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@WalkinTheWalkers8 ай бұрын
I've been with my man for 17 years. And I can honestly say that even when he brings me home a box pizza, I'm super excited! That means he thought of me! It's the little things that make the biggest difference. He is my best friend. And I wouldn't trade that for the world.
@Monae68908 ай бұрын
Right it’s the little things that show they love you and are thinking about you
@Confessions0898 ай бұрын
Are you a stay at home mom?
@punkylynneramone19818 ай бұрын
It's the little things 😊
@kaybee41328 ай бұрын
Love that sentiment! ❤
@Nurturing28 ай бұрын
SO happy for y’all❣️
@tashaelle62648 ай бұрын
The 2nd wife: I just wanted a guy to like me. He MARRIED you, woman! And now you're not giving him what you gave 40 dudes who you just "wanted to like you". He deserves sooooo much better and more.
@coldshot17237 ай бұрын
She just wants a guy to like her for about 15 minutes ... then leave. She's had 40 of them already.
@wLBlue7 ай бұрын
Yes..but as many...they are so messed up...only God can save them...and apparently he's struggling with then too
@Avalonkenton6 ай бұрын
First guy is giving off having an affair vibes coming home at 3am she’s being mugged off
@lisawentworth68316 ай бұрын
that stuck in my ear that way as well
@Marie24Mucolours5 ай бұрын
He truly deserves better...❤
@SunShinyDaysPlease7 ай бұрын
The 2nd guy, omg. SO MANY women would ❤ to have a man like him. He seems truly genuine and loving. He deserves better.
@halinanazimek97994 ай бұрын
❤
@michaeljcarneyjr.61872 ай бұрын
A woman who has more than 6 sexual partners has difficulty pair bonding
@iramchavez68988 ай бұрын
The guy from the 2nd marriage should run like Forrest Gump 😂😂😂😂
@Marie24Mucolours5 ай бұрын
😅😅
@berry7usagii8 ай бұрын
“You should respect my privacy” is SUCH a typical line used by cheaters. This guy (second couple) needs to RUN
@kitkat31558 ай бұрын
Not always, I’m a private person and have always been like this but I have never cheated and would never dream of it. But in this case with her behavior and history he does need to run.
@tangram12648 ай бұрын
@@kitkat3155 I'm a private person, too, and not a cheater. But this woman*has* cheated and is using her "privacy" to put him in the wrong.
@berry7usagii8 ай бұрын
@@kitkat3155 I mean different to respecting privacy in general which is what good people usually do, cheaters ALWAYS tend to use this excuse. I say this from not only my personal experience but that of many of my friends and endless people who post on the internet I’ve seen so many stories like that. Of course we are each entitled to our own privacy, but in a relationship, usually it is good to be open to your partner and refrain from keeping too many secrets, that way the relationship tends to stay secure (albeit having said that, each situation is different). But it’s such a common line cheaters say unfortunately :(
@berry7usagii8 ай бұрын
@@tangram1264 yes exactly, they say this to try and make their partner the bad guy so they don’t get caught.
@robertauld13348 ай бұрын
No privacy in marriages. Your spouse should know everything or at least if they don't be able too.
@anneliejones22298 ай бұрын
The second couple should not even go home together. There is no marriage, no friendship no relationship whatsoever.
@Desiraeegutierrez8 ай бұрын
Youre right!!! My husband bought me a beat up expedition as a marriage gift and i still get excited when i see it everyday. I also show my husband love and support by taking him to the store and buying him new clothes and boots for work.
@teeniequeenie83697 ай бұрын
@@Desiraeegutierrezthey are talking about the second couple NOT the first one.
@ladydi371158 ай бұрын
I truly hope that 2nd husband divorced that girl. She does not love him. I'm sure it hurt him, but a lifetime of a loveless marriage is torture and a waste of a lifetime 😢
@maloryburkhalter66678 ай бұрын
She doesn't love herself. But this was easily the early 2000s. I would where they are now?
@ladydi371158 ай бұрын
@maloryburkhalter6667 I would love to see a where are they now show!!!!
@charlottesweb28128 ай бұрын
My guess is she got pregnant because she wanted a baby (god help the child) and he went along with it for some crazy reason because he really loves her (which I'll never understand). Strange situation...
@waderivers998 ай бұрын
She's every man's nightmare. He's very lucky it only took him three months to find out.
@ladydi371158 ай бұрын
@@waderivers99 100% agree. Very selfish, narcissistic woman.
@GREEKATION8 ай бұрын
The second couple… RUN DUDE RUN 🏃
@jacquelineithell3077 ай бұрын
Hey man get out while your still SANE that’s from a woman
@kayladavis71407 ай бұрын
For real. As soon as she said she went to that other dude and if he hadn't said no to her then she would be with him. That totally means that she isn't in love with her husband.
@70s80sVintage4 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@susangoodwin80678 ай бұрын
The first couple are really cute together. The husband has a good sense of humor. I hope they make it work.
