The Hardest Things About Being a Mom

[@ISOLUVMAL]

Tamara is so classy and well spoken❤️❤️❤️

[@supterify]

Very true,

[@arjent1876]

MallarieForever I love your comment but it is spelled Tamera

[@javiruiz4405]

It's because she is half white!

[@DigitalJada]

Javi Ruiz some of the most classless women i’ve met were not people of color. “class” does not discriminate.

[@DigitalJada]

ᵀʰʳᵉᵉ ᵒᶠ ᵃ ᴷⁱⁿᵈ i-i...God bless you...

[@ashleighleahh8838]

They looking like power rangers

[@marfilforteza]

lmao made my day!!!

[@JaynaDior25]

lmaooo

[@kamissadiarra5074]

Ashleigh Yoder LMAOOOO

[@sharelleoliver9868]

Jayanna Banks

[@yaddiskonjo]

Ashleigh Yoder bahahahahahahahahahahahah

[@Misslovlii14]

"How am I gonna talk about him to his friends?!" LMAO I Love Adrienne! She's speaking the truth though lol.

[@FEONH999]

That what I like about Tamar she's a mother and a working mom but I never hear her complain

[@Younggal1]

Cause she had nanny’s

[@DearKeith]

I will never bring a child into this world. I simply don't want that obligation/responsibility. Call me selfish, but I love my "me time" all the time. I like having that choice of whether I will or won't deal with someone else, and not having that guilt weigh on my shoulder if I chose not to.

[@Brianab3ar]

It doesn't make you selfish, it would be selfish if you brought a child into the world and didn't give enough attention to it.

[@DearKeith]

Brianab3ar I couldn't agree more. I tell people that all the time.

[@Brianab3ar]

Keith P. You are not obligated to have a child it is a choice. Anyone who says otherwise is crazy.

[@DearKeith]

***** I'm gay and don't have sex with women, so you tell me...

[@DearKeith]

***** I'm still a male with sperm, and surrogacy is still a thing; thus, me bringing a child into this world. See how that works?

[@2write2sing2dance]

I love Tamar's answer about life not stopping after having kids. Also love Tamera's real answer about reminding herself to care/remember herself as a woman. I'm a natural giver too (which is why being married and then having kids is important to me). But I was a pushover for years, giving to everybody, not taking time for myself, and I felt the effects of it. These days, I do take time to groom, treat, and look after myself. Its very important for me as a woman. And I expect to keep this up for the rest of my life. .

[@ElleVRosegetthepicture]

I had my first child at the age of 25. That was considered old. In hindsight that was still young. I love my children but starting at 30 would have probably been better. I was a better mother than a wife to be totslly honest. Building a bond with your spouse is equally important as being a good parent. Great topic.

[@laurabirch3792]

I struggled with mommy guilt and finding who I was and getting the person I was back that I was before having a baby. I was so consumed with just being mommy that 2 years down the line I had nothing of myself...that's now improving!

[@helenf.a1710]

Adrianne and Tamera look so good!!

[@jacklynnapon830]

My mom loves her me time. Having five children, Two older brothers, Me, who is 18, A moody thirteen year old girl and a four year old, i don't know why she doesn't just run away 😭 And I totally understand, we are a hassle.

[@willh8682]

TAMERA NEEDS HER OWN DAMN SHOW!!! I love her

[@kbell3964]

I would watch that!

[@geraldbitch]

+Patrice B ME 2

[@hmm101alot]

i couldn't see the fly, lol. so i re-watched and if your interested check out 2:52 - 2:58

[@mariabrown6926]

Lmfao thank you 😂 I was squinting at that cake so hard trying to find a sign!😂

[@Aishya476]

We appreciate you!

[@JLenox]

Tamar's wigs have improved..SIGNIFICANTLY.

[@immanuel6117]

Loni workin her wig to 🤗

[@kintarri74]

TAMAR IS RATCHET;BUT I STILL LOVE HER!

[@tyronemaynard653]

you tried it

[@tyronemaynard653]

+ORION QUEST love

[@javiruiz4405]

Except her attitude that's why she got fired

[@Andrea_Walsh]

Tamera! I needed that. I gave myself into being a mom I forgot about me time. I went out with my friends without my daughter and I didn't realize how much I needed it!

[@hashtagmomsjournal]

It's so necessary. We also have to teach them that we are human and model self-love and self-care.

[@Yae391]

Loni's hair looks great here, this color really compliments her skin tone, she looks beautiful.

[@deem132]

Tamara out here preachin

[@careztv3720]

lol the camera men spotted them flies and tried to switch to the other camera REAL quick! 😂

[@nellyluscious]

I would love to be a mom! I'm in no rush but I do want to be able to be active with my children. But I am focused on living my life and getting my goals accomplished. I never want to deprive my kid/children of time because of indecisive decisions.

