The Genuine Reason TTRPGs Genuinely Help You Become a Better Person

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Hello! My name is Jay, and I am a long-time veteran of storytelling and a semi-seasoned DM! I began playing Dungeons and Dragons roughly 5 years ago and began my first ever game as the DM. I figured things out by watching online games and fumbling my way through the rules, and never looked back! I've fallen in love with TTRPG's in general and want to share my experience and thoughts with the world and community I love so much. I currently DM two separate games regularly, and continue to learn every day.
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[@PlayYourRole]

www.gofundme.com/f/help-our-family-leave-Rafah?qid=c64f88a19a589f8a99fd23d0aac8fc65

[@catherineelmore2004]

Huge amount of respect for the goal switch by you and your wife. Will definitely share the video.

[@DParkerNunya]

I've got two stories I want to discuss. One is of my first paladin. I've always taken an aspect of myself and put it in my characters, because that's a good way to explore things that are harder to explore without trained help. This character was angry. I don't mean frustrated or upset, I mean angry. In combat he was vicious and brutal and enjoyed seeing enemies hurt. But that got to focus when the campaign picked up. He suddenly found himself being asked to save a world that had been unkind and downright cruel to him. And he agreed. And so that anger changed. It changed from 'The world is unfair and uncaring' into 'I am going to make it fair'. And after sessions and sessions of fighting and investigating, he found the source of his anger was rooted into the story. And after fighting through and saving the one person who could pull him out of this spiral of rage and hatred, he lost his oath of vengeance. And in that moment, of realizing he'd completed his oath and proven something to me, I broke down sobbing at the table. It made several people break down and start sobbing. We watched him fight so hard for a world he hated, and it was worth it. All his pain and anger was worth it. I, as well as several of my friends, have had very bad lives. So seeing that it can all be worth it in the end mattered. And the reason I've said all that is to talk about a different story. I ran a game, and my best friend was playing a barbarian. She had amnesia and didn't know what drove her anger or rage. And when they finally met an npc who knew her, she immediately latched on. There was always an undercurrent in every social situation she was in where you could feel her building to a rage she didn't understand, and it finally led to a confrontation that almost got the entire party killed. And afterwards, she took that npc aside, and started sobbing against them, begging them for answers for what was wrong with them. And I, as a dungeon master, had to pause my narration to cry with them. Because I've felt that. Getting to fully explore that paladin's anger made me realize how much of that gets directed back at yourself. It made me realize that when nobody else is angry, you feel like there is something wrong with you. And if it wasn't for that experience, of exploring an aspect of myself that scares me, I wouldn't have been able to relate to that. I wouldn't have been able to hug my friend and tell her truthfully that there was nothing wrong with her character. This all probably reads as a massive scrawl of an idiot who doesn't get it, but I wasn't seeing anyone else sharing stories that prove your point, so I thought I'd start. Empathy is something that's taken from us by the world, and stories (dnd especially) are one of the best places to relearn it.

[@obliviouscurse5263]

I don’t think you should apologize for not doing this sooner, but instead be praised for using your platform to try and help people that are suffering. So thank you, your heart is in the right place, and you both should be admired.❤

[@e.atkins.timothy]

Bro had his KZbinr character arc

[@commonviewer2488]

Damn the unfeeling algorithm for refusing to give this any traction

[@Meandyoujustus]

I daresay it's not coincedental

[@benjaminholcomb9478]

Unfortunately (im not saying this a jerk, promise) , it's probably because it's because the 1st 4 minutes of the video weren't why most of us clicked on it. Nor were they entertaining in an unexpected way. Regardless on anyone opinion on the situation, it was effectively a 4 minute ad right at the opening. Probably should have made a mention at the beginning and then explained at the end. :/

[@patrickbairefoot2561]

I love your intensity and passion, not only for your community but the community at large. Thank you for sharing these.

[@Sebastian-fn1qg]

Wow. That is a wonderful reflection and goal adjustment. I've been watching for a good while now, and I really appreciate that you aren't afraid to stand up for the marginalized so consistently. Whether it be LGBTQIA+ people or the people of Gaza, you've been a great advocate. It's so easy for channels like this to fall into being incredibly apolitical to the point that they become a cesspool where even the worst ideas can fester, and any pushback (no matter how small) from the channel results in a huge backlash for doing the bare minimal in the right direction. Thank you for being you, and thank you for standing by your principles. #freepalestine

[@DracoRunz]

Comment for the algorithm. Unfortunate that KZbin's curbstomping this video, but let's try and do our best despite it.