@Skye-Bleu-Daydream8 ай бұрын
They’re very pretty looking couple
@amandam62638 ай бұрын
Totally agree. They’re precious. I hope they make it. Seems like they definitely could.
@kevincarpenter25258 ай бұрын
She's beautiful and he seems like a nice guy...but they don't know each other and have little in common. He's avoiding her, and she's disappointed that he not living up to a fantasy she has.
@maritaberndt62008 ай бұрын
The guy doesn't really want to be a husband and father. I hope he grows up.
@myrasmama7 ай бұрын
They are cute! I could see the love when he looked at her.
@DodgaOfficial8 ай бұрын
Second lady is a classic case of a women that used to be far more attractive and slept around with alot of toxic guys that had all the superficial things she wanted. Now that she is not as attractive, she's taking what she can get, but you can't fake attraction. Her husband is handsome, very nice, a good guy, but he doesn't have that bad boy energy and toxic drama she's used to and it doesn't spark anything in her, but he provides stability while she keeps her fishing lines out hoping one of her bad boy exes or one night stands will commit. He needs to move on, she's never going to be into him, and he's a good guy, with alot to offer.
@Jezebellum-l2u8 ай бұрын
You got that 100% right. Except she will try and pin a baby or two on him for the income.
@bonniebloom49537 ай бұрын
Oh God I hope they took the Dr. Advice and not have a child!!!!
@capkronos007 ай бұрын
If he's such a great guy then why does he already have two failed marriages behind him? The wife is definitely major trouble but he seems to be overly clingy, insecure, smothering and borderline paranoid. That type of behavior is also difficult to deal with.
@ruthslater63647 ай бұрын
I agree 💯. She's never hoing to want him. He's a whiney crybaby.
@ruthslater63647 ай бұрын
@@Jezebellum-l2uBINGO. she will be pregnant as soon as she gets home. Dr. Phil can't be this dumb.
@andrewholland90978 ай бұрын
In the second couple, the guy is very attractive and seems smart and kind. A lot of quality women would love to be with him
@elcheapo94447 ай бұрын
Are you prepared to marry him if he dumps her?! Put your money where your mouth is !!😮😮😮
@323azteca7 ай бұрын
Yea, I'm willing to date him and see if we are compatible. I'm a professional beautiful, godly, attentive and I could support him in his goals. The question will be, will we be attracted to each other and compatible.
@wLBlue7 ай бұрын
@@323azteca Compatibility is a mindset...hrs been married 2 times...he will soon learn to be alone and happy as many have realized marriage and many relationships are simply not worth it.
@lisawentworth68316 ай бұрын
exactly...he probably has issues that he wants her to love him, but she will ruin him. Cold!
@claudiasoare22996 ай бұрын
Even God understands that you were deceived…. The second guy!
@Rae.Jac-Knowledge8 ай бұрын
The second couple needs to just end it. The guys oblivious to the fact she's not into him. She's using him. She might even be in the closet. But she is certainly not into that guy. She's not attracted to him physically or anything.
@ST-rj8iu7 ай бұрын
no. 40 other partners prior to him? no she is not in the closet. He is bad in bed.
@MarinaLaroche5 ай бұрын
She more or less despises him ! That's even worse !
@cheery-hex3 ай бұрын
you're sort of right imo but I've been where she is, if that's what's going on. you meet a guy who is finally nice to you and gives you a good rltshp, unlike all th eothers, possibly even your family. that makes him seem more attractive even. guaranteed she likes him as a person and a friend but at some point that becomes morphed into a 'fake-ish' attraction. not to say it's totally fake but yeah. I dated a guy who was extremely wonderful but never should have dated and just remained friends. he's my bff to this day
@MyraAmherst20183 ай бұрын
@@ST-rj8iu she could be doing that to convince herself she's not
@personperson96358 ай бұрын
The second husband deseves a wife who loves him completely!
@lindaallen40678 ай бұрын
PLEASE don't have a baby with that self centered and dishonest woman!
@williamwallace81648 ай бұрын
Yes...Donny needs to LEAVE her YESTERDAY. She is NEVER going to change. The "marriage" is NEVER going to change. She does not DESERVE him, in the LEAST.
@Lisa598 ай бұрын
I just wanted to tell him to dump her and run. She needs to get straightened out before she gets into a serious relationship
@mexicanvetchildofGod8 ай бұрын
SMH! Poor guy I wonder where they are now.
@Cocomc268 ай бұрын
The first wife is so beautiful
@janewilmer92768 ай бұрын
The secret to a happy marriage is having a servant attitude, not being self-centered, wanting the best for the other, and having a sense of humor.
@ziggywalsh55628 ай бұрын
The second couple will never work. They’re not even in the same solar system.
@cristineconnell78038 ай бұрын
She wanted a 1 nighter with lifetime benefits! 😢
@Savingdea8 ай бұрын
That’s true !!!
@Savingdea8 ай бұрын
I’m from the real world
@mandlas.43058 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@KimberleeWagner-kj8yz8 ай бұрын
Why are they even thinking about having kids? Doesn’t make sense. There is no chemistry on her side. Forget it young man!
