The Hermit Phase Of Awakening (The VOID)

[@mattpallett1]

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[@freedomtownn]

Oh god, this is exactly where I am, I told a friend that it feels like I fought a war and won, but now I have to build a new city but I am in the middle phase where I just feel exhausted and unmotivated.

[@Thehealingdiaries1234]

How are you now ?

[@cosmicallygiggling122]

Thank you so much. This is exactly where I am. Everything was stripped away, my job, housing situation, my comfortable Colorado life, and my friends. There’s a tendency to redefine myself immediately but my intuition tells me to just let go and be. Thanks for your video ❤️ it really helped and resonated

[@mattpallett1]

Thank you for watching🙏 Yesss the deconstruction process is difficult for the ego, but it's so essential that we really embrace and sink into it. I'm going through another deconstruction phase myself rn and it is uncomfortable but I know and FEEL the gifts it is bringing so i also feel it is a divine gift... i love just being in the void when I'm in the void.. would rather be no where else... and I love being inspired and taking action when I'm in that phase... its freeing to choose to be where you are as if you created it❤

[@СЕРАФИМ-й9л]

Same)

[@solomonbeau9637]

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[@davidjaxx8414]

@Solomon Beau Yup, have been using Instaflixxer for since december myself :D

[@mayurraut5]

Hey I noticed your comment was from 3 years ago..just curious as to know how did things turn out for you since you posted this

[@mysticalheart8107]

I am finding great peace in living, in a general way, the Christian eremitical life. God bless.

[@rodrigobribiesca7098]

Brother, I am going through this chapter and I am a Highly sensitive person who is stuck in needing to finish college.. I am one year left but my soul is telling me to stop and my ego is telling me: Dude you are almost done! Surrendering to the idea of finishing my studies brings light to my soul but fear to my ego and there is a fight all the time. You describe it perfectly, thank you so much for sharing.

[@kingofthebingogame]

Did you finish?

[@doublepisces]

I am in this stage for a 2.5 months now. For someone who was loaded with emotions (Pisces) and reacted from emotions always, this emptiness inside of my chest is the weirdest feeling ever. I can’t find any before known feelings, not even for my friends and family. I’m just empty and observing what is going on around me. And I definitely do learn to surrender. In the end that’s all we can actually do in life. Having control is just an illusion.

[@TheSzutekina]

Same Im also a Pisces I lost all my friends and I cant romantic relationships too, I needed this because after purging with my scorpio soulmate my heart got blocked and i felt so so empty. In deep down I know I need this but Im getting older and I want to get married and this just doesnt helps

[@doublepisces]

櫻井翔エミ I understand you for sure. I went into Void after my Twin Flame broke up with me in late June, that’s how it started. The craziest is when I’m crying, I don’t feel anything inside of me, it’s like my head wants to cry and all those different scenarios rising up and after 30 min it’s like something cuts that energy and everything shifts and I’m not crying anymore, I’m telling myself I’m fine, than I’m crying again... Who wasn’t in this stage yet would probably say I’m completely insane. And sometimes I think it too. It’s so frustrating at times.

[@TheSzutekina]

@@doublepisces I'm completely feeling this too, I don't know why but I'm crying just for things that I don't really care about, or scenarios that I think will never happen... I don't like this but I know It will end someday and I can't do anything with it

[@chosa6158]

same im a cancer

[@Thehealingdiaries1234]

How you are feeling now ?

[@saferspaces]

I am not the doer! Thats what the hermit phase is about. Thank you for this :)

[@amanda-kg2xd]

this is exactly what happened. idk what i want. i have no desire/drive anymore. i'm jobless, single. still, idk what i want. but it's like... i know i'm on the right path that i have no anxiety, no rush. my heart chakra feels just fine. so yeah, i'll just surrender. do what i can do to balance myself, live as it is. thanks for sharing!

[@mayurraut5]

Hey...how did things turn out for you?

