Don't worry about other people's opinion, hold yourself to your own standard and embrace that. Yesterday I went to IKEA in Sydney, Australia. It was a hot day outside but as is my standard I was wearing trousers, a buttoned shirt, belt and leather shoes. As I walked through the store (IKEA is like a line at Disneyland, goes on forever) I became acutely aware that every other man was dressed like a 10 year old. Of maybe hundreds of people I was the only person with buttons on their shirt, I never noticed this when out and about before but rather than wishing I had worn a t shirt like all the other little boys, I took comfort in being me.
@stebo-pv2hq9 ай бұрын
Great video.Yesterday,I had lunch with a lady.I too make a concious decision to dress well.She said that no one dresses like you anymore.I replied,'and that is sad,is it not'.I won;t change my standards for others,plus,I look terrible in pajamas in public
@viclucyzia2 жыл бұрын
It's all about combination. A small essential wardrobe can look large if you can combine daily differently the items.
@johncappella1216 Жыл бұрын
Great advice, when you mentioned pocket square, it reminded me of my dad, the ultimate chap, he taught me how to fold the four corners pocket square, don't see many men styling that nowadays.
@ronaldpoppe37742 жыл бұрын
Good advice Ash. Glade to see young men wanting to look sharp and stylish. You are a good mentor for them to follow. Cheers Ron
@TheChapsGuide2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@srum49662 жыл бұрын
A great video. Living in Tokyo, space is limited, so for me this was very useful. When I first started going for the more-than-casual look, I opted for an overcoat. As I was still gaining confidence in my appearance, it was easy to go out in colder weather and hide my more casual clothes beneath. Then I added to my wardrobe as time went on.
@iansoutryer31892 жыл бұрын
Now that's a good advice, in particular if you don't want to break the bank. And I agree, "once you go into the world of shoes you keep buying and buying." That's what is happening to me right now. 😊
@TheChapsGuide2 жыл бұрын
God have mercy on your sole.
@iansoutryer31892 жыл бұрын
@@TheChapsGuide That's a good one!
@shank1806 Жыл бұрын
"You speak English better than I speak any other language." Haha, love the self deprecating humor and everything else about this channel.
@bobhaverbeck75852 жыл бұрын
Your suit is impeccable.
@georgejames42062 жыл бұрын
Greetings, Ash! It pays to take a more pragmatic, pared back approach. The simpler the wardrobe, the clearer the mind and the more headspace you have to enjoy all the beauty, culture and late-night basement salsa bars the world has to offer. Outstanding video!
@classicalgrooming2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for mentioning thrift stores as a source of good wardrobe. I'm starting off building my cache of clothes somewhat late in life, and the local thrift store has been a goldmine for quality shoes. I spent $20 for two pair of shoes that would be about $300 new. With polish and shoe trees, they look great.
@TheChapsGuide2 жыл бұрын
That’s a great result. I still seek out footwear bargains via KZbin and the regifting route. Many bargains to be found!!
@williamkazak4692 жыл бұрын
I like Merino wool and lambswool and Shetland wool sweaters. I do not need cashmere. I like double breasted camel colored polo coats in either camel hair or wool. A navy peacoat is also useful. I keep cotton sweaters to a minimum. In the Midwest USA, they are not very warm. Chinos work for me and wool trousers also. I do not like pocket squares. For me, they are too pretentious. Very nice video. Oh, I did not mention double breasted navy blue blazers. Tony Curtis wore one in the movie "Some Like it Hot" with Marilyn Monroe. They are great with light color slacks.
@TheChapsGuide2 жыл бұрын
Some great choice there sir - I love a DB navy blazer,but have been unable to track down a nice example in recent years - I'm still looking. Ash
@alamore50842 жыл бұрын
Firstly congratulations to Valentin for producing such a well considered letter. Starting so early will lay foundations which stand you in good stead for life. What an excellent Chaps Guide video and sage advice. These are principles and guidance which will stick with you and serve you well throughout your life and contribute towards your success. One addition I would make is find inspiration for your style. This will help you (and others) feel comfortable as you go on this journey. For me David Niven and Sean Connery both on and off the screen. You will unfortunately meet the odd unpleasant person who has a problem with your style, who is potentially miffed deep down as you take pride in your appearance. Rise above this, pay no heed and have confidence in your own path. Wishing you every success on your journey!
@TheChapsGuide2 жыл бұрын
Great supplementary advice. Ignore the haters - you are undoubtedly more stylish than them!!
