The Gift of Rejection with Nona Jones

[@nataliemartin9619]

“Forgiveness is a gift we give to ourselves by releasing our future from the pain of our past”! An unrepented person will reinjure you”!! “Forgiveness does not necessarily mean access in the absence of repentance”!!! Such powerful words!! I hope you make a short clip from that section of the interview.

[@camsunshine596]

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[@QueenD75172]

Thank you for posting this. I took a screenshot. Was outside walking and thought "I need to write this down".

[@CathyMugabi]

​@@QueenD75172 just took a screenshot too😂 Beautiful words

[@tammyleeks6773]

The book The Body Keeps The Score talks about how we relive childhood trauma as adults until we are made aware through therapy, etc. That was so powerful when I read that. Love this podcast.

[@NormaG-go6nh]

@tammyleeks6773 Yes, that book is Amazing... For me it clarified and solidified Soo many things....❤️❤️

[@4speaklife101]

This woman have no idea how God has used her to help me. God bless you woman of God.

[@ardriaweston]

I waited to watch this episode of KIPS because I wanted to give it my undivided attention. I was right! This was guuuudt! So many gems from Nona! Just to name a few: We end up comparing our reality to other’s fiction.” When someone is succeeding I see it as a receipt for me.” If God can trust you there’s no limit where he can’t take you.” Nona was amazing. Crystal thank you for sharing your transparency.

[@mrs_klb671]

AT&T will give you a call Crystal. I threw my phone SEVERAL times!!! This episode is also for men and how their moms hurt them. Nona’s testimony is sooo powerful! Thanks for sharing!!

[@byrdtaylor5703]

I felt this comment!!!

[@shantakoa8596]

Nona is new to me this year. I am so happy I found her she is full of knowledge❤❤love you Crystal. God bless.

[@janaycook5505]

Same sis! I’m literally on my way to pick up one of her books ❤️

[@thea7418]

Yall won't regret it. The first chapter is really tough 😢.

[@sharaeaboyd714]

She recently spoke at my church’s women’s conference and was SUCH AN INSPIRATION!! So happy to see her here!

[@EmergingEmersed]

15:19 This is definitely a message for me this morning… People always say sorry, but changed behavior MUST come after.

[@DDD-re6vl]

Exactly

[@trinjuwan4422]

Finally...Some1...Nona spoke TRUTH about 4giveness. The person that does the damage MUST recognize the damage & prove remorse thru repentance & reformed behavior, otherwise the damage will be recurring & relationship permenantly severed.

[@angelalipscomb1442]

" I have called you to be a light in dark places"....POWERFUL!

[@AMotivatedYou]

The presence of God is all over this episode!! It ministered and was a blessing 💕

[@jaerenee1688]

This podcast literally feeds my soul 💛💛💛. Waiting every Tuesday at my desk 🥰🥰 I love it here 🫶🏽

[@Intelexx]

This episode hits close to home. Nona has a powerful story and I’m glad she was open to sharing it. Thank you Crystal ❤

[@anshayn]

I don't know if I should cry or laugh..this episode hits differently. It's so insightful, and a lot of families or people can heal from this. God bless you Crys thanks for sharing such great teachings via your podcast

[@TanyaEHood]

Thanks so much for your vulnerability. Defining the differences in the terms is key. How we choose to define our life impacts how we show up. Thank you!

[@AKUTZMUSIC]

I randomly chose this episode, didn’t know who Nora was, so I listened to the intro. Immediately I started hearing “nope, this ain’t for you” “see, she talkin bout her mother, you have a few issues wit mom but none like that, you don’t need to hear this.” Then… my other self began to say, hmm 🤔 that Does sound a bit similar to your dad tho.” And what did it was the “just because you forgive them, doesn’t mean they should have access to you.” I said OOOP 😮, oh, the Holy Spirit knew what would keep me tuned in. And it, as always, was worth every second. THANK YOU 🙏🏾

[@shainamadai]

I too chose this video off the title, new to the podcast. But immediately as the guest spoke I said YUP, this the one I need to hear.

[@BriaLouis]

the fact that I clock in at 7am & the doors dont open til 8am. im so excited to listen to this one. keep going crystal 😍 we are rooting for you. you dont know me yet but ill be on the podcast eventually 😆💕 keep it impactful sweetie 🌱

[@simonejdevone]

I was blessed by this conversation and am reminded to surrender to my journey in Christ 🤎

[@tammyleeks6773]

Crystal you are dope. I listen to your podcast because you are relatable. I love God and Im working on how I present as well. Thank you for being real and speaking openly about Jesus! You are planting seeds!!! 💚🙏🏾

[@shawndaniels5230]

Crystal, keep doing what you are doing. I absolutely love this. There is so much negativity going on in the world today. This is much needed. Your camera lady needs a spot on your couch! (I am sorry I didn’t catch her name) I believe that she needs to be heard and that she has some good sound spiritual advice that needs to be shared with others. Continue to let God shine in your life on and off the stage. You are doing it!