[@amanda-kg2xd]

@@mayurraut5 i got a really great job that i'd never thought i got lol. it's more than i can imagine. still single tho but i guess i'll surrender, too. just have faith and follow ur intuition, it does lead us to the path we belong, things that meant to be ours. universe DO have a plan for us 🙂

[@TheKaraqi4]

I’ve been going through this for maybe over a year now. After I closed my last chapter, I lost my direction and didn’t develop any new goals. Just wanted to be and enjoy freedom for a while. But I didn’t really get much out of it. Then I tried to pursue new conventional goals to at least be doing something but all I got was rejections, fails and delays. My ego was suffering. Now I have just given up and decided to just be and see where I end up. Fortunately, I can afford doing nothing. It’s kinda boring and lonely but resisting it didn’t really help, just upset me and gave me more anxiety.

[@mattpallett1]

Dopamine detox sit with your heart ❤️

[@electricnirvana3499]

Same here! 😊

[@laylahalgharib3150]

Your eyes are beautiful!

[@Buddhamaster44]

Hey Matthew, thnks for the vid brother, can relate to everything, been in my awakening for 6 years now and now are going through my 4th dark night, and the void... indeed.. this one is hard.. but what you forget to mention is the fear that comes up with losing your old self, the ego has nothing to grasp onto, all kinds of thoughts and emotions are coming up to purge... the fear and not knowing...can be very uncomfortable , at least that is what I feel now.....lots if pressure in my heart chakra...I surrender.. we have to, there is no other way... but I just also want to mention it is not all that " romantic" when you are in the storm... for those who are right now... hold on ! Namaste Erik

[@karla683]

Gosh my career is gone. I worked so hard for a reputation and I left everything behind and two people went above and beyond to try to destroy it. I tried to start a new one and that went so horrendous that I felt like my 3 years old self being abused by my parents. I’m just sitting at home doing what I can, for some reason the minimum I’m doing I’m able to pay my bills, I have no major problems, but I feel stagnant, i feel like a loser because I don’t feel I’m doing enough. I have fear, everything i know was taken from me. I don’t know what is coming next and what I need to do, nothing is happening, everyday is the same I’m trying to get new things to happen but every attempt fails. Everything is moving slow and that is scary.

[@mattpallett1]

Tender with your heart ❤️ rest there and move from there

[@tynaangelici3023]

This is where I am😢😩I distract myself by watching videos

[@olivierantoine8613]

Someone should talk about the 'shut up phase of awakening', you know, it's this stage in wich you're no longer able to watch spirituality videos or read books of same kind and when someone starts to speak about those topics you just say 'Oh shut up please".

[@iamtamadtv6018]

I am in this situation right now. I block bashar and other spiritual teacher because I don't want to watch spiritual videos anymore

[@olivierantoine8613]

@@iamtamadtv6018 i also blocked spirituality videos but not only, also every kind of video i used to watch to entertain myself because i've had enough wasting my time with nonsense, sick of that fantasy of escaping from just being here feeling what i feel, nothing. So i'm done with kinda everything, i just stay put,wondering how long it's gonna last. I guess my partner think i'm depressed or something...i don't know what to do and i don't even know it that question should be asked.

[@winterseyfer9056]

This was so helpful. I just went through the process of surrendering for the first time. My higher self, working through me, made me stop pursuing a Fulbright, pulled me away from my connections to the community, and made me stop trying to improve for improvement’s sake. It felt really weird and so unlike me because I’ve always been a do-er… but I just got so tired of arguing with myself that I surrendered. It brought up a ton of ego-based anxiety that I’m now feeling, but I’m trying to let it be there. So uncomfy though! Other parts of my life fell away before this, and this was the last part of the stripping away.

[@pwetty4r4]

what you said about the cycle of getting all of this energy and the having the ego step in and then suddenly everything goes to shit again...lol YES i really need to hear that, thats what I've been going through

[@mattpallett1]

I'm happy the video resonated with you! Thank you for watching:)

[@MarcusAnderson0308]

Wow didnt expect that! Really good explanation of this --- going from "do" to "be" - realizing and liking the space. Thanks! you helped me realize the opportunity this phase really is.