@IamRa-188 ай бұрын
As a husband who loves spoiling my wife, I can tell you for 100% certainty that I would absolutely hate it if she wasn’t grateful to me… which she is every single time for every little thing, and it’s marvelous and makes me even happier
@stellachipembele31478 ай бұрын
The lady in the second episode is Narcissistic.
@BijouRose7 ай бұрын
She has an avoidant attachment style for sure but that doesn’t mean she has a personality disorder. People are so quick to diagnose others with Narcissistic Personality Disorder these days.
@lisawentworth68316 ай бұрын
@@BijouRose she is beyond avoidant attachment, which is a different style. My partner is an avoidant; doesn't mean he isn't loving and kind. She IS a narcissist or has those qualities. She is gaslighting him, not attracted, insults him and is incapable of love and only wants her own way. That's a narcissist!
@SpitFireDebates5 ай бұрын
@lisawentworth6831 disagree, she seems dismissive avoidant. Narcissism involves intent for control while DA is a defense mechanism. I don't see malicious control here, I see a damaged person.
@pearlyq35604 ай бұрын
Card-carrying NPD.
@michelleMYHELL52443 ай бұрын
and hideous
@voxmomvoxmom30678 ай бұрын
A child?She’s too emotionally immature to look after one.They will divorce and he will have a lifetime of misery and child support.He should bite the bullet and leave her and find happiness with somebody who will appreciate him. she’s no good,sad but that’s the truth.
@janeg82748 ай бұрын
I swear as a teacher in public school for 24 years it MAKES ME SO DAMN MAD when ADULTS treat having children like they are having Kittens or Puppies! The kids are DESTROYED!!!!🤬🤬🤬
@ladydi371158 ай бұрын
💯 facts!!!
@lucindajones28928 ай бұрын
Absolutely agree!
@karenmacomber56928 ай бұрын
Yes, my daughter was to young to realize but my son wasn't
@naomibeery80988 ай бұрын
Thats none of your business. Your job is not to worry about what individuals do in the bedroom or their reasons for having children. You have no idea how serious people are or were. Your job is to educate and mind your business
@kendrakolker20658 ай бұрын
Thank you for teaching. Teacher's don't get paid enough or get enough credit.
@jennyromero378 ай бұрын
Donny needs to run far away from his wife and never look back. His wife does not care about anyone but herself.
@mikeydoodle1437 ай бұрын
I hope he already divorced this woman. Clearly, she does not love him. She is despicable
@Sheila612Miller7 ай бұрын
@lolaizajazzminDonny is 2nd husband in this story
@elisegreen20247 ай бұрын
Please run Donny!
@rogeriosertorio31777 ай бұрын
And fast...!
@marlene564237 ай бұрын
She is the definition of loosey goosey😅
@Tabby-t2s8 ай бұрын
Husband’s face when he finds out her body count says it all. Her face when he says I’ve shown you all of me and she just stares also says it all. She does not love him.
@Undertakerfan7008 ай бұрын
@TheHare-rv3hjShe just belongs to the streets dawg
@Undertakerfan7008 ай бұрын
@TheHare-rv3hjShe is for the streets, doofus
@cristineconnell78038 ай бұрын
@TheHare-rv3hjWish people would deal with their issues, instead of thinking a wedding will fix it!
@none29518 ай бұрын
How is it complex 😂
@tangram12648 ай бұрын
@@cristineconnell7803and when the wedding doesn't, oh a baby will! Yikes.😢
@Mindy-c5z8 ай бұрын
The second couple has no love. It’s like the woman is a stranger in the marriage. The husband needs to walk.
@bonniebloom49537 ай бұрын
RUN FAST. DON'T LOOK BACK.
@spudnut008 ай бұрын
"Eating bon-bons and taking naps all day."? The kids *and* the house are immaculate. Let *him* stay home for several days and keep everything running smoothly.
@stuff17848 ай бұрын
Seriously!!!!
@ladydi371158 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@jscho86748 ай бұрын
I noticed that as well!
@jesusisgod49928 ай бұрын
As someone who is childless, I sit around and eat bon bons and take naps. When you have children, you are constantly doing things.
@cristineconnell78038 ай бұрын
@@jesusisgod4992Hopefully 😂😂
@mikennapastion7918 ай бұрын
I feel so bad for the second guy, like her heart isn’t in it the way his is.. he has a big heart and deserves a sweetie.
@christinaowens33098 ай бұрын
And please do not take foster children. These children come from broken homes and do not need to be put right into another one. To do so would be so unfair to those children and selfish of you.
@flenzy8 ай бұрын
Well said. Very well said.
@KM-nq7ez8 ай бұрын
100 percent truth…. A marriage better be STRONG when you bring these precious, but sometimes extremely challenging children into your home….. stress an already dis functioning marriage…. Don’t even THINK about it!
@Jezebellum-l2u8 ай бұрын
Surely they wouldn't be allowed to foster?
