THE GREEN FLAGS POST RELATIONSHIP

[@pamelakelley5535]

It's so nice not to have to listen to the fault finding and demeaning everyday. I don't miss the constant lies, deceit and walking around on eggshells. It's actually a relief not being around the negativity. I am FREE!

[@christine11347]

I agree 💯 Pamela. When you really take a few moments and pause to think about all the green flags there are so many,!! It's such a great topic to take the focus off the negative red flags and focus on the positive green flags. Absolutely creative and out of the box. Love it ❤️☘️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Absolutely Pamela 🙌💯🙏☀️😊

[@joannewoodcroft1038]

I know the feeling, Pamela....I also don't miss the fact that everything I said was picked apart, or I did not use the right word.

[@kimgordon3695]

Nothing to miss 😏

[@angelicamaster7764]

Yay Pamela Kelley! Me too! The dissonance made me sick, had hair loss and lost too much weight. Brain fog is an understatement. I’m loving my life after almost a year of not being with the Narcissistic husband. Ahhhhhh green flag!! 🌴💃🦋😘

[@drchristineobrien9704]

You are beautiful. Before they would say we were "underweight, overweight or out of date." Now we are peaceful with green flags! 🇳🇫🇳🇬🇳🇫

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message 🙏🙌💯☀️

[@Thechristianremnantnomad]

Exact thing he said to me.

[@iluvpink4102]

A narcissist’s cup can never be filled. The image of a green flag makes me think of new life and a rebirth. What a wonderful way to describe life apart from the narcissist. Thank you for your videos, Andrew. It’s been 2 1/2 years and I can finally say I have more than turned a corner from a relationship that only left scorched earth. The grass is growing back, slowly but surely.

[@christine11347]

Keep moving forward Diana. Everything comes up greener with the narscistist gone. Enjoy all the little things in your day and do things that make you happy 💛☘️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message Diana..🙌💯🙏☀️

[@tanyakashyap6944]

❤️

[@briansaiditsoitmustbetrue4206]

The Narcissist has GOT to leave you in this state during the sustained devaluation phase Diana.. They have got to destroy your self-esteem and self-worth ... This is so you will be EASIER to "Hoover" in the future... Then the cycle begins all over again 1) Lovebombing and future faking 2) Devaluation phase 3) Discard phase... I do hope you have gotten out of this harmful and toxic relationship.. Kind regards Brian Do NOT fall for the "Hoover" in the future... It is all fake and lies to suck you back into the toxic relationship... The Narcissist is a PARASITE and you are their host...They need you FAR MORE than you need them.

[@jmfs3497]

Well said about the cup never filled.

[@universallove280]

That’s why I told my kids: stay alone, have friends, special friends, do NOT get married or move in with anyone, don’t sign contracts, and yes Be Yourself. Live your best life NOW

[@blackeagle2699]

I'm at the beginning of this sea of knowledge . I'm thankful for coming home to a peaceful environment , not being embarrassed in public ,not being controlled and judged . Having the freedom to just me . Not having to deal with a fight started over petty things . I love to turn up some music clean my home and singing to my cats . It's feels so good to come home and cook whatever I want or nothing at all and it just as amazing . Im really enjoying the green flags . Thank you for this super cool video . This is much needed .

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Black Eagle 🙌💯🙏

[@FieryKTarot]

That's my top of the list too.

[@rosesantiago174]

THE BEST REALIZATION IS GETTING UP IN THE MORNING AND BEING ABLE TO APPRECIATE THAT YOU ARE FREE. NO LONGER A CAREGIVER TO SOMEONE ELSE WHO FELT DESERVING AND INCAPABLE OF APPRECIATING ALL YOU DID FOR THEM. FINALLY, ITS TIME TO GIVE CARE TO YOURSELF. LIVE AND APPRECIATE LIFE AND EVERYTHING YOU PURSUE THAT MAKES YOU WHOLE AGAIN. THAT IS WHAT HEALING GIFTS YOUR SOUL. BLESSINGS!

[@kimalonzo3363]

Sounds blissful 😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful Rose..🙌💯🙏🙏😊

[@christine11347]

To wake up and just be is a feeling like none other ☺️

[@billyje4726]

Yes! And blessings to you! 🙏💚

[@christine11347]

@@billyje4726 And to you as well 🙏💚

[@kristinej.4182]

I can wear anything I want without being questioned. I can eat whatever I crave. I can watch whatever I enjoy. I can sleep in on Sundays. I don’t have to be made to feel like I’m inadequate when in fact I’m the one who is providing more than the narcissist in every way. The list of green flags goes on and on. My confidence is back. Thank goodness he’s out of my life! Excellent video, Andrew! 👍🏻🙏

[@christine11347]

💯💯💯

[@kimgordon3695]

You're a treasure #BeYou

[@kristinej.4182]

@@kimgordon3695 Thank you so much, Kim! Your beautiful words made my day! :))

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Kristine 💯🙌🙏💪

[@blessed162]

Amen amen amen❤

[@christine11347]

Just when you think you have heard every glossary term about narcissism you watch a video about green flags.💚🌱☘️ Andrew this video was so positive and uplifting. There are so many green flags that fill each moment of our day. When you can close your eyes and think of all the positivity that surrounds each of us post narscistic relationship it's incredible. It's great to see you smile, laugh and be so relaxed. Your positive messages of hope always shine through with such passion. You continue to inspire each of us to keep moving forward and to live life to the fullest. Those birds singing so beautifully in the background were truly the icing on the cake to a perfect video. Bravo you really hit it out of the park. Continue to shine ✨ You deserve all the best life has to offer 👏🙌👍☺️💯