[@charlotteisom7178]

This is my favorite pod cast of them all it was so much clarity and answers to alot of questions that I had been pondering on so thank you all. And I will be purchasing your books Nona. Keep it Positive❤

[@LyCiie1]

The Holy Spirit lead me to watch this episode and many questions where answered throughout this conversation. From Nona childhood trauma to the end, whew. I have no words. Wisdom, transparency & knowledge. Thank you ladies for this! It was appointed & needed. Nona got a new follower & I instantly went and got me some books of hers! Supporting the kingdom

[@jareya]

So good!! Nona is such an inspiration on sooo many levels.

[@debbieholt5016]

Wow! This is such a powerful and amazing interview of Nona sharing her life story! Her Mom has been "Ill" for a long time, she needs to seek therapy. Nona has overcome beautifully from all she has been through. Thank you for sharing with us ❤

[@DianiMonae96]

OMG I did not know this episode would hit me to my core! I had no clue of who Nona was prior to this episode but she was everything I needed on this day! Lord I thank you so much for giving Crystal this voice & platform 🙏🏾🙌🏾. Crystal I love this podcast so much 💗

[@PPlese]

Okay…So in my opinion Crystal is my Oprah. I really missed the Oprah show but now I got my replacement! Your guest never disappoints! Loved this💕

[@Blessemm-c26]

Only 14 minutes into this podcast and Nona has confirmed and released so much in my life! Thank God🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@kyeashapeterson398]

Forgiveness doesn’t necessarily means Access 🗣️ What a word -Nona Jones She is a strong woman. God is so good ❤ This was a great episode 👏🏾🙌🏾 #KIPS❤

[@TanyaEHood]

Exactly, we forget that part!!

[@shanevergivinuptrice5651]

So Good!! This is a Blessed broadcast! Keep doing what you are doing!❤

[@ajap7283]

This interview spoke to my soul. I have felt this pain and self loathing throughout my life and now at 40. I'm really learning to love myself and let go and let God. Thank you!

[@shainamadai]

I’m happy for you😌

[@reneegraves9319]

This episode was simply beautiful. Thank you both for sharing.

[@NeicyD14]

Keep it fun sweetie!!!! Stop being so serious and have some fun. Very Nice! Chrystal you always have awesome guest. Great interview!

[@ericadhite]

This episode was so good! I’m over here watching and rewatching on KZbin and Patreon.

[@k.c.43]

This is such a great conversation!! So many gems!!

[@jareya]

The question is often the answer… this is so true and when you have a niggling question about anything, it’s so important to bring it before the Lord in prayer and let Him speak to you directly. Crystal, the Holy Spirit will show you as you fellowship with Him.

[@sommerstylesboutique]

This is so good. I'm definitely rewatching. So many gems.😊❤

[@Tgallager2742]

Such a great interview…the pain in Crystal’s eyes when Nina spoke about the sexual abuse and the abuse she suffered at the hands of her mother was unbelievable…I was glad when they switched to something more uplifting

[@pamaladaugherty9490]

This episode was for me bc I can relate to Nona bc of what she went through as a child. I needed this today. Thank you for sharing your story bc it helps me.

[@tangelachampion5048]

My sister Crystal, the character that you play is not you but there's someone out there like your character, dealing with those challenges and may not recognize this as an issue. Then we see the real you, the real person who shares and cares, and loves and you speak to those of us who tap into this side as well. I feel, just me saying this, these versions of sisters are real and you're reaching both of them. Love you in Jesus!!!

[@Reeses710]

This was such a powerful, encouraging, & much needed healing episode, you ladies are an amazing light!!

[@NeicyD14]

Love this!!! Whew when she said if a person don't see their wrong it's hard to have a good relationship!

[@nedraford5461]

I love Pastor Nora's ministry! I got a lot of answers from this episode. Blessings to you ,Crystal ❤

[@IrieMarie22]

This was beautiful! I honor Nona’s integrity. She says things that are uncomfortable. Crystal’s genuineness shines through and I believe God is calling her to another level. I never looked at Fatima because of some of the explicit things but I loved this podcast. Praying for your obedience, Crystal💕 perfect love drives out fear so you don’t have to be afraid of what’s next

[@malkiazam]

First time hearing this power house of a woman and I’m glad I came to this space. Thank you Crystal for being obedient to your calling.