[@Missvelnel]

Tamera could have her own show...

[@mariannimoh9514]

i love her but it would be boring af. shes boring material but i think her sister would be great

[@deejay1461]

youre ones on those haters who loves to compare the two and hopes tia always wins lol

[@B3autifulFreeSpirit]

Your life doesn't stop being a mom . Only if you allow n choose it too! Being a mom is a new life !(:

[@gabizongags8525]

What Tamera said really resonated with me. I’m happy this video popped up for me to watch. I’ve struggled with the same things Tamera. 💕

[@JRae1]

Them flies just going wild on that cake

[@tyronemaynard653]

I know right

[@ilubyou13]

Yeah, I don't think I'll ever have kids. It's too much responsibility for me because I have so much issues, just with myself. (which I'm trying to work on) And even with how the world is now, I would NOT want my kid to grow up in a world like this. :/

[@CayLily]

Preach the world has gone to crap nowadays just sad. No Way would i want to bring a life into this

[@cici2602]

Love your comment and your pic :)

[@ilubyou13]

Thanks Caroline Burnett If you're wondering, it's Jin and V from a K pop boy group, they're called BTS :} (you might already know though hahah)

[@femaleking493]

FlawlessRolie and you commented this when bts wasn't that popular.

[@sabrinag19891]

check out 2:50 anyone else notice the huge fly crawling on the cake lol

[@rosieyang15]

They all look like power rangers with them one colored outfits. The Real Rangers. Lol 😂

[@JCole-fg3rr]

I honestly believe Tamar was not lying, she just wanted a reason to disagree with Jeannie. It happens to every woman when they get married and have children. Tamera was so transparent, vulnerable, and most importantly HONEST!

[@thickjai18]

Being a mom period is the hardest job in the world, but if you are a nurturing woman then it is your destiny and a HUGE part of your identity.

[@shayl.5702]

4:15 ANYONE ELSE SEE THE FLY ON THE CAKE!!!!!!!!!!

[@Mel__21]

you go Tamera ! specking the truth 💯

[@lovelyone7485]

Omg, glad they hit this topic!!! Yay, naw but forreal it's very relatable because as women we are always wife, mother, and then just a plain woman please that Dnt never hardly happen to feel like a great, awesome, classy, beautiful lady. It's so important to a woman to have that separation sometimes it means so much!! To be those things are wonderful but when that's all you do is nurture and tend to your family and forget that you are still a gorgeous, talented, amazing woman sometimes you beat yourself up and have a hard time copping and understanding yourself as an individual. It can take a toll on any persons life if they don't make time for self period, it make you feel selfish tho if you get the chance to focus on just you but you only get one you as we know of anyways lol, so go for it and enjoy life!! Don't get it twisted tho love , share, and do what's necessary for your family but don't forget yourself can't stress it enough!!!

[@lovindatJoan]

I really miss when these talks actually helped us as women. I hope they bring more of this to the shows today.

[@Kameaux]

Did y'all peep the fly on the pie or whatever it is? lol

[@mariabrown6926]

Adrienne always got those song quotes on deck tho 😂😂

[@wakilcoleman8210]

We all want Tamar to have an other baby !

[@hashtagmomsjournal]

Love to hear these conversations and most importantly that the balance is different for each of us, but we have to acknowledge the feelings and reflect on what balance we want.

[@nfvy8111]

*Yall ever notice that Tamera is always humble bragging lmfao*

[@naestalgic553]

i love the dynamic with the colors .

[@helenatube]

Adrienne cracked me up in the beginning when she was chewing, squinting and nodding along while Tamar spoke, meanwhile everyone else was all dainty and listening intently without eating 😅

[@Denise-ob8dk]

Helena Adrienne loves some food...lol

[@ashb.9259]

I am like this. I feel I give all my time to my boyfriend and baby, that sometimes I lose caring for myself. Even when I do go shopping, I shop for the house or my boys. But recently my boyfriend and I went on a trip to Vegas and it felt good to get away, that now I want to do that twice a year :)

[@erionabowie3564]

5:15 there is a fly on the cake

[@redvelvetcakeYUM]

Jeannie's makeup 😍 yass!

[@rialignd]

bitch it's a fly on the cake lmfao at 3:34

[@bowiehs]

Loni is too crazy. "I googled myself and I came out as an exotic dancer." LMBOO!

[@chinyereblackett4975]

Me time is necessary, because you end up not giving your best therefore giving your worst out of tiredness and frustration.