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Christine 🙌💯🙏☀️😊

[@christine11347]

@@susand7202 No red flags in my day today 😊 This day has been truly amazing from start to finish. This whole idea of the green flag is such a gamer changer on how we can all view our days moving forward. We will never forget the lessons learned in the past, but we must move forward and live in the beautiful light of the present. Between that absolutely gorgeous flower on the community page this morning to this amazing video tonight Andrew has really outdone himself today 👏☘️🌺🕊️❤️🥂

[@christine11347]

@@susand7202Good Morning🌅 I agree 💯 Susan. He's truly one of a kind💎 Yes thankfully I was sleeping. It was wonderful to wake up this morning and not have to shovel snow. An absolutely wonderful way to start off my day. Enjoy your day. Stay warm. I am looking forward to looking for all the green flags blowing around me as I get ready to head out and start my day. 💛☘️

[@tanyakashyap6944]

❤️❤️

[@christine11347]

@@tanyakashyap6944 ❤️💚

[@CarmenRivera-ti9in]

It felt so confusing for me to come across these “green flags”. I was so used to being controlled for forty years, I almost didn’t know what normal was or felt like anymore. I’m still trying to learn and get used to what normal really is.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Carmen 🙌🙏😉💯

[@hettabaker1769]

Thank you for articulating the small wins that are so positive in the healing process

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Hetta..💯🙌🙏

[@robertbradshaw1982]

It amazes me when you talk about how the narcissist works you. I've had ALL of them thrown in my face. That horrid feeling that you can't do ANYTHING right, or nothing is ever enough. That sinking feeling in your heart, lungs and stomach. Total worthlessness. Almost numb. Devastating depression. You feel abandoned and alone. Today I feel hope. Today I have a place to move to get the hell out from under this sick, debilitating behavior. One more week of avoiding her so as to stop the abuse. I won't discuss with her that I know now what she is. I've learned it will make no difference. She'll deny and defend herself with some lie or other dismissal. I'll look for the green flags. Had a few good ones yesterday. But I cannot ignore or forget the RED ones. Never again. Follow my gut. Never again. Thank You Andrew.

[@christine11347]

You're doing great Robert. Keep moving forward on your path. Keep the narc in the past and live and enjoy your best life in the present. 💛☘️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always Robert 💯🙌🙏☀️

[@nancydowling4049]

I can relate to how all of the diminishing behavior and outright cruelty started to affect me physically, internally, deep into my gut and penetrating my soul. As Andrew has said, becoming educated is empowering. There is hope!

[@christinagipperich2780]

Keep going no matter how much it hurts to walk away. I realized toward the end of my marriage that I quit engaging because I simply didn’t have the energy to keep playing the games. Why play when the match was fixed against you from the beginning? I no longer cared if he was angry, hurt, or inconvenienced by my lack of engagement. Narcissists get what they give. We never asked to be manipulated, devalued, and discarded so it isn’t us who caused the relationship to fail.

[@robertbradshaw1982]

@@nancydowling4049 Thanks Nancy. We've obviously shared the same feelings.

[@angelacahill9083]

A big green flag being present in the moment, how wonderful is that feeling? Sitting and enjoying a simple meal with my son's - the atmosphere is lighter! Bring on more of them - the simple things in life are the best and are free to enjoy. Thank you Andrew - your content is so encouraging and empowering. How blessed we are that you are sharing your wisdom with us all.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Angela 💯🙏🙌😊

[@christine11347]

Beautiful Angela. I love this concept of green flags it's such a game changer on the way we can look at all the beautiful things that surround us going forward.☘️

[@angelacahill9083]

@@christine11347 yes Christine the "green flags" we get to experience now, are a real game changer for sure. And it's the simple things in life, we appreciate the most. We are more aware of them now, as we emerge from the fog of narcissistic abuse. We can look forward to many more to come....it is a great concept and a good place to focus on, as we grow in courage and wisdom. Do have a lovely day and we will embrace the peace and what that brings. We will keep moving forward on our journey. God bless 🙏😊☘️🌻

[@Leah-fw5kn]

At first, he was a great listener, great everything, I felt like he was a "dream come true" BUT then after a year, he started out with little things by treating me poorly until it was demeaning. Then it just got worse and worse. He was my husband. I loved him but he couldn't love back..... thanks for your video Andrew, your a gem 💎

[@ultimateoptimist5217]

His mask came off....surprised it took a yearbut perhaps you missed the red flags in the first 15 min of meeting him....either way you now know.

[@eloisem3214]

Leah, so strange they can't return love, but they actually have no idea what love really is. You almost want to feel sorry for them because real love is a terrible thing to miss in life. 😢

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always Leah..🙏🙌💯☀️😊

[@kimgordon3695]

Awe. BigHugz

[@gemmastyles420]

I’m still healing but I’m glad I saw this, because it gives me something to look forward to. 😌

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful Gemma..💯🙏🙌

[@fireflymassholesunite3252]

Stay Strong Gemma..As time goes on you will see more and more green flags..God Bless you🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤

[@vickymoore2520]

Thanks Andrew for the reminder of real life !! A green flag moment of how I love to cook, dance around the kitchen with music . It feels good to do that again . So much more to come . I felt good during your video, it’s been so long I forgot about all of those little happy things .. Namaste 🙏🏻 😃 I feel pretty lite at this moment

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful Vicky 🙏💯🙌☀️

[@sammybosma]

Thanks for what you do, it's so hard being criticized on what we eat or how we look, and when we can choose our own peace ✌️ it feels great.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Kellie..💯🙏😊

[@sharont9720]

I’m still in the narcissistic relationship, but my green flag today is being able to watch your video and know I’ll get out soon. I’m thinking of all the possibilities!

