The Honest Truth About Dating in Thailand as a Foreigner

[@iPaulLee]

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[@DoorCam-l7y]

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[@metubenoggin07]

It's too bad you have dance on eggshells for simply telling the truth about Western women. Having experienced the same hostility and rejection (from very average women) that most other men can tell you about, it was amazing to learn how sweet, feminine and friendly Thai women are. Good job on making a case for reality.

[@columbus7275]

This!

[@thefemininewomanrenee]

The pug. I can't. 😂😂

[@iPaulLee]

Haha, she’s adorable

[@metubenoggin07]

@@iPaulLeeShe is!

[@uk7831]

Very good information and quite right, men and women should respect each other and everything went well.

[@kessku1484]

Pugs are awesome and hilarious 😆. If i ever have a pug, his name would be Frank😂

[@nickgrace5363]

I have a 1 way ticket to Thailand on November 4th. I’m leaving south Florida for Thailand. 🇹🇭

[@4lan]

congrats

[@Buster-m5v]

I too want to leave South Florida for Thailand

[@metubenoggin07]

@@nickgrace5363 Congratulations. I'm nearing the same move ... from Texas.

[@nickgrace5363]

Let’s get out of here guys . Better lifestyles await us at Thailand beach’s . Maybe I’ll run into you guys someday

[@davidpark2509]

I been there 5 times in the past year and half to visit my gf. Thailand is an amazing country.

[@randomwander6389]

Thailand is great for dating , hard part is living on the country . Getting a remote job is hard , making money online alone is hard . Too much competition now a days , and you need to afford the elite visa to live there long term

[@eddiejohnson4434]

It’s easy to live in Thailand. But they don’t need more poor foreigners, they have enough poor people already

[@nelsonegidio6540]

Great for dating? Where you heard that?

[@ramboexcess4469]

Great honest clean vid. Very insightful

[@vattpo]

you're spot on about dating thai woman. They are friendly and approachable. I can't wait to move over there in a few months.

[@ijustlike0010]

Good for you man! English teacher or something else? I'm a teacher here and I love it

[@vattpo]

I m taking early retirement, not sure what I would do yet besides drinking 😆

[@surfingtothestars]

@@vattpo drinking can add up to lots of money without you knowing. Be careful

[@TheGordonFamily11]

I am a Thai women and this is pretty on point.

[@iPaulLee]

Thank you for making me feel like what I said wasn’t too controversial 🙌

[@robertnick5258]

I appreciate comments like this , it’s like instagrams fact checker .

[@PurpleDoritos666]

Why don’t you like your local men? That’s sad you guys hate your own men. If you have half Thai sons are you also going to hate them?

[@ksmithpmp]

@@TheGordonFamily11 yes, we should always believe what women say and not what they do.

[@ontheroad5555]

@KidsandCats22 when I first went to Thailand it was exactly 20 years ago in 2004. My Thai female friend was still a college student but it was vacation time. After my tour in Thailand it ended in Phuket where she attended university. By the next morning I needed to get my laundry done. I asked security if there is a place outside the hotel I can get it done (hotels are notorious for charging by the piece). He told me next to the hotel there is a lady who does laundry. I went to see her she took the clothes then gave a price. My friend grabbed them from her. Told me she will get them clean. Unknown to me she actually went back to her dorm room and washed my clothes then brought them back later. I was surprised I told her she should not have done that. She said the woman wanted too much money (150 bahts at the time).

[@paulmjprinz]

Bash on the west. It's a dating apocalypse out here.

[@metubenoggin07]

Fact!

[@themacker894]

You have a good dog. Thai women expect that a guy will be the provider, and they lose respect for you the second you're not. They also take care of their family and if you marry them, you'll be expected to help other family members take care of elderly parents. The good news is that Thai families are very accepting, as long as you are good to their daughter. Helping them financially will be a delight. The jealousy thing is a little scary IRL. Don't date serious Thai women if you're a player - stay in the bars and have you fun with the bargirls. Twenty-nine years of experience here, and I think you have a good read on Thai women as well as Western women. Never had an American woman come over and do my dishes / clean the kitchen during a date. ;)

[@aeroAdvocate]

Don't date POOR Thai women, that's the key.