@christinaowens33098 ай бұрын
I would think they wouldn't be approved.
@brendakruger25978 ай бұрын
I wish my husband would buy me a car😢
@vanessamatodes8 ай бұрын
The second husband deserves a better lady than this immature wife. She literally lives with an agenda to hurt him
@wLBlue7 ай бұрын
But she is the majority of women. 50% married end in divorce majority filed by women...of the remaining 50% of married couples less than half are good marriages. Women should hold their sisters accountable this can't and won't be fixed by men alone...or will it...can it?
@HISIAM888RUHIS8886 ай бұрын
And it seems she likes it!! (Noticing the smiles on her face when she’s asked)!! Some narcs get pleasure out of seeing their loved one in pain!! (Which They caused)!! 🚫👿🚫😈💔🙏🙏🙏
@Tabby-t2s8 ай бұрын
Such a shame. There are so few good guys out there. She’s ruining him. So sad.
@freyamccauley8 ай бұрын
Is she? How do you think that?
@lilaworley89358 ай бұрын
Actually men make up 50% of the population.
@TheGreyFortress8 ай бұрын
@@freyamccauleyshe means the second couple.
@jonathandevereaux2988 ай бұрын
He's not one of the good ones. Spineless men aren't men and that whining personality would kill any intimacy for women.
@deriklfixit7 ай бұрын
There's tons of GREAT GUYS, its just that women ruin them. or overlook them.
@ashleysmashley16748 ай бұрын
The first couple, you can tell he loves her dearly
@someone31877 ай бұрын
And so does she
@Amb24007 ай бұрын
They just don't know how to communicate without getting offended.
@Hipocratease8 ай бұрын
The logic is mind blowing of the second wife. Husband run!!
@karenmacomber56928 ай бұрын
Im sure my soon realized what happened and he went down hill from there
@Savingdea8 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@angelh82628 ай бұрын
Narcissist’s always turn on the tears and play the victim. It’s all an act. Please get out of this relationship. She will never, ever change.
@florenbaron71115 ай бұрын
Exactly, there are so many narcissistic women who cry to get what they want.
@kimberlyheibel87598 ай бұрын
The second couple is so conflicted. She doesn't love him. There is no affection, no love, nothing there. I feel for her husband.
@Savingdea8 ай бұрын
Very true
@nichmon32217 ай бұрын
I agree.
@LeonardEarnshaw8 ай бұрын
unrelated maybe, but There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; each is different. What works for one couple may not work for another. However, I've realized that there's always a way to resolve issues. Five years ago, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of marital difficulties, but we managed to reconcile
@BruceKnapp-n4q8 ай бұрын
Your words hold great meaning, and I sincerely hope my sentiments are in harmony with yours. Despite our current separation, I cannot picture my life without her; my love for her is profound. I long to have her back, and I'm willing to make any sacrifice to achieve reconciliation. We've explored various paths, including therapy, in our journey to mend our relationship
@LeonardEarnshaw8 ай бұрын
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
@BruceKnapp-n4q8 ай бұрын
Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt
@LeonardEarnshaw8 ай бұрын
I promise you will not regret it
@catholicfaithofmine26648 ай бұрын
So true, but there is a such thing as being taken advantage of in a marriage. When one person is a giver and one is a taker, it's not good.
@laraderksen42978 ай бұрын
Second couple- he deserves so much better. She’s not being a very good human let alone life partner at this point. I hope he left her.
@Morrison-yi7mq8 ай бұрын
The second couple she does not deserve him.
@salt81248 ай бұрын
She love her and herself only! She is not even that attractive 😳😳🥶🥶
@lisawentworth68316 ай бұрын
Exactly...there are a lot of good women that would kill for a nice guy...they are so rare. She doesn't even like him!
@chrisapollo66768 ай бұрын
2nd couple: dude, you need to walk. Scratch that - RUN!!! She’s for the street. She’ll destroy you - do not get her pregnant. RUN!!! She’s looking for an 18 year payday. You cannot fix her. You don’t understand, dude. You need to RUN!
@georginasawyer65248 ай бұрын
Donny run !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please dont have a kid you will so regret this
@flenzy8 ай бұрын
Also, can you imagine life for that poor kid who has this lying and cold person as a mother? A lifetime of therapy would follow once they left the home.
@saltycat6627 ай бұрын
She'll get pregnant just to spite him and he'll be dumb enough to go along with it.
@lisawentworth68316 ай бұрын
@@flenzy there is something seriously off with her! Not a nurturing bone in her body and 100% selfish agenda
@Thespiritleads7775 ай бұрын
Heaven forbid they have a child 🙄
@deniseainsworth32957 ай бұрын
That second husband deserves better. He should never have married her.
@conniekepke76768 ай бұрын
#2 guy RUN DON'T WALK
@hussainaishaya-audu18448 ай бұрын
The first couple love each other. You can tell. They are just not communicating right.
@maritaberndt62008 ай бұрын
I can relate to the birthday thing. But I can also relate to her disappointment that he isn't around for her and the kids and that he isn't being a partner to her.