[@kutipy2348]

Yes‼ ..stay focused on getting yourself out of that narc situation....keep watching these videos to help heal you...Praying you get out of the relationship soon and safely. 🙏🙌💞

[@christinagipperich2780]

Stay the course! It may be hard and it may hurt in the beginning but it will be so much better. When he mentioned getting the wrong peanut butter at the store, I thought of all the expensive crap I no longer had to buy to fit the ex’s ridiculously restrictive diet. It’s amazing how much less anxiety I have about stupid, little things that don’t move my life forward. Now I can focus on taking care of big stuff like fixing things in my house. Progress will happen for you , I promise.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful progress 💯🙌🙏💪

[@lindaknaus448]

Ahhh… witty banter, eye contact, harmony, mutual respect… all the good things in relationships☺️ Thanks for reminding us …be blessed Andrew🙏🏻💖

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Linda 🙏🙌💯☀️😊

[@kimgordon3695]

We can emerge from the drama 💞

[@sallyebrahimi7491]

Your videos are really helping me to keep on track and to do things differently. Dealing with them sometimes is like trying to scoop water up with a sieve.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Continue to become educated and empowered..🙌💯☀️🙏

[@christine11347]

Do things that make you happy Sally. The light gets so much brighter once we remove the toxicity from our life and emerge from the darkness. ✨✨

[@mariagargus7726]

Andrew you saying I love you to us your viewers is so validating. You know someone out there hasn’t heard it for a while. Your explanations on your videos are all knowledgeable and your delivery is tactful. I so appreciate all your help.Love you too, May God Bless you abundantly 🙏🏼

[@christine11347]

Delivery to perfection ❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Maria..💯🙌🙏

[@esperanzafitch9911]

Thanks a lot for presenting this topic! I remembered how one of my narcs use to criticize my breathing! Nowadays, I can just breathe, and enjoy the air!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful Esperanza 🙌🙏😊

[@Dee-xs5yy]

So lovely to hear this. There is so much uncertainty, I've struggled with wanting to date with trust issues. For all those on this account there is light!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Absolutely correct 🙌🙏💯☀️

[@christine11347]

When we learn to love and trust ourselves everything else will fall into place. Trusting your gut, instincts and heart will keep you safe as you continue to move forward on your path ❤️☘️

[@FoundinFlorida]

Wow, what a strong, kind message! You are truly making a huge positive impact on my life & I appreciate you SO much!! “ No Drama”….. thank you! I was told I was the cause of the family drama each & every time we were together, and I believed it! Such a relief when you realize that is/was not the truth! I have become super vigilant looking, listening, feeling for red or green flags. I’m so grateful when someone throws me a green flag… it is still astonishing to me when someone is kind.

[@christine11347]

Beautiful message. We all need to know our worth and to be treated with dignity, kindness and respect. 💛☘️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always Found in Florida..💯🙌🙏☀️😊

[@boogieuggie7865]

They blame you for the things they do. They are the ones bringing drama anyway they can. They are so negative. Always trying to hurt you or out do you. Pathetic people.

[@christinagipperich2780]

The green flags are everywhere! Please know you could’ve sat there, totally silent, and the Narc would still find a way to assign blame to you for their drama. I’ve been divorced for a little over a year and I’m still teasing out my negative coping strategies from all the scapegoating, gas lighting, and mirroring that went on with my ex. I’m told that I’ll probably be doing that for a while yet and that’s OK.

[@elainekennedy9587]

Hi Andrew could not agree more with Maria how you show up each day for us to enlighten and pass on your valuable knowledge! A truly beautiful man a true empath.Our very best regards and wishes from England Take care all dear empaths you are deserving of the respect and love you so desire.xxxxx

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Elaine 🙏🙌💯🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇨🇷😊

[@joanneloesner1264]

I have watched you everyday since I discovered your site. I have and continue to be so grateful for the incredible information you share with us. It was nice to see that for you sharing this positive information actually seemed to be a pleasant experience for you as opposed to you reliving a bit of your own pain in sharing the important information we need in order to heal and learn. In my mind that makes what you are doing even more special in that you are willing to do that in order to help all those of us who so strongly need to get out of the narcissist's web and have a chance of a happy life. So today I not only thank you for the incredibly valuable information you share with us but also being willing to pay the price of reliving a degree of your own pain to give all of us a shot of living a better life. Today it was a pleasure to see a smile in your eyes and thoughts of happy experiences reflected in your face 😊 Thank you, thank you, thank you Andrew. Wishing you peace and love. Namaste 🙏❤😇

[@christine11347]

Absolutely beautiful 💯❤️☘️💎

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I appreciate your kindness and honesty thank you Joanne 😊🙏💯

[@phoeniciafalcon]

Thank you, Andrew, for who you are. Your words of affirmation at the end spoke right to my spirit tonight and brought unexpected tears, as if you were seeing my spirit for who I really am, even if the narcissistic person didn't. You are loved in return! And you are, truly, a vessel of The Most High. God bless you richly ❤