[@lisapowell2333]

Such an excellent episode Nona’s words and her story were so encouraging & eye opening. Thank you for this episode 🤍

[@donj17]

I Enjoy it ! 🎉 it was very Thought-Provoking ! Thank you 😊❤ 💯

[@reshajones8435]

This episode is soooo good. I have watched this over ten times. I needed this so much

[@Faithwalk212]

" If I can trust you, there's no limit to where I can take you " powerful

[@clearlisthompson2340]

I was so blessed by this episode. Thank you both for being so transparent & honest. I preshate you both. God bless you! ❤

[@nicolelee4837]

THANK YOU CRYSTAL AND NONA SOOO MUCH FOR THIS EPISODE!!!!!! You have both helped me to begin healing some SA traumas from my past and the importance of forgiveness not meaning continued access. Thank you both for being obedient and for heeding the call on both of your lives!!! True blessings and angels you both are to this world!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@annedumornay95]

Great episode! Nona , I loved you on the YouVersion Bible App when I was at my lowest 2 years ago because I felt the need to get closer to God! "Forgiveness doesn't mean access." Thanks for saying this I grew up with a Narcissistic father who happens to be a pastor he was verbally, physically, mentally/emotionally, and spiritually abusive! My mother never protected my sisters and I. She's still married to him. This past mother's day I'm grieving cutting off my mom's access.I've forgiven her, and I've accepted she'll never take accountability😢 God bless Y'all 🙌🏾

[@peacemakergg7239]

I really enjoyed this episode!! Thanks for sharing💜

[@denisefields5397]

Crystal thank you for this platform!! The lives you are changing and saving just amazing!! ❤

[@ShineThroughBooks]

Soooo many powerful messages throughout ✨❤️loved this episode

[@shunwilliams6180]

This is such a blessing thank you so much for sharing Crystal ❤❤❤

[@Flawed-beautifully]

This conversation was Amazing and the level of transparency was healing… Thank you for opening up on both sides❤❤I’m on my walk with God (baby in Christ) and I feel like my fire just sparked to continue with Team Jesus

[@LadyDesignerSharday]

One of my favorite guest you've had , loved everything about it !

[@charlottebryant]

Crystal this podcast really spoke to me today thank u for ur gifts and this beautiful light ✨️ thank you continued blessings always 💖 Amazing works 💪🏾!

[@abiodunbrown3528]

Every episode is full of gems! I've learned so much and been introduced to so many powerful people/lessons.

[@ayadensmom1]

Amen!!!! This was def a blessing ❤❤❤ thank you so much!

[@towandacooke5700]

Thank you Crystal & Nona! I felt so blessed today🙌🏾 this Message was so Powerful 👊🏾 I will listen at this again!!🗣🙌🏾🙏🏽🫶🏾 ✨️

[@voncielwilliams850]

I love LOVE LOOOVE your show, but after the first 5 minutes and 55 seconds, I started having anxiety and could not finish. God bless her.

[@Asafespace4u]

I took so much notes during this episode. The was so good.

[@donj17]

I Appreciate this Deep Conversation of Life 🌹 The Speaking of Truth with Love & Compassion is the Key 🔑 that Brings Understand 💯 Excellent Conversation Ladies 👏 Very Fruitful 🍑 GOD Bless You All ❤🌟 🌹

[@CarolynLWalker]

Excellent, Crystal Hayslett! I truly enjoyed this segment!❤ Mrs. Nona, is the one! God Bless everyone involved! Amen°

[@DDD-re6vl]

This episode gave me knots in my stomach wow!!! Thank you Crystal

[@sammysiphoBoo]

This is so beautiful. I got so many gems and found alot of answers to the questions I had.... I just needed this chat..

[@aishagreen5638]

This was so good. Just purchased one of her books, thank you ladies!

[@MelissaWatts-in8mq]

Oh wow! This was right on time.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@carolinewanjiku999]

I really love it when we get a Dinorah cameo😍☺ She is such a light and is so lovable ❤

[@shamekajones49]

This episode was so good. Bout to buy that book

[@DDD-re6vl]

Had to pause this to take notes deep convo!!!!! Favorite line: Forgiveness does not necessarily give you access to me!!!!!!!!!

[@ericachristian8286]

The podcast I didn't know I needed this morning

[@bobbisutton5127]

LOVE THIS EP! On my God how bless are you ladies!!!!

