The Introvert-Extrovert Lie (EXPOSED): What They Never Told You

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Ever wondered if you're an introvert or an extrovert? Turns out, there's a lot more to it than just being loud or quiet! Inspired by Carl Jung, the genius who introduced these terms, we're diving into the myths and truths behind them. It's not all about loving or hating parties-every human needs some alone time, and being shy isn't the same as being an introvert.
In this video, we'll explore what really defines introverts and extroverts. Are these labels set in stone, or can they change? Maybe you're a mix of both! Get ready to uncover some surprising facts that could change how you see yourself and others. Let's crack the code together!
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[@zolyx5395]

I would argue you need to be an introvert to become spiritually enlightened so you can be an authentic extrovert, instead of living in delusion.

[@BeautiHacks]

Pretty good observation if you ask me.

[@taylorbee4010]

Bhuddha has entered the KZbin chat

[@liambeaton8318]

Let’s debunk your argument with one example: Russell Brand

[@user00404]

I would argue needing to be spiritually enlightened is a kind of snobbishness towards common sense

[@hoppeanofasgard1365]

Yea I'd second this, introverts tend to get to know them selves much easier, both mentally and spiritually. We also tend to be able to tame the ego much faster.

[@davidwright7659]

Im an Extrovert around people who give me peace.

[@nikola7448]

Great video Tai. Love the idea of extrovert = loud, introvert = quiet. I find when i'm loud im comfortable and when im quiet im anxious, which makes sense

[@cashmerefire7335]

Wow thank you for cutting to the core of the issue. Ive had low social self esteem since i was an outcast as a child but its slowly gotten better.

[@gsmith6733]

Loved this talk Tai.💖 This is such an interesting perspective on personality and behaviors. As for me I am moderately adaptable, always learning new things, but highly introspective and subjective. If I had to score myself maybe 75 adaptability.🤔

[@ninachanelle1214]

I convinced my friend whose autistic and very close to mute he actually went to a toastmasters class to practice social speech and he tried it. I love psychology I studied cognitive sciences ❤

[@tailopez]

Nice, how did he do with toastmasters?

[@ninachanelle1214]

He shook but he did well the best he could an introvert number 1 fear is someone will take advantage of their naivety, and feels like those kind of ppl belong in hell. That’s why he’s introverted, strong morale scale. Everyone makes mistakes but that’s why his afraid of running a business . He’s not a smooth talker but he has endured abuse from his father..and wants to own a business one day. Deep down inside we all want peace and love and the only way we can do that is through love integrity

[@ISREHL]

Makes a lot of sense. A lot of people hide behind the “introvert” label

[@damianskretta7103]

I only recently found out about Myers Briggs system. And after being “diagnosed” as an INFJ my first thought was to reject it, I’ve always been aware of my social anxiety but never thought I could change it till recently. Thank you for giving me hope

[@damienwelter4543]

Most people use the whole personality typing phenomena as an excuse not to deal with their trauma and develop their charisma. Nothing in life worth it, ever came easy.

[@diegowaahere]

Tai from a 1-100 scale i would say that Im a 25. On the lower end. I am working on my social anxiety and adoption of better ways to live. I changed my diet from abdomen pain. Ive changed my social approaches from rejection and loneliness. Its very easy to slip back and I do but i am picking myself up a lot faster than before sometimes in seconds. It has been a solid 3 weeks of positive pushing and Im building intertia. Getting out of my head and doing flurries of action has helped tremendously and people are noticing the change in me. Thank you

[@Lotezkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk]

I’ve socially outgoing around some people. I’m socially anxious around others. I lean more towards the latter.

[@Xyberbot]

Wow, I thought I had changed, but now after seeing this video, I’m not too sure I have. I would love to be more adaptable, that sounds so very wonderful! Thank you Tai, I never looked at introversion and extroversion in the way that you explain, thanks to you I’m always learning something new

[@ashley-t8x]

Good point! Now I am going to have to go read Jung’s Personality Types book. I have always assumed I was an introvert because I really enjoy quiet, reflective space but on the flip side of the coin I have always had an easy time adapting to new environments.

[@carisafairbairn5035]

I've always been adaptable. I can learn anything, or how to be anything. Mixture extrovert/introvert I would say based on learning from listening to others and also learning from sitting quietly and thinking. I try to ensure I'm learning in my life both ways.

[@gsmith6733]

Here is a YT video I found that explains Introversion in a way that I totally relate to "10 Ways Introverts Intimidate People".

[@harveysavin2780]

Great vid and just general outlook on life and how to see things that’s manageable

[@MiguelExhale]

Spot on. Self assess… 55/100. Bad habits and comfort but I Definetly notice and I am working on it.

[@kaizen1723]

From personal experience, some people are energised by social interaction other are drained by social interaction. If you want to label it as intro/extraversion or social anxiety doesnt matter. Thats a fact!

[@blazing_KC]

I'm an introvert but being adaptable is something I value and understand. I do agree that being stubborn is a very different thing.