[@christine11347]

🙏❤️🙏🌄

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Phoenicia..💯🙌🙏😊

[@felisaboettcher4448]

Thank you Andrew with all my heart! Thank you with all my heart to Everyone here supporting one another!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Felisa..💯🙏😊

[@KleeKaiBreeders]

He even told me I didn’t clean the toilets good enough. So happy to be out of that crazy meanness.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Melissa 🙏💯🙌

[@mariarossi6719]

Thank you so much, Andrew. It really is SO kind of you to show up every day for people. That takes serious commitment and I really appreciate this. I really am wondering why it is that narcissism and sociopathic tendencies is quite widespread, especially nowadays. Can anybody shed any light on why it's such a prevalent phenomenon.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Maria..🙏💯🙌

[@drchristineobrien9704]

Maria, I have a take. One child mentality. Vaccines. No religion. Anti life anti family values. However that being said, I have none of the above and I have a N son. So biggest is they experience Trauma then some hereditary factors. Sigh. Idk if that helps. We could go on...like broken families, no fathers in the home. Liberal teachers heehee.

[@christine11347]

I remember reading in another comment that research shows that Facebook and Social media are having a big increase in narcissism. It makes a lot of sense. We are living in a look at me world. Trying to keep up with the Jones society. It's very sad with selfies and instant responses and gratifications it's becoming a 🌎 fully of empty shells and shallow people.

[@mariarossi6719]

@@drchristineobrien9704 Thanks for your comment.

[@mariarossi6719]

@@christine11347 yes, that definitely shines a spotlight on who many of them are. I'm really wanting to know what it is that creates a narcissist though. There have to be certain factors that lead a person to become this way as opposed to just ending up like this by accident if you see what I mean. Plenty of psychologists on KZbin thankfully so will make it my mission to find out.

[@michellekoinegg2627]

This video was so very calming. It helped me to actually recognise all the green flags I'm surrounded by now. I am so blessed to have found your channel Andrew. All the pieces are coming together perfectly. Thank you for helping so many of us lost, hurt and confused people, find our way. 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏🙌💯☀️

[@donnahazlett7305]

Pure bliss. Love the green flags.🌞🌻🌷

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes🙌💯☀️😊

[@christine11347]

💚☘️🌱

[@tathe3786]

And to Green flags…. I sm sitting in the sun…. Smelling the trees and a wunderfull wind 🌬 Is given me a though.. I sang out just a melody…. Because my heart was free to do this… that was my Green Flag yesterday… 5 weeks after discard !!! …. was a spark of me again!!! I feel so blessed for this moment!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message 🙏💯🙌

[@jayneweaver8695]

A stark reminder of what life was like with the narc. Feeling more and more what you're describing in this video, really helps to have the light at the end of the tunnel. Great video, thank you SO much!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Jayne 💯🙏🙌

[@blessed162]

I have my life back. Awesome paradise on earth. Green flags all around and in the most unexpected places. Life is a 🎵 song🎉

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💯🙏

[@ceceliahelliwell5478]

Absolutely love the Green Flags Andrew, I did cry a lot as you went through some of the list.... I just forgotten what they felt like. Thank you sooo much from my heart to yours..... I love you.... I am working through so much right now with so much help from your videos.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Cecelia..🙏💯🙌💪

[@katherinemcintire2637]

Another great video Andrew! I smiled all through this one too! It’s sad that they think they can extinguish our light! Oh no sweetheart, it just makes our light shine brighter!!!💕🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Exactly 💯🙏🙌☀️☀️

[@christine11347]

I agree I smiled the entire video each time I watched it. At first I thought I was hearing the birds in my head. When I watched it again I heard them even louder. How absolutely symbolic.

[@patriciaserra5664]

Thank you Andrew this video was funny and refreshing . A good reminder of what a normal and happy life should look like.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Patricia 💯🙏🙌☀️😊

[@sofa9923]

The green flags when alone by yourself 💚 it’s funny how easy it is to cook now, without someone badgering me about what’s in it, how it’s being cooked, yada yada.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Exactly 🙏🙌💯☀️😊

[@robinsonkim6539]

Lots of Love to you too and may God bless you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 💯🙏🙌

[@cttofl8822]

This is crazy that there is so many topics red flags details micro and macro… the information is never ending just when I think I learned enough you’re always informing me of more and making more videos with new information I wasn’t aware of… thanks alot.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 🙌🙏

[@christine11347]

There is always so much focus on the negative when it comes to narcissism understandably. Having a break and a fresh positive outlook on post narscistic recovery; however, provides so much hope and healing energy. This video is amazing and is so needed. It's why this channel continues to shine bright into the lives of a community in need. 🙌 ☘️

[@cttofl8822]

@@christine11347 as a counselor and social worker myself I agree 👏✨✅💚

[@christine11347]

@@cttofl8822 Thank you. This whole day has been full of positivity, peace and tranquility from the moment I woke up until I am getting ready to head in soon to sleep. What more green flags could we ever possibly pray for. It's absolutely beautiful ☘️💚🌱

[@RawOlympia]