[@Machiniacal]

Works for me

[@Angel_of_Darkeport]

Wonderful that you're putting this out there, and your points are spot-on. Empathy is a building block for essentially all lasting, worthwhile achievements in a liveable, sustainable society. A sincere thank you for doing what you can with what you have - that's really all any of us CAN do.

[@selkieslipskin]

I saw your post and came here hoping this is exactly what you’d be talking about. Thank you. This is the first time in a while that I’ve cried about [topic] without them being tears of pure grief and horror. You and your wife give me hope: I’ve been donating and promoting fundraisers, but have nothing like your reach.

[@georgegideon3788]

I knew you guys were amazing but the goal switch made me respect you guys so much more 😭

[@theblaze5530]

I usually don't comment on videos because I rarely have anything of value to add but it seems everyone's helping with the algorithm and I decided that I would too. I am a traumatized person who doesn't yet have a job or any means to earn money, so therapy is not an option for me. I still have a few years of study ahead of me and... my problems, make it hard for me to progress. Ttrpgs have done a lot for me. And I'm glad that some internet stranger introduced me to it.

[@peterw2880]

Mad respect for taking the time to speak up and do something for what’s right. You’re one of the most genuine KZbinrs I’ve ever encountered my guy

[@srvfan17]

It's great to see you guys taking a vocal and not entirely popular position. It's a shame KZbin is throttling your views, but I can always drop a comment for algorithm reasons.

[@ElHipokondriako]

Compared to the other videos of your channel, the algorithm is crushing this one so hard.

[@sjreads7235]

Great timing, I was just trying to figure out what arc I wanted to have for my current Cyberpunk campaign.

[@trevorwilliams6362]

We love you Jay!

[@matthewporter7871]

Idk how much of it was D&D and how much of it was simply growing up, but I’ll recognize that I was pretty shitty when I first started playing D&D. I did multiple things to purposefully mess with or hurt other players because I thought it would make the table more fun. I still cringe when I think about it. And nowadays I feel like I’m super conscious of my actions and how they affect others. I am truly a better person and I think that D&D may not have caused it, but it certainly does up the process.

[@dwdillydally]

Donation made. Thanks for speaking out ❤

[@Aidscapade71]

This moment that hit me was Karlach story, particularly after defeating person from her story. There's no big to do... Theres no spectacle... Theree no magic rock to fix her... There's no hope. There's no reward for all that she's suffered. Not everyone gets a happy ending.

[@littlecatthewolfhound]

Thank you both so much for integrity. ❤❤❤

[@mattmayhem4377]

An amazing video- I often use characters to explore philosophical or psychological concepts, like my current PC is a upper class warlock raised on a (false) idea that hard work always brings success, and it’s so interesting seeing his inferiority and superiority based on that idea, being superior because of his “hardworking” lineage, but inferior as he places so much value in a hierarchical system that does not really value him unless he gets lucky or plays cut-throat ( he was “encouraged” out if the house to find his own success and has had difficulties) and his development away from his elitist world view into something more compassionate and healthy is something I’m so exited to see.

[@SangoKisaragi5]

I had admired you and how you voice your thoughts and opinions since the first video I watched. After this, I only admire you more. Thank you, thank you, thank you Jay for speaking up, for using your platform to raise awareness and to understand how dire the situation is with so much heart and compassion, you always show how much of a kind soul you have. From the river to the sea ✊🏾

[@kahlilandari4580]

I have seen a little of your stuff, you have a lot of passion for what you talk about and i think thats really cool. Its amazing your using your platform to speak out, keep up the good work man.

[@nani.des.ka-12]

Commenting for the algorithm. Long time lurker, first time commenter. I so respect you and your wife for putting people first. Also I just looked at the GoFundMe and it's almost halfway to the goal.

[@claudiolentini5067]

Props to the finale man, great video

[@EverythingAllEverywhereOnce]

Doing my duty and commenting to support the video ❤

[@TonyLeer]

Stellar video man. Stories have helped me immensely and I think you captured that here.