[@aeroAdvocate]

@@themacker894 don’t date, let alone marry poor girls and you’re fine. Plenty of well to do, middle class ladies with a good education in the bigger cities.

[@nelsonegidio6540]

Well said,mate🤛

[@harleydavis3814]

I didn't catch anything you said because I was watching the pug dog being all cute, it seemed like it was listening to you talk lol. I need a pug dog in my life here lol

[@iPaulLee]

She’s the star of the show 😂

[@KpKp-s8z]

After living both in Bangkok, two cities in Nort East Thailand, from my experiences , the fabric of Thai culture and dating, Thai women are completely different. Thai woman outside tourist cites the majority are married or in long term relationships, there are few quality woman single and available, they may not tell you they are but eventually you will discover they are emotionally and physically involved with someone, this is,a potentially dangerous sernerio as if there Thai partner finds out there will be serious reprocussions although you were the innocent party However, in Bangkok, Thai women gravitate there for career and work, and most are single living alone in one of the many condos It is a completely different mindset. most are happy being single and are not interested, the ones that are have social media dating websites to select from thousands of men and are selective ,status, and wealth creation bring the critical influences for most.thai woman It is the changing landscape of Western influences that are changing the dynamics here

[@freedom8974]

True. I am good looking Thai guy lived in BKK since birth still single for5 years now. It is hard when most Thai addict to thier phone and only used datting app.when i appoach them.They think this is weird and not text back even you good looking. They in the fearful state.

[@GinJ1337]

Totally agree, especially on the being honest with your intentions part. Let's not waste each others time. I state clearly in my profile that I am not interested in marriage and still get tons of dates. No point in deceiving women here.

[@eddiejohnson4434]

That’s the truth.

[@Kushal-v8b]

Great video 😊. Thailand is indeed best country for dating especially for simgle men

[@JS-kb7ml]

Great video Paul! I understand in Thailand, it’s a culture where the girl expects the boyfriend to take care of them. However, what’s your opinion if a Thai girlfriend asks or expect you to help pay for too many things? I.e. bills, items, etc

[@iPaulLee]

I think Thai women expect men to pay for bills (if you’re living together), and food and dates etc. But I think it’s a red flag if they constantly ask for expensive lifestyle, gifts, and allowances (like a sugar baby).

[@svenw.6918]

Keep your wallet closed for 6-12 months. A decent Thai lady will never ask for expensive things.

[@JS-kb7ml]

@@svenw.6918thanks for the advice 🙏

[@JS-kb7ml]

@@iPaulLeethank you Paul

[@kevinp8108]

Unless you and your girlfriend are engaged to be married, do not support her financially! If you do, there is a chance that both of you could end the relationship but you will not get your money back! Gifts of money at your own will is OK but if it becomes a condition of your relationship then get out!

[@vw74superbeetleconvertible66]

You left out, because the woman is assuming her role, YOU as a man want to do more for her, provide for her and take good care of her, as a men should. Your videos are great, keep up the good work.

[@iPaulLee]

💯

[@ksmithpmp]

@@vw74superbeetleconvertible66 men don’t owe women a better life.

[@Buster-m5v]

What if you don't want to marry Paul? Tell them up front? Also about the language barrier, how have you handled it? Been studying Thai?

[@aeroAdvocate]

@@Buster-m5v only date educated girls who speak fluent english.

[@thomashayden2609]

Great video. Sounds like you’re living your best life.

[@huey8431]

Great insightful discussion of your observations and experiences. I will definitely be visiting Thailand soon.

