The Loner's Path | Philosophy for Non-Conformists

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The path of nonconformity is alluring to those who don’t seek to follow the herd known as a society. Instead, they want to make unique individual choices in life, disregarding other people’s opinions and defying society’s norms. And in doing so, they follow their inner compass, their own definitions of right and wrong, and ideas of what’s desirable and undesirable. However, such a way of life could evoke resistance from one’s surroundings and lead one to become a social outcast or get in trouble with the law. This video explores the loner's path (philosophy for non-conformists).
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Non-conformist:
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Why Vandalism (non-conformists):
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The Stranger (1967)
Music used:
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Unicorn Heads - Drifting at 432 Hz
Godmode - On the Island
VYEN - Amber
00:00 - Intro
01:26 - Being the odd one out
04:41 - Trusting one's voice
08:49 - Forging the individual path
#loner #notbelonging #solitude

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@stevenolove
@stevenolove 2 жыл бұрын
You know you’re a complete recluse when the lockdowns didn’t affect your life too much
@MrNihilio
@MrNihilio 2 жыл бұрын
not one bit actually
@79viewer
@79viewer 2 жыл бұрын
Haha Not even a little bit.
@sagakun06
@sagakun06 2 жыл бұрын
finally, a person who has the same thoughts as me
@bryanoneill5047
@bryanoneill5047 2 жыл бұрын
I think my life improved,no pressure to "see friends" go out socialising, and I made plans which include solitude,I smile more.
@pablozewoppa
@pablozewoppa 2 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed lockdown. I valued the different perspectives and pace of life one was able to observe. I've never seen the streets so empty; nor was the city I live in (London) so quiet. It saddens me that few people seem to have taken much away from that experience and just wish to return to 'normal'...
@FelixSkura
@FelixSkura 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing is worse than being surrounded by people and still feeling lonely.
@nvmffs
@nvmffs 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, tell me about....the problem as I see it is that people these days are utterly incapable of empathy. And I mean real empathy. Yes, the sight of an animal being hurt before them would probably make them feel bad for a few minutes but that's not real empathy. They just felt bad because it happened before them. They wouldn't lose their sleep over it. I do lose my sleep when I know that someone/some animal needs me or that I can disappoint them in any way. Naturally, emapthy is much more than just concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others. It means actively trying and being able to imagine yourself in their place. And that's the biggest obstacle it seems. Nobody's trying. What's worse, that seems to exacerbate with age.
@Johny40Se7en
@Johny40Se7en 2 жыл бұрын
Robin Williams said that, and I believe he was right. More often than not, that's caused by toxic relationships and wanting to please others too much. Steady on with the agreeableness 😅😝
@brownin329
@brownin329 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sure people who have been heinously killed or wrongly imprisoned would disagree with that.
@smc1942
@smc1942 2 жыл бұрын
I've been there ALL my life!
@seagullguitarist7773
@seagullguitarist7773 2 жыл бұрын
listen to blackbear - alone in a room full of people
@littlerichie874
@littlerichie874 2 жыл бұрын
“ I don’t hate people, I just like it when they’re not around.” - Charles Bukowski
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
I see the nature of the world. Instead of feeling drawn to people, I feel withdrawn. God has a remnant, who's not of the world (Thank God). I like the Ps.68:6 verse
@jasmineglein3721
@jasmineglein3721 Жыл бұрын
That is so funny! 😂
@willoughby1888
@willoughby1888 Жыл бұрын
@@dennismclaurin1487 "God sets the solitary in families; He brings out those who are bound into prosperity; But the rebellious dwell in a dry land." Ps.68:6
@SamuelBlack84
@SamuelBlack84 Жыл бұрын
I do hate people
@anotherdamn6c
@anotherdamn6c 11 ай бұрын
@@jasmineglein3721 It wasn't meant to be funny. Your laughter at a sombre observation sadly strengthens the loner's resolve.
@brownin329
@brownin329 2 жыл бұрын
I never had a problem with being alone. I had a problem with people who try to disrupt my life and cause problems because I choose to be alone.
@Mistanyycguy
@Mistanyycguy 2 жыл бұрын
I have friends i like to catch up with from time to time but being alone most of the time is the way to go. Being around people all the time tends to take me away from the goodness of life and can bring unnecessary complications
@kahlodiego5299
@kahlodiego5299 2 жыл бұрын
👍🔥
@BlazRa
@BlazRa 2 жыл бұрын
@@JinroTheCorpse Look to China to see that on display
@dehsa38
@dehsa38 2 жыл бұрын
Women who get pissed at you because they can't get you to chase them...
@BlazRa
@BlazRa 2 жыл бұрын
@@JinroTheCorpse fuck that shit man I'm not chasing women I'm chasing greatness I'm not falling for the Sirens of poverty those fucking bitches That try to seduce you and then hold you down keeping you broke
@KH-fv3vq
@KH-fv3vq 2 жыл бұрын
"I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude." - Thoreau
@neo3768
@neo3768 2 жыл бұрын
Agree and fall in love with this quote
@IndustrialBonecraft
@IndustrialBonecraft 2 жыл бұрын
"I'm going to go an live alone in the wilderness! Lol, jk, I'm actually going to live slightly off the main road, throw parties all the time, and get my mum to do all my washing for me. Oh! Such solitude!" - Thoreau.
@alwells5779
@alwells5779 2 жыл бұрын
I don't find solitude to be all that great. Today, everyone is celebrating solitude it like it's some higher plane of existence. It's in our music and culture. These are the messages I hear and am sick of hearing... 'Thank You Next', 'Love Yourself', "be your own best friend', etc, etc. We now even seem to admonish people who say that they want things like a lover, friends, family as if they are not healthy as another who is happy to live in solitary confinement. As a person who has been living a solitary life for a lot of years, I am okay with being the outlier that says that life is better when you connect to a simpatico companion than it is being your own companion in solitude. Honestly, I’m sick of being alone all the damn time and yet I'm also not interested in being what anyone else says I must be in order to not be alone. I find this state more of one that is a constant challenge than one that is some utopia to strive for.
@nicolausthothmes2325
@nicolausthothmes2325 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing beats a dog that loves you and knows you love him back though.
@pjc7729
@pjc7729 2 жыл бұрын
@@alwells5779 Consider being open minded enough to let someone else in your life. Seems like you're confused about what you want.
@thirstonhowellthebirdandfriend
@thirstonhowellthebirdandfriend 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a hermit and I love it. The sad thing is people get offended and think that you’re being a hermit means that you’re not liking them or you’re a snob or you think you’re better than them. It’s all a big misunderstanding. We just simply prefer to be alone.
@radattk3145
@radattk3145 2 жыл бұрын
nah you're probably just a selfish, cold petson who doesn't care about anyone else.
@ValeriaPezzino
@ValeriaPezzino 2 жыл бұрын
@@radattk3145 what makes you conclude that one's preference for their own company is a sign of total indifference to other people's wants and needs? Besides, wouldn't you say that life itself is a selfish experience? Everyone is tending to their own desires, as much as we like to sugarcoat it. Life is lived in the 1st person. That still doesn't imply that we don't care about anyone else to me though.
@MrErock7
@MrErock7 2 жыл бұрын
@@radattk3145 projection?
@Well-Put
@Well-Put 2 жыл бұрын
@@radattk3145 🤣
@NN-cc8uo
@NN-cc8uo 2 жыл бұрын
Not a full-on hermit, but I can relate. Sometimes dealing with people is just massive pain in the ass
@deth.thiana
@deth.thiana 2 жыл бұрын
Many of our goals and desires are externally influenced and do not reflect what we truly want... being alone helps to tune out of all the noise and listen to your real self
@ilovebutterstuff
@ilovebutterstuff 2 жыл бұрын
Have you ever been truly alone? No parents, no siblings, no friends? No one around you but theives, liars, and junkheads? If you want an accurate look at the world around you, try it sometime. Security is all but an illusion.