[@SunWukongSonGoku]

I genuinely love and respect how composed you can keep your voice, with tears forming in your eyes. I love the content you cover, and the context you give it. I strive to have both the mind and heart that you do. Thank you, and thank your wife, for being wonderful people.

[@Taaemon]

No one will mind the goal change. It's what Steven would do. Probably.

[@Picklescape]

'Telling a story can help somebody heal' - Absolutely this. The play Emilia by Morgan Lloyd Malcolm was one such moment for me. Can't go into words of what that play meant to (and did for) me, cause this comment would be tooo long!

[@Tacocat225]

Hopefully these families get to safety and get the funds they need. I donated what I could and thank you for highlighting this cause. If only more people would make shout outs like you did. The algorithm can't bury everyone all at once.

[@ElementalSmile]

Genuinely wanting to help people rather than wanting to just increase your subscribers is a very noble goal to follow and likely a more healthy one for both your mind and heart in the long run. I hope you reach far because you talk so passionately I can't help but feel it too and think you want to help.

[@browut644]

Changing your goal like this without any pressure from your fanbase is the biggest show of you and your wife being incredible people. I have a ton of respect for you guys and this channel, thank you for doing what you think is right.

[@mickmash13]

I never really watched Steven Universe but caught one random episode with my sister. It had the song Here Comes a Thought, & I still can't listen to that song without crying. It hit me so hard with my anxiety & PTSD. It was the first time a piece of media told me it's okay to not be perfect & I could still be loved even if I wasn't perfect. It's still something I struggle with so much, but that feeling of being so seen & understood when I really needed it is something I'll never forget.

[@onestoppirate4127]

I'm so glad I got to see this vid. Great job guys!

[@mattmayhem4377]

Amaaaazing Video! Thank you so much for lending your insight on Ttrpgs in every video you make!

[@Lorecantus]

Thanks for all you've done and talked about Jay

[@MisterDaviso452]

I am incredibly inspired by every video you make

[@commonviewer2488]

As long as we are emotionally invested, our brains our brains don't really differentiate the differences between fictional or actual events that do affect us.

[@DCogny]

If I was not sure yet why I kept watching your videos, what was drawing me to your channel; this video's introduction is the best reminder of the type of people I like to follow, thank you so much for that, for (both of you) being as you are.

[@gabsinventions9135]

I'm from a country where sharing this video won't really do much (mostly because my friends don't speak English) but hope my comment here helps. I have also have clicked in the share button just to send it to myself on WhatsApp. Hope this message goes further with other TTRPG KZbin channels.

[@cheesy_87]

You two are good people ❤️

[@montionetwothree8899]

A comment for the algorithm. This video deserves to be shared.

[@thank_you_pete]

More than happy to say that switching your goal hasn’t lost you anything with me, but done the opposite. Nothing but respect for what you’re doing for this community! Keep up the amazing work, both of you ❤️

[@kirysko5025]

I swear i cry at every single one of your videos

[@jungtothehuimang]

Thank you, both of you for using your voices and your platform to speak up for people in the world who only have us to help speak for them!

[@kikankuro]

I'm struggling myself, but at least my area isn't being unalived en mass. I gave a little, and I hope it help

[@itsyaboiexplosion9377]

me and my friends are applying this to our games, trying to become better and better people through our games. I've also heard that they might be applying ttrpg's into therapy, with professional's monitoring and i feel like it would be a great step in group type therapies

[@michaelhuit]

Stick with it 💪

[@kropotkinsoldbones9149]

Love Jay and his wife. I loved this channel and content and creators before, but this is just amazing.

[@Magnus2dead]

Boost for the algorithm gods. The more we practice being good to people, the better we are act actually doing it.

[@Rackalackberto]

Beautiful video from beginning to end!

[@PrettyTief]

The algorithm is not doing this video justice. Damn you KZbin! People should see this.

[@arkabratadas4350]

Video idea: How to play a terrifying character

[@K4mpfzwerg]

Comment to support the video

[@siyaamhussain6180]

This will take the waves, eventually as long as KZbin isn’t being censored…

[@Axiom_Link]

❤️ we can all be better about increasing the good, and doing what we can to ameliorate the bad. This video won’t lose you anything. And by holding true to your authentic self, you will gain everything that matters.