[@TBSCEO]

This was an amazing episode. So powerful and so relatable.

[@DDD-re6vl]

Crystal stop beating yourself up!!!! He got YOU!! He knows this is just your ROLL

[@aaliyahgardner8814]

Ik i hope she isnt gonna give it up cause wen nona said that i wonder what was going through crystals mind i hope it isnt no because i dont know what will happen if the she does that which nona said though i hope she dosent think thay crystal shpuld give it up just saying cause we all know who crystal is and god knows too

[@moniquedancy3542]

❤❤❤❤ This was Awesome and much needed confirmation for me. Thank You

[@michellejeter3895]

This is soooo great! Excellent dialogue. Keeping it real. Just know your light will even shine on the set of Zatima 💃💃. It will be in sprinkles....like a mustard seed....Be glorified Jesus..

[@veshastressfree6070]

Forgiveness doesn’t always means access💯

[@dejones6162]

Thank you so much for sharing. SO Powerful🙌❣🙏🏼

[@giovanniburgess6857]

Sharing what's in your SOUL YOUR HEART YOUR SMILE that thing called LOVE HAS GOD HANDS ALL OVER YOU TRUST IN HIM ALWAYS PRAY TO HIM HES LISTENING CRYSTAL YOU ARE VERY FRUITFUL CONTINUE GLOWING ✌️

[@AnnetteDouglas-j1s]

This was so good. Thank you ladies so much for the wisdom shared.

[@lbrevard1]

The Holy Spirit led me back to this podcast for some reason to check out a name or person I know nothing about "Nona Jones" which I did immediately think of Nora Jones. Nevertheless, this was inspiring and really a great episode. I look forward to tuning back into this podcast as the Holy Spirit leads you to decide if it is going to be faith-based or click-based. The one episode I tuned into a while ago when you were starting out really turned me completely away from it because of the nasty conversation that was taking place with your friends. Not judging but growing and setting boundaries and making decisions for my eargate in my old age. I also agree that we are given a platform to be the light in this dark world and it will be successful as it is pleasing to God and your true intention. That means for some people in our circle, we must tell them that "Moses is dead" because we can't serve two masters, and if we truly know we are Christians we must be convicted of what is right and what is wrong and what audience are we truly trying to reach for the Kingdom and is listening really looking for a lifeline to Christ by the way of therapy or a therapeutic podcast.

[@DsHairOil]

Hey nieceypoo you are a proverbs 31 woman and this podcast is fire. You are in my brain today and in my business

[@vanessabaker6747]

Good Morning KIPS Family and Chat Love theses podcasts Ms. Crystal Renee Haylett!!!! Love ❤ you as always!!!!

[@ashleybarnes1638]

Thank you for this message 🙏🏽💜✨

[@TheGlamorousPennyPincher]

This was sooo good. So many nuggets, thank you🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@lisabartley6944]

THIS IS SOOO CRUCIAL AND POWERFUL AND AMAZING TO ME 🙌🙌😭❤️🔥🔥🔥❗❗❗

[@simplebeauty7170]

This conversation is soooo good!! ❤‍🔥🔥

[@latonyarichardson4279]

This was a great podcast; consequently I am currently reading her book “Killing Comparison”

[@stillirise4401]

This was a special one! I also appreciate you Crys in being vulnerable asking your questions #KIPS

[@donnabullock7330]

This was great i felt the need to run around my room. I loved it. This is real i wished i could of been apart of this conversation this touched home

[@donnabullock7330]

Crystal you are the best keep up

[@ImaniLove92]

Watching this morning and God used Crystal to work through me. I said I wanted to make a habit of making my bed every morning getting up earlier etc. but today I slackeddd! In the midst of this convo Crystal said “I was making my bed this morning” I instantly looked in my bedroom and went to make my bed 🤣😭❤️ it be the little things ❤ love this podcast

[@ChristinaLDavis-on3bw]

So good!! 👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾

[@allthingsjanee7192]

I’ve been watching your podcast since you started but this was by far the best episode, I got convicted so many times! Thank you Nora and Crystal this really BLESSED me🙏🏾👌🏾🫶🏾🤍🙌🏾

[@EmpressJesss]

This was so healing!!! I can relate in so many areas wow

[@byrdtaylor5703]

This helped me a lot!! This was an awesome episode!!!

[@DornesiasDesire]

No because what you tell her get off your street this episode was whewww definitely finna watch again when time hits

[@girlstowomennfp3565]

My God MY GOD. I thank you for this wooooooooooow this just help me. I had never heard of mother wound

[@veshastressfree6070]

This was such a great episode