This reminded me of the time my ultra narc mother left my dad for a teenager who was my age and drove around the country with him and me going to motels and joy riding. Until she ran out of $$$, eventually, Then she called him acting all innocent and what was that all about and making light of the whole thing. I thought he would take her back because he was a nice man and a minister - but he said No on the other end of the line. Years later, he told me it shocked him that he said No, but it was because after she ditched him his painful cankor sores went away like magic, and he just did not want them to come back ~ it was his green flag moment! Thnx for your fab chan!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Raw..💯🙏🙌💯

[@suejohnson535]

Thank you for giving us a video about green flags . Now am able to do the things I couldn't when I was with the narcissist . I know one it thing it has & is peaceful. Thank you & every one comments here . Thank you . I hoped you all have a wonderful blessed night 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Sue..💯🙌🙏☀️😊

[@kijeeli]

Collecting my green flags include: 1- going to gym feeling healthier 2- calm reflections on life over cup of tea. 3- bought grains, healthy foods. 4- liking Andrew's flower pics.. I know! 5- days and nights are longer 6- get this ! I have extra time that I don't know literally what to do with ! How's sweet it is to block - and not check toxic emails. 7- shoulder upright walk.. no slouching. 8- got a 96% on a school project quiz as I had total concentration. 9- able to identify musical notes by hearing- near perfect pitch, when I calmly play my piano. 10- individuation all the way.

[@christine11347]

Absolutely beautiful. ☘️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful list kijeeli 💯🙏🙌💪😊

[@esh3333]

This is exactly what I’m experiencing right now with a new person.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful Teshla 💯🙏🙌😊

[@christine11347]

🙏❤️🙏

[@nataschadegarde7490]

God bless you andrew i was 7 years in this narsistic relationship and if i hear you were 6 years doing what i was doing it hurts to hear god bless you

[@eloisem3214]

Thank you, Andrew. Such happy thoughts! 😍🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Eloise 💯🙌🙏

[@tonyroma7599]

I love this video. Gives me something to look forward to 👍🏻. Thank you for this.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Tony 🙏💯🙌

[@christine11347]

I absolutely love everything about this video.💯 ❤️🌱

[@empressboateng7098]

We love you too Andrew, you are one in a millions ❤❤❤👍🙌🙏🏿👋👋

[@blessed162]

Exactly Andrew, Peanut Butter is Peanut Butter!. When the narcissist was still in my life and I paid groceries(as usual) specific Peanut butter was the priority. The moment he had to buy and pay. The cheapest brand was the choice. When I made a comment about...what is this now?...the defence was Peanut butter is Peanut butter 😮 Andrew you know EVERY session I listen to is 💯 % what I experienced. The smallest issue, you were spot on. I'm sure you know that individual personally

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing 😌🙏🙌

[@jettb64]

Thank you, Andrew! I'm going to start looking for the green flags. I'm focused on taking care of me and my elderly parents. I joined our local theater group. I've met a lot of wonderful people. We're putting on a play this weekend; 3 shows! 🎭 You are so knowledgeable about Narcissists. You describe the narc I was with so well; I almost think you must know him! 😂 Take care! 🙏✨💖

[@christine11347]

Good luck with your shows ☘️☘️ Enjoy!!

[@jettb64]

@@christine11347 Thank you very much! 😃💖

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌😉

[@jeanwolfendale405]

What a fabulous message thank you. Deleting negative thought patterns and people out of my life post narsscasistic relationship was a liberating process for me. I don't see any point getting out of bed each morning only to have a miserable day. May you always be blessed.

[@christine11347]

I absolutely agree Jean. 💯 Positivity is a mindset. Our thoughts control where our morning will take us🌅

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Jean..💯🙌🙏☀️😊

[@ilikehair485]

Exactly, you can live Life Again. All the little things you gain back is amazing! Thank you for this video, Andrew it's a great reminder to take a deep breath when ever you can, enjoy the little things ;-)

[@christine11347]

🙏 Amen

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Absolutely 💯🙌🙏☀️😊

[@Seds245]

Thank you 🙏🏽 I have noticed some

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Fantastic Seds..🙏🙌💯☀️

[@mosiemi1]

The difficulty was that nobody else saw what they were doing.

[@lindyska]

About phone conversations: I had always the feeling he wasn't listening when we talked on the phone. Sometimes he started talking to other people while talking to me on the phone without explaining to me what was going on , letting me feel completely... unimportant. And the long silences. Full of anxiety. I had never had similar phone conversations with anybody else in the world. Anybody experienced the same thing? I'm curious. Thank you again Andrew for making us thinking about green flags, that's so precious! 🙏🧡

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome lindyska 🙌🙏💯

[@darinattard3244]

Listening to your advice, feeling emotional, it is all happening - I`m Free.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙏💪

[@donnaengelman1171]

GREEN FLAGS AFTER RED FLAGS. LET'S ENJOY OUR LIFE AND CELEBRATE, MI AMIGAS AND AMIGOS. I LOVE YOU ALL! MAY OUR ALMIGHTY GOD BLESS US ALL! 💖💙💜💚❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes Donna 🙌🙏☀️😊

[@christine11347]

@Calev 🇯🇲🌺🌊🎵🌊🎶🇯🇲☺️💯❤️x

[@happyhealthyblessed]

Amen

[@mortalfairytale3184]

The wonderful genuine soul that you are comes thorough your videos. How could anyone not love and adore you exactly as you are. You are precious Andrew. I hope you find a wonderful beautiful soul just like yourself and live happily Everafter ❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙌🙏☀️🙏😊

[@christine11347]