@ClassyWolf
@ClassyWolf 2 жыл бұрын
Yep. To then find out most of the things that truly matter to you are already spoiled and not obtainable in this life anyways. That's why I focus on the after-life.
@Johny40Se7en
@Johny40Se7en 2 жыл бұрын
That's so spot on. They say that when a person is all on their own, they begin to realise things about themselves that they wouldn't have noticed if they were around others. Solitude can bring true clarity and mindfulness 👍 But that's why a lot of people don't like to be on their own, it's like they're afraid of what they might discover, and maybe they wouldn't be able to deal with it. But they won't know until they try 😜
@carolynwolf9676
@carolynwolf9676 2 жыл бұрын
"Stillness, Silence and Solitude, I have always seen these as valuable tools to maintain a calm and relaxed demeanor. The world around us can be very unnerving; but implementing the 3 S's can help you get through difficult times." CW
@bethleblanc656
@bethleblanc656 2 жыл бұрын
@@ilovebutterstuff Agreed!
@trapaneezus
@trapaneezus 2 жыл бұрын
The ability to be alone and be at peace is literally a super power! You truly have to be built different to be able to do that. Just remember that people k!ll themselves every single day because of loneliness and lack of validation from other people. Most people completely break under the pressure of loneliness. If you're ever feeling down about being a loner just think about how strong you are to be able to do something the vast majority of this species cannot even think of!
@dibs0equiped
@dibs0equiped 2 жыл бұрын
Nicely said.
@picklep9812
@picklep9812 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I appreciate that sentiment
@sammytran5633
@sammytran5633 2 жыл бұрын
Love you!
@jonkline709
@jonkline709 2 жыл бұрын
That was well written. It’s not that I don’t like people I can be a cool person when I want to be. However I chose to be a loner the majority of the time.
@stevenolove
@stevenolove 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@williamdelong8265
@williamdelong8265 2 жыл бұрын
Misery loves company and happiness loves solitude.
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Only God knows my solitude case. The world couldn't care less to know
@torstrasburg8289
@torstrasburg8289 11 ай бұрын
I'm a loner and miserable, but not because of being alone.
@CaptainMisery86
@CaptainMisery86 11 ай бұрын
Hey! Want to hang out?
@isaacdavid3375
@isaacdavid3375 6 күн бұрын
@@CaptainMisery86why not. May allow me overcome my misery
@jakebullet1731
@jakebullet1731 2 жыл бұрын
As a single minded loner, I was BUILT for these times, since the madness took over in 2020
@jamierodriguez3554
@jamierodriguez3554 2 жыл бұрын
Yes you are a robocop
@cheesecake4648
@cheesecake4648 2 жыл бұрын
Sadly, it is no the way to go
@HextimusDuex
@HextimusDuex 2 жыл бұрын
It's crushing me. But I'm learning to deal with it.
@hugosmith6776
@hugosmith6776 2 жыл бұрын
u2? almost as if we were preparing ;)
@user-gz4ve8mw9l
@user-gz4ve8mw9l 2 жыл бұрын
I come well prepared myself for solitary confinement. I spent 4 years in a room only leaving it for food without any human contact 24/7 years ago. If I could spend my entire life in solitude I'd do that gladly if only.
@RX7jkr
@RX7jkr Жыл бұрын
The need to escape mediocrity resonates with me. "You're not meant to fit in, you're meant to stand out".
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Profoundly, beautiful statement !👍
@tomburgundy7200
@tomburgundy7200 Жыл бұрын
When the majority are workers it would be beneficial to those in power to promote sheep mentality to ensure slave (employee) population stays high enough that you can create more bombs, own more sparklys (diamonds), put plastic in your face so you can look as fake on the outside as you are on the inside.
@retired4365
@retired4365 2 жыл бұрын
Blending into society is an art form. To be the observer of a society failing at every turn is more upsetting than being alone.
@scr4932
@scr4932 Жыл бұрын
You're more likely to be observing it if you're outside of it.
@DANTHETUBEMAN
@DANTHETUBEMAN Жыл бұрын
phycopaths have to comealion to survive, everyone cry's, they force tears 😭
@theloneindividual
@theloneindividual Жыл бұрын
@@scr4932 When you stand outside the box, you get the eagle view. Very well put.
@ayampencen6363
@ayampencen6363 Жыл бұрын
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@ayampencen6363
@ayampencen6363 Жыл бұрын
@@scr4932 M
@trevorfranks69
@trevorfranks69 2 жыл бұрын
The loners path take a lot of sacrifices, you have to lick your wounds all alone sometimes.
@dmerojas
@dmerojas 2 жыл бұрын
I can attest to this.
@M_P26
@M_P26 2 жыл бұрын
You’re get used to it, if you truly except yourself.
@jamierodriguez3554
@jamierodriguez3554 2 жыл бұрын
I disagree being a social conformist is difficult for me
@jamierodriguez3554
@jamierodriguez3554 2 жыл бұрын
We don't have to sacrifice putting up with other people's bulshit lies
@Shkelqim95
@Shkelqim95 2 жыл бұрын
What do you mean by ‚sometimes‘, I think you have a different understanding of the term ‚alone‘
@thexel133
@thexel133 2 жыл бұрын
Being alone and feeling lonely are very different states of being. I've gone my own way and feel much better than when I was following the "herd's" path. Although, there is a sense of loneliness that seems to becoming more intense. Every choice has a price. Going with the herd has more comfort, going your own way has more sense of purpose. I guess the real question is how to find like minded individuals? In my day to day interactions, it seems extremely improbable.
@disturbed607
@disturbed607 2 жыл бұрын
its difficult to find like minded people. im(perhaps you too) not looking for anything more than common sense.
@ilovebutterstuff
@ilovebutterstuff 2 жыл бұрын
Most people have their heads in the sand. I know one thing for sure, if I speak up, that'll be the last time hanging with that crowd. I prefer to be alone.
@JayJay-wg5ex
@JayJay-wg5ex 2 жыл бұрын
You will attract those who know exactly what that is like and have chosen the same, despite the cost. Like attracts like, but you do not live to please/ attract anyone.
@icemanww1573
@icemanww1573 2 жыл бұрын
@@disturbed607 even that is very hard to find nowaydays imho
@JenWIL641
@JenWIL641 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone who has made a reply has soothed my soul.
@andrewmize823
@andrewmize823 Жыл бұрын
All my life people have been telling me what I "need to do" to fit in. What I should be wearing, what I should be eating, what I should be thinking, etc., to gain the things and meet the goals that others have in their lives. The punchline, for me, has always been that I don't want any of those things.
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Rom.12:2👍
@s3dghost
@s3dghost 10 ай бұрын
On God
@Plysdyret1
@Plysdyret1 2 жыл бұрын
I am a loner! It already began in school when I was bullied because my comrades thought I was weird. Society wants me to get married and have kids, but that's not in my interest.
@kevinhan4707
@kevinhan4707 2 жыл бұрын
i also decided not to get married or have kids. i just think the world is over populated and don't need as many people as we have now. Before, people had kids because it was advantageous for survival. Now days it's is better not to have kids for survival.
@dawndusk1007
@dawndusk1007 Жыл бұрын
Right on!
@Polecat-qz5om
@Polecat-qz5om Жыл бұрын
Maybe no one wants to marry you anyway 😂
@Michael-fc4ch
@Michael-fc4ch Жыл бұрын
Yeah society wants you to get married, have kids and be in debt like a robot. Don't be a statistic
@reachingcoldmountainbeforeyou
@reachingcoldmountainbeforeyou Жыл бұрын
Please stay True to yourself!! I didnt. I let people PUSH me. Now I have miserable children from broken homes as well as myself being miserable from not staying true to myself and now ruining other people's lives. It's AWFUL.
@terryfinley7760
@terryfinley7760 2 жыл бұрын
I am proud to be a loner. I am comforted by solitude.