@mangoyacho7 ай бұрын
@@maritaberndt6200 but he has to work to provide - perhaps she could go to work in the salon too.
@ajj96947 ай бұрын
I hope they made it!
@wLBlue7 ай бұрын
They had no trouble communicating enough to get pregnant though...ain't that something...do better ladies.
@breezeh11278 ай бұрын
2nd wife is disrespectful, selfish, a liar and not good enough for him. She disgusts me. If he was my son I would pay for the divorce.
@billysmith57218 ай бұрын
SOMETIMES THERE IS NO ANSWER OTHER THAN DIVORCE
@Savingdea8 ай бұрын
It’s for the best G
@jackieblue23418 ай бұрын
He needs to leave her for a woman who would appreciate him. The second couple. Think the first couple have a chance
@MrsTorches8 ай бұрын
The first couple could be a TV show, lol. 😂 I think they're both Most Likeable Character material... I'm on her side with the car, tho 😅
@ladydi371158 ай бұрын
100% agree
@ladydi371158 ай бұрын
@MrsTorchies, I agree! I loved that 1st couple...the 2nd one, I hope he divorced her or, better yet, annulled the marriage. I doubt he did that, though, because you could tell he loves her. Too bad she doesn't feel the same...clearly.
@Savingdea8 ай бұрын
Etd I’m sure
@CanMoose8 ай бұрын
They might have a chance if the husband learns to respect all the hard work his wife does
@oadougz8 ай бұрын
That last "couple" I felt so bad for the Husband. He deserves waaaayyyy better. She was desperate, probably married for money, and clearly she has some mental health issues. He needs to go to therapy so he doesn't end up in this situation again and use his mind more than his heart.
@Enoughalready202378 ай бұрын
Pursuing Foster Care?! While their marriage is falling apart?!
@BunnySlippers828 ай бұрын
Second wife does not love her husband, she's searching for a bad boy who will choose her over all his other women and it's not going to happen. That poor man deserves real love and she's not it.
@rhiannonalcock55248 ай бұрын
Zero chemistry in the second couple.
@leanneheinemann38628 ай бұрын
My husband and I, got engaged after 3 months, married within 12 months. We’ve been married 46yrs.
@nonap52257 ай бұрын
Same here. We will be married 62 years in a month. Never regretted getting married. At 81 years old and 80 years old, we still have a deep love for each other. We also have Jesus in our lives. Jesus is the glue that keeps us together.
@lynnraymer90658 ай бұрын
My husband and I got married 32 yrs ago after dating for 3 weeks!! We still do everything together . We still hold hands. We never fight. We've never said a mean word to each other. Respect and love!! We have 3 kids and 2 grandchildren!!! ❤❤❤❤
@RocioWischsan8 ай бұрын
That’s great to know. You are a y
@RocioWischsan8 ай бұрын
Testimony that it is possible to have a good marriage, it just has to be either the right one.
@kimberlyriley55458 ай бұрын
We also knew each other for 3 weeks been married almost 35 years ❤
@jackielouw47528 ай бұрын
Wonderful ❤
@wLBlue7 ай бұрын
@@RocioWischsannobody said it was a good marriage...what's his honest take....without wife's influence
@teedee11708 ай бұрын
No ways can you lie to someone like that! He married a person who he doesn’t know! Walk!
@TheCarlinCoop8 ай бұрын
The first couple actually can make it. They held hands the entire time
@ScanMan19678 ай бұрын
She tells him 20 guys, she tells the show 40 guys when in reality its probably 100. Dude...RUN!!
@belindascott27478 ай бұрын
I bet you wouldn't say that if it was a man that had 100, which is normal!
@lesliegraham50596 ай бұрын
@@belindascott2747 d
@DylaneyDayАй бұрын
The issue is not how many men she’s been with. She doesn’t love him, has narcissistic tendencies, and cheats.
@NYBroncos8 ай бұрын
The 2nd couple should never have gotten together.
@mandlas.43058 ай бұрын
The wife was broken on the inside from one night stands. This is why people should wait for marriage. God is wise
@wLBlue7 ай бұрын
But they did
@NYBroncos6 ай бұрын
I want Dr Phil to do an update on the couple.
@nancyaguirre23077 ай бұрын
As soon as she said she tolerates him. That was it. Divorce. He loves her, she tolerates him.
@juanitasullivan33728 ай бұрын
Dump the girl!!!! She just ripped his heart out when he heard the real number.
@EuphoricSoundDJ7 ай бұрын
27 was already a lot He should have seen that as a red flag as it is.
@MarinaLaroche5 ай бұрын
@@EuphoricSoundDJ I was stunned at the 27 number and speechless at 40.
@Enoughalready202378 ай бұрын
The tears by this young man at 30:20 - I’m so sad for him.
@lindaallen40678 ай бұрын
He really didn't know her... she lied to him!
@jeanniejean24787 ай бұрын
30:54 she doesn’t want the marriage, or him. He needs to get out and count his losses. He will never get the love he deserves from her.