[@Kirwina]

I am glad to see this clip, Tamera talks contantly about her husband and children and yet still she said this in 2015. Tamera needs to look back at this clip and take note. She needs to remember that she is still a woman outside of being a mom and a wife

[@jackieheartseevee838]

TAMARS HAIR IS ON POINT HUNNY☝️ (nd i love her lips this episode, juicy juicy juicy)

[@regalbarbie]

2:51 y'all look at the cake😱 OMG and Adrianne ate it😢

[@TheAlreadytaken24]

I like that.. been thinking about becoming a mom.. considering it ...

[@MaLikaNaijimah]

So we're just going to ignore that roach crawling all over that cake? Lol! Adrienne? Nooooooooo, you ate all of yours too! I guess this is Valentine's Day karma for sending them cockroaches to the exes. KIDDING! I LOVE THIS SHOW.

[@Piluttatingeling]

i didn't see no roach O_o. Maybe it's a kind of humor I don't get :P

[@TeeTheGemini]

You are SOOOO observant! I had to rewind...so gross LOL!!

[@youaintneverlied]

I saw more than one and I think Jeannie did, too. That's why she readjusted the cake at 3:56 ...

[@Piluttatingeling]

Gosh ! Tell me where !

[@nia5pink]

It was actually a fly lmao

[@Nicole9605]

Adrienne ate all of her cake. She's always eating. Lol. I love that she not ashamed about it either.

[@charleechafiare90]

Loni is not funny, it irritates me. She feels like because she's a comedian she needs to lie on every segment for laughs as opposed to being honest. I feel like I don't even know anything about her, because unlike the other hosts she inauthentic ... Just for a few pity laughs 😒

[@JamesCM86]

Great observation and so true

[@gothiccyclopse]

i've always felt the same way, she tries so hard to be funny and it's annoying af

[@jenniferzaino1532]

WillyWonka hvbnvn vnghi

[@hannahwalmer1124]

Still is like this and I just can't get passed it. :/, wish they would have replaced her to be honest with someone more willing to open up and not just be all ears

[@Yas.min3000]

That's all of them, lmao

[@darleneramdin532]

that fly at 4:16 tho!!! an adrienne done eat all her cake ahahah

[@adversetoconverse]

That thing in the middle of the table has all types of flies on it. Just nasty. Bloop.

[@jodiii122]

It's a Mardi Gras king cake! That's what it's supposed to look like!

[@adversetoconverse]

jodiii122 Is flies a part of the recipe?

[@jodiii122]

adversetoconverse ohh yea, you're right.. Definitely didn't notice at first... Yuck!

[@HaiIvy]

Wow, I thought you were talking about the guest woman. LOL.

[@shabbyLaw]

PriceyGum lmao, I thought he was taking about Loni

[@saabriagreene8876]

I like how Adrienne is never afraid to eat when they have food on the show. It always seems like she's the only one eating.

[@Justice1857]

love loni's hair

[@iiRideeeexsolo]

Tamar: "So that means I need to have another one?" GURRRL ! Have another child already ! We know you want one you are not fooling anybody !!

[@NateeeGP]

I just love Tamera...

[@marleyautumn6805]

I need to start watching this show Soon to be a mom but not the reason I want to watch it lol

[@mahershalalbaz]

i like listening to tamera and jeanie mai actually

[@anastasiahulse5403]

❤️ this show!

[@ElleVRosegetthepicture]

Tamar looks beautiful in yellow. Tamera hairstyle flatters her face. Jeannie looks superb in that green dress. Adrienne is cute as usual.

[@1me1life1love]

It makes me sad to hear ppl in the comments say they dont want children... 😔 Knowing the love I have for other ppls kids I can only imagine how in love I'd be with my own.

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

Yeah but thats hiw you feel about kids not everyone feels that way or wont kids. Dont you hear about parents killing their kids because not everyone is mommy material or have motherly instinct or love. Some people like kids and some ppl see them as a hinder or burden. Thats just life. I love my nieces and nephews to death but I am so not rushing to have any at all.

[@EvesGonnaEve]

Kids aren't for everyone. No one should be made to feel bad about how they feel...everyone is different. And I much rather ppl realize kids aren't for them and dnt have them instead of having them and not taking care of them.

[@PureSparkles22]

a mothers job is never done

[@zimkhithashinya7785]

Tamera is so relatable

[@kbell3964]

Loni's hair is very cute!

[@tryin2beehappygolucky431]

I love that they are all open about themselves, 1:50, but Tamera loves to talk about herself, and it's like a "broken record", she was all about "i do this, and i, i do that. I, I'm, i am, me, my."

[@LIZZyNIqUZZ10]

watching this while im relaxing in my bath ,and all kids are asleep! #MeTime

[@MsCarter8719]

Who's going to Google her after watching this ? 🙋

[@lovelyone7485]

Say it Tamera, yassss!