[@123433iloveyou]

I've been in the void for about a month now and at the moment I'm feeling lost and confused but at the same time feeling quite content with just sitting in silence

[@rachaelkaydonna]

This particular video really resonated with me because this is exactly my life lesson right now. Learning to surrender and trust - be in the flow. Thank you for your light 🙏💛🌻

[@anticsbc]

This took me 25 years.

[@o.j5526]

Omg that is exactly what l m going through ❤🙏

[@JilliansNL]

thankyou, for the first time in at least 12 months I finally got some resonance and knowing. I've been in this space before (my first awakening) but this time it's been so long, and scary. I love that you speak especially about letting go of the doing.. because that's what I've been feeling so much. I just can't do anything that needs effort anymore. And I don't feel inspired too do anything either. (except get some fresh air and taking care of myself lol. Even most meditations (doing in thinking meditations if that makes sense are feeling like too much effort). I've felt very alone in this state and it's a huge relief to know I'm not the only one being or who went through this stage. It's really helpful. Thank you!

[@its_Adam_Kabylsky]

Thanks so much your video helped me a lot 💝🙏

[@mattpallett1]

You’re so welcome! All credit to the divine mother ❤️

[@CoreIntegrity]

A nice exploration of the cycles. We have found there are cycles of awakening to Life, where changes and expansions can happen, and then there is an "out-breath" of consciousness, which is calling us to meet the empty nature of all things, as death... seems to be hard for the ego to both surrender into the flame of life, and also into the emptiness. I have found that the death-cycles call for an emptying out through the head, letting go in the mind (which has involved painful headaches), and the surrender to life happens through an expansion in the chest/heart. Love/agree with what you said about the falling in love with the nothing, and the space, as much as the love of life!

[@mattpallett1]

Beautiful thank you🙏

[@nirfar334]

Tnx for this matt..

[@mattpallett1]

You're welcome Nir Far! Thank you for watching🙏

[@fairygrrl45]

So, do I need to quit my job? Go live in the woods? Stop talking to people? Because that’s all I feel like doing. But then I’ll be homeless and that doesn’t seem right. I keep trying to let go into this and I can for however long my current space and commitments allow, but inevitably something comes back in to distract.

[@rodrigobribiesca7098]

Hey friend, did you quit your job? IDk what to do

[@jbgoth]

@@rodrigobribiesca7098 going through it now. Looking for insight since mine has been missing.

[@bobbyball1057]

I think a lot of people feel like this…this environment & society which man has created is not at all natural…it’s killing us all from the inside out. We have all been programmed to believe that this is how life should be. This world is a mess.

[@theodoreestienne5492]

You re just so so good at putin words onto this really. Such a nice smile You just describe it so damn good. Thank you for that. Right in a long hermit phase on my side. Nothingness truely. As you say, nothing from outside will make me feel better nor feed my being. Thank you dude

[@maxeichmann10]

🙏🏼

[@Thisisrenae]

Mine was around 6 months. The shadow work after that was crazy hardx

[@nicknardini5469]

This helps me a lot thank u

[@marinagentilcore]

Thank you, I am going through this right now. This was really validating and helpful!

[@projectstudio1429]

It's wonderfully explained.

[@themantrawomankey8514]

I love your channel dude. Do more. 💚

[@mattpallett1]

Thanks! Will do!

[@Themostmercifulrabb]

So great matt, thankyou 🙏🌸

[@mattpallett1]

You are so welcome🤗

[@mariapazcarvacho3463]

Thanks for sharing, it helps a lot 😁

[@mattpallett1]

You're so welcome:)

[@spiritualsniper8776]

I made comment number 303🦋 Awesome video!

[@mattpallett1]

Thank you, Christina!

[@ioatma8204]

I am in the middle of this situation. It has been going on for years and intensified more and more but the last 6 months its been unreal. I am in a new place, new country where I don't know people no family no work no social life. By my self in nature. Sometimes my mind is getting so crazy frustrated but there is nothing I can do, noone to turn to, nothing works except doing nothing, Scary.

[@mattpallett1]

Prayer really helps me

[@ioatma8204]

@@mattpallett1 Thank you!