[@apollomoon1]

I think my Thai girlfriend would enjoy this video. She rarely if ever asks for anything from me other than my love which I give her freely as she does to me. Because she is like this it’s very satisfying to help her occasionally with finances. She works hard and wants to provide for herself. Much of what you said seemed to fit my situation well. Spot on about the jealousy but why would I want anyone else? Good video thx

[@Blobby33]

As a married woman it’s great you are supportive of your partner being as financially independent as she wants. Even in Canada where I am, people seem to assume I’m not financially contributing when I definitely do or if they find out I am more wealthy than my husband when we married they dislike that. Weird stuff. I cut those people off. I’m Asian. I wish you and your gf a blissful partnership!

[@apollomoon1]

@ she’s a gem. Thank you! Best 🙂

[@lazzi2462]

Do you have experience anywhere else in Thailand other than Bangkok? I'm going to Chiang Mai & Krabi soon for my first time in Thailand, and I'm trying to figure out how to meet women over there. Nothing serious, but just looking for people to hang out with, have fun, party, & meet new people. What are the hotspots in Chiang Mai? Bars/clubs, things to do, restaurants, etc? For Krabi, I'm assuming it's just resorts & stuff, so I'm guessing the only potential there are just other tourist.

[@davidpark2509]

Krabi is nice. I visited not too long ago. Really nice scenery landscape. Close to many different beaches and islands to visit. Fyi They do have alot of halal food bc there is more of Muslim population the further south you go in thailand.

[@lazzi2462]

@@davidpark2509 Ouuu, that's nice to hear. I love Halal food. Thank you!

[@makeyourlifeeasier5794]

Very good, accurate video. I love your assistant in the back...

[@GenkiStarLeaf]

Considering the massive women to men ratio in Thailand, I wouldn’t even bother with dating platforms. All in all, some great content here Paul.

[@Ryhamz]

What kinds of in person events/hobby groups/etc do you enjoy in thailand?

[@mosqutio88]

Thank you, Paul, for sharing your experiences. I also concur that dating in Thailand is much better than dating in the US. I also prefer not to date Westernized women, including Westernized Asian women, because I prefer feminine women who enjoy learning responsibilities and desire a family. ✌️

[@ViktorMudryiWise]

Your dog stole your entire video :) So cute.

[@aeroAdvocate]

The best life in Thailand is single life. Especially if you have a nice dog like this one. ;-) I've been in Thailand for 12 years now, and sorry, but no, I'd never date a local. Plenty of nice Korean and Japanese women living in BKK.

[@davidpark2509]

Why not local thai women? Lol

[@wkrp01]

@@davidpark2509 Every foreigner I know with a Thai girlfriend pays her a monthly allowance, and they're not bar girls (so the "average" stated at 14:25 may be a bit off).

[@aeroAdvocate]

@@davidpark2509 I’m not into Thais. Culturally incompatible with me and I just don’t like their personalities. Of course that’s generalizing a lot, but even those who lived and studied abroad for many years still haven’t shed their Thainess entirely. 😅

[@one-more-land]

on another note brother: how long have you been living in Thailand?

[@diongongora3053]

Hey bro is khon different from thai?

[@John-d5k7c]

What about AGE GAP?? I’m in New York, slim clean, don’t drink, retired 60’s. Was thinking of Philippines BUT prefer infrastructure in Thailand,

[@jsavoni6478]

I started dating a Thai women about 5 months ago. I currently still live in the states. My thai girlfriend seems to only be clingy and keep track of me when I am in Thailand. When I am in the states, she doesn't seem to worry about it.

[@pmg2585]

What do Thai women think of Black and South Asian men?

[@J.Shabazz]

Zoom to Thailand, so Yeah you Good

[@surfingtothestars]

if you are a foreigner and have money you're good lol

[@ael4n]

If I'm going to be brutally honest.. South Asian men are probably among the bottom of the list of desired men in Thailand and they(and to some extent, Middle-Eastern men) have a bit of a low reputation here. But! Nothing that can't be overcome. Might need a bit more work, but I believe as long as they can prove that they are nothing like the stereotype, they will be good. I have no idea when it comes to black men.