@chrisblanc663 Жыл бұрын
I have never heard of David Niven outside this channel, looked him up, very stylish chap I must say. Sean Connery of course is almost still a household name and love his style. I am building up the courage (not to mention the funds) to get me a trilby hat. Already have a flat cap, but I would like something a bit nicer, and something to get me to be bold enough for summer hats eventually.
@mathiass12 жыл бұрын
Dear Ash, a great post. The magic word is skilful combining. With your tips, you can always go through life like a gentleman. Best regards, Mathias 😎
@TheChapsGuide2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@adamlittlewood14532 жыл бұрын
Absolute superb video. Very informative and the viewers can see and hear your enthusiasm about the subject. Great job Ash.
@jenschristianbachmann63462 жыл бұрын
Another great video with good advice for Valentin, the German teenager! I'm such a fan of your channel!
@neiljones22642 жыл бұрын
Great advice. I couldn't agree more with regards to the overcoat. It's the one item of clothing I've had the most compliments on over the years, it's the one thing most people will notice about you in the winter months, especially in this puffer jacket era.
@TheChapsGuide2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree!
@alexanderdylanthomas18912 жыл бұрын
I agree with the point about the versatility of a white dress shirt, I use a spread collar, button cuff royal Oxford shirt with mother of pearl buttons for my dinner suit and for wearing with shorts in summer. I prefer a grey or navy crewneck Shetland for knitwear due to it's extreme versatility. I think three shoes is an absolute minimum in the modern world; black cap toes, brown chukka boots and white minimal trainers. Thrift stores and ebay have been the perfect source for most of my ties in the new hyper casual world! Tailored chinos (with side adjusters) add a dimension of class to any outfit, no matter how casual. A cheaper option for an overcoat is a secondhand Barbour Border jacket. I bought mine from a vintage store while studying my masters in Edinburgh, and it has provided many years of style and warmth. Great video, and good luck Valentin!
@Brendan3627 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Ash. I been working on personal style and watching your videos has been helpful.
@KatjeSF Жыл бұрын
Bravo, Ash. You gave that young chap some excellent, essential advice.
@05Rudey2 жыл бұрын
I was about 34 when I decided to dress smarter (Brogues, Sports jackets, a nice automatic watch etc), I wish I made the transition in my mid 20's. I really do cringe on how I used to dress, which was on the lines of Trainers, cargo trousers, hoodies, T-Shirts with large prints, all about 2 - 3 sizes too big. What worries me is that I didn't see a problem with it until I was on a train that had long periods of tunnels that turned the windows into almost mirrors and I was forced to stare at my reflection and then it hit me, I'm nearly 35 years old dressing like teenager/early 20's. I felt a bit ashamed. When I got home, I started to make changes that night and pretty much threw away what I was wearing to force myself to wear shoes, chinos, shirts and a Navy Blazer. I never really turned back over 10 years later.
@TheChapsGuide2 жыл бұрын
What a great journey of self discovery. I may mention your experience in a future video.
@markibanez7504 Жыл бұрын
Hi , excelent recommendations, i heard the audio videos in order to practice my english listening skills , Its hard to be confortable when you aré the Best men dressed in the room ,im from México and i Work in an office full of engeniers i have an international bussines degree so the dress code Is really contrastant
@bobhaverbeck75852 жыл бұрын
Could you do a video about the items in a classic Englishman's wardrobe? I'm American but am enamored by English style (especially the country style). Things like tweeds, tartans, brogues, fair isle sweaters, harrington jackets, corduroy trousers, etc.... Or maybe covering brands like Crockett & Jones, Barbour, Drake's, Baracuta, etc..
@williambelford9661 Жыл бұрын
Tartans are Scottish, never English
@bobhaverbeck7585 Жыл бұрын
@@williambelford9661 thanks for clarifying
@Pilzmaxe10 ай бұрын
I chose a blue corderoy Jacket instead of a navy blazer because i could get a good quality piece (zegna) for a nice price and i think it's much more special and suits my personality.
@KlausKokholmPetersen7 ай бұрын
Great advice, also for someone who has a much more casual style. Pink is such an underrated color in menswear. It's especially a great color for darker skin.
@scottcatchot15984 ай бұрын
thank you for the time you put into your channel, I am learning a lot sir.
@TheChapsGuide4 ай бұрын
Glad to hear it
@smacwhinnie2 жыл бұрын
Casual cool weather outfit: trousers or khakis, blue or check shirt, quilted vest or v-neck sweater, and top coat. All versatile items. Wear the brown brogues with this. Dashing
@SightNSoundBand2 жыл бұрын
I love your pocket square...very sharp.