[@dannyerlebach6631]

Ive been very adaptable and found this video very helpful, thank you Tai

[@AustinOllar]

Most people are completely lost when it comes to extroversion and introversion. There’s a new personality system called Objective Personality which combines Carl Jung’s cognitive functions with Tony Robbins human needs. It explains introverted processing vs extroverted processing in much greater detail. If you actually want to understand what’s going on with the human psyche and why certain people are more introverted or extroverted than others, then check it out.

[@GRUBB-MUDD]

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[@voyagerdre]

I’m 50/50…..I can identify trends but I’m not sure how to utilize them to my advantage 100%

[@LIV-FREE-VET]

Tai is freaking smart and motivating.

[@neuroshockmount6475]

Something has shifted within you. You sound grounded, kind, patient and interested in having an open conversation with your audience. Well done. You always offer valuable content. It's fascinating to watch your evolutionary process. Keep up the momentum 💪 👏 🎉

[@1showie]

On adaptability I'd say, "I'm trying, ok!"😅

[@tobiaswillich]

the man the guy the myth... step number 21 out of the 67 steps is a good lesson related to this video (listened to it today PASE)

[@Docmotivate]

This was a great build Tai !!! thanks

[@finnjuniperdenaro]

I like your Take Tai - Seems more measured than the easier polarised grouping - Cheers 🌞

[@Ellifmusic]

Whats your take on asocial people? People who genuinely do not like socializing ?

[@tailopez]

Have you read "Social" By Matt Lieberman?

[@PrinceLevii]

Love the content tai.. really needed this today thanks

[@SleptDeadA9]

Anxiety is the root of “introverts”

[@RodneyKimbangu]

Some introverts!

[@alexisbobby3213]

It’s not, you obviously haven’t taken a public speaking class. I’ve seen friends who are extroverts have anxiety/get nervous before speaking in front of a class. He perfectly explained human anatomy. Listen to what he’s saying

[@SleptDeadA9]

@@alexisbobby3213 you can be an “extrovert” with anxiety, but “introverts,” which are people who live in the shadows because they believe their social status isn’t as important, so they will happily label them selves as introverts rather than overcoming their anxieties. Your friends may be extroverts with some anxiety, but they don’t hide behind their anxiety. That’s the whole reason why they’re taking the public speaking classto begin with.

[@SleptDeadA9]

@@RodneyKimbangu ALL.

[@abdeljalil6642]

Intriguing video. I’ll have to rewatch it

[@shandonis7370]

I’m adaptable but my wife is afraid of change. Makes for some interesting time in my home.

[@Rishi2015]

how old are you?

[@shandonis7370]

42

[@DrewBrisc1]

The King is back! 🙌🏾

[@voyagerdre]

If I had to describe Tai he is a very statistically informed Observer……Also……there is a third term being used more recently called Ambivert

[@marionbehrent7784]

I'm a bit like Audry Hepburn. Extremely introverted. Extremely shy. Happy in social settings. Don't mind limelight.

[@jan6485]

A master class thank you for this gift of knowledge

[@vaidaskemeklis]

Adaptability I would say is at 80-90 I like taking some lessons slow to understand that part of the world better.

[@ernestoalvarado6202]

Im stubborn as hell, after my mid 20s I began to deplete in wanting to explore and do more with my life, I focused on just starting a family and be happy with that accomplishment. Now 36 and feeling lost while everyone passes me by whilst in the back of my mind, what am I going to leave my kids behind when I’m gone.

[@menamgamg]

I definitely learn better when i can take my time alone with things.. But i think that's because of social anxiety as well xD Because it's not that im not interested. Im very open minded to learning and im not attached to my own opinions and ideas.

[@hoppeanofasgard1365]

mmm, I'd say you're a bit off, I'm an introvert but I'm not stubborn at all, I'm always open to learning and doing new things, however when it comes to learning I just learn better on my own at my own pace and not in a study group, not saying I don't like the idea of mentors, in fact I do, always great to have someone more knowledgeable to ask questions of, but it's a difference of classroom setting vs my own learn at home with books or audio books type of way. Or in the case of doing for example, I can tell you I learned 5x faster on how to become a good cook, making a bunch of my own recipes, making mistakes, and correcting those mistakes in my own house, then I did taking a formal cooking class.

[@blairmatera6096]

I love the meta framework you proposed of “adaptable” and “non-adaptable”, and I think it will be the litmus test for who will win and who will lose the coming decades. However, I think you’re unintentionally distorting Carl Jung’s work. For those that are unaware, the “Myers-Briggs 16 personalities” were built on-top of Jung’s “Four Sides of the Mind” cognitive framework. Through Jung’s psychoanalytical practice, he was able to deduce the human mind to “8 cognitive functions (Ti, Te, Fi, Fe, Ni, Ne, Si, Se). A person’s “personality type” is the order in which their mind “prefers” these cognitive functions. The problem with taking a “Myers-Briggs” test online is that it doesn’t test for the cognitive functions, but the letter dichotomies (I/E, S/N, T/F, P/J). This is where I think you are correct Tai, in pointing out that someone’s introversion could just be social anxiety, subsequently leading to the Myers-Briggs test to falsely labeling the test taker. However, Carl Jung’s work is not the Myers-Briggs. Again, no hate here, for I’m a long time consumer of your content Tai. Just felt a strong obligation to point this out.