[@shaya550]

Also, Tamar seems like a wonderful mother.

[@griizzy]

I Didn't see anything about Aidens Mom!

[@clarke4400]

i think or hope she means picture with she and Aden, because that's what mostly pops up

[@darleneramdin532]

Michie Oo i only see pics of her in images. i got tired of scrolling

[@clarke4400]

Darlene Ramdin a i think she means there are mostly pictures of her and Aden not the actual phrase "Aden's mom"

[@darleneramdin532]

lol!!!!!! of course i know this. and im saying i did not see those pics! *facepalm*

[@clarke4400]

Darlene Ramdin i didnt realize ma i thought you meant the phrase aden's mom but ok

[@JarataJaffa]

Loni the realest lol she said you want a baby Vincent wants another baby. Just have another baby! 😂😂😂

[@raquelsolis9824]

Im currently pregnant with my 2nd child and I feel so bad because my son will be 3 yrs old when my baby is born. I'm always home with him and I feel like he's gonna hate sharing the attention but ik he will get used to it. He loves other kids when we see them but if I hold another baby he wants me to hold him. I'm so scared but I love both babies equally they r my world.

[@curious17589]

Tamera, you sound so much stronger now, go head gurl!

[@smileeday]

I love how Adrienne is casually eating the cake

[@test804]

how do you google yourself on twitter tamera?

[@GabrielTheMagolorMain]

Maybe hashtag and her name?

[@MissGlamarellaaa]

have another one Tamar! lol

[@lucyaudrey733]

I hope Tamar will have a baby just like her!!!

[@joshuamcdowell5782]

No!!! Two Tamars won't be good for Vince.

[@lucyaudrey733]

Tamar having a girl will allow her to see just how she behaves

[@Blkdymnd94]

why was there a fly on the centerpiece in the middle of the table?

[@empressannika2589]

Tamera Mowry-Housley=The voice of reason

[@shaya550]

I love kids, but its not for me to be a parent at this point in time. Honestly, it takes courage to deprive yourself of motherhood, it just means you're mature enough to know you can't be the best mother you can be yet and you have to be the best version of yourself before you become one. Find yourself, live your life for you long enough before you give your life for another. I'm sick and tired of mothers who bring children into the world and neglect them. Fucking stop it.

[@yuvireyes7600]

i’m confused on what the topic is. is it about struggling with your identity after becoming a mom or being friends with only your partners friends?

[@Tuamotu]

Roach at 2:50. And it looked like Tamera noticed it too. Dang. The Real is keeping it real with no insect repellant in the studio.

[@austinfrombustop]

Fly*

[@emilioluci15]

It was a fly.

[@GabrielTheMagolorMain]

I get guilt, but mostly I just miss my son!

[@Glitterpop785]

In that other clip about the mommy guilt, didnt Loni say Jeannie just wants to be part of the conversation? It went from Jeannie asking Tamera and Tamar about their lives to Loni talkimg about hers ? Hypocritical much ?

[@perryh.5306]

My ONLY mission in life is to make my mom completely happy! Even if I suffer...If she is happy, I'm happy! I'm 15 and I obey my mom to the max, she is the one that is in total control. Everyday, I come home from school and the 1 st thing I do, is give her my phone...don't want any distractions, then I do my homework, then all the chores for that day, which must be done to my moms satisfaction. Then I do whatever she tells me to do with no back talk or arguing. On the weekends, I do want she wants me to do, Before I have my "Free time"

[@TatiPINKBoss]

I know I'm not the only one who saw the bug crawling on whatever they were eating 😳😂😂😂

[@jumpstartfamily]

Mommies need their me time.

[@nivyrivera]

I love Tamar

[@boongatrevino199]

They need a show for men that celebrates good men since women are doing it

[@briyannamcbride1570]

Was I the only one who saw that fly on the fake potatoes at 3:27

[@taliatillison6303]

who else saw that fly on the cake😂

[@Taysterz]

HAHAHA TAMAR AT 3:40

[@darleneramdin532]

i love how adrienne uses every opportunity to eat lmao... she stays hungry

[@JaynaDior25]

they looking like power rangers with all the different color

[@olaraay]

tamera should be the anchor

[@abbyd064]

That is soooooooo disgusting. Why are there bugs on the cake. Watch from 3:35 onward.

[@rochbramwell]

I didn't even notice first but that is horrible I think jeannie seen it because she moved the cake

[@MysTaria87]

lol I just noticed that.. must be really hot in there or something because that's gross.

[@jo9882]

At the end of the night somebody my get they life Lmao Tamar u a fool girl

[@khristainnugin9597]

Who saw the fly on 4:16

[@zhanebeard9834]

bring back the tia and tamera show or the tamera show