@jjktng2 жыл бұрын
Your videos are useful With thanks from Hong Kong
@Nockowaki7 ай бұрын
Well said Ash!
@rogercaughell42822 жыл бұрын
Solid video, even for those of us who only very occasionally dress up!
@albertocasirati7788 Жыл бұрын
Nice video, thank you. I would have also suggested at least a flat cap: suitable for a youngster and of course with enough style...
@heikowallauer2 жыл бұрын
Good day Ash, that was a great video with a wealth of useful knowledge. Not only are your tips useful when you are starting to put your wardrobe together, but also when you are critically going through your own wardrobe. I break very few clothes, so my wardrobe fills up over the years. Every now and then, however, I have to ask myself whether something should be sorted out. I tend to keep the clothes that can be easily combined for different occasions. Many greetings!
@cesarerossetti70042 жыл бұрын
Video interessantissimo come sempre . Un caro saluto dall' Italia .
@pasquale782 жыл бұрын
In my opinion you don't have to wear a three piece suit to dress well. I wear chino's a lot of the time and mostly with a shirt or a polo. The shoes I wear with them are loafers or espradillos in the summer and shuede or leather dress shoes in the winter.
@MikeB0712 жыл бұрын
I agree with you completely about chinos (or I guess we call them khakis here in the States) for casual wear. I never wear jeans, because quite honestly, I find them very uncomfortable. Why should I wear something that I don't like wearing just to fit in with everybody else?
@KunaiKrazy Жыл бұрын
I read on Reddit this quote "Chinos are more comfortable than jeans" and boy were they right. I wear chinos everywhere and my one pair of dark wash jeans only if I _want_ to.
@grafiek2 жыл бұрын
As always very informative
@williambelford9661 Жыл бұрын
I live in a town with a significant drug problem and only last week (April '23) I was stopped on two occasions and complemented on my appearance, by two different very casually dressed users, on the first occasion I was returning from a funeral - black 3 piece suit, white shirt, black tie, black toe cap Oxfords, black unlined gloves and topped off with a black Homburg. On the second occasion I was wearing highly polished black chukka boots, black slacks, black open necked shirt, a black and white dogs tooth, sports jacket topped off with a black 8 piece cap. On both occasions I was wearing black Ray-Ban Wayfarer sunglasses because since lens replacement surgery I have developed a degree of sensitivity to brightish light.
@jeffreylamont8111 Жыл бұрын
Hi Ash I’m 63 and wear slim fit jeans.I agree with you chinos are a smarter choice for my age.I see older guys wearing baggy mid blue Dad jeans,chinos look much smarter.
@guitarplayer56112 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice!
@jrh112542 жыл бұрын
It’s so easy in my part of the world (small E Texas town near Houston) to be the best dressed man in the room. Everyday I see guys (and gals) wearing things IN PUBLIC that I wouldn’t wear to wash my car or to do plumbing. People just seem to grab whatever is in the nearest pile of clothes without regard for fit nor form.
@noble_wolf2 жыл бұрын
Another great video Ash, and kudos to the young lad in Germany who is on the right path, as you said, many years before most. Regarding your sound advice, might I suggest a tweed jacket over a blazer, depending where you live (and on the season), and most definitely a hat ?
@greenman4946 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. Perhaps a tweed cap is the easiest to get used to when starting out?
@realwarriorscholar2 жыл бұрын
Great video. Thank you for the help! Returning your salute sir!
@colincruickshanks75782 жыл бұрын
A couple of sets of decent quality Suspenders ( Braces in the UK) will serve you well.. your Pants ( Trousers UK) Chinos and even your smart pairs of Jeans hang so much better compared to using a Belt and, your Dressed Shirts are kept in place for longer too.. you can commonly find navy, black and burgandy coloured Suspeners on sale in Charity Shops like new no problem for the price of only peanuts.. don't make the mistake of wearing a Belt and Suspenders together however! A Dress Shirt, Tie and Suspenders look trendy and youthful I think with a Jacket and in certain less formal situations without a Jacket. Well done young German man!
@brian63262 жыл бұрын
Great content.
@thenicklas6152 жыл бұрын
Hello Ash wanted to tell you right now your channel is numero uno on my list mate, cheers !
@TheChapsGuide2 жыл бұрын
Wow, thanks!
@dko90482 жыл бұрын
Great video, Ash always a good start to half past week at the mill, where trousers are concerned I like the cordaroy can be used casual or semi smart and also with knitwear I tend to go for the sleeveless V neck cardigans .By the way Ash just keep an eye on that pinky sticking up when your saluting 😉😁😁😁
@TheChapsGuide2 жыл бұрын
Good call!