[@J.Shabazz]

@@ael4n Its too many black men in Thailand that talking about their relationship with Thai Women. When Men ask about race and if a woman wants their race, they are mostly insecure. TOO MANY BLACK KZbinrs who are in Thailand and in a relationship.

[@MrDobberdude]

$$$ and you good

[@martinhoang1723]

Bro bro - Briefly saw a snippet of your workstation at the beginning of this video. Being that you spend hours in front of the screen, I'd recommend getting some sort of laptop stand that elevates it to head level so your neck doesn't suffer later down the road. In addition to the laptop stand for elevation, perhaps get a separate full-sized keyboard so it sits under the stand for added comfort to aid in your tasks. Got to look after our digital nomad lifestyle ;) I moved to BKK last year to do short-term real estate biz and am in Thonglor area. Hope to bump into you soon brotha.

[@ModifiedBelle2023]

Jeez the stalking instagrams sounds scary for you guys if you aren’t dating. Glad you found someone, but hopefully that’s not too big of an issue for others

[@MaximusMerideus]

I have only 1 thing to say about this really well made video- The pug is awesome.

[@WestCoastDragon]

What’s up Paul been watching your channel and Forest’s channel for a while as I plan to move to South East Asia and leave America. I was wondering if most foreigners adapt to Asian/Thai culture or do they bring western culture along with them ? Have heard some stories regarding foreigners being either rude or entitled ?

[@Cyrus992]

Is it good for Iranian American men?

[@vindiesel5466]

You got money?

[@Cyrus992]

@@vindiesel5466 yup

[@vindiesel5466]

@@Cyrus992 Then its good for Iranian American men! Philipinnes the same

[@Cyrus992]

@@vindiesel5466 I have met Iranians who used the Love Me Foreign Affair service and they were amazed

[@Cyrus992]

@@vindiesel5466 Is it the easiest place to pick up? If so, which part?

[@Aidenstravels]

What about the language barrier? I heard its not easy with the English in Thailand compared to the Philippines

[@villagefarang]

You are still new Paul and your opinions will no doubt continue to evolve over time and you are surely influenced by the woman in you life. Everyone is influenced by the people they meet here in Thailand and usually that is a very small subset of people who speak English and make their living off foreigners. With over 70 million people here and tens of millions of visitors there is every type of person you can imagine. The only question is whether you can find your group here. Personally I prefer sports, gyms, classes, groups and organizations over online, clubs, bars and shopping areas. My only advice to anyone is take it slow, learn the language and don't fall victim of your own ego. If you are a 2 don't believe that you have miraculously turned into a 10 overnight.

[@tommyflorida9204]

The pug is saying: no Thai gf is gonna replace me. Don't you dare!

[@B33ond]

Don’t tell everyone how good we have it here 🤫

[@StanShimkus]

Great vid ... Love your style & Channel.

[@John-d5k7c]

I’ve watched many videos from Philippines where there is a large age gap and these older retired men are very happily married to a much younger woman, it that only a thing in the Philippines?? Do us retired guys able to get a younger Thai woman there in Bangkok ?? I keep asking and never get an answer?? I’m on the wire of which place to move to as a retired man from N.Y. Philippines or Thailand, because one thing I like better in Thailand is the infrastructure, but Really want a good woman and a peaceful life??? So what do you think????

[@iPaulLee]

There is also a large gap between ages in dating in Philippines as well. It just depends on the type of girl. I’d say Thailand offers everything Philippines can, but is more developed

[@DavidC-zg7tm]

Nothing new under the sun go where you’re treated best!!! 🍻💫😊

[@Hubie468]

That dog is the cutest dog. It’s killing me.