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
I'm reading alot of interesting comments on this blog It's comforting to know people like you exist
@enliven4203
@enliven4203 2 жыл бұрын
Many people are in a relationship because they were led to believe that is the only way to live a happy life. Only to find out later that being in a relationship was never what they wanted. This is a very personal preference, one which you must carefully decide for yourself. Solitude can be beautiful, but it can also be destructive, same applies to being in a relationship. It's important to know that your path to happiness depends entirely on you, not on what others tell you will make you happy.
@SIERRATREES
@SIERRATREES 5 ай бұрын
well said. Your gut instinct can be useful with these determinations.
@liamhalvorsen4558
@liamhalvorsen4558 2 жыл бұрын
Great Video! I believe Carl Jung once said "“Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself" Cheers!
@irenashiloh8808
@irenashiloh8808 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with this. I started feeling happy in my own company when I stayed all alone and couldn't run away from the internal conflicts, until they were resolved just by me putting up with the inner battle and participating in it actively. That communication was crucial to my demons leaving me alone. I use the help of philosophy and meditation to work through my pain, and I use nice distractions (humor, art, friends) to rest from that inner battle. Our biggest problem, in my opinion, is our unresolved relationship with death.
@peculiarlittleman5303
@peculiarlittleman5303 2 жыл бұрын
@@irenashiloh8808 You may enjoy the documentary, "Flight from Death." It's experimental confirmation of Ernest Becker's work, which postulated that culture, group identity, and many other horrors have emerged from our awareness that we will die. Cheers!
@Michael-mn4ef
@Michael-mn4ef 2 жыл бұрын
Holy shit
@sofimazi555
@sofimazi555 Жыл бұрын
☯️👍🏾🤓
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Profound truth!!
@kyrianasher5747
@kyrianasher5747 2 жыл бұрын
I finally accepted that I am the loner, and have no desire to be understood. My internal suffering has somewhat ceased since then. I am now in pursuit of a dream that I was once conditioned into believing was ridiculously "dramatic". If there is anyone similar here, I salute you and the person you are becoming.
@unknowntosociety01
@unknowntosociety01 Жыл бұрын
Whats your dream?
@rustcohle845
@rustcohle845 Жыл бұрын
Same
@theloneindividual
@theloneindividual Жыл бұрын
Same here. I accepted my aloneness and now I indulge in it. It is important not to go with the flow all the time and dare to stand apart and think differently. Sometimes people just don't get us, our way of life, way of thinking. I am glad you started pursuing your dream and I hope you accomplish it.
@kyrianasher5747
@kyrianasher5747 Жыл бұрын
@@unknowntosociety01 To carve out my own philosophy, written or otherwise, while traveling the length and breadth of this world.
@kyrianasher5747
@kyrianasher5747 Жыл бұрын
@@rustcohle845 Keep soldiering on, my friend. 👍🏿
@natheria4933
@natheria4933 Жыл бұрын
to stay true to yourself is one of the most challenging, and painful things you will ever experience in life. It is also one of the most freeing.
@godofdeath8785
@godofdeath8785 Жыл бұрын
Yeah true true
@mrseal662
@mrseal662 Жыл бұрын
For my entire life, thought I needed human interaction or I couldn't live with myself. Moving to a new state last year where I didn't know anyone was a huge learning experience because it taught me how to enjoy spending time alone without relying on anyone else.
@lraoux
@lraoux 2 жыл бұрын
Conformist or loner, the main source of our suffering is other people.
@theloneindividual
@theloneindividual Жыл бұрын
Mostly all the time, indeed.
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Hell is other people. (That's my daily testimony)
@danielepp3113
@danielepp3113 Жыл бұрын
Or is it You?
@karolinanie5946
@karolinanie5946 Жыл бұрын
​@@dennismclaurin1487 Ah, you need to check true meaning of that sentence 😅 It is misunderstood very often
@karolinanie5946
@karolinanie5946 Жыл бұрын
@DaoTzu It's not poetry
@gelly123
@gelly123 2 жыл бұрын
The hardest part about being like this is how much it hurts others. It isn't done intentionally but sometimes people truly enjoy being in your company and miss you when you are away. They also can't comprehend wanting to be like that and think all these negative things about you. I like being alone but I also hate making people sad or making them feel like you don't care about them.
@MrCassett
@MrCassett Жыл бұрын
Yeah, but that is not in your control . The perception they have of what you do or don't do
@patinsley
@patinsley Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this perspective. It explains the conflict I have with myself all the time...
@hagoryopi2101
@hagoryopi2101 Жыл бұрын
I have that problem, too. I love people, but also love being alone sometimes. And I hate the misunderstandings caused by when I need to be alone, because I know I'll want to be with these people again later, just not always now. I hate when it feels like my own interests and those of others are at odds. I can be driven to counterproductive extremes like self-destructive people pleasing, and resentful toxicity, because of these conflicts. I'm kind of a loner who wants to represent his own ideas and values, but part of the joy of that value is contributing it to and sharing it with other people, especially when these are niche values which conformity cannot offer! Learning to be patient with myself and with others has been helping. As has learning to communicate better and healthily enforce boundaries. Some of us aren't taught that growing up, but you can still learn for yourself. There will be suffering, but the suffering would not be possible if there were not better things to pursue, things you care about and know you can achieve! So keep your course in life.
@PraiseYHWH
@PraiseYHWH Жыл бұрын
just be
@MrCassett
@MrCassett 8 ай бұрын
@@Abcd-jz4gp Yeah we do at some extent. I've changed my mind since last year; however, I still believe it is not in our control how anybody else but ourselves perceive things. Having said that, I do agree that if we truly care about a person; despite not controlling how they perceive things, we can always sit and talk to explain our view and hear theirs but honestly, I think we should reserve that to only important people in our lifes cause some battles are just not worth the energy or time fighting
@TheDhammaHub
@TheDhammaHub 2 жыл бұрын
Especially many of the spiritual paths can be very "lonely", as you are swimming against the stream of conventions. As Ajahn Chah said: "The whole world moves in one direction and you into another",
@Emiliapocalypse
@Emiliapocalypse 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, well said. It can make you feel as though you’re doing everything wrong!
@LowAmbitions
@LowAmbitions 2 жыл бұрын
Go with it as Alan Watts said.
@beingkind3610
@beingkind3610 2 жыл бұрын
@@Emiliapocalypse I relate it totally. It feels that we are going in a wrong direction when compared to society and people around us. And because we are focusing more on inner world/self development.
@nicholasbishop6731
@nicholasbishop6731 2 жыл бұрын
Very true Ajahn.
@ryansnyder4997
@ryansnyder4997 2 жыл бұрын
Great video brother , I am a loner and I am perfectly content with it too. I've broken away from the herd and running my own way
@ilovebutterstuff
@ilovebutterstuff 2 жыл бұрын
I love being a loner about 75% of the time. The other 25% of the time my instincts are screaming at me to stop being such a selfish, miserable, self-serving piece of shit and join the human race. Makes sleeping very difficult. Probably shouldn't have shared. Oh well.
@jakebullet1731
@jakebullet1731 2 жыл бұрын
@@ilovebutterstuff Many thanks 🙏🏾 for sharing.
@nicholaskearney678
@nicholaskearney678 2 жыл бұрын
Good, go alone,away... .
@KK-qd6ro
@KK-qd6ro 2 жыл бұрын
@@ilovebutterstuff I like me, and when that "instinct" for connection arises well thats what youtube is for. Or there wouldn't be so many loners in here commenting. ; o )
@enlightenme4194
@enlightenme4194 Жыл бұрын
No one touch that 111
@lindagray2282
@lindagray2282 11 ай бұрын
I’m now 76 and living contentedly on my own without friends, just a couple of acquaintances. Had very few friends growing up. At 24 I passed my HGV1 test and became a lady trucker. Being on my own driving up and down the U.K. all week suited me perfectly fine. I retired at 68, sold my house in the city and bought another in a small country town in southern Scotland. I refused the covid vax, refused to conform to lockdown, took long walks in the nearby countryside with sandwiches & flask of soup most days. I’m not lonely, never have been, just enjoy my quiet peaceful life 😊
@trooperex123
@trooperex123 6 ай бұрын
high five for refusing the vaxx ✋
@miss.conduct8083
@miss.conduct8083 2 жыл бұрын
When you see me alone, don't get it twisted. I am in amazing company.