@candacem69328 ай бұрын
The second couple is not going to make, the wife is too immature. She likes the thrill of the chase, but once she gets him she is bored and ready to start chasing again.
@Savingdea8 ай бұрын
I like chase ❤❤❤
@Savingdea8 ай бұрын
But he does not meet me mentally.
@323azteca7 ай бұрын
She is just thinking about herself. Hebis thebonly one willing to stick by her whoring.
@sherricox8757 ай бұрын
Divorce on, Alienation of affection 😢
@Echidna70956 ай бұрын
Yes too immature for marriage. And he is a total co dependent - wouldn't be attracted to her otherwise
@jayalexander33568 ай бұрын
Second chick is a nightmare. She has serious problems. I hope he ran far, far away from her!
@No_Preservations8 ай бұрын
That second girl is for the streets.
@zeenatmustapha22408 ай бұрын
She is a street girl, come on 40 men and husband she,s not ready for a stable relationship.
@elcheapo94447 ай бұрын
She has a future as an exotic dancer.
@lisawentworth68316 ай бұрын
@@elcheapo9444 good call...she has the coldness emotionally and wants attention. Not wife material
@landib16 ай бұрын
She's actually broken.
@NicolajFlies4 ай бұрын
Hahaha!
@kathymiller592Ай бұрын
I am praying for the success of the first couple. They are such a beautiful couple and special. You can see that man loves her. They can grow together if they just give it a chance!
@veronicasanchez6968 ай бұрын
She married the nice guy because she knows bad guys mistreat her but she likes bad guys He needs to move on she needs help all kinds of red flags she doesn’t even show him even the bare minimum love and respect she is just afraid of being alone when she’s old but she wants to eat her cake and keep hubby close if she were to tell him she doesn’t love or want to be with him he’s gonna leave and find someone he deserves so she keeps him there for safety that’s so terrible of her and very selfish
@Phoenix635242 ай бұрын
That second guy is so sweet and any woman would be lucky to have him.
@RobynA118 ай бұрын
I cannot believe she called that car a ‘hoopty’. He bought her what they could afford. It’s better than Chevrolegs, lady. Show some gratitude
@888hereandnow8 ай бұрын
Yes better than pushing a stroller with 2 kids
@Azzne-8 ай бұрын
You can be both grateful and acknowledge that it’s a hoopty 😂
@WendyP19657 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@sandrarice41978 ай бұрын
The first married couple, the wife should be thankful her husband bought her a car whether a hoopty or not!!! He worked very hard to buy that for her. It's better than not having a car. She is very ungrateful. She's able to stay at home with the children. How many women would love to stay at home with their children? My son is grown now, but I would have loved to stay home with my son, but I needed to help my precious husband financially. I needed to be responsible to financially support my son along with my precious husband. My husband worked a lot to support us. You have to cherish the time you have together.❤
@ProvocateuAstrology28 ай бұрын
Miss dishonesty needs to be ejected from her seat and marriage
@ladydi371158 ай бұрын
💯
@jeanneeber8 ай бұрын
Great response! Who's gonna push the button? You or me?
@belindasims52907 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@conniebrown84807 ай бұрын
😅😅😅
@mastermisterupload5 ай бұрын
the second husband shouldn't hesitate. bro, you should immediately divorce that kind of woman, you don't want that kind of woman to be the mother of your offspring. big NO.
@beverlytolbert22788 ай бұрын
The 2nd couple..WHY is he staying? WHAT is he staying for?!?! He's a fool if he stays with her.
@kathyandjeffdailey34557 ай бұрын
Second couple. Dude, let her go. She isn't your idea of a wife, and she has NO intention of bonding, working together, or making you a priority. Bye-Bye....
@joleenspelbrink32655 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!!
@lorainewebber658 ай бұрын
Second dude needs to run, he can find someone that will treat him the way he deserves to be treated, she's not worth it
@happycook67378 ай бұрын
It does hurt when no one remembers your birthday!
@sarahwall35288 ай бұрын
My husband died 8 years ago and I remember his birthday as I did for 48 years. I think some young people don’t really have a capacity to completely love another person now. They’ve been so indulged by their parents and grandparents and feel they’re the centre of the universe.
@anneoreilly49007 ай бұрын
Yes, but he should have talked about how he wanted to spend the day. The wife can’t meet unspoken expectations.
@brookealicia9227 күн бұрын
She was going to acknowledge it but it wasn’t on his timeline. She was probably dealing with the kids before he even woke up.
@michellecleland55158 ай бұрын
first couple...I can't get over how beautiful they both are. Not important for this topic but wow!! They have amazing genes.
@GypsyGirl3177 ай бұрын
They seem like lovely people as well - I hope they make it. ❤️
@margarethnyamushonongora75226 ай бұрын
Very correct. And it looks like they can make it. Is doc Phil says.
@Lisafisico8 ай бұрын
I am mind blown, and nothing ever surprises me! Send the guy my way, I'll love him. He needs to leave her, she doesn't even like him, no matter love him! Wow!