[@theprimebay]

I love your perspective! I prefer more Korean, Chinese, and Japanese.. or western girls 😊

[@fruitloops3718]

If you date a woman properly in the west, you will find they typically want to be the girlfriend after 2 months, and yes, they do fall in love more slowly. The above mentioned all depends upon if she's looking for a relationship and she has a good history and background. This means it's like finding a needle in a haystack. Thailand it is.😅😂😅

[@victorhicks1962]

Thanks. A very good video. Love the pup

[@KpKp-s8z]

After living in Issan for four years and having dated four Thai women, all had employment, but unfortunately, I had to end all four relationships as all four asked for financial support, which I refused . these were not ex bar girls, but local ladies all above 35 years old and working in office or retail, It does not matter if you're in Pattaya or issan the name of the game is extraction of money from a farlang. They have no reason to date a farlang as culturally, and nor being socially acceptable among thre family, not on their agenda There are exceptions, but a rare breed in finding a genuine Thai lady who is looking for a relationship that is not revolved around money

[@KennethMorris-b5l]

Straight and honest ok I’m booking a flight

[@lifewithcapital]

Spot on great work 👍🏾

[@dzllz]

Great vid!

[@LeoInAsien]

Great video, I agree with everything I would say. Never had a girl wanting me just for money and yes, they want a relationship quickly😅

[@anthonykreis5214]

Do some more videos on pet friendly…. Not necessarily condos that allow pets but are there condos we’re pets can socialize..ie dog park or doggy daycare on site ect... Is there dog parks in the area. The one park you took your dog to was cool. Is that all there is? My only hesitation in moving out there is having a small dog that likes to socialize. Thanks

[@Vonsat]

Now Thailand is becoming very pet-friendly. Now, you can even bring dogs into most shopping malls if they are in a stroller.

[@altec861]

So not all foreign men just a particular type .How does that differ from any other country.

[@tweeze123]

So you're basically.... describing heaven? This shit sounds like heaven. Do you think girls find my archtype attractive in thailand? I'm 5'8 east asian, kpop looks, go to the gym. I do OK here in the states but being asian i basically will never be the most desirable. Do you think I'd do even better in thailand? Man I love brown skinned girls so much as well. Thailand seriously sounds like a dream.

[@讙]

what if i was some south indian who knows thai? what if i speak english, but in an american accent (as a south indian)?

[@Cubes-3]

Problem is going to be your profile photo. When chatting online or in person then you can accepted as not fitting the stereotype.

[@WethenorthBacani]

What about friends? How you find real friends there?

[@janeadams1627]

Can we meetup in Thailand

[@johnj.todora4128]

The 8:00 mark is the best perspective actually. I have lived in Asia for 8 years and you hit it on the head. I have had women I have dated clean my house in the morning while I am sleeping or in the shower. They "nest" quickly. But I find it's less contrived and more reactionary for them. Or, my condo is a mess. 😂

[@eddiejohnson4434]

This happens to a lesser extent in Mexico too. I was surprised a girl did my dishes but she wasn’t trying to impress me

[@kalyasiri]

Not all thai women are open minded... Some are quite conservative .and religious.....I suggest don't looking for a woman working in bar ...

[@harryjankovic9481]

Lots of normal girls drink and party with their friends. At normal bars and clubs of course, not bar girl bars haha

[@kalyasiri]

@@harryjankovic9481 true..I mean don't looking for bar girls...they only drained your money

[@sk84hbi337ixcjuewn]

I also don"t get it why many foreigners looking for true love keep hitting on bar girls.

[@ericjames7819]

Lowest hanging fruit.

[@PurpleDoritos666]

Because the educated Thai girls have higher standards 😂

[@iPaulLee]

Easily accessible validation

[@cooliipie]

I'm a foreigner and have never been to a bar

[@SoundMind.]

Path of least resistance, the odds of getting a Hi-So Thai woman is slim to none they rarely ever deal with foreigners they don’t have an incentive to they are very closed off and have their own social group

[@ceeIoc]

What about dating western women in Thailand?