Beautiful. Your journey has been transformational. A true inspiration to all of us ❤️💯 Your comment makes me smile ...and they all lived happily ever after THE END. Sounds like the ending of a great Disney movie 💛

[@cynthiaolson2428]

This was a wonderful 'session'! It made me feel so light and free and joyous. I had 16 years with a narcissist, and now have had 30 years without him. Thank you for making me more aware of just how relaxing and joyful a thing that is. May I add something? When you are finally free of the narcissist, learn not to "narc" on yourself! I am trying to be less aware of doing something that HE wouldn't approve of, and then letting that inhibit me. Getting his voice out of my head is still something I still struggle with, but your articles are really helping.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙌🙏☀️

[@kbstrong429]

My family narcissists did judge me and critique me all the time and right away and it wasn’t pleasant but, often I felt obligated but, I quit

[@HellasGD88]

They don’t know peace because they’ve always lived in chaos, he was never satisfied until he caused mayhem.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely 💯🙏🙌

[@mariaawake4502]

Since I have healed a lot from narcissistic abuse, I noticed that most of my anxiety problem is gone, when I recently was able handle a 90 minute appointment in a chaotic medical center by myself with ease .

[@christine11347]

I agree mine is almost completely gone also. It is beyond words incredible. When we stop drinking the poison and flush all of the toxins out of our system it is amazing how our body responds.💛

[@mariaawake4502]

@@christine11347 , yes without that crippling anxiety your quality of life really increases.

[@christine11347]

@@mariaawake4502 Agreed 💯

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@joannejohnson7006]

You are such a kind and inspiring soul. So grateful for you. ♥️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😊💯🙏☀️

[@christine11347]

💯💯💯

[@fireflymassholesunite3252]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@moonshineonme75013]

May Your Blessings Be Multiplied 🙏🏼 Exponentially.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 💯🙌🙏☀️

[@pennykruger2970]

Beautiful! Lots to look forward too!😀 Thank you Andrew😇

[@christine11347]

🙏❤️🙏☘️💯🕊️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Penny 💯🙏🙌😊

[@Nonni60]

I love green flags. I can now drink from my bottle of water in the middle of the nite and not get yelled out because I made to much noise with the plastic bottle.

[@vivianmoore3205]

I started noticing that today.😃 thank you!🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 💯🙌

[@craigsmith1365]

I like that gleam in your eyes - It looks good on ya.. peace of mind is so valuable. Pass it on when you achieve it...

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏🙌💯

[@1234lowkey]

“They actually look at you” 😂 Yeah, definitely been there. Glad I can laugh about how ridiculous it was now.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙏☀️😉

[@sheilamurry9875]

Yes,feeling more free to be ourselves

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful 💯🙌☀️

[@samstetson7252]

This video made me Smile, so much. 💚

[@lisadawson6981]

Great positive video thank you Andrew👍🏼😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Lisa..💯🙌🙏

[@josull]

What a true , beautiful and positive video

[@christine11347]

This is what this amazing community needs more of. Hope, light, love and positivity. We need to know the light is so much brighter once we put the hard and painful inner work into healing. This video does just that. It reminds us that greener pastures are ahead for all of us as we continue to move forward along the path💛☘️🌱💚

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 💯🙌🙏

[@almawoods8464]

I got to restock my bar so when friends come over I can offer them a cocktail or beer and enjoy one myself at the end of the day. There was to be NO alcohol in the house. My Narc was a fake alcoholic. He latched onto a "professionals only" AA group & conned several out of a lot of $, and used wanting to drink as leverage to get what he wanted. I suspected he wasn't a drunk because I've been with alcoholics my whole life, have their traits down pretty pat. (And several instances proved it). When I filed for divorce "I caused him to drink again"! He was surprised that tactic didn't work in changing my plans. And in the beginning I told him I have a problem with sweets --- now I no longer HAVE to keep ice cream & cookies in the house! Looking forward to experiencing green flags in a possible new relationship down a better path. If not, I'll enjoy them by myself! Great video Andrew!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Alma..💯🙏🙌😊

[@CaliGal_17]

You are refreshing. Thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯😊

[@melodyhumphrey4924]

Thank you. I needed that tonight!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Melody..💯🙏🙌

[@melodyhumphrey4924]

Thank you. 🙏💗

[@debhervol9758]

No drama. That is the key!!!! Since leaving my narc, My Mantra is Peace and Tranquility!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes..💯🙌🙏

[@christine11347]

It's so important to have a mantra.

[@jetstaring5803]

You are amazing Andrew! Thank you!🥰

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

So are you Jet..💯🙌🙏

[@spo5egy]

Thank you Andrew, hopefully this day will come when I can regain confidence again... I notice this when interacting with my parents and even exchanging messages with the children, we're missing each other and it's painful to see them like this, my Son sent me a message tonight to tell me that his mum is giving him the silent treatment because she tried to force a cv test on him (I'm personally against all these things, but each to their own and it's about choice) The thing is that it sounds like she's looking for new supply, many times when I tried grey rock and she couldn't get her way, she would have our daughter in tears and I know that there will come a day when the children resent her... Oh, I finally got a message back today from her (2 days) and she has conveniently cancelled the meeting with her parents and my parents present for tomorrow, deep down I knew that this would be the case. I replied back that it wasn't a problem and to please stay in touch, short and sweet because I know that she is looking for a reaction... She can stall for time all she wants, but I'm going to miss our kids more each day and I know that they will too, I haven't mentioned her to the kids or asked how she is because I know that she checks our daughter's phone, but I tell them that I love them every single day. Have a great weekend and sending out hugs to everyone.