@islandgirlruby27508 ай бұрын
No one falls in love faster than someone who needs somewhere to stay, I call them hobosexual
@sarahuber85678 ай бұрын
Hahaha
@alanaadams74408 ай бұрын
Good one
@happycook67378 ай бұрын
I love your term homosexual! Perfect and hilariously while sadly true.
@tonettesharp64188 ай бұрын
Preach it!
@MissHolliday31108 ай бұрын
😂
@susiehaynie17674 ай бұрын
The second couple- She is stuck on making bad decisions and doesn't see the forest for the trees. I think he genuinely loves her. She is sabotaging any good thing that happens in her life.
@lincolnlane92358 ай бұрын
Anul it, let it fade away and move on. She’s not invested, she can’t be trusted, and the wild child in her is not going to dissipate.
@kali373115 күн бұрын
second story guy was so sweet bless his heart 🥺😞… she is extremley avoidant…and he deserves better…
@user-JesusSonofGod7778 ай бұрын
Unfortunately the husband needs to end this marriage because his wife doesn’t love or care about him. He seems like a really good guy…& deserves a good woman to treat him right
@itlngrl677 ай бұрын
She doesn't even like him. Sad
@MaanSelene8 ай бұрын
Do you know how many women in the audience would sell their soul to the devil himself right there on the stage for a husband like Donny? Holy mozes....
@flenzy8 ай бұрын
Not me. He's a classic doormat. I'll bet that he'll never leave and that she will someday. He'll subconscious be attracted to another woman just like her. It's his comfort level and probably feels familiar. Wonder how his mother treated him.
@karenmacomber56928 ай бұрын
I went through the same thing and after a year and 4 months, one night he said he was going Christmas shopping for me and never came back. Two kids he he left behind 11months and 4 years old and i still can't get over it. I can't get it out of my mind happened in 1993
@Durka-Durka8 ай бұрын
Did you get divorced and get child support, or did he disappear? Please get over it. You're better off with a man who has a spine.
@Dan166738 ай бұрын
Wtf rly? An update? Any word from him?
@positivelyradiant96558 ай бұрын
😮😮😮😮 Oh my gosh! That’s crazy, I’m sorry you went through that!!
@loriloucks37388 ай бұрын
After 6 years my guy handed me my travel mug and gave me a kiss good bye and I left for work, came home and him and all his stuff was gone.
@seadragon14568 ай бұрын
I didn’t realize men really did that.
@debo3987 ай бұрын
Donnie and Miranda definitely should get divorced. Do Not...DO NOT...bring a child into this mess...that is a recipe for disaster...and to do so is abusive to the potential child...knowing that neither of them are happy in this marriage.
@CC-lk1sj8 ай бұрын
The second couple need to be separate immediately. She is not going to change period. He needs to move away and ensure you don not have a baby with this mentally unstable woman. Wanting to bring a baby just because “I want to be mom” it is selfish. Babies, kids deserve a loving, caring parent and a loving home
@marks.75937 ай бұрын
The 2nd couple should go home and start divorce proceedings. He should NEVER sleep with her, because if he does and she becomes pregnant, he is on the hook for child support for 18 years and forever tied to her. They should run in opposite directions.
@coldshot17237 ай бұрын
I dated a woman for 5 months and she suddenly ended it. Three months later, she wanted to get back together so I said yes. We got married 2 years later. I found out 6 years into the marriage that she had broken up with me to go out with a guy who asked her out. She initially had no interest in him until she found out he was a multi-millionaire. When he broke up with her 3 months later, she came back to me. Finding out that she was that shallow really changed my opinion of her. And that she kept it from me all those years was even worse. I mean, she used to make fun of this guy when he would ask her out. But when she found out he was rich, that all changed. We've been divorced for 14 years now. And I haven't dated since.
@janebaker49128 ай бұрын
Second wife has some trauma in her past. Poor woman. She needs to work on that. Maybe not be married. Work on herself. Let this man go.
@jdglen246 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing
@hazzaplayz808Ай бұрын
She's been raped,molested or something Regardless,her husband really deserves better
@DHass645 ай бұрын
For the second couple, I hope that the husband is happily married today...to someone else! He seems like a genuine person who loves his wife. She has a LOT of issues!!
@jennifers88438 ай бұрын
The second woman is way to immature to be in a committed relationship of any kind.
@SkarXOX7 ай бұрын
30th Birthday IS a big milestone. And SHOULD be celebrated, especially when it’s so important to your Spouse.
@romaneros45838 ай бұрын
This second woman is the perfect example that a woman with a large body count can't pair bond. She is damaged by her own poor decisions.
@seadragon14568 ай бұрын
For real. Nobody is capable of bonding to one person after having all those options.
@Savingdea8 ай бұрын
True 😂😂
@chilo81878 ай бұрын
Probably sexually abused as a child, people don’t do that for no reason
@lxnie_8 ай бұрын
not even what’s going on buddy. think a little deeper and harder and i promise you you’ll get it
@BecksssChannel7 ай бұрын
@@lxnie_oh yes cause you know her anymore than he does buddy?