@jamierodriguez3554
@jamierodriguez3554 2 жыл бұрын
I'm never alone God is always within me and ready to speak
@poeticrockstarr6875
@poeticrockstarr6875 2 жыл бұрын
I love your attitude. It's very refreshing. I hope you have a beautiful life 😁
@pterodactylpie8825
@pterodactylpie8825 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 well said!
@DarkRipper117
@DarkRipper117 2 жыл бұрын
Yes am alone but never lonely.....
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
You go, girl ! ( With your lone self)✌️
@IKEMENOsakaman
@IKEMENOsakaman 2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy that philosophy doesn't exclude or look down on loners. As a loner and an introvert myself, I feel at ease with philosophy.
@joaoalegria7578
@joaoalegria7578 2 жыл бұрын
All or almost all great philosophers in history were loners.
@nikkoroth5552
@nikkoroth5552 2 жыл бұрын
@@joaoalegria7578 sure. How else there can be philosophy. Its the hiden, lonely path.
@zhugeliang3905
@zhugeliang3905 2 жыл бұрын
@@joaoalegria7578 True.
@joaoalegria7578
@joaoalegria7578 2 жыл бұрын
@@nikkoroth5552 yeah I think philosophy comes from reflection and introspection and imo that can only be accomplished by being in solitude.
@woodroblue8332
@woodroblue8332 2 жыл бұрын
I'm one too been one so long all I know people look down on people like us
@christinedavison7604
@christinedavison7604 Жыл бұрын
I've always had a very independent nature. Never going along with the crowd. Always enjoy my aloneness but never lonely. And yes I did enjoy the lockdowns, it gave nature a chance to breathe and heal. We give humankind too much importance on this beautiful planet. ❤🌹❤
@shelley2he844
@shelley2he844 2 жыл бұрын
I've been doing things my own way for awhile. I'm extremely detached from society, have little friends and a strained relationship with my family. They are utterly baffled by my refusal to live life by their standards. I would be lying if I said It didn't bother me a little, they don't care about my interests or passions and generally cannot understand them at all. But I'm going to keep going my own way regardless . They see me as a bizarre eccentric and I see them as judgemental sheep. I love them to death. Truly. But I'd rather BE dead than live life the way they do. Even if I end up destitute, I don't mind, I've been destitute before and I was fine. And I will be fine in the future. I'll live my own way and persue painting as a career and Ill be happy because I was true to myself.
@al-qaum
@al-qaum 2 жыл бұрын
Your family may not understand you, but that doesn't mean no one else can. Still you can find like-minded people who will be interested in what you do.
@Dca252
@Dca252 2 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@CobraDove1111
@CobraDove1111 2 жыл бұрын
I understand perfectly
@danityvanityinsanity
@danityvanityinsanity 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!👏😃👍✨💖✨
@equaa7557
@equaa7557 2 жыл бұрын
This comment is so relatable
@robsie7777
@robsie7777 2 жыл бұрын
Another brilliant lecture. I can confirm from my own experience, that by embracing my individuality and being a non-conformist, that I have encountered many enemies in life! It is not my intention to upset other people but yes, it's a path for the loner. I only have few friends, but at least the one's that I have are real.
@prapanthebachelorette6803
@prapanthebachelorette6803 2 жыл бұрын
So true
@thatshortclip
@thatshortclip 2 жыл бұрын
since my mom died December last year I've always been told to be outgoing and to have "fun" with my peers. they fear of me being "too lonely". this channel helped me a lot to re evaluate my values. thank you
@arieldiaz3105
@arieldiaz3105 2 жыл бұрын
School of life and pursuit of wonder are two channels that could help you
@MaidenUtah1
@MaidenUtah1 2 жыл бұрын
“Getting out and having fun” usually devolves into having to listen to some loudmouth, fight starting assholes holding court at your expense. Hence, the reason why I can count the number of parties and trips to a bar on one hand and still have fingers left.
@thatshortclip
@thatshortclip 2 жыл бұрын
@@MaidenUtah1 exactly! they don't understand how precious solitude is
@paulinewhite3273
@paulinewhite3273 2 жыл бұрын
I think some people have difficulty in relating to someone who is bereved. They much prefer to see you being upbeat as it makes them feel more comfortable. I remember growing up my mum had difficulty in relating to my moods, her response if I was down would be her saying " come on be happy" I never did locate the happy switch!
@thatshortclip
@thatshortclip 2 жыл бұрын
@@paulinewhite3273 true! i still can't understand how a "happy/ sad face" should look like to them
@bluerayfrequency7335
@bluerayfrequency7335 2 жыл бұрын
Light Workers have a very distinct soul directive. It is a very narrow, and specific path. Painfully lonely in a young life, honed in mid-life, celebrated by the elder. Ever rejoicing when meeting those other rare individuals on their paths. Perhaps not a path shared but certainly understood. Blessings, and respect to all steadfast in their evolution.
@brian6140
@brian6140 2 жыл бұрын
What the hell is a Light Worker?
@authaire
@authaire 2 жыл бұрын
@@brian6140 an elaborate form of coping mechanism. See also: star children.
@jamie1425
@jamie1425 2 жыл бұрын
Perfectly said...
@DreamyElvis
@DreamyElvis Жыл бұрын
Where are the others? I cannot find them. I keep searching.
@DH-oj2ru
@DH-oj2ru Жыл бұрын
"Light workers?" Are you serious? This is one of the reasons why philosophy is not taken seriously......were trying to learn and engage in serious topics and then someone comes along talking about "light workers......" lol. Im sorry but abandoning reason and believing in magic is not the answer.....hahahahah "light workers" like cmon man, you know that that is fantasy bs that snake oil salesmen use to prey on the gullible....
@man-yy8nr
@man-yy8nr 2 жыл бұрын
living in our modern society is sort of like living within a toilet bowl. we must purify ourselves, remain empathetic, maintain our sanity, and pursue our own purposes.
@AdilKhan-vw6rr
@AdilKhan-vw6rr 2 жыл бұрын
Its hard restraining and so easy to become hateful, indifferent, angry and insane. And what even harder is to realise that you are slowly slipping into darkness before its too late. I try. I try. I try. But every once in a while, the worst of me takes over. But it gets easier every time, to regain the control. Or I donno, this could very well be an illusion in my head.
@tdwwxyz
@tdwwxyz 2 жыл бұрын
@@AdilKhan-vw6rr I feel that darkness part. What I’ve been reading is The Kybalion. It teaches a lot about using the happenings on higher planes against the lower planes of existence (using negative emotions/thought patterns to fuel positive results and then tossing negativity aside when it outlives its purpose). Anger can destroy, but also protect. Judgement can condemn people, but also avert disasters. Sadness can be overwhelming, but also alert you when you’re betraying yourself. Darkness is unavoidable and so one should study how to transmute it into light
@abusawdan9986
@abusawdan9986 2 жыл бұрын
well articulated.
@AdilKhan-vw6rr
@AdilKhan-vw6rr 2 жыл бұрын
@@tdwwxyz Hmm, interesting. Could you maybe illustrate how to use negative emotions to fuel positive results and discard them when they are depleted through an example?