[@stefanofazio9089]

Dating is the best in Thailand as long as it's not Bangkok or Pattaya or tourist areas

[@KINGOTHL]

Great video...

[@alexandertraveler510]

correction for first sentence: add for men (not for women)

[@Vonsat]

Your dog....OMG she is so cute and funny😆🥰

[@Lazybughonestly]

What about am American women moving there permanently? I feel like I’ll just come across temporarily living there - people.

[@paulwest7459]

100% agree. Did you mention Thai Cupid & Thai Friendly? I met several wonderful women on these sites including my amazing girlfriend...who is sooo jealous as you described, but I still love her! 😂 BTW, you and I have several things in common...we have the same name, live in the same district (Thonglor), we're from the same State (Georgia) and of course we both love Thailand! Great channel. Keep up the good work! 👍

[@RingoSG]

Eastern asians also favored in some part of latin america 🎉🎉

[@bobgoodi-jd4dx]

You damn right Thailand is a dating heaven for everyone, to be honest now

[@Blobby33]

What about dating as a foreigner woman? I guess not really your area of expertise lol.

[@LifeWithRilla]

I think you should make a video about the red flags to look out for. Because, you gave suggestions that can lead men to run into a lot of trouble with dating Thai women. If you dated enough in Thailand then you know there is a high probability of meeting bar girls and freelancers who are on these apps hustling. While you mentioned some red flags, I don’t think you mentioned enough. I wouldn’t recommend dating on Tinder because depending on where you are aka Pattaya majority of the women there are going to be bar girls and freelancers on that app. Even in Bangkok there are a portion of women who are involved in all of that and men should be aware it’s not all sunshine and rainbows as you make it out to seem, likely not intentionally, I get that. But, it should be brought up and men should err on the side of caution & have their guard up until they figure out what kind of women they’re dealing with. Most of the women on those Facebook groups sharing men who they’re dating also tend to be freelancers and bar girls or they know a lot of those girls. It’s mostly used to communicate about those men as clients to those women. I’ve seen plenty of convos from those groups and that should be a red flag if the woman you’re dealing with is in there. This is why I personally prefer Filipinas but everybody is entitled to their own preferences I suppose.

[@villagefarang]

There are a multitude of red flag videos already and they don't seem to help. Besides the more you focus on what can go wrong the more likely something will go wrong.

[@LifeWithRilla]

@@villagefarang the more you ignorantly date as if nothing will go wrong the more likely something will go wrong. That mindset is the exact mindset old white men have then they end up in love and being taken advantage of by bar girls lmao

[@LifeWithRilla]

@@villagefarang Because a 20/30 something has genuine interest in a 60+ year buddy, sure 😂

[@villagefarang]

@@LifeWithRilla I know couples with a 30 year age gap that have been together a very long time. Personally, my wife is 20 years younger than I am and we have been together for 27 years. You won’t find a more loving and compatible couple than us.

[@LifeWithRilla]

@@villagefarang sure

[@OnlyEricNg]

Your pug is so cute, human best friend.

[@CasperHanma]

If you count Kathoey (LB) there is even higher ratio hahaha

[@davidpark2509]

Hahahaha

[@maxingaroundtheglobe]

Largest age gap?

[@xCr0nus]

As a Thai woman, I agree with everything you said here.

[@eddiejohnson4434]

Avatar checks out

[@acrpthailand3843]

Cutie doggie is listentening to his dad.😊

[@dimplypaprika7693]

First off, let me just say that I think you hurt a lot of woke westerner's feelings here -- at least I hope so! Secondly, this sounds so great to my western ears. I am from California and have sworn off dating here, this makes me feel that maybe dating could still be an option, just need to fish in a different pond. Thank you!