[@lordcammper826]

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[@ivanadrama]

Love you from New Zealand

[@alphasocial2045]

Loving this content

[@healthyminimalist]

Extroverts talk more. Introverts think more.

[@DavidSk2683]

Awesome video!

[@realMartinHamilton]

Tai, I want to learn more about this part of your talk, introverts and extroverts see the world through objects (extroverts) or the subject/themselves (introvert). Can you direct me to where this is discussed further. Can you do another discussion on this?

[@Kolmir]

Very interesting, thank you! My adaptability is probably about 95...

[@NolenFelten]

5% of the population has been exposed to Tai Lopez...I don't meet many people who say "yeah, I know Tai Lopez"

[@BearCee75]

I am mainly extroverted/I also have had social anxiety/phobias for years. Started therapy. (my dad is anxious, had no emotional parental support growing up and I was bullied here & there in school) Grew up in a toxic parental environment so I know that has a lot to do with it. I would say I am a 30 on the scale🤔not sure how to measure that. Bad habits, lack self discipline, personality genetics. I am still learning everyday, reading ect. Taking your 67 steps. Whats one thing I can do to start removing that anxiety/past attached to it?

[@arielmetamorphosis]

I feel Im more adaptable , but perhaps it goes back to the paradox of choice like you mentioned in one of your previous videos. Maximixers or Satisfiers

[@thivan233]

Feel like I’m a social introvert 😅 anyways I think I’m right in the middle 50/100, can be adaptable but also stubborn

[@mattrodgers157]

Tai Lopez is actually kind of dope I don’t understand the hate he gets.

[@salty1849]

This guy is the king of amateurs.

[@LevivanBregt]

Wdym

[@salty1849]

@@LevivanBregt To conflate introversion with social anxiety is laughable at best. This is a man that is clearly not introverted and has admitted to have very little social anxiety, and yet he is talking as if he is an expert on the matter. Not to mention his understanding of Jung is superficial at best, even doubting if introversion and extroversion is real. He should go back to scamming kids and showing his lambos because at least he's able to do that without spreading pernicious pseudoscience.

[@salty1849]

Nah, just someone with a code of ethics, which is hard to find in a place like this...@teamcoalhapcharcoal

[@orokusaki1243]

@@salty1849 Your argument is non-existant and your comment is wholly ad hominem. Social anxiety can absolutely push someone to withdraw and exhibit introvert traits. Putting too much faith into the absoluteness of descriptive words is the stubbornness Tai mentions, which inhibits one from adapting. Even a PhD student of Jung can be wrong in their understanding, this is typically a result of bias and the lack of critical thinking. I'd encourage you, and anyone really, to listen to people, learn from them - even if it isn't 100% correct, you can still learn perspectives and points of view which may have insights and relevance.

[@orokusaki1243]

@teamcoalhapcharcoal They're here to learn too, but seems to be very skeptical. Perhaps what they were taught was indoctrination, and what Tai is saying conflicts with that.

[@nickrbhrt7931]

Can you be stubborn and adaptable?

[@CoffeyTravels]

3 because mostly anxious about change

[@tkc8810]

People need infographics and spectrums for personality types.

[@MarinDmax]

why u wear glasses without lances

[@investornabil8825]

I love Tai

[@StefanoCreatini]

Lets go!

[@wherezenith2856]

I'm 101 bioches...

[@jetthalterman9654]

💯

[@mike20855]

1:15 you said the name of the book wrong. need to have a higher level of conscientiousness 😀

[@thebostonfan777]

Would use Duoism.

[@thebostonfan777]

13:31 To see everything in balance it would be using what you see and creating solace with what another provides.

[@investornabil8825]

How adaptable are you??

[@perfecttransformation]

Love

[@Faithfulresonance1]

Tai you ever get tired of answering questions? I’m worried if I ever see you in real life I wouldn’t want to tire you with questions

[@mannydiehard1]

🤔

[@nicoleramos2700]

❤❤❤

[@bwing1477]

30 kinda stubborn. Probably due to early years conditioning. Not sure though. How does one become more adaptable if they are stubborn.

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Luv u bro ty

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[@RedDeadSpree]

I love you tai. Coolest billionaire ever :D

[@jesusislord5275]

67/100

[@MRJEnterprises]

77

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If you are listening to this guy God help you. Don’t give home any MONEY.😅

[@lucaraab2736]

65

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[@TrollHunterxXx]

25 no doubt … I’m trying to get better ❤️‍🩹