@DanvsMedius2 жыл бұрын
Very informative. Thank you!
@ashleybrianmorales73842 жыл бұрын
I didn’t realise it was a Chap’s Guide video because I didn’t recognise the person on the thumbnail. Good stuff as usual, Ash!
@TheChapsGuide2 жыл бұрын
Image changed - thanks for the feedback!
@canadafree2087 Жыл бұрын
One thing I just thought of. If buying from eBay you should ask the seller if the item has been tailored. Some sellers may just list the size stated on the tag, but if it has been tailored, the actual measurements could be smaller than what the tag says.
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Good point
@barrysmith8193 Жыл бұрын
Now in my retirement years I mentor young (mid 20’s) professionals to become wealthy by the time they are 40. Both men and women. I stress the importance of impeccable, and well attended to, 😮dress and grooming.
@leonardgoffe71592 жыл бұрын
There is a style called "dark" acadamia, maybe you should do a video on it?
@TheChapsGuide2 жыл бұрын
I will check it out. Thanks for the suggestion
@zoliivincze620 Жыл бұрын
How do you know i keep my white hankerchief in my socks drawer ? Thank you for the video!
@pompenchiel2 жыл бұрын
Good video! Looking forward to your explorer review :) When are you expecting to make it?
@TheChapsGuide2 жыл бұрын
Hi, it has been filmed, I will drop it into the schedule in the next few weeks.
@philclinton94302 жыл бұрын
I think it was Joseph Stalin who once said, quantity has a quality all its own.
@alejandroferreyros28785 ай бұрын
And a tweed jacket?
@b-dogswings80192 жыл бұрын
Oh dear sir, you really have become a bit of fuddy-duddy! This is a young gentleman we’re advising, a teenager, and we should allow him to enjoy those years with flair and panache! What you have suggested would suit a gentleman reaching early middle age! I would suggest that he draws inspiration from the teenage fashions of the 1960s. He should become a mod or a beatnik. For reference, I would recommend he looks at pictures of a young Roger Daltry, or other well dressed Modernists. They all wore sharp suits, they all wore smart shirts, but suits and shirts to suit a teenager! He should buy a pair of Chelsea boots and non-silvered sunglasses. That’s all I have say on the matter. Good day to you sir.
@alamore50842 жыл бұрын
Sir, are you suggesting he dresses as Fonzy from Happy Days? If you are Sir, I salute this eminent suggestion!
@b-dogswings80192 жыл бұрын
@@alamore5084 Oh no sir, I do not see Arthur Fonzarelli as a suitable role model at all. Although he rode a sublime motorcycle, he was at heart, a Greaser, and that would not do for the aspiring young gentleman to base his wardrobe upon. If he were to follow a 1970s’ television show, then I would suggest he base his style on Huggy Bear from Starsky and Hutch. A lot to be said for the sartorial Elegance of 1970s pimps! I wish you a good evening sir, and may I suggest a fine cognac before you finally retire to bed.
@alamore50842 жыл бұрын
@@b-dogswings8019 I salute you Sir, Cognac is my favourite poison. Fonzerelli was indeed a Greaser and wayward scoundrel, albeit with a certain panache. Being a younger chap I would perhaps encourage him to emulate Illya Kuryakin the debonair spy in Man from U.N.C.L.E.
@b-dogswings80192 жыл бұрын
@@alamore5084 Well said sir. I can not think of a better example of Secret agent chique.
@chrishalle19822 жыл бұрын
Valentin würde ich sagen, er soll tragen was er möchte und er soll nicht so viel auf die Meinung anderer geben. Er muss sich damit wohl fühlen.
@peteganze64162 ай бұрын
What's in that pipe?
@cabinetdavocat97778 ай бұрын
Jeans are moving up, people wear track pants
@danielfrancis36602 жыл бұрын
'.....or a court appearance'. Hopefully you're on the right side of the dock.
@yoinkhaha2 жыл бұрын
It must be emphasized, you are not dressing to the lowest common denominator of style just because you don't wear a collared shirt and tie and adhere to historically traditionally smart menswear. As a matter of fact, many practitioners of a modern urban streetwear style are dressing to arguably the highest level of fashion as they not only look great but are also innovating, unlike those who adhere to historically more formal styles. But yes there are many who just throw on a Snipes hoodie, Chicago Bulls hat and jeans and look pretty boring. Just important we also acknowledge that the height of fashion involves creativity and contemporary Zeitgeist... otherwise it wouldn't be called "fashion".