@tdwwxyz
@tdwwxyz 2 жыл бұрын
@@AdilKhan-vw6rr yeah sure. I became a judgmental person as I grew up bc my family (like most) was full of really broken and dysfunctional people. I knew better and used my discretion to keep me on the right path. But then I decided I wanted to start a company. A record label, where I’d be a leader. So I tried being the way I normally am (judgmental) and it didn’t work. I never made friends for long, had trouble networking and couldn’t wrap my head around the collaborative process. Despite being amazing at my craft and impressing people, it was impossible to build a team with all my internalized reservations. So I thought back to my childhood and realized that part of my personality had served its purpose and I needed to dial it back. I wasn’t surrounded by stupidity anymore, I was around masters and partners who I wanted to learn from, and I couldn’t let my defensiveness kill my dream. So I gave in a little, and then a little more. Until I could finally harmonize with personalities that completely contradicted my own and we could be productive together. But I still use my strong judgment to keep me out of trouble sometimes. You learn to use an emotion in an extreme way first, then dial it back as you become familiar with its use cases
@stayfree6115
@stayfree6115 2 жыл бұрын
If you're not prone to falling into Mass psychosis. Being a loner is a given
@eline7612
@eline7612 7 ай бұрын
Lost all because of not be8ng affected and resisting to mass hypnosis..partner, friends, family....evil has never been so.strong and we just have to survive these times..take care.
@hafezdd
@hafezdd 2 жыл бұрын
*To all dreamers out there, don't ever let the world's negativity disenchant you or your spirit. If your surround yourself with love and with right people, Anything is possible.* Cheering for you✨
@deejayjuicebox7623
@deejayjuicebox7623 2 жыл бұрын
You clearly don't understand human nature. Lol
@JaysonT1
@JaysonT1 2 жыл бұрын
Great another 13 year old posing as someone with experience and education to sell their con to people.
@colingoode8794
@colingoode8794 2 жыл бұрын
Don't let them get you down brother. Everyone has their own path. If you can't have a bit of fun with it as well then it may not be the right one!🌤
@gogee27
@gogee27 2 жыл бұрын
@@deejayjuicebox7623 Isn't he an expression of human nature as well (or of divine nature if you will, just like you with your perspective)? Cheers to life being sooo diverse! ✨
@TheAlwaysPrepared
@TheAlwaysPrepared 2 жыл бұрын
The content never changed the world for the better.
@yohaizilber
@yohaizilber 2 жыл бұрын
We have the privilege to find our own path in life, conform or don't, that's your choice, you paid a price no matter what direction you take, just make sure the price you pay you can actually afford. be true to yourself.
@dominiquedavis5152
@dominiquedavis5152 2 жыл бұрын
Well put. 👏🏽
@Dezzyyx
@Dezzyyx 2 жыл бұрын
I'd sacrifice anything for that goal, which I have done, so even if it meant death I would accept that over living a lie
@klowen7778
@klowen7778 2 жыл бұрын
Most extroverts are basically 'overcompensating', for what else is extroversion but the desperate *_fear_* of simply being in the sole company of yourself?
@danielsaenz1325
@danielsaenz1325 2 жыл бұрын
Existentialist, transcedentalists and Stoics are the greatest philosophical schools of thought coming out of the west imo. They are giants!
@moalston4203
@moalston4203 2 жыл бұрын
It all begins with 1 thought
@danityvanityinsanity
@danityvanityinsanity 2 жыл бұрын
I’m interested in the Gnostic teachings as well even though I’m not religious.
@friedose4099
@friedose4099 2 жыл бұрын
​@@danityvanityinsanity Marcion is as well very interessting.
@sw.7519
@sw.7519 2 жыл бұрын
Nehh
@thechancellor-
@thechancellor- 2 жыл бұрын
To the *incredible person* that's seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.
@yusufmurat150
@yusufmurat150 2 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeeah rainbow and sunshine everywhere gogo unicorn
@JaysonT1
@JaysonT1 2 жыл бұрын
To the person who wrote this comment. Stick your positive thinking cult, LOA, New Religion bullshit up your ass and sell your channel somewhere else.
@RichardHarlos
@RichardHarlos 2 жыл бұрын
@@JaysonT1 Why so easily triggered? LOL
@JaysonT1
@JaysonT1 2 жыл бұрын
@@RichardHarlos You don't get annoyed by the regurgitated con-artist scripts? People 3 weeks out of high school selling you their online coaching of the secrets to life?
@onenation8707
@onenation8707 Жыл бұрын
I'm a loner through my life situation. Today was my birthday I didn't receive 1 text, phone call or card and it had no effect on me. "Being a loner is not the same as being alone" I love my solitude, freedom to travel and independence - nothing will ever interfere or disrupt my happy stress free life.
@patinsley
@patinsley Жыл бұрын
Hey... Happy belated birthday!!! Wishing you many more days full of peace.
@BirdDogey1
@BirdDogey1 Жыл бұрын
Every good wish for a belated birthday.
@geestylez8626
@geestylez8626 Жыл бұрын
Stay healthy and full circled my man!
@dianneedwards4757
@dianneedwards4757 Жыл бұрын
Experiencing a birthday on your own or Xmas can be quite liberating!
@truesithempire9386
@truesithempire9386 Жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday! You're one year closer to death
@GearsDemon
@GearsDemon 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I'm a loner and this really has me thinking about my path forward. I'm glad I trust myself and know myself enough to not blindly follow.
@hungrymusicwolf
@hungrymusicwolf 2 жыл бұрын
Loneliness is also a part of our inner-compass, to find others with which you can connect or ways to connect with others you previously could not are both worth whatever time you spent on it.. You do not need to conform to be a part of a group.
@RichardHarlos
@RichardHarlos 2 жыл бұрын
@OneManWolfPack wrote, "You do not need to conform to be a part of a group." If I may offer a slight refinement to what you wrote: _You do not need to conform to be_ *willing to be* _a part of a group."_ To this point, it's worth asking: is there a point to belonging to a group that will 'accept' members who don't conform to its values, ideals, and expressions of those values & ideals?
@hungrymusicwolf
@hungrymusicwolf 2 жыл бұрын
​@@RichardHarlos Great improvement, and yes there is worth to being part of a group that doesn't enforce values. Even just having extra perspectives, and though not everyone will share your values most of them will share at least one. So you will always have some people that'll have your back no matter what. It also gives you access to their connections if you build your connection on said shared value, which means even more opportunities and options.
@ilovebutterstuff
@ilovebutterstuff 2 жыл бұрын
Um, ya kinda do. That's the point. Wow.
@MrJohnledd
@MrJohnledd 2 жыл бұрын
Would be kind of boring to have a group were everyone was the same.
@charowarhussain6261
@charowarhussain6261 2 жыл бұрын
2 is not a group. When it becomes 3 or more , it is no longer a dog wagging its tail , instead the tail wagging its dog.
@queenbee7074
@queenbee7074 2 жыл бұрын
I totally understand this dilemma of having own values vs complying to the society! I often find people’s useless conversations boring and small talk trivial and hate talking just for the sake of it but at times have to do it to ‘appear’ normal in this society
@ash8207
@ash8207 2 жыл бұрын
The first step to self reliance is to stop caring what others think. If one can't understand & implement that, then there is no hope to become non-conformist. “The tranquillity that comes when you stop caring what they say. Or think, or do. Only what you do." ― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
@DarkRipper117
@DarkRipper117 2 жыл бұрын
The ever grind of others to change and bend to please someone else's will, even when they become disgusted of what they've become just to find the approval of others....such is the reality in today's world, a lot of people trying to become someone that nature or their destiny never intended for them to be, to follow instead of walking their own path, it's really sad.
@bewusstsein3527
@bewusstsein3527 Жыл бұрын
That's tough.. can u?
@BantiarnaMacRaghnaill
@BantiarnaMacRaghnaill 2 жыл бұрын
My Father taught me the wisdom of the Loner path. Some of the best advice he ever gave me
@iforget6940
@iforget6940 2 жыл бұрын
What did he teach you and how?
@fixiple2722
@fixiple2722 2 жыл бұрын
could you tell me some of his wisdom?
@royferguson3909
@royferguson3909 Жыл бұрын
so did my Nan
@Bodyknowledge77
@Bodyknowledge77 2 жыл бұрын
One of the best compliments I received some time back was "you're provocative without being controversial ". There is that narrow line between being true to you and being unintentionally ludicrous. A decent amount of non clique is a better way.
@ilovebutterstuff
@ilovebutterstuff 2 жыл бұрын
I can't even figure out what that means.