[@xxfreedom]

A curious tidbit about Thailand. The highest rate of infidelity in the world for the last few years consistently. 😅

[@RicsBag]

😮... Nice video ❤

[@saksitb3491]

Thai culture respect people, so the lady try not let you to lose your face. She will talk to you with equal respect if you respect her, not creepy approach. You can ask her directly whether she has a boyfriend or not. Foreigner has good reputation among many Thai ladies, so don't firsting around as a playboy. Do you know why many Thai women prefer foreigner? One of the most important answer is because Thai man is firsting around too much. The reason for Thai man approach many ladies is because there are too many beautiful women who are difficult to resist your mind. Finally, Thai men has some negative reputation among those women. In conclusion, there are a lot of beautiful ladies in which it creates high pressure among women as well. Once she wants to be in serious relationship with you, she will easily get jealous. There are pros and cons for these behavior. Many men, not only foreigner but also Thai men, find that it is difficult to handle.

[@nelsonegidio6540]

Respect you so much until you spend all the money you have with schemes and other "kind gestures" 😂😂 C'mon, get real! No offense! 🤛

[@saksitb3491]

@ I don’t think you have enough money to spend on these women. I strongly believe that some of Thai women are wealthier than you. 😛🥳🤭 get real. No offense. 🤑🤑🤫If you think that Thai women are bad people, don’t approach them. If you think that your money is so important to you, keep it yourself. I have seen a lot of western guys with only average income or less think that they are so wealthy in developing countries. That’s narrow mindset.

[@KennethMorris-b5l]

You seem like a genuine decent person and i really appreciate your advice honestly Thai women sound wonderful

[@tonydevos]

why would you say women are traditional and yet they generally reject thai men and prefer western men? don't western men, relative to thai men, represent modernity?

[@SoundMind.]

They aren’t actually traditional 9/10 they were rejected by the local men for various reasons and now are going after foreigners

[@eddiejohnson4434]

Maybe he should say “more traditional”. Western men have money. And traditionally that’s been more important than most other things to a woman

[@DigitDreamer]

2:06 nice view bro

[@chinobonito30]

foreign (mostly white) men have been going to thailnd for 40-50 years. no one really dates in the west these days.

[@camels9654]

I'm in Canada and the adult female obesity rate is 80%+. Basically after 30 all the women are obese. We have little options in the west.

[@chinobonito30]

lol

[@drm8164]

i love your dog !

[@amingaz]

i closed my dating apps in thailand because i only came across sex workers or extremely ugly middle aged left overs . i never ever saw a beautiful thai girl on any of the apps not to mention how almost all the photos are doctored .

[@winnerwinnerchickendinner8809]

Money

[@KpKp-s8z]

Living in Bangkok within your circles you appears to be detached from reality, ,t it is not at a true refection of life outside Bangkok your content has some valid points I have lived in both Bangkok and North East Thailand and the contrasts are completely diffent ,dating quality thai woman is not as freely ,avaliable as you make out, most will engage in polite conversation but are not interested in a relationship with a foreigner, rhe main reasons cultural and communcation concerns Im a, fit slim guy who can speak, a,fair amount of Thai, and my conclusion is there are limited opportunities with anyone with a good job and independent of finanical needs Living in Khon Kaen i recently dated a 50 year-old accountant within a month she asked for 50,000 baht to contribute towards her sons university fee's When i walled away, she cited all g foreigners are expected to pay that is why we date you!! It is not the mindset of bar girl's but across-the-board

[@iPaulLee]

I think there is a quite a difference between the younger and older generations. Most of these things I’m saying are applicable towards 20-30 year olds, in the top regions.

[@reggie5]

good video I think

[@villagefarang]

It is hard to generalize when it comes to dating. It depends on age, looks, personality, confidence and where you hangout. What worked for me during my 20 single years in Bangkok wouldn't work for someone else. There are just too many variables.

[@eddiejohnson4434]

It’s easy to generalize because we look in general. The factors don’t all carry the same weight and you control for them. That’s how comparison and generalization it works.

