The Later Daters - S1 E4 - Outside Comfortzone

[@shirleyflournoy8451]

I think that was very simple of a person of her so called elite caliber in life to be so stuck on black. It made her look simple to even ask the questions that she asked. We are suppose to see people and not color. That’s how people miss out on life. From experience, white guys are exciting to date. They aim to please. They to have a way of making you feel special and it like they are coming from their heart. ❤️ They have a way of making you feel special and truly want the time that spent together is truly enjoyable for you.

[@elcid932]

@shirleyflournoy8451 I think because she was raised in segregation she did not think to date white. It just stayed with her throughout life. Yes Caucasian men do aim to please and many do...lol

[@Designs_Decor63]

Hey El Cid, @lady tea bug sent me over.

[@elcid932]

Thank you so much for coming over and supporting. Thank you @LadyTeaBug.

[@samanthasamantha1830]

Hi there, Queen El Cid! Here are the answers to your great questions! lol Yes, I have dated outside my race and it was not a bad experience at all. I think it's wise for us to keep our options open! I agree with you...Ty should have stuck with water as he waited and he definitely should have purchased some lovely flowers. I found that Lori represented exactly what Logan said: She truly didn't give Ty a safe place to land. She was too much into interview mode, which was unfortunate. She came off nit-picky. So unnecessary. It's really interesting living the love journey with these folks in this chapter of their lives. Great breakdown, El Cid! On to your next video! lol

[@elcid932]

@samanthasamantha1830 thank you for your praise and support. Yes inter racial dating is different but not something to fear. TY having a drink kind of put me off..lol. Lori may need a speed bump to get her to slow down. That may be a long time coach to help guide her dating.

[@samanthasamantha1830]

@@elcid932 You're very welcome! And, I agree! She seems to be resisting Logan's advice on things, which is really too bad. Like you, I think her glasses are symbolic of a wall. I totally understand that she loves her career, but if she wants a man to see himself with her for a long time...not just a good time...then she really does need to heed Logan's wise words of advice.

[@elcid932]

@@samanthasamantha1830 yeah she needs to be open to learn and grow.

[@togo2africa]

Great review!! You ask your viewers excellent questions. It is a great idea for you to ask the type of questions that will encourage interactions between you and your viewers. It also offers you the opportunity to get to learn more about them. I dated people outside of my race during my younger days. I was very comfortable with them because I have been around a diverse group of people most of my life. I went to school with them from a very young age & also worked with a diverse group of people. I enjoyed dating and hanging out with them, but I was never attracted to any of them. I always preferred being in romantic relationships with black men.

[@elcid932]

@@togo2africa I have dated and even contemplated marrying a different race. It is the cultural gymnastics that may be an issue. It was really great to travel at an early age and learn of different cultures. Dating opens you us to learning and I believe age reduces limitations.

[@elteddy27Official]

hey there!!!

[@elcid932]

Hey there. Thank you for supporting. 😊