@MT-yx5cu
@MT-yx5cu 2 жыл бұрын
Non clique?
@unknownninja1
@unknownninja1 2 жыл бұрын
I am the opposite, of you I controversial without being provocative 😥😥😭😭😭😥😥💯.
@gogee27
@gogee27 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I feel when you’re really true to yourself, it’s constructive and harmonious (even in having provocative perspectives). It creates the space to leave others as they are as well. No pushing against. Live and let live. 🙏
@MrJamiez
@MrJamiez 2 жыл бұрын
Yeh
@Emiliapocalypse
@Emiliapocalypse 2 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much these are helping. I’m not out of my rut yet, but I feel as though there could actually be a light in the tunnel, and that I’m not just laying face down in a hole. Thanks, Einzelgänger
@shahananwar8759
@shahananwar8759 2 жыл бұрын
Hope u’ll soon find a way:)
@preonmodel8354
@preonmodel8354 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes lying face down in a hole is exactly what we need , what many people will never do in their lives. When we have been in this hole, we now know the lower limit, therefore we know how low we can actually go. After accepting this and of course realising that being so low didn’t kill you, you can lift your heart and mind and begin to look up to the light. If you have nothing and can find peace and happiness, then all that comes after will be enlightening and positive. We don’t need any ‘thing ‘to make us happy, because happiness is a state of mind..
@gmansard641
@gmansard641 2 жыл бұрын
When I was 13 (now 45 years ago) I had an adolescent crisis (too much to go into here), but the result was I stopped caring about what others thought of me, and I resolved to live as I wanted regardless of what anyone else said. And I was so much happier! Very unusual in the adolescent milieu, that I became impervious to conformity and peer pressure. I have done a lot since then, but that time remains a pivotal and defining moment of my life.
@Prestonesfpv
@Prestonesfpv 2 жыл бұрын
A rebel is a person who stands up for their own personal opinions despite what anyone else says. A true rebel stands up for what they believe is right, not against what's right! It's not about smoking crack, drinking till you're rendered unconsious, or beating the crap out of anyone that crosses your path. It's all about being an individual and refusing to follow a crowd that forces you to think the same way they do, even if it means becoming an outcast to society. True rebels know who they are and do not compromise their individuality or personal opinion for anyone. They're straightforward and honest and they will sure as hell tell it like it is.
@andersdottir1111
@andersdottir1111 2 жыл бұрын
I had the great fortune to join a Scottish pipe band at 16 and a political party at 14; this at a time where there was very little to do in my area. It put me in the company of interesting people and I went to many interesting events; it also made my peers and other family members jealous. At the time I subconsciously felt it but luckily disregarded them and continued my own path and made more interesting friends than I would otherwise have been exposed to.
@gurug9797
@gurug9797 2 жыл бұрын
"You are alone, born alone and will die alone. All else is delusion and family"
@Lea-mc2qy
@Lea-mc2qy 2 жыл бұрын
I never thought of myself as a loner. I only have a few close friends but whenever I meet with them I just don't feel a connection. I don't even know what I'm expecting. They seem content with what our friendship is and it always makes me think that maybe the kind of connection I want does not even exist. I feel lonelier when I'm with them than when I'm by myself.
@lecomtedeneuch9994
@lecomtedeneuch9994 2 жыл бұрын
All of my life I was just a side character in someone else story. I always ran after people, relationships. I never had a long term girlfriend and I'm 27 years old. I don't have friends at the moment and if I'm honest throughout my life, I had to adapt myself so much to others to not be alone which led me to suffering most of the time. Adaptation is being able to adjust yourself so you can have normal conversations with people however it will never reward you with their friendship (mostly because it's faked). As It turns out, most adults (30+ and above) like me quite a lot and people under (25 - ) don't like me that much or are rather indifferent towards me. I try so hard to have friends and a girl and that is why I always failed. It shouldn't be forced, it shouldn't be hard. If you go search for people out of fear, you won't find your tribe in this world. Yes ! We have to go against conformity. You can't fight you own nature and NO, you shouldn't adapt to society standards, you shouldn't suppress your needs and your morals for a love interest or anyone at all. I believe in better times ahead because I'm now working on myself. I just wish the pain of loneliness to not be so hard to endure (I have suicidal thoughts for 2 months now).
@m2pozad
@m2pozad 2 жыл бұрын
Use this covid period to prep for a fresh start. People will be ready for relationships when things get back to being more normal.
@roky-wd9ib
@roky-wd9ib 2 жыл бұрын
Just improve yourself man , it is just a game of power
@DarkRipper117
@DarkRipper117 2 жыл бұрын
Just learn to live with yourself and accept your self more, find strength in knowing that no one is coming for your rescue so that you can strengthen your resolve to be a one man army and become self sufficient to face this harsh life head on.....if there's someone willing to be your partner down the road be thankful for their company yet remember that people change and their hearts won't always be there for you, the only person that will never let you down or alone and will forever be loyal is yourself, no matter where you decide to go from there on....your shadow will always follow.
@louiselinton2845
@louiselinton2845 2 жыл бұрын
Please concentrate on learning to understand and support yourself. It is nice to have friends but only if they are real and do not expect you to compromise your values to fit theirs. One can feel lonelier in a crowd than by oneself. Never give up yourself to fit others, it won't work or give any satisfaction. At 27 you are still very young! I am 66 lol. One or a handful of real friends who accept and like you as you are is vastly superior to a ton of acquaintances. Find out who you are and be that, without compromise. You may find real friends by volunteering for a charity you vibe with, at least you will have something in common and it may help with self worth, if that is an issue. Be kind to yourself, as well as others.
@KanyeKetchup
@KanyeKetchup Жыл бұрын
Sometimes its great to smoke a little bit of weed go swim in the ocean on a sunny day get out have a beer and a ciggarette and think fk the fuggin world have another weed and get Kfc . Basically some bad things are fun ! Also travelling the world is great to - try it : )
@Jacktrack7
@Jacktrack7 Жыл бұрын
I'm not a big reader, but The Stranger is one of my favorite books ever, I read it when I was 20, I'm 32 now but I still think about the book quite often to this day.
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Hey, stranger!🙂
@MrDemonking420
@MrDemonking420 2 жыл бұрын
After following your videos regularly, all I can say is.. MAN your videos are not for everyone! There are only handful who can relate.. the one's who are TRUE loners.
@MrDemonking420
@MrDemonking420 2 жыл бұрын
@Limon Cello No. You'll know u are a loner.. you don't have to prove it to anyone if you aren't. It's about self-realization.
@jimkonen1913
@jimkonen1913 2 жыл бұрын
If you always have to be in the midst of others and seeking their approval to feel whole. You do not know yourself. Get on with it and "Do the Work"!
@buckynakid
@buckynakid 2 жыл бұрын
I have more difficulty dealing with others and more peaceful when I’m alone .
@_ellipticalpxin_2543
@_ellipticalpxin_2543 2 жыл бұрын
I've kinda just accepted the fact that life has chosen me to be a loner. I wouldn't consider myself to be a complete loner, I do enjoy having friends (when I'm not being utterly ignored.) I feel every time I make friends I get excluded from everything, it doesn't matter who my friends are. Throughout kindergarten to grade 3-ish, I had many friends and talked to everyone. I had a specific friend group in grade 3 in which I'd been with for a while, they started ignoring me following bullying and I've despised them since. I moved to a new house in time for grade 4 and once again, had no problem making "friends" except this time if I spoke, I'd get talked over. I'd walk around with them and if I stood still, they'd continue walking and forget I was even there to begin with. Certain people I avoid and fear to speak to even if I hadn't seen the way they talk to others before, get all panicky, and become speechless. This stuff has happened for years now and I've only had 1 person I still consider as an actual friend. They've moved pretty far recently so atm, I'm only abled to speak to them online. For now I stay distant and hyper focus on goals of mine, that's all I care about and I wont let my sad "friendships" to get in the way, Afterall, I much prefer to really be alone then to be alone aside others.