[@christine11347]

It's so difficult when children are involved. You're doing great. Keep being present for them. Show them empathy. By reminding them everyday that you love them and not talking negatively about their mom you are providing them with a safe space to share their feelings with you. I know it is hard but in time they will see their mom for what she is. I am hoping you have a visitation schedule setup with them. Keep grey rocking. Sending you prayers of strength and peace. 🙏💪🕊️✨

[@spo5egy]

@@christine11347 Thank you so much, I'm just so grateful to find channels like these and people like yourself to talk to, it's all very mixed right now, thankfully I started to learn about narcissism back in 2019, but I never believed that my wife would go to this level of destruction and I'm really only beating myself up about our children right now... It's funny because our home was something that I put sweat, blood and tears in to buy and maintain and I spent years putting love into it on my own, I really did, but at the same time, over the years I learned that I couldn't plant a shrub or tree here or there and most of them withered and died in their pots because my wife would insist that it wasn't going to happen, just like photos in the home, there wasn't any, because they would be taken down and put into the cupboard, once I took the most beautiful photo of our daughter and had it blown up into a sepia print and I hung it on the wall, my wife took it down, put it in the cupboard and threw, literally somersaulted stuff on top of it and damaged it... I know it's probably hard to believe, but her traits have left me scared and yet, when I confronted her I was always made out to be either over reacting or nasty and aggressive... What I now feel over our home has nothing to do with money or material things, in a kind of weird way I actually feel free, but my heart is bleeding for the children because she is playing a game between myself and them and it would break my heart to have them look me in the eyes within years to come and say to me "Dad, why didn't you warn us?" There's a thing going on with our daughter especially and I always could feel my wife's rage within, we'd bake cakes together (I'm terrible at baking except making pizza), go to the shops, I taught her to drive btw (on private land) We shared so much in common as she is a petrolhead to the core... My wife hated this and would find ways to ruin our experiences together, instead of being happy for a Daddy and Daughter day out, it was so in my face at the time and I never even realised what was happening, maybe I should start a channel myself on awareness because the list goes on and on and I just hope that some soul out there can benefit from this information x

[@christine11347]

@@spo5egy Do what makes you happy and helps you move forward. Take time to heal and feel everything good and bad. Keep the faith and know that God will continue to guide you along your path. Know your truth and keep moving forward. Make new narc and drama free memories with your children. Take new beautiful sepia photos of them and hang them with pride in your new home. Stay blessed and remember you are not alone. 🙏🕊️✨💪

[@spo5egy]

@@christine11347 ❤❤❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending you healing energy and strength HipStar.. you are on the path.. you are doing great 🙏🙌💯☀️

[@jaygauld85]

I love this video, I've been watching so many videos about what, why, how narcs operate, which is enlightening and has opened my eyes to the dark truth, but it's also sad to listen to, it is vital to learn, but heartbreaking to discover the 'love-bomb' was a lie, a strategy. This video is refreshing, happy, like a new flower sprouting! 😁 Thank you so much! We are survivors!

[@christine11347]

I agree 💯. Life is meant to be lived. We absolutely have to understand narcissism to become educated and to begin to heal. Many times though it takes you down a rabbit hole in which there are a lot of tears. By mixing in encouraging positive messages of hope, healing and encouragement we are reminded that our chains have been removed and there is a whole big beautiful world out there that is waiting for us to live our best life to the fullest now that we are free. This video reminds us that the narscistic relationship was a part of our past that taught us necessary lessons that we learned but it will never define us. Nor does it have any place in our present or future.☘️💚🌱🌺🌷🌸🌹🌻🌼💐

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 💯🙌🙏💪

[@janetsmith9958]

🎉 so many things ( green flags)❤🎉

[@angela2496]

I can laugh out loud and be silly without a cloud of doom stare shot at me for being happy. I’m free! It’s been 6 weeks and I feel so light. Bless up! Glow up! Demons be gone. ❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing Angela 💯🙌🙏😊

[@angela2496]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you for the concise, practical and positive delivery of a serious topic.

[@tathe3786]

I allways was in fear sunday in bed up to 8.30 for that he told me … we are not equal because you are sleeping too long or stay in bed for coffee ☕️… we are so diffent that can’t work….or I am eating Karotts in the morning and he bought me some, but Once there were 2-3 left and got old, he told me that that does not work, if you want to have a carrots in the morning you have to bring one of your own or pay the half of it Here!! He, after the Love bombing, searched for things we are different and made a drama out of it!!!! Always telling me that we are to different that this could work…. I was so under Pressure because of that! And i could not talk is over…, if I try he pulls his head against the wall… that made me stop talking… the worse about all was that he told me after the discard that he always was under such a pressure because I reactes uncalculated… that he could not handle Any more…. What??? He turned it completely around what Happens… unbelievable

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@debrabolteheald5132]

Possibly your best video yet!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Debra..🙌🙏💯

[@christine11347]

It was a greatest hits all-star combo. Amazing video. ❤️

[@nancydowling4049]