@Kimbine18 ай бұрын
“All you have to do is be open with me” 😢 man soo sad❤
@EarlBaldbear8 ай бұрын
First couple should succeed. They both seem like good people. And they are both spectacularly attractive, for what it's worth. They are most of the way towards reconciling.
@ajj96947 ай бұрын
They are a cute couple. I hope they made it.
@ninajones11757 ай бұрын
Good grief! That second chick should never have gotten married! He needs to accept it and move on. She is toxic! This kind of therapy will take years. She is seriously damaged and he seems insecure.
@Tabby-t2s8 ай бұрын
Wow. He’s far from underachieving. He owns his own business and is taking care of his responsibilities. She needs to stop thinking it’s his responsibility to take care of her. They need to take care of each other.
@catholicfaithofmine26648 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯. He's not her personal ATM. He's not working just for her it's for the whole family. Catered to? No He's not your maid.
@jeanneeber8 ай бұрын
👉 Who's already catering to 2 other human beings 24/7/365? All day & all night every day? What did he do for her, today?
@kiimmig22938 ай бұрын
@@jeanneeberYES!! His comments about napping and eating bon bons all day was an example of his understanding of her jobs! ZERO! He’s out and about conversing with adults, making major FAMILY decisions, in his name only, but thinking she’s going to gush all over him ? 🤬 He needs a month of staying home and doing her job IMO. It’s not magic fairies that are doing all the jobs.
@patriciakeith61648 ай бұрын
It's a 💯 percent part in each of them to make it work it's a marriage with demands on each part not a one way street
@patriciakeith61648 ай бұрын
@@kiimmig2293 Wonder if his name is Al Bundy and a shoe salesman
@doctorartphd64632 ай бұрын
Gratitude, loyalty, trust, insightful communications, and compassion are the top essential qualities for sustained marriages.
@shrutefarms47418 ай бұрын
Second women is a child a selfish immature child who will never be a good partner… for anyone. Move on guy!
@mauroincani30428 ай бұрын
Dr.Phil, my husband and I got to know eachother for 2 months and 2 weeks, got married and now have gone on to 42 years of marriage. We had our up and downs and just faced it on, solved the problems and still love one another, more than then and less than tomorrow.
@MrOverdogg8 ай бұрын
THE SECOND COUPLE, THE WIFE IS A GARDEN TOOL, HE NEED'S TO GET OUT OF THIS FOOLISHNESS ASAP.
@Lisa598 ай бұрын
A garden tool! hahahahahahaha! Yeah, he needs to get away until she is straightened out
@sidewaze678 ай бұрын
Nope tools are useful! 😅
@MrOverdogg8 ай бұрын
@@sidewaze67 tools are only useful for what they are used for and that tool has been used a lot.
@WendyP19657 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@kittyeyes8888 ай бұрын
I’m mortified that the second wife wants a child. 😳
@barbaramilone28008 ай бұрын
I've had my share of not-so-good relationships, but I eventually met my soulmate. We were married for ten years (together, almost twelve) and had two daughters. We both worked full-time and managed to share the load at home. We shared the cooking and cleaning. He did the handyman stuff, and I did the paperwork, according to our strengths. Unfortunately, he had a heart attack and passed away when the girls were only 9 and 6. That was 27 years ago, and unfortunately, I have never met anyone like him again. The real princes are few and far between, but with some work and give-and-take (and reasonable thinking), I think the first couple has a chance. I hope so.
@jscho86748 ай бұрын
I am so sorry you lost your husband so young. I almost lost mine under the same circumstances when our twins were 9. Even just coming close to losing him was a nightmare. My heart aches for you, and for him too. He must have been so incredible special to have never met another man worthy enough. I hate that it ended so young for you two, but I bet the legacy of your man and your marriage are treasured throughout your family. ❤
@barbaramilone28008 ай бұрын
@@jscho8674 Thank you so much for your kind words!!!
@FairyCatt938 ай бұрын
This is my worst nightmare. The men in my husband's family tend to pass away young, and I honestly don't know how I would cope without my husband. He is my soul mate, even though he would get the ick hearing me say that🙊
@lucyluG8 ай бұрын
Ah that's so sad. At least you met your soulmate and have 2 beautiful children. I am still waiting, 42yrs old 😢. 💜
@barbaramilone28008 ай бұрын
@@lucyluG He's gotta be out there somewhere! I'm 69 and have not yet given up hope! 😀
@animegirl2.06817 күн бұрын
To the second guy, I'd so be with him. She doesn't understand how good she has it with him. She's still in her partying phase. It's not out of her system yet.
@candicear-438 ай бұрын
I hate to say this but it feels like with the 2nd couple that she loves the life he provides but not him. I think thats why she wants a baby. He'll be on the hook for 18 yrs financially. He would still be supporting her, in a way if she leaves him.