That’s what I’m talking about king. Seize this moment and stand in your power. You’re so welcome. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@robinsonkim6539]

You are so real, beautiful, and genuine with these life skills and coping skills ,I am blown away the information and support, especially when I know this is the Kingdom.

[@jamesjones9250]

Defense is a must, but I found that a good offense is the best defense. Hurting and damaged heart, I picked myself up everyday and put into effect an exit plan. I quit talking to her, and when I had everything together, I implemented that plan and walked my BLK behind right out of there. It took me a minute to emotionally gather myself, but I'm all good now.

[@jessicafarley7786]

They never change.

[@adorablebeauty5219]

😭😂😂😂😂 my mind was playing the defensive line 🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

🙌🏽🙌🏽💫💫💫

[@asetsanders6781]

Thank you 😊 for your help!!!!

[@kimpointer21]

OMG A clown with 3 wigs! Girl, you gon get me fired from work...I’m ROFL!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@msd.bledsoe3157]

I knew something was wrong but I had no idea about this kind of person..my spirit was troubled , I would be screaming in my head...God gave me a song and then a two dreams the last one he said " get out of there now " !

[@itsmoenishanotmoesha8469]

This literally sounds just like my ex husband his family. They literally always had something going on. Rather it was someone dying, someone getting into a fight. it was ridiculous like literally felt on edge at all time because of his family. I'm so thankful God had literally put me in a messy situation with a ex boyfriend and his family getting too close.So I already had a realization that family always sides with the narcissist. I never got close to my ex husbands family just couldn't do it, I seen through all the fake love from them even their fake love for each other.

[@latarallewis2948]

Honey i ever in my life experience anything like that and i don't ever want to go through that again that devil the worst relationship ever love you honey you are definitely on point

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Yes Sis this is the truth it is diabolical and the pain has no comparison. I’m happy you enjoyed the video. Thank you for sharing Sis.✨💖

[@kishacalhoun6414]

My crown is adjusted and I said it and I mean it,!! Thank you beautiful sis

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

That’s what I’m talking about adjust that crown and keep it moving. That’s right I said it and I mean it. You’re so welcome beautiful soul.✨💖

[@oliveknaus]

The narc never saw you coming!!! BOOM👊 These videos resonate so much- thanks for exponentially moving me 90% faster on the healing journey. 🙌⭐️

[@omegamcbride]

What a blessing it is to be reminded of what love looks, sounds and feels like by the vibration flowing freely through your content. For 19 minutes and 36 seconds, you spoke my life. To know of a community who completely understands and knows this experience is not caught up in age, gender or ethnicity is refreshing. Tell the truth about this and they won't call you a liar, they'll just stop speaking to you. This journey is a trip but your courage to not only be open about your life's perspective but to display a clear intention to guide others toward the way is nothing short of commendably inspiring. Continue courageously ps. Would be dope to see you and Cassandra Mack do a collab. You share a kindred spirit. Much love

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Wow. This comment is very humbling - thank you for the encouragement. I appreciate you allowing me to speak into your life. That is awesome and no judgment here. Thank you. I have a passion to see this Beautiful Tribe healed. I will definitely have to visit this other Queen you’ve mentioned. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@lucy3593]

🤣😅 this got me rollin and pumped up!!! Been feeling down but you remind me that my God is a winner I won that battle.. Ain't nobody gonna touch a child of God!

[@tovenrvik6336]

Thanks for your video! 🌹Narcissists only care about control, winning and themselfs!

[@leahcampbell8526]

You really helped me, I havnt glowed up yet, but u make me want too listening to you. Thank you sis xxx keep up the great work x

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Just keep healing Sis. It’s coming.✨💖💕💕

[@leahcampbell8526]

@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships xxx

[@breakthrough1019]

Thank you QUEEN for preaching .. I do believe that I dodged a monster .. GOD by my side.. I had no idea but he kept fighting with me and screaming at me .. he went from sweet man to MONSTER .. I saw 2 people in one ..

[@jamesjones9250]

I have found over the years, that I have the gift of goodbye😂

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

🙌🏽🙏🏽💕💯

[@jacobromero2634]

JESUS!!!!! My KING LORD SAVIOR

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Amen! Yes indeed!! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@WomanofGod-jc4cj]

I THANK GOD FOR MY NEW BEAUTIFUL AND BLESSED SISTER. I HAVENT LAUGHED LIKE THIS IN YEARS. THE BIBLE SAYS LAUGHTER WORKETH GOOD LIKE MEDICINE. I HAVEN'T GOTTEN ANY SLEEP FROM LISTENING TO YOU QUEEN. IM AN RN. I PRAY NOBODY CODES TONIGHT. I MEAN I HAVENT GOTTEN ANY SLEEP. BYT YOU'RE HITTING THE NAIL ON THE HEAD. THOSE BIRDS😂😂😂😂😂. I SAID IT AND I MEAN IT!!!!

[@redheadedscorpio7610]

I'm the one who got the walking papers lol but does it really matter 🤣🤣 gone is gone.."bird"🦅 shame on me for not waiting for him to kick his new supply out that he replaced me with 2 weeks after the first discard in August got hung up on and ghosted 🤷🏼‍♀️ hopefully that was the last of him

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

Welcome to the Tribe. That’s OK sis that was the greatest blessing that bird could’ve ever given you. Thank goodness and welcome to your best life. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖

[@danetspeaks8708]

You’re preaching a word 🙏🏾🙌🏽🥰

[@chillest__ruby]

Your energy is super extra in this video, I love it😭🌈🤗 I enjoy reminiscing what I left behind and I’m proud of it!

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

💕💕💕