[@aquietsky]

Curious, can you find this "I" that is going through this? What do you find when you look for it?

[@ioatma8204]

No@@aquietsky I can't find it. There are feelings, thoughts but no I. Getting there!

[@shizsunshinewachira1344]

Thank you so much Matt.. I had to pause to tear up when you said surrender... Thank you again

[@mattpallett1]

You are so welcome Shiz. I am deeply grateful that you found the video helpful🙏

[@BA-ei7tl]

I am lost.

[@mattpallett1]

❤️

[@MartinVelladegiorgio]

I wish to know about when I start manifest something and the real end of this spiritual journey 😂

[@cbligerman]

❤

[@TheSzutekina]

Fun fact: I'm seeing 77 since I'm in this void and 2 years before my saturn return

[@jfiji5964]

How do you survive being in the void? Does it ever end? Or what do we do? Can we undo a spiritual awakening?

[@mattpallett1]

The aspect of you asking this question doesn’t

[@mattpallett1]

That’s actually what it’s for- to dissolve the parts of you trying to get some where- trying to do something

[@mattpallett1]

Compassion and gentleness during this time is essential- be kind to yourself and take excellent care

[@rfsjt987]

hey i feel like your story really matches with mine, is there any way to contact you?

[@mattpallett1]

yeah there should be links to my website on in the description and you can email me from there:) Much love

[@silentxcure]

You remind me of Paul bettany

[@sinafreeman1753]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@robinjessop6607]

Thank you so much! This is my 4th time in the void/cocoon stage. Surrender is key and l can feel the battle from my old way of being fighting. The doors are closed . I love how you explained it. My hardest part is how do I pay for what I need? Surrendering and trust in the unknown and spirit is the toughest thing but l know going through this is a blessing! Love to all going through this phase ❤ 🫂

[@auraliax1323]

it's like nothing is improving in my life, nothing, i'm so so alone, i don't work or study because of my health & dropping out of highschool, i have literally no friends not even someone to text, my family are all busy & i meet them once in a day, i'm so unproductive & i have really high dreams & standards when it comes to people because i've been hurt so much & since i couldn't start shadow work i keep attracting only bad energy or toxic people from the past, i meditated for 2 months straight for over 20 min a day & i've had my spiritual awakening 16 months ago, i honesty feel hopeless what should I do?

[@mattpallett1]

ill try to answer in a Q + A video

[@auraliax1323]

@@mattpallett1 Thank you ❤️

[@mattpallett1]

@@auraliax1323 this may help- Chesaray is my teacher :) m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZpLFY3-ka7SAabc

[@auraliax1323]

@@mattpallett1 thanks 💖

[@BA-ei7tl]

How long does it last?

[@freedomofsoundexpressionc4530]

Into the nothing into the beyond...X-Y W-Z

[@gretanavarauskaite2904]

🙏🏻🌸

[@projectstudio1429]

What's your email id?

[@electricnirvana3499]

This was such a great explanation of the hermit phase. Thank you for sharing your story. Solitude is so essential for us, to achieve enlightenment. It’s also a common phase of losing your mind to find yourself! 🫶

[@bhaktimaddalena-nakedlife]

Pretty illuminating: so that means we actually go through several void phases, because each time the ego wants to profit of the flow and hold on to the blessings. And so hoe do we stop the circle?? I mean... surrender: how to really surrender? I am pretty old, I built a family, I have three kids, I am scared to Hell to just surrendering...

[@mattpallett1]

see if you can let go of wanting and just allow life to be as effortless as possible. In a very physical way, keep your body as relaxed, melted and open as possible throughout the day. Shift from trying to get to just receiving, life is not about getting God's love but just being open and relaxed and receiving it. The more relaxed we can become the more we connect to our natural inspirations and passions. Truly, surrender is all about going from the mind into the heart, allowing the mind to drop into the heart ❤️

[@bhaktimaddalena-nakedlife]

@@mattpallett1 Thank you... Let go of wanting. Keep a relaxed and welcoming body...