Yes they are 'half way out the door'with most every conversation. Yes being IN THE MOMENT would be priceless! Some things I will do, when the flags start to turn all green...My mind will be free, no fog will overshadow me. My heart will be light, my woes won't consume me. My soul will become a space that is light, airy and serene... I will check out, Habitat for Humanity, take more day trips exploring the planet, spend weekends cooking my favorite food, take spontaneous drives to the beach, for a walk and to breathe in the salt air( for my own health). I will eat ALL of my healthy food without complaints and be grateful to have it. Lose 10 lbs worth of BS instantly! I will plant more flowers and pluck more weeds ( out of my life) I will keep a space open for creativity. I will swing on a hammock for an hour. Visit more people. Volunteer. Learn something new, shouldn't we all, each and every day? I will give myself the grace of knowing I am perfectly imperfect, and be okay with it. Thank you for another thought provoking message. I look forward to connecting with more and more people in this community.🌩️🌧️🌈☀️🌺🌠💜

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Nancy..🙌🙏💯

[@susiemarkle6908]

Trigger! “You don’t have to work out for 3 hours every day “ omg that was me… but now I am surrounded by green flags! Yesterday I had children in my car (which my narc used to own and was very obsessive about keeping it pristine) and one of the girls spilled something on the floor of the backseat and I had a good chuckle over that. Ha ha. I have a great happy peaceful life without him! Thanks Andrew!! Your videos are super helpful

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful growth and progress Susie 🙌🙏💯💪

[@caragentile6060]

Thank you Andrew. I appreciate you. ♥️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Cara..💯🙏🙌

[@TheFrogmaster7]

I love your positive encouragement, thank you 🙏 ❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@karenzilverberg4699]

Thanks, Andrew! 🕯👍🏼 Illuminating! 👍🏼 🙏 🎶 🌞 🎶 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Karen 💯🙏🙌

[@karenzilverberg4699]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🎶 🌞 🎶

[@robinsonkim6539]

Beautiful message that helped me tremendously to see 🙈 how my life can and will be again. 😲 Andrew, I am on my way.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful Robinson 🙏🙌😊

[@margaretjohnson838]

Morning Andrew thank you for your words. I just moved an I feel free an happy. I'm sleeping an eating so much better made new friends an it's lovely. I'm so free an happy. I'd it wasn't for your videos I'm not sure I could've done it without your words. Thank you for videos I'm thankful for you. Have a lovely day.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always Margaret 💯🙏🙌☀️😊

[@kathleenjesse1206]

Bless you once again Andrew. When you mentioned about the pets, that really struck me because that happened to me. Thank you Love your beautiful pictures.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Kathleen 💯🙌🙏

[@beckyrishel8935]

So helpful. its so good to hear wording like "always had a gut feeling and you either go against it, me because of my own insecurities or you go with your gut and when I did, I was glad I did. Untill I lost myself due to narcissistic people in my immediate family and marraige. Thank you Andrew! "Yay Yay Yay to Green Flags!!!!!!!!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌☀️

[@marybarton5651]

Everything you have said about the red flag vs the green flags are spot on...this is exactly how it was for me in the narcissistic relationship. I am glad it's over.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏🙌💯

[@kitsune7351]

I needed to hear this today 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful 💯🙌☀️

[@bradmcewen]

The rushing every minute of the day even at work to get finished, to rush home to feeds pets, to rush to get bathed, to rush to order food, to rush to narc condo headquarters, to rush its on time delivery still warm. Then the dining was anything but enjoyable. Poor girl must have been starving as you witness the inhaling of food. Then hurry hurry, " I've got to return what I got....last night". Repeat that ten times. Point is Andrew is dead on right. Thinking back I'm amazed to this day of those subjugated couple years. Its a wonder you live through it. I think when the supply is good, I mean really good, the opportunity for a mega dose of adrenaline & dopamine is so addicting, its a spin out of control until someone implodes. Usually the supply. Worn out, used up, done. Above all I recognize this was my fault, not hers. Never allow yourself to be used in exchange for some future faking or a dysfunctional hug or for any reason. No matter what you've been through, a narcissist will make it worse. Yep, now its all green flags as any yellow flags keep you from seeing any red ones.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message thank you Brad 💯💯🙏🙌💪💪☀️☀️

[@theresaconley5930]

Thanks Andrew. Great Video!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Theresa 🙌💯💯😊

[@KarinsOrchids]

Lovely positive video! Have a lovely weekend 🥰

[@christine11347]

Wishing you a lovely weekend also Karin! Do things that make you happy and smile 😊💛☘️🌈

[@KarinsOrchids]

@@christine11347 That's what we normally do when not having to do with a blood sucking natc. Take care! ⚘️🌷❤️‍🩹

[@christine11347]

@@KarinsOrchids Absolutely

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 💯🙌🙏

[@eileenallen1178]

Hi Andrew. More powerful and guiding words from you. I would like to say that I really had to get to ground zero, examine and re-examine all of the debris left after the fire, before I could finally say, “well, I have looked everything over three or four times. Yup. The proof is right here! He ‘s a malignant narcissist! It’s time to move on.” It’s the point of surrendering to what is, and moving in a new and far better direction. Once that bottom is found, real progress can be made. Could not have gotten here without your honesty, amazing integrity, and compassion for all of us who have gone through the fire. Thank you so very much, and blessings always.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌💪

[@kathleengutmann3680]

I am 74 and lived with a narcissist for 53 yrs. We were married and I thought we were a team until the physical abuse. I went to court and he was found guilty of criminal domestic violence. I educated myself with u tube video's from Andrew and others. What a waste of a life, but indo respect myself enough to do something about it. Divorced 3 yrs and he still texts me. I don't respond. Andrew is great.