the loneliness curse on ambitious women. ☆

[@stargirlhq]

edit: while a lot of loneliness can stem from romantic relationship issues, that is just one of the aspects of this video. masculinity in a woman is not an issue, everyone has different preferences. please be kind before leaving your comments- any sexist remarks will not be tolerated

[@Nazarene_Judaism]

Men don't care now. Passport bros is the new biggest movement

[@peteypete9357]

It's the only option these days which makes sense

[@Nazarene_Judaism]

@@peteypete9357 Get to Philippines,Thailand, Vietnam, Russia, Ukraine or Czech Republic for good women.

[@valentinap490]

Thank you for sharing this ❤ I think that other aspects such as the difficulty of making friends in the adulthood, I mean the friendships become more rare when you are old bc you don't have the same time to share with others as when we are young and have a lot of free time

[@danthemann7]

Women aren’t successful at being men. It should be common sense but here we are

[@valentinap490]

@@edm-london1660 I think that life is more complex than just being in a relationship, friendships and other type of relationships are part of our happiness as human beings. Actually not having other kind of relationships can make people be codependent on their partner, that's risky for the mental health of any person (women or men) 🍃

[@valentinap490]

@@edm-london1660 lol, your mind is in the 60's, get a traditional gf if you are so needy hahahaha, that kind of love is just one of multiple experiences in human's lifes (women and men)

[@valentinap490]

@@edm-london1660 lol, why should I worry about a man? Just understand no everybody gives so much attention to those topics, I feel sorry for you and your love traumas. Life has a lot of different experiences to offer, relax about relationships, at the end of the day hope that you can find joy sharing with other humans and having fun with your hobbies :)

[@stargirlhq]

@@valentinap490i apologize for the behaviour of some people in my comment section, it seems that youtube is recommending my video to right leaning men instead of left leaning women. strange . thank you for sharing your thoughts girl! we are in this together ❤️

[@Solutionsarejustcompromises]

I always wanted to know why women want to be ambitious, what’s the goal ? Is it a goal in and of it self ? or does the ambition serve another grater plan in their lives ? I have the sneaky suspicion which one it is but have never heard it said.

[@earthwormjim3269]

Women's ambition at their core is to bear and raise children; to create life, to nurture. The government has successfully brainwashed them into wanting independence to create more worker drones and more tax payers.

[@stargirlhq]

i feel as though being successful is a very common, non-gendered goal. however, while a lot of men want to be successful for the approval of women, women often want to be successful for their own fulfilment rather than to impress men.

[@nicosanchez_music]

@@stargirlhqI personally want success for my own fulfillment. Approval from others is a never ending cycle that ultimately is never satisfied. I don’t think gender has anything to do with being lonely as striving for success regardless of gender is a lonely path. A blessing and curse depending on how you look at it

[@stargirlhq]

@@nicosanchez_music absolutely! I am generalizing when I said men want success for the approval of women. That is a stereotype for sure

[@abdulrahmanmonad]

Keep up the amazing content you are sharing and it's so amazing to know that you are able to do share content and also pursuing a game development career path at the same time, i'm a software engineer and i know how our work can take a lot of time and also do pressure us in our life so you are doing so amazing work here thanks a lot 😊

[@rodut2432]

I love how you are 1 year younger than me but you have so much ambition. I procrastinate a lot when it comes to KZbin because Idk if I can make it. It's a very big plan. But I love how you just post videos even if they might not get a lot of views. This one for example had a tough start, it made like 30 views in a couple of hours and now I see it has over 700 like dayuum. Tomorrow is my first day as a youtuber, I hope I'll have your patience but it's gonna be hard :)))

[@stargirlhq]

it’s all about just starting! if i cared about low numbers or hate comments id never go anywhere in life ;)

[@rodut2432]

@@stargirlhq I just posted 10 minutes ago. If I have success I'll message you "bananaswithonion24" just so you can remember me.

[@MEMESSOSTUPID]

The problem has nothing to do with anyone else, and certainly nothing to do with “ambition” I am a lonely man, because I never put myself out there. A woman is lonely because whenever a man puts himself out there to her, she can’t resist pushing him away, even if she really is attracted to him. Blaming other people will only result in more inward misery. There’s nothing really wrong with any lifestyle that you choose. You’re not supposed to find love. Humans aren’t supposed to do anything, except die. Hope this helps. Nothing you do matters. Everything you don’t do doesn’t matter. Just keep doing what you’re doing and accept the fact that there are benefits to whatever choices you make, and tradeoffs for every choice you don’t make. Nobody is really all that great. You aren’t missing out on much.

[@luisbrito0110]

The problem is that you become masculine

[@stargirlhq]

some women desire that❤ some don’t! it’s about being true to ourselves . masculinity in a woman is not a problem

[@TYost92]

@@stargirlhqapparently it is, that is why you made this entire video, and more women than ever continue to make crying TikTok’s of why they feel so alone and men are not interested in female interaction nomore.

[@danthemann7]

@@stargirlhqyou say you desire it till ur 40 and alone and realize no man cares what u do for a career in life lol.

[@danthemann7]

@@TYost92hahah she’s admitting that she wants to be masculine to then wonder why men don’t want to be around her. Like what?

[@earthwormjim3269]

@Ritu_devi-21 "Masculine" and "muscular" are two different words and they don't mean the same thing.

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

I know that loneliness comes from the lack of having a relationship with God. When you put other things above God, this is when loneliness, anxiety, fears, and depression start to creep in and take control of ones life. Until you identify the real problem, all solutions will only be temporary fixes.

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

@Ritu_devi-21 so are you saying that there are mature people who don't experience loneliness?

[@Moshm4n]

I'm not sure why people in here think all of this has to be some gendered zero-sum game. Any type of person with any arrangement of personality traits, including ambition, can come across friction that's particular to them that they need to learn how to tread. Armchair philosophies that borrow evolutionary terminology to tie all of reality to it can't possibly account for everything about a person's individuality and their struggles therein. Chill out, take a break from red-pill podcasts, go outside and meet real people and experience what they're like instead of analyzing graphs on Twitter to explain them. SMH.

[@stargirlhq]

thanks for sharing

[@KyleGravesLive]

Crabs in a barrel, we gotta get out no matter what ha

[@ashgg392]

Loneliness? Oh something men experienced all thier life while at that age women had no empathy what so ever because they were getting attention? Enjoy the curse we had, as men we don't have biological clock, you all do.

[@OleSt.Tymonas]

I'm sorry but saying guys do not match girls emotionally at 21 with a negative connotation for men is ridiculous

[@carnacsteele4106]

Being ambitious has always been a lonely path for men for centuries, if not milleniums. But noone talked about it then. Why should we start talking about it now, just because ambitious women experience the same that ambitious men has experienced for ages?

[@davidlenzo5096]

What a bunch of bull

[@wutevrgoez.wr0ng]

No. Just... No.

[@TCBBB22]

Zero accountability. Of course.