[@metubenoggin07]

@@villagefarang Generalizations have merit -- high school dropouts occasionally become millionaires, but generally speaking, most millionaires are well educated. In that vein, some Western women are approachable, feminine and worth pursuing. But as a rule, Thai women are MUCH more worthy.

[@koufax174]

🙏🏼

[@fredlucius1]

Just like me I work still at 71 years old. I walk a lot. I will treat a lady real good too. I always did. So I feel I feel I am a nice guy. But I am not a nice white guy. I am a nice black American man guy. Thank you

[@bobross1829]

Good video. I would add unless you are just on vacation and want a good time, like the video says, stay away from the red light women in Bangkok. They are beautiful and are on social media and often are the profiles that leap out at you when looking for dating in Thailand. They are very experienced in getting your money and they often live lifestyles that would make a far left women in the west blush. They are not the conservative women that most foreigners think when they think of asian or Thai women but they will act that way to take advantage of you. They will also play on your belief that because you are foreign you can get them and date them, even though very attractive. Meeting regular women though this video is very true.

[@MJY3692]

modern thai culture is not conservative at all its entirely western if your in bangkok, traditional means no sex before marriage and you dont casually date thats is basically entirely gone from thai culture

[@villagefarang]

Traditional culture is much more complex than sex or no sex. Traditional cultures often have prostitution but that doesn't mean they approve of it or don't care. They just accept that bad things happen but prefer to ignore it and not shine a light on it. There is so much going on under the surface here in Thailand culturally speaking that it is hard for a foreign to see or understand.

[@eddiejohnson4434]

Traditional means sticking to the particular traditions of that culture.

[@davidbkk171]

They are only concerned with what passport you have and how big your bank is

[@singas2854]

My Thai sister in law want a foreigner with a big 🍆 add that to you list 😂😂

[@faithheyison]

I am a foreign woman who is friends with many successful highly educated Thai women who own their own companies, who are in international finance, who are recognized artists, and who are accomplished in their fields. And no, they are not cooking and cleaning for their western partners. They have nannies and other staff to take care of the household needs which gives them the time to pursue their professional and social lives. They would find your point of view regarding Thai women insulting. Of course, this is not your intention I am sure. But please do not forget that there is another Thai woman who does not fall into the category you describe, just like there are different categories of women in all the world. It just depends on which pond you swim in.

[@iPaulLee]

Of course. These are generalities and my intention is not to insult anyone here. But to your point, successful women (and men) hire staff because they have money. The average Thai working class family probably isn’t able to afford as much staff, so they might resort to the tradition of the woman/mother taking care of the house, while the man works more.

[@faithheyison]

@@iPaulLee yes of course. It depends on the society experience and level. same as everywhere in the world.

[@vonbyronbedell8950]

@faithheyison I believe that you (a white woman who doesn't see how difficult it is for affluential American Black men to come to Bangkok and just starting meeting successful) will never know the problems some men face when we first in Thailand. Thai women upon our arrival! I have lived in Bangkok for 7 months now, and I learned to speak Thai in 6 months. It is very difficult for me to have a conversation with Thais because they are so SHY!!!!! How on earth do you meet decent Thai women if EVERYONE is so reserved and so conservative and truly thinks every Black person they see in Bangkok is from Africa? Local Thai women are SCARED of Black American men and the only way people look at me with respect is if I pay two women to go eat with me at a fancy restaurant, now everyone looks at me because I am spending 15,000 to 20,000 baht in CASH and the see that I have more CASH to THROW AWAY! This is what I have to deal with as a former banking lawyer now living in a very respectful and luxury building here in Thong Lor, Bangkok!

[@Juzzyee]

thai friendly

[@dreammix9430]

What about guys dating guys in Thailand? I know that it's not going to be anything close to the way it is in thai BL series LOL

[@IndieCoconut]

popo is too cute