[@doctorfaust9759]

Makes sense why some women have more then one kid and some don't because when you read a good book you want more when you read a bad book or one that hits to close to home you might not want it ever again

[@wellyourenotwrong]

Thank you for speaking on this, just donated 🙏

[@jandalf8128]

Could ypu cover why familial ties are so common in ttrpgs? I think the idea of how family affects your character is really underexplored in the youtube space

[@cyrokx]

Love the theme and fighting the good fight. Donated all that I can.

[@Idontgiveaduck]

Have some algorithm boosting vibes cuz i fully support the goal. Much love to you guys.❤

[@Lrbearclaw]

For me, the story that hit me HARDEST was the expansion for Final Fantasy XIV called "Endwalker". (Spoilers for Endwalker) Throughout the story, the end of reality has come. A being of oblivion, nihility, and despair singing the end of all things. And in your fight with the Endsinger, she tells you that there is no value in life, that oblivion has no pain, to give up, give in, etc. Words I have had in my mind since I was 13 (over 25 years). As she is about to defeat you, your friends pray for your safety then you hear them. Reminding you that you have faced this before and always win. That you aren't alone and that you never give up... all while the boss theme changed to one of victory. Your boss theme. And now the Endsinger's attacks while strong qre now random, she is panicking because she knows she LOST and now you just have to finish the battle. I sat sobbing after because it hit hard. Still does. And when I feel defeated or depressed, I turn on "With Hearts Aligned" and remember I have already won, I just needed a reminder.

[@bibliophilecb]

This is my comment to appease Al Gore’s Rhythm! Thank you for making this video.

[@DAVYBOUY]

This will blow up, in spite of the awful algorithm

[@snakebitcat]

Thank you for posting this.

[@doctorfaust9759]

Out of context, great video just what I need to hear

[@sol848]

Boosting this.

[@fantasydreamtima4684]

Awesome vid! Keep it up!❤

[@joell21]

Where’s the unhinged spoiler squirrel

[@deusvenenare]

All heart no brakes. Loved this video!

[@Aaron-vj5zn]

Great video!

[@ShyyGaladriel]

I don’t have anything to give but I can give a comment and share.

[@dwdillydally]

Fundraiser update: only $26 from hitting $66k

[@gornardsnards]

Phenomenal content

[@phdungeon_master]

Fantastic video!

[@EmB856]

Hey Jay! Could you add sources for the neuro stuff? It's super fascinating and I'd like to read what you have.

[@catmansparrow8620]

This video is awesome! Love the new goal

[@whateverthisis8101]

ALGORITHM COMMENT BABYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

[@mikebecker2626]

Let them cook... 😮

[@williamschar2959]

Commenting to fight the algorithm.

[@sarahhumpherys9638]

Comment for the algorithm. Awesome video!

[@ninguem3876]

Comentando para lutar contra o algoritmo. Continuem assim! Abraços do Brasil!

[@NicholasJon]

This is a great video. Keep it up.

[@garrettsweet9826]

Ill be back next paycheck. #freepalestine

[@garrettsweet9826]

Done.

[@pumpkin7446]

Thank you. ✨

[@AdamZollo]

Thanks for this video!

[@Meandyoujustus]

This is great

[@justinhess2747]

I hope

[@audlyartzy2377]

Commenting for engagement.

[@manuelmialdea5127]

Wow i juts now got this in my TL? KZbin reslly fucked you up with this one, bets of luck.

[@ivansleepy4722]

You're doing God's work, people. Thank you for caring enough

[@matthewroy8116]

Admirable goal Jay. Good work. #freepalestine

[@jeremykeasbey4145]

Had to stop myself there... knee-jerk response was a joke/troll post roughly saying 'would donate, but spoilers😮‍💨'; funny, but in bad taste.

[@Snaitycake]

Love this video!!

[@super_sloth_man6443]

I was becoming more and more annoyed because it felt like you two were begging for views, but I completely respect the switch to helping a charity you support. Well, I am not supporting either side of the war. I would like to show my respect for you keeping yours.

[@salt-d2032]

I don't know what to say but I like this video.

[@FarHawkStudio]

❤