@Knight_647
@Knight_647 Жыл бұрын
nice redhead pfp
@imwatchingonyoutube5024
@imwatchingonyoutube5024 Жыл бұрын
@@Knight_647 What?
@Knight_647
@Knight_647 Жыл бұрын
@@imwatchingonyoutube5024 damnit he must have changed it, his profile pic was a cute ginger girl
@123prestolee
@123prestolee 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve always felt ‘other’ - the older I get, the better it feels.
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Maybe, the saying, 'Hell is other people ', has something to do with it ( Continued health and well-being)
@muneebkhan7465
@muneebkhan7465 2 жыл бұрын
" Staying truthful to oneself"... "following the inner compass"...i have suffered immensely inside by trying to be truthful to myself...i am still suffering a lot by following my inner compass.Even if i suffer all along my life ,i can't be dishonest by not following my inner compass... Because at the end of the day:- Honesty is the best policy. Thanks a lot for uploading this incredible video.🙏
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Rom.12:2
@electricEntity81
@electricEntity81 2 жыл бұрын
When you're at risk of losing everything you have and need money to survive you have no choice but to conform
@stevenvitali7404
@stevenvitali7404 2 жыл бұрын
To a certain point, you can still be yourself in the way you act and speak instead of talking about what you think people want to hear, people always say how wierd I am because I talk about different things and not from a script and I say thanks for the compliment, I feel so much better than when I just went along with everyone else
@WonderBoy0403
@WonderBoy0403 2 жыл бұрын
@@stevenvitali7404 Yes. It's been that way my entire life. Most all people make me sick as i can see how fake, shallow, programmed they are. I rather be alone for ever than to deal with another minute of fakery
@stevenvitali7404
@stevenvitali7404 2 жыл бұрын
@@WonderBoy0403 it can be very hard when you're the only one who sees it, it's good to know there are others out there who think the same, a shame tho that we find others online but in our day to day life cannot find those people, stay strong
@dazheath1
@dazheath1 2 жыл бұрын
When the Aussie government threatened us that we would lose everything if we didn’t comply to their kovid rules, I chose to lose everything. But guess what, I didn’t lose everything and still didn’t comply. It was a bluff!
@MoosemanR
@MoosemanR 2 жыл бұрын
It's true
@TheMimicBox
@TheMimicBox 2 жыл бұрын
I was forced into being a non-conformist due to my mental disorders and neurodivergent mental landscape. For the past 23 years I've seen myself as someone who's cursed to be different and alone for my entire life. Now I understand the pressures of others demanding my conformity to be the true poison that I'm overcoming with every passing day. And I grow stronger and more interesting than the conformists will ever be. And as such, I now see my trials as a blessing of enlightenment, and am going for treatments not to erase my nonconformity, but rather to gain the tools to conform with the world in my own nonconformist way. And break away from the disorders I was MEANT to overcome.
@Dca252
@Dca252 2 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@flankes3339
@flankes3339 2 жыл бұрын
This channel helped me shape my philosophy and find peace. I want to translate some of your videos in the next future into my native language so that "my" nation can benefit too. Through selfless action fulfillment is attained
@flankes3339
@flankes3339 2 жыл бұрын
And most likely my philosophy will change as I'm just 19. But that's okay. I'm used to it and even like it. That means I'm able to not hold on to ideas too much and get closer to truth
@iforget6940
@iforget6940 2 жыл бұрын
@@flankes3339 good for you, my philosophy has changed a ton I'm 21. But I wish to conform in some ways, but I can't sense I was very young I tried to I realy did. Always felt more like a outsider.
@AvgDietCokeEnjoyer
@AvgDietCokeEnjoyer 2 жыл бұрын
Translations would be great!
@Diego-Designs
@Diego-Designs 2 жыл бұрын
@@flankes3339 where are you from? Translations would be great.
@flankes3339
@flankes3339 2 жыл бұрын
@@Diego-Designs why?
@doloresvangaal2248
@doloresvangaal2248 Жыл бұрын
I believe only if you can live succesfully alone, you can deal succesfully with other people. It's about learning to be with yourself and to learn to look within yourself. Being a loner shouldn't be uplifted to this mythical status, but learning to be alone can help you to get clarity, and as a consequence, make wiser decisions.
@ReigningWomban
@ReigningWomban 6 ай бұрын
💯
@carolynwolf9676
@carolynwolf9676 2 жыл бұрын
"Stillness, Silence and Solitude, I have always seen these as valuable tools to maintain a calm and relaxed demeanor. The world around us can be very unnerving; but implementing the 3 S's can help you get through difficult times." CW
@mrmachiavelli598
@mrmachiavelli598 2 жыл бұрын
Dont forget seclusion on and off
@AbsolutelyNOW
@AbsolutelyNOW 2 жыл бұрын
Wow your content is so pure and true.how right we are bombarded with over excessive greed that society offers more house more crypto,more cars and still feel hollow.
@jazzpup8288
@jazzpup8288 2 жыл бұрын
Alone=peace People=chaos
@willoughby1888
@willoughby1888 Жыл бұрын
I'm a person who feels that words have 'weight', or they don't. Your four words weigh a whole ton. How did you even do that?
@cobybronze492
@cobybronze492 2 жыл бұрын
Right on, one must be prepared to accept the consequences of non-conformity. I was sometimes shocked by people's responses to my own stubborn disapproval of modern life. Then I realized, if I wanted to live according to my own values, I would face ridicule and disapproval. I think being alone is the hardest difficulty about this commitment, but the benefits still outweigh the drawbacks.
@stevenvitali7404
@stevenvitali7404 2 жыл бұрын
There's no going back , we all have two lives, the second one starts the moment you realise that you only have one
@adilkamar594
@adilkamar594 2 жыл бұрын
After some hours i am going to be 20 and the greatest present for my birthday is this video. Thankyou so much man.
@CR-xr7xp
@CR-xr7xp Жыл бұрын
Living like this is difficult. However I am hoping to find God through non conformity. I believe this can be done, wish you all the best.
@risa4781
@risa4781 Жыл бұрын
I enjoy studying Monastic theology, and how they live, and being closer to God. Maybe it would be something of interest for you as well.
@CR-xr7xp
@CR-xr7xp Жыл бұрын
@@risa4781 Hi Risa, thank you for recommending. I'll be sure to make it a part of my journey, it looks very interesting
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Rom.12:2
@hinfranco3130
@hinfranco3130 2 жыл бұрын
I enjoy all your deep videos! It helps calm me down and remember to enjoy who I am.
@tania2897
@tania2897 2 жыл бұрын
It's not that I decided to not follow society's norms, I seem to be unable to.
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Rom.12:2
@xyz8512
@xyz8512 7 ай бұрын
I've always been happy when I'm alone. I rarely feel lonely.
@Truth-of-the-matter
@Truth-of-the-matter 11 ай бұрын
For myself finding and keeping quality friends has always been a challenge. Majority of people have conversations about work, kids and events they are going too. I myself have always enjoyed deeper conversations about life, travels and so on which has prevented me from connecting with the vast majority of people. When everyone around you is married and has kids/pets you naturally can't connect with them on the same level. I'd much rather have one or two really good friends then a group of people that leads to sameness.
@shaddyraddyworldmusic
@shaddyraddyworldmusic 2 ай бұрын
Very Relatable
@svenkamog2232
@svenkamog2232 2 жыл бұрын
I got sick of all the point scoring, gossiping and fault finding from others. I've accepted my fate, even though at the start it was a bitter pill to swallow... I have no regrets, people are hard work 😏
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
That's the way of the world
@imwatchingonyoutube5024
@imwatchingonyoutube5024 Жыл бұрын
I’m not coping
@imwatchingonyoutube5024
@imwatchingonyoutube5024 Жыл бұрын
@@dennismclaurin1487 You’re right it is
@johnroman4608
@johnroman4608 2 жыл бұрын
It’s not the masses “ follow yourself “ 👌🏻 .. non conformity & faithful to self. Great video dude 🙏👌🏻
@ericpaulino6856
@ericpaulino6856 2 жыл бұрын
With my multiple personalities,i never feel alone..the strength & majesty of the lone wolf
@Zatoichi82
@Zatoichi82 2 жыл бұрын
Meursault felt like a sociopath to me. His indifference, lack of conscience, empty personality (just impulses) and huge social mask made me think about him in that way.
