The Gottmans: Are You REALLY Listening to Your Partner? The Importance of Empathy

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[@Handle18880]

I love how she touched him, looked him in the eyes and said, “Wait a minute do not interrupt me.” without putting any value on her feelings about it and her saying that was a enough for him to smile, submit, respect and oblige the boundary. Later on he said, “I know she’s got my back.” This alone convened how they feel about each other. That there’s such a level of trust and kindness that any interaction is self development, not a personal attack or slight.

[@PaulCBrunson]

Great observation!

[@Steadfast_Steady_Strong]

3:00 One of my favorite things that I’ve noticed all my children do when they observe my husband and I loving each other is this: Anytime my husband and I hug each other in front of them, they immediately come up to us, wrap their arms around us too, and it becomes a huge family hug. They are absolutely drawn to the love they see. They did this when they were very young, and now they still do it as teens. It’s incredible to watch how one simple expression of love between husband and wife can draw the kids in and make them feel so secure. Okay, onto the rest of the video! 18:00 😂 💯

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[@yourmarriagevillage7204]

As a couples’ therapist, I have to say that I thoroughly enjoyed this interview with the Gottmans. I feel like it humanized them. We got the best of both worlds. The science of marriage and real life experiences. Great interviewer! Thank you.

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[@Jessicascrutton1993]

As a training couples psychotherapist this conversation makes talking about relationships so accessible. These 3 are legends!

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[@alexandras2559]

Amazing conversation, coming 1 day after a huge conflict with my partner. This feels revolutionary to me. Thank you

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This is absolute gold I’ll be watching this multiple times, Great podcast.

[@WernervanBakel]

Great podcast with so many tips for a more happy life with your (future) partner. We couldn't keep up with our notes. A real must see! Thanks Paul and the Gottmans! 😍

[@LeonaCharles-f7t]

This interview was AMAZING

[@Reetreet98]

Mind blowing content. Not only will I be sharing this far and wide, but it has literally sparked so many thoughts for me in my own academic research. I'll be referring back to this often. Thank you so much for this piece.

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[@christianabrenton4742]

So much valuable advice here, I’m listening with my partner!

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Love these two!

[@nessathenessie]

Excellent interview with The Gottmans!!! Can you please interview Dr. Orion Taraban he does amazing work in the space of relationships!

[@PaulCBrunson]

I’m very interested in chatting with him.

[@heidishub490]

So powerful

[@wendy8617]

Great discussion!

[@SuziMac]

I absolutely loved this, thank you 🙏🏻 The Gottmans have impacted my career in such profound and inspiring ways. Epic interview 👆

[@lvrn124]

This is my first video on your channel and i like that there's a takeaway!

[@aaronhatefi7897]

So pleasant and so helpful Thank you for this interview

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