@gmansard641
@gmansard641 2 жыл бұрын
My college degree is French Language and Literature, and I have never liked L'etranger.
@andersdottir1111
@andersdottir1111 2 жыл бұрын
Or a narcissist.
@irenashiloh8808
@irenashiloh8808 2 жыл бұрын
But that's the whole point! He was NOT a sociopath or a narcissist. He had some strange form of indifference toward life - probably most proximate to autism - but was misunderstood because he was unable to be like everyone else.
@irenashiloh8808
@irenashiloh8808 2 жыл бұрын
@@gmansard641 And that's relevant how?
@grotgrabinski7068
@grotgrabinski7068 2 жыл бұрын
@@irenashiloh8808 enough with the autism thing. It has become some kind of attractive trait to simple minded people.
@longboard3816
@longboard3816 8 ай бұрын
At a younger age, I never thought it possible a person could be lonely while surrounded by millions of people. Having grown older and wiser, I am a living example of what I thought couldn't be possible.
@newfound_glory
@newfound_glory 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, yeah. Sometimes I even suspect that herd around is created just to slow down the process of individuation, like becoming oneself entirely. You know, even changing habits in eating can "bother" someone, that he or she tends to say "you're doing wrong" and seduces with reminding of such foods. Some even saw me weird, when I ate palm dates, though they ate sugary food with high-fructose corn syrup (or something with refined sugars). It's like healthiness in lots of ways seems to be unhealthy and wrong, which is ridiculous. I remember how I looked bad, when I said that I don't drink to someone. They saw me as a strange person, if not worse. Thanks for reminding me that.
@jakebullet1731
@jakebullet1731 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t eat French Fries / chips. When I refused some from my mother in laws plate at a restaurant she went mad and started shouting at me. My wife tried to explain I don’t eat fried food. Eventually I had to eat a few just to stop my mother in law having a heart attack !!!
@newfound_glory
@newfound_glory 2 жыл бұрын
@@jakebullet1731 gotta stay strong. Unfortunately, sometimes it must be this way. And sometimes it may even sound rude. You know, you described some kind of a manipulation.
@07wrxtr1
@07wrxtr1 2 жыл бұрын
Everything has been setup in western society to push collectivism and conformity. We do need eachother and that requires compromise but it becomes borwhen the majority of people do not truly know themselves, they only know how to present themselves as they’ve been taught by corporations government hollyweird etc… this is the issue.
@rationalmystic5
@rationalmystic5 2 жыл бұрын
Every video is an art form. Thank you. I'm glad I joined this channel in its early stages and it's been a joy to see it's growth. Keep up the good work .
@irenashiloh8808
@irenashiloh8808 2 жыл бұрын
Einzelganger, your channel is a wealth of knowledge and wisdom. One of my favorite. Thank you so much for providing all the podcasts.
@ReallifeUrk
@ReallifeUrk 2 жыл бұрын
This may be one of my favourite videos that you have released. It really resonates with me
@fritzyberger
@fritzyberger Жыл бұрын
I'm a loner because I don't watch sports. Surprisingly that has alienated me from society more than anything else I do. I just stay home and watch educational videos and read from Google scholar. When I do go out the number one thing I hear people complain about is that no matter what they talk about I already know more about it than them.
@vissal4505
@vissal4505 2 жыл бұрын
Silence is the greatest companion you'll ever know.
@mgoh1984
@mgoh1984 Жыл бұрын
I became vegan in 2020 as a last ditch effort to stop cancer from destroying my liver. Not only did the cancer symptoms disappear after six weeks, athlete's foot is no longer an issue, my arteries cleared up, I no longer suffer heartburn, indigestion, the occasional headache... nothing bothers me anymore. Although nobody says anything to my face, I know people think I'm a freak just like I thought of vegans before. I was 52 and wouldn't have lived to age 53 had I not tried this, and there was never a chance I would have gone vegan without my life in jeopardy since I was fooled into thinking we are omnivores all my life. I learned so much in 2020 that I never wanted to believe. Industries thrive from us eating what causes diseases and they spend huge to keep us from knowing. It's not just the providers of the "food," medical, pharma, and med schools depend on it.
@bustermaw
@bustermaw Жыл бұрын
Being alone is not a choice . You cannot receive instructions in this . You are born as you are , puzzled as to how others lead their lives but knowing that their way is not yours . Suffering from that aggression " Do you think that you are better than us " from an early age did not deter me from my confusion . I only knew that I did not want to tread their path . Now , in my old age , I am content that I can see things more clearly but am still surprised by people who do not . Thank you Einzelganger for this missive .
@EvolvedBonobo
@EvolvedBonobo 2 жыл бұрын
This is such a great channel. Excellent content throughout. Thank you!
@swampfoxworldwide
@swampfoxworldwide Жыл бұрын
Excellent. I’d imagine must of us who watched this video saw the lies of covid and “the shot” coming from miles away.
@lindagray2282
@lindagray2282 11 ай бұрын
Yip, Exactly 👍 I’m 76, live on my own and wasn’t fooled once by all that covid garbage 💁‍♀️
@eline7612
@eline7612 7 ай бұрын
And they are coming again..and the sheeps will believe their lies agzin...stupid sheeps❤
@eline7612
@eline7612 7 ай бұрын
​@@lindagray2282❤❤❤
@trooperex123
@trooperex123 6 ай бұрын
shh bro.might get banned for saying the truth. also high five ✋
@rogerpetronius
@rogerpetronius 2 жыл бұрын
This is by far not only the best video of Enzelgänger, but of philosophy in general that I've ever watched.
@socialmatrix9475
@socialmatrix9475 2 жыл бұрын
You have articulated the path of non- conformity very succinctly and comprehensively. Beautiful work ❤️❤️
@hafezdd
@hafezdd 2 жыл бұрын
*I dare say, at the of the day, you will be on a long path and surprisingly alone, so take it easy on yourself, don't be serious about what you think. It's just point a of view.*
@kallvt
@kallvt 2 жыл бұрын
great video, a nice reminder of some of what really matters and to stay true to your self. very motivating. thanks, man.
@peterpacciani666
@peterpacciani666 2 жыл бұрын
The Loner's Path: my life since forever
@jeraldbaxter3532
@jeraldbaxter3532 Ай бұрын
Vita, Duchess de Boheme once said, "When I am alone,is when I can most be myself."
@Rainjojo
@Rainjojo Жыл бұрын
For a while I never knew how to describe myself. I often felt as an outsider or “not normal” because the things in life people wanted or things to do as expected were often the norm. I was focused on being a creative, learning and studying, and enjoyed being away from others so that I could be alone. I get called weird for it but take it as a compliment from the other sheep who can’t live for themselves. They made themselves believe that there is no life outside of school, getting a job, a big house, a biological family and all other social conformity. I just tell them that I’ll try not living another mediocre life as many before them have and will gladly live alone with a pet cat 😙
@dennismclaurin1487
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
At least you have someone to stare at, after a bad day
@miketurner9775
@miketurner9775 Жыл бұрын
I enjoy being alone but I also enjoy conversation.
@jackbarry7155
@jackbarry7155 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this. Solo-Roller whom I am, I much appreciate this rumination. What you do is good for the world. Your explorations are meteorites. They hit right. Cheers.
@sergionaranjo9503
@sergionaranjo9503 4 ай бұрын
Took me many years and went through so much pain to be able to enjoy myself when in solitude, it was really worth it, it taught me that you need solitude to be able to go back out there and be surrounded by people and truly enjoy it too. Took away my